Speaker 1: Talk Talk talk to We're just too unapologetically black women
Speaker 1: with an opinion to talks.
Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? Think of you? Tune in for a
Speaker 2: new episode that we talked back. I show dedicated to
Speaker 2: these niggas in these holes. This is your co host
Speaker 2: A J Holiday two point oh on Instagram.
Speaker 3: What's Up team in twenty twenty four. I don't want
Speaker 3: to dedicate it to niggas and holes.
Speaker 2: No more, okay, so we gotta stick the dreamers and chasers.
Speaker 3: We'll come up with something.
Speaker 1: Let's uh revamp, Yes, revamp, stick of niggas and holes.
Speaker 1: Niggas and holes I despise really mm hmmm, I.
Speaker 2: Don't despise them like niggas.
Speaker 1: The term niggas and hose is that our audience anyway? Hey, y'all,
Speaker 1: damn man, I don't know y'all.
Speaker 2: Man sha is that our audience?
Speaker 3: AJ Holliday, how was your weekend? Baby?
Speaker 2: I'd eventful. I chilled out this weekend. I needed some rest.
Speaker 2: Christmas is coming up, y'all. Y'all started doing some Christmas
Speaker 2: shopping and shit like that.
Speaker 3: I'm giving out pecans, mints, oranges and apples and love.
Speaker 3: That's it.
Speaker 2: I'm giving out one dollar scratch off and I'm signing
Speaker 2: the back of them.
Speaker 3: How you're gonna sign the bag.
Speaker 2: Because if I win, I'll give you fifty percent. I mean,
Speaker 2: if you win, I need you fifty percent. But I'm
Speaker 2: going to be the one to cash it in my nigga.
Speaker 3: That is such a back then. I do it every year.
Speaker 2: I do it every year.
Speaker 1: What did I do this weekend? Oh, we had our
Speaker 1: girlfriends gift Exchange. So every year, me and this group
Speaker 1: of friends that I have, we pick a thing. We
Speaker 1: take terms being the host, and we pick a thing
Speaker 1: and we host this big party with lots of food
Speaker 1: and drinks and games. And this year it was Barbie
Speaker 1: themed and leather and lace girlfriends, so you had to
Speaker 1: wear leather or pictures. Yes, And I got to see
Speaker 1: me and they create a Barbie box and I'm in
Speaker 1: there like I was podcast Barbie and I brought my
Speaker 1: black Effect Mike and I.
Speaker 3: Had and I was like, it's so cute. It was
Speaker 3: so cute with so much fun.
Speaker 2: So I want to see that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I share your pictures. And that's all I did
Speaker 1: this weekend. Went to that party on Saturday, and then
Speaker 1: Sunday I rested all day because I drank so much
Speaker 1: at the party Saturday.
Speaker 3: It took me the full Sunday to recover.
Speaker 1: All I did was get up to clean my house
Speaker 1: and wash clothes and literally that was it.
Speaker 2: And later round that's a full day.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so.
Speaker 2: That was it.
Speaker 3: Let's get in a stupid internet news. Okay, guys, we have
Speaker 3: some good news. We're pregnant.
Speaker 1: Well not me, or AJ's shanty. He was actually pregnant.
Speaker 3: I'm so happy for her. So she did this the
Speaker 3: black and White ball with her baby daddy, Delli, not
Speaker 3: baby daddy.
Speaker 1: He is her baby daddy till they get married. They engaged,
Speaker 1: but her baby daddy.
Speaker 3: They did the ball and someone was on the mic
Speaker 3: shan saying, seal the deal, seal the deal. They kept
Speaker 3: chanting it and a shanty and Nelly grabbed her stomach
Speaker 3: and then they were kind of like giggle and then
Speaker 3: were ushered themselves off the stage. And then it came
Speaker 3: out that she is in fact pregnant. So congratulation go
Speaker 3: as shanty.
Speaker 2: Look, people in the commons fake hearing talk about oh
Speaker 2: why she ain't get a ring first girl?
Speaker 3: However, they doing it and whatever order is being done.
Speaker 2: Some forty something year old people, I'm happy for a
Speaker 2: shaunty half. Y'all ask the highest standards for these celebrities
Speaker 2: than you got for your goddamn so for your relationship.
Speaker 3: The fuck you ain't got no damn muzzin. But I
Speaker 3: love it, man, I love it.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 3: I don't know that might be my story, bitch, I'm
Speaker 3: here for it. Betch How are we gonna podcast pregnant?
Speaker 3: What that gonna look like? What you mean you sitting
Speaker 3: on your ass doing it? Right now? You sit on
Speaker 3: your ass and do it, then my nose gonna be
Speaker 3: even bigger pregnancy?
Speaker 1: Why it's all outside, big back, big everything, nosiest hell
Speaker 1: stupid internet news. It's gonna be extra good because you're
Speaker 1: gonna be nosy as fun.
Speaker 2: Congratulations Nelly and a shanty.
Speaker 3: I'm I can't, I can't.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: I said this to my therapist last week, that I'm
Speaker 1: jealous not of a shanty well now them two, but
Speaker 1: I've been having like some jealousy in my spirit and
Speaker 1: I don't know how to overcome it. It's just because
Speaker 1: I'm like, I've been single, like completely single for so
Speaker 1: fucking long.
Speaker 2: I'm not jealous anytime any of my old ass friends
Speaker 2: or any old ass celebrities get pregnant. It always gives
Speaker 2: me like this extra boost of fucking faith and hope, like, bitch,
Speaker 2: I'm next. I ain't gotta worry about nothing.
Speaker 3: I'm not too old, I can't have I still have
Speaker 3: a baby. Like it gives me hope.
Speaker 1: I'm hopeful, I love, I'm still like, when is it
Speaker 1: gonna be? May when you make it?
Speaker 2: You you have to prioritize those type of things, bitch, Okay,
Speaker 2: are you prioritizing relationships?
Speaker 3: Are you prioritizing finding a mate?
Speaker 4: I am.
Speaker 3: How I think so.
Speaker 2: On the next episode of With My Therapist go to hell, Yeah, bitch.
Speaker 3: Your therapist don't got all the answers he do.
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know, but I am happy for them.
Speaker 1: I am happy for everybody that's in a relationship.
Speaker 3: I'm happy, and it's call outside.
Speaker 1: I'm happy until summertime and y'all booed up and then
Speaker 1: I'm outside and half.
Speaker 3: Usher very final show in Las Vegas, and as he
Speaker 3: was doing.
Speaker 1: His final bow out, he kind of lost his cool
Speaker 1: and started crying and fell to his knees, and it
Speaker 1: was like very monumental and nice to see him just
Speaker 1: standing that gratitude of this experience for him.
Speaker 3: And I hate that I did not get to go.
Speaker 2: I'm doing right now, y'all to see how many shows
Speaker 2: Usher did.
Speaker 3: I think it was one hundred.
Speaker 2: That's a lot. Like he literally played basketball every night.
Speaker 1: I had a whole season. Yes, so I missed. I
Speaker 1: hate that I missed his show. We should have went,
Speaker 1: aj I actually I bought tickets to go in March.
Speaker 1: I bought myself one ticket by myself, seated by myself,
Speaker 1: close to the stage because I was just trying to
Speaker 1: get real close to Usher and see if I could
Speaker 1: get a serenade.
Speaker 3: I was gonna smile.
Speaker 1: Real big with these big pretty teeth and see he
Speaker 1: come over to me, even though I ain't a celebrity. Celebrity,
Speaker 1: so I but my doctor. If y'all remember, I had
Speaker 1: my Fibruary's removed earlier this year, and the surgery was
Speaker 1: supposed to be prior to the show, but then they
Speaker 1: moved it to the day after the show, so I
Speaker 1: could not go to Vegas. I was so disappointed, so
Speaker 1: I missed it, and then I just never made it back.
Speaker 3: But at least USh is doing the Super Bowl, so
Speaker 3: I get to see him there.
Speaker 2: You know, girl, he was only scheduled to do twenty
Speaker 2: eight shows initially, that's how successful his residency. Yeah, he
Speaker 2: ended up doing a hundred shows. That's amazing.
Speaker 3: Is Yeah, he's tired, how.
Speaker 2: Even like outside from him, like you know, he has
Speaker 2: other people performing, got strippers, all types of stuff. How
Speaker 2: that's amazing.
Speaker 3: I love what you're doing. When you love what you're doing,
Speaker 3: it does not feel like work.
Speaker 2: I don't learn know how much money he made now mm.
Speaker 1: Hmm, be straight, it's kid straight, everybody straight, because them
Speaker 1: tickets was wasn't no punk ass os. Everybody tickets expensive though,
Speaker 1: I can't figure nobody worth seeing whose tickets?
Speaker 3: Eight expensive Americans? We gotta work.
Speaker 2: I want free tickets because I know y'all go overseas
Speaker 2: and y'all charging them one hundred and fifty dollars to
Speaker 2: see y'all ass But over here it's inflation on top
Speaker 2: of inflation, and that's fucked up. Yeah, yeah, I want
Speaker 2: to disc count. I went, I went the European discount.
Speaker 2: Go to Europe.
Speaker 3: You're gonna have to pay for a point taken to
Speaker 3: get there.
Speaker 2: It's just equal out shame.
Speaker 3: So yeah, did you see him like, try to touch
Speaker 3: mary leg.
Speaker 2: Girl, Marriage Blizes not that ship.
Speaker 3: Don't get off me, sir.
Speaker 2: I have so many thoughts about that. It's like, you
Speaker 2: know people be they be knowing them. People in the industry,
Speaker 2: we don't really know them. So it's like, I want
Speaker 2: that nigg energy on me. Because she even made him
Speaker 2: wipe his face. Did you see that? She was like
Speaker 2: and he was like, hey, I'm sweating and wiped his
Speaker 2: face and then she hugged him. It's another video of
Speaker 2: people producing now with Tyrese. Tyree's trying to touch her
Speaker 2: leg while posting in the picture, and Marriage Blige shoot
Speaker 2: his hand too, like.
Speaker 3: Jabiz is not doing that.
Speaker 1: But did you see him in Jay hudd I don't
Speaker 1: know if y'all saw that, but Jennifer Hudson and Common
Speaker 1: were there at the show together.
Speaker 3: Let me just say this, Common is the mail Laurie
Speaker 3: Harvey boy.
Speaker 2: Everybody talk about him though he.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, don't nobody say shit about him, But he'd
Speaker 1: be dating these women in the end and he don't
Speaker 1: say a word. We don't hear shift from him about
Speaker 1: why it is over and nothing, but he'd be having
Speaker 1: he's had, he's been connected to so many beautiful black women.
Speaker 3: It's amazing.
Speaker 2: Energy harveston.
Speaker 3: So Jay Hud where she cut her hair off.
Speaker 2: We already know they broke up.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, jay Hud stepped over coming to get the Usher,
Speaker 1: step right over his legs. Excuse me, Watch y'all, Watch y'all, baby,
Speaker 1: excuse me, and Usher kind of like grabbed like close
Speaker 1: to the side of her hip and everything.
Speaker 3: He was a little bit more.
Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if he knows that Common was actually
Speaker 1: dating her, because he was doing a lot with Jay Hud.
Speaker 1: In my opinion, to say Common was sitting right there.
Speaker 2: Is that infidel?
Speaker 1: It depends on what Common and jay Hood have decided
Speaker 1: for that relationship.
Speaker 3: That's a conversation we definitely got to get into, though.
Speaker 3: What is infidelity? What is it? Really?
Speaker 2: It is just it's essentially cheating. It's just a nice
Speaker 2: fancy word for cheating. And it doesn't have to actually
Speaker 2: just be with somebody you're in a marriage. What it
Speaker 2: could be with somebody who are you, who you are
Speaker 2: in a committed relationship with, and you step outside that
Speaker 2: relationship physically or mentally. Apparently. Okay, let's get into it.
Speaker 2: When we come back from this break. All right, y'all,
Speaker 2: we're back and we have a special guest when we
Speaker 2: talked back this week, y'all, we have the nominee for
Speaker 2: QUDS the Man of the Year, Am Easy. He is
Speaker 2: the producer of The Angie Martinez Show and what was
Speaker 2: the show you said?
Speaker 5: You all just sit down with that Easy? It's an
Speaker 5: interview show.
Speaker 2: The sit Down with m eas okay. He's also the
Speaker 2: co host of our one of our favorite people, Taylor
Speaker 2: Fun Size Tea on Empty Thoughts podcast. Y'all welcome m Easy.
Speaker 2: And we talked.
Speaker 5: Bad, y'all?
Speaker 2: How many times we don't ask you to come on?
Speaker 2: We talked back?
Speaker 6: Oh, this is my first time, but I've been asked
Speaker 6: a couple of times.
Speaker 5: But it's the scheduling stuff, you know how that goes.
Speaker 3: M We're finally good enough. We're finally good enough for
Speaker 3: Easy to join in. It only took.
Speaker 6: Three years cool fifty five minutes before I gotta get
Speaker 6: back to my nine to five.
Speaker 3: All right, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2: So we know y'all have been seeing what's been going
Speaker 2: on with g Z and Genie Mai as soon to
Speaker 2: be ex wife. They have had a what tune if
Speaker 2: you have relationship. They got a one year old daughter
Speaker 2: out of the whole situation. He filed for divorce back
Speaker 2: in June. We didn't hear about it until like September, July, September,
Speaker 2: some shit like that. Recently they're back in court because
Speaker 2: he said she's gatekeeping the kid and Genie Mike countered
Speaker 2: with infidelity. Okay, and when we think about infidelity, we
Speaker 2: always think about marriage, like you don't really think about
Speaker 2: infidelity when you're in a just a committed relationship with
Speaker 2: a man, you automatically. The word usually only comes up
Speaker 2: in court when you're getting a divorce. So we wanted
Speaker 2: a married man on the show, right or someone married
Speaker 2: to talk about infidelity and what exactly doesn't mean to
Speaker 2: them because based on this prenup that Geez and Genie
Speaker 2: MI has, listen, it's very detailed what they consider cheating
Speaker 2: slash infidelity. You don't know what im fidelity is. It
Speaker 2: is cheating on your in your marriage or in a
Speaker 2: relationship with a committed partner is essentially what it is. Okay,
Speaker 2: what do you consider cheating?
Speaker 5: Anything that you can do in front of me, any
Speaker 5: people in.
Speaker 3: Front of me cheating, So putting on my tampon.
Speaker 5: Why can't you do that in front of me?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: On it in front of you. That's not in your business.
Speaker 3: Some things are meant to be.
Speaker 6: That's not something that you could get in trouble for cheating.
Speaker 5: Like you can put a tamp on it by yourself,
Speaker 5: that's fine.
Speaker 3: You said anything, Okay, anything, anything.
Speaker 6: Dealing with the opposite sex that you wouldn't do in
Speaker 6: front of me is a problem.
Speaker 2: These people grown why I said anything? But that might
Speaker 2: be another level now because some people you sunk with
Speaker 2: a woman, they may not consider that. Some men may not.
Speaker 5: Is she penetrating you?
Speaker 3: So it's cheating if it's a strap. But if they're
Speaker 3: just scissoring, I think you should. I mean, it's cool.
Speaker 5: See now it's getting into Can I watch in my involved?
Speaker 5: Is this behind my back? Like?
Speaker 6: What are we?
Speaker 5: What are the parameters here?
Speaker 3: Does it matter? Does it matter if.
Speaker 6: I'm involved in the scissoring? Like I could sit and
Speaker 6: watch and have a drink and smoke while that's going on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're cool.
Speaker 6: But if it's behind my back, I think that's a
Speaker 6: I mean, you need may need to have a conversation.
Speaker 1: So it basically infidelity is different based on the couple
Speaker 1: in your opinion, Yeah.
Speaker 6: I mean I don't think there's one direct definition of infidelity.
Speaker 6: I mean, as as a young man, I was like,
Speaker 6: you can't even I wouldn't even allow you to say
Speaker 6: hello to somebody without me being there.
Speaker 3: And when you got older, what changed that you stop caring.
Speaker 6: I got more secure of myself, Like I don't. I mean,
Speaker 6: if that's what you want to go, do that I
Speaker 6: find somebody else.
Speaker 5: I'm not. I wasn't.
Speaker 6: I'm not defined by who was next to me anymore.
Speaker 6: Like I'm cool with whaiim.
Speaker 2: Nice self awareness. We had an episode on that. Paragraph
Speaker 2: eight of the prenuptial agreement between GZ and Genny. It
Speaker 2: specifies what each one of them could be hit. Each
Speaker 2: one of them could be hit with a financial penalty
Speaker 2: if they partaken if they participated, so, it says, in
Speaker 2: the event that either party engages in sexual relations an
Speaker 2: emotional relationship, or is emotionally or sexually suggestive in communication
Speaker 2: with the third party via all forms of electric communications,
Speaker 2: including but not limited to, texting, sex thing, facetiming, social media,
Speaker 2: and or direct messages, shall result in a significant financial
Speaker 2: penity upon the adulterer. Adulterous party So y'all saw Jeez
Speaker 2: on the sit down with me a long right, and
Speaker 2: he said, real niggas don't cheat. So how is that
Speaker 2: possible now for your wife to say that you cheating
Speaker 2: but didn't.
Speaker 5: Isn't Jez the one that's filing for divorce? So yeah,
Speaker 5: how is that?
Speaker 2: So she's countering what because he cheated in the fidelity? Infidelity?
Speaker 2: So based on their prenup, right, he said, real niggas
Speaker 2: don't cheat. We know, men really consider cheating penetration, and
Speaker 2: they don't take into consider exactly, they don't take into consideration.
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm a fraternizer. I'm make it known oftentimes, and
Speaker 2: I need to be in a marriage with somebody who's
Speaker 2: okay with me flirting here and there, not like just
Speaker 2: outright being disrespectful to my partner. But let's not pretend
Speaker 2: like people don't entertain random DMS from random people. Occasionally.
Speaker 3: You did it, Like we ain't got fans out here?
Speaker 3: The fun? What are you talking about?
Speaker 5: I'm taking it back.
Speaker 6: I mean, I think there's levels to that as well,
Speaker 6: Like you can't be just out here just flaunting that
Speaker 6: you're entertaining these other people while you're in a committed relationship.
Speaker 2: Absolutely.
Speaker 6: I mean, if she went through his phone, there's a
Speaker 6: lot of different variables that could be why they're separated.
Speaker 6: Because if he was a person that was looking for
Speaker 6: the divorce, firs that it had to be something before
Speaker 6: the cheating or the infidelity that made him want to
Speaker 6: get out of the relationship. And I think maybe she's
Speaker 6: just doing that as a get back. No, that can't
Speaker 6: be what we're looking at here.
Speaker 3: I mean that's very possible.
Speaker 1: But I mean when you put all those things very
Speaker 1: specific in your prenup.
Speaker 3: It was almost right.
Speaker 1: It was almost like her attorney was preparing her for
Speaker 1: him to teat sixteen texting.
Speaker 3: I just feel like every man.
Speaker 2: They both agree to it, though, Yeah, but I mean
Speaker 2: they both had to sign the prenup.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have agreed to that ship would you have
Speaker 1: agreed to why?
Speaker 2: I know I couldn't. But you're the partner you have
Speaker 2: should know. You can't not not text niggas. I can't not.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be no hold on. I'm not saying I
Speaker 2: don't ever initiate bullshit. I never initiate stuff, But I'm
Speaker 2: not gonna say that. There hasn't been a time where
Speaker 2: somebody hit me up, and I don't like send a
Speaker 2: little eye or just something just not to not to
Speaker 2: just like diss them completely.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: So what if my partner, because I had a nigga,
Speaker 2: logged into my social media for a whole year, so
Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure he saw all types of shit. The
Speaker 2: only difference between me and him is that I am
Speaker 2: not that intrusive. I'm not going through your shit. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna let you live and usually like the truth, I'm
Speaker 2: knocking on the door. I'm just not gonna be the
Speaker 2: one to go out looking for shit to hurt my
Speaker 2: own feelings. Some people do that, So if you happen
Speaker 2: to see some shit, just know that this is regular human.
Speaker 2: So I'm easy you damn you're married.
Speaker 6: No, No, I'm very transparent with my wife. She knows
Speaker 6: a password to my phone. After this conversation, she can
Speaker 6: look through my phone. There's nothing there. But have I
Speaker 6: entertained well to a level like I'll say hello, I'm
Speaker 6: like no, And once it gets to a point where
Speaker 6: she's she's talking that talk, listen, we can't know. You know,
Speaker 6: if you follow me, you know I have a wife
Speaker 6: and on that we can't continue this conversation, but right, yeah,
Speaker 6: I would hope that she's detting those conversations when it
Speaker 6: gets to that level as well, because that's right.
Speaker 2: See, I definitely will dat him, right, But then if
Speaker 2: the messages is for in my eyes, and then my
Speaker 2: significant other happens to see this thing, they can create
Speaker 2: whatever narrative around it that they want to to fit
Speaker 2: whatever story they may have in their head already. Right,
Speaker 2: I may just say hey, wave back, or not even
Speaker 2: really entertain the conversation, but that still can be considered
Speaker 2: cheating to my partner. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: And this goes back to my original statement. Anything that
Speaker 6: you wouldn't do around me is I would consider cheating.
Speaker 6: Because if if we're in a better two o'clock in
Speaker 6: the morning and this person texts you and I can't
Speaker 6: be over them, but like, yo, so who's texting us back?
Speaker 5: Then that's not a conversation you need to be.
Speaker 1: I agree there, because shouldn't nobody need to texting you?
Speaker 1: Because texting and all, right, do you feel like texting
Speaker 1: and DM is the same.
Speaker 5: Thing, same access to you?
Speaker 2: I don't think.
Speaker 3: I know it's not the same. Texting is very more personal.
Speaker 1: They got your phone number and they feel comfortable to
Speaker 1: text you at two am versus somebody. Somebody could be
Speaker 1: some nigga in Kenya who is it's seven am?
Speaker 2: Or we get him where he at?
Speaker 3: I don't know this person, you know, so it's I
Speaker 3: feel like though the text.
Speaker 6: Message is definitely a little more personal. I have changed
Speaker 6: my statue, right. I think the fact that you gave
Speaker 6: this person your number and you guys have had conversation
Speaker 6: and interaction, that makes it a way more person the
Speaker 6: d M that anyone has.
Speaker 3: Access to you, right, And I'm sure she know you
Speaker 3: got a man.
Speaker 1: He know you got a man, so he just disrespectful
Speaker 1: at this point.
Speaker 3: Don't text me a time at all.
Speaker 2: That done costs plenty people out, Like what what'll make
Speaker 2: you think that you can do that?
Speaker 1: I'm single and I'll be mad when people call me.
Speaker 1: If you call me at that hour, I'll be like,
Speaker 1: who died?
Speaker 3: Who's dead? That's how I answered the phone, because what the.
Speaker 2: Fuck are you? Well?
Speaker 3: Right, you watch your damn mind, nigga, I got that'll
Speaker 3: be an emergency.
Speaker 2: So some of the fans are some of the fans
Speaker 2: are saying that on real that Genie Mi posted once
Speaker 2: while they were on vacation. How Gez snatched his phone
Speaker 2: and hit it real quick when she you know, walked
Speaker 2: by him, So he probably thought she'd never seen his frightnizing,
Speaker 2: but she held on to it for the for an
Speaker 2: opportune time.
Speaker 6: Like now, just because I don't want you going through
Speaker 6: my photos doing something that's my privacy. That that that's like,
Speaker 6: that's that's my diary. I go through a whole bunch
Speaker 6: of stuff, doesn't mean i'mcheating. I just don't want you
Speaker 6: to go through my things. Oh no, no, no, by no.
Speaker 1: So why so but you said you you let your
Speaker 1: wife have your passworder and she can go through it
Speaker 1: anytime she wants.
Speaker 5: That doesn't mean Okay, damn.
Speaker 6: At the time, I could be doing something I'm not
Speaker 6: supposed to be doing. But if I'm watching a porno
Speaker 6: and I'm sitting there and she's trying to look at
Speaker 6: what I'm much like what you're doing, get away.
Speaker 1: From me, Like that doesn't mean you're not supposed to watchorn.
Speaker 1: Now you just said something I'm not supposed to.
Speaker 5: Be doing, according to her, like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Like she don't like.
Speaker 6: So if I'm watching porn. She comes up behind me,
Speaker 6: of course I'm gonna like, yo, nah, what do you
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, there's a lot of situations
Speaker 6: that could make him not want to pass over his
Speaker 6: phone right away.
Speaker 5: Doesn't mean he's talking to a chick or doing something erroneous.
Speaker 3: Well, it is.
Speaker 1: If you said cheatment is doing anything that your partner
Speaker 1: doesn't want you you can't do in front of them.
Speaker 1: So technically watching porn would be cheating. And with your definition,
Speaker 1: what does your wife know how much you like poorn?
Speaker 2: They have you discussed it with their exactly?
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 2: Because I'll be seeing these bitches mad because they have
Speaker 2: me beating a dick in the bathroom or boyfriend, like
Speaker 2: just because they're home, Like, why you beat your dick?
Speaker 2: I'm home. I don't feel the type of way sometimes
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want.
Speaker 5: To be, and I don't really want you to do
Speaker 5: what I'm supposed to do.
Speaker 1: Listen, I don't have no problem with porn me neither. No,
Speaker 1: go ahead, have fun enjoying yourself.
Speaker 5: Why did I agree to you? Crazy?
Speaker 1: If it's not an actual virtual bitch where you could
Speaker 1: be like, all right now, touch yourself right there?
Speaker 3: If she's not responding to you in a real way.
Speaker 6: That's the next level. That's the oculus. That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 6: going towards that. Eventually.
Speaker 5: I don't know if I'm gonna be with that stuff
Speaker 5: because that's too much.
Speaker 3: But if you just watching some random girl from Utah,
Speaker 3: that's right.
Speaker 2: Why Utah? What the hell?
Speaker 3: I don't know, that's just where she was from in
Speaker 3: my mind.
Speaker 2: What about comment and y'all, what about commenting on social media?
Speaker 2: I remember one time, Tammy, you sent me I don't
Speaker 2: do that now. You sent me a screenshot of my
Speaker 2: nigga lusting over Erica Minez on Instagram.
Speaker 3: He was like, you say that ship.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't care. I don't care about comment
Speaker 2: I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't be putting no googli
Speaker 2: faces underneath a dude's page on Instagram. Now, now in retrospect,
Speaker 2: I'm like, uh, that was a bitchasz.
Speaker 5: Nigga.
Speaker 2: Shit, I'll just tell you because it's public. You know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Other people can see you, nigga. It's
Speaker 2: not like you're just doing this in a privacy in
Speaker 2: your own phone. Other people can see you putting googly eyes.
Speaker 2: Even if you don't have access to this bitch like,
Speaker 2: you're laying for doing that publicly.
Speaker 6: I was putting my place with that with my wife too.
Speaker 6: I didn't think anything of it. It was just a
Speaker 6: little hard like not even just liking a picture. She's like, yeah,
Speaker 6: but Instagram says that you like that, So any person
Speaker 6: that sees that you like that could be like, yo,
Speaker 6: you for the streets.
Speaker 2: I'm cool with the liking. I'm cool with the likes.
Speaker 2: It's the extra comments and googly eyes and and mooji's
Speaker 2: underneath a bitch picture. Because I've had a nigga try
Speaker 2: to check me for just simply liking, for real, just
Speaker 2: liking a male friend's picture, like you don't like every
Speaker 2: single picture of his like because it came across the
Speaker 2: timeline at some point in life and I clicked the heart.
Speaker 3: No, my nigga, no bitch picture.
Speaker 1: Unless she at church, she get baptized, or she see
Speaker 1: in the elderly she's volunteering that. You can like those,
Speaker 1: but if she's just standing there in some clothes, don't
Speaker 1: like that bitch picture.
Speaker 3: Do not play with what you like.
Speaker 5: Maybe it was meant for us to be social. You
Speaker 5: do know that right.
Speaker 1: Yes, I'd rather you watch her play with herself in
Speaker 1: a video that she posted the ex videos that you
Speaker 1: can't comment on.
Speaker 3: Didn't like her picture?
Speaker 2: You can leave comments on there.
Speaker 3: I would rather you just watch.
Speaker 2: I wish that was my mouth. You don't see your
Speaker 2: nigga s I.
Speaker 3: Said, watch and I participate. Just watch.
Speaker 2: You're gonna be comment mad. I wish I was there.
Speaker 3: I kill him. I kill his ass. But don't comment
Speaker 3: and don't like unless it's.
Speaker 6: Just something very especially if you're thirsting in the comment
Speaker 6: like googly eyes, hardbill she do on all like that
Speaker 6: might be a little much, but the liking to me
Speaker 6: has never been a big thing.
Speaker 1: Like whoever you like, so so it's okay for let's say,
Speaker 1: I like, it's this one guy that I follow on
Speaker 1: Instagram and he posts his video.
Speaker 3: He posts videos of him doing just regular stuff.
Speaker 1: But his dick is really big in every video, and
Speaker 1: it's just more about the dick than the laundry or
Speaker 1: anything else. It's obvious that he wants us to look
Speaker 1: at his dick. It's okay for your girl to just
Speaker 1: be liking all of those.
Speaker 5: My wife, I don't know who the guy's name.
Speaker 6: She watches this one YouTuber dude niggas always got a
Speaker 6: shirt off talking about some real nigga.
Speaker 5: Shit, I'm like, you love watching this dirty nigga with
Speaker 5: his shirt off? Hunh. She was like, what you understand?
Speaker 5: I'm like, because he got his shirt off, but I don't.
Speaker 2: Whatever you need to start talking.
Speaker 5: I don't got the muscles. It's to be a bunch
Speaker 5: of ribs and.
Speaker 2: Ship get the muscles. Niggas is going him.
Speaker 6: Now you know what I might have to do that
Speaker 6: give me some It's a thing, some breast.
Speaker 2: What else is sheting? Y'all? Y'all said, y'all too strict.
Speaker 2: Comment in and liking is cheating for these niggas.
Speaker 5: I'm doing.
Speaker 1: Comment and liking is a problem. Porn is fine though
Speaker 1: for me. Knock yourself out. Don't go too crazy. But
Speaker 1: I asked used to go too crazy though, And I
Speaker 1: didn't know what it was. I told this story before,
Speaker 1: but like I had, I was working two jobs at
Speaker 1: the time, so I was gone a lot, and I
Speaker 1: would find like two little pieces of tape in the
Speaker 1: living room, two little pieces of tape in the bedroom,
Speaker 1: two little pieces and a stairwell tape masking tape. Two
Speaker 1: little tiny pieces of masking tape all over the house
Speaker 1: all the time, and I would just be cleaning up,
Speaker 1: picking them up, picking them up. I'm like what the
Speaker 1: one day I finally said, what the fuck? Every day
Speaker 1: it's some tape, just some random fucking place in the
Speaker 1: stairwell and vasum and Nash like he was beating his
Speaker 1: dick and covering up his camera on both sides. Man
Speaker 1: at her niggas kings fucking blackmail you while you're watching porn.
Speaker 3: So I just come tape and I'm like, bro, you're
Speaker 3: beating your dick too much? How often are you being
Speaker 3: a dick?
Speaker 2: Great? Ain't even about the beating a dick, it's having
Speaker 2: my bitch working two jobs is a problem for me. Like,
Speaker 2: you're working two jobs and he got time to beat
Speaker 2: his dick excessively. That is a problem, sirs.
Speaker 6: So what's up the fact that you're worried about the
Speaker 6: people watching you beating me?
Speaker 5: You want to beat me like that?
Speaker 6: Like if I was afraid that people would be watching me,
Speaker 6: and I'm afraid of the reaction, stop beating.
Speaker 5: Me, my.
Speaker 1: You know what my issue is? Throw the tape away.
Speaker 1: Why do I have to kick up when I get
Speaker 1: off from work. That's my only problem with this. Get
Speaker 1: rid of your evidence, nigga. I'm clean it up after you.
Speaker 3: Every day.
Speaker 2: A stairway he is randomly taking a tape off itself,
Speaker 2: going up the stairs and putting on the wall.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's not cheating.
Speaker 1: No, that's not cheating to me as long as it's
Speaker 1: not a girl who's like a real girl on the
Speaker 1: other side of the phone.
Speaker 6: Go ahead was beating his me, but couldn't perform when
Speaker 6: it was time to please you.
Speaker 1: Oh no, that's a problem because now you're more engaged
Speaker 1: with this virtual sexual experience than me. So no, that's
Speaker 1: a problem. But if you like to do that in
Speaker 1: your free time, I don't care. As long as you
Speaker 1: still can satisfy me when I want it. I don't
Speaker 1: have no problem with that.
Speaker 5: I could dig it.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Is that something where guys beat on so much that
Speaker 3: they can't.
Speaker 5: Have robots out here? They robots? I mean, if.
Speaker 6: Yeah, after a good one, if she comes in right
Speaker 6: after expecting when you're gonna have a problem for him.
Speaker 3: See, I never knew. I never knew we had an
Speaker 3: act of sex life. He just was I guess.
Speaker 5: I mean he's young, right, he was young, so of
Speaker 5: course you got it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was younger. Yeah, that was a young story.
Speaker 1: But at forty, yeah, boy, leave your dig till I
Speaker 1: get off work.
Speaker 3: If you can't make it. If you can't if you
Speaker 3: can't make it work two times in the day.
Speaker 6: When you come home, because I'm trying to me, I'm
Speaker 6: trying to figure out where you are so I can
Speaker 6: make sure I got time for you.
Speaker 5: Close.
Speaker 2: You're good, You're close.
Speaker 4: It's crazy, Yeah, because women, man, we be in our
Speaker 4: sexual prime around this time.
Speaker 2: Man, like mid thirties into like mid forties, we'll be
Speaker 2: trying to smash and niggas like y'all lose the momentum.
Speaker 2: I feel like by thirty five a lot.
Speaker 6: For a black guy at thirty five, Like.
Speaker 1: How so, how so it's actually soft meaning to live
Speaker 1: a song life. No, I agree, I understand, you know what,
Speaker 1: And that's why you just got to catch them young
Speaker 1: so you can get all their good years like how
Speaker 1: they do us.
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I was definitely it's some forty niggas dick
Speaker 2: out here slinging dick at forty. It's something you just
Speaker 2: gotta you gotta catch the fortio dick slingers.
Speaker 3: I haven't had.
Speaker 5: You don't want that.
Speaker 6: You wouldn't question his forties, still out here just slaying ship.
Speaker 5: They got nothing.
Speaker 6: You really wouldn't question him at all, Like damn, So
Speaker 6: you ain't decided to slow down or have a family
Speaker 6: or bail tom No, no, no, I'm.
Speaker 2: Just saying he's still able to perform. You gotta get
Speaker 2: niggas that are runners. Niggas who came up with their
Speaker 2: cardio health. Those are the dick slingers. Okay, you have
Speaker 2: to worry about them having a poper pill to get active. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's all I'm saying. I'm not saying, like, actually be
Speaker 2: out here home and god a fort which a lot
Speaker 2: of them still do. Be out here home at four
Speaker 2: if that dick stile working, niggas is still homing. Niggas
Speaker 2: really don't slow down until the dick stop working for real.
Speaker 1: That's what my mama said. She said, they don't slow
Speaker 1: down to they pencil don't write. She's crazy, that's.
Speaker 2: Right, right, So y'all agree with with the pre nups.
Speaker 6: I mean, if he signed it, he he read it,
Speaker 6: so he knew where he was getting himself into. Me personally,
Speaker 6: I'm not signing no prenup. What you came with is
Speaker 6: what you're leaving with.
Speaker 5: But but you have to put.
Speaker 2: Down because that the laws is stepping so and the prenup,
Speaker 2: you would have to say, what we came with is
Speaker 2: what we leave with, and anything we acquired together, that's
Speaker 2: what we'll split. Because if you don't leave, it up
Speaker 2: to the states to determine what the split is not
Speaker 2: really everything, but they they'll calculate it in a way. Yeah,
Speaker 2: depending on the laws. Like in South Carolina, the laws
Speaker 2: are still built on like women being at home and
Speaker 2: men being the breadwinners. Right, and if you you leave
Speaker 2: your wife or if your wife leaves you, like she
Speaker 2: gets a lot of your ship pension all I see
Speaker 2: at least have properties.
Speaker 5: Yeah, which you got right.
Speaker 2: I feel like pres I think people think pre naps
Speaker 2: are just for rich people. I don't think so. Man,
Speaker 2: It's for anybody who has any type of asset anything.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying to God, damn this house.
Speaker 2: Poor people married for love, boy, we should be married
Speaker 2: for love. I think rich people have an option have
Speaker 2: a little bit more that way.
Speaker 1: I think the first one should be for love, The
Speaker 1: first marriage, the first marriage the second you know.
Speaker 2: You already anticipating number two.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not just saying if the first one don't work,
Speaker 1: don't do it for love the second time, do it
Speaker 1: for stability.
Speaker 6: I have the running joke with my friend. I always say,
Speaker 6: if I real leave my wife, the next one's legacy.
Speaker 6: I'm going back to Haiti. I'm getting me a girl
Speaker 6: that's like six foot two, and I'm building an NBA
Speaker 6: NFL player one way or another.
Speaker 3: Got that is that?
Speaker 5: So I can understand that the next one's legacy.
Speaker 3: You Yeah, but.
Speaker 5: I'm never leaving my wife just to kiss you're watching.
Speaker 1: I know this is a little bit off topic, but
Speaker 1: Boosie said something here recently. He said that his daughter
Speaker 1: could you know, day her guide, and it would be
Speaker 1: okay for him to cheat on her, but don't put
Speaker 1: her hands. Don't put his hands on her. That's the
Speaker 1: only thing he got a problem with. You can cheat
Speaker 1: on him, but don't beat her. What's your stance on that.
Speaker 6: Wow, I don't think he's saying like he wants her
Speaker 6: to get cheated on. I think he's talking from a
Speaker 6: realistic standpoint where like, you cheat on my on my daughter,
Speaker 6: I can't beat you as for that, I can't, I can't.
Speaker 6: I can't take you. You know, I can't do anything
Speaker 6: to you because that's you chose to do that. But
Speaker 6: putting hands on my my nigga, meaning you're gonna have
Speaker 6: a real discussion about these hands. But cheating on her,
Speaker 6: breaking her heart, I think that's something every father is
Speaker 6: has to come to terms with. And I think that's
Speaker 6: what he's trying to say, like, cheat on her. You
Speaker 6: are my nigga, but put hands on her. Now we
Speaker 6: got a problem. I don't think he's okay and cheating he's.
Speaker 3: He is he is.
Speaker 2: No, No, I don't think he's okay. And we all
Speaker 2: know Woosey has like a he can't articulate. You know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. He says exactly how he's thinking. It
Speaker 2: is just the truth.
Speaker 1: I understand what he's saying. But I just don't hurt
Speaker 1: my would have been just good. Don't hurt my daughter
Speaker 1: would have been across the board. It's like saying that.
Speaker 1: It is almost like giving a pass in a way.
Speaker 2: You know, Nah, he gotta be specific, nigga, don't put
Speaker 2: your hands on my kid. Oh we're gonna have a problem.
Speaker 1: Well, he's just like, okay, then just say that, but
Speaker 1: don't say cheating. You can cheat on her all you want,
Speaker 1: but don't put that's what he said all you want.
Speaker 3: Don't say that. Don't fucking say that.
Speaker 6: Listen that as a father, that's a prerequisite. You better
Speaker 6: know not to cheat on my daughter. But then that
Speaker 6: nigga's gonna be a nigga. You cheat on her, just
Speaker 6: know you out of here, like there's no there's no
Speaker 6: coming back from that. But you put hands on her,
Speaker 6: there's forget coming back. You may not breathe tomorrow, like
Speaker 6: there's a whole different levels of angryness. You cheat on her.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell her like I told you not to
Speaker 6: fuck with this dirty ass thing. I told you it's
Speaker 6: the dirty niggas. The fuck with him he beats you
Speaker 6: or now we're getting the boys and we're gonna go
Speaker 6: come see you come outside, my man.
Speaker 5: That's different.
Speaker 1: Okay, I feel that, But imagine giving someone that pass.
Speaker 1: You just can't say that even if it.
Speaker 3: Even if you just can't, that is giving.
Speaker 1: You can cheat on me all you want, but if
Speaker 1: you put your hands on me is over.
Speaker 5: No, you're not supposed to say that.
Speaker 2: But you're right tammy you right thinking about it like that,
Speaker 2: like just imagining. I'm now imagining if I was this
Speaker 2: young boy dating this girl and I'm seeing her dad
Speaker 2: say something like that, it is sort of a green light,
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, because men already subconsciously
Speaker 2: do shit. They don't even realize what they're doing when
Speaker 2: they're doing it for real, Right, this man is now
Speaker 2: saying you can cheat on her. Go ahead and cheat
Speaker 2: on her, but you better not put your hands on her.
Speaker 2: And Boozie's mind, this is going to happen. I can't
Speaker 2: stop it whatever, Right, but just imagine a young boy
Speaker 2: listening to you, you basically green lighting him not to
Speaker 2: not back your child.
Speaker 3: And imagine being the daughter and hearing your daddy say that.
Speaker 5: I just I'm gonna have to disagree with this one.
Speaker 6: I don't think how he said it was correct, but
Speaker 6: I understand what he means by that. Absolutely stop you,
Speaker 6: for I can't stop you from loving who you love.
Speaker 5: Because as a father, if.
Speaker 6: I'm telling you don't date that nigga and you date him,
Speaker 6: what am I supposed to do?
Speaker 5: Lock you in the room, lock you in the house
Speaker 5: all day long? No, you're gonna do what you're gonna do.
Speaker 6: So if this nigga cheats on you, I told you
Speaker 6: not to be with but if he beats you that I.
Speaker 3: Get what you're saying.
Speaker 1: But it's just some things you just shouldn't say. You know,
Speaker 1: you don't need to say cheat on her all you want?
Speaker 1: You know, that's wow to me. I was like, I
Speaker 1: ain't even.
Speaker 2: Fuck up you cheat on her? Just don't put your
Speaker 2: hands on her dog.
Speaker 3: Daddy, No, that's not it.
Speaker 5: She got's crazy. I understand it, though.
Speaker 3: You understand it. Do you have Do you have daughters?
Speaker 6: I have two step daughters and one biological good daughter.
Speaker 5: Yes, I had to.
Speaker 6: I had to pull up on some god Sunday morning,
Speaker 6: a Saturday morning, as a matter of fact, she went
Speaker 6: to the park to go play basketball. It was and
Speaker 6: she's thirteen, so she's like it was the first time
Speaker 6: trying to be outside and stuff.
Speaker 5: And she walks back to the doub like, oh no, no,
Speaker 5: nobody grabs you. It was a kidnaped.
Speaker 6: She goes, no, but this strange guy was at the park.
Speaker 6: Then I'm like, excuse.
Speaker 5: Me, get a car, let's go.
Speaker 6: I got in the car and this guy was sitting
Speaker 6: there like yo, Yo, what are you doing here waiting
Speaker 6: for my girlfriend? What kind of grown ass man waiting
Speaker 6: the park for his girlfriend? Oh, I live in town.
Speaker 6: I was like, yo, what's your name? He gave me
Speaker 6: his name. I was like, yef, I ever catch you
Speaker 6: in this park by yourself, We're gonna have a prop.
Speaker 6: Took my daughter when we left, like, I don't play
Speaker 6: it by mine. I don't play it by mine.
Speaker 3: That is one thing, like the earth would be more
Speaker 3: safe without men.
Speaker 5: But you know what, I can't even do it. I
Speaker 5: can't even I can't even that night, I.
Speaker 2: Have this ongoing argument with one of my friends. We
Speaker 2: argue about patriarchy and matriarchy all the time because he
Speaker 2: doesn't understand what. He doesn't understand that the world used
Speaker 2: to be patriarchy, you know, women in power, right, and
Speaker 2: it's not to be like the matriarchy. Yeah, it's not
Speaker 2: to what it was. I saying.
Speaker 3: You said patriarchy, Oh, no.
Speaker 2: Patriarchy is for men. Matriarchy is for the women. He
Speaker 2: doesn't understand like what a world would look like like that,
Speaker 2: because all he could think about is like men and
Speaker 2: overpowering and all that. But we didn't have wars like
Speaker 2: that when it was a matriarchy, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: It wasn't a bunch of dick slinging contests between groups
Speaker 2: of people. There was an annihilation of groups of people.
Speaker 2: Like we're not saying like we want to dismantle and
Speaker 2: just get do away with men. Men are supposed to
Speaker 2: be women. Men are the muscle and women are the brains.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. We organize, we keep shit together. Yes,
Speaker 2: when women are more logical than men, I said it,
Speaker 2: because when men get illogical and get emotional die, people
Speaker 2: fucking die. Period.
Speaker 3: This is true.
Speaker 2: Man, bitch, just twerking is not killing anybody, ain't.
Speaker 1: No, Yeah, you don't hear about places up. It's only men.
Speaker 1: You don't ever heard. You never hear about women going
Speaker 1: to shoot no ship up. It's only these.
Speaker 3: Men doing that ship.
Speaker 2: Don't want to be in charge. No man, it's time
Speaker 2: for us to take this ship back over because y'all,
Speaker 2: y'all been sucking up the planet and mother Earth is tired. Okay,
Speaker 2: go ahead.
Speaker 5: I'm yusy.
Speaker 6: You got my mama raised me smarter than that. I mean,
Speaker 6: there is some truth to it that that men are
Speaker 6: really you know, but I think it's because they're in power,
Speaker 6: and power corrupts. Just because women get powered don't mean
Speaker 6: they can't be corruptive. Let's not play that role.
Speaker 3: That's true.
Speaker 2: No, that's not what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think eventually the pendulum will turn and women
Speaker 6: will be in power. We're going to see a women
Speaker 6: president soon. We're going to see a whole lot of
Speaker 6: stuff and we're won't be able to determine.
Speaker 5: What did better.
Speaker 3: I guess we'll have to wait and see AJ for president.
Speaker 5: Vote listen.
Speaker 2: I have been saying recently, I don't want to get
Speaker 2: into politics. I already want to go to law. I
Speaker 2: don't really want to go to law school. I just
Speaker 2: want to be a lawyer. I'm might have to go
Speaker 2: to kim k Route, might have to move to the
Speaker 2: West coast for a little while, because I know Cali, Vermont.
Speaker 2: It's certain places where not Vermont, Washington State, in some
Speaker 2: place you can go. You don't have to go to
Speaker 2: uh to school to get to be a lawyer.
Speaker 5: You don't have to take the bar.
Speaker 2: No, you got to take the bar, but you can
Speaker 2: like practice under actual lawyer right being an apprentice and
Speaker 2: then you go for the bar. That's what Kim K asked,
Speaker 2: did so, yeah, I want to do that. Man, I
Speaker 2: may get into politics.
Speaker 1: Do y'all feel like, do you feel like there's a
Speaker 1: difference between infidelity and adultery? Like, what is the difference
Speaker 1: between those? It's just another word to say the same thing.
Speaker 2: Or no, they're all cheating.
Speaker 5: I think adult, you gotta be married.
Speaker 3: For it to be adulty, though, is that what it is?
Speaker 5: I don't know. I'm guessing at this one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just the physical act of cheating and infidelity. It
Speaker 1: can be emotional and physical.
Speaker 6: I think all cheating and cheating emotional, physical, mental cheating,
Speaker 6: and like, if you're e mostly in cheating, you already left.
Speaker 2: I think adultery and infidelity are just different words for cheating.
Speaker 6: What about work wives and work husbands?
Speaker 2: Necessary? I need a nigga that's gonna buy me lunch
Speaker 2: every day.
Speaker 1: As it doesn't get nah sexual, I'm okay with it.
Speaker 1: But time I gonna keep my handsome, beautiful, charming, witty
Speaker 1: husband from entertaining women at all in this earth. It's impossible.
Speaker 1: It's impossible, right, I'm not even gonna try to do that.
Speaker 1: It's just impossible to even try to manage, you lose
Speaker 1: your hair, your bitches, you lose your edges trying to,
Speaker 1: you know, control some shit like that.
Speaker 3: So why even do That's what I.
Speaker 2: Lean towards, like I think that women men feel like
Speaker 2: they can control us in that way, and they shouldn't
Speaker 2: be controlled in that way. I just want to be
Speaker 2: equal in that department. I don't want to control everybody.
Speaker 2: I don't want nobody to control me. Yes, that's where
Speaker 2: communication comes in at I can find somebody that's okay
Speaker 2: with all this shit. I can find and I'll be
Speaker 2: okay with this shit.
Speaker 5: That means he loves you more than you love him.
Speaker 3: That's how it should be.
Speaker 2: That's all.
Speaker 5: Who loves a person more? Is that a disadvantage?
Speaker 1: There's thing is equal love in a marriage. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: it's just it's not. Somebody's gonna be chasing the other one.
Speaker 1: And it's always and it flip flops, and I feel
Speaker 1: like it should it should flip flop back and forth, but.
Speaker 3: Mostly in my in my direction. I'm hoping, you know.
Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna be like wasting my time trying
Speaker 1: to make sure my husband at work without a work wife.
Speaker 6: No, But if he's like Oh babe, what's up. I'm
Speaker 6: just I'm going to lunch with Lashawna whatever her name is.
Speaker 6: And you're like, what, He's okay to go to lunch
Speaker 6: with some girl?
Speaker 3: Yes, it easy. There was this clip that's going around.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you've seen it, but there's a
Speaker 1: young lady in the car and she was discussing and
Speaker 1: like going through her guy's phone, and she was saying, like,
Speaker 1: you shouldn't do that. And I wish I had found
Speaker 1: him talking to women, but what I found was him
Speaker 1: talking to his boys, and he was talking shit about me,
Speaker 1: and he said that sometimes I don't feel like she's beautiful.
Speaker 1: I don't feel like my girl is pretty. And she
Speaker 1: was very upset with what he said, and she was
Speaker 1: like me, nigga, like are you talking about me? So
Speaker 1: do you feel like it's okay? And how do you
Speaker 1: feel about that situation?
Speaker 5: What talking shit about your girl to your friend?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: All the time, It's normal, right, Niggas do that shit
Speaker 5: all the time. I'm sorry business.
Speaker 6: To the extent of niggas talking about I don't think
Speaker 6: she's pretty. I'm tired of her type shit. But listen,
Speaker 6: my wife wild absolutely go through my phone and see
Speaker 6: me and my best friends talking about it.
Speaker 5: She said, this ship, how the fuck does your wife
Speaker 5: do this? And niggas do that type of shit all the.
Speaker 3: Time, and woman too, we beg. I definitely don't call
Speaker 3: my ex nigga ugly when I was mad at him, Like,
Speaker 3: tell you what this ugly?
Speaker 2: He was probably actually ugly. That girl was cute, but
Speaker 2: I guess, like beds is in the eye of the beholder.
Speaker 6: But she did something that was someone that can be
Speaker 6: very attractive. You could be with them, but certain ship
Speaker 6: they do annoys you, and it will will will will
Speaker 6: the detract from their attraction just because you're already annoyed
Speaker 6: at them, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: So I get that part of it. Or maybe they've
Speaker 5: been dating too.
Speaker 1: Long and well she said, it was only a couple
Speaker 1: of months. But who looks pretty all the time?
Speaker 5: My wife?
Speaker 3: That's right, m easy, you better say that ship nigga.
Speaker 1: But I promise you she'd have had some bookers hanging
Speaker 1: out her nose, crust in the morning, hanging out the
Speaker 1: side of her mouth like you know, we're all human.
Speaker 1: It was just like, right, nobody looks good all the time.
Speaker 1: I feel like that wasn't that bad to be mad
Speaker 1: about as a woman, like.
Speaker 2: You don't want to see it though, That's why you
Speaker 2: should stay the fun up out of people's ship.
Speaker 3: Right, Stay.
Speaker 2: Stay out of people's stuff.
Speaker 3: Because you definitely look ship for sure. I used to
Speaker 3: be that girl.
Speaker 2: What I will dump a nigga over. Not really for
Speaker 2: frightnizing in the d ms, but if I see you
Speaker 2: hauling at bitches and they like nigga like not hollering back,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna dump you. I'm gonna dump you because you
Speaker 2: can't get bitches.
Speaker 5: Hey.
Speaker 2: J imagine if you see your man trying to holler
Speaker 2: at random women on the internet and everybody curving him, well,
Speaker 2: everybody he's DM is curving him. Everybody's curving him like
Speaker 2: that is so embarrassing.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 6: See, at first I was gonna get on you, like
Speaker 6: what you mean, But now you with the homie that
Speaker 6: nobody wants.
Speaker 5: That's a question. You gotta figure that out, that's right.
Speaker 1: I don't need everybody to want my nigga, So I
Speaker 1: don't need y'all to want my nigga. Now, typically they would,
Speaker 1: though I don't understand how I would be with somebody
Speaker 1: that nobody else want.
Speaker 3: That's crazy. I imagine I started looking in.
Speaker 1: The mirror at my self, like, why how did I
Speaker 1: end up with this nobody want nigga?
Speaker 3: You know, how did I end up with him? Something
Speaker 3: happened to.
Speaker 6: Him, Something happened to him, something happened.
Speaker 3: It was something happened.
Speaker 1: Clearly he's in his face where something bad has happened
Speaker 1: to him, and I stuck become him because there's no
Speaker 1: way I started with the nobody wants nigga.
Speaker 3: If I want you to want you, I promise.
Speaker 6: I think that's well, that's another topic for another thing.
Speaker 6: I think women forget the guy you want. You're not
Speaker 6: the only one that wants it. There's a lot of
Speaker 6: women that want that's saying I don't.
Speaker 2: Want to be the only one that want him. I
Speaker 2: just want him to choose me every day. That's it, right, Yeah,
Speaker 2: choose me because I'm choosing you. You think you think
Speaker 2: you're the only person who want me. That's why he's
Speaker 2: hopping hisself for once every quarter and see what's up?
Speaker 3: Don't go in mind? Yeah, come mind?
Speaker 2: You really behave.
Speaker 3: Not because I'm knowing anything. It's just like a lot
Speaker 3: of people in there trying to shoot. They shot.
Speaker 6: That's that's intimidating, man, Like I don't want to have
Speaker 6: to compete with seventy five other thiggers.
Speaker 1: Just stay out my phone because it's seventy five. It's
Speaker 1: a whole NFL team in there trying.
Speaker 2: To get trying to a whole request box.
Speaker 1: So stay out of there, and I'm gonna stay out
Speaker 1: of yours. I gonna learn my lesson it easy. I
Speaker 1: know you gotta go. Your life is very, very busy,
Speaker 1: and we appreciate you for joining us. Do you have
Speaker 1: any advice for Black men, married or not on infidelity?
Speaker 6: Think about your mama. Every decision you're about to make,
Speaker 6: think about your mama. If she's gonna be in your ear,
Speaker 6: like yo, listen, you shouldn't do that.
Speaker 5: Don't do it. Think about your mama. Treat every woman
Speaker 5: with respect.
Speaker 6: Think about your mama, Think about your daughters, think about
Speaker 6: your aunties. And and I think life will be a
Speaker 6: lot more easier to go along with because I think
Speaker 6: there's too much negativity. It's to much aggression. Women are
Speaker 6: supposed to be held with a little Femininists like you're
Speaker 6: supposed to be careful with them. And I think there's
Speaker 6: a lot of aggression going on because there's too much
Speaker 6: of nastiness going on between sides. So think about your mom,
Speaker 6: think about your grandma, think about your aunt, think about
Speaker 6: your daughters when you think about doing things and reacting
Speaker 6: with women to be better off.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a dad, though, I know a lot of
Speaker 3: days out here and ship.
Speaker 5: Here we go, just another one waiting for that topic
Speaker 5: called me back.
Speaker 3: We appreciate you, Thank you so much for joining us.
Speaker 5: Appreciate you, guys.
Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on, you don't want to plug yourself right quick?
Speaker 6: No?
Speaker 5: Hey yo? But yeah, I'm easy.
Speaker 6: I am am easy on all your social platforms and
Speaker 6: all that.
Speaker 5: Keep a lookout for the family page, meet the Masoes
Speaker 5: one and all that. Yeah, thank you.
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