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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rent An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: We've just started the show and Mark's already on me.

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Speaker 1: I'm not on you as a producer.

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Speaker 2: You produce, uh huh, So I'm just giving you notes.

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Speaker 1: We are scrubbing in today.

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Speaker 3: Becca is we are sons, Becca, she is Sanzi. She

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Speaker 3: is on vacation. But we're holding down the fort. Don't

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Speaker 3: you worry. I've got Mark and Easton and Hannah here

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Speaker 3: and I'm very excited for the show today.

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Speaker 1: As are we. And Kelty's always so fun.

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Speaker 3: She is always so fun, and she is somebody that

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Speaker 3: I really admire in the industry because she really does

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Speaker 3: so much, like you know how everybody says, like, you

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Speaker 3: know and you have like a job, like when you

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Speaker 3: check a box at the doctor's office and they say, like,

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Speaker 3: what do you do professionally? She could never check a

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Speaker 3: box because she does so many things, and she keeps

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Speaker 3: doing more and more things.

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Speaker 1: What do you put in that box?

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Speaker 2: I put radio host? I think, oh yeah, yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 1: A radio producer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah nice, yeah, yeahs We're just so one dimensional.

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Speaker 3: Kelty is not that no, And so she has a

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Speaker 3: new show coming out and I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 3: you gotta come on scrubbing in and promote the new

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Speaker 3: show because we just love everything about Kelty. She is

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Speaker 3: an award winning TV personality. She's from Canada, so we

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Speaker 3: love our Canadians. Her credits include CBS's Entertainment Tonight, the

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Speaker 3: Thanksgiving Day Parade on CBS, She's done the Grammys, Red

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Speaker 3: Carpet Live, and she's currently the chief correspondent for E News.

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Speaker 3: She is a New York Times best selling author Something

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Speaker 3: That I Am Not, and her podcast Lady Gang is

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Speaker 3: just getting so many impressive downloads worldwide. She is the creator,

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Speaker 3: executive producer, and co host of the new CBS primetime

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Speaker 3: series Superfan. Please let's give a warm welcome to Kelty Night.

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Speaker 2: Yay me, Kelty Knight is here.

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Speaker 1: My god, it's so good to see in person.

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Speaker 4: It has been I think since you and Becca beat

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Speaker 4: us at the People of Choice Awards for Top Podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Since I've seen you in person.

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Speaker 3: Twenty eighteen or nineteen. We won like a bunch of years.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, didn't you win it, like for four

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Speaker 3: years in a row or.

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Speaker 2: Some two years in a row, two years in a row.

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Speaker 1: Year. So good to see you friends.

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Speaker 2: It's good to see you too.

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Speaker 3: I was really excited to have you on because you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm just like such a fan and supporter of everything

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Speaker 3: that you do. And so when I saw that super

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Speaker 3: Fan was coming out, I was like, we have to

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Speaker 3: have you back to scrub In to talk about it.

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Speaker 4: And I'm really angry that you didn't apply, you know what,

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Speaker 4: because we haven't had the Jonas brothers on yet. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so when we have Jonas Brothers on, I fully expect

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Speaker 4: a casting tape.

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Speaker 3: Wait, you would be amazing how many episodes are in

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Speaker 3: the season. So we have six episodes.

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Speaker 4: It's a it's like a TV spectacular special series, so

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Speaker 4: just six episodes.

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Speaker 1: It starts August ninth with.

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Speaker 1: So we're really excited. It's like every.

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Speaker 3: Genre and so basically a lot of fans apply and

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Speaker 3: then how does it work?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so basically what happened.

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Speaker 4: my number one super fan. Here's how you apply. So

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Speaker 4: But and they had to prove three different ways that

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Speaker 4: they knew the trivia about them. Obviously, they had to

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Speaker 4: Shania was like I I was such a fan of

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Speaker 4: There's like some people that learn English by listening to

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Speaker 4: Like where's the turtleneck and the chain and the can

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Speaker 4: Anyway, So the fans, we cast the fans, We cast

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Speaker 4: a whole bunch of them, and they all came to

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Speaker 3: And then we had is the premise that the artist

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Speaker 4: So we didn't want to make the artists have to

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Speaker 4: it is is, it's three rounds of super fan like

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Speaker 4: final two compete and it's actually America votes, so we

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Speaker 4: don't know who wins yet.

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Speaker 4: So it's like a RuPaul's Drag Race is my favorite

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Speaker 4: they film two endings, you know, with like.

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Speaker 1: Each person winning, and then they do a watch party

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Speaker 1: and whoever RuPaul picks, that's what they roll. So nobody

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Speaker 4: So you're gonna be able to watch at home and

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate that because as a fan of Love Island UK,

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Speaker 2: I'm like so pissed about it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so it was really important because I feel like,

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Speaker 4: you know, who should decide the super fan the other

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Speaker 4: members of the fan them. Yeah, so they should watch

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Speaker 3: Okay, but I want to talk about like this show

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Speaker 3: from inception to now because when was this your thought?

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Speaker 2: Like when did you have the idea of this show?

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Speaker 3: Because you're the creator, You're the creator the executive producer

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm so tired, but I don't know what happened

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Speaker 4: was like everyone lost my phone number. And I was like,

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Speaker 4: I had to make a show and hire myself to

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Speaker 1: So you're welcome me.

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Speaker 3: Nobody called, and I was like, well, I better make

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Speaker 3: a show. So I actually originally originally registered this idea

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Speaker 3: So it was an idea had very very long time ago.

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Speaker 3: It didn't really come to fruition until I had left

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Speaker 3: Like, heyhow do my show and it's gonna be fans

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Speaker 4: So it was all like our relationships and it was crazy.

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Speaker 4: it has been so difficult and has been the greatest,

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Speaker 1: Of my life.

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Speaker 4: Really, Yeah, I mean it's been amazing. It's my dream show.

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Speaker 4: If this doesn't work out, I swear to god. I

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Speaker 4: saw online there's an island in Nicaragua for sale for

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You would never, I know, but that's

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Speaker 2: No, it's so hard.

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Speaker 3: Twenty million people, twenty five people aren't watching anything these days.

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Speaker 1: Which is Big Brother. So we got have like five

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Speaker 2: I think they will. It's a great show. Will I

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Speaker 3: Okay, but you posted something the other day that I

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So I'm starting to feel like it's me.

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Speaker 2: The problem. It's me, But it's.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the world. It just feels very heartbreaking.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, my podcast Lady Gang, we got a big clothing

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Speaker 4: And then COVID hit and they're like, we're not selling

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Speaker 3: But how have you how are you getting through it?

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Speaker 4: I'm only happy because I'm seeing you. I have my

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Speaker 4: I'm like I'm a yellow or odd delicious person. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: And so the personal stuff of like your face looks

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Speaker 4: I think what is like kind of unknown, And what

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Speaker 4: Like in my whole history of my career, no one's

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Speaker 4: ever been like, we'd like to see Kelty audition for

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Speaker 4: X Factor, Like never ever, ever, every single thing I've

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Speaker 4: like you to like host this show, or hey, I

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Speaker 4: it's it's literally just me spitting my creations.

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Speaker 1: Out into the world, and it's exhausting. Like isn't there

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Speaker 1: just like some show biz granddaddy that can just be

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Speaker 1: and we'd like to pay you to be there, whatever

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Speaker 1: it is. I'll host anything, like I'll host like the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I never realized that everything that you've done,

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: It's like, I'm sure there's been times in your life

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know, we're thinking about you, would you be interested?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what is that?

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Speaker 1: Like, I've never had that. I've literally never had it.

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Speaker 2: That is so crazy. I did not realize, and so.

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Speaker 4: Like my sunshine mind gets a little dark because you're

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Speaker 4: just like having to be your own warrior all the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I will say as an outsider, like looking

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Speaker 3: it for yourself and there's something so really cool about that. No, Like, honestly,

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Speaker 4: Well, I think we talked about it a little offline,

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Speaker 1: They're like, we love you, we love you, we love you.

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Speaker 4: But when you have your thing and you turn around

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Speaker 4: The silence can be deafening, you know, and that's that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I'm like they're not.

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Speaker 4: No, and I know, And I think what is really

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Speaker 4: at least famous recipe chicken because you can't deep fry

443
00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:38,400
Speaker 4: a thigh with the bone intact and will not cook properly.

444
00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:42,240
Speaker 1: EWW you're welcome. Ew I'm a vegetarian now.

445
00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:44,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna say I'm having a very weird thing

446
00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:47,200
Speaker 3: with chicken these days, Like I just like can't I'm

447
00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:51,879
Speaker 3: like being really grossed out with chicken Yeah, okay, sorry, yeah.

448
00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:53,800
Speaker 2: I really threw me off there with that one. But

449
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 2: with Lady Gang, do you feel because how long have

450
00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:56,760
Speaker 2: you guys been.

451
00:19:56,720 --> 00:20:00,119
Speaker 4: Doing Lady Gang now since twenty fifteen, and you're it's

452
00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:01,120
Speaker 4: just as hot as ever?

453
00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:02,520
Speaker 1: Do you know if that's true?

454
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:06,679
Speaker 3: Really, I mightn't keep reinventing it or like making it fresh.

455
00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:07,159
Speaker 2: I don't know.

456
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:11,159
Speaker 4: We're trying to do video, damn it. I actually was.

457
00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:12,840
Speaker 4: I wanted to get in a podcast so I could

458
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,200
Speaker 4: be ugly, but face is very puffy in the morning

459
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,240
Speaker 4: when we podcast. They don't want to be on camera,

460
00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 4: especially on my own camera that I'm setting up myself

461
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,680
Speaker 4: and then editing myself, Like this is more work.

462
00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,240
Speaker 1: Guys, we used to podcasting was so easy.

463
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:27,760
Speaker 4: We got a little drunk, We sat in our sweatpants,

464
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 4: we talked some shes and then we like turn the

465
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:33,159
Speaker 4: recording button off. Now I got to set up lights

466
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:34,399
Speaker 4: and put a lie lash on.

467
00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:36,360
Speaker 2: It's exhausting.

468
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:37,000
Speaker 1: I don't know.

469
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 4: I think we just have, Like you guys, we have

470
00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 4: a really good core group listeners, and we came in

471
00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 4: a podcast in an exciting time, like we've watched Becca

472
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,360
Speaker 4: meet her husband, get engaged, get married, have a baby.

473
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:50,960
Speaker 1: We've watched Jack have.

474
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,639
Speaker 4: Many many bad boyfriends, find her person, get engaged. Now

475
00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:58,560
Speaker 4: she's getting married in September. We've watched me be maniac,

476
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 4: so you know, it's been great be a maniac.

477
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,560
Speaker 3: But you guys, you were just talking before you got on.

478
00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 3: You and Chris have been together for ten ten years

479
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 3: years and married for ten Yeah. And I saw that

480
00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 3: you posted something the other day about like you finally

481
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 3: missed him for the first time.

482
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:13,479
Speaker 2: I know.

483
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,159
Speaker 4: That's why I'm like becoming a so soft, I'm becoming you.

484
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,840
Speaker 4: I know, Well, what's your sign Aquarius?

485
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:21,600
Speaker 2: Oh? Interesting? Interesting?

486
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: But I'm a three on the Ennagram, which is like

487
00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:25,200
Speaker 1: I only care about work.

488
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 2: Oh okay, anyway.

489
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, my husband's been away for six weeks with

490
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,119
Speaker 4: one of his he's a music manager with one of

491
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,639
Speaker 4: his artists, and they've been all over the world, have

492
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,240
Speaker 4: been through Europe and they've been they're in Australia and

493
00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 4: then they're going to Singapore and it's been like so crazy

494
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,000
Speaker 4: in the time zones, like we've barely spoken.

495
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,120
Speaker 1: And I was watching The Bear. Do you watch your Bear?

496
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 2: I haven't. I got friends watching it, but I he

497
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 2: always watches it after fall asleep.

498
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 4: Okay, so it has a great ninety soundtrack. The show's great,

499
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 4: but like it's a lot of count and Crows and

500
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,879
Speaker 4: Ram and just like really good nineties music that just

501
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 4: makes me feel like a little desperate fifteen year old.

502
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 1: And so then I like sat.

503
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 4: There and I was watching it and this Ram song

504
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 4: was playing, and I was like, oh my god, I

505
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:05,399
Speaker 4: really miss Chris.

506
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 1: I've never missed him before in my whole life.

507
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 4: Like he would go away for work, I'd be at work,

508
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:11,200
Speaker 4: like I'm happy to be alone.

509
00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:14,199
Speaker 1: I'm very like independent person. I have lots to do.

510
00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 1: I like to putts, like I'm not really bothered. I'm

511
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:17,679
Speaker 1: not like one of those girls.

512
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,639
Speaker 4: It's like a Labrador retriever that's like and like you know,

513
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 4: like I'm just like kind of on my own and

514
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 4: like I'm cool.

515
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 1: And anyway, I just really missed out and then it

516
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 1: went away. I'm fine now. It was just a moment.

517
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 2: It was just a moment, like a fleeting moment.

518
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 4: It was a moment. And that night, that night, I

519
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:34,919
Speaker 4: was just like I just missed him so much. And

520
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 4: then I was like, shmooy woopy poopy, you should fish

521
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 4: time me, where am I rit? And he's like, who

522
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 4: are you?

523
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:40,560
Speaker 2: How make him feel?

524
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: I don't know.

525
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 4: I think he was like, who is this? Because normally

526
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 4: I just ignore his phone calls and pretend I'm in

527
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 4: a meeting.

528
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,720
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I do. I don't always want to.

529
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:56,959
Speaker 3: Talk, literally the opposite of me. Really, Yeah, I always

530
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 3: want to talk.

531
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Speaker 1: But that what are you?

532
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,439
Speaker 2: What's your answer? Okay?

533
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,880
Speaker 1: But also that's like your personality.

534
00:23:03,119 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, very much.

535
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: So you know. Yeah, and that's why you're the peopil's

536
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,360
Speaker 1: choice and why I am not. I'm a cold, hard

537
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:10,200
Speaker 1: bitch choice.

538
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 2: No, you're not.

539
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 4: No, I'm a nice person, but I don't I'm not

540
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 4: a big social person, like I'm Jane Fonda.

541
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 1: I don't really like people.

542
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,439
Speaker 4: And this would be my social interaction for like at

543
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 4: the least four days.

544
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, seriously, I'll just be hiding. Is that how you

545
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 3: get so much done?

546
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 1: I think?

547
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 5: So.

548
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 4: I don't go out unless i'm getting paid. I'm not

549
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,640
Speaker 4: going to like your dinner. That's so interesting.

550
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: No, that's a lot. I went to bec a Tilly's.

551
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 4: I went to Becca's clothing launch, and I wasn't getting

552
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,120
Speaker 4: paid just to support her.

553
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, you were there.

554
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 3: You know what's interesting is like I somebody I'm not

555
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 3: going to say who it was because I don't remember,

556
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 3: but it was somebody that's like very successful, successful businesswoman,

557
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 3: and she was saying that she just does not like

558
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 3: partake in social activity, like she just like works and

559
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 3: then she's home like that's it. Yeah, And I was like, Wow,

560
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 3: if I did that, I feel like I would be

561
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 3: so much further along in my career.

562
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 2: I feel like I I'm too social.

563
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: Ooh, I don't know.

564
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 4: I mean, you're really liked, You're well liked, and you're

565
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:10,000
Speaker 4: fabulous to follow on Instagram. Always an event, always a trip,

566
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 4: a story, a pantsuit, a birthday party, a cake, a

567
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 4: dinner with your guy, Like it's not fabulous to watch,

568
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 4: and I think, but my difference is like I don't

569
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 4: like social activities. So for me, I do take time

570
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 4: off like from I'm not always working, but when I

571
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 4: am not working, like I'll go on a hike with

572
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 4: my dog and listen to like a podcast or like

573
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 4: for me, I read like probably an hour and a

574
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 4: half every night every night. Yeah, I love to read.

575
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 4: I'm like looking forward right now, I'm sitting and you're

576
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 4: my friend, and I love you, and I'm so happy

577
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 4: to be here, and I'm so excited to like talk

578
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 4: about superfan. But like I'm really looking forward to like

579
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 4: seven thirty pm when I roll up with like a

580
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 4: nice heating cuddly and you know thing that you put

581
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 4: in the microwave and smells like lavender, and I put

582
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 4: it around my neck and then I'm just gonna get

583
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 4: in my book again. I can't wait to read a cap.

584
00:24:58,160 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 2: That's like your nightly routine. That's what you do.

585
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 1: Everyday, even when Chris is home, And what do you

586
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: do on the weekends. I love to read. I love

587
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 1: to read a book.

588
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 4: I play canasta with my gaze. I have like a

589
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 4: little canasta club with my two friends, and so Chris

590
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 4: and I will go with them Crisp and Gone, so

591
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 4: we learn how to play crib actually, because you can

592
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 4: play that with three people.

593
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 1: I was like, Chris is out. I played canasta.

594
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 4: I really like to like organize like drawers, and I

595
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:29,000
Speaker 4: like to read and online shop and.

596
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: You know, just big cool things like that.

597
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 4: No one invites me into anything or offer sweet jobs.

598
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: That is so no.

599
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 3: I think it's so it's the way the world works.

600
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 3: Everybody has their own thing, do you know what I mean?

601
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 3: I feel opposite.

602
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 4: I feel like my career would be in a better

603
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:51,479
Speaker 4: place if I left the house and like networked. Oh interesting,

604
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 4: I feel like nobody knows that I exist because I

605
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 4: don't you see me on TV and then nowhere else.

606
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 2: That's so interesting, you.

607
00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,680
Speaker 4: Know, like how there's those people that are like doing

608
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 4: the rounds and they're like at every event, every event,

609
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:06,959
Speaker 4: getting their picture taken.

610
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: And I tried that for a little bit.

611
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 3: But there's something every single day and night I know

612
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,879
Speaker 3: the year, like truly there's beck and I call them

613
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 3: industry events. Yeah, there's something every single dinner.

614
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 1: To celebrate the sunscreen and whatever.

615
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 3: This new launch and that new launch and come and

616
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 3: like I get invited to stuff at like ten am

617
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 3: on a Tuesday.

618
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, I have a job.

619
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 3: But people go like that they do these events because

620
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 3: people obviously can go, and I'm like, it is it

621
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 3: can be if you're going to everything like truly exhausting.

622
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 4: And also where are we getting the outfits? Because when

623
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 4: I did, when I hustled this, I was doing rent

624
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 4: the runway and then it's like no one wants to

625
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 4: be photographed by getting images and a rent the Runway frock,

626
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,120
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. It's like it's great when

627
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 4: it's like your cousin's graduation and you needed a gown

628
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 4: for one time.

629
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 1: But it's like the time.

630
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 4: That I appeared in like Star magazine and the story

631
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 4: was like everyone's wearing lips and like it was all

632
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 4: these like famous people with like lips on their dresses

633
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 4: and then me wearing like a bad Rental Runway lip dress.

634
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, yeah, I.

635
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 4: Can't go out, don't have enough clothes. No, I'll go

636
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 4: to a concert. I'll go to a concert all the time.

637
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 4: I'm with Jamie Lee Curtis. I could use a matine.

638
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 2: I'm with that with Jamie Lee Curtis too.

639
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 3: I could even But I'll go to a concert. And

640
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 3: Jonas Brothers, they like to keep it going till late.

641
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 2: Inline.

642
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 4: I went to their Vegas show and I was like,

643
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 4: I'm exhausted, and you haven't even come out yet.

644
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 2: What did they come out to mime?

645
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 4: They came out at like nine fifteen or something. And

646
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 4: then it's like, I mean, I enjoy the Hollywood Bowl

647
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 4: because they have a hard cutoff yeah yea, which is

648
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 4: kind of nice. You know you're gonna be done at eleven,

649
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,520
Speaker 4: But I went South third a blind at the YouTube

650
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 4: space or whatever.

651
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, YouTube theater, YouTube kid.

652
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it took forever for them.

653
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like all the hits, And that's my biggest problem.

654
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 3: I think my biggest downfall in life is.

655
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: That iland to be out in the morning.

656
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: Yeah. I like to go to bed very early.

657
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah me too. I'm like the sun is out most

658
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: of the time, like curtains closed. Yeah.

659
00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,959
Speaker 4: So it's just like I feel like we could, really

660
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 4: they get a like a five a nice five pm concert.

661
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 4: Wh White aren't they not doing that? They would sell

662
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 4: more tickets.

663
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 2: I think so too.

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Speaker 4: People are having trouble selling tickets right now if you're

665
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Speaker 4: not Taylor or Beyonce, Like every tour is bombing.

666
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Speaker 1: Basically.

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Speaker 3: I think Jamie Lee Curtis was honestly onto something like

668
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Speaker 3: a matinee.

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Speaker 4: I would go, like I would go to five. It

670
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 4: doesn't need to be mad Dae, it needs me after work.

671
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 4: Like so it's like, if our work day ends at

672
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Speaker 4: four thirty five, yeah, could we get a quick cocktail

673
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 4: and then be at the concert ready to go at

674
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Speaker 4: six and then the openers.

675
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the whole thing.

676
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Speaker 4: I know they need the openers because they need to

677
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Speaker 4: sell a few extra tickets and then have a thing

678
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 4: like I don't need two openers I've never heard of

679
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 4: before you go on at ten pm.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm done with the openers.

681
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 4: I don't want no, I'm I don't know, texting Live

682
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 4: Nation being like yo, what time are they really well

683
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 4: they're managers or whatever, being like what time are they

684
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 4: really going on?

685
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Speaker 1: And then I go for that.

686
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Speaker 4: Sorry to the openers. I know this is great for you,

687
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,280
Speaker 4: but like, I'm main, main girl energy.

688
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 2: Only girl energy.

689
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 3: I'd rather stay home and read for a few more

690
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 3: hours and then go I know.

691
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 2: I'm with you. I'm totally totally with you.

692
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 3: I want you to tell everybody where they can God yes,

693
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 3: watch super Fan, where they can follow super Fan, where

694
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 3: they can tweet along with super Fan, and how they

695
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 3: can engage that we can get you a season two.

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Speaker 1: I love you so much for saying that. Thank you

697
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: for asking.

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00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 4: Okay, So the show premiered on August ninth, But next

699
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 4: week we have Shania. Every Wednesday for the next six

700
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 4: weeks we have Shania Twain and it's a fabulous episode

701
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 4: and she's so so so good. So listen, I really

702
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 4: need the scrubbers too.

703
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 2: Is that what you call them?

704
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 4: The scrubbs, right, scrub sisters, the scrub sisters to vote? Like,

705
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 4: all I'm asking is for you to turn your television

706
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 4: and nine pm to CBS and just go on your

707
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 4: Twitter before you delete it forever, and just vote for

708
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Speaker 4: your people.

709
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Speaker 1: I want. I really just I'm so old school. I

710
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: just want super Fan to trend. I wanted to trend

711
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:13,719
Speaker 1: so that no matter what the ratings are, I can

712
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: be like, but I mattered to the Internet. Yeah, you know,

713
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: and then you can watch it next day on Paramount Plus.

714
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so you scribers are going to show up for

715
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 2: you because you know why.

716
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 4: Because they know that they showed up too hard for

717
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 4: you at the People's Choice Awards and then I lost.

718
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Speaker 3: No, when you you were doing that that social campaign

719
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 3: for Superfan, she like asked us to do this TikTok, right,

720
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 3: let me tell you about this. No, because I don't

721
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 3: do tiktoks. Like get this text message from Kelty and I'm.

722
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: Like, can I support you in another way?

723
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 3: Always like, can I support you in any other way?

724
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 3: I just don't do these things on TikTok, and then

725
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 3: I could just like feel the sadness on the other end.

726
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 3: I was like okay, dark yeah, and so I was

727
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 3: like I'm gonna do this. I needed a friend to

728
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 3: come over and help me. So it took me a

729
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 3: few weeks maybe a.

730
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Speaker 1: Month, and she did it and she's a great person.

731
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Speaker 3: I felt I had the same exact thing happened when

732
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 3: our book came out, because.

733
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: Did you feel like where are the people?

734
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 3: I didn't feel like we're the people because a lot

735
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 3: of people did show up, but a lot of people

736
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 3: that I thought would show up didn't show up. And

737
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 3: that was like really heartbreaking, real heartbreak, right, Yeah, it's

738
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 3: like it really is. It hits you on a totally

739
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 3: different level because I'm like it it takes nothing for

740
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 3: you to like show support and like I don't even

741
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 3: I don't even need people to post the link like

742
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 3: you like some people that like know they'll post the

743
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 3: link to like get the book here, and like I

744
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 3: don't even need you to like post the link, just

745
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 3: like support me and show that you're there for me.

746
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 3: And yeah, that was like really eye opening and like really,

747
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 3: uh it was sad. It was like a beautiful time

748
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:43,959
Speaker 3: because a lot of people did show up and show support,

749
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 3: but also really heartbreaking time because you pour so much

750
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Speaker 3: of yourself.

751
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 2: Into this thing and then like yeah, yeah.

752
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: So are not allowed allowed to talk about it because

753
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: like we're so hashtag blessed, like oh my god, you

754
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: got a publishing deal, you got a book put out

755
00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: that you can get in stores, like you're not allowed

756
00:31:59,920 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 1: to be like wanh wah, Like I'm not allowed to be,

757
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: Like wow, I'm just so bummed that more people didn't

758
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: do the super Fan Dance challenge that I work so

759
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: hard on because I had my my friend Alex dally

760
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: On who was in that band the Cab write the

761
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 1: theme song and specifically like employed by friends so that

762
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: they would make residuals off the show so it gets

763
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 1: spread the wealth, Like didn't just get like the guy

764
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: that's been writing theme songs for one hundred years, like

765
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: wanted someone news like where the people? But it's fine,

766
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm fine. That's why I don't leave this thing is.

767
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 3: Also we have feelings, were human beings, and like that's

768
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 3: I think that is something And the fact that you

769
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 3: say you don't care anymore is like such a great

770
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,680
Speaker 3: place to be because I do care, Like my feelings

771
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 3: really do get hurt.

772
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just like a sensitive flower. I'm trying not

773
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 2: to be.

774
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 4: But you're also like younger than me. You've got years

775
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 4: to get to Yeah, I'll get there. And also like

776
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,239
Speaker 4: you know, you just I think the important thing and

777
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 4: like this is even for not the everyday normy woman,

778
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 4: but like anyone that is listening and like identifying with

779
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 4: this is like you just get smarter. You get smarter

780
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 4: with how you spend your time and how you spend

781
00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 4: your energy. Like I've been a people pleaser my whole

782
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 4: and when you're at the office and you're people pleasing

783
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 4: and you're that person that never forgets someone's birthday and

784
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 4: always brings in the cake, and like you're killing yourself

785
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 4: and you're not taking care of yourself because you're giving

786
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 4: so much to other people.

787
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 1: Like it is not a good way to live your life.

788
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 4: Like you have to put on your oxygen mask first

789
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 4: and really take stock of like what really matters, who

790
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 4: really matters, who your people are, and then try to

791
00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 4: sort through life, like you know, and that was it's

792
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 4: a big wake up call and it's hard.

793
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought your book was amazing.

794
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Speaker 4: Thank you and I think that it just felt like

795
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 4: it came out had a like I don't. I don't

796
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 4: feel like it had its moment, so it needs like

797
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 4: a bigger moment.

798
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it definitely didn't have its moment. You know, it

799
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 3: can still it still has its time.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, and also like it's you can do that

801
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 4: book and paperback, which I think is what you should

802
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 4: do because it's hardcover and it's beautiful and it has

803
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 4: all the covers and stuff like that. But like Danny

804
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:56,080
Speaker 4: Pelagreno just put his back in paperback and had to

805
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 4: re release that was super successful.

806
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: Like our books have too many illustrations and stuff that

807
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: we never do it in paperback, but like I think

808
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: you should do it in paperback as like a paperback

809
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 1: and then with journal pages in between.

810
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 2: It and stuff interesting. Look at that enterprising. Thank you

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00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: Kelty Night, that.

812
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Speaker 1: One's a free beyond me for doing the TikTok dance.

813
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,319
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you so much, and we

814
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 3: are going to tune in. I'm gonna watch every single

815
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,799
Speaker 3: episode and tweet just to support you and thank you

816
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 3: so much for taking the time to be here today

817
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 3: and scrubbing.

818
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 2: We love you.

819
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:28,880
Speaker 3: Starting out, wait, I forgot to tell you my Ellen story,

820
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 3: which Ellen coopayo, what?

821
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god?

822
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Speaker 1: I specially saved it. I didn't talk about it. Can

823
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,840
Speaker 1: I do story? I know, breaking me tee.

824
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 4: I forgot, Oh my god, Okay, I saved this. I

825
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 4: didn't talk about it on the podcast because I wanted

826
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 4: to save it for scrubbing, and because I knew I

827
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,919
Speaker 4: was coming here. Okay, so I went nice, Oh my gosh,

828
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Speaker 4: she's amazing.

829
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Speaker 2: Okay.

830
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Speaker 4: So I go to the Beyonce concert in Dubai. Oh right, okay, wait,

831
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 4: did I tell you this story?

832
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: No?

833
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 2: But I saw that you were there.

834
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: Okay.

835
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Speaker 4: So I went to the Beyonce concert in Dubai, and uh,

836
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 4: my husband's music manager. He's not Beyonce's manager obviously, but

837
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 4: we were invited to go, and so we got the

838
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 4: full treatments. So I got to fly on Emirates in

839
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Speaker 4: the first class like pod thing where there's only like

840
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,399
Speaker 4: eight of them. It's like an apartment. And so I'm

841
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 4: flying and Chris is behind me in his pod and

842
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 4: then it was like some some people and and I

843
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 4: this woman comes down the aisle and she's got like

844
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 4: you know, they give you like the cotton pajamas when

845
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 4: you're flying it.

846
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: When you're flying blown. Okay, So when you're in the pod,

847
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,399
Speaker 1: they give you like a pajama. It's like a very

848
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: like jersey.

849
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 4: Pajama set, and so most people change into that and

850
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 4: they sleep in that for these long half flights. But

851
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:46,399
Speaker 4: this woman comes down and like her own knit thing

852
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,280
Speaker 4: with like a long cardigan that was like beautiful purple color.

853
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: And I reach out because I'm like, wow, it's so beautiful.

854
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 4: I reach out and I grab the cardigan as she

855
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 4: walks to the bathroom and I was like, wow, great cardigan,

856
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 4: and I'm touching it and I look up and it's

857
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 4: Ellen and she's like and then she goes to and

858
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:02,280
Speaker 4: I was like, oh.

859
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: My god, that's so embarrassing. I just like grabbed a celebrity.

860
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 2: Okay.

861
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: So fast forward. We go to the Beyonce concert and

862
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Speaker 1: I don't she let you touch her like that?

863
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 2: She didn't. You could just tie out. Even if somebody

864
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 2: did that to me, I'd be like, what I know?

865
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: But she was so nice. Okay, So then we did

866
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Speaker 1: the Beyonce concert.

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Speaker 4: So she's married to this guy named Chris who's also

868
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 4: in the music business and a music producer and designer,

869
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 4: and he's really good friends with my husband, and so

870
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 4: we went to this like, you know, day event and

871
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 4: it was just kind of us. Ellen was sleeping and

872
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 4: so we hung out with his names Chris as well.

873
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 4: So we hung out with my husband Chris and the

874
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 4: other cuss. I'm going to make the story short. So

875
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 4: we're talking all day and we really bonded. We were

876
00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 4: like together for like five hours, me and husband Ellen's

877
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 4: husband Chris.

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00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 1: We really bonded, and I felt like we were good friend.

879
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 4: We're having great talks, like really deep talks, and I

880
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 4: was like, how's it like supporting someone and blah blah,

881
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 4: Like we really really talking.

882
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 1: And it was during a time where I was really obsessed.

883
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 4: About why people don't get divorced, like what made you

884
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 4: stay married? Because I'm like hitting my ten your anniversary

885
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,400
Speaker 4: this year. And so then we walk in. This is

886
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,439
Speaker 4: where it gets so bad. This is my Ellen story.

887
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 4: This is where I really scrubbed up. Okay, like I

888
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 4: efed up. So I walk into the hotel with husband

889
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 4: Chris and my husband Chris, and I'm like and I'm like, Ellen, hey,

890
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 4: and we'd seen each other like never officially been introduced,

891
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,720
Speaker 4: but like had been in the same circle all weekend

892
00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:21,479
Speaker 4: and I just look at her and I go, why

893
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 4: do you think you and Chris haven't got divorced yet?

894
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 4: Chris Knight turns to me and he goes kelty and

895
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 4: she's like, well, I think we just like really and

896
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 4: she answered it.

897
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: She gave like a beautiful answer.

898
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 4: And my husband has never been mad at me in

899
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 4: my life, Like he's never and I say the wrong

900
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 4: thing every instance that's available, just much like this podcast.

901
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 4: And we walk away and he grabs my hand. He goes,

902
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 4: that was really unnecessary, and I was.

903
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 1: Like, oh, Chris Knight's mad at me.

904
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 4: And then he's told this story like four times to

905
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 4: his friends and every time they're like, whoa, you did

906
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 4: not He's like, why would you open your conversation with

907
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 4: like the most famous actor in the world by being like,

908
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 4: why do you think you haven't got divorced? Not even like, God,

909
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 4: you've been married for so long.

910
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 1: What's the secret now? Why haven't you got divorced? Because

911
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 1: you know there's some dirty stuff they've been married for

912
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: so long. There's dirty stuff in my marriage too, and you're.

913
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 4: Like, h well, I just didn't have enough money to

914
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 4: leave him or whatever it is, you know, like anyway,

915
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 4: So I'm so embarrassed. And then Chris was like, Chris

916
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 4: husband was like, we should all get dinner. And so

917
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 4: then Chris my husband texted Chris and was like, we

918
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 4: should all get dinner.

919
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 2: I said no, No, he didn't.

920
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 4: Say no, but like we haven't at the dinner, do

921
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 4: you know what I mean? And I was like, I

922
00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 4: saw their house and architectural digest. I definitely want to

923
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 4: be friends with them, like set up the dinner.

924
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:38,279
Speaker 1: Oh oh.

925
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 4: The other part I forgot to tell you is that

926
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 4: then after I was so inappropriate, I turned to her

927
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 4: and I was like, hey, I just want to say

928
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 4: like a huge thank you, like I've watched you for years,

929
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 4: and I did that thing, which is probably so anny

930
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 4: when you're at the Beyonce concert, but like I was like,

931
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 4: the way that you've been so outspoken about women and

932
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 4: their salaries has really inspired me to talk more with

933
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 4: about money with other people. And I was like, I

934
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 4: know you get for it, but like it's really inspired

935
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 4: me and I love how empowered you make other women.

936
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 4: And then she told me like kind of a whole

937
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 4: story about like She's like, yeah, people get really mad

938
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 4: at me for being that way, but like I think, really, yeah,

939
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:11,640
Speaker 4: she was like, I think it's the most important thing

940
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 4: that I do in my career, is like uplifting other

941
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 4: people and making sure we all get paid what we need.

942
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: And it's like a really nice conversation.

943
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:22,720
Speaker 3: So wow, that's she's definitely a modern woman.

944
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 4: A modern woman. Yeah, with great taste, great hair, great face,

945
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 4: sunshine mind.

946
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really nice to hear because I you know,

947
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 3: it's like, don't ever meet your idol, Like, I'm kind of.

948
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: Likely she doesn't come on.

949
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well I'll ask Chris.

950
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,760
Speaker 4: I'll be like, why do you think you're not divorced?

951
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 4: And also would you like to have you asked? I'm sure,

952
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 4: I'm sure we've asked.

953
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, and it's like an open door policy.

954
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,439
Speaker 3: Anybody that has ever been on a Gray's Anatomy or

955
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 3: at any point it was even an extra Grays Anatomy

956
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 3: has an open.

957
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: Door okay to the o R here anyway, amount of them. Yeah,

958
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: I know you've had everyone except except Yeah.

959
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 4: Well, the next time I say her, I'll be like,

960
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:03,880
Speaker 4: why haven't you done scrubbing in?

961
00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,399
Speaker 1: That'll be my first on. She'd be like what, I'll

962
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 1: be a great card again.

963
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, wait, just before you leave, why do you think

964
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 3: you're not divorced yet?

965
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: Oh? Great question. I really really like my husband as

966
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 1: a human being. Like it's been hard. There's been times

967
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 1: whay I hate him. There's been times.

968
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 4: Where we've had pretty big fights. There's been years where

969
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 4: it was like not great, you know, but like he's

970
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 4: such a good person. He's so calming. He's really a

971
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 4: champion for me and and I like, really we have

972
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 4: the same outlook on life, Like we enjoy the doing

973
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 4: the same things. Like he's not a big drinker. I'm

974
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:50,919
Speaker 4: not a big drinker. Like he's not a club guy.

975
00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 4: I'm not a club guy. Like, you know, it's like

976
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,359
Speaker 4: we have the same we want the same things out

977
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 4: of our lives.

978
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,320
Speaker 1: But I just like like him as a human being,

979
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: even if he was like burnt in an accident, Like

980
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,799
Speaker 1: I would still like him like his human even if

981
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: I wasn't, Like, even if his beautiful blue eyes could

982
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: never open again, I would be like, I still like

983
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:13,760
Speaker 1: you as a human But he has.

984
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,879
Speaker 4: Flaws, right, we all do, you know. But it's like

985
00:41:16,880 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 4: like you know, it's like you're like, like you guys

986
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 4: have a good life together. Yeah, you like experience life.

987
00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 4: And I went and like listened to our wedding that

988
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 4: was for the first time in ten years because I'm

989
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,440
Speaker 4: gonna post them on our anniversary. I hadn't seen them

990
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,240
Speaker 4: since we did them, and I was like, still tracks

991
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:34,280
Speaker 4: everything we said. Yeah, still tracks one hundred percent.

992
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: That's nice. Oh you're gonna get married? Yeah this is

993
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: the one. Oh yeah, I mean I know that.

994
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, not sure when though.

995
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,680
Speaker 4: It's you know what. But here's the thing. Sorry, this

996
00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 4: is such a long episode. I'm so sorry. I could

997
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 4: just talk forever. You have to let him do the thing. Yeah,

998
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 4: Like I got really psycho because I really wanted to

999
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 4: get engaged. And I remember standing outside the King's Gate

1000
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 4: to my husband and being like, if you like it,

1001
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,319
Speaker 4: then you should put a ring on it.

1002
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 3: And it looks so obnoxious how I've been Yeah, yeah, no,

1003
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 3: you got a cell your roll?

1004
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, cell your role.

1005
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 4: And because men they don't plan the wedding, they're never

1006
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 4: going to be surprised you ever. Again, like this is

1007
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:16,280
Speaker 4: their shining moment.

1008
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very funny.

1009
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 3: So I like I've been wearing like a lot of

1010
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 3: white because I was like, I just want to wear white.

1011
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 2: When I think he's going to propose, I've been wearing a.

1012
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 4: So much wit no I saw in Paris. I was like,

1013
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 4: they're going to get engaged, right, She's wearing white every.

1014
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 2: Day, all white on my trip to Paris.

1015
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:32,240
Speaker 1: So were you sad when you didn't get engaged?

1016
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was sad, but I didn't like the trip

1017
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 3: wasn't ruined because of it, you know what I mean,

1018
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 3: Like I didn't let it ruin the trip.

1019
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,720
Speaker 2: But it's so funny. Beca is her big thing.

1020
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 3: Is She's like, I really really need Robbie to propose

1021
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: when you're not wearing white, Like I just really want

1022
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 3: him to like totally catch you off guard. And I

1023
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 3: was like, well, then he's going to do it like

1024
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 3: the hair salon or something, because I'm always on guard.

1025
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: No, Like I saw your nails are nicely done, like

1026
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:54,439
Speaker 1: it's coming.

1027
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:54,839
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1028
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 4: My husband told me we were going to dinner. I

1029
00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 4: thought there was all these events that I was like, Oh,

1030
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 4: this is it, this is it. Yeah, he told me, oh,

1031
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 4: we're going to our friend's house for dinner. And I

1032
00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 4: was wearing leggings and a Nirvana T shirt, no makeup

1033
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 4: and an ugly Urban Outfitters, yellow cardigan, and he was like, oh,

1034
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 4: the front door is not Let's go round back so

1035
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 4: we don't wake the kids. And I went around back

1036
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:15,840
Speaker 4: and it was all decorated and that's when you propose.

1037
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 4: I had no idea and it was the best.

1038
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 3: So chill leggings an a Nirvanisher. Yeah, I still have

1039
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 3: the Nirvanasher.

1040
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: I was like, this is very fitting, but you got

1041
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: to chill out, you enjoy your life.

1042
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you decided after our trip in Paris.

1043
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 3: I was like, take the pressure off. No, I'm just

1044
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 3: he obviously has a plan. Who would not lock this down?

1045
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:37,960
Speaker 2: He does have a plan. I know of course he

1046
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:39,919
Speaker 2: has a plan. Just when is the plan?

1047
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: But the planet you have a long life together.

1048
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 3: Yeah that's true. Thank you for saying that you got this. Yeah,

1049
00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:45,399
Speaker 3: I got this.

1050
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 1: You got this, and it's going to be And you know,

1051
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: he's not a dummy. He'll film it. He's got this.

1052
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 1: He's got the photographer lockdown, like, he's not a dumb ass.

1053
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: He's got it right.

1054
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 2: No, he's not a dumb ass. But yeah, I have

1055
00:43:57,840 --> 00:43:59,359
Speaker 2: no literally got no idea, And.

1056
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 4: Let him surprise you, because forever you this is a

1057
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 4: man you're gonna have forever. It gets less and less surprises.

1058
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 2: And Kelty is one foot up the door and love

1059
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: you bye.

1060
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 1: I'm literally like, this is what I would like for

1061
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: my birthday link affiliate link to my own Amazon page,

1062
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 1: you know, like it gets really love gets boring.

1063
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 2: Okay, bye, love you, love you bye.