Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, uh,
Speaker 1: if you're listening, you fucking know what show this is
Speaker 1: because you clicked it. Um, okay, let me tell you
Speaker 1: what happened last night. No, you don't even know what
Speaker 1: happened last night. We switched bodies. Let me did We didn't.
Speaker 1: This is not a freaky Friday ship. Let me just elaborate.
Speaker 1: I was in l A. I got invited to an
Speaker 1: industry party. It's giving, Mandy, and no, it's giving industry,
Speaker 1: So I go to versus. Okay, it was fun, and
Speaker 1: if I got an invite to something like that, it's
Speaker 1: a very Mandy thing to do. Mandy went out last
Speaker 1: night and did Molly at a sex club. That's me, bitch.
Speaker 1: But also it sounds like if the two things happened,
Speaker 1: someone went out did Molly and party last night, or
Speaker 1: one got invited to some industry ship. What do you think?
Speaker 1: But also, here's the thing, y'all, I'm blaming the fact
Speaker 1: that I'm still high in grinding my teeth on our
Speaker 1: guest today because he too was at the sex party
Speaker 1: with me last night. And so I would like to
Speaker 1: introduce our guests. Do we introduce ourselves first, No bitch,
Speaker 1: you'll been listening to us, you know what the funk
Speaker 1: this is? Anyway though, So if you're watching on YouTube,
Speaker 1: oh wait, there we go. There is some an anonymity
Speaker 1: this episode, just because you know, we like to protect
Speaker 1: our brothers and sisters that want to be anonymous. So
Speaker 1: today's episode is about hacking. Hold on, hold on, hold on,
Speaker 1: because bad this siding in the building, y'all to mother,
Speaker 1: he's been way too motherfucking long. Our guest today we
Speaker 1: will call him Mel. He is like it's been tall
Speaker 1: six three, beautiful chocolate man who came highly what is
Speaker 1: remember what a beautiful chocolate man? What the whoa Mel?
Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us again. He comes highly referred
Speaker 1: by pretty much half of our fan base who has
Speaker 1: been in. He was referred, He was referred. And then
Speaker 1: when I just mentioned I said, oh my guy, we
Speaker 1: finally got a black man who likes to be paid
Speaker 1: coming on the show on the town Hall. When I
Speaker 1: got off and like four bitches, was like, I'll bet
Speaker 1: you I know who it is, So you, sir, have
Speaker 1: a name around these streets. Thank you for joining us,
Speaker 1: Thank you for having what's on your glasses. They look
Speaker 1: a little wet, probably come from last night. I was like,
Speaker 1: definitely set a little booty scratched. So last night, Melan
Speaker 1: I I he invited me to the Brooklyn uh Swingers Club.
Speaker 1: Is that what we called. It's a private party, don't
Speaker 1: necessarily have a specific name, but they like it like that.
Speaker 1: They aren't you know, it's kind of an invite only thing.
Speaker 1: It wasn't. Yeah, and I'm not gonna lie because it
Speaker 1: wasn't really like a club. I was expecting to walk
Speaker 1: into like a hotel room scene, like one of those
Speaker 1: like you know. Yeah, I was like a little nervous,
Speaker 1: went in there, beautiful, bitch like it was super beautiful.
Speaker 1: Everyone was super friendly. Um and literally I guess by
Speaker 1: the ten minute mark, I was doing Molly with him
Speaker 1: because I'm watching Mandy trying to process some of the things.
Speaker 1: Because so because Mandy talks really fast. I mean, if
Speaker 1: you listen to the show, you know, and me too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you talked when I'm like funked up, like I talked
Speaker 1: really slow. The next am I talking slow? No, But
Speaker 1: I'm just watching you think about thinking. I'm thinking because
Speaker 1: not only was there a lot to remember, hold on bitch,
Speaker 1: don't be laughing. I'm really trying to see her focus.
Speaker 1: So not only was it a lot going on while
Speaker 1: I was on drugs, um, I am trying to remember
Speaker 1: the high points because it was a new and roam
Speaker 1: it for me. I will say, for those of you
Speaker 1: who are not aware, there was like not even one
Speaker 1: white person there was there, so it was all of
Speaker 1: it was. There was one There was one um he
Speaker 1: came with. His friend was a guy I definitely don't
Speaker 1: and they were kind of like, I mean, they're they
Speaker 1: kind of developed a really cool reputation in the group,
Speaker 1: so we're like, okay, you know, he's like, we're trying
Speaker 1: to give Justin pieper right. Yeah, no, no, these guys
Speaker 1: allowed to cook up. So I didn't get to peg him. However,
Speaker 1: I was strapped by a woman surprised me. I literally
Speaker 1: turned to the right and it was like, oh really no, no, no,
Speaker 1: not giving you who does here. I sometimes feel like
Speaker 1: I can't even get too drunk in places when people
Speaker 1: know who I am. The fact that you still get
Speaker 1: lit at sex parties because after people going the next parties,
Speaker 1: let me get it out. I'm lifestyle because I think
Speaker 1: that like a lot of people know about some of
Speaker 1: these places because you mentioned it, and like you're still
Speaker 1: get naked on the beach, You'll still get Like I
Speaker 1: think that's really dope because naked, I can't do it.
Speaker 1: I know you can't because you ain't a realized bit
Speaker 1: give a about nigga like baby, but that you don't.
Speaker 1: I got I got pegged, and what's crazy? As she
Speaker 1: brought all her toys and I went with a friend
Speaker 1: and uh, she was like, pick which one she can take?
Speaker 1: And because first she brought like three over and I
Speaker 1: was like, them things a little, but I don't want
Speaker 1: you to strike me with that little lest thing. She said,
Speaker 1: Oh I got more, I'll be right. Um yeah, at
Speaker 1: the at the first second, um yeah, I'm cool with that.
Speaker 1: But then yeah, we were just feeling on each other
Speaker 1: all night. It was just fivees, you too, not feeling
Speaker 1: on each other all night? Was I mean, well, I
Speaker 1: guess we won't know. I'm just saying, like, I guess
Speaker 1: we're talking about the effects has on we can talk
Speaker 1: about that. So literally, the whole night mail is just
Speaker 1: like get drugs off of the street. This is awful.
Speaker 1: I hate it. So him and my friend we all
Speaker 1: took molly together, they dicks. Just it wasn't right, is that?
Speaker 1: Like you know, if there's any drug that makes that happen,
Speaker 1: then yeah, it can go. So let me ask you this,
Speaker 1: when getting paid um, is the is orgasmic goal for you?
Speaker 1: It is it UM as long as it's done right,
Speaker 1: because you have to know. Like even when I first
Speaker 1: got into it, like, it was a lot of studying
Speaker 1: and learning about mail anatomy and like how it actually
Speaker 1: it brings pleasure to a guy. So it's like and
Speaker 1: so a lot of times when I do do it,
Speaker 1: or if I actually introduce it with somebody, like I'll
Speaker 1: talk to them about like knowing the areas of about
Speaker 1: to like focus on because it can be really just
Speaker 1: nothing and it can be great, Like it just depends
Speaker 1: on the level of expertise. She happen. But I did
Speaker 1: ask him, he's you haven't paid correct in a sex
Speaker 1: club environment before? And why is that um? Generally? Well,
Speaker 1: generally for me, peggy is more of an intimate thing,
Speaker 1: so it's more of a like a lot of people, Okay,
Speaker 1: so this is another thing. I guess it will in
Speaker 1: terms of like UM, like I guess masculine rule or masculine. Um.
Speaker 1: I guess the thought process towards it, like being very um,
Speaker 1: it can be kind of well, a lot of people
Speaker 1: when they do it, they're automatically thinking that it's going
Speaker 1: to be more of a dumb type situation where it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, this is my bitch or this is like,
Speaker 1: you know whatever, and they're being they A lot of
Speaker 1: times they think of Peggy and they think of like, uh,
Speaker 1: the degradation and stuff like that. Whereas like for me,
Speaker 1: if I do it, I like it to be very
Speaker 1: sent I could be very like it's it's a whole scene,
Speaker 1: how is essential in a train that story coming up?
Speaker 1: I'm high, but I know, but I want you to
Speaker 1: get into your moment. That was very much more comfortable
Speaker 1: situation because I knew the people that I can also
Speaker 1: see how like I feel like with really vulnerable sex,
Speaker 1: like for example, um, if I wanted to get like
Speaker 1: slapped or like using like let's just say, certain kinds
Speaker 1: of toys on me, or maybe if it was a
Speaker 1: leash or a call or something like that. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I could do it in a sex club either,
Speaker 1: because I want I don't want to think about anyone
Speaker 1: else watching me like or thinking it's just and you
Speaker 1: know what you're doing is already taboo. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: that you're not comfortable with it, because I think I'm
Speaker 1: comfortable with my sexuality, but just I don't know how
Speaker 1: I feel about everyone else being involved in it sometimes
Speaker 1: when it is certain type of sex. So I want
Speaker 1: to ask you to just so there are sneers can
Speaker 1: get an idea of who you are, your age, your height,
Speaker 1: and how do you identify what is your sexual orientation?
Speaker 1: So I am thirty three, I am six three, I
Speaker 1: am straight? Yes, okay, and you clearly do the sex club.
Speaker 1: How would you identify relationship wise or lifestyle wise? Where
Speaker 1: do you fall in the spectrum? Um? I well, okay,
Speaker 1: So I guess it depends on which part of the
Speaker 1: life style you' talking about. So B D, s M
Speaker 1: right that whole realm. Consider myself a switch so UM
Speaker 1: or dom leaning switch? I guess you would say generally.
Speaker 1: The only reason that I would even consider myself submissive
Speaker 1: in that sense is because in trying pegging, I realized
Speaker 1: that it's best enjoy when you give up control, right
Speaker 1: and so um. And that was a little difficult at
Speaker 1: first too. Like what they called topping from the bottom.
Speaker 1: You're trying to direct and like tell her to do whatever.
Speaker 1: And remember the first time we got into this like
Speaker 1: power struggle, this girl was just like, yo, just shut up,
Speaker 1: like just let me let me do this, like stop
Speaker 1: trying to you know, take over, and just let me
Speaker 1: let me do what I do. And I was like okay,
Speaker 1: and then she's like, you know what, turn around and
Speaker 1: get on all fours. And she was like that way,
Speaker 1: you can't touch me, you can't see me. You literally
Speaker 1: have no control. And I realized I enjoy it. I
Speaker 1: found out I enjoyed it like certain physicians make you
Speaker 1: feel that like different. Yeah, like was there a difference
Speaker 1: from back and being on all fours originally, but that
Speaker 1: that was because especially especially if you're doing with somebody
Speaker 1: that you are not fully fully trusting in, or like
Speaker 1: somebody you haven't been around a long time, like some
Speaker 1: people know, like I've had it. Somebody say like, you know,
Speaker 1: I could never see you as like a sissy or
Speaker 1: a woosy or whatever, because I know you in real life.
Speaker 1: I know how you are as a person. I know
Speaker 1: you run to your life very like in a dominant way.
Speaker 1: So she's like, I can never think that even if
Speaker 1: I wanted to, Whereas like, there are a lot of
Speaker 1: women who they'll put on a trap one. They get
Speaker 1: this power a little power trip, and they want to
Speaker 1: go off, you know, calling everybody, calling the guy bitch
Speaker 1: or you know, my little sub boy, or you don't
Speaker 1: like being humiliated necessarily in um while getting packed. So
Speaker 1: that's really what it is, and and UM for context
Speaker 1: when while he's using some words like that, A lot
Speaker 1: of some of the pegging videos you can watch or
Speaker 1: things like that, people enjoy being talked down to. They
Speaker 1: like the um degradation like you were talking about, Like,
Speaker 1: that's the reason why a lot of guys don't won't
Speaker 1: come out and admit that, because that's automatically the first
Speaker 1: ums that like, you're, you know, not really a strong person,
Speaker 1: are you very just like submissive in that sense, And
Speaker 1: so a lot of guys don't want that stigma, so
Speaker 1: they just don't say anything. I love that you brought
Speaker 1: that up because there's so many girls and men who
Speaker 1: are like, wait, you could still respect that guy after
Speaker 1: you did that. There's a lot of like conversations as
Speaker 1: to how a woman perceives a man who even allows
Speaker 1: them to do that. But I want to nothing is
Speaker 1: wrong with a guy that does like ship like that, right,
Speaker 1: It's like I think it's more so that, um, it's
Speaker 1: more commonplace for women too. I'm trying to find the
Speaker 1: word because I feel like every time we talked about
Speaker 1: pegging or we've had the discussion and we talked about
Speaker 1: it so much right over the last few years, but
Speaker 1: like we talk about it always the conversation about women
Speaker 1: talking about basically that niggl like being her bitch or
Speaker 1: not wanting to have that dynamic. It as like so
Speaker 1: I've seen I've seen a huge humanity of both women.
Speaker 1: So like there's been a community where you know, and
Speaker 1: it just depends on your background, like what you have
Speaker 1: kind of raised, what you've kind of been raised as
Speaker 1: like your things that you require in your man. Like
Speaker 1: some people they're like, no, I don't want my man
Speaker 1: to seem like he's you know, weak in that sense,
Speaker 1: and they want a man who just doesn't give him
Speaker 1: any question like like, um, I can't question this man sexuality,
Speaker 1: whereas UM, you have some women who like I remember
Speaker 1: the first time I kind of like came out and
Speaker 1: told this woman that I had met a out it.
Speaker 1: Um it was actually a munch and she said like
Speaker 1: she was just she started smiling as I started telling
Speaker 1: there and and she waited till the very anti I
Speaker 1: told her everything, and then she was just like, you
Speaker 1: have no idea how many women wish they could find
Speaker 1: a man that was into that, that was you know,
Speaker 1: down to earth, cool, laid back, not like can I
Speaker 1: have something to that? Though? Specifically black men, that is
Speaker 1: that is the conversation. And that's why I like, every
Speaker 1: time I even say I've picked someone, they'd be like, well, what,
Speaker 1: I ain't never white person, but they are so shocked
Speaker 1: that I've been able to peg black men and black men,
Speaker 1: none of them under six three? So what do you
Speaker 1: think about why that is? Like, why why do you
Speaker 1: think that, um, it's not as commonplace for black men
Speaker 1: or would a lot of black men are. They're raised
Speaker 1: to be like they're raised to kind of taught that
Speaker 1: they are supposed to be in control of a situation,
Speaker 1: their situations, and so you know, even as a even
Speaker 1: as a kid, you know, being on like the playground,
Speaker 1: somebody messes with your girl is very much like yo,
Speaker 1: like you know, you gotta you gotta buck up and
Speaker 1: you gotta, you know, protect your territory. And so it's
Speaker 1: it's a lot of it comes from like this whole
Speaker 1: territorial thing of um, we're not really necessary territory, but
Speaker 1: it's it's definitely people feel like to feel pleasure down there,
Speaker 1: what kind of automatically constitute you as somebody who could
Speaker 1: be interested in any form of receiving that same type
Speaker 1: of pleasure We're not to be from a guy from wherever.
Speaker 1: And it's and it's like, no, like I don't find
Speaker 1: guys attractive. I don't see a guy and be like
Speaker 1: he's you know, he's a tractor. I want to know
Speaker 1: it's it's literally and that was a little bit of
Speaker 1: the connundrate for me. I was introduced to this like
Speaker 1: to an know played by a partner of my long
Speaker 1: time ago, and and I was just I've always been
Speaker 1: like very much a curious So we're gonna try whatever
Speaker 1: um at least once or twice, maybe three times. But
Speaker 1: the ain't trying the third time. That didn't even try
Speaker 1: no more, you're a pro. But luckily, I think for me,
Speaker 1: I've had so many like good experiences sexually that it's
Speaker 1: just increased the curiosity. So some people go through the
Speaker 1: situation I don't necessarily have a great experience with it, um,
Speaker 1: and then they don't want to try to move on
Speaker 1: anything further than that sense. But I just had a
Speaker 1: lot of great partners who were very like like, they
Speaker 1: were very caring, they were very like attentive, they were
Speaker 1: very much like they kind of they may knew what
Speaker 1: they were doing, and so it just opened up more
Speaker 1: and more curiosity down the line where your relationship wise, uh,
Speaker 1: currently I'm single, Well not that, but what is your
Speaker 1: relationship dynamic? Are you a swinger? Are you non monogamous
Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship? Are you monogamous? So I've
Speaker 1: had a mix, right, So I've done monogamy, Um, I've
Speaker 1: done polyamory, I've done UM, and I've tried different and
Speaker 1: and so some of them, I mean, they both all
Speaker 1: have their ups and downs. It really just to ends
Speaker 1: on the type of partner you are able to come
Speaker 1: in contact with and like their level of communication. Um.
Speaker 1: It's interesting, Like a lot of people, I think that
Speaker 1: polyamory is a good way to kind of like sec
Speaker 1: like to fix some of the things that they see
Speaker 1: is issues in monogamy. So say, it's like you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship and you guys are going through situations. I've
Speaker 1: seen couples try to come into polyamory saying like, let's
Speaker 1: try to be Polly to help our relationship, where it's like, no,
Speaker 1: you kind of need to fix your relationship first, because polyamory,
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people do have this notion about
Speaker 1: polyamoraies being like I just get to have sex multiple people,
Speaker 1: and it's like, no, it's not as the case, you
Speaker 1: necessarily have to you have to take a monog relationship
Speaker 1: just multiplied. So if you can't make a monog relationship work,
Speaker 1: then you're really not gonna be able to make a
Speaker 1: describe polyamory like multiplying the monogogy. I really like that
Speaker 1: because when I describe it, I'm always thinking of or
Speaker 1: saying people that are in relationships separately with each other
Speaker 1: and maybe they'll blend. And the reason I don't like polyamory,
Speaker 1: it's because it is outside relationships opposed to something more casual.
Speaker 1: But that was great, but it's and it's also like
Speaker 1: it's another level of honesty that a lot of people
Speaker 1: just have. No they don't really understand, like, um, I'm
Speaker 1: not ignoring you were pulling up our outt like, but
Speaker 1: it's it's a it's a level of like of honesty
Speaker 1: that people are just not used to and because you
Speaker 1: in order for probably amy to really work, you have
Speaker 1: to really be very uh like open about like your
Speaker 1: sexual history and like your your desires like um, because
Speaker 1: it has to be like this huge lize once you
Speaker 1: start bringing to other people's emotions, a level of honesty
Speaker 1: and trust has to be so much higher. So it's
Speaker 1: actually not to be successful in polymor is actually a
Speaker 1: lot more work than monogamy. People think it's a cop
Speaker 1: out like Polly and like, oh, let's just be Polly
Speaker 1: people emotionally physically like just having sex with motile people.
Speaker 1: It was like, yeah, you know, I deal with your
Speaker 1: emotions in the moment when we're together. But it's like
Speaker 1: probably amory, you remember birthdays and you gotta remember like
Speaker 1: you know, the that graduation. Yeah, it's still it's still
Speaker 1: very much like like a communication thing where you have
Speaker 1: to be able to manage all of it, and so
Speaker 1: people people will go into it and not know their
Speaker 1: limit in terms of how many people they can manage
Speaker 1: at one time, and then they get caught up, and
Speaker 1: it's like, you can't take care of everybody's I'm back
Speaker 1: to the streets and I'm gonna take care of these dicks.
Speaker 1: I'll be lying, I'll be lying. Withey, why do I
Speaker 1: be lying? Because it's like I was ready but the streets,
Speaker 1: but I just don't know. Um. I want to get
Speaker 1: into our vanilla ship because while we were speaking about kids,
Speaker 1: Oh god, a mom age and daughter are so close
Speaker 1: in fact that they view each other's sex tapes to
Speaker 1: swap till physicians and lingerie. Wasn't that TLC Discovery okay,
Speaker 1: which also hosts t LC. And I just want to say,
Speaker 1: which cameras on me? Jordan? This one right here? I
Speaker 1: want you to know whoever works for Discovery or TLC.
Speaker 1: I just want to say thank you from the bottom
Speaker 1: of my heart because I fell into a deep depression
Speaker 1: around two thousand eighteen where I discovered ninety D Fiance
Speaker 1: and it took me right out. Not to mention, has
Speaker 1: it not only taken me out of depression, I am
Speaker 1: now known for doing NINETYD Fiance voices, to the point
Speaker 1: where ninety Fiance cast members have asked me to send
Speaker 1: them voice messages of their voices. Also, on top of that,
Speaker 1: it has been such a joy to just have nothing
Speaker 1: to do. And then I just click on that Discovery
Speaker 1: app because now the commercials are on and they're seeking
Speaker 1: sister wife breaking on that okay, six pound life. Then
Speaker 1: on top of that, my weird obsessions eating fucking cotton
Speaker 1: out of a mattress. It's just you guys, never stop.
Speaker 1: And now we have a mom and daughter shaving each
Speaker 1: other's asshole on is that really what they're doing. I
Speaker 1: watched the video sou Mother Dream Sisters where the sisters
Speaker 1: fuck the same nigga and want to ovulate and have
Speaker 1: a baby with him. It is just like, I don't
Speaker 1: know who does the cast. Wait, I went to a
Speaker 1: sex party one and twins and were they playing with
Speaker 1: each other? Not each other the the guys there. It
Speaker 1: was weird because the guys there had this fantasy they
Speaker 1: wanted to see it happen and they were like, no, no,
Speaker 1: we're not gonna do that. But they were like right
Speaker 1: next to each other on the bed like when girl
Speaker 1: was with one guy when girls and I don't know
Speaker 1: if I could do that with I have seen on
Speaker 1: the only fans a mom and daughter like like they
Speaker 1: were like dance and you know, we're lingree together. But
Speaker 1: then they have their own like separate pages as well.
Speaker 1: And but the mom that the one that they had together,
Speaker 1: they would like they might bring in a guy and
Speaker 1: like they're together, but they you know, they wouldn't touch
Speaker 1: each other, they wouldn't be there all that, but they
Speaker 1: played with the same guy together. Yeah, they this This
Speaker 1: says that they discussed different sexual positions that they could
Speaker 1: try with their respective partners and the outfits that would
Speaker 1: best please them. But they do admit that they're significant
Speaker 1: has um have not really appreciated their closeness in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Uh what's crazy is that both of these women are
Speaker 1: black as well. So I know y'all thought it was
Speaker 1: white people ship, but no people then it was like
Speaker 1: we'd be working together. That The pairs say they have
Speaker 1: been inseparable since the passing of her father who died
Speaker 1: in a car accident and when she was seven, why
Speaker 1: you right, you right, the daughters he passed away in
Speaker 1: a car accident, and it made them closer to got it.
Speaker 1: Here we go and we live in Jackson, Alabama. Okay together, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean everything watching them together, cooling together, I can't
Speaker 1: imagine my life without my mom being a know what
Speaker 1: to do, how to function. I've had people say that
Speaker 1: we're too close. All right, you got to spread it
Speaker 1: open a little. My mother and I have been wax
Speaker 1: in each other for quite some time. Okay, that's not awful.
Speaker 1: I showed her my first six tape about two years ago.
Speaker 1: I showed her my first six tape maybe a year ago.
Speaker 1: What kind of positions do you think I should do?
Speaker 1: Or what do you think we should do? And she
Speaker 1: was just like, oh, girl, propped your leg up in
Speaker 1: this angle. Maybe you're not been a little bit more
Speaker 1: arshed than this position. And he was like, you, my daughter, Bro,
Speaker 1: that was TLC. I'm telling you them nigs deserve a
Speaker 1: raised over there. So you've never been in a in
Speaker 1: a sex pub space where there was a mother daughter duo, No,
Speaker 1: not that I have. I think I've ran into two
Speaker 1: men that have sucked a mother and daughter. I think
Speaker 1: old Babe sucked a mother and daughter, not at the
Speaker 1: same time, but like the mom was coming to him after.
Speaker 1: And then I knew an other guy that told me
Speaker 1: that he sucked them like literally went room to room,
Speaker 1: get the funk outta here. Sick to me. You wait,
Speaker 1: you saw the white girl from TikTok and she posted
Speaker 1: and she was like, I let my man play with
Speaker 1: my mom. Da you see them? No, because I'm not
Speaker 1: on TikTok because I'm all commit either people just tag
Speaker 1: me and stuff on Twitter. Listen, I ain't gonna hold
Speaker 1: you ere time I see the little tickettok because I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, and getting old because how long does
Speaker 1: it take to edit these taking just to get a
Speaker 1: little real done with the pr team that told me
Speaker 1: not even lying. They were like coming up with strategy
Speaker 1: for my TV show and they're like, oh, we could
Speaker 1: also do horrible decisions. I'm like, what kind of stuff
Speaker 1: would you recommend if we brought you on. She's like, well,
Speaker 1: we've got to do a TikTok. I was like, We've
Speaker 1: got it in the conversation. No, I mean we could
Speaker 1: do it, but we just gotta have somebody know we
Speaker 1: can upload clips to TikTok. When you think I'm about
Speaker 1: to be out there with Mandy like this, she made it,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing I'm not doing that. So I realized
Speaker 1: I can't dance, So bro, I will say I love
Speaker 1: black TikTok straight right now, that's funny. Oh, I didn't
Speaker 1: realize that was even a thing because the white people
Speaker 1: ain't made one a dance yet to make hilarious. It's like,
Speaker 1: it's great. I love a good like Twitter TikTok drama.
Speaker 1: I just be like Twitter used to just be the ship.
Speaker 1: It's still Twitter. Twitter is still the funniest ship in
Speaker 1: the world to me. I want to get into our
Speaker 1: hoard Derve because now, guys, the moment you''ve been waiting
Speaker 1: for all we get into the real conversations with the
Speaker 1: pagan beach. So our hoard Derve segment is sex tips.
Speaker 1: Mel we come to you, Mr professional. I mean I'm
Speaker 1: a pro too, but you're the man now, So I
Speaker 1: would love for you to give I would love for
Speaker 1: you to give a tip. First two women who are
Speaker 1: interested in pegging. So the standpoint that I want to
Speaker 1: give is, this woman has her strap on, and like
Speaker 1: you said, what advice would you give to a woman
Speaker 1: to make sure she ensures that the man enjoys himself
Speaker 1: what like some dudes and don't. So pegging is definitely
Speaker 1: a I mean yeah, it's it's something that people do
Speaker 1: and they enjoy the power trip of it. Women love
Speaker 1: to like walk around waving their strap ones in there,
Speaker 1: but it is definitely a an activity that you have
Speaker 1: to be very conscious about your partners. So you have
Speaker 1: to be very like communicative, make sure like they're you know,
Speaker 1: like make sure they continuously okay. Um. A lot of
Speaker 1: times people can go into you know, power trip and
Speaker 1: they forget that they're you know, forget about him, and
Speaker 1: he might not want to make any noise or say
Speaker 1: something because he doesn't want to feel what about the
Speaker 1: words that he's Like Mandy calls it her dick? Do
Speaker 1: you like, like, are you okay with women calling it
Speaker 1: their dick? Like? Do you work for the words trap?
Speaker 1: To be honest, I've never really had something called a day.
Speaker 1: They call it a strap, you know, they're like, I
Speaker 1: call it a trap. But I've heard you'd be like,
Speaker 1: it's my dick, okay. So I have heard them like
Speaker 1: joke like they'd be like, oh, this feels like I
Speaker 1: got a dick on, like you know, I'm talking about
Speaker 1: when it's inside of you. When I'm like when I'm
Speaker 1: oh wait now, I have said that, I've been like
Speaker 1: you like this dick like wall like because I do.
Speaker 1: Like the man actually heard that at one point in time,
Speaker 1: but I wasn't thinking about it. I was like, you
Speaker 1: know whatever, right, I mean, yeah, I mean I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna yeah, I think I do. I'm okay with letting
Speaker 1: them have their moment, right so they you know, I'm like,
Speaker 1: let big dick. It's big, that's what it is. It's big.
Speaker 1: You're a big dick. That's why you don't care big. Honestly,
Speaker 1: it's big. It's even a big song. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you something. I'm not kidding. Like the older I get
Speaker 1: in big dick energy. I understand it's like confidence or whatever,
Speaker 1: but like they're certain little things. Once I start talking
Speaker 1: to someone to tell me it's either maybe I'm saying
Speaker 1: something emasculating like nick in it and they don't get
Speaker 1: too testy with me. That's big dig shit. And if
Speaker 1: you ain't getting bothered by a girl saying like that,
Speaker 1: that's because you're a big day. Yeah. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: plenty of times where like that's just that, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: which do you prefer? Oh, in terms of oh, it's
Speaker 1: it's both for the sharp one like okay, So that
Speaker 1: that kind of leads into the whole like group. We'll
Speaker 1: get there. We'll get there right after. So um, definitely
Speaker 1: more of a thin but like okay, so once you
Speaker 1: kind of learn more about like the anal canal, you
Speaker 1: learn about like taking the prostating. Like like a lot
Speaker 1: of women think that they're gonna walk in there with
Speaker 1: like a twelve inch like strap on. It's like, no,
Speaker 1: like that's not how this works. That's the one that's
Speaker 1: the one that was picked last night first for me,
Speaker 1: Well for you, that's fine. Put that ship on and
Speaker 1: it was down to her knee because you're right, because
Speaker 1: you're yeah, you know, imagine can now I can take
Speaker 1: more than that? Like like there's like a certain if
Speaker 1: you So I bought an actual set, right and so
Speaker 1: the set itself it comes with a strap one that
Speaker 1: has or one of the attachments, and it feels it
Speaker 1: seems like they perfectly playing out the distance, like the
Speaker 1: length of it, like it doesn't go too deep, it
Speaker 1: doesn't like hurt you, it doesn't you know whatever. Um,
Speaker 1: but there are people that come in there with these
Speaker 1: you know longer the hey, who's gonna take this? And
Speaker 1: it's like no, nobody doesn't take that. That always shocks
Speaker 1: me when I watched more like I'm always in pain.
Speaker 1: It makes me like, well, the thing is like okay.
Speaker 1: Another thing I had to learn about it was that
Speaker 1: as a tip for men interested, so um, okay, now
Speaker 1: if you have a partner that is very willing, then
Speaker 1: yes that you know, we'll say that different once take
Speaker 1: But the one I will give for that person would
Speaker 1: be make sure you train ahead of time, like they're
Speaker 1: a whole Anal training kids. You can order from Amazon.
Speaker 1: There are videos and like um and lots of articles
Speaker 1: about like understanding, how to relax, how to um you know,
Speaker 1: kind of like gradually train up to a point where
Speaker 1: you can take a certain size like strap one, um,
Speaker 1: and so like take your time doing it, like don't
Speaker 1: try to rush into it. A lot of the reasons
Speaker 1: that a lot of women that I meet have this
Speaker 1: really bad stigma tooris Anal is that like they ended
Speaker 1: up with somebody who just tried to shove it in
Speaker 1: like and they didn't. They weren't they didn't have the patience,
Speaker 1: they didn't have the knowledge, they didn't have them they
Speaker 1: kind of like know how on how to make it
Speaker 1: a pleasurable experience because once you actually get to a
Speaker 1: point where it is pleasurable, like it is pleasurable an
Speaker 1: orgasm before I know, I do want to add a
Speaker 1: tip to uh, and we spoke about it. You actually
Speaker 1: have your own strap and deldo, which I love because
Speaker 1: I'll say for and this is an advice for for
Speaker 1: men um. What I've first did pegging for the very
Speaker 1: first time, I went to the sex sort of travel
Speaker 1: with it and she just gave me like a prostate dildo,
Speaker 1: but it was literally just a cylinder with a hook
Speaker 1: at the end. Didn't look like a dick dildo. It
Speaker 1: was like that, but it was definitely harder than like
Speaker 1: the dildos that kind of feel more real. But I
Speaker 1: think in his head he for sure did not want
Speaker 1: it to look like a dick. But when we when
Speaker 1: I ended up using my dildo, the feeling was much better.
Speaker 1: So I would suggest a for the man to go
Speaker 1: and try out what feels best in his ask because
Speaker 1: that hard one was not very enjoyable. And also to
Speaker 1: just get out of your mind that you don't want
Speaker 1: a dick hard like no, no, like it was like
Speaker 1: it was really hard, but what is it. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: give a plug? Right, So, like like I've experienced like
Speaker 1: the silicone I experienced, like and I don't like it.
Speaker 1: I don't like to feel a bit hard. Um. I
Speaker 1: actually found a strap one set made by Doc Johnson
Speaker 1: and that's what I have. And they've been trying to
Speaker 1: come on horrible decisions and I really keep like it
Speaker 1: really pisces me off, like coming on, come on and
Speaker 1: send a representative like pay us. And then they had
Speaker 1: the nerve to say they wanted to send some free toys.
Speaker 1: They've been doing this for almost five years and that's
Speaker 1: why I'm annoyed. But go ahead, plug. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: they got they got some product, but you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So they have that and it's and it's
Speaker 1: has like a skin field kind of so it feels
Speaker 1: softer like yeah yeah, but and then and then so
Speaker 1: then um trying it. At first I thought it was great, right,
Speaker 1: but then I found out they had like a vibrating
Speaker 1: base like that you can attach in there and the
Speaker 1: old thing vibrates. So it actually provides a little bit
Speaker 1: of pleasure for the woman because a lot of times
Speaker 1: women they're not really they're like, okay, you know, I'll
Speaker 1: do it, but it's done. Double ended stuff. Double ended
Speaker 1: um um nor huh for her, like because like with
Speaker 1: a strap, you could have a double ended one like
Speaker 1: I've used that for myself with women not from um oh,
Speaker 1: like the insertable one, like the what did you mean
Speaker 1: you only got one? I thought she was like a woman.
Speaker 1: That's what I was hold on I've met like the
Speaker 1: strap because they could have the double ended joint, but
Speaker 1: also like they have okay, so they have the insertable
Speaker 1: one that has like a little piece that goes inside
Speaker 1: of you and you're supposed to be able to hold
Speaker 1: it with KEI was technically right, But they also have
Speaker 1: the long one with two used that I have. I
Speaker 1: have not used it. Actually i've used it, and it's
Speaker 1: so difficult because it has to be long for it
Speaker 1: to be good and like scissors, and I kept trying
Speaker 1: to use it and it was like fun because it
Speaker 1: kept slipping out, So you have to be very close
Speaker 1: to each other. Right, it's jelly and it bends or
Speaker 1: like whatever whatever soft it was. But like it's hard
Speaker 1: because you're like basically one. Well even the girl the
Speaker 1: girl last night that pegged me, um, it's still it's
Speaker 1: still pegging when it's the girl on girl, Well, she's
Speaker 1: trapped me. There we go, she's trapped me. And when
Speaker 1: she when she went, she also let me know that
Speaker 1: she was putting a whole different toy in her pussy.
Speaker 1: So while she sucked me, the dick vibrated. Also, her
Speaker 1: pussy was vibrating. And not even that she had a
Speaker 1: vibrating ain't plug too. She looked well black version of me.
Speaker 1: She had pink hair and everything big like she was leaving.
Speaker 1: She was like, where's my have to drop this tomorrow? Bro?
Speaker 1: Pride weekend for one for two? Now, we're not dropping
Speaker 1: this tomorrow? Why not? Because I don't need people knowing
Speaker 1: that this weekend was this weekend. I like our ship
Speaker 1: being untimely. Y'all don't know what then going untimely? Yeah, bitch,
Speaker 1: I don't need people clocking this pussy the Sunday. Sorry June,
Speaker 1: nob you can't be all July sixteenth, Yeah, that's gonna
Speaker 1: come out of uh what it is? Okay, July just no, no,
Speaker 1: let's open the booty. Okay, it's gonna it's gonna drop
Speaker 1: in May Jordan. Okay, wait, it'll drop into Yeah, bitch,
Speaker 1: they don't know whitness ship. Now we're gonna drop it
Speaker 1: in may fools. All right, so let me let's get
Speaker 1: let's get into let's get into the Peggy. I want
Speaker 1: to hear the stories because, like I said, you came
Speaker 1: highly referred. Every time she says referred, what he was referred,
Speaker 1: only laughing because like he wasn't referred, you know you was.
Speaker 1: When you use that term, I think of like you're
Speaker 1: hiring someone like we need sound panels done, we need
Speaker 1: like we need somebody we got referred. If you need something,
Speaker 1: it's asking. Well, to be honest, I don't know't know
Speaker 1: that's why they referred, but they probably referred because they
Speaker 1: just I think one night talking about it could have
Speaker 1: been from my you know well, I mean they know
Speaker 1: that I'm okay, they know I'm okay talking about it like,
Speaker 1: well can we talk about okay? You are thirty three correct?
Speaker 1: You got into pegging? When and how how were you
Speaker 1: introduced to it? What was your first experience like being pegged?
Speaker 1: So a couple of years ago. Um, the first experience
Speaker 1: actually well actually scratch that, first experience with anal plate
Speaker 1: in general was like two thousand, like fifteen or something
Speaker 1: like that. Um, And it was a girl who we
Speaker 1: were She told me that she you know, was freaker
Speaker 1: than me. And I was like, nah, you're going to
Speaker 1: prove that. And so she she got some toy out
Speaker 1: of this at her little drawer and and I was like,
Speaker 1: like I said, I was always I was up for
Speaker 1: like just trying it. And I think you say that
Speaker 1: all the time. Watch your mouth, watch your fucking mouth,
Speaker 1: like y'all. Y'all could go round and rounds when you're
Speaker 1: not gonna say. I'm not gonna say. But she beat
Speaker 1: me like competition, but like she um, she definitely open
Speaker 1: eyes to something different because I wasn't didn't know how
Speaker 1: it was gonna feel, and she was very good with it.
Speaker 1: And um, I guess they call it milked. I got
Speaker 1: milk And I was like, can we elaborate that jump
Speaker 1: for people I don't know? Okay, So your your prostate
Speaker 1: is um. It's a sack inside of your anus about
Speaker 1: three inches up three inches then and up um. And
Speaker 1: it's where you're kind of production scene of your sperm.
Speaker 1: And so when it's stimulated, it produces more so like
Speaker 1: like to get to a point where you're like shooting knows,
Speaker 1: like huge like nuts off. Like massaging the prostate will
Speaker 1: build that up in a person um. It's very similar
Speaker 1: to female g spot. Like if you do it correctly,
Speaker 1: you might feel like eventually like you have to pee
Speaker 1: and you're doing this like squirt right, so it's the
Speaker 1: same actual feeling. It starts to feel like something's filling
Speaker 1: up inside of you, like as it's like massaged or
Speaker 1: play with and and doing it is for a guy.
Speaker 1: Doing it continuously is like a form of edging for
Speaker 1: us um. But yeah, once that prostate is well, once
Speaker 1: you're you ejaculated, it's easily like the first time I
Speaker 1: think it had is shooting everywhere. It shot, hit the wall.
Speaker 1: It's fun and air. She was like, she was like,
Speaker 1: I didn't expect it to be this much like she
Speaker 1: like covered it and I was like, well, people, people
Speaker 1: are right, but the fact that the time it surprised
Speaker 1: me too. Tongue and the fingers are the gateway, THENTO
Speaker 1: pecking right, it'll get you there potentially, in my opinion
Speaker 1: of vibrating toy, because one just think there's a muscle
Speaker 1: and so in order to relax it, the use of
Speaker 1: the easiest way is to use a vibrating toy. See woman,
Speaker 1: that gets like, because whatever we all have an asshole
Speaker 1: when you know you want something in it. Tongue doesn't
Speaker 1: make me want anything in my ass. Actually it doesn't
Speaker 1: not for me either. Actually, I mean I like, well,
Speaker 1: I feel like once someone is comfortable with getting their
Speaker 1: ass eight, then they're probably okay now with fingers. Once
Speaker 1: you have the fingers in there and you see that
Speaker 1: you actually enjoy the penetration of it, then you may
Speaker 1: consider then you'll be like, well, damn, yeah, what else
Speaker 1: can I put up in here? So when the girl
Speaker 1: said that she was freaking at me, that was the
Speaker 1: first thing she did. And I was that was the
Speaker 1: first time I've ever had that done. So I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: I on someone's hand or on their strap. No never
Speaker 1: how he said, study, Like I said, it's about the
Speaker 1: research I studied, learning about you know, doing an enema properly,
Speaker 1: you know, making sure you're cleaned out. That we don't
Speaker 1: be planning. You don't eat a bunch of cheese and night.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm about to say, we don't be
Speaker 1: planning anal and I drink coffee every day, So depending
Speaker 1: on over and depending on the milk that was in
Speaker 1: that coffee, what brought this was so much hotter before
Speaker 1: you started. I mean, but the crazy thing is too.
Speaker 1: They also always assumed that a straight man's ass is
Speaker 1: not as taken care of as a give man. But
Speaker 1: I don't assume it. I think it's just I just
Speaker 1: your partners. I'm very big on I'm gonna stickler when
Speaker 1: it comes to Hadgi. Right. So the last thing I
Speaker 1: wanted to do was to be in a situation where
Speaker 1: like I'm shipping on a strap like that's that's crazy.
Speaker 1: And so because I mean even like everything will just
Speaker 1: turn off the whole situation, like the smell, the like
Speaker 1: Paul's just like okay. And so I make sure like
Speaker 1: like I said, I did my you know, resetarch ahead
Speaker 1: of town to make sure. I because all the all
Speaker 1: the articles and blogs were all like make sure you
Speaker 1: learn about cleaning yourself, like how often would you want
Speaker 1: to be paid or do you get paid? Like, so
Speaker 1: there's an interesting thing because there's a lot of work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course, as the episode is about picking right, So um,
Speaker 1: I actually it's not something a lot of people think
Speaker 1: that once you get it, it's like, oh now I
Speaker 1: might here feeding for it and I'm not here like yeo,
Speaker 1: we gotta have this every time. No, this may happen
Speaker 1: like once I was yeah, maybe like once a month,
Speaker 1: maybe twice a month. But it's like, but it's like
Speaker 1: doing it. Like I haven't even had people who felt
Speaker 1: like a little insecure because they're like, you know, do
Speaker 1: I have to do this with you every time? And
Speaker 1: I'm like no, like I don't. Really. It's not like
Speaker 1: a then something it's great to have, but like i'd
Speaker 1: rather have with somebody who was extremely excited to do it,
Speaker 1: versus somebody who's like, I gotta feeling like I got
Speaker 1: to do this as a chore to make you happy,
Speaker 1: and it's like, no, it's not the case, Like I
Speaker 1: can still have regular sex and be perfectly fine. I
Speaker 1: mean that's that's why I went to So when I
Speaker 1: went to the other type club, they did a pegging
Speaker 1: demo and uh my X was like, you should go
Speaker 1: because I know that this is your thing and if
Speaker 1: this needs to get you off, because we never did that,
Speaker 1: and it's just been very like you could go and
Speaker 1: do it if you won't because you're not getting here,
Speaker 1: but if it's something you need to go do it.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I enjoyed that more than what you're
Speaker 1: saying where it becomes a chore, because anytime sex becomes
Speaker 1: a chore, it becomes unenjoyable. I do want to get
Speaker 1: to though, the first time you experienced it and who
Speaker 1: you had get you in there because it wasn't a partner, correct, No,
Speaker 1: So I actually reached out to a a dumb who
Speaker 1: who identified as lesbian. And I did that because I
Speaker 1: didn't want I wanted her to be able to focus,
Speaker 1: like you know, I wanted to make sure that she
Speaker 1: was focused on me, focused on making sure it was
Speaker 1: a good experience where it's like, um, somebody who I
Speaker 1: felt was like attracted the men might you know, be
Speaker 1: all in their feelings or I don't know, they just
Speaker 1: might be really horny or whatever. I wanted her to
Speaker 1: be able to focus on it, right. You reached out
Speaker 1: to a lesbian dum So I was in like a
Speaker 1: little group chat and like we were, and I knew
Speaker 1: some people in there, and I knew that she was
Speaker 1: she was done identified as lesbian, and so I reached
Speaker 1: out to her and she was like yeah, sure, and
Speaker 1: like we she was very good because she at really
Speaker 1: knew the right questions to ask, like she knew like
Speaker 1: all the things to negotiate before the whole scene happened. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so she wanted to know like whether or not she
Speaker 1: could pull my hair, was or not she could, um
Speaker 1: you know, call me names, whether or not she could
Speaker 1: slap me or spank me or um. You know. She
Speaker 1: was like, we're gonna set up a safe word just
Speaker 1: in case, like something goes wrong and you you know,
Speaker 1: you want me to slow down or stop. Like she
Speaker 1: was very big on, um on trying to understand my
Speaker 1: pain tolerance, understand like how far I was ahead in
Speaker 1: my training. And she even like gave assignments, like she
Speaker 1: was like, I want you to do this tonight, and
Speaker 1: that night she was very good. Yeah. And um, and
Speaker 1: so the first time, like it wasn't like a huge
Speaker 1: like it felt kind of just natural, like we we
Speaker 1: were already friends and it was it just kind of
Speaker 1: felt very chill, um. And it was actually a very
Speaker 1: enjoyable time. Actually, the first time was actually was watched
Speaker 1: by five women. Watched by five women. Is that the
Speaker 1: story that I'm hearing from shout out to the hor Hive?
Speaker 1: That's actually that's actually a different one, right, Okay, So
Speaker 1: tell us what the hor Hive did to you? Um,
Speaker 1: so that one actually kind of happened by chance. Right.
Speaker 1: So we had, you know, taken this little like mini
Speaker 1: vacation um. And it was a group of ten of
Speaker 1: us and we're taking a mini vacation. Um. We were
Speaker 1: um like a little like a cabin thing that we
Speaker 1: had read it. And so there was a girl there
Speaker 1: who actually was also bisexual, and she had brought a
Speaker 1: strap one and they and they had known that I
Speaker 1: was into it, so they kept saying like, hey, man,
Speaker 1: bringing strap one, bring a trap one. So I was like,
Speaker 1: all right, I just bring the stuff whatever, just in
Speaker 1: case it happens, which I wasn't planning on it happening.
Speaker 1: But this girl like did the same thing. She um,
Speaker 1: she was trapping another girl and everybody was like watching,
Speaker 1: and then she was like, you know, I'm gonna try
Speaker 1: this on you next, and I was like okay, you know,
Speaker 1: but she actually had a much larger trap one and
Speaker 1: I was like, no, we're going to switch over to mine. Um.
Speaker 1: And it was actually maybe like just three of us
Speaker 1: in the room. UM. She started, and then people just
Speaker 1: kind of like started coming in the room while it happened,
Speaker 1: and then everybody would just stand around watching and people like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to try, and are you getting nervous when
Speaker 1: people often no. Actually, to be honest, I wasn't. I
Speaker 1: A lot of these people that were in this group
Speaker 1: are people that I've had like in group chats with
Speaker 1: and I've you know, people posting news all the time.
Speaker 1: So I knew these people like, you know, I've seen
Speaker 1: him at other events as well, So it was very
Speaker 1: much a comfortable thing. I knew that people there were
Speaker 1: very non judgmental, and then people were okay, wait when
Speaker 1: people said, hey, I want to try. Now, how many
Speaker 1: people ended up getting in your buddole um, let's see
Speaker 1: one three three, And it's funny. And it's funny because
Speaker 1: they they were all scared. They were all super scared,
Speaker 1: and I was like trying to like, yeah, I was trying,
Speaker 1: and I was trying to ease. Like they were like, oh,
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna hurt you, like I don't know,
Speaker 1: like whatever, and I'm like, my girl, it's okay, like
Speaker 1: and they're like they're like, oh no, like I feel
Speaker 1: like you know it's going her. Did you get your
Speaker 1: dick sucked while you're getting pig also with straps? One
Speaker 1: of the actually been written while I was getting strapped too.
Speaker 1: That's higher. Have you sucked a strap? No, that's something
Speaker 1: you're not interested in either, because that's the one thing
Speaker 1: I haven't done, and I just wanted to get to
Speaker 1: suck my strap. Sometimes I just don't don't if it.
Speaker 1: If it did, it would be purely for like her
Speaker 1: like her like. But no, if it did, didn't you
Speaker 1: purely be for her like It wouldn't get me anything.
Speaker 1: It wouldn't give me anything. Okay, So in that scene
Speaker 1: you were strapped by three women? What is an ideal
Speaker 1: pegging scenario for you? What? What haven't you done that
Speaker 1: you feel like would be the ideal scenario? And pegging
Speaker 1: and and and take notes guys, because if you see
Speaker 1: him out and about how you'll know how to please man.
Speaker 1: The interesting thing is that, um, my ultimate fantasy had
Speaker 1: always been a what I called a reverse pegging gang bang, right, So,
Speaker 1: and that just will be multiple women with trap ones, say,
Speaker 1: like I don't know for plus maybe three, four to six. Right.
Speaker 1: Um So the event that I was just talking about before,
Speaker 1: there was like one trap one being passed around like
Speaker 1: and so it didn't really necessarily feel like a gang
Speaker 1: bang per se, like it was kind of like, oh,
Speaker 1: let me try next, like you want. I don't know
Speaker 1: about that, like you always so people have to get
Speaker 1: in and out putt putting trap on on a lot
Speaker 1: of words. You got to actually adjust the strap and
Speaker 1: that's the thing too, depending on your thigh size, hip size,
Speaker 1: like you really have to adjust the herd, right, So yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's the adjustments and you have to like make
Speaker 1: sure like they're comfortable with the position. And even when
Speaker 1: they get on the bed, like they have to make
Speaker 1: sure it's a good height. And as a tall guy
Speaker 1: like different because you have to like sometimes they have
Speaker 1: to prop me up. Sometimes it's like you know, the froggy.
Speaker 1: So the last nigga that I packed was six six
Speaker 1: The first thing I pegged though was six eleven. I'm
Speaker 1: five ft one, so I'm literally so you're just scaling
Speaker 1: the tree. I'm right, So there's something right, and it's funny.
Speaker 1: One thing I actually love seeing is like when women
Speaker 1: decide that they want to trust trap ones and then
Speaker 1: they realize how much work goes into actually stroking as
Speaker 1: even as a guy, right, because you're like your legs
Speaker 1: will start burning and like and I'm like, now you
Speaker 1: understanding like what we have to go to, I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. It gives you a whole new appreciation.
Speaker 1: It really does that. Some niggas don't put it in
Speaker 1: work at all, So I go appreciate all niggas here
Speaker 1: not really like stroke game. That's why athletes because they
Speaker 1: are athletic, and it takes an athletic person to really fuck.
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I feel like we're just ten
Speaker 1: minutes sex. I don't know, I never heard of that.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like you know when you're
Speaker 1: like I never heard of that. I'm sorry, I don't
Speaker 1: have a loud voice today, but what I'm talking about
Speaker 1: ten minutes sexes like couples that like know how to
Speaker 1: get each other off as like their version of a quickie,
Speaker 1: like I want the experience I want, I want like
Speaker 1: the full Like I said, I'm more of a cential person.
Speaker 1: It's like just I can if I wanted to know,
Speaker 1: I can jack myself off, like if I'm having sex.
Speaker 1: And it's funny because my boys just tell me like bro,
Speaker 1: you gotta stop giving this like d dick every single time.
Speaker 1: It was like you gotta like yeah, they because they
Speaker 1: were like because you know, women get attached, you know,
Speaker 1: or women are like so it's like all the time,
Speaker 1: you gotta stop giving this hundred Yeah, they're like, you
Speaker 1: gotta give us Like I'm like, no, I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't really know how to do that. I don't know
Speaker 1: what that looks like. I want to ask you this
Speaker 1: when I watch porn um where men are getting sucked
Speaker 1: by other men and they're not always hard all the time, right,
Speaker 1: I don't watch pegging porn really, but they're not always
Speaker 1: hard all the time and they're still really enjoying it. Um,
Speaker 1: particularly with you, are you always rock hard when you're
Speaker 1: getting picked? And even if you aren't, do women get
Speaker 1: insecure because they think you're not enjoying it because you
Speaker 1: aren't hard. Sometimes they'll ask about it. But like, there
Speaker 1: are times when yes, I will get hard. There are
Speaker 1: times when I won't. But the reason but the more
Speaker 1: you experience it and the more you get used to it,
Speaker 1: the easier it is to stay hard while you're getting paid. Like,
Speaker 1: the reason that you are getting soft is because all
Speaker 1: the blood that you have focusing your penis you're now
Speaker 1: focusing all that on your ass, Like your your ass
Speaker 1: is like requiring the um like the attention of your
Speaker 1: nerves and your concentration, and so you stop thinking about
Speaker 1: your dick, like you're only thinking about like making sure
Speaker 1: that this person isn't like going to wreck your ship.
Speaker 1: So you're like trying to focus on relaxing. And that's
Speaker 1: why you're not and you're diet soft. Now, if you now,
Speaker 1: if it's something where you're starting to enjoy it and
Speaker 1: doesn't like you know, you don't it doesn't hurt or
Speaker 1: doesn't anymore or doesn't like, you know, feel weird anymore,
Speaker 1: you'll be able to start focusing back in and and you'll
Speaker 1: get hard again. Like that's a really good explanation because
Speaker 1: I didn't get it. I was like, they like, right,
Speaker 1: I love as hard as dick while I'm pegging. And
Speaker 1: that shows that shows a little experience. That shows some experience.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, so they did it before. I wasn't. That
Speaker 1: generally shows it, Yeah, unless you have some super small delta,
Speaker 1: like if you have a regularized detta, that means, yeah,
Speaker 1: they obviously have done it before. Because it's like you
Speaker 1: still you know how to like multitask in your head,
Speaker 1: like like if you can't, I mean most guys are
Speaker 1: not really the best multitaskers, right, So like if we
Speaker 1: are worried about that, then usually we're either self conscious.
Speaker 1: We could be a little subconscious about it, maybe the
Speaker 1: first time you do it, because you're like, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know what she sees. I don't know. It's
Speaker 1: so you're focused on that. Like, but if you are,
Speaker 1: you know, just taking that ship, then yeah, you get hard,
Speaker 1: like because you're back to like you trusted, you're not
Speaker 1: really worried about it. You know it's not gonna hurt.
Speaker 1: Your favorite position being packed, like do you ride? Do
Speaker 1: you get it from back on your back? What would
Speaker 1: your favorite position be? Probably missionary? Missionary because because again essential,
Speaker 1: so it's like you know, you're there in your face
Speaker 1: and it's kissing and like you know, touching. Um yeah,
Speaker 1: um well I are gonna say, um dogs was great
Speaker 1: to watch on camera, like to watch back on camera,
Speaker 1: Like if you record it, it's that's a very sexy
Speaker 1: position you record yourself. Yeah, do you ever get the videos?
Speaker 1: I need to phone you or want to see the
Speaker 1: tall before they told you I got my video? But
Speaker 1: it was missionary? Yeah, sometimes because sometimes people want to know,
Speaker 1: like even even the time when I had like the
Speaker 1: girls they were kind of trading out the strap on,
Speaker 1: Like one girl was going in like and she's like
Speaker 1: worried I'm hurt, and I'm like, honestly, you could go
Speaker 1: a lot harder than this, like like come on, like
Speaker 1: let's go like and she's like, I just feel like
Speaker 1: I'm hurt. I'm like, girl, if you don't like go
Speaker 1: like because like you know, it's like slow shorking. But
Speaker 1: that's because like, um, like they I may show my
Speaker 1: video where like this girl's going on home like like
Speaker 1: you probably see a video. Yeah, but like like the
Speaker 1: point where like she was going so hard to the phone,
Speaker 1: like fell off the bed and like hit the floor
Speaker 1: and like it's just and it has this crazy angle
Speaker 1: of us and we're just like I love when the
Speaker 1: phone gets fucked up and you still here and she's
Speaker 1: still like she just we heard the phone drive and
Speaker 1: me just she just kept going like and and it
Speaker 1: created it actually took like a really dope angle of it.
Speaker 1: But m yeah, a lot of it is just how
Speaker 1: comfortable you are and how like I guess prepared you
Speaker 1: are for it. But yeah, I love it. I want
Speaker 1: to get into the homemail before we get out. Shout
Speaker 1: out to our our wore hip member who set this in,
Speaker 1: because this adds another element to this whole conversation. The
Speaker 1: title is he wants me to peg him? Hi, Mandy,
Speaker 1: and wheezy. I love the show I started listening to
Speaker 1: in the pandemic and now I'm on a mission to
Speaker 1: start from the beginning and listen to every episode. Oh God,
Speaker 1: when y'all do that, she says she's up to episode one,
Speaker 1: so you're about halfway. There's good. I love hearing the
Speaker 1: progression of the show and you both as women. Okay,
Speaker 1: so here's the t y'a already. I met this guy
Speaker 1: and we went out a few times and eventually had sex,
Speaker 1: which was amazing. After that first experience, we talked about
Speaker 1: the more kinky things we liked, and he brought up pegging.
Speaker 1: I'm all for it. I never pecked a guy before,
Speaker 1: but I have eaten ass and I enjoy it. So
Speaker 1: from listening to y'all's older episodes, I know to get
Speaker 1: it wet, eat his ass, lupe, et cetera. But he
Speaker 1: has a hairy ass. How do I bring up manscaping
Speaker 1: in a way that's not offensive or turns him off.
Speaker 1: Thanks in advance for y'all's help. If y'all and then
Speaker 1: uh shout out to her. She's in d C. We
Speaker 1: will be doing live shows soon, guys. Um and yes,
Speaker 1: so I wanted to ask you, um, the landscaping, the
Speaker 1: manscaping conversation, it's all gone. It's gone for you, but
Speaker 1: clearly that's it's not for him. And he wants to
Speaker 1: be pegged and she's like to be I'll consider it,
Speaker 1: but it's there. To be honest, I feel like it's
Speaker 1: actually more enjoyable when there's no hair, because hair we'll
Speaker 1: we'll get get caught, like it'll get caught and it'll
Speaker 1: pool and it'll like you know, it's like pulling a
Speaker 1: hair out of your your vagina. It's like it'll sting
Speaker 1: a little bit. Like you don't want that. You want
Speaker 1: as much like little resistance as possible. Um, So how
Speaker 1: would you I would tell her to offer to do it,
Speaker 1: like offer to and I did that before. I was saying,
Speaker 1: you don't even have to say like his ass. You
Speaker 1: can be like I want to do it and then
Speaker 1: just get the ass. Like now some people are like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, they don't want to try. They don't want
Speaker 1: to do acting or they want to do whatever. Like honestly,
Speaker 1: in my opinion, depend depending on I guess it depends
Speaker 1: on your hair typing, your skin type. But clippers are
Speaker 1: a great way, Like it's just hair clippers, regular hair clippers,
Speaker 1: even it's just cutting down short using regular hair clippers
Speaker 1: and just all of it. But having somebody there who's
Speaker 1: actually using the clippers, you get to you be more
Speaker 1: careful when you got you know, worry about catching anything.
Speaker 1: Did it and it was fun and intimate, like and
Speaker 1: like years ago I used the razor, but we got
Speaker 1: a manscape kit so there has like a whole light. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying but nothing. No, But I say it's
Speaker 1: to say I agree not only with eating, but with
Speaker 1: pegging um. A clean ass is I think probably mandatory.
Speaker 1: I believe a lot of people are very big on this,
Speaker 1: like like do you have groups of people who feel
Speaker 1: like hair is like it has to be there, like
Speaker 1: it's part of your natural and whatever and you have
Speaker 1: to have hair there. But for me, it's like pegging
Speaker 1: holds odors pegging holds like I mean, not sorry, pegging
Speaker 1: hair holds oders um hair like like I said, we'll
Speaker 1: get in the way and then at the same time
Speaker 1: it Um, I mean it doesn't look good in the video.
Speaker 1: I think these videos. Advice to our Horror High member
Speaker 1: who sent this in. Would one be that if you
Speaker 1: feel like you're gonna offend him if he told you
Speaker 1: he's interested in begging, I would say, maybe you sound
Speaker 1: like a pro a little bit. They just say the
Speaker 1: pain too, Like I was gonna say, just just you
Speaker 1: come in and be like, well, I want us both
Speaker 1: to really enjoy this experience. Um, I've heard it could
Speaker 1: be painful. Let's let's man escape or let's you know,
Speaker 1: let's take a shower beforehand and let me like be
Speaker 1: intimate in that. And so some people use I'm not
Speaker 1: a fan of raisers, that is, like and all stuff.
Speaker 1: Uh clippers prevent raizor bumps because of just the anglic
Speaker 1: cuts of hair. But like, um, I've always actually wanted
Speaker 1: to try. I wanted to try waxing like once, just
Speaker 1: to go for the experience. Yeah, I want to go
Speaker 1: with right, that sounds like everything your china because the
Speaker 1: skin is tougher. So like I've been aning wax for
Speaker 1: years and when I do my pussy the only part
Speaker 1: that doesn't hurt is my ass because the skin is
Speaker 1: just tougher and it's not as like sensitive. And then
Speaker 1: like your period sometimes it's like like like if it's
Speaker 1: between or it's after, it's like it's the worst, but
Speaker 1: your ass will not hurt that much. Now, I think
Speaker 1: like the balls are a little more sensitive. You can't
Speaker 1: wax balls, right, can But like there are people who literally, yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll get it time. I can't, Like I'll use clippers
Speaker 1: literally and just do that like that, can I like,
Speaker 1: y'all take care of everything else, but I'll give you
Speaker 1: She's number, her name replaces my brows. She's really adorable,
Speaker 1: tiny little lady, and she's like, yes, we do, man,
Speaker 1: we do. Everybody. I want to go, like I want
Speaker 1: to do it, like like it's like a group project
Speaker 1: like you, but I want to go. I want to go.
Speaker 1: I would love to go with somebody like to like
Speaker 1: see you know, I go with you. But I'm scared
Speaker 1: of waxing. Wax am I niging now? Like hair? So
Speaker 1: I'll be chill. I only like clip a little bit
Speaker 1: down there because it's summertimes. Well, I like a landing strip,
Speaker 1: but I still like it to be like works on
Speaker 1: the side. So at the end of our episodes, we
Speaker 1: always ask people to like tell people where they can
Speaker 1: find you, but you don't want people to find you. Correct,
Speaker 1: but not necessarily. Well, I mean I have a I
Speaker 1: have a like an nsfw G but and so and
Speaker 1: it's private, so I can accept and deny who I
Speaker 1: want to. Um, So that handle is Mel the Scorpio King,
Speaker 1: Mel the Scorpio King. We will put that in the
Speaker 1: description of this episode if you were interested in slang.
Speaker 1: Is some straps well like profile in s Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not even allowed, like even when it comes to that,
Speaker 1: Like I'm very selective about like the energies that allow
Speaker 1: and that. Like I've had people who have hit me
Speaker 1: up on set life or something like that and very
Speaker 1: clearly like, um, you know, like hey, like oh trap one,
Speaker 1: like do using a strap when it's like in my
Speaker 1: fetish list, I would love to try that with you.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know what I'm saying, Like, but
Speaker 1: I've had people who wanted to genuinely get to know
Speaker 1: you and then you know, they bring it up later
Speaker 1: and like, you know, it'd be cool to try. That
Speaker 1: was gonna be my last thing to ask you actually
Speaker 1: was uh feeling like a prop because this is something
Speaker 1: not only so taboo, not a lot of black men
Speaker 1: do it. Do you feel like you're approached more just
Speaker 1: so that someone can get that experience off. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like also like the BBC experience, right, So, like
Speaker 1: a white woman will go like looking for a guy
Speaker 1: because they think he has a beautiful chocolate man. And
Speaker 1: so I have people who do literally specifically come and
Speaker 1: requests just like hey, you know, are you looking for
Speaker 1: a mistress? Would you like to be pegged or whatever whatever?
Speaker 1: And I'm like no, I'm good like um because it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's just what they're looking to get their knock off,
Speaker 1: the fantasy list, like a bucket list. Um. So you generally,
Speaker 1: when it happens to me, it's generally somebody that I'm
Speaker 1: actually like taking something to get to know, very cool
Speaker 1: with the person. Um, I have a degree of trust
Speaker 1: in them that they're going to actually they have my
Speaker 1: best interest at heart. That's the part that makes me
Speaker 1: the most wet knowing that a man, especially a black man,
Speaker 1: relinquished so much not only power, but exudes so much
Speaker 1: trust in me. I think that that's a very vulnerable
Speaker 1: position and an act to do with someone else. And
Speaker 1: so a man has to really trust you to allow
Speaker 1: that to happen because it takes a lot because people
Speaker 1: they also automatically think, like I said, like you're gonna
Speaker 1: throw it in their face later or you're gonna the world,
Speaker 1: and so it makes you know what I mean, that's
Speaker 1: something you can talk to many other guys about. Like
Speaker 1: I remember even just trying to bring it up um
Speaker 1: or just bringing up the idea of ass play to
Speaker 1: like my boys, and I was like, yeah, like do
Speaker 1: you ever let a girl each has? And he's like,
Speaker 1: you know, like they like she go on there. I'm
Speaker 1: like I'm fighting it like off that. I'm like yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. And they're like would
Speaker 1: you And I'm like you know, and they're like, when
Speaker 1: you think it doesn't open the conversation to more, do
Speaker 1: ask you questions the way women My boys are like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's you, Like they just kind of like they don't
Speaker 1: they don't they know that. I'm just like very adventurous
Speaker 1: in that aspect, like um, so they're like, yeah, that's you.
Speaker 1: Like even like I was always a guy in college
Speaker 1: who was like experiencing everything before everybody else, like a
Speaker 1: like a threesomele for most of my friends experienced like
Speaker 1: orgy before all of my friends like, um, and so
Speaker 1: I'm coming back to me. You're just to step ahead
Speaker 1: of them right now, That's all. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: always just end up with like the right people in
Speaker 1: my in my like that just makes it happen. Um,
Speaker 1: Would you be willing to answer questions from men um
Speaker 1: if they decided to write I have plenty of guys
Speaker 1: who have hit me up to say like, hey, look,
Speaker 1: and they'll DM me privately like it will be in
Speaker 1: a conversation. Could you just keep your handle that probate
Speaker 1: and say, hey, like, I'm looking to start it. I
Speaker 1: want to introduce to my girl, but I don't know
Speaker 1: how to like say it or like how did I
Speaker 1: go about doing it? And yeah, I've given Now if
Speaker 1: y'all don't listen to this ship for an hour and
Speaker 1: you can get enough advice, I'm just like, make sure
Speaker 1: it's real specific. But I think this was really crazy
Speaker 1: of us to like finally been able to sit down
Speaker 1: and talk to someone that it was black, and I
Speaker 1: picked the guy that I pegged it was some Australian
Speaker 1: dude man. He was like, no, let's wait, and I
Speaker 1: was like, years ago, yeah, I didn't want to bring
Speaker 1: a white man on here to talk pack And I'm
Speaker 1: glad we finally came. I only met you one piece
Speaker 1: of really big advice that a lady gave me that
Speaker 1: kind of like made me because at first, yes, I
Speaker 1: was still very self conscious about it, like telling it
Speaker 1: to people. I was like always nervous that people would
Speaker 1: be like, oh, this is gay or something like that.
Speaker 1: But um, I remember there's nothing wrong with that. I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously you can understand what guys are gay like that
Speaker 1: as play is very enjoyable. Like but like I remember,
Speaker 1: um this woman said, she was like, if if these
Speaker 1: guys aren't the ones bringing you pleasure, why are you
Speaker 1: worried about what they think? And it was like she
Speaker 1: was like, there are plenty of women who loved this,
Speaker 1: So if they're the ones that you're actually you know,
Speaker 1: out trying to impray I start trying to like go
Speaker 1: after and they want it, why are you being like
Speaker 1: about it? Like he's like, yeah, the guy, that guy
Speaker 1: isn't about to make you nuts, so like, why are
Speaker 1: you worried about what he thinks like and so it
Speaker 1: was kind of like okay, all right, and then you
Speaker 1: know I was I became more open with it and
Speaker 1: you just start to see math people just come out
Speaker 1: to wolwork. It's like, oh my gosh, like I can
Speaker 1: I believe there's a black man who's into this and like,
Speaker 1: you know, and he's attractive, you know whatever. You had
Speaker 1: the air quote you attractive, you're tall, like again, like
Speaker 1: you're an anomaly like for like I said, and also
Speaker 1: very very very masculine. Well let's hope you're not amally.
Speaker 1: Let's hope there's a million and and things like I talk.
Speaker 1: I try to talk in an open way so that
Speaker 1: guys can feel more comfortable talking about it, like, um,
Speaker 1: already see somebody who's like, you know, a business owner
Speaker 1: and like doing this thing, but still openly talking about it.
Speaker 1: And like people, I'll have guys coming and thing and
Speaker 1: my d m s that will think that becau as
Speaker 1: I'm mento it that I'm into men, and they'll you know,
Speaker 1: come and try to hollow me and I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm good, Like I don't I'm not into men straight
Speaker 1: up tell them. But um, people, you know they're definitely
Speaker 1: a lot of women who will come in and just say, hey,
Speaker 1: like it's so refreshing to see this, like, um, maybe
Speaker 1: you know I can send my guy to talk to you,
Speaker 1: or maybe you know you talking about it more openly. No. Literally,
Speaker 1: I've had people who like recruiting agency. No, but it's
Speaker 1: a lot of women who have men that are on
Speaker 1: the fence about it, and they and they're like, maybe
Speaker 1: you know one day and like they know me and
Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, I want my man to talk to you,
Speaker 1: like I want you to get him comfortable, like make
Speaker 1: him feel like it's okay because I want to try.
Speaker 1: Yeah sometimes like sometimes sometimes because yeah, because I'd be like, bro,
Speaker 1: trust me, it's nice. Like I'm like, I'm like, I'm like,
Speaker 1: as long as if you are worried about what people
Speaker 1: think and just keep it between y'all, don't you don't
Speaker 1: have to go tell everybody, you have to like lay
Speaker 1: it off people. Just let that be between you'll, but
Speaker 1: make sure you can trust their with keeping that. Now.
Speaker 1: On the other side of that, they're being men that
Speaker 1: have that stigma towards it. There's also women who are
Speaker 1: very much like they will clown you. They find out
Speaker 1: you you know, are in the trap one play and
Speaker 1: or if you do tell them, they immediately get nervous
Speaker 1: and they're like like, do you like men? And and
Speaker 1: I'm like no, and they're like, oh okay, well okay,
Speaker 1: I got a lot to digest now, like people are
Speaker 1: and and you know, it's it's a new concept. Um.
Speaker 1: I was about to say it's because you don't see
Speaker 1: it all. Um. This was really informative, I think for
Speaker 1: especially because we've just been talking about this for so long,
Speaker 1: and I think it's great to finally hear from someone
Speaker 1: that enjoys getting pegged and can explain to people what
Speaker 1: the entire time when we speak about pegging, it's constantly
Speaker 1: even women we bring on asking them advice or like
Speaker 1: even if we have to bring on a game man
Speaker 1: to just talk about anal play so that we can
Speaker 1: have help from listeners. So we're really grateful that you.
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Speaker 1: we gotta get you in there now. We should do
Speaker 1: like just we should definitely bring um maybe even did
Speaker 1: like anal training class at one point, like you need
Speaker 1: to try to do this, bro, you do an anal
Speaker 1: training class. Oh yeah, it's easier to train and once
Speaker 1: you've experienced it, like and so yeah, I can gonna
Speaker 1: throw an event one of these days. Literally I was talking,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw an event, God dammit, a sex event.
Speaker 1: And yeah, I need you to be one of the performers. Performers. Well, guys,
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Speaker 1: because y'all know that bitch safe fuck is she uh
Speaker 1: it was her fault, but we can't deny or confirm that.
Speaker 1: But what I can tell you is no, I would
Speaker 1: not have threecome pregnant only because I just don't want
Speaker 1: any energy like addigital energy. I wouldn't be I'd want
Speaker 1: to be monogamous. So I think your baby would take
Speaker 1: the energy of the third person. I just don't want.
Speaker 1: I just need to keep myself healthy, like I don't
Speaker 1: want to put myself at risk to other partners and
Speaker 1: keep my baby safe. But a but a woman, you'll
Speaker 1: be eating pussy that ain't got nothing to do with
Speaker 1: your pussy or your root canal or whatever it is
Speaker 1: down there in the baby part I it is. It's
Speaker 1: the canal for you baby and the root canal Mandy,
Speaker 1: it's a rule. Did the baby go through? That's a yes.
Speaker 1: So our homemail this week, Molly relationship invite but married
Speaker 1: to someone else. This is long, but hopefully it's good. Hey. Oh,
Speaker 1: by the way, there was a white girl that came
Speaker 1: up to me a Melrose Trading post and she like
Speaker 1: comes up to me and she goes, oh my god, wheezy,
Speaker 1: I love you guys so much. She's like, I sent
Speaker 1: in a homemail. I'm one of your twenty seven but
Speaker 1: you and I was like, oh, do we give you
Speaker 1: good advice? She was like, well, you and Mandy didn't
Speaker 1: really you read it, but she didn't really give me advice.
Speaker 1: But it's okay, it's totally fine. Wait, we don't be
Speaker 1: giving advice when we read homemam. We'd probably just be
Speaker 1: talking ship. Oh, because she really I was like, well,
Speaker 1: what what advice did he give? What homemiler are you?
Speaker 1: She's like, you didn't really get to It's bad she
Speaker 1: was twenty two years old. Oh she really needed an advice.
Speaker 1: Well sorry, okay, hey, ho. First, I gotta say I
Speaker 1: love you both so much and I love the podcast
Speaker 1: and there's not a single person I run into and
Speaker 1: don't tell them about it. This is kind of long
Speaker 1: and maybe hard to follow, but I'm gonna try my
Speaker 1: best to condense it long. When you know I can't
Speaker 1: never follow, it's not that bad because it might be juicy.
Speaker 1: The title was good. Part one The Husband, So I
Speaker 1: wanted to get some advice about a situation I'm in currently.
Speaker 1: I've been married to my husband four years and lately
Speaker 1: the vibe been off. We've been arguing so much lately,
Speaker 1: and we spend no time together and he doesn't take
Speaker 1: me out. I've been depressed and just haven't been in
Speaker 1: the mood for sex. Now. I love him to death
Speaker 1: and we've had our good times, but the relationship isn't
Speaker 1: the same. I work two jobs. I'm in school. He
Speaker 1: worked sixty hours a week. There's no time for each other.
Speaker 1: We've been unkind, neither of us feel like we're benefiting,
Speaker 1: and we've recently got into a huge argument and it
Speaker 1: send it up ended up into a long text, real
Speaker 1: ghetto about how we should break up. Now we're on
Speaker 1: a break So Part two The Polly and Right. Three
Speaker 1: to four months ago, I got a new job and
Speaker 1: as soon as I got there, I had a feeling
Speaker 1: like it was going to change my life. And then
Speaker 1: I met a guy there so fine, but I never
Speaker 1: gave him this time a day because I was married.
Speaker 1: He's spiritual and in the last two years, I've become
Speaker 1: more in tune with my spirituality and when I met him,
Speaker 1: I instantly knew his tea and there was an instant
Speaker 1: connection like undeniable. I mean, the energy we share is unbelievable.
Speaker 1: So fast forward to the present when me and him,
Speaker 1: when me and my husband to take a break, the
Speaker 1: dude and I started talking more and more. I asked him,
Speaker 1: just to bait him, if him and his girl were
Speaker 1: also spiritual. He said yes, and I said, so basically
Speaker 1: I should have married someone who was also spiritual. He said,
Speaker 1: him and his girl are Polly and told me he
Speaker 1: has two sister wives, and I thought the convo would
Speaker 1: in there, but then he basically shot his shot, bitch.
Speaker 1: He said when I was done, like completely done with
Speaker 1: my situation to HOLLI at him and his sister wives
Speaker 1: and basically laid out with the relationship could be. And
Speaker 1: I was so shocked, but not turned off because I've
Speaker 1: never been against the lifestyle. My husband and I are
Speaker 1: in a space where we still lived together, but we
Speaker 1: sleep separately. We are trying to work out our personal ship.
Speaker 1: So now the guy and me been exchanging pat crazy,
Speaker 1: passionate energy like I'm scared to fund because bitch, give
Speaker 1: big dick energy out of the world. And if he's
Speaker 1: so intelligent girl, and I can't even handle this. And
Speaker 1: he keeps saying things like we're gonna get together soon.
Speaker 1: You can meet your sisters. Girl. I finally broke down,
Speaker 1: gave him my number, texted me when he was three,
Speaker 1: and I told him when it worked to pick a
Speaker 1: date and we could link. He basically told me he'll
Speaker 1: give me the details. He's trying to surprise me with something,
Speaker 1: and I'm so intrigued. My husband is nothing like this.
Speaker 1: He's absolutely against my spiritual belief and the dude got
Speaker 1: me all in. I'm not sure I feel about sister wise,
Speaker 1: but I don't know where my relationship is going. There's
Speaker 1: so much gilt. Please give me advice. I'm sorry this
Speaker 1: was long and unorganized, but I really need help. I
Speaker 1: love you both so much. It had no period. What
Speaker 1: is what is the help asking for? Is she asking
Speaker 1: whether she should become a sister wife or go back
Speaker 1: to her relationship. I'm confused with what she's asking. I
Speaker 1: think she is going to be so fucked up if
Speaker 1: she starts working with this nigga who has a healthy
Speaker 1: relation ship with his other wives, becoming jealous that her
Speaker 1: husband can't give her that, and then let's just say
Speaker 1: she falls all into that, then she'll start not being
Speaker 1: able to handle coming to second or third. Then it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a whole thing. And he's fine, and he
Speaker 1: got a big dick, possibly, so she just is excited
Speaker 1: about it. And it's also super easy to get excited
Speaker 1: about it because she's going through something with her husband.