WEBVTT - Ep 227: I Enjoy Being Pegged (Ft. Mel) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:09.520 Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, uh, 0:00:09.960 --> 0:00:12.960 if you're listening, you fucking know what show this is 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:16.079 because you clicked it. Um, okay, let me tell you 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:18.040 what happened last night. No, you don't even know what 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:22.520 happened last night. We switched bodies. Let me did We didn't. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:25.560 This is not a freaky Friday ship. Let me just elaborate. 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:27.360 I was in l A. I got invited to an 0:00:27.400 --> 0:00:32.040 industry party. It's giving, Mandy, and no, it's giving industry, 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:35.839 So I go to versus. Okay, it was fun, and 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:37.559 if I got an invite to something like that, it's 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:40.360 a very Mandy thing to do. Mandy went out last 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:44.560 night and did Molly at a sex club. That's me, bitch. 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:49.800 But also it sounds like if the two things happened, 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:52.920 someone went out did Molly and party last night, or 0:00:53.040 --> 0:00:56.760 one got invited to some industry ship. What do you think? 0:00:56.800 --> 0:00:59.600 But also, here's the thing, y'all, I'm blaming the fact 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:01.720 that I'm still high in grinding my teeth on our 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:05.360 guest today because he too was at the sex party 0:01:05.400 --> 0:01:07.480 with me last night. And so I would like to 0:01:07.480 --> 0:01:10.319 introduce our guests. Do we introduce ourselves first, No bitch, 0:01:10.360 --> 0:01:11.680 you'll been listening to us, you know what the funk 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:16.360 this is? Anyway though, So if you're watching on YouTube, 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:18.400 oh wait, there we go. There is some an anonymity 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:21.479 this episode, just because you know, we like to protect 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:24.880 our brothers and sisters that want to be anonymous. So 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:31.760 today's episode is about hacking. Hold on, hold on, hold on, 0:01:31.800 --> 0:01:36.000 because bad this siding in the building, y'all to mother, 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:42.000 he's been way too motherfucking long. Our guest today we 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:46.720 will call him Mel. He is like it's been tall 0:01:47.840 --> 0:01:53.400 six three, beautiful chocolate man who came highly what is 0:01:54.520 --> 0:02:00.920 remember what a beautiful chocolate man? What the whoa Mel? 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:04.720 Thank you for joining us again. He comes highly referred 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:07.400 by pretty much half of our fan base who has 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:12.600 been in. He was referred, He was referred. And then 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:14.359 when I just mentioned I said, oh my guy, we 0:02:14.480 --> 0:02:16.240 finally got a black man who likes to be paid 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:18.840 coming on the show on the town Hall. When I 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.920 got off and like four bitches, was like, I'll bet 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:24.920 you I know who it is, So you, sir, have 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:27.040 a name around these streets. Thank you for joining us, 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:29.560 Thank you for having what's on your glasses. They look 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:32.840 a little wet, probably come from last night. I was like, 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:38.960 definitely set a little booty scratched. So last night, Melan 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:45.160 I I he invited me to the Brooklyn uh Swingers Club. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.880 Is that what we called. It's a private party, don't 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:53.120 necessarily have a specific name, but they like it like that. 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.919 They aren't you know, it's kind of an invite only thing. 0:02:56.120 --> 0:03:00.200 It wasn't. Yeah, and I'm not gonna lie because it 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:03.359 wasn't really like a club. I was expecting to walk 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:06.960 into like a hotel room scene, like one of those 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:10.880 like you know. Yeah, I was like a little nervous, 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:15.079 went in there, beautiful, bitch like it was super beautiful. 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:19.120 Everyone was super friendly. Um and literally I guess by 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:21.799 the ten minute mark, I was doing Molly with him 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:26.640 because I'm watching Mandy trying to process some of the things. 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:29.920 Because so because Mandy talks really fast. I mean, if 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:32.040 you listen to the show, you know, and me too. Yeah, 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:34.600 you talked when I'm like funked up, like I talked 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:36.800 really slow. The next am I talking slow? No, But 0:03:36.920 --> 0:03:41.080 I'm just watching you think about thinking. I'm thinking because 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:46.640 not only was there a lot to remember, hold on bitch, 0:03:46.680 --> 0:03:49.360 don't be laughing. I'm really trying to see her focus. 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:54.160 So not only was it a lot going on while 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:57.960 I was on drugs, um, I am trying to remember 0:03:58.040 --> 0:04:00.200 the high points because it was a new and roam 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:02.760 it for me. I will say, for those of you 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:06.320 who are not aware, there was like not even one 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:10.440 white person there was there, so it was all of 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:13.920 it was. There was one There was one um he 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:17.400 came with. His friend was a guy I definitely don't 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.120 and they were kind of like, I mean, they're they 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:23.960 kind of developed a really cool reputation in the group, 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:27.640 so we're like, okay, you know, he's like, we're trying 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:30.960 to give Justin pieper right. Yeah, no, no, these guys 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:34.240 allowed to cook up. So I didn't get to peg him. However, 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:39.240 I was strapped by a woman surprised me. I literally 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:44.800 turned to the right and it was like, oh really no, no, no, 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:49.359 not giving you who does here. I sometimes feel like 0:04:49.440 --> 0:04:52.080 I can't even get too drunk in places when people 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:56.080 know who I am. The fact that you still get 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:59.920 lit at sex parties because after people going the next parties, 0:05:00.360 --> 0:05:03.560 let me get it out. I'm lifestyle because I think 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:06.560 that like a lot of people know about some of 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:09.120 these places because you mentioned it, and like you're still 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:11.480 get naked on the beach, You'll still get Like I 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:15.280 think that's really dope because naked, I can't do it. 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:17.440 I know you can't because you ain't a realized bit 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:22.320 give a about nigga like baby, but that you don't. 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:24.960 I got I got pegged, and what's crazy? As she 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:27.719 brought all her toys and I went with a friend 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:31.400 and uh, she was like, pick which one she can take? 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:34.880 And because first she brought like three over and I 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:37.720 was like, them things a little, but I don't want 0:05:37.760 --> 0:05:39.960 you to strike me with that little lest thing. She said, 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:44.440 Oh I got more, I'll be right. Um yeah, at 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:50.640 the at the first second, um yeah, I'm cool with that. 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.600 But then yeah, we were just feeling on each other 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:58.680 all night. It was just fivees, you too, not feeling 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:02.800 on each other all night? Was I mean, well, I 0:06:02.800 --> 0:06:06.880 guess we won't know. I'm just saying, like, I guess 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:10.760 we're talking about the effects has on we can talk 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:13.880 about that. So literally, the whole night mail is just 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:17.320 like get drugs off of the street. This is awful. 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:19.680 I hate it. So him and my friend we all 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:27.240 took molly together, they dicks. Just it wasn't right, is that? 0:06:27.360 --> 0:06:30.200 Like you know, if there's any drug that makes that happen, 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:32.000 then yeah, it can go. So let me ask you this, 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:37.080 when getting paid um, is the is orgasmic goal for you? 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:40.919 It is it UM as long as it's done right, 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.320 because you have to know. Like even when I first 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:45.520 got into it, like, it was a lot of studying 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:49.000 and learning about mail anatomy and like how it actually 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:51.640 it brings pleasure to a guy. So it's like and 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:54.440 so a lot of times when I do do it, 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:57.240 or if I actually introduce it with somebody, like I'll 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:00.000 talk to them about like knowing the areas of about 0:07:00.320 --> 0:07:04.240 to like focus on because it can be really just 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:06.360 nothing and it can be great, Like it just depends 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:09.360 on the level of expertise. She happen. But I did 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:13.119 ask him, he's you haven't paid correct in a sex 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:19.880 club environment before? And why is that um? Generally? Well, 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:22.480 generally for me, peggy is more of an intimate thing, 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:25.800 so it's more of a like a lot of people, Okay, 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:29.120 so this is another thing. I guess it will in 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:35.960 terms of like UM, like I guess masculine rule or masculine. Um. 0:07:36.120 --> 0:07:39.679 I guess the thought process towards it, like being very um, 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.760 it can be kind of well, a lot of people 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:44.440 when they do it, they're automatically thinking that it's going 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:47.080 to be more of a dumb type situation where it's like, 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:49.120 you know, this is my bitch or this is like, 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:51.720 you know whatever, and they're being they A lot of 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:54.920 times they think of Peggy and they think of like, uh, 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:57.840 the degradation and stuff like that. Whereas like for me, 0:07:58.120 --> 0:07:59.720 if I do it, I like it to be very 0:07:59.720 --> 0:08:02.720 sent I could be very like it's it's a whole scene, 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:09.040 how is essential in a train that story coming up? 0:08:12.000 --> 0:08:18.920 I'm high, but I know, but I want you to 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:22.679 get into your moment. That was very much more comfortable 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:25.040 situation because I knew the people that I can also 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:27.679 see how like I feel like with really vulnerable sex, 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:31.000 like for example, um, if I wanted to get like 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:34.480 slapped or like using like let's just say, certain kinds 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:35.920 of toys on me, or maybe if it was a 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:37.480 leash or a call or something like that. I don't 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:38.840 know if I could do it in a sex club either, 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:42.560 because I want I don't want to think about anyone 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:46.960 else watching me like or thinking it's just and you 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:49.440 know what you're doing is already taboo. I'm not saying 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:50.960 that you're not comfortable with it, because I think I'm 0:08:51.000 --> 0:08:52.880 comfortable with my sexuality, but just I don't know how 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:55.320 I feel about everyone else being involved in it sometimes 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:57.880 when it is certain type of sex. So I want 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.480 to ask you to just so there are sneers can 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:03.880 get an idea of who you are, your age, your height, 0:09:04.720 --> 0:09:08.080 and how do you identify what is your sexual orientation? 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:14.120 So I am thirty three, I am six three, I 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:18.360 am straight? Yes, okay, and you clearly do the sex club. 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:21.559 How would you identify relationship wise or lifestyle wise? Where 0:09:21.559 --> 0:09:26.120 do you fall in the spectrum? Um? I well, okay, 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:28.920 So I guess it depends on which part of the 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:30.440 life style you' talking about. So B D, s M 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:35.720 right that whole realm. Consider myself a switch so UM 0:09:35.920 --> 0:09:38.600 or dom leaning switch? I guess you would say generally. 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:41.080 The only reason that I would even consider myself submissive 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:45.120 in that sense is because in trying pegging, I realized 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:48.200 that it's best enjoy when you give up control, right 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:51.840 and so um. And that was a little difficult at 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:54.080 first too. Like what they called topping from the bottom. 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:56.200 You're trying to direct and like tell her to do whatever. 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:59.240 And remember the first time we got into this like 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:02.280 power struggle, this girl was just like, yo, just shut up, 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:04.520 like just let me let me do this, like stop 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:07.280 trying to you know, take over, and just let me 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:09.160 let me do what I do. And I was like okay, 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:10.800 and then she's like, you know what, turn around and 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:12.959 get on all fours. And she was like that way, 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:15.320 you can't touch me, you can't see me. You literally 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:17.920 have no control. And I realized I enjoy it. I 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:20.480 found out I enjoyed it like certain physicians make you 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:23.360 feel that like different. Yeah, like was there a difference 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:27.600 from back and being on all fours originally, but that 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:30.240 that was because especially especially if you're doing with somebody 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:33.720 that you are not fully fully trusting in, or like 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:35.480 somebody you haven't been around a long time, like some 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:37.920 people know, like I've had it. Somebody say like, you know, 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:41.800 I could never see you as like a sissy or 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:44.000 a woosy or whatever, because I know you in real life. 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:45.920 I know how you are as a person. I know 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:48.280 you run to your life very like in a dominant way. 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:50.719 So she's like, I can never think that even if 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:52.640 I wanted to, Whereas like, there are a lot of 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:55.320 women who they'll put on a trap one. They get 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:56.959 this power a little power trip, and they want to 0:10:56.960 --> 0:11:00.280 go off, you know, calling everybody, calling the guy bitch 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:03.920 or you know, my little sub boy, or you don't 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:08.600 like being humiliated necessarily in um while getting packed. So 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:11.760 that's really what it is, and and UM for context 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:14.800 when while he's using some words like that, A lot 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:16.719 of some of the pegging videos you can watch or 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:19.480 things like that, people enjoy being talked down to. They 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:22.760 like the um degradation like you were talking about, Like, 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:25.280 that's the reason why a lot of guys don't won't 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:28.800 come out and admit that, because that's automatically the first 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:35.640 ums that like, you're, you know, not really a strong person, 0:11:35.679 --> 0:11:37.959 are you very just like submissive in that sense, And 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:39.760 so a lot of guys don't want that stigma, so 0:11:39.760 --> 0:11:41.480 they just don't say anything. I love that you brought 0:11:41.520 --> 0:11:44.560 that up because there's so many girls and men who 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:48.240 are like, wait, you could still respect that guy after 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:52.560 you did that. There's a lot of like conversations as 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:55.800 to how a woman perceives a man who even allows 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:58.720 them to do that. But I want to nothing is 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:01.080 wrong with a guy that does like ship like that, right, 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:04.959 It's like I think it's more so that, um, it's 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:09.719 more commonplace for women too. I'm trying to find the 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:11.840 word because I feel like every time we talked about 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:14.320 pegging or we've had the discussion and we talked about 0:12:14.320 --> 0:12:16.800 it so much right over the last few years, but 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:19.760 like we talk about it always the conversation about women 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:23.640 talking about basically that niggl like being her bitch or 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:25.760 not wanting to have that dynamic. It as like so 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:29.600 I've seen I've seen a huge humanity of both women. 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:32.800 So like there's been a community where you know, and 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:34.840 it just depends on your background, like what you have 0:12:35.000 --> 0:12:36.880 kind of raised, what you've kind of been raised as 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:40.520 like your things that you require in your man. Like 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:42.400 some people they're like, no, I don't want my man 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:44.760 to seem like he's you know, weak in that sense, 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:47.440 and they want a man who just doesn't give him 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:51.440 any question like like, um, I can't question this man sexuality, 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:56.360 whereas UM, you have some women who like I remember 0:12:56.400 --> 0:12:57.880 the first time I kind of like came out and 0:12:57.920 --> 0:13:00.400 told this woman that I had met a out it. 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.920 Um it was actually a munch and she said like 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:06.040 she was just she started smiling as I started telling 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:08.240 there and and she waited till the very anti I 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:09.760 told her everything, and then she was just like, you 0:13:09.800 --> 0:13:12.360 have no idea how many women wish they could find 0:13:12.360 --> 0:13:15.040 a man that was into that, that was you know, 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:18.480 down to earth, cool, laid back, not like can I 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:23.920 have something to that? Though? Specifically black men, that is 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:26.600 that is the conversation. And that's why I like, every 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:29.520 time I even say I've picked someone, they'd be like, well, what, 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:32.720 I ain't never white person, but they are so shocked 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:36.440 that I've been able to peg black men and black men, 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:39.560 none of them under six three? So what do you 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:43.760 think about why that is? Like, why why do you 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:46.800 think that, um, it's not as commonplace for black men 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:54.240 or would a lot of black men are. They're raised 0:13:54.280 --> 0:13:57.800 to be like they're raised to kind of taught that 0:13:57.880 --> 0:13:59.920 they are supposed to be in control of a situation, 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.960 their situations, and so you know, even as a even 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.000 as a kid, you know, being on like the playground, 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:08.680 somebody messes with your girl is very much like yo, 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:11.960 like you know, you gotta you gotta buck up and 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:14.760 you gotta, you know, protect your territory. And so it's 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.240 it's a lot of it comes from like this whole 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:21.400 territorial thing of um, we're not really necessary territory, but 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:26.080 it's it's definitely people feel like to feel pleasure down there, 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:30.960 what kind of automatically constitute you as somebody who could 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.880 be interested in any form of receiving that same type 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:36.560 of pleasure We're not to be from a guy from wherever. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:39.440 And it's and it's like, no, like I don't find 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:41.160 guys attractive. I don't see a guy and be like 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:43.280 he's you know, he's a tractor. I want to know 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:45.680 it's it's literally and that was a little bit of 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:48.600 the connundrate for me. I was introduced to this like 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:52.040 to an know played by a partner of my long 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:55.640 time ago, and and I was just I've always been 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:57.800 like very much a curious So we're gonna try whatever 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:00.920 um at least once or twice, maybe three times. But 0:15:01.320 --> 0:15:05.760 the ain't trying the third time. That didn't even try 0:15:05.880 --> 0:15:09.360 no more, you're a pro. But luckily, I think for me, 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:12.560 I've had so many like good experiences sexually that it's 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.600 just increased the curiosity. So some people go through the 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:17.520 situation I don't necessarily have a great experience with it, um, 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.480 and then they don't want to try to move on 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:21.120 anything further than that sense. But I just had a 0:15:21.120 --> 0:15:24.760 lot of great partners who were very like like, they 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.200 were very caring, they were very like attentive, they were 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:29.440 very much like they kind of they may knew what 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:32.080 they were doing, and so it just opened up more 0:15:32.080 --> 0:15:36.640 and more curiosity down the line where your relationship wise, uh, 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:40.880 currently I'm single, Well not that, but what is your 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:44.920 relationship dynamic? Are you a swinger? Are you non monogamous 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:48.320 when you're in a relationship? Are you monogamous? So I've 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:52.560 had a mix, right, So I've done monogamy, Um, I've 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:56.960 done polyamory, I've done UM, and I've tried different and 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:58.520 and so some of them, I mean, they both all 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:00.280 have their ups and downs. It really just to ends 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:02.480 on the type of partner you are able to come 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:06.960 in contact with and like their level of communication. Um. 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:10.160 It's interesting, Like a lot of people, I think that 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:12.920 polyamory is a good way to kind of like sec 0:16:13.160 --> 0:16:15.200 like to fix some of the things that they see 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:17.560 is issues in monogamy. So say, it's like you're in 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:19.960 a relationship and you guys are going through situations. I've 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:22.520 seen couples try to come into polyamory saying like, let's 0:16:22.520 --> 0:16:26.480 try to be Polly to help our relationship, where it's like, no, 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:30.360 you kind of need to fix your relationship first, because polyamory, 0:16:30.880 --> 0:16:32.760 Like a lot of people do have this notion about 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:35.680 polyamoraies being like I just get to have sex multiple people, 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:38.000 and it's like, no, it's not as the case, you 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:41.720 necessarily have to you have to take a monog relationship 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:44.080 just multiplied. So if you can't make a monog relationship work, 0:16:44.120 --> 0:16:45.800 then you're really not gonna be able to make a 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:50.040 describe polyamory like multiplying the monogogy. I really like that 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:53.400 because when I describe it, I'm always thinking of or 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:56.760 saying people that are in relationships separately with each other 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:59.520 and maybe they'll blend. And the reason I don't like polyamory, 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:03.880 it's because it is outside relationships opposed to something more casual. 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:05.919 But that was great, but it's and it's also like 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:08.160 it's another level of honesty that a lot of people 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:11.640 just have. No they don't really understand, like, um, I'm 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:14.439 not ignoring you were pulling up our outt like, but 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:18.120 it's it's a it's a level of like of honesty 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:20.919 that people are just not used to and because you 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:23.199 in order for probably amy to really work, you have 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:28.600 to really be very uh like open about like your 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:33.119 sexual history and like your your desires like um, because 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:34.840 it has to be like this huge lize once you 0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:37.120 start bringing to other people's emotions, a level of honesty 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:39.560 and trust has to be so much higher. So it's 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:42.000 actually not to be successful in polymor is actually a 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:44.320 lot more work than monogamy. People think it's a cop 0:17:44.359 --> 0:17:48.760 out like Polly and like, oh, let's just be Polly 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:54.800 people emotionally physically like just having sex with motile people. 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:56.719 It was like, yeah, you know, I deal with your 0:17:56.720 --> 0:17:58.800 emotions in the moment when we're together. But it's like 0:17:59.200 --> 0:18:02.360 probably amory, you remember birthdays and you gotta remember like 0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:06.080 you know, the that graduation. Yeah, it's still it's still 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:09.359 very much like like a communication thing where you have 0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:11.520 to be able to manage all of it, and so 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:14.320 people people will go into it and not know their 0:18:14.359 --> 0:18:16.200 limit in terms of how many people they can manage 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:17.840 at one time, and then they get caught up, and 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:20.760 it's like, you can't take care of everybody's I'm back 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:22.960 to the streets and I'm gonna take care of these dicks. 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:27.199 I'll be lying, I'll be lying. Withey, why do I 0:18:27.280 --> 0:18:30.760 be lying? Because it's like I was ready but the streets, 0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:34.720 but I just don't know. Um. I want to get 0:18:34.720 --> 0:18:37.600 into our vanilla ship because while we were speaking about kids, 0:18:39.400 --> 0:18:44.760 Oh god, a mom age and daughter are so close 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:47.639 in fact that they view each other's sex tapes to 0:18:47.800 --> 0:18:54.000 swap till physicians and lingerie. Wasn't that TLC Discovery okay, 0:18:54.040 --> 0:18:56.560 which also hosts t LC. And I just want to say, 0:18:57.000 --> 0:19:03.560 which cameras on me? Jordan? This one right here? I 0:19:03.600 --> 0:19:06.400 want you to know whoever works for Discovery or TLC. 0:19:06.680 --> 0:19:08.520 I just want to say thank you from the bottom 0:19:08.520 --> 0:19:11.120 of my heart because I fell into a deep depression 0:19:11.119 --> 0:19:14.040 around two thousand eighteen where I discovered ninety D Fiance 0:19:14.200 --> 0:19:16.400 and it took me right out. Not to mention, has 0:19:16.440 --> 0:19:18.560 it not only taken me out of depression, I am 0:19:18.600 --> 0:19:21.000 now known for doing NINETYD Fiance voices, to the point 0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:23.840 where ninety Fiance cast members have asked me to send 0:19:23.840 --> 0:19:27.360 them voice messages of their voices. Also, on top of that, 0:19:27.720 --> 0:19:30.639 it has been such a joy to just have nothing 0:19:30.680 --> 0:19:33.280 to do. And then I just click on that Discovery 0:19:33.280 --> 0:19:36.120 app because now the commercials are on and they're seeking 0:19:36.160 --> 0:19:41.640 sister wife breaking on that okay, six pound life. Then 0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:45.040 on top of that, my weird obsessions eating fucking cotton 0:19:45.040 --> 0:19:47.399 out of a mattress. It's just you guys, never stop. 0:19:48.000 --> 0:19:52.200 And now we have a mom and daughter shaving each 0:19:52.200 --> 0:19:54.639 other's asshole on is that really what they're doing. I 0:19:54.680 --> 0:19:59.040 watched the video sou Mother Dream Sisters where the sisters 0:19:59.240 --> 0:20:02.520 fuck the same nigga and want to ovulate and have 0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:04.920 a baby with him. It is just like, I don't 0:20:04.960 --> 0:20:07.080 know who does the cast. Wait, I went to a 0:20:07.080 --> 0:20:11.480 sex party one and twins and were they playing with 0:20:11.520 --> 0:20:13.600 each other? Not each other the the guys there. It 0:20:13.680 --> 0:20:15.520 was weird because the guys there had this fantasy they 0:20:15.560 --> 0:20:17.199 wanted to see it happen and they were like, no, no, 0:20:17.240 --> 0:20:18.679 we're not gonna do that. But they were like right 0:20:18.720 --> 0:20:21.080 next to each other on the bed like when girl 0:20:21.200 --> 0:20:23.159 was with one guy when girls and I don't know 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:26.199 if I could do that with I have seen on 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:31.800 the only fans a mom and daughter like like they 0:20:32.119 --> 0:20:34.440 were like dance and you know, we're lingree together. But 0:20:34.480 --> 0:20:36.600 then they have their own like separate pages as well. 0:20:37.040 --> 0:20:40.240 And but the mom that the one that they had together, 0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:42.080 they would like they might bring in a guy and 0:20:42.160 --> 0:20:45.200 like they're together, but they you know, they wouldn't touch 0:20:45.200 --> 0:20:47.000 each other, they wouldn't be there all that, but they 0:20:47.080 --> 0:20:49.600 played with the same guy together. Yeah, they this This 0:20:49.680 --> 0:20:53.760 says that they discussed different sexual positions that they could 0:20:53.800 --> 0:20:56.880 try with their respective partners and the outfits that would 0:20:56.920 --> 0:21:00.480 best please them. But they do admit that they're significant 0:21:00.600 --> 0:21:05.280 has um have not really appreciated their closeness in a relationship. 0:21:06.040 --> 0:21:08.480 Uh what's crazy is that both of these women are 0:21:08.520 --> 0:21:11.359 black as well. So I know y'all thought it was 0:21:11.400 --> 0:21:14.679 white people ship, but no people then it was like 0:21:14.680 --> 0:21:17.560 we'd be working together. That The pairs say they have 0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:21.360 been inseparable since the passing of her father who died 0:21:21.359 --> 0:21:23.239 in a car accident and when she was seven, why 0:21:26.080 --> 0:21:31.359 you right, you right, the daughters he passed away in 0:21:31.359 --> 0:21:33.520 a car accident, and it made them closer to got it. 0:21:33.640 --> 0:21:40.520 Here we go and we live in Jackson, Alabama. Okay together, Yeah, 0:21:40.600 --> 0:21:49.280 I mean everything watching them together, cooling together, I can't 0:21:49.359 --> 0:21:53.639 imagine my life without my mom being a know what 0:21:53.800 --> 0:21:56.520 to do, how to function. I've had people say that 0:21:56.600 --> 0:21:59.159