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Speaker 1: if you're listening, you fucking know what show this is

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Speaker 1: because you clicked it. Um, okay, let me tell you

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Speaker 1: This is not a freaky Friday ship. Let me just elaborate.

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Speaker 1: if I got an invite to something like that, it's

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Speaker 1: night and did Molly at a sex club. That's me, bitch.

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Speaker 1: But also, here's the thing, y'all, I'm blaming the fact

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Speaker 1: introduce our guests. Do we introduce ourselves first, No bitch,

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Speaker 1: you'll been listening to us, you know what the funk

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Speaker 1: this is? Anyway though, So if you're watching on YouTube,

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Speaker 1: oh wait, there we go. There is some an anonymity

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Speaker 1: this episode, just because you know, we like to protect

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Speaker 1: today's episode is about hacking. Hold on, hold on, hold on,

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Speaker 1: because bad this siding in the building, y'all to mother,

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Speaker 1: he's been way too motherfucking long. Our guest today we

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Speaker 1: will call him Mel. He is like it's been tall

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Speaker 1: six three, beautiful chocolate man who came highly what is

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Speaker 1: remember what a beautiful chocolate man? What the whoa Mel?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us again. He comes highly referred

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Speaker 1: by pretty much half of our fan base who has

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Speaker 1: Thank you for having what's on your glasses. They look

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Speaker 1: definitely set a little booty scratched. So last night, Melan

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Speaker 1: I I he invited me to the Brooklyn uh Swingers Club.

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Speaker 1: Is that what we called. It's a private party, don't

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Speaker 1: Here we go and we live in Jackson, Alabama. Okay together, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean everything watching them together, cooling together, I can't

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Speaker 1: What kind of positions do you think I should do?

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Speaker 1: you ere time I see the little tickettok because I'm like,

427
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,959
Speaker 1: oh my god, and getting old because how long does

428
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 1: it take to edit these taking just to get a

429
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 1: little real done with the pr team that told me

430
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: not even lying. They were like coming up with strategy

431
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,160
Speaker 1: for my TV show and they're like, oh, we could

432
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: also do horrible decisions. I'm like, what kind of stuff

433
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 1: would you recommend if we brought you on. She's like, well,

434
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: we've got to do a TikTok. I was like, We've

435
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,120
Speaker 1: got it in the conversation. No, I mean we could

436
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,919
Speaker 1: do it, but we just gotta have somebody know we

437
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 1: can upload clips to TikTok. When you think I'm about

438
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,199
Speaker 1: to be out there with Mandy like this, she made it,

439
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: I'm not doing I'm not doing that. So I realized

440
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 1: I can't dance, So bro, I will say I love

441
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: black TikTok straight right now, that's funny. Oh, I didn't

442
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: realize that was even a thing because the white people

443
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 1: ain't made one a dance yet to make hilarious. It's like,

444
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 1: it's great. I love a good like Twitter TikTok drama.

445
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 1: I just be like Twitter used to just be the ship.

446
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 1: It's still Twitter. Twitter is still the funniest ship in

447
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:36,439
Speaker 1: the world to me. I want to get into our

448
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Speaker 1: hoard Derve because now, guys, the moment you''ve been waiting

449
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Speaker 1: pagan beach. So our hoard Derve segment is sex tips.

451
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Speaker 1: Mel we come to you, Mr professional. I mean I'm

452
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Speaker 1: a pro too, but you're the man now, So I

453
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 1: would love for you to give I would love for

454
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Speaker 1: you to give a tip. First two women who are

455
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 1: interested in pegging. So the standpoint that I want to

456
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: give is, this woman has her strap on, and like

457
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,480
Speaker 1: you said, what advice would you give to a woman

458
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: to make sure she ensures that the man enjoys himself

459
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 1: what like some dudes and don't. So pegging is definitely

460
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 1: a I mean yeah, it's it's something that people do

461
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: and they enjoy the power trip of it. Women love

462
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:33,680
Speaker 1: to like walk around waving their strap ones in there,

463
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 1: but it is definitely a an activity that you have

464
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 1: to be very conscious about your partners. So you have

465
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 1: to be very like communicative, make sure like they're you know,

466
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 1: like make sure they continuously okay. Um. A lot of

467
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 1: times people can go into you know, power trip and

468
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 1: they forget that they're you know, forget about him, and

469
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: he might not want to make any noise or say

470
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: something because he doesn't want to feel what about the

471
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 1: words that he's Like Mandy calls it her dick? Do

472
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: you like, like, are you okay with women calling it

473
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: their dick? Like? Do you work for the words trap?

474
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: To be honest, I've never really had something called a day.

475
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,240
Speaker 1: They call it a strap, you know, they're like, I

476
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: call it a trap. But I've heard you'd be like,

477
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 1: it's my dick, okay. So I have heard them like

478
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: joke like they'd be like, oh, this feels like I

479
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:17,359
Speaker 1: got a dick on, like you know, I'm talking about

480
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: when it's inside of you. When I'm like when I'm

481
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 1: oh wait now, I have said that, I've been like

482
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 1: you like this dick like wall like because I do.

483
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: Like the man actually heard that at one point in time,

484
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: but I wasn't thinking about it. I was like, you

485
00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 1: know whatever, right, I mean, yeah, I mean I'm not

486
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 1: gonna yeah, I think I do. I'm okay with letting

487
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 1: them have their moment, right so they you know, I'm like,

488
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:44,119
Speaker 1: let big dick. It's big, that's what it is. It's big.

489
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:49,640
Speaker 1: You're a big dick. That's why you don't care big. Honestly,

490
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,919
Speaker 1: it's big. It's even a big song. Let me tell

491
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:55,400
Speaker 1: you something. I'm not kidding. Like the older I get

492
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: in big dick energy. I understand it's like confidence or whatever,

493
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: but like they're certain little things. Once I start talking

494
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: to someone to tell me it's either maybe I'm saying

495
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,120
Speaker 1: something emasculating like nick in it and they don't get

496
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: too testy with me. That's big dig shit. And if

497
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 1: you ain't getting bothered by a girl saying like that,

498
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 1: that's because you're a big day. Yeah. I mean, it's

499
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: plenty of times where like that's just that, oh yeah,

500
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 1: which do you prefer? Oh, in terms of oh, it's

501
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: it's both for the sharp one like okay, So that

502
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 1: that kind of leads into the whole like group. We'll

503
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 1: get there. We'll get there right after. So um, definitely

504
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:47,199
Speaker 1: more of a thin but like okay, so once you

505
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 1: kind of learn more about like the anal canal, you

506
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: learn about like taking the prostating. Like like a lot

507
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 1: of women think that they're gonna walk in there with

508
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 1: like a twelve inch like strap on. It's like, no,

509
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: like that's not how this works. That's the one that's

510
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: the one that was picked last night first for me,

511
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,760
Speaker 1: Well for you, that's fine. Put that ship on and

512
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: it was down to her knee because you're right, because

513
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: you're yeah, you know, imagine can now I can take

514
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: more than that? Like like there's like a certain if

515
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 1: you So I bought an actual set, right and so

516
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: the set itself it comes with a strap one that

517
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 1: has or one of the attachments, and it feels it

518
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,440
Speaker 1: seems like they perfectly playing out the distance, like the

519
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 1: length of it, like it doesn't go too deep, it

520
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: doesn't like hurt you, it doesn't you know whatever. Um,

521
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 1: but there are people that come in there with these

522
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,679
Speaker 1: you know longer the hey, who's gonna take this? And

523
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 1: it's like no, nobody doesn't take that. That always shocks

524
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: me when I watched more like I'm always in pain.

525
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: It makes me like, well, the thing is like okay.

526
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: Another thing I had to learn about it was that

527
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: as a tip for men interested, so um, okay, now

528
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: if you have a partner that is very willing, then

529
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: yes that you know, we'll say that different once take

530
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: But the one I will give for that person would

531
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: be make sure you train ahead of time, like they're

532
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Speaker 1: a whole Anal training kids. You can order from Amazon.

533
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: There are videos and like um and lots of articles

534
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: about like understanding, how to relax, how to um you know,

535
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: kind of like gradually train up to a point where

536
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: you can take a certain size like strap one, um,

537
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: and so like take your time doing it, like don't

538
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 1: try to rush into it. A lot of the reasons

539
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: that a lot of women that I meet have this

540
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 1: really bad stigma tooris Anal is that like they ended

541
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: up with somebody who just tried to shove it in

542
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: like and they didn't. They weren't they didn't have the patience,

543
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: they didn't have the knowledge, they didn't have them they

544
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: kind of like know how on how to make it

545
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: a pleasurable experience because once you actually get to a

546
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: point where it is pleasurable, like it is pleasurable an

547
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: orgasm before I know, I do want to add a

548
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: tip to uh, and we spoke about it. You actually

549
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: have your own strap and deldo, which I love because

550
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: I'll say for and this is an advice for for

551
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: men um. What I've first did pegging for the very

552
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: first time, I went to the sex sort of travel

553
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: with it and she just gave me like a prostate dildo,

554
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: but it was literally just a cylinder with a hook

555
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: at the end. Didn't look like a dick dildo. It

556
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 1: was like that, but it was definitely harder than like

557
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: the dildos that kind of feel more real. But I

558
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: think in his head he for sure did not want

559
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: it to look like a dick. But when we when

560
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: I ended up using my dildo, the feeling was much better.

561
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: So I would suggest a for the man to go

562
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 1: and try out what feels best in his ask because

563
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: that hard one was not very enjoyable. And also to

564
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: just get out of your mind that you don't want

565
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 1: a dick hard like no, no, like it was like

566
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 1: it was really hard, but what is it. I'm gonna

567
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: give a plug? Right, So, like like I've experienced like

568
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: the silicone I experienced, like and I don't like it.

569
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: I don't like to feel a bit hard. Um. I

570
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:01,440
Speaker 1: actually found a strap one set made by Doc Johnson

571
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,800
Speaker 1: and that's what I have. And they've been trying to

572
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: come on horrible decisions and I really keep like it

573
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: really pisces me off, like coming on, come on and

574
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: send a representative like pay us. And then they had

575
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: the nerve to say they wanted to send some free toys.

576
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: They've been doing this for almost five years and that's

577
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: why I'm annoyed. But go ahead, plug. I'm not gonna

578
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 1: they got they got some product, but you know what

579
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So they have that and it's and it's

580
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: has like a skin field kind of so it feels

581
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: softer like yeah yeah, but and then and then so

582
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 1: then um trying it. At first I thought it was great, right,

583
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 1: but then I found out they had like a vibrating

584
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 1: base like that you can attach in there and the

585
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: old thing vibrates. So it actually provides a little bit

586
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: of pleasure for the woman because a lot of times

587
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 1: women they're not really they're like, okay, you know, I'll

588
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: do it, but it's done. Double ended stuff. Double ended

589
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 1: um um nor huh for her, like because like with

590
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: a strap, you could have a double ended one like

591
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: I've used that for myself with women not from um oh,

592
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:14,239
Speaker 1: like the insertable one, like the what did you mean

593
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 1: you only got one? I thought she was like a woman.

594
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 1: That's what I was hold on I've met like the

595
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: strap because they could have the double ended joint, but

596
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: also like they have okay, so they have the insertable

597
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: one that has like a little piece that goes inside

598
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: of you and you're supposed to be able to hold

599
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: it with KEI was technically right, But they also have

600
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: the long one with two used that I have. I

601
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 1: have not used it. Actually i've used it, and it's

602
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: so difficult because it has to be long for it

603
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: to be good and like scissors, and I kept trying

604
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: to use it and it was like fun because it

605
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: kept slipping out, So you have to be very close

606
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: to each other. Right, it's jelly and it bends or

607
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: like whatever whatever soft it was. But like it's hard

608
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: because you're like basically one. Well even the girl the

609
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: girl last night that pegged me, um, it's still it's

610
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,720
Speaker 1: still pegging when it's the girl on girl, Well, she's

611
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: trapped me. There we go, she's trapped me. And when

612
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: she when she went, she also let me know that

613
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:17,520
Speaker 1: she was putting a whole different toy in her pussy.

614
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: So while she sucked me, the dick vibrated. Also, her

615
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: pussy was vibrating. And not even that she had a

616
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 1: vibrating ain't plug too. She looked well black version of me.

617
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: She had pink hair and everything big like she was leaving.

618
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: She was like, where's my have to drop this tomorrow? Bro?

619
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: Pride weekend for one for two? Now, we're not dropping

620
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: this tomorrow? Why not? Because I don't need people knowing

621
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: that this weekend was this weekend. I like our ship

622
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: being untimely. Y'all don't know what then going untimely? Yeah, bitch,

623
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: I don't need people clocking this pussy the Sunday. Sorry June,

624
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: nob you can't be all July sixteenth, Yeah, that's gonna

625
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: come out of uh what it is? Okay, July just no, no,

626
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: let's open the booty. Okay, it's gonna it's gonna drop

627
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: in May Jordan. Okay, wait, it'll drop into Yeah, bitch,

628
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,400
Speaker 1: they don't know whitness ship. Now we're gonna drop it

629
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: in may fools. All right, so let me let's get

630
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: let's get into let's get into the Peggy. I want

631
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: to hear the stories because, like I said, you came

632
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: highly referred. Every time she says referred, what he was referred,

633
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: only laughing because like he wasn't referred, you know you was.

634
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: When you use that term, I think of like you're

635
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: hiring someone like we need sound panels done, we need

636
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:49,840
Speaker 1: like we need somebody we got referred. If you need something,

637
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: it's asking. Well, to be honest, I don't know't know

638
00:34:54,400 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 1: that's why they referred, but they probably referred because they

639
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: just I think one night talking about it could have

640
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: been from my you know well, I mean they know

641
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: that I'm okay, they know I'm okay talking about it like,

642
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: well can we talk about okay? You are thirty three correct?

643
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 1: You got into pegging? When and how how were you

644
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: introduced to it? What was your first experience like being pegged?

645
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:28,399
Speaker 1: So a couple of years ago. Um, the first experience

646
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: actually well actually scratch that, first experience with anal plate

647
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: in general was like two thousand, like fifteen or something

648
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: like that. Um, And it was a girl who we

649
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: were She told me that she you know, was freaker

650
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 1: than me. And I was like, nah, you're going to

651
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: prove that. And so she she got some toy out

652
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 1: of this at her little drawer and and I was like,

653
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: like I said, I was always I was up for

654
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 1: like just trying it. And I think you say that

655
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: all the time. Watch your mouth, watch your fucking mouth,

656
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 1: like y'all. Y'all could go round and rounds when you're

657
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 1: not gonna say. I'm not gonna say. But she beat

658
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 1: me like competition, but like she um, she definitely open

659
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: eyes to something different because I wasn't didn't know how

660
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: it was gonna feel, and she was very good with it.

661
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 1: And um, I guess they call it milked. I got

662
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:22,879
Speaker 1: milk And I was like, can we elaborate that jump

663
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 1: for people I don't know? Okay, So your your prostate

664
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: is um. It's a sack inside of your anus about

665
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: three inches up three inches then and up um. And

666
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: it's where you're kind of production scene of your sperm.

667
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 1: And so when it's stimulated, it produces more so like

668
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: like to get to a point where you're like shooting knows,

669
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: like huge like nuts off. Like massaging the prostate will

670
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,280
Speaker 1: build that up in a person um. It's very similar

671
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: to female g spot. Like if you do it correctly,

672
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: you might feel like eventually like you have to pee

673
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: and you're doing this like squirt right, so it's the

674
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: same actual feeling. It starts to feel like something's filling

675
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 1: up inside of you, like as it's like massaged or

676
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:14,919
Speaker 1: play with and and doing it is for a guy.

677
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: Doing it continuously is like a form of edging for

678
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 1: us um. But yeah, once that prostate is well, once

679
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 1: you're you ejaculated, it's easily like the first time I

680
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: think it had is shooting everywhere. It shot, hit the wall.

681
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: It's fun and air. She was like, she was like,

682
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:31,560
Speaker 1: I didn't expect it to be this much like she

683
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: like covered it and I was like, well, people, people

684
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 1: are right, but the fact that the time it surprised

685
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,280
Speaker 1: me too. Tongue and the fingers are the gateway, THENTO

686
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: pecking right, it'll get you there potentially, in my opinion

687
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: of vibrating toy, because one just think there's a muscle

688
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: and so in order to relax it, the use of

689
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:57,399
Speaker 1: the easiest way is to use a vibrating toy. See woman,

690
00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 1: that gets like, because whatever we all have an asshole

691
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: when you know you want something in it. Tongue doesn't

692
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: make me want anything in my ass. Actually it doesn't

693
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 1: not for me either. Actually, I mean I like, well,

694
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 1: I feel like once someone is comfortable with getting their

695
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: ass eight, then they're probably okay now with fingers. Once

696
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: you have the fingers in there and you see that

697
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: you actually enjoy the penetration of it, then you may

698
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 1: consider then you'll be like, well, damn, yeah, what else

699
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: can I put up in here? So when the girl

700
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:27,880
Speaker 1: said that she was freaking at me, that was the

701
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 1: first thing she did. And I was that was the

702
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: first time I've ever had that done. So I was like, okay,

703
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 1: I on someone's hand or on their strap. No never

704
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: how he said, study, Like I said, it's about the

705
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,920
Speaker 1: research I studied, learning about you know, doing an enema properly,

706
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 1: you know, making sure you're cleaned out. That we don't

707
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: be planning. You don't eat a bunch of cheese and night.

708
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm about to say, we don't be

709
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: planning anal and I drink coffee every day, So depending

710
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: on over and depending on the milk that was in

711
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:04,280
Speaker 1: that coffee, what brought this was so much hotter before

712
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: you started. I mean, but the crazy thing is too.

713
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 1: They also always assumed that a straight man's ass is

714
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 1: not as taken care of as a give man. But

715
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,399
Speaker 1: I don't assume it. I think it's just I just

716
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 1: your partners. I'm very big on I'm gonna stickler when

717
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: it comes to Hadgi. Right. So the last thing I

718
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: wanted to do was to be in a situation where

719
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 1: like I'm shipping on a strap like that's that's crazy.

720
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: And so because I mean even like everything will just

721
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: turn off the whole situation, like the smell, the like

722
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: Paul's just like okay. And so I make sure like

723
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: like I said, I did my you know, resetarch ahead

724
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: of town to make sure. I because all the all

725
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 1: the articles and blogs were all like make sure you

726
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 1: learn about cleaning yourself, like how often would you want

727
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: to be paid or do you get paid? Like, so

728
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: there's an interesting thing because there's a lot of work. Yeah,

729
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 1: of course, as the episode is about picking right, So um,

730
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: I actually it's not something a lot of people think

731
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 1: that once you get it, it's like, oh now I

732
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: might here feeding for it and I'm not here like yeo,

733
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,840
Speaker 1: we gotta have this every time. No, this may happen

734
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 1: like once I was yeah, maybe like once a month,

735
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: maybe twice a month. But it's like, but it's like

736
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: doing it. Like I haven't even had people who felt

737
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,279
Speaker 1: like a little insecure because they're like, you know, do

738
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 1: I have to do this with you every time? And

739
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm like no, like I don't. Really. It's not like

740
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: a then something it's great to have, but like i'd

741
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: rather have with somebody who was extremely excited to do it,

742
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: versus somebody who's like, I gotta feeling like I got

743
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,280
Speaker 1: to do this as a chore to make you happy,

744
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: and it's like, no, it's not the case, Like I

745
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: can still have regular sex and be perfectly fine. I

746
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,440
Speaker 1: mean that's that's why I went to So when I

747
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: went to the other type club, they did a pegging

748
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 1: demo and uh my X was like, you should go

749
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 1: because I know that this is your thing and if

750
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,680
Speaker 1: this needs to get you off, because we never did that,

751
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 1: and it's just been very like you could go and

752
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 1: do it if you won't because you're not getting here,

753
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:02,680
Speaker 1: but if it's something you need to go do it.

754
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I enjoyed that more than what you're

755
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,240
Speaker 1: saying where it becomes a chore, because anytime sex becomes

756
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,439
Speaker 1: a chore, it becomes unenjoyable. I do want to get

757
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: to though, the first time you experienced it and who

758
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: you had get you in there because it wasn't a partner, correct, No,

759
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: So I actually reached out to a a dumb who

760
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: who identified as lesbian. And I did that because I

761
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: didn't want I wanted her to be able to focus,

762
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: like you know, I wanted to make sure that she

763
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: was focused on me, focused on making sure it was

764
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 1: a good experience where it's like, um, somebody who I

765
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 1: felt was like attracted the men might you know, be

766
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: all in their feelings or I don't know, they just

767
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 1: might be really horny or whatever. I wanted her to

768
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: be able to focus on it, right. You reached out

769
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 1: to a lesbian dum So I was in like a

770
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 1: little group chat and like we were, and I knew

771
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: some people in there, and I knew that she was

772
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: she was done identified as lesbian, and so I reached

773
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,359
Speaker 1: out to her and she was like yeah, sure, and

774
00:41:56,400 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 1: like we she was very good because she at really

775
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 1: knew the right questions to ask, like she knew like

776
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 1: all the things to negotiate before the whole scene happened. Yeah,

777
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: so she wanted to know like whether or not she

778
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:11,360
Speaker 1: could pull my hair, was or not she could, um

779
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: you know, call me names, whether or not she could

780
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: slap me or spank me or um. You know. She

781
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 1: was like, we're gonna set up a safe word just

782
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: in case, like something goes wrong and you you know,

783
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: you want me to slow down or stop. Like she

784
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: was very big on, um on trying to understand my

785
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 1: pain tolerance, understand like how far I was ahead in

786
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,279
Speaker 1: my training. And she even like gave assignments, like she

787
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: was like, I want you to do this tonight, and

788
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: that night she was very good. Yeah. And um, and

789
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 1: so the first time, like it wasn't like a huge

790
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 1: like it felt kind of just natural, like we we

791
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 1: were already friends and it was it just kind of

792
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: felt very chill, um. And it was actually a very

793
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,800
Speaker 1: enjoyable time. Actually, the first time was actually was watched

794
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: by five women. Watched by five women. Is that the

795
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 1: story that I'm hearing from shout out to the hor Hive?

796
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: That's actually that's actually a different one, right, Okay, So

797
00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 1: tell us what the hor Hive did to you? Um,

798
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 1: so that one actually kind of happened by chance. Right.

799
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 1: So we had, you know, taken this little like mini

800
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 1: vacation um. And it was a group of ten of

801
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: us and we're taking a mini vacation. Um. We were

802
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: um like a little like a cabin thing that we

803
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: had read it. And so there was a girl there

804
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 1: who actually was also bisexual, and she had brought a

805
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 1: strap one and they and they had known that I

806
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:36,759
Speaker 1: was into it, so they kept saying like, hey, man,

807
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 1: bringing strap one, bring a trap one. So I was like,

808
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 1: all right, I just bring the stuff whatever, just in

809
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 1: case it happens, which I wasn't planning on it happening.

810
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:46,439
Speaker 1: But this girl like did the same thing. She um,

811
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: she was trapping another girl and everybody was like watching,

812
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 1: and then she was like, you know, I'm gonna try

813
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: this on you next, and I was like okay, you know,

814
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: but she actually had a much larger trap one and

815
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 1: I was like, no, we're going to switch over to mine. Um.

816
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 1: And it was actually maybe like just three of us

817
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: in the room. UM. She started, and then people just

818
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 1: kind of like started coming in the room while it happened,

819
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 1: and then everybody would just stand around watching and people like, oh,

820
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 1: I want to try, and are you getting nervous when

821
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 1: people often no. Actually, to be honest, I wasn't. I

822
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 1: A lot of these people that were in this group

823
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: are people that I've had like in group chats with

824
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 1: and I've you know, people posting news all the time.

825
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 1: So I knew these people like, you know, I've seen

826
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: him at other events as well, So it was very

827
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 1: much a comfortable thing. I knew that people there were

828
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 1: very non judgmental, and then people were okay, wait when

829
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 1: people said, hey, I want to try. Now, how many

830
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: people ended up getting in your buddole um, let's see

831
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 1: one three three, And it's funny. And it's funny because

832
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 1: they they were all scared. They were all super scared,

833
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,879
Speaker 1: and I was like trying to like, yeah, I was trying,

834
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: and I was trying to ease. Like they were like, oh,

835
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna hurt you, like I don't know,

836
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: like whatever, and I'm like, my girl, it's okay, like

837
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:58,919
Speaker 1: and they're like they're like, oh no, like I feel

838
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: like you know it's going her. Did you get your

839
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 1: dick sucked while you're getting pig also with straps? One

840
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:10,359
Speaker 1: of the actually been written while I was getting strapped too.

841
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:16,919
Speaker 1: That's higher. Have you sucked a strap? No, that's something

842
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:20,399
Speaker 1: you're not interested in either, because that's the one thing

843
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 1: I haven't done, and I just wanted to get to

844
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: suck my strap. Sometimes I just don't don't if it.

845
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,359
Speaker 1: If it did, it would be purely for like her

846
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: like her like. But no, if it did, didn't you

847
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 1: purely be for her like It wouldn't get me anything.

848
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 1: It wouldn't give me anything. Okay, So in that scene

849
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 1: you were strapped by three women? What is an ideal

850
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:55,080
Speaker 1: pegging scenario for you? What? What haven't you done that

851
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: you feel like would be the ideal scenario? And pegging

852
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 1: and and and take notes guys, because if you see

853
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:03,919
Speaker 1: him out and about how you'll know how to please man.

854
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 1: The interesting thing is that, um, my ultimate fantasy had

855
00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:15,359
Speaker 1: always been a what I called a reverse pegging gang bang, right, So,

856
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 1: and that just will be multiple women with trap ones, say,

857
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 1: like I don't know for plus maybe three, four to six. Right.

858
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: Um So the event that I was just talking about before,

859
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: there was like one trap one being passed around like

860
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 1: and so it didn't really necessarily feel like a gang

861
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 1: bang per se, like it was kind of like, oh,

862
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: let me try next, like you want. I don't know

863
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: about that, like you always so people have to get

864
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: in and out putt putting trap on on a lot

865
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: of words. You got to actually adjust the strap and

866
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: that's the thing too, depending on your thigh size, hip size,

867
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: like you really have to adjust the herd, right, So yeah,

868
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: it's it's the adjustments and you have to like make

869
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: sure like they're comfortable with the position. And even when

870
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 1: they get on the bed, like they have to make

871
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: sure it's a good height. And as a tall guy

872
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:07,000
Speaker 1: like different because you have to like sometimes they have

873
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:11,280
Speaker 1: to prop me up. Sometimes it's like you know, the froggy.

874
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 1: So the last nigga that I packed was six six

875
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 1: The first thing I pegged though was six eleven. I'm

876
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: five ft one, so I'm literally so you're just scaling

877
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 1: the tree. I'm right, So there's something right, and it's funny.

878
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: One thing I actually love seeing is like when women

879
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: decide that they want to trust trap ones and then

880
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: they realize how much work goes into actually stroking as

881
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 1: even as a guy, right, because you're like your legs

882
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 1: will start burning and like and I'm like, now you

883
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:45,879
Speaker 1: understanding like what we have to go to, I ain't

884
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. It gives you a whole new appreciation.

885
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: It really does that. Some niggas don't put it in

886
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: work at all, So I go appreciate all niggas here

887
00:47:53,680 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: not really like stroke game. That's why athletes because they

888
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: are athletic, and it takes an athletic person to really fuck.

889
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I feel like we're just ten

890
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: minutes sex. I don't know, I never heard of that.

891
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like you know when you're

892
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: like I never heard of that. I'm sorry, I don't

893
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: have a loud voice today, but what I'm talking about

894
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: ten minutes sexes like couples that like know how to

895
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: get each other off as like their version of a quickie,

896
00:48:22,480 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: like I want the experience I want, I want like

897
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:27,879
Speaker 1: the full Like I said, I'm more of a cential person.

898
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 1: It's like just I can if I wanted to know,

899
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,360
Speaker 1: I can jack myself off, like if I'm having sex.

900
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: And it's funny because my boys just tell me like bro,

901
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 1: you gotta stop giving this like d dick every single time.

902
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: It was like you gotta like yeah, they because they

903
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 1: were like because you know, women get attached, you know,

904
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: or women are like so it's like all the time,

905
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: you gotta stop giving this hundred Yeah, they're like, you

906
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 1: gotta give us Like I'm like, no, I don't. I

907
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: don't really know how to do that. I don't know

908
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: what that looks like. I want to ask you this

909
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:59,240
Speaker 1: when I watch porn um where men are getting sucked

910
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,040
Speaker 1: by other men and they're not always hard all the time, right,

911
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: I don't watch pegging porn really, but they're not always

912
00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: hard all the time and they're still really enjoying it. Um,

913
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: particularly with you, are you always rock hard when you're

914
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 1: getting picked? And even if you aren't, do women get

915
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: insecure because they think you're not enjoying it because you

916
00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: aren't hard. Sometimes they'll ask about it. But like, there

917
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: are times when yes, I will get hard. There are

918
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,279
Speaker 1: times when I won't. But the reason but the more

919
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 1: you experience it and the more you get used to it,

920
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: the easier it is to stay hard while you're getting paid. Like,

921
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 1: the reason that you are getting soft is because all

922
00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: the blood that you have focusing your penis you're now

923
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 1: focusing all that on your ass, Like your your ass

924
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: is like requiring the um like the attention of your

925
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,399
Speaker 1: nerves and your concentration, and so you stop thinking about

926
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 1: your dick, like you're only thinking about like making sure

927
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: that this person isn't like going to wreck your ship.

928
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 1: So you're like trying to focus on relaxing. And that's

929
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 1: why you're not and you're diet soft. Now, if you now,

930
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 1: if it's something where you're starting to enjoy it and

931
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: doesn't like you know, you don't it doesn't hurt or

932
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,080
Speaker 1: doesn't anymore or doesn't like, you know, feel weird anymore,

933
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: you'll be able to start focusing back in and and you'll

934
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: get hard again. Like that's a really good explanation because

935
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: I didn't get it. I was like, they like, right,

936
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: I love as hard as dick while I'm pegging. And

937
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 1: that shows that shows a little experience. That shows some experience.

938
00:50:19,880 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 1: Oh wait, so they did it before. I wasn't. That

939
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: generally shows it, Yeah, unless you have some super small delta,

940
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,279
Speaker 1: like if you have a regularized detta, that means, yeah,

941
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 1: they obviously have done it before. Because it's like you

942
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:32,439
Speaker 1: still you know how to like multitask in your head,

943
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 1: like like if you can't, I mean most guys are

944
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 1: not really the best multitaskers, right, So like if we

945
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:41,240
Speaker 1: are worried about that, then usually we're either self conscious.

946
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: We could be a little subconscious about it, maybe the

947
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 1: first time you do it, because you're like, you know,

948
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what she sees. I don't know. It's

949
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,439
Speaker 1: so you're focused on that. Like, but if you are,

950
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: you know, just taking that ship, then yeah, you get hard,

951
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: like because you're back to like you trusted, you're not

952
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 1: really worried about it. You know it's not gonna hurt.

953
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: Your favorite position being packed, like do you ride? Do

954
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 1: you get it from back on your back? What would

955
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: your favorite position be? Probably missionary? Missionary because because again essential,

956
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: so it's like you know, you're there in your face

957
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 1: and it's kissing and like you know, touching. Um yeah,

958
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: um well I are gonna say, um dogs was great

959
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:23,200
Speaker 1: to watch on camera, like to watch back on camera,

960
00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: Like if you record it, it's that's a very sexy

961
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: position you record yourself. Yeah, do you ever get the videos?

962
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 1: I need to phone you or want to see the

963
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 1: tall before they told you I got my video? But

964
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: it was missionary? Yeah, sometimes because sometimes people want to know,

965
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: like even even the time when I had like the

966
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 1: girls they were kind of trading out the strap on,

967
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 1: Like one girl was going in like and she's like

968
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: worried I'm hurt, and I'm like, honestly, you could go

969
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: a lot harder than this, like like come on, like

970
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:56,719
Speaker 1: let's go like and she's like, I just feel like

971
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: I'm hurt. I'm like, girl, if you don't like go

972
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: like because like you know, it's like slow shorking. But

973
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 1: that's because like, um, like they I may show my

974
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:10,919
Speaker 1: video where like this girl's going on home like like

975
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 1: you probably see a video. Yeah, but like like the

976
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 1: point where like she was going so hard to the phone,

977
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: like fell off the bed and like hit the floor

978
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 1: and like it's just and it has this crazy angle

979
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: of us and we're just like I love when the

980
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: phone gets fucked up and you still here and she's

981
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 1: still like she just we heard the phone drive and

982
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 1: me just she just kept going like and and it

983
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 1: created it actually took like a really dope angle of it.

984
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: But m yeah, a lot of it is just how

985
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: comfortable you are and how like I guess prepared you

986
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 1: are for it. But yeah, I love it. I want

987
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: to get into the homemail before we get out. Shout

988
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:50,319
Speaker 1: out to our our wore hip member who set this in,

989
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: because this adds another element to this whole conversation. The

990
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 1: title is he wants me to peg him? Hi, Mandy,

991
00:52:57,160 --> 00:52:59,920
Speaker 1: and wheezy. I love the show I started listening to

992
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 1: in the pandemic and now I'm on a mission to

993
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 1: start from the beginning and listen to every episode. Oh God,

994
00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: when y'all do that, she says she's up to episode one,

995
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 1: so you're about halfway. There's good. I love hearing the

996
00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: progression of the show and you both as women. Okay,

997
00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 1: so here's the t y'a already. I met this guy

998
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 1: and we went out a few times and eventually had sex,

999
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 1: which was amazing. After that first experience, we talked about

1000
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: the more kinky things we liked, and he brought up pegging.

1001
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm all for it. I never pecked a guy before,

1002
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:34,319
Speaker 1: but I have eaten ass and I enjoy it. So

1003
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 1: from listening to y'all's older episodes, I know to get

1004
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:41,279
Speaker 1: it wet, eat his ass, lupe, et cetera. But he

1005
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: has a hairy ass. How do I bring up manscaping

1006
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 1: in a way that's not offensive or turns him off.

1007
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 1: Thanks in advance for y'all's help. If y'all and then

1008
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: uh shout out to her. She's in d C. We

1009
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:57,439
Speaker 1: will be doing live shows soon, guys. Um and yes,

1010
00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 1: so I wanted to ask you, um, the landscaping, the

1011
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: manscaping conversation, it's all gone. It's gone for you, but

1012
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: clearly that's it's not for him. And he wants to

1013
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,239
Speaker 1: be pegged and she's like to be I'll consider it,

1014
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 1: but it's there. To be honest, I feel like it's

1015
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: actually more enjoyable when there's no hair, because hair we'll

1016
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,439
Speaker 1: we'll get get caught, like it'll get caught and it'll

1017
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: pool and it'll like you know, it's like pulling a

1018
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: hair out of your your vagina. It's like it'll sting

1019
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 1: a little bit. Like you don't want that. You want

1020
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: as much like little resistance as possible. Um, So how

1021
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 1: would you I would tell her to offer to do it,

1022
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: like offer to and I did that before. I was saying,

1023
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 1: you don't even have to say like his ass. You

1024
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:43,560
Speaker 1: can be like I want to do it and then

1025
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 1: just get the ass. Like now some people are like, oh,

1026
00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:47,120
Speaker 1: you know, they don't want to try. They don't want

1027
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 1: to do acting or they want to do whatever. Like honestly,

1028
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,919
Speaker 1: in my opinion, depend depending on I guess it depends

1029
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: on your hair typing, your skin type. But clippers are

1030
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,720
Speaker 1: a great way, Like it's just hair clippers, regular hair clippers,

1031
00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: even it's just cutting down short using regular hair clippers

1032
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:02,359
Speaker 1: and just all of it. But having somebody there who's

1033
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: actually using the clippers, you get to you be more

1034
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: careful when you got you know, worry about catching anything.

1035
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 1: Did it and it was fun and intimate, like and

1036
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: like years ago I used the razor, but we got

1037
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,919
Speaker 1: a manscape kit so there has like a whole light. Yeah,

1038
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 1: I'm just saying but nothing. No, But I say it's

1039
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,879
Speaker 1: to say I agree not only with eating, but with

1040
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: pegging um. A clean ass is I think probably mandatory.

1041
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,520
Speaker 1: I believe a lot of people are very big on this,

1042
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:39,240
Speaker 1: like like do you have groups of people who feel

1043
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: like hair is like it has to be there, like

1044
00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: it's part of your natural and whatever and you have

1045
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:46,720
Speaker 1: to have hair there. But for me, it's like pegging

1046
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:49,440
Speaker 1: holds odors pegging holds like I mean, not sorry, pegging

1047
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:53,880
Speaker 1: hair holds oders um hair like like I said, we'll

1048
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 1: get in the way and then at the same time

1049
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: it Um, I mean it doesn't look good in the video.

1050
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: I think these videos. Advice to our Horror High member

1051
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 1: who sent this in. Would one be that if you

1052
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: feel like you're gonna offend him if he told you

1053
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 1: he's interested in begging, I would say, maybe you sound

1054
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 1: like a pro a little bit. They just say the

1055
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 1: pain too, Like I was gonna say, just just you

1056
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 1: come in and be like, well, I want us both

1057
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: to really enjoy this experience. Um, I've heard it could

1058
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 1: be painful. Let's let's man escape or let's you know,

1059
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 1: let's take a shower beforehand and let me like be

1060
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 1: intimate in that. And so some people use I'm not

1061
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,720
Speaker 1: a fan of raisers, that is, like and all stuff.

1062
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,760
Speaker 1: Uh clippers prevent raizor bumps because of just the anglic

1063
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 1: cuts of hair. But like, um, I've always actually wanted

1064
00:56:45,239 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 1: to try. I wanted to try waxing like once, just

1065
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 1: to go for the experience. Yeah, I want to go

1066
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 1: with right, that sounds like everything your china because the

1067
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: skin is tougher. So like I've been aning wax for

1068
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: years and when I do my pussy the only part

1069
00:57:04,120 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 1: that doesn't hurt is my ass because the skin is

1070
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:09,399
Speaker 1: just tougher and it's not as like sensitive. And then

1071
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,319
Speaker 1: like your period sometimes it's like like like if it's

1072
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 1: between or it's after, it's like it's the worst, but

1073
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 1: your ass will not hurt that much. Now, I think

1074
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 1: like the balls are a little more sensitive. You can't

1075
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:26,000
Speaker 1: wax balls, right, can But like there are people who literally, yeah,

1076
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 1: we'll get it time. I can't, Like I'll use clippers

1077
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 1: literally and just do that like that, can I like,

1078
00:57:31,880 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 1: y'all take care of everything else, but I'll give you

1079
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:37,960
Speaker 1: She's number, her name replaces my brows. She's really adorable,

1080
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 1: tiny little lady, and she's like, yes, we do, man,

1081
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: we do. Everybody. I want to go, like I want

1082
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 1: to do it, like like it's like a group project

1083
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 1: like you, but I want to go. I want to go.

1084
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 1: I would love to go with somebody like to like

1085
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: see you know, I go with you. But I'm scared

1086
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: of waxing. Wax am I niging now? Like hair? So

1087
00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: I'll be chill. I only like clip a little bit

1088
00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: down there because it's summertimes. Well, I like a landing strip,

1089
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: but I still like it to be like works on

1090
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 1: the side. So at the end of our episodes, we

1091
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 1: always ask people to like tell people where they can

1092
00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 1: find you, but you don't want people to find you. Correct,

1093
00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 1: but not necessarily. Well, I mean I have a I

1094
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:24,200
Speaker 1: have a like an nsfw G but and so and

1095
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: it's private, so I can accept and deny who I

1096
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:31,360
Speaker 1: want to. Um, So that handle is Mel the Scorpio King,

1097
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 1: Mel the Scorpio King. We will put that in the

1098
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:39,160
Speaker 1: description of this episode if you were interested in slang.

1099
00:58:39,240 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 1: Is some straps well like profile in s Yeah, I'm

1100
00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 1: not even allowed, like even when it comes to that,

1101
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 1: Like I'm very selective about like the energies that allow

1102
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:52,160
Speaker 1: and that. Like I've had people who have hit me

1103
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:54,919
Speaker 1: up on set life or something like that and very

1104
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: clearly like, um, you know, like hey, like oh trap one,

1105
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 1: like do using a strap when it's like in my

1106
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 1: fetish list, I would love to try that with you.

1107
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,440
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you know what I'm saying, Like, but

1108
00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:08,520
Speaker 1: I've had people who wanted to genuinely get to know

1109
00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:10,400
Speaker 1: you and then you know, they bring it up later

1110
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 1: and like, you know, it'd be cool to try. That

1111
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 1: was gonna be my last thing to ask you actually

1112
00:59:14,080 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 1: was uh feeling like a prop because this is something

1113
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 1: not only so taboo, not a lot of black men

1114
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 1: do it. Do you feel like you're approached more just

1115
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:27,439
Speaker 1: so that someone can get that experience off. It's kind

1116
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 1: of like also like the BBC experience, right, So, like

1117
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 1: a white woman will go like looking for a guy

1118
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 1: because they think he has a beautiful chocolate man. And

1119
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 1: so I have people who do literally specifically come and

1120
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 1: requests just like hey, you know, are you looking for

1121
00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 1: a mistress? Would you like to be pegged or whatever whatever?

1122
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: And I'm like no, I'm good like um because it's like, yeah,

1123
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: that's just what they're looking to get their knock off,

1124
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:57,600
Speaker 1: the fantasy list, like a bucket list. Um. So you generally,

1125
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: when it happens to me, it's generally somebody that I'm

1126
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 1: actually like taking something to get to know, very cool

1127
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: with the person. Um, I have a degree of trust

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01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 1: in them that they're going to actually they have my

1129
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,600
Speaker 1: best interest at heart. That's the part that makes me

1130
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: the most wet knowing that a man, especially a black man,

1131
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: relinquished so much not only power, but exudes so much

1132
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:23,919
Speaker 1: trust in me. I think that that's a very vulnerable

1133
01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 1: position and an act to do with someone else. And

1134
01:00:27,360 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 1: so a man has to really trust you to allow

1135
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 1: that to happen because it takes a lot because people

1136
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,200
Speaker 1: they also automatically think, like I said, like you're gonna

1137
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,480
Speaker 1: throw it in their face later or you're gonna the world,

1138
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 1: and so it makes you know what I mean, that's

1139
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:42,640
Speaker 1: something you can talk to many other guys about. Like

1140
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: I remember even just trying to bring it up um

1141
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:46,920
Speaker 1: or just bringing up the idea of ass play to

1142
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 1: like my boys, and I was like, yeah, like do

1143
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 1: you ever let a girl each has? And he's like,

1144
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: you know, like they like she go on there. I'm

1145
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:59,640
Speaker 1: like I'm fighting it like off that. I'm like yeah, okay,

1146
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. And they're like would

1147
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: you And I'm like you know, and they're like, when

1148
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 1: you think it doesn't open the conversation to more, do

1149
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 1: ask you questions the way women My boys are like, yeah,

1150
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 1: that's you, Like they just kind of like they don't

1151
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: they don't they know that. I'm just like very adventurous

1152
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 1: in that aspect, like um, so they're like, yeah, that's you.

1153
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: Like even like I was always a guy in college

1154
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: who was like experiencing everything before everybody else, like a

1155
01:01:23,160 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: like a threesomele for most of my friends experienced like

1156
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: orgy before all of my friends like, um, and so

1157
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm coming back to me. You're just to step ahead

1158
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:31,440
Speaker 1: of them right now, That's all. I don't know. I

1159
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 1: always just end up with like the right people in

1160
01:01:33,440 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 1: my in my like that just makes it happen. Um,

1161
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 1: Would you be willing to answer questions from men um

1162
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: if they decided to write I have plenty of guys

1163
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 1: who have hit me up to say like, hey, look,

1164
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 1: and they'll DM me privately like it will be in

1165
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:49,640
Speaker 1: a conversation. Could you just keep your handle that probate

1166
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 1: and say, hey, like, I'm looking to start it. I

1167
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 1: want to introduce to my girl, but I don't know

1168
01:01:53,400 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 1: how to like say it or like how did I

1169
01:01:55,160 --> 01:01:57,720
Speaker 1: go about doing it? And yeah, I've given Now if

1170
01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 1: y'all don't listen to this ship for an hour and

1171
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 1: you can get enough advice, I'm just like, make sure

1172
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:06,080
Speaker 1: it's real specific. But I think this was really crazy

1173
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 1: of us to like finally been able to sit down

1174
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 1: and talk to someone that it was black, and I

1175
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 1: picked the guy that I pegged it was some Australian

1176
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 1: dude man. He was like, no, let's wait, and I

1177
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 1: was like, years ago, yeah, I didn't want to bring

1178
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: a white man on here to talk pack And I'm

1179
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 1: glad we finally came. I only met you one piece

1180
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 1: of really big advice that a lady gave me that

1181
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:28,560
Speaker 1: kind of like made me because at first, yes, I

1182
01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: was still very self conscious about it, like telling it

1183
01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: to people. I was like always nervous that people would

1184
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: be like, oh, this is gay or something like that.

1185
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:38,840
Speaker 1: But um, I remember there's nothing wrong with that. I mean,

1186
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: obviously you can understand what guys are gay like that

1187
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 1: as play is very enjoyable. Like but like I remember,

1188
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: um this woman said, she was like, if if these

1189
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 1: guys aren't the ones bringing you pleasure, why are you

1190
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:53,880
Speaker 1: worried about what they think? And it was like she

1191
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 1: was like, there are plenty of women who loved this,

1192
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 1: So if they're the ones that you're actually you know,

1193
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:00,920
Speaker 1: out trying to impray I start trying to like go

1194
01:03:01,000 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: after and they want it, why are you being like

1195
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 1: about it? Like he's like, yeah, the guy, that guy

1196
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:09,760
Speaker 1: isn't about to make you nuts, so like, why are

1197
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:12,240
Speaker 1: you worried about what he thinks like and so it

1198
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:15,520
Speaker 1: was kind of like okay, all right, and then you

1199
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 1: know I was I became more open with it and

1200
01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:18,880
Speaker 1: you just start to see math people just come out

1201
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 1: to wolwork. It's like, oh my gosh, like I can

1202
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 1: I believe there's a black man who's into this and like,

1203
01:03:24,560 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: you know, and he's attractive, you know whatever. You had

1204
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: the air quote you attractive, you're tall, like again, like

1205
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 1: you're an anomaly like for like I said, and also

1206
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,720
Speaker 1: very very very masculine. Well let's hope you're not amally.

1207
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:42,959
Speaker 1: Let's hope there's a million and and things like I talk.

1208
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:45,240
Speaker 1: I try to talk in an open way so that

1209
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 1: guys can feel more comfortable talking about it, like, um,

1210
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 1: already see somebody who's like, you know, a business owner

1211
01:03:52,320 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 1: and like doing this thing, but still openly talking about it.

1212
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 1: And like people, I'll have guys coming and thing and

1213
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 1: my d m s that will think that becau as

1214
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:02,000
Speaker 1: I'm mento it that I'm into men, and they'll you know,

1215
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:03,440
Speaker 1: come and try to hollow me and I'm like, no,

1216
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: I'm good, Like I don't I'm not into men straight

1217
01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 1: up tell them. But um, people, you know they're definitely

1218
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 1: a lot of women who will come in and just say, hey,

1219
01:04:12,840 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 1: like it's so refreshing to see this, like, um, maybe

1220
01:04:17,920 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 1: you know I can send my guy to talk to you,

1221
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:25,200
Speaker 1: or maybe you know you talking about it more openly. No. Literally,

1222
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 1: I've had people who like recruiting agency. No, but it's

1223
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: a lot of women who have men that are on

1224
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:32,960
Speaker 1: the fence about it, and they and they're like, maybe

1225
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:34,840
Speaker 1: you know one day and like they know me and

1226
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, I want my man to talk to you,

1227
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: like I want you to get him comfortable, like make

1228
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 1: him feel like it's okay because I want to try.

1229
01:04:41,360 --> 01:04:44,720
Speaker 1: Yeah sometimes like sometimes sometimes because yeah, because I'd be like, bro,

1230
01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:48,479
Speaker 1: trust me, it's nice. Like I'm like, I'm like, I'm like,

1231
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,919
Speaker 1: as long as if you are worried about what people

1232
01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 1: think and just keep it between y'all, don't you don't

1233
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: have to go tell everybody, you have to like lay

1234
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 1: it off people. Just let that be between you'll, but

1235
01:04:56,160 --> 01:04:58,520
Speaker 1: make sure you can trust their with keeping that. Now.

1236
01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: On the other side of that, they're being men that

1237
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 1: have that stigma towards it. There's also women who are

1238
01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 1: very much like they will clown you. They find out

1239
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 1: you you know, are in the trap one play and

1240
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:11,240
Speaker 1: or if you do tell them, they immediately get nervous

1241
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:14,240
Speaker 1: and they're like like, do you like men? And and

1242
01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 1: I'm like no, and they're like, oh okay, well okay,

1243
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 1: I got a lot to digest now, like people are

1244
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 1: and and you know, it's it's a new concept. Um.

1245
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 1: I was about to say it's because you don't see

1246
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 1: it all. Um. This was really informative, I think for

1247
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:35,560
Speaker 1: especially because we've just been talking about this for so long,

1248
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 1: and I think it's great to finally hear from someone

1249
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 1: that enjoys getting pegged and can explain to people what

1250
01:05:43,160 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 1: the entire time when we speak about pegging, it's constantly

1251
01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 1: even women we bring on asking them advice or like

1252
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:50,280
Speaker 1: even if we have to bring on a game man

1253
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 1: to just talk about anal play so that we can

1254
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 1: have help from listeners. So we're really grateful that you.

1255
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:58,000
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you mail. If you guys want some

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01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:01,360
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Speaker 1: at our fifteen dollars year. We have a discord that

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Speaker 1: we gotta get you in there now. We should do

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Speaker 1: like just we should definitely bring um maybe even did

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Speaker 1: like anal training class at one point, like you need

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Speaker 1: to try to do this, bro, you do an anal

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Speaker 1: training class. Oh yeah, it's easier to train and once

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Speaker 1: you've experienced it, like and so yeah, I can gonna

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Speaker 1: throw an event one of these days. Literally I was talking,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw an event, God dammit, a sex event.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I need you to be one of the performers. Performers. Well, guys,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna leave y'all with a five minute on this clip.

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Speaker 1: I want to thank you all for it not only

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Speaker 1: listening to another episode of four Decisions, but shout out

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Speaker 1: to the Black Effect Network. That's where we are, that's

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Speaker 1: a home. So shout out to all the pods on

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Speaker 1: that network along with us on I Heart Media. Make

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Speaker 1: sure that you tell a friend to tell a friend

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Speaker 1: to check us out and be sure again like we said,

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Speaker 1: to join our patreon. We are going to leave you

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Speaker 1: with a five minute bonus clip and If you like

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Speaker 1: what you hear, go on over to patreon dot com

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Speaker 1: bat Slash four Decisions and become a subscriber. Anyway, though,

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Speaker 1: there's being another episode a whole but Decisions bad inside

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Speaker 1: because y'all know that bitch safe fuck is she uh

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Speaker 1: it was her fault, but we can't deny or confirm that.

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Speaker 1: But what I can tell you is no, I would

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Speaker 1: not have threecome pregnant only because I just don't want

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Speaker 1: any energy like addigital energy. I wouldn't be I'd want

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Speaker 1: to be monogamous. So I think your baby would take

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Speaker 1: the energy of the third person. I just don't want.

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Speaker 1: I just need to keep myself healthy, like I don't

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Speaker 1: want to put myself at risk to other partners and

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Speaker 1: keep my baby safe. But a but a woman, you'll

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Speaker 1: be eating pussy that ain't got nothing to do with

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01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 1: your pussy or your root canal or whatever it is

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Speaker 1: down there in the baby part I it is. It's

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Speaker 1: the canal for you baby and the root canal Mandy,

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Speaker 1: it's a rule. Did the baby go through? That's a yes.

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Speaker 1: So our homemail this week, Molly relationship invite but married

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Speaker 1: to someone else. This is long, but hopefully it's good. Hey. Oh,

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Speaker 1: by the way, there was a white girl that came

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Speaker 1: up to me a Melrose Trading post and she like

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01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:29,640
Speaker 1: comes up to me and she goes, oh my god, wheezy,

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Speaker 1: I love you guys so much. She's like, I sent

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Speaker 1: in a homemail. I'm one of your twenty seven but

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Speaker 1: you and I was like, oh, do we give you

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Speaker 1: good advice? She was like, well, you and Mandy didn't

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Speaker 1: really you read it, but she didn't really give me advice.

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Speaker 1: But it's okay, it's totally fine. Wait, we don't be

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Speaker 1: giving advice when we read homemam. We'd probably just be

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Speaker 1: talking ship. Oh, because she really I was like, well,

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Speaker 1: what what advice did he give? What homemiler are you?

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Speaker 1: She's like, you didn't really get to It's bad she

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Speaker 1: was twenty two years old. Oh she really needed an advice.

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Speaker 1: Well sorry, okay, hey, ho. First, I gotta say I

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01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 1: love you both so much and I love the podcast

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Speaker 1: and there's not a single person I run into and

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Speaker 1: don't tell them about it. This is kind of long

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Speaker 1: and maybe hard to follow, but I'm gonna try my

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Speaker 1: best to condense it long. When you know I can't

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Speaker 1: never follow, it's not that bad because it might be juicy.

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Speaker 1: The title was good. Part one The Husband, So I

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Speaker 1: wanted to get some advice about a situation I'm in currently.

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Speaker 1: I've been married to my husband four years and lately

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Speaker 1: the vibe been off. We've been arguing so much lately,

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Speaker 1: and we spend no time together and he doesn't take

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Speaker 1: me out. I've been depressed and just haven't been in

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Speaker 1: the mood for sex. Now. I love him to death

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Speaker 1: and we've had our good times, but the relationship isn't

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Speaker 1: the same. I work two jobs. I'm in school. He

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Speaker 1: worked sixty hours a week. There's no time for each other.

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Speaker 1: We've been unkind, neither of us feel like we're benefiting,

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Speaker 1: and we've recently got into a huge argument and it

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Speaker 1: send it up ended up into a long text, real

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Speaker 1: ghetto about how we should break up. Now we're on

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Speaker 1: a break So Part two The Polly and Right. Three

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Speaker 1: to four months ago, I got a new job and

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Speaker 1: as soon as I got there, I had a feeling

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Speaker 1: like it was going to change my life. And then

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Speaker 1: I met a guy there so fine, but I never

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Speaker 1: gave him this time a day because I was married.

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Speaker 1: He's spiritual and in the last two years, I've become

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Speaker 1: more in tune with my spirituality and when I met him,

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Speaker 1: I instantly knew his tea and there was an instant

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Speaker 1: connection like undeniable. I mean, the energy we share is unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: So fast forward to the present when me and him,

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Speaker 1: when me and my husband to take a break, the

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Speaker 1: dude and I started talking more and more. I asked him,

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Speaker 1: just to bait him, if him and his girl were

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Speaker 1: also spiritual. He said yes, and I said, so basically

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Speaker 1: I should have married someone who was also spiritual. He said,

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Speaker 1: him and his girl are Polly and told me he

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Speaker 1: has two sister wives, and I thought the convo would

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Speaker 1: in there, but then he basically shot his shot, bitch.

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Speaker 1: He said when I was done, like completely done with

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Speaker 1: my situation to HOLLI at him and his sister wives

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Speaker 1: and basically laid out with the relationship could be. And

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Speaker 1: I was so shocked, but not turned off because I've

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Speaker 1: never been against the lifestyle. My husband and I are

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Speaker 1: in a space where we still lived together, but we

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Speaker 1: sleep separately. We are trying to work out our personal ship.

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Speaker 1: So now the guy and me been exchanging pat crazy,

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Speaker 1: passionate energy like I'm scared to fund because bitch, give

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Speaker 1: big dick energy out of the world. And if he's

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Speaker 1: so intelligent girl, and I can't even handle this. And

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Speaker 1: he keeps saying things like we're gonna get together soon.

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Speaker 1: You can meet your sisters. Girl. I finally broke down,

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Speaker 1: gave him my number, texted me when he was three,

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Speaker 1: and I told him when it worked to pick a

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Speaker 1: date and we could link. He basically told me he'll

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Speaker 1: give me the details. He's trying to surprise me with something,

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Speaker 1: and I'm so intrigued. My husband is nothing like this.

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Speaker 1: He's absolutely against my spiritual belief and the dude got

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Speaker 1: me all in. I'm not sure I feel about sister wise,

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Speaker 1: but I don't know where my relationship is going. There's

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Speaker 1: so much gilt. Please give me advice. I'm sorry this

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Speaker 1: was long and unorganized, but I really need help. I

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01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:44,519
Speaker 1: love you both so much. It had no period. What

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Speaker 1: is what is the help asking for? Is she asking

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Speaker 1: whether she should become a sister wife or go back

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Speaker 1: to her relationship. I'm confused with what she's asking. I

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01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 1: think she is going to be so fucked up if

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Speaker 1: she starts working with this nigga who has a healthy

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01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:02,519
Speaker 1: relation ship with his other wives, becoming jealous that her

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Speaker 1: husband can't give her that, and then let's just say

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01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 1: she falls all into that, then she'll start not being

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Speaker 1: able to handle coming to second or third. Then it's

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01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:12,439
Speaker 1: gonna be a whole thing. And he's fine, and he

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01:12:12,520 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: got a big dick, possibly, so she just is excited

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01:12:15,479 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 1: about it. And it's also super easy to get excited

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01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:20,160
Speaker 1: about it because she's going through something with her husband.