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Speaker 2: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine,

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Speaker 2: where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. Get into it, huh,

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Speaker 2: I see it's given, it's given.

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Speaker 1: Ring. Yeah, I had to get in her life. Final

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Speaker 1: shout out to Bars.

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Speaker 2: She's actually from Houston and she moved out to Atlanta

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Speaker 2: and she does hair. And one thing I will say,

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Speaker 2: you know, I got a lot of hair because you

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Speaker 2: Didne did my hair before.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you do. It's given, moved Fossa. Yeah, you have

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Speaker 2: It definitely gives move Fostera. So but that means she

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Speaker 1: She wasn't scared. She was never scared. She wasn't scared.

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Speaker 1: So shout out to bar thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: doing my hair. I feel like a bad bitch again. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to let her do my hair one day.

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Speaker 1: So m's been up to see girl. Nothing Well, not

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Speaker 1: nothing these days. It's been a lot going on these days.

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Speaker 1: You walked in on the phone. Che'sing from ear to ear.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was on the phone with uh. You know,

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Speaker 1: we are we gonna give him a nickname? What should

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Speaker 1: a football bag. Yeah, so he can't be football Bay.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we can call him dread Bay. Dread Bay like dreads.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's ugly though.

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Speaker 2: That ain't can't see normal normally, our names be catchy

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Speaker 2: for I nig because that ain't catchy, we gonna have

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Speaker 1: Well, you gotta have sex with a personal He looked

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Speaker 1: like he might be good nick babe. He looks like

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Speaker 1: I know that's what I'll be thinking like this. I'm

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Speaker 1: eventful week you have. You know, I talked.

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Speaker 2: To my dad, well, my my real dad this week,

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Speaker 1: Fun the girls.

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna I swear well my nagby when he

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Speaker 2: get out. I'm not posting him on social media.

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Speaker 1: That's fine. Why would you post my man anyway? Because

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Speaker 1: the girls it's gonna be on him it's giving big brother.

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Speaker 2: That's how the conversations be when I be talking to him,

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Speaker 2: Like it's just really crazy because I never thought that,

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Speaker 2: So it's just wildest fuck. And then it ended up

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Speaker 2: it's just a wildest that situation. So how does it

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Speaker 2: Like do you think that it's gonna be cool? It's

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Speaker 1: Like how you how you feel? I mean, you know.

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Speaker 2: What's crazy, like because I think I don't really look

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Speaker 1: Also, it's it really is, it really is, And I'm

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Speaker 1: That's right, my favorite shut up. But now Lynn was

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Speaker 2: It's not romantic We're just friends, and I think I

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Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, that's my dog.

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Speaker 2: I would definitely still suck his dicket a more way.

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Speaker 2: No friendly way to suck an like it's nice. It's

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Speaker 2: I feel like all the boys have been trying to

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Speaker 1: My good sister was a tax i was a tax

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Speaker 2: He would not leave me alone. Lynn had to call

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Speaker 2: y'all are at what Red Pepper is? We have horrible

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Speaker 1: Seriously, we have like a bad every time.

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Speaker 2: Every fucking time I got on my I got an

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Speaker 1: Yelling fight there. And now you don't go hell Harsh,

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Speaker 2: That's when we go there's something bad happened back, Like

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Speaker 2: I have not even seen this person in person in like.

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Speaker 1: What four years? Three four years? So one of the

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Speaker 2: And then he had already been like messaging me and

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Speaker 2: And so it's just like, what are the fucking odds

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Speaker 2: I know, so the old nigga, But he moved up

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Speaker 2: What Oh no, No, I wasn't about to say nothing

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Speaker 1: We've been drinking this wine all weekend.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we're drinking some sovig Yon blong from what does

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Speaker 2: it's it's from this company that we've been and using lately,

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Speaker 1: Y'all can get drunk with us. And y'all know we

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Speaker 1: Chairs you look so good today, don't lie you do?

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Speaker 1: That's how look the hitching where it's gonna hit you.

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Speaker 2: Now, this that kind of wan to go straight to

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Speaker 2: it's three four months have gone by and y'all just

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Speaker 1: It's just a bunch of fucking games.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like if a nigga come back in

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Speaker 2: But at the same time, like, if I want to

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Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes we put too much pressure on

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's definitely you, And then you be calling me like,

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Speaker 2: It's gonna get very interesting. We're gonna rouffle some feathers.

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Speaker 2: I I don't think we're gonna ruffle no feathers, but

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Speaker 2: I just think that is so fucking pussy bro, Like.

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Speaker 2: I think that is so weird. Like, go talk about

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Speaker 1: I like the type of niggas that, let me tell you,

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Speaker 2: But as far as like button in women's conversation, adding

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Speaker 1: I cannot stand that shit.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like men do not mind they fucking

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Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, like I spend my time on

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Speaker 1: This is the kind of podcast y'all Like, yeah, clearly

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Speaker 1: Candy. You my girl. Oh my god. Every time I

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Speaker 2: Like swear to God, I can't wait to get to

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Speaker 1: Is this worth it? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I just I don't even like it's not a good

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Speaker 2: With neg it definitely wasn't given that it was giving

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00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:51,520
Speaker 2: Kantina because that's how our relationship was, you know, And

441
00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,800
Speaker 2: it's just like, why why are you like this?

442
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:57,720
Speaker 1: Leave me alone? I hope he watches this. Leave me

443
00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 1: off the chain. Okay, So now we gonna get into

444
00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 1: the bab a bowl bow bow bow bow.

445
00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:13,560
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm gonna let you leave this one off

446
00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:14,560
Speaker 2: because I can't relate.

447
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm dead.

448
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,800
Speaker 2: Okay, So I wanted to talk about for the bed

449
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 2: topic dealing with sexually inexperienced partners.

450
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,080
Speaker 1: Oh, you know, I lied. I can't talk about it.

451
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,440
Speaker 2: I think everybody has deal I think everybody has had

452
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,639
Speaker 2: sex with somebody before who wasn't as sexually experienced as

453
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:34,400
Speaker 2: I mean.

454
00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:37,440
Speaker 1: You know what, Sometimes it's not that they're not sexually experienced.

455
00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:40,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes people just don't know how to fuck too.

456
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 2: Like that's true, cause these niggas who been fucking for

457
00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:45,479
Speaker 2: twenty years and they still came to I'm telling you,

458
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:47,439
Speaker 2: I don't have I didn't have sex with the youngest

459
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:48,560
Speaker 2: of the young and the oldest of.

460
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:51,119
Speaker 1: The Oh no, we know about the youngest. You what

461
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:55,720
Speaker 1: I mean? Don't kidding me, bitch? Oh no, no, I

462
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:59,719
Speaker 1: didn't like that. What the fuck? No? I say, like

463
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:00,919
Speaker 1: I gona talk.

464
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:11,440
Speaker 2: To like thinking about I really don't know.

465
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,960
Speaker 1: What do we used to call him? Your juvie?

466
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I forgot to let little Juvie hit last year.

467
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 2: Good memories, good memories, good time, and it was good.

468
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,639
Speaker 2: You did say that, I said, I know that's right,

469
00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:24,960
Speaker 2: little How do you.

470
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 1: Deal with inexperienced partners?

471
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,359
Speaker 2: Well, if it's somebody like say it's a dude, and

472
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,800
Speaker 2: like we've been talking and like it's no feelings or

473
00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 2: nothing there. If your deep chursh I'm probably gonna go.

474
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 2: I'm probably just not gonna talk to you nowhere.

475
00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:39,440
Speaker 1: Now.

476
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:47,600
Speaker 2: If you're somebody that I like, that was that was God,

477
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 2: tell me you need to stop ghosting. That was that

478
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,400
Speaker 2: was your ex boob the one that passed away, Like, bitch,

479
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:53,320
Speaker 2: don't say my name?

480
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: Who passed away? Your ex boom? Which one? I don't know?

481
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 1: It's too fun now, you know, like the short that's

482
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 1: a puss beach. I know you ain't talking. Yours is

483
00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 1: a graveyard.

484
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:16,639
Speaker 2: Anybody keep going bitch but no, so yeah, like I

485
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 2: don't know if I don't really fuck with you like that,

486
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 2: I definitely, you know, with ghost you. But if you're

487
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 2: somebody that I like and like, say, you know, we've

488
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 2: had sex a few times that I'm just not happy

489
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,399
Speaker 2: with or you're not pleasing me, I like, have a

490
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 2: conversation with you, you know what I mean, and let

491
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,439
Speaker 2: you know that I'm not feeling it, or like, you know,

492
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 2: try to show you while we're having sex what I

493
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 2: want you to do. But then after that if it

494
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 2: still continues to be bad, I'm just gonna have the diddy.

495
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 1: Because sex is very important to me in a relationship.

496
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:45,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie it is.

497
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 2: But at this age, I feel like I can't teach

498
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 2: the things that I.

499
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 1: Like, so you would just stop dealing with them.

500
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even develop feelings for somebody if we're not

501
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 2: in the bed, like making the magic happen, you know, yeah,

502
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:01,400
Speaker 2: Like because sex is that important to me, Like I'm

503
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 2: never even gonna fall for you if the sex isn't good.

504
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 1: So I feel like some things just cannot be taught.

505
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: Like when you have that sexual chemistry in bed, you

506
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,120
Speaker 2: either have it or you don't. That's why I always say,

507
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 2: like it'll be you can have sex with one person

508
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: maybe like that's the worst pussy I'd ever had, And

509
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 2: then you ask person being I but like that's the

510
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 2: best sex I've had in my life. Because sometimes people

511
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 2: are sexually compatible and other people.

512
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 1: Aren't, you know what I'm saying.

513
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,320
Speaker 2: So as far as like sexually inexperienced partners, I feel

514
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 2: like I'm thirty one, like I'm they ain't no way

515
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 2: I'm fucking with a nigga who has not had a

516
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 2: lot of sex, or not sexually experienced.

517
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

518
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, if you're not sexually experienced, or I

519
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 2: feel like our sex isn't good, cyanar our nigga.

520
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: Not syonaraut here.

521
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 2: Nah, I agree with you, though it sounds so shallow,

522
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 2: I guess kind of.

523
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: I don't think it does.

524
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 2: I think a lot of times that all to some people, though,

525
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 2: that could sound shallow because it's like, Okay, say you

526
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 2: and this person have a great connection and everything else

527
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 2: it's perfect, and then the sex is the own problem.

528
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 2: You would stop talking to somebody just because the sexies. Well,

529
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 2: I feel like we grew up kind of like when

530
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:08,159
Speaker 2: we were in high school and kind of in college,

531
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 2: like for some reason, everybody kept preaching sex isn't everything.

532
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:14,679
Speaker 1: Sex isn't the number one thing in a relationship. Why

533
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 1: are y'all lying?

534
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 2: You think it's every You think it's the number one

535
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 2: thing in a relationship that like holds two people together.

536
00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: No, it's not the number one thing, but it's like

537
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 1: one and a half. Yeah, Like I feel like the first.

538
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 2: Thing, feel like it's very important, But I do feel

539
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 2: like there are other Yeah, No, there are other factors,

540
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,880
Speaker 2: Like I feel like if we don't connect like spiritually mentally,

541
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 2: like that's number one for.

542
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 1: Me, like a mental connection.

543
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 2: But like I would say, for me, mental connection is

544
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 2: number one and the sexual connection is number two.

545
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 1: Like there's no and.

546
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 2: If or buts about it, Like yeah, so like I said,

547
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 2: like growing up, I feel like a lot of people

548
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,679
Speaker 2: were like teaching us like, oh, sex isn't everything in

549
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 2: a relationship?

550
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:51,160
Speaker 1: Girl?

551
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 2: Fuck you no, yeah, because I mean we both have

552
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 2: said that before. Though, they're like, you know, I could

553
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 2: never marry somebody without heavy I don't know how.

554
00:24:58,920 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 1: People wh.

555
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 2: Like they don't have six get married. I don't think

556
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:05,919
Speaker 2: I could do that. And I get I get the

557
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 2: reasoning behind why people do that, because they want to

558
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,719
Speaker 2: get to know each other on a deeper level without

559
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 2: six being involved. But I still don't think I could

560
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 2: not have sex with somebody before I married them, Like yeah,

561
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, right, we could wait a few months, yeah.

562
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: Before I marry you.

563
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 2: I mean, like they say all something, people not buying

564
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 2: the car without test driving it, right, that's a that's

565
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 2: a dumb thing to do.

566
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: I was.

567
00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 2: I'm trying to remember it was somebody who's page I

568
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 2: was looking at a few weeks ago, and they had

569
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: already was having six or whatever. And then they got

570
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,719
Speaker 2: engaged and they decided to stop having sex until they

571
00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,239
Speaker 2: got married, and so then they didn't. I guess they

572
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 2: didn't have sex for like maybe a year until their

573
00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 2: wedding night. But they were already fucking in the past.

574
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: So what do they feel like that that made their

575
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 1: connection deeper? I don't know.

576
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,119
Speaker 2: I really don't know why they did the shit, but

577
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,159
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. Stuff like that confuses me. I

578
00:25:59,160 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 2: don't get it.

579
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: I'll be likena have to fuck you, but I'm gonna

580
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: definitely be fucking. We may not be fucking, but I'm

581
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:06,919
Speaker 1: gonna be.

582
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,240
Speaker 2: This connection gonna get deeper, all right, But but I'm

583
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 2: gonna be somebody might be growing with somebody else too.

584
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 1: No, I feel you, because I just feel like that's wild.

585
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 2: That's backwards though, what like having sex been stopping because

586
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 2: we're engaged and then that's just weird. But to each

587
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 2: of songs, any song, I'm not married for a reason.

588
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,959
Speaker 2: I ain't got no man either, So don't listen to me.

589
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 2: I don't even know why. Y'all right in on the

590
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:35,640
Speaker 2: damn show. I ain't got no man, I ain't got

591
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 2: no kids. I bear this three, my three friends in

592
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 2: this goddamn room. You know what I'm saying, y'all steady

593
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,680
Speaker 2: asking me for advice. I don't know for real though,

594
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 2: sometimes they be asking us relationship advice.

595
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: I'll be like these with who, man, do you want

596
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 1: me to answer questions? No?

597
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:56,679
Speaker 2: Man, we got a few, but not one.

598
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 1: I have my favorite? Who is your favorite?

599
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,919
Speaker 2: You know what makes me so mad because y'all the

600
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 2: listeners know how much I'll go back and forth with

601
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 2: like Rapper Bay and how like I love him, I

602
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 2: hate him.

603
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,760
Speaker 1: He's done now for good. But I hate the fact

604
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: that we posted that clip. Good club.

605
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: There's a clip that we chose for the page, and

606
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 2: then eighty five posted it yesterday.

607
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, rapper back, he always gonna be daddy.

608
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,880
Speaker 2: I was like, oh fucking brother, Oh my god, watching

609
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 2: this shit, Like, yeah, well post this clip, but let

610
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 2: fuck you so now that now that Rapper Bay is

611
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 2: like a thing of the past, Who is your favorite nigga?

612
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: Now, big Papa, Okay, that is your favorite nigga? Yeah?

613
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: I love him now he's so cool. And then we're

614
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: about to have a good summer. That's what he coolest. Fuck.

615
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: I like to Papa. Everybody loves Big Papa. I don't

616
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: have a favorite nigga right now.

617
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 2: But I think you got to see how your birthday goes,

618
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 2: and then you will.

619
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 1: I agree.

620
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 2: I think that whoever show up and show out for

621
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 2: my birthday, that's gonna be our favorite nigga.

622
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: Because the more y'all do, the less I gotta do.

623
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: So please come with it.

624
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 2: I got an idea to who I feel like gonna

625
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: really Mosho. I guess we don't see, but you'll feel

626
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,640
Speaker 2: like you you know who I think it might be,

627
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 2: but we gonna see. Okay, So before we get into

628
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 2: this segment, if y'all have not seen this movie this

629
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 2: is about, we're about to spoil the whole movie. So

630
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: just letting y'all know right now. I told y'all on Instagram,

631
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 2: I had posted this a few weeks ago to watch

632
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,199
Speaker 2: this movie, so we're about to do it. You posted

633
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 2: this last night, but by the time it's gonna be

634
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: some weeks later.

635
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: Let me be professional. Damn it. See, I got my

636
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: journalism back and she wasn't even ready. You posted that yesterday.

637
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 2: Now because I really have forgot that this episode isn't

638
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 2: gonna drop until a few weeks from now. Anyways, Like, no, y'all,

639
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so excited to talk about so

640
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 2: good y'all. Like I was on Instagram scrolling one day

641
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 2: and I had seen somebody that I know like posted

642
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 2: on their story. So then I had seen somebody that

643
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 2: I know posted on their story.

644
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 1: And then.

645
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 2: And then I we clicked on the girl's page, on

646
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 2: Erica Pinkin's page, and then I seen like a little club.

647
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 2: I was like, oh this what good as fuck? So

648
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 2: then I went to Amazon. Probably was ten dollars. I

649
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 2: said ten dollars. I want to pay ten dollars for

650
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 2: this sheep. And then I said, fuck it, I'm gona

651
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 2: hate and pay for it.

652
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: And it was.

653
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 2: Good as fun, good as fuck. First of all, let

654
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,719
Speaker 2: me say, really do what they sap the service by

655
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 2: charging ten dollars.

656
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: They need to up there.

657
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 2: Honestly, that's what I was thinking after I saw Yeah,

658
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 2: it was good as fun.

659
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so let's get into the movie.

660
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,320
Speaker 2: First of all, shout out to Erica pink And she

661
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 2: was on Love and Hip Hop, and I will say this,

662
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 2: she was in the Tupac movie. Remember, I know I

663
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 2: don't remember, but I'll say this. I love when girls

664
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 2: go on love and hip hop and go on these

665
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 2: shows and maybe trying to shave them and dismiss them,

666
00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 2: but then they go off and do bigger and better things.

667
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 2: So shout out to air Pika did. She did a

668
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 2: very good job her and her co host. Her name

669
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 2: is Raina or something. I can't remember that I can't remember.

670
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 2: So y'all, let's get into this movie. Okay, So the

671
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 2: movie starts off, We're gonna tell them the name of

672
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: the movie. It's called Secret Society. I thought I said

673
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 2: that already. So the movie is called Secret Society. So,

674
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 2: like I said, if you haven't seen it, y'all might

675
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 2: want to step Sorry, y'all. Okay, So the movie is

676
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 2: about two girls that's living in Atlanta and they basically

677
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 2: some gold niggas. So when Gary told me it was

678
00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 2: about that, I said this, right right up MILLI, there's

679
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: a right up Miley. So the first scene of the movie,

680
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 2: they like going into the club, they see some bad

681
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,440
Speaker 2: b's and she like sends him a bottle.

682
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 1: Now that is not in my ministry, but when her

683
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: logic I get her logic too.

684
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 2: But then also I think that I had never thought

685
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 2: about doing something like that, But when she did it,

686
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 2: I was like.

687
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 1: That's what that's what I said.

688
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: I said, buns up now, I said, Drea is Tina,

689
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 2: And I'm definitely celested because yes, because she was like,

690
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 2: I got my nigga about the game. Okay, so we're

691
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 2: gonna get into the story. Okay, So they're living in Atlanta.

692
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: They're basically gold niggers. They don't have no job. All

693
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 2: they do is chase niggas and fuck with niggas that

694
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 2: got money. Okay, So they just show you them going

695
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 2: on shopping spreees. One girl got a purple Rose Royce. Like,

696
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 2: niggas be buying them everything, right, So then it comes

697
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:28,000
Speaker 2: out that they're actually transgender women. So these men don't

698
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 2: know that they're transgender women.

699
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: And they out here fucking these niggas, Like.

700
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 2: Well, no, they're they're getting fucked. They're not fucking know

701
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 2: what I mean. I'm just saying they're out here having

702
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 2: sex with these men and men don't know that they're

703
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 2: trans women. So I'll say this, this is where I

704
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 2: feel like the movie kind of messed up.

705
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: At because how the fuck.

706
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 2: You don't know the difference between a booty hole, And he.

707
00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: Was like, what am I putting it in?

708
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 2: So let's your ass, like difference between a body haul

709
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 2: and so I'm like, like, even if it's dark in

710
00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: the room, yeah, because you know what I mean, Like

711
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 2: pussy lips feel completely different from a fucking booty hull.

712
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 2: I just was so confused. But that's wrong because I

713
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 2: feel like men who mess with transgender women and they

714
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 2: you know, they do have antal sex, them niggas be knowing,

715
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 2: and those are the men that be lying, like certain

716
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 2: people in the in the celebrity world be like, oh,

717
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: I didn't know I was that was a tr you knew.

718
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: You're just embarrassed that people found out. Now, Yeah, So

719
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 1: that was a discrepancy in the movie.

720
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: That was very wrong, cause men that are actually having

721
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 2: sex with transgender women, they know the absolutely feel like

722
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 2: you know, like and then again, like we were talking

723
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: about yesterday when we was on the phone, like when

724
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: you're having sex with somebody, you're gonna touch their private parts.

725
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: Like I ain't never had a nigga not robed on goldfeet, right,

726
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like I've never had sex with

727
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 2: a man and he didn't touch my pussy, right, So

728
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 2: it's like, you mean to tell me the whole time

729
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 2: that you were having sex with these men they not

730
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 2: touch like, they ain't feel your.

731
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: Deg mm, like I'm confused. Yeah, So that it was wild.

732
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 2: So in the beginning, sh Uh, one of the men

733
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 2: that she was messing with that Celeste was messing with,

734
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 2: finds out that she was a man, right because he

735
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 2: had went to eat or something.

736
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: Well, he was at like the club or something.

737
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 2: Were like a group of niggas, and the niggas was

738
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 2: talking about like two women that was from Philly, and

739
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 2: then they moved to Atlanta because somebody in Philly was

740
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: trying to kill them because they found out that they

741
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 2: were trans.

742
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 1: So then they moved out here to Atlanta.

743
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 2: But he was saying how like they were both fine

744
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 2: as fucking He was like a fun He was like,

745
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 2: you would never know, and I mean you would never

746
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 2: know because like when he came out in a movie,

747
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 2: me a Lex was like, well, let me stop you.

748
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 1: Then this is another discrepancy in the movie.

749
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 2: I didn't because they're not they're actually real women. They

750
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 2: should have casted actual trans women for the trans women

751
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 2: for the.

752
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: Roles, like was a maas guy not available?

753
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying, Like, I feel like

754
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 2: they definitely should have casted actual trans women because then

755
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 2: you we were talking about it's this one trans woman

756
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 2: on I.

757
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 1: Don't know her name.

758
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 2: She's so beautiful bad yea, like bad as fuck. So

759
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 2: when they were telling the story that that was the

760
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 2: first person, it's like, it's no way that y'all couldn't

761
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 2: find beautiful trans women to play these roles, right, I mean,

762
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 2: like I said, we've seen something, you know a lot,

763
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 2: a lot you would never know by looking anything. That's

764
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,319
Speaker 2: so that was another thing that I kind of did

765
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: that I really didn't like about the movie. But as

766
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 2: the movie went on, you know, one girl got beat

767
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 2: up by a nigga because she was stealing money from him,

768
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 2: and one girl lost her trick and this and that.

769
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 1: So they were just going through it.

770
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 2: So finally they meet up with these older Yeah, so

771
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,280
Speaker 2: Tina ends up marrying.

772
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: Like getting engaged to one of the white guys.

773
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:37,719
Speaker 2: He's like taking care of her, doing everything, and he

774
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 2: knew he knew that she was okay because he basically

775
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 2: said he was like he feels good so that he

776
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 2: finally found somebody that he can be in public and

777
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,360
Speaker 2: public it looks like it's a man and a woman,

778
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 2: you know. So she had so Tina was good select

779
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 2: he was rich as fucked. They went to Mexico. They

780
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,280
Speaker 2: was on that little houses that float in the water.

781
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 2: And let me say this too, the fashions.

782
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: In the movie were cute yet a fashions. I was

783
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: very impressed.

784
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 2: But I also was impressed to find out too that

785
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 2: they used all black female boutique owners.

786
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 1: That them clothes was on baby.

787
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, they used all black female designers.

788
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: Yes, the clothes in the movie.

789
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 2: I was like, that was like one of my favorite

790
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 2: parts of the movie because I was like, ooh, I

791
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 2: wonder what she gonna wear, what she gonna wear next. So,

792
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 2: so Celeste had a nigga in Atlanta, the one that

793
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:32,359
Speaker 2: bought her the Rose roy. Yeah, he one of her

794
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 2: main niggas. And then he found out he well, he

795
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 2: said he had been knowing this and he didn't hear.

796
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 2: He was cool with it study and they was about

797
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: to be together, and these nigga got cued.

798
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: That nigga ended up getting cute.

799
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 2: That nigga got killed. So Na Sali stall in a frenzy.

800
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: She like, what the fuck I'm gonna do? She couldn't

801
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: pay her rent.

802
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 2: Yes, so that I've been there before, I already Oh lord,

803
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 2: I know I have to sho.

804
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: I had a populartle pussy now sometimes. So now she's

805
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:00,479
Speaker 1: trying to figure out what she wanted.

806
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 2: Dude.

807
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: She ends up running.

808
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: Into this guy who is not like the typical type

809
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 2: of guy that she would normally fuck we.

810
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: She ends up falling in love with him, but again

811
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 1: he don't know. So then she ends up.

812
00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 2: Finally telling him, and his feelings was just so hurt

813
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 2: he couldn't believe it. So then his other nigga dead. Okay, well,

814
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,759
Speaker 2: like the dude in the beginning that they was fucking we, Yeah,

815
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 2: the dudes that they said the bottle to, right, so

816
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: the dudes that they sent the bottles to or whatever.

817
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 2: One of the dudes ended up going to jail. So

818
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:33,240
Speaker 2: then he got out of jail, and then he came

819
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 2: back and Pop and Pop killed one, well one, he

820
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 2: tried to kill both of them.

821
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 1: Yes, but so.

822
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 2: Say this so basically to review the movie, the movie

823
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,399
Speaker 2: is good as fuck. First of all, it literally it's

824
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 2: the action starts in the beginning and it doesn't stop.

825
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like every ten minutes. She's like, but I

826
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 1: will say this, it's very true to Atlanta.

827
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 2: When they were on the couch and she was like

828
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 2: upset because old died, they were ordering kebab Land. She

829
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 2: was like, Oh, yeah, we love us someblin we might

830
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 2: go there today.

831
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: I'm dead. That's next door to Red Pepper though, so

832
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know what about Red Pepper.

833
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,799
Speaker 2: So anyway, so it was very true sa Atlanta. And

834
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 2: what I will say that is how would be. I

835
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:19,840
Speaker 2: actually had a conversation with Dre the other day. I

836
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 2: was like, it's so crazy because you be out with

837
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 2: your bd B and these holes do not care.

838
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: Luckily, I fucked with what you mean, like I felt.

839
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 2: I told you I felt like when I went to

840
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 2: the bathroom, I came back and the girl was like

841
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 2: all in his face and he like grabbed my arms

842
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 2: kind of let her know like he was with me

843
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 2: type ship Like cause you can tell.

844
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,479
Speaker 1: Baby, I was with the biggest boss all that week.

845
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, With the biggest boss that

846
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: you've seen. Well, not let me let me stalk and say,

847
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 1: oh she fucking Rick Ross. I'm not talking.

848
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 2: About Rose, not talking about but but yeah, I feel

849
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 2: like a lot of times, you know, when you be

850
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,800
Speaker 2: with your nigga, a lot of bitches don't care and

851
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:57,919
Speaker 2: they gonna be like, let me try to get him.

852
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: So that was very true. Like in the beginning, Atlanta

853
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,799
Speaker 1: is a very dog eat dogs.

854
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 2: Yes, so when the girls, like at the beginning, when

855
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 2: they sent that bottle over and the girls were already

856
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 2: sitting there, that just let that is very Atlanta.

857
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, very it very much is, because that's some shit

858
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: I do. I'm dead.

859
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 2: Don't try with my BDB because he not coming, says

860
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 2: he gonna say thank you and drink the champagne with me.

861
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: Okay.

862
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,399
Speaker 2: Uh. The story of it being like girls being out

863
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 2: here not working and really depending on men to pay

864
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 2: their bills, that was very true to the tea.

865
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: Like, and that's why tweeted.

866
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 2: I was like, I love Secret Society because it's very true,

867
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 2: but this is not our ministry but at all.

868
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: But also too with their situation.

869
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 2: It was like a specific part of the movie where

870
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: she was just like, why are we doing this again?

871
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 2: And she was like, well, be because we gotta pay

872
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 2: our bills. Like we gotta be able to pay our

873
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 2: rent and shit, you try to putting Charles on the

874
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,240
Speaker 2: application and showing up XLS.

875
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 1: He how far right?

876
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 2: So I feel like with that situation too, it was

877
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 2: kind of more so something that they had to do

878
00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:00,720
Speaker 2: for survival, right I MEY couldn't really go and get jobs, right, Yeah,

879
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 2: you know, so I definitely understand that from that point

880
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 2: of view. But yeah, I do feel like they didn't

881
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 2: have any transgender women in the.

882
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: Movie, and that was just really very upsetting.

883
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was very weird to me, Like I was like,

884
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:13,399
Speaker 2: you know, but all no, I think it's a good

885
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 2: I actually want to read the book now.

886
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's a book. It's a movie based on

887
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: a book. Yeah.

888
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 2: So, And that was actually let me go to the

889
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 2: post because there was one of the because there was

890
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 2: one of our listeners, because when I posted on Instagram

891
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 2: the other day, she actually so I wanted to shout

892
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 2: her out because I was reading all her comments.

893
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: And she was making very bad, making very valid points.

894
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 2: And she was educating me. Oh I'm on my fake page.

895
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 2: Don't zoom into here. They gonna know it's that that's

896
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 2: that bitch right there.

897
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: So yes, her.

898
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 2: Name is it is aka succulent chocolate, So shout out

899
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 2: to her.

900
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 1: It's succuling period.

901
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 2: So she's a transgender woman that follows us and that

902
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,120
Speaker 2: listens to poor minds. But yeah, she was basically just

903
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 2: breaking it down and made a lot of points and

904
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, You're right.

905
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 1: So I think a.

906
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 2: Lot of times it's hard being a black person, period.

907
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,879
Speaker 2: It's hard being a black woman, dainty. So I can

908
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 2: only imagine the struggles that black transgender women, Like these

909
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 2: women are literally getting killed because men are messing with

910
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 2: them knowing, you know, that they're transgender, and then when

911
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 2: people find out, that's when they act like they're mad

912
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,239
Speaker 2: and act like they need So I do feel like

913
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 2: that movie is good on this part as far as

914
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 2: making awareness, But like I said, I don't like how

915
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 2: they made it seem like they were tricking all the

916
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: niggas because that's not what be happening. Like a lot

917
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,879
Speaker 2: of these women are being forward and telling these men, hey,

918
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 2: this is what it is and this is who I am,

919
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 2: and they still choose to mess with them, and then

920
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 2: they still choose to harm them. I mean, yeah, I agree,

921
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:45,919
Speaker 2: I think that that's what happens the majority of the time,

922
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 2: but happily do think that you have people out here

923
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 2: that are being deceitful? For yeah, I mean that probably is,

924
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,439
Speaker 2: But like I said, I feel like it's more men,

925
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 2: straight men that are being deceitful with themselves and not

926
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 2: being honest with what they are really attracted to because

927
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 2: we in Atlanta, says we know how they get down there.

928
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: That's true. That's true.

929
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 2: I mean it's it's a lot of crazy shit that

930
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: be going on out here in Atlanta. Yes, but yeah,

931
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 2: great movie, five stars, five stars, but no better get

932
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:15,800
Speaker 2: an Oscar period.

933
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: Now you taking shit too. So I want to be

934
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 1: a part two. Now you're taking ship two hours Oscar.

935
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: I want to be in part two. Hun, who you

936
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 1: gonna be? I don't know. Maybe I could be like

937
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:30,959
Speaker 1: you know the Hairstop part where she started, the part

938
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: where she was got behind the.

939
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:36,719
Speaker 2: Me Oh she was fucking that man, and she said, yeah,

940
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 2: I heard you put it on them last night.

941
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:39,279
Speaker 1: I was dead.

942
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 2: It's for somebody to hear you, y'all when I tell

943
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 2: you that movie. Because every time they got on the phone,

944
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 2: they was like beach and that's how we build a beach.

945
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,680
Speaker 1: Beach beach and look, I had to write down the

946
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: quote she said. I know that's right. What's the wall?

947
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: You get way more with the pussy than you do

948
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 1: with the dick. Oh yeah, but we always kind of

949
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: talk about that on the show. It's just amazing being

950
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: a woman, it is. I mean when we talk about

951
00:42:08,560 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: that all the time.

952
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,760
Speaker 2: I feel like being a woman definitely has its perks,

953
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 2: Like yesterday.

954
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: Like as a woman.

955
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 2: And we're not telling people to do this because we

956
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: don't subscribe to these, but you could literally be a

957
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 2: beach that I got she going on. You ain't got nothing.

958
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:24,799
Speaker 1: To that, but that's used to be me.

959
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 2: I ain't had shit going on but a fat ass and.

960
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 1: Niggas would give you money and shit.

961
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: And I literally survived in Atlanta my first two years

962
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 2: just from looking good.

963
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 1: I agree.

964
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 2: I feel like I definitely survived for like a decent amount.

965
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 4: That's gonna be the name episode. Bitch, I'm a survivor, no,

966
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 4: So yes, I definitely feel like I definitely survived out

967
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:53,799
Speaker 4: here for a little while, you know, just off of

968
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:54,280
Speaker 4: the strength.

969
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's.

970
00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: Like a man can't do that, no, I mean, because

971
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 2: some niggas do look up and be getting sugar mamas

972
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 2: and she the fat white But that's but that's not

973
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:07,080
Speaker 2: as common.

974
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: Nothing fucking with them fat white they do? You know

975
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: the ones that be having at Jaden's mommy and with

976
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 1: the haircut when he's driving a nie.

977
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 2: You already know otimates the white mom card.

978
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: Yes, you know it. That's the ones that be tricking

979
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: and taking care of it.

980
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 2: It's funny that you said that, because I've seen like

981
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 2: a little video on Instagram yesterday.

982
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: It was like a dude, a black dude.

983
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 2: His name was like j T or something or TJ,

984
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 2: and like this white lady had gave him like seven

985
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 2: bands and he was like, who is for And she

986
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 2: was like this is for TJ. I'm giving him all

987
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 2: my money because I'm investing in him. And he was

988
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 2: like how much easy?

989
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: And she was like seven thousand dollars And it was

990
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: like an.

991
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 2: Older white lady and he was like a young black dude, Sandy,

992
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 2: And he gave her keeps on the cheek and said

993
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:54,720
Speaker 2: thank you, mama, Sandy.

994
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: You should be ashamed of yourself. But I'm like, do

995
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 1: that really? Yes?

996
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 2: My axe with a big white girl right now? When

997
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 2: I was with loans, Yes, and she'd be giving him money.

998
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. They both look poor. They both look poor. Beach.

999
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: That was mean. That was mean. I was just saying

1000
00:44:23,680 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 1: that because fuck him, not nothing about her. That was mean.

1001
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: He's talking, what's up, y'alls? Your girl lex P And

1002
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: it's Chagarl, Dre and La call and we.

1003
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 2: Want to tell y'all about a program that we actually

1004
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:34,760
Speaker 2: use that we swear by.

1005
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 1: Yes, we love.

1006
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 2: I feel like at this point we just we be

1007
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 2: beating it in.

1008
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: They head because we love Better Help so much.

1009
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: Like I feel like a lot of people struggle with

1010
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 2: mental health and they feel like either it's too expensive,

1011
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,320
Speaker 2: they don't want to get help, they're scared, they're nervous.

1012
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 2: But Better Help is a perfect program for you. So

1013
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 2: you can do it from the comfort of your own home.

1014
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 2: You can do a video message, just simple text messaging,

1015
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: phone call, whatever you like. But yeah, from the comfort

1016
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1017
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1018
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Speaker 2: you can switch them. Yeah, So we even have people

1019
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Speaker 2: that review them. So we had a listener that was

1020
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 2: struggling with anxiety, family conflicts, parenting, issues, and they left

1021
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Speaker 2: the review they said, this counselor has changed my life

1022
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Speaker 2: in just a few weeks.

1023
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 1: So make sure y'all.

1024
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 2: Visit Betterhelp dot Com backslash Poor Minds and you'll get.

1025
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 1: Ten percent off of your first month anyways. Okay, so yeah,

1026
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: make sure y'all watch Secret Society.

1027
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 2: Write y'all if you want a trick, go get you

1028
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:35,760
Speaker 2: one of them and leave.

1029
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 1: It at that. Okay. So now we're gonna get into

1030
00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 1: the bop. Hey love ow bow Bow Bow bow. We

1031
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 1: First of all, we had the same Bob the week.

1032
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 2: Same bop this week, and that normally never happens. That

1033
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 2: shit is crazy. Okay, so go ahead with your bob. First,

1034
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 2: got the same bob, No, I changed mind, I have another.

1035
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 2: I have another Bob.

1036
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:58,720
Speaker 1: Oh okay.

1037
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 2: So my bob is called waves of Blue by how do.

1038
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: You say his name? I think it's mad or is it? Okay?

1039
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 2: I didn't know if you pronounced it like with the age,

1040
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 2: because you know sometimes you do that.

1041
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 1: I don't know, but anyways, yes, that's who.

1042
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,280
Speaker 2: My vibe is by Majid Jordan's and it's called Waves

1043
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: of Blue.

1044
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:16,439
Speaker 1: I love this song.

1045
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 2: It's such a I don't know it's like, calm me

1046
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 2: kind of.

1047
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: It very is.

1048
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 2: It kind of reminds me of the Weekend when he

1049
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 2: was making good music. Oh my god, I used to

1050
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: love the Weekend back in the day. So yes, it's

1051
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 2: given all the vibes. Make sure y'all go listen to it.

1052
00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 2: Like Lex said, this was actually gonna be both of

1053
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 2: our bobs, but then you know she found another wing.

1054
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,919
Speaker 2: So yes, so y'all know, I made this my bob

1055
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 2: because women named Lex can just always sing so well,

1056
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 2: it's crazy.

1057
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 1: Who is a popular singer name lex P? You're sitting

1058
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: right next door, a vocalist, a queen. But who is

1059
00:46:52,600 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 1: somebody else? Lix knows Lex nose. I'm just saying the

1060
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,280
Speaker 1: proof is in the put. Okay. So anyways, there's a song.

1061
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 2: Her name is Lex. She just goes by Lex. The

1062
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 2: song is called Personal. I'm dead Ron put Personal by

1063
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 2: Lex P. This is not my song, Ryan. I think

1064
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 2: he thought I was choking or something. I'm crying anyway,

1065
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 2: maybe he thought she really had a song.

1066
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:29,439
Speaker 1: I Am going to the stew though when just wait

1067
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:29,919
Speaker 1: on it.

1068
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:32,799
Speaker 2: So the song is called Personal by Lex and it's

1069
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 2: just basically about her dealing with an ain't shitting nigga

1070
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 2: and her getting her shit together and becoming a you know,

1071
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 2: the woman that she needs.

1072
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:40,440
Speaker 1: To sound like you.

1073
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 2: It is.

1074
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:42,839
Speaker 1: That's why I really could relate to it so much.

1075
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 2: It's like a nigga that she can't let go, but

1076
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 2: you know, she's still fucking with it, but she got

1077
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:47,919
Speaker 2: control now.

1078
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: So shout out to Alex.

1079
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 2: It's called personal and she's really cute per usual Lex

1080
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 2: representing girl.

1081
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:58,359
Speaker 1: But actually, I'm gonna worry.

1082
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 2: I'm working on another playlist for y'all cause y'all enjoyed

1083
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 2: that first playlist so much, so hopefully by the time

1084
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 2: this episode drops, there'll be a new playlist in the bio. Hopefully,

1085
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 2: don't hold me to that, but yeah, I mean, and

1086
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 2: I'm supposed to be doing the playlist for y'all two.

1087
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 1: I'll probably try to have that done in the next week.

1088
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 1: Ye My sit gonna be hood, though it ain't gonna

1089
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,400
Speaker 1: be like this, she licks came out, No, it's not

1090
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 1: gonna be like mine, but it's I think hers is

1091
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:27,440
Speaker 1: gonna yours.

1092
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 2: Was like, what's the word that we can use to

1093
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 2: describe sensual?

1094
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: Very sensual? My she is gonna be some hood. She

1095
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 1: like if you fucking with a hood nigga, you can

1096
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: fuck food. I'm dad.

1097
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 2: But if you're fucking with a hood nigga that likes to,

1098
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 2: you know, pour up a little glass wine with that pinky.

1099
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: You can listen to my playlist too. It's all about

1100
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: so now. This is my favorite. It's my favorite time.

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00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: I know.

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00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 2: I love the segment. This is the poor your heart

1103
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 2: out segment. So you know, if you have any questions,

1104
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 2: y'all can always send your questions to ask poor Minds

1105
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:04,280
Speaker 2: at g dot com. That's ask poor Minds at gmail

1106
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 2: dot com. All right, ready gonna read the first one

1107
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,160
Speaker 2: you want me to read it, I'll read it.

1108
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, beauties.

1109
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 2: I found a BDB who I've actually been talking to

1110
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,879
Speaker 2: on and off for a while, and my only reservations

1111
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 2: and furthering with him is one, I DeKay his motives

1112
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 2: and two I'm still not over my baby daddy. Recently,

1113
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,280
Speaker 2: the BDB invited me to can kum, But my question

1114
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 2: is should I go? And if so, should I be

1115
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 2: worried about getting stranded if something goes wrong. I don't

1116
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,200
Speaker 2: know if I can trust going out the country with him,

1117
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 2: and I heard a story can't remember if it was

1118
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 2: from y'all when a guy, when someone got flown out

1119
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 2: and stuck because her guy had an issue, it was

1120
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 2: definitely her because when I get stuck, I can't get stuck. No,

1121
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 2: she didn't get stuck. If I would have got stuck,

1122
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,360
Speaker 2: I would have been stuck. I used to be traveling

1123
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 2: with three dollars, y'all. I've never been invited on a

1124
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 2: trip by a man who's gonna pay for it, and

1125
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 2: that excites me in all ways.

1126
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: His dick is good, by the way, but I want

1127
00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: to be smart about it.

1128
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 2: Okay, you wanted to fuck this, So my thing is,

1129
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 2: I'll say this, a bitch, why wouldn't you go to

1130
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 2: kN Kon if a nigga invited you to Knkon? But

1131
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: what I will say is this, don't go unless you

1132
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 2: got money to get back. If you are afraid that

1133
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 2: you're gonna get sucked, Why the fuck are you afraid

1134
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 2: you're gonna get stuck?

1135
00:50:20,520 --> 00:50:21,879
Speaker 1: That mean you ain't got no money? I don't.

1136
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 2: Well, that also means that what kind of relationship do

1137
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 2: y'all have as well? Because I've been I've been places

1138
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 2: with niggas like if he decided to leave, I wasn't

1139
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:32,360
Speaker 2: getting home, but I was also on a trip with

1140
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 2: niggas I know wouldn't do me like that. And that's

1141
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. That's That's never the first thing

1142
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 2: that runs through my mind is that, oh, if I

1143
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 2: go somewhere with this nigga, he gonna leave me. Like

1144
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 2: even when I went to Miami and that situation happened

1145
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 2: with that dude, I never had the thought in my

1146
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 2: mind upon arriving that, oh, if if this shit go left,

1147
00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 2: he gonna leave me, you know what I mean. It's

1148
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 2: just that's something that ended up happening, and thankfully I

1149
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 2: had enough money to get back to Houston. But you

1150
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 2: know what I mean, that's my number one advice. I

1151
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 2: think you should go because life is sure. You should

1152
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 2: experience life, you should have fun, turn up and then

1153
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,800
Speaker 2: y'all already fucked. So it's not like, oh, you scared

1154
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 2: to go because you don't want to have to have

1155
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 2: sex with him.

1156
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:11,319
Speaker 1: You know what.

1157
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 2: Wasn't give I didn't want to have sex with him,

1158
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,479
Speaker 2: and he felt like he had spent a significant amount

1159
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 2: of money on me while we was there, you know,

1160
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 2: so he felt some type of way. But we were

1161
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 2: also still in the States as well.

1162
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 1: We're not on the country.

1163
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 2: Because I was in Dubai living good life with a

1164
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 2: negative one one dollar in my account.

1165
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: I was in the club, was at the table, I

1166
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 1: had negative one dollar in my account.

1167
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 2: But I feel like, but I'll say this, I feel

1168
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: like you're a fun girl, Like you're a turn up girl.

1169
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 2: So I don't really think that that would ever be

1170
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:46,800
Speaker 2: an issue with you, like a dude leaving you strengding,

1171
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,880
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, And you like to have sex.

1172
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: And she I'm not doing.

1173
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the difference between me and legs, like especially

1174
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 2: in my well, I'm like that now, I will say,

1175
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,799
Speaker 2: since I've gotten older, but like in my younger days,

1176
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 2: I was definitely the girl that will go on trips

1177
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,640
Speaker 2: with niggas and go places with niggas and had no

1178
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 2: plans on foking you, you know what I mean.

1179
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: So that's why they she ended up happening to me.

1180
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 2: But I feel like, of course, if youre a nigga,

1181
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:10,279
Speaker 2: go somewhere y'all having a good time, y'all having sick,

1182
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 2: y'all turning up, I don't really see a reason why

1183
00:52:12,440 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 2: he would like leave you strandy. But if that's a

1184
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 2: worry of yours. Make sure you got enough bread to

1185
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 2: get back home, please, or don't go because I would

1186
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:23,399
Speaker 2: hate for your ass to your sucking kid. Don't text

1187
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,680
Speaker 2: me and don't call us because we ain't got.

1188
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead with the next one.

1189
00:52:32,520 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 2: You need a I.

1190
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 1: Was gonna sing this song, but I don't think this

1191
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: in myring, it's in mind. Can I get already feel? Yeah?

1192
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: Do the next word? Yeah?

1193
00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:58,240
Speaker 2: You did.

1194
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 1: So? Yes?

1195
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,439
Speaker 2: Okay, next question, Dear Drea and Les, I'm twenty seven

1196
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 2: in low key cute.

1197
00:53:06,200 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 1: You mean Loki that ain't not lokey about it? You

1198
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: cuteuo cute? She said. I'm twenty seven and I'm low

1199
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 1: key cute.

1200
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 2: I was in a long term relationship for almost ten

1201
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 2: years and we have four kids.

1202
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 1: They ain't girl, you're twenty seven, you got four kids?

1203
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 1: Reading y'a was busy, you know, stop.

1204
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 2: Know what's coming next? Now she's about to feel bad,

1205
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 2: am I. Oh, I'm sorry, Okay, I'm sorry.

1206
00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:36,520
Speaker 1: Let me start off. I'm twenty seven and Loki cute.

1207
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 2: I was in a long term relationship for almost ten

1208
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 2: years and we had four kids together.

1209
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: But two years ago he passed away suddenly, I know.

1210
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:49,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. It's not funny. I just I'm not laughing.

1211
00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:52,879
Speaker 1: It's you. I'm not laughing you. I'm not laughing. That's

1212
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: not funny. It's not funny. But it's just like I

1213
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 1: told you to shut up and you wouldn't shut up.

1214
00:53:59,719 --> 00:54:05,400
Speaker 2: Keep Not only that, but I have physical defects in

1215
00:54:05,440 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 2: my skin. I'm still cute and chocolate, but my hands

1216
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 2: look like they have been in the fire. I never

1217
00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:12,920
Speaker 2: go out due to feeling like I'm not the type

1218
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 2: that bdb's wont However, I have a house, a car,

1219
00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 2: and I maintain it all on my own. Loki got

1220
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: a few dollars. I feel like I deserve a BDB.

1221
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 2: What is your advice on how to have good pussy

1222
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 2: management and get back out there? All? We always say this,

1223
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 2: it don't matter what you look like. The men in

1224
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,680
Speaker 2: general like confidence. So the fact that you've called yourself

1225
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 2: low key c already lets me know that your confidence

1226
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 2: is not where it needs to be. Yeah, because why

1227
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 2: would you say, Loki, it ain't nothing. That's why I

1228
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 2: said it ain't nothing low key about it. But like,

1229
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 2: if you got it, you got it, and men are

1230
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 2: attracted to that. I don't can love company if you

1231
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:50,919
Speaker 2: the baddest bitch in the room. But if you walk

1232
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 2: in with your head down and you looking like this

1233
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 2: with your orange fold and nobody's gonna talk to you.

1234
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 2: We get a lot of people that write in that

1235
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 2: are like bigger girls are like, how can I do this?

1236
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: These niggas don't care.

1237
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, fuck semen, if it's wet bo, you ain't got

1238
00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 2: to worry about all that. You gotta get your confidence

1239
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 2: up and know who you are, yeah, and just put

1240
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 2: yourself out there and don't be scatter of rejection like

1241
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 2: we've all been rejected before. Men and yeah, men love

1242
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:17,360
Speaker 2: confidence and also too, Like I was about to say this,

1243
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 2: it's this one girl that I know who have like

1244
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 2: four kids and.

1245
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 1: She still ended up getting a.

1246
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 2: BDB and got married and that nigga take care of

1247
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 2: her and all of her kids.

1248
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:28,840
Speaker 1: Any nigga richest.

1249
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 2: Fun I mean, but like live a good ass life.

1250
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 2: And so it's just like it's about your confidence. Don't never,

1251
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 2: you know, sleep on yourself, and don't think that just

1252
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:39,800
Speaker 2: because you know you a mom and you have children

1253
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 2: and stuff, I don't mean that you can't find a

1254
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 2: BDB or you can't find a nigga.

1255
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:47,640
Speaker 1: Got a BDB. Little Jackson was grown. But Jay's only

1256
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 1: had one kid. That's different. But Jackson is a lot now, he.

1257
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:55,040
Speaker 2: He is, he is, I think, but I definitely think.

1258
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:58,840
Speaker 2: You know, the more kids you have, the moret But

1259
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 2: like I said, I feel like, no matter if you

1260
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:02,800
Speaker 2: have one kid or if you have four or five, whatever,

1261
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 2: you just can't be scared to put yourself out there.

1262
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 2: And I feel like it's men out there that have

1263
00:56:06,560 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 2: a lot of kids that are probably looking.

1264
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: You know.

1265
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes it's better to find somebody that

1266
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 2: y'all have a lot in common as far as that goes,

1267
00:56:12,680 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 2: because if you try to date a man that has

1268
00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 2: no kids, he's not gonna understand when you can't go

1269
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 2: out because you don't have a sitter. Versus a man

1270
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 2: that has kids, he's gonna be more understanding. Yeah, so

1271
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 2: you know, and trust me, baby, these bdb's be having

1272
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 2: eight thirteen kids, okay, with like four or five period.

1273
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 1: That just sounded a little personal. Oh, I was just saying, Okay.

1274
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 2: Question number three, Hey, guys, my fiance, a man of

1275
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 2: ten years, has been invited to a bachelor party in Vegas.

1276
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 1: He's in the wedding party.

1277
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 2: Also, my problem is this bachelor party is joined with

1278
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 2: a bachelorette party. Everyone involved is thirty plus years old

1279
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 2: and either married and engaged or super single. I think

1280
00:56:56,719 --> 00:57:00,960
Speaker 2: it's extremely disrespectful to not only have a joint bachelor

1281
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 2: party trip for four days, but also state that.

1282
00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 1: The spouses are not invited.

1283
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 2: The grooms men are all in relationships, but the bridesmaids

1284
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:12,640
Speaker 2: are mostly single. What type of bullshit is that my

1285
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 2: fiance is telling me I should chill? But what's so

1286
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 2: chill about them sharing a mansion for four days? I

1287
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:22,120
Speaker 2: feel tried and disrespected by everyone involved, and my bugging

1288
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,919
Speaker 2: God is not through with me because them niggas can't

1289
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 2: get a penny from me at their wedding empty card.

1290
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 2: I don't feel like you tripping. I feel like I

1291
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 2: don't feel like she's tripping either, because I'd have been

1292
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:35,080
Speaker 2: to a mansion party, bitch, I know what go on?

1293
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like, no, what the fuck? What

1294
00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 1: you mean?

1295
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 2: Like it's only for the growns men and the bridesmaids

1296
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 2: and then all the bridesmaids.

1297
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: I don't have to.

1298
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 2: Stay in the same house because, let me tell you something,

1299
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 2: if I'm singing, I'm drunking, I'm and I'm inviting you

1300
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 2: fucking I'm fucking, I am fucking if I was in

1301
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 2: that house, I'm letting you know right now, I'm fucking.

1302
00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 1: Somebody in that house is gonna be fucking.

1303
00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 2: So I'm not even a lie to you.

1304
00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 1: You do have a right to be mad. I would

1305
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: be pissed.

1306
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 2: You lucky y'all wouldn't have money, Bitch, I was gonna

1307
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 2: be I would have been on the show talk about

1308
00:58:08,000 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 2: girl just came back from Vegas and a mansion party.

1309
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: Bitch, I was sucking on somebody. Man, big, I'm dead

1310
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: she I don't know. I would go.

1311
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 2: No, I would go to Vegas and get my own room.

1312
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: I wouldn't go.

1313
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 2: But I think that he should have made I don't know.

1314
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 2: I just think that's weird, Like why aren't the men

1315
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 2: and the women separated.

1316
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 1: Maybe he should consider.

1317
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 2: Maybe getting like an Airbnb or a hotel by the

1318
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 2: mansion and be with him during the day, but at

1319
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 2: night he can go to his hotel room or something.

1320
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 1: I don't know, because I'm not gonna lie.

1321
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 2: I would not feel comfortable that because if the brides

1322
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:43,720
Speaker 2: made the single, well, she didn't say.

1323
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 1: They was fine. I'm saying if they find too, That's

1324
00:58:46,200 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

1325
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 2: But also consider this is your nigga a BDB, because

1326
00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 2: if he's not, you probably ain't got nothing to worry about.

1327
00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 2: But's true if he pouring straight home to you.

1328
00:58:56,680 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 1: But if he a BDB, he might be out there

1329
00:58:58,720 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: cutting nothing. Now.

1330
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 2: Hell, but that's a lot because we just love poor niggas,

1331
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 2: not bad bitches. That's not true. Bad bitches be loking

1332
00:59:07,280 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 2: poor niggas too.

1333
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 1: Not me. Clarify, clarify for the people one, not me,

1334
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 1: but all. Okay, read the last one. Hi, ladies, this

1335
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 1: question is for Drea. On a recent perfect that worked out,

1336
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: You got to read the last one.

1337
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 2: MM. On a recent episode, your adoption was brought up

1338
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 2: and when you and when to tell a child that

1339
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 2: they're adopted. My little sister who is actually my cousin?

1340
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I do. Her little sister is actually.

1341
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 2: Who is actually her cousin, So it's really her auntie.

1342
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 2: Baby is acting like.

1343
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 1: Her little sister, but it's really her cousin, her auntie.

1344
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,600
Speaker 1: I think I got it, okay, her mama's sister brother

1345
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 1: or brother got it, okay.

1346
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,720
Speaker 2: My little sister, who is actually my cousin, has already

1347
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:02,520
Speaker 2: been She's adopted. My parents had to tell her when

1348
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 2: she was about five years old, after my cousin who

1349
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 2: is actually her brother, told her out of spite. She

1350
01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 2: seemed to understand as much as a five year old

1351
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 2: could at the time. But my question is, as she

1352
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 2: grows older, how can I support her as a sister

1353
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:20,280
Speaker 2: when she begins to grasp the full truth of her adoption.

1354
01:00:20,960 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: Right now, she is eight and I am twenty five.

1355
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 2: I just want to get some advice or perspective on

1356
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 2: how to deal with and help her through this and

1357
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:31,439
Speaker 2: she gets older, because after that situation, I worry about

1358
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,439
Speaker 2: what other things might be thrown at her while wait

1359
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 2: might be thrown at her with her still being around

1360
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 2: her cousin slash siblings and biological parents. I just feel like,

1361
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:48,760
Speaker 2: you know, when you tell I think that the good

1362
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,280
Speaker 2: thing is you already told her that she's adopted, you

1363
01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 2: know what I mean. So she's fairly young, she knows,

1364
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 2: so like as she gets older, she's definitely gonna have questions,

1365
01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Because I had a lot

1366
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 2: of questions growing up with my parents. Like I said,

1367
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 2: they told me that when I was like four, So

1368
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 2: I used to ask them a lot of questions and

1369
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 2: they used to answer most of my questions most of

1370
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:11,080
Speaker 2: the time. So I feel like, just be honest with her,

1371
01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But then also it's a

1372
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 2: struggle because I think you feel different, you know what

1373
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 2: I mean, Like that was always my main thing. I

1374
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 2: just felt so different from everybody around me. And I

1375
01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 2: think sometimes as a kid, you want to fit in

1376
01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 2: so bad, you want to be like everybody else, But

1377
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 2: when you're in a circumstance like that, you not nothing

1378
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 2: like most of the other people around you, because like

1379
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 2: in my case, all of my friends grew up with

1380
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 2: their real parents, you know what I mean. So I

1381
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 2: just feel like, just be there for her and just

1382
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 2: be willing and open to talk to her, answer her questions,

1383
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,920
Speaker 2: and just let her know that she not alone, because

1384
01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 2: I feel like you tend to feel that way when

1385
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 2: you don't have anybody else around you that's in the

1386
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 2: same predicument, you know what I mean. I don't know,

1387
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:02,919
Speaker 2: it's crazy, that's that's fucked up though, that somebody told

1388
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 2: her how to spite year old, Yeah, a five year

1389
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:09,240
Speaker 2: old out of spite, Like that's why And I.

1390
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 1: Think, I mean not to buddend because I.

1391
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 2: Don't know, But at the same time, I do feel like,

1392
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 2: make sure that y'all are protecting her from him, because

1393
01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 2: it's because if he told her that out of spite,

1394
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 2: like obviously she needs to be protected from him, because

1395
01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 2: he's gonna treat her different and always let her know, oh,

1396
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 2: our parents gave you up or whatever, you.

1397
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 1: Know, trying to make her feel bad.

1398
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 2: So just make sure that you give her the same

1399
01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 2: love you've always given her and don't make her feel

1400
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 2: any different, like, still make her feel like she's your

1401
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:38,959
Speaker 2: little sister, because she is, you know, Like I feel

1402
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 2: like even after your parents told you they weren't treating you.

1403
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 1: Like you were their adoptive daughter. You were their daughter.

1404
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 1: That was mom and dad.

1405
01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 2: Even when you realize who Monica was, and even that

1406
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:51,200
Speaker 2: you've met your real dad now, like you still refer

1407
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 2: you still refer to your dad like as your dad,

1408
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 2: Like that's always gonna be your father. So she's You're

1409
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 2: still her big sister, She's still your little sister. She

1410
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 2: just kind of knows the truth now. But yeah, yeah,

1411
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 2: and I mean it's a very similar situation kind of

1412
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 2: to Yeah, because it's it's I think things get really

1413
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:15,440
Speaker 2: complicated when it's that, you know what I mean, versus

1414
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 2: like you getting adopted by a completely different family Zimbabwe.

1415
01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: That's what Madonna did, That's what Angelina Joli is.

1416
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 2: But yeah, I definitely agree, it's completely different when you

1417
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:29,600
Speaker 2: get adopted by somebody that's in your family.

1418
01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 1: It definitely complicates things, you know what I mean.

1419
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:34,360
Speaker 2: So she's gonna have a lot of questions and like

1420
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 2: as she gets older, she might need therapy and so too,

1421
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And I feel like all

1422
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:41,600
Speaker 2: of that is okay, Like just just be there for her.

1423
01:03:43,160 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 2: So yeah, so make sure if y'all want y'all questions

1424
01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 2: answered on the show, you email us at ask poor

1425
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 2: Minds at gmail dot com. And I've never said this before,

1426
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 2: but we notice like the views is going up, but

1427
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 2: the subscriber's not going going.

1428
01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all subscribe.

1429
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 2: Subscribe to because you know what, I noticed a lot

1430
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:01,320
Speaker 2: of y'all be like had the episode, that episode been

1431
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:01,959
Speaker 2: up for two hours.

1432
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:03,880
Speaker 1: This is why you wan I mentioned yes, because you

1433
01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 1: was a subscriber.

1434
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,640
Speaker 2: And when you would get an email, So y'all make

1435
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 2: sure y'all subscribe to our channel as well, Like you know,

1436
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:12,600
Speaker 2: we're trying to you know, we're trying to get a

1437
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 2: little plaque too.

1438
01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:16,760
Speaker 1: You know what we need that one hundred k plex pool.

1439
01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:19,680
Speaker 2: You you ready to close it out? I need you

1440
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 2: on the hook though I got I got the course.

1441
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 2: I need you on the hook. We're gonna slow it down.

1442
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 1: What song is I'll say this this song ra.

1443
01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:33,240
Speaker 2: Because because we done sung this together before, Okay, so

1444
01:04:33,280 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 2: I'll say this. This goes into the first topic of

1445
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:39,520
Speaker 2: what we were talking about, like, you know, letting a

1446
01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 2: man back.

1447
01:04:40,040 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just love a nigga and sometimes you.

1448
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 2: Just I'm gonna show you in a second when I

1449
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 2: when I hit that first note, because I gotta see

1450
01:04:46,400 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 2: you be like that's.

1451
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:51,240
Speaker 1: What people in a comment.

1452
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:53,959
Speaker 2: People in a comment say that all the time. Maybe,

1453
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 2: like I'm just thoroughly confused. And Drea is still surprised

1454
01:04:57,880 --> 01:04:59,919
Speaker 2: by Leck's inn six and I really do be surpri

1455
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 2: like it's really.

1456
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: I don't bring up props today. I just wanted to

1457
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:10,680
Speaker 1: be on some you ready, No, I'm right, But anyways,

1458
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:16,040
Speaker 1: everyoneful he love sometime.

1459
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:22,439
Speaker 2: Oh sometimes it is a wrong, sometimes it is a right.

1460
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 1: I know this right for every week.

1461
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 2: Some on spell I know, and now comes up point

1462
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 2: when you say yay, yay, say.

1463
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 5: Shoot shoot shoot shoot shoot shoot shoot man, I.

1464
01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 1: Said, shoot that was the ball. My god, I love this.

1465
01:05:59,880 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 3: This.

1466
01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,000
Speaker 1: This is like the ultimate friend song.

1467
01:06:03,760 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 2: Friends sometimes your life and sometimes you gribe life never

1468
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 2: tells us windsor whe waiting.

1469
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 6: You got friends, So with you, you'll find a point

1470
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 6: when ship you will a lex hell he hed shoot.

1471
01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 1: Shoot shoot shoot loop shoot shoot shoot. Yes, come on

1472
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 1: with me right a whit me? Is that that girl

1473
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: whenny was that girl? That Leo queen, my Leo sister.

1474
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 1: Y'all love me some wigi like that's who.

1475
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 2: I really really grew up on with you and you

1476
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 2: should a queen, a Leo queen.

1477
01:06:55,120 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: We love with me. So yes, thank you so much

1478
01:06:57,800 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 1: for tuning in. Shout I to with me.

1479
01:07:00,040 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 2: Shout out the DM man, everybody who bought the merch.

1480
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 1: Shout out to y'all. We got some more hot ship

1481
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:10,040
Speaker 1: coming for y'all, period, period, poor, it's coming on. So

1482
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:14,400
Speaker 1: we'll see y'all next week, by y'all. Babe, shoot.

1483
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:19,400
Speaker 2: You do that part because I wouldn't get in my

1484
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 2: bag too much. I don't want to make you feel

1485
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 2: bad because you were getting into it a little bit,

1486
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:25,080
Speaker 2: so I had to hold back a little bit.

1487
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:27,040
Speaker 1: Now you could have did your thing. You know I'm

1488
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:30,480
Speaker 1: here for you. I'm supported. I supported