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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Imagine you accidentally run into

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Speaker 3: somebody from your past, but not a good somebody like

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Speaker 3: your old second grade teacher or your cool babysitter who

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Speaker 3: taught you how to delete your browser history.

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Speaker 1: For my dad shut out.

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Speaker 2: I mean that is helpful.

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Speaker 3: And this is a person who you don't want to

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Speaker 3: run into again, you really don't. And that actually happened

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Speaker 3: to one of our listeners, Dana, who afterwards has emailed

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Speaker 3: us for help because she does not know how to continue.

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Speaker 4: In your hometown because that's where it's the worst.

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Speaker 2: You can get away. There sounds like something where she's

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Speaker 2: not able to get away.

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Speaker 1: Dana, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, thanks for having me. I really appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm having an anxiety for you.

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Speaker 5: Just the thought.

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Speaker 6: I can think of two people that I do not

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Speaker 6: ever want to run into the rest of my life.

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Speaker 3: I've never seen Alexis smile this big because she knows

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Speaker 3: dramas coming.

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Speaker 1: She's excited. What's going on? What made you email us?

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Speaker 4: Oh my I don't even know where to start, but

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Speaker 4: just to give you, like a I just recently moved

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Speaker 4: my family into a new neighborhood. So we're fresh there.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's exciting, Yeah yeah it is, but it's also

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Speaker 6: like stussful because my daughter's already having.

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Speaker 4: To switch schools. Yeah sure, she's nervous about making new friends.

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Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, but just remind her that the new kid

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Speaker 6: is always cool in the beginning.

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Speaker 3: And also remind her the friends that you make when

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Speaker 3: you're young, they really don't last very well.

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Speaker 1: You're actually going to lose them all by adulthood.

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Speaker 4: It's fine, or I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know, maybe deliver that a nicer way to her,

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Speaker 1: but okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So on her first day of school, she's like, Mommy,

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Speaker 4: I made a new friend. And I'm like, awesome, wow, news,

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Speaker 4: thank god. So we went ahead and arranged a playday

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Speaker 4: over at her new friend's house. And afterwards I go

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Speaker 4: to pick her up, and you know, I go inside

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Speaker 4: and walking the entryway and I'm like, they had legos

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Speaker 4: displayed on there. Yeah, And I'm looking at the legos

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Speaker 4: and I recognize them. They're the same ones that my

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Speaker 4: ex had on display nine years ago, model exact thing.

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Speaker 1: It was like a set.

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Speaker 4: I knew that they were his because I've seen the

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Speaker 4: exact set before on display at his apartment.

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Speaker 2: Are you saying you're at your ex's house right now?

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Speaker 4: Then that's what I think it is, because I'm looking

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Speaker 4: around and I see a photo of him. It him Yep,

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Speaker 4: it's ten, And I'm like, you've got to be kidding me.

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Speaker 4: My daughter's best friend is the child of my ex.

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Speaker 1: Just come true?

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Speaker 6: That would be terrible, especially like most exes you're cool with,

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Speaker 6: but there's always the one that you just don't ever

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Speaker 2: And it sounds like that's the person for you.

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Speaker 5: Yep, And you're right.

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Speaker 4: It is the worst thing ever because it didn't end

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Speaker 4: well with us.

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Speaker 2: Wait is he there when you pick her up? Do

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Speaker 4: No? Luckily he was at work that day and I've

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Speaker 4: only interacted with the mother.

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Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Do you bring it up to the mom? I mean

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Speaker 2: you have to, because isn't it going to be even

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Speaker 2: more awkward if.

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Speaker 1: You're like less awkward to be? Like, nice to meet you.

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Speaker 3: Our daughters are now friends. By the way, me and

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Speaker 3: your husband used to be a thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, I don't know. I don't have

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Speaker 2: an answer. It's just all of that is like my

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Speaker 1: See you walk up her and go.

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Speaker 3: Oh he downgraded and then walk away.

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Speaker 4: I mean that's why I'm calling you, guys. I'm like

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Speaker 4: conflicted because my daughter's been asking me, like mommy, mommy,

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Speaker 4: let's go over there, and I'm like, what do I do?

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Speaker 4: And now it's the worst scenario, pas bo. If this

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Speaker 4: couldn't get any worse. Her friend is having a birthday party.

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Speaker 2: Oh and you know the dad will.

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Speaker 6: Definitely be at the birthday party because it's like you

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Speaker 6: could avoid them the other way.

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Speaker 4: And you know, it sounds like happy hour, mingo hour

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Speaker 6: As if this guy, if this ex was in love

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Speaker 6: you're the mom of his daughter's new friend.

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Speaker 4: I doubt it.

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Speaker 2: Think if you look alike it all or like resemble.

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Speaker 6: Just a name right the name or like I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 6: if people are still in love with their exes, they

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Speaker 6: stock them on social media.

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Speaker 2: No I love with exes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah I did that, which he was just curious

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Speaker 2: I mean I've done it.

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Speaker 4: Before, but not currently, so I'm in a dilemma now

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Speaker 4: because the birthday's coming up in a few days and

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Speaker 4: I need to have a conversation with the wife.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I think that's the right thing to do.

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Speaker 1: If I was you, I would move to another neighborhood

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Speaker 1: and try again. How many do you have?

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Speaker 2: Did you unpack your boxes?

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Speaker 4: My daughter she loves this new friend. So I really

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Speaker 4: need some help and advice on like what I'm going

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Speaker 4: to tell the wife and how it's going to go.

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Speaker 3: So that's going to be our job come up with

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Speaker 3: some advice to give you. Again, Juicy, we're going to

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Speaker 3: figure out how you can talk to your ex's wife

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Speaker 3: and guess let her know that the two of you

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Speaker 3: used to date and now your kids are best friends.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, totally to talk about.

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Speaker 2: Maybe everyone will be an adult about this.

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Speaker 1: Of course, you want adult stuff to happen, Brooke.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, let's try and do your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 3: right after this.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. As a parent,

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Speaker 1: you want your child to make.

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Speaker 2: New friends, yes, of course.

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Speaker 3: But worst case scenarios if you find out their new

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Speaker 1: Your old ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 6: Oh, man, the one ex you didn't want to see,

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Speaker 6: not the one you want to get back with you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like a one.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for clarifying, because that's exactly what happened to

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Speaker 3: our listener, Dana. And now the clock is ticking because

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Speaker 3: there's a birthday party coming up where all of the

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Speaker 3: adults and the parents are supposed to hang out and

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Speaker 3: mingle with each other. And Dana is absolutely terrified of.

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Speaker 1: What to do.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because she hasn't even seen the ex yet, she's

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Speaker 6: only interacted with the mom of the girls. You don't

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Speaker 6: know if you know, and a birthday party means that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is a good question, Dana, Like, what is

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Speaker 3: the percentage that your ex knows this is already going on?

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I don't know, but if I had to guess,

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Speaker 2: Fifty fifty fifty fifty fifty.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well Brook, she needs some advice before we call

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Speaker 3: this other mom and basically lay it all out there

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Speaker 3: for her. What do you think Dana needs to keep

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Speaker 6: Okay, this is the thing. You have to be so casual.

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Speaker 6: You cannot act like it's a big deal.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so casual, don't even wear pants for this conversation.

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Speaker 1: Keep it back and hill.

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Speaker 6: I'm saying, when you talk to her, you need to

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Speaker 6: be like, oh my god, so funny.

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Speaker 2: I just realized, I know your husband. What a small bothered?

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Speaker 4: Bothered?

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Speaker 1: What do you think of that, Dana, No big deal.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if I can do that because I

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Speaker 4: feel like I'll be lying and acting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I want you to do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's give it a try.

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Speaker 3: Give us your best nonchalant like, oh weird, me and

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Speaker 3: your husband used to date.

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Speaker 4: Oh what a small world.

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Speaker 5: I believe it.

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Speaker 4: You're flirting me and your husband used today. Fun fact

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Speaker 1: Sound a little bit excited about it.

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Speaker 2: Or like silly funny coincidence story not fun fact.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we'll just take a little bit of nugget, a

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Speaker 3: little nugget from that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to sprinkle it in.

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Speaker 2: Good, No more stressed out anywhere.

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Speaker 1: Just do you? I think, Just be you and you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be good.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: She could have done that without us, Jeff.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's her fault for calling in. Stop recording. Just

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Speaker 1: tell us how this goes later. So here we go.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna dial the other mom. And let you talk

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Speaker 3: to her so you can let her know that you

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Speaker 4: Oh, we'll pray for me. I'll pray for me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we will as I'm dialing the number now, good luck.

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Speaker 1: We'll jump in if we feel like you need help.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Oh hi, is this Alix? Yes, it's Delilah's mom. Stay that.

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Speaker 5: Oh hi, how are you?

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm good, you know, just getting some things done

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Speaker 5: I'm good. I can't complain them. Just getting ready for

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Speaker 5: this card we have with a few days and I'm

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Speaker 5: definitely not prepared.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I know how that goes?

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Speaker 5: Well, Bless your heart. What did I do for you?

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Speaker 5: Is everything? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So this is okay. Sorry, I'm trying. I wanted

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Speaker 5: I have a few parents called about food allergies. Is

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Speaker 5: that what this is about?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, thank god, she doesn't have any food allergies.

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Speaker 4: But I'm calling you because it's just kind of like

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Speaker 4: an awkward thing. So I don't know how to sugarcoat this.

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Speaker 4: But it involved your husband.

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Speaker 5: Oh oh my husband.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so please like, don't worry. He's not like cheating

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Speaker 4: on you or anything. But I don't know if you

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Speaker 4: know this or if he's told you. But the other day,

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Speaker 4: you know, picking up Delilah, and I realized after going

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Speaker 4: to your house that I actually know your husband and

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Speaker 4: we used to date.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and.

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Speaker 4: You don't seem surprised by this.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she do you not looking to date now?

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Speaker 5: If that's what you're wondering.

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Speaker 4: We're married, so okay, hold on, hold on, I'm married too,

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Speaker 4: So you know, I don't know how much he's told you.

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Speaker 4: We kind of have like a weird breakup. So I'm

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Speaker 4: just feeling a little uncomfortable.

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Speaker 5: Do you feel this way because you still have phyllis

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Speaker 5: for him more? I'm getting really confused.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, no, why.

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Speaker 5: It's or anyone would be uncomfortable, Like, I mean, he's

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Speaker 5: told me all about you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you know he told you about this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he said it was a really it was a

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Speaker 5: really hard freak up when you got dumped. He didn't

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Speaker 4: And I'm dumb.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't get exactly. So I mean, I understand

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Speaker 5: I'm a woman. First, I totally get it.

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Speaker 4: No, he first of all, I didn't get dumped I

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Speaker 5: Well, it's the honey, everybody gets dumped. It's okay, it's

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Speaker 5: no need to be embarrassed. It's nothing. Okay what I mean,

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Speaker 5: I haven't but I can imagine the pain of.

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Speaker 4: Getting dump Wow. No, no, no, no, no, that's not

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Speaker 5: And I know Dan now comes with it, and no, one,

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Speaker 5: you have nothing to worry about. Our daughters. They like

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Speaker 5: each other. We should come and leave it at that.

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Speaker 4: You need to understand I jumped him and like he

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Speaker 4: was just awkward and resentful after that, and like, this

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Speaker 5: A therapist at all? Or have you ever consider that?

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Speaker 5: Because like you definitely you definitely should.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, okay, wow.

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Speaker 5: Wait what is all this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the sound of an entire morning show being

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Speaker 3: on this phone call with you, because you're you're on

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Speaker 3: the radio right now, Alice. Oh my god, we're broking

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning. We're trying to help out Dana

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Speaker 5: So she goes on the radio.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, she wanted advice but that's not the advice

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Speaker 3: No, we were expecting you to be surprised by the

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Speaker 2: Because it was definitely a surprise to Dana.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, no, we my husband and I talked already.

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Speaker 5: We know what's going on. Like, she's someone of the past,

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Speaker 5: and I just I feel like she may still.

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Speaker 4: Be a little hurt. I'm not hurt, Alice. I'm just

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Speaker 4: calling you to let you know that we were dating,

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Speaker 4: like a complete loser after.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, Okay, here's the thing.

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Speaker 6: Data it feels like Alice is maybe being a little

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Speaker 6: bit more of the st here. Yeah, but it is lying.

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Speaker 4: They're lying. That's like, that doesn't make me feel comfortable

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Speaker 1: Okay, who broke up with Yeah, very woman.

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Speaker 2: It was nine years ago. You found a husband, you

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Speaker 3: Because couples that lie together stay together, that's the saying.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So just now that you know, Alice, can we

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Speaker 4: like move forward from this? What's I mean?

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Speaker 5: We already move forward. You are involving the radio, and

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Speaker 5: you have all these feelings and all these things going

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Speaker 3: Okay, So, Dana, I guess balls in your court here

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Speaker 3: because it sounds like Alice has known about the past

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Speaker 5: As long as she doesn't want my husband, we're okay.

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Speaker 3: Does not sound like she does, Dana, Can you verbally

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Speaker 3: acknowledge that you are not interested in Alice's husband?

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Speaker 4: I am not interested in your husband.

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Speaker 1: Thankful?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So when the birthday party happens, are you comfortable

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 4: I think for this birth birthday party, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 4: drop her off and have you guys do and maybe

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Speaker 4: we can just have a one on one after something

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Speaker 4: and just.

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Speaker 5: I just want our girls to be able to play

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Speaker 5: together and just to know one another, like that's all

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Speaker 5: that matters.

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Speaker 2: It seems like the most chill go with a flow mom.

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Speaker 2: I know data.

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Speaker 6: I think that maybe we should therapy.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a good chance for you to go

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Speaker 3: over to the house with the birthday party.

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Speaker 1: You can be the better person.

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Speaker 3: Walk in there, write a note and put it under

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Speaker 3: the husband's pillow, saying, just to be clear, I broke.

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Speaker 1: Up with you.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't want to be petty, but that is

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Speaker 4: a good idea.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Sticky notes. They're nice and small. You won't see

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Speaker 1: them until

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Speaker 4: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning.