WEBVTT - Patriots Coach “Takes Accountability” After More Photos Released, Going Back 6 Years 0:00:02.120 --> 0:00:05.960 Hey, they're folks. It is Friday, April twenty fourth, and 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:10.719 Mike Rabel keeps talking, So that means everybody else keeps 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:15.319 talking about this scandal between the new England Patriots coach 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:18.200 and a now former NFL reporter. With that welcome to 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:20.400 this episode of Amy and TJ aprol If this has 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:23.240 become a tap Lloyd story. Their headlines all over the place. 0:00:23.800 --> 0:00:26.880 Everybody's talking, but Mike Rabel seems to want to keep 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:28.880 talking as well. We heard from him again last night. 0:00:28.960 --> 0:00:30.520 Yes, this was a little surprising. 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:33.280 Do you remember last week when we said, wow, do 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:35.960 you know the one person we're not talking about, the 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:39.839 one name we're not saying Mike Rabel, Because all we 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:44.320 were talking about was the female the NFL reporter, Diana Racini, 0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:49.040 and even another female sideline reporter NFL reporter who ended 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:52.559 up getting fired for making negative comments about Diana Rossini. 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:56.120 So we weren't talking about Mike Rabel. But man, things 0:00:56.160 --> 0:01:01.280 have changed this week, and namely because he has been 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:05.760 addressing photographs. There have been more photographs that have been released, 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:08.680 and some people have blamed him by not admitting it, 0:01:08.720 --> 0:01:12.320 by not fully acknowledging it that now Internet sleuts are 0:01:12.360 --> 0:01:16.959 trying to trap him and find more reasons to keep 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:20.440 his name in the headlines. But he has yes made 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:23.520 another public statement right before the NFL Draft. 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:25.319 Last night, and he had to do this. He spoke 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:29.200 earlier this week and essentially just address and folks, you're 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:31.640 up on the story by now coach Mike Brabel, the 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:34.480 second year head coach of the New England Patriots, was 0:01:34.520 --> 0:01:38.880 seen in some without a doubt, compromising photos with former 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:42.560 NFL reporter Diana Russini, who was working with the athletic 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:46.560 She has since resigned. But both of these are married 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:49.920 people with kids, married to other people. But it's clear 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:52.600 in the photos this was more than just colleagues. Those 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.720 are things we can just state as facts. The rest 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:57.120 of it and the speculation and all that, we're not 0:01:57.160 --> 0:01:59.320 going to get into all that, but those are just facts. 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:02.040 They have never come out and just flat out She 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:04.520 certainly didn't Robes Russini flat out come out and say 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:07.800 that they did something wrong. In her resignation letter, she 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:09.920 talked about a false narrative and all this stuff. He 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:11.960 was the one earlier this week when we finally heard 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:15.960 from him Robes who said he had done wrong without 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:18.639 saying I'm sorry or exactly saying what he had done wrong. 0:02:18.720 --> 0:02:22.080 Yeah, he said he had difficult conversations with his family. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:24.680 Is pretty much how he put it. His first response 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:27.840 was that the pictures or a response was laughable. He 0:02:27.880 --> 0:02:30.640 has very much changed his tune since that moment, and 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:34.160 he was specifically asked about his initial comment when he 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:39.200 made his latest presser at least before the NFL draft, 0:02:39.280 --> 0:02:40.080 and he addressed that. 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:42.040 But yes, now he has gone. 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:46.440 So far as to say that he is acknowledging that 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.600 he basically has had bad behavior. So he's taken it 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.840 a step further. But this was because more pictures were 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:56.200 released on yesterday that date back to twenty twenty. There 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:59.520 was a photo of Rabel and Racini in a New 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.640 York City in twenty twenty where they just seem very friendly. 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:04.880 His hand is on her leg, I believe, and I 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:06.720 think there was a pack or a kiss. And then 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:08.880 there was another photo of them at a twenty twenty 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:12.960 four in twenty twenty four at a casino where they 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:15.680 just looked like they were having a good time. And 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:18.840 so because of those two photos, it seems that Mike 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:21.240 Rabel felt the need to then stand in front of 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:24.040 reporters and the press and a microphone and speak again 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:26.760 about his behavior. 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.160 He didn't say anything. He said as much this time 0:03:29.160 --> 0:03:31.520 as he said the first time, again not much, saying 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:34.440 he's taking accountability for his behavior, but not exactly saying 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:36.720 what that behavior is. No one has acknowledged that these 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:40.320 two were in a relationship of some kind, a romantic one. 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:43.960 They have not confirmed that at all. If that's their business, 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:46.360 that's what they're doing, that is fine. However, robes the 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:51.720 issue when people either you don't talk, but if you're talking, 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:54.040 you better clear up the questions if people have and 0:03:54.120 --> 0:03:56.880 the reason the story keeps going robes is. I think 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:59.480 the first time he spoke earlier this week at a 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:04.360 press conference, essentially saying the same things, I didn't act right. 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:07.920 I didn't hold myself to the right standard. We even 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:10.360 when he said earlier this week, why did he have 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:13.720 to see this. He's not under investigation, he's not being punished. 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:16.800 He didn't necessarily have to do this. Your estimation was 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:19.520 it was either coming from his wife or two he 0:04:19.600 --> 0:04:23.520 knew something else was coming in certain something else was. 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:26.440 It seems like maybe it was both, because yes, you 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:30.719 had you have I'm sure a wife who has been quiet, 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:33.240 who has been silent. He's been married to her for 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:37.120 twenty six years in counting. He has two adult sons 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:40.120 with his wife, Jen, and so yes, my speculation was 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.479 that she wanted him to put a public face on 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:46.560 it and to acknowledge his misstep and to basically be 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:50.799 respectful of her and their children together by publicly acknowledging 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:52.720 this without getting specific. 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:55.400 But yes, there were more pictures that came out. 0:04:55.440 --> 0:04:57.080 We don't know if he knew it was coming out, 0:04:57.360 --> 0:05:00.000 but he again now took to the microphone. 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:02.160 I feel like he tried to take it a little 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:02.760 step further. 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:06.400 He hasn't acknowledged anything specific that is true, but he's 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:09.839 talking about his actions, taking accountability for his actions. 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:13.599 He's talking about being a distraction. But he has not. 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:16.080 And he did start it off by saying, I understand 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:19.200 that there are a lot of questions well, and. 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:21.600 One has not been it's I don't know if it's 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:25.080 being asked. It is being assumed that these two were 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:29.159 having an affair. They have not denied that outside of 0:05:29.160 --> 0:05:32.240 their initial statements, which actually didn't deny it, just kind 0:05:32.279 --> 0:05:34.640 of brushed it off. All this is laughable, that kind 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:38.039 of thing, But neither one of them have acknowledged. They 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:40.920 don't have to for my sake at all. They don't 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:41.880 need you to do anything. 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:47.760 But if you want the internet sleuths, the tabloid magazines, 0:05:47.800 --> 0:05:51.200 the folks who are trying to get you caught, you gotcha. 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:54.240 The only way you put that to bed is if 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:59.200 you go ahead and say what needs to be said, 0:05:59.240 --> 0:06:00.640 and there's nothing less to find out. 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:05.320 Yeah, because he's essentially I guess what, Robes. He hasn't 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:10.240 said anything but the suggestion. Now that again another set 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:14.720 of pictures from six years ago, showing them in once 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.920 again a compromising position to where there are more than 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:21.640 just colleagues. Okay, he doesn't have to answer that. He 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:23.920 has to answer that to his family, to his wife, 0:06:23.920 --> 0:06:27.880 and maybe to his team. But Robes, if he keeps 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:32.320 speaking to the press, you gotta say something that answers 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:34.479 the questions that are in the press. He keeps saying 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.719 thank you all for being respectful to my family, thank 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:39.839 you all to these reporters in the room. But Robes, 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:44.880 he hasn't said I'm sorry, and he hasn't used the 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:49.040 word apologize in public. I'm not saying he has to. 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:52.279 But if he's trying to do some pr which seems 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:55.320 like he's trying to do, it's making it worse. 0:06:56.040 --> 0:06:58.880 It is making it worse because when you decide to 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:02.600 speak camera like, you decide to speak to the press 0:07:03.000 --> 0:07:07.400 and you don't directly address the photographs. 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:09.760 That have everyone asking you questions. 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:13.520 If you don't address the nature of your relationship with Rassini, 0:07:13.800 --> 0:07:17.200 when you talk to the press about the photos about 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:21.320 this relationship, you're just going to continue to fuel more speculation, 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:27.240 more digging into your past life because either don't talk 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:31.600 at all or say something that actually directly addresses the issue. 0:07:31.800 --> 0:07:34.520 Yes, one or the other. 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:37.360 He's trying to do something in between, and it's not working. 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:40.360 You can't thread that needle. You just can't in this 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:43.640 age of social media, this age of internet sluts, as 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:45.600 you say. But here he was last night. We knew 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:48.040 this had to happen because this was the NFL Draft 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.400 got started last night. So he's there with his team 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:52.880 in Pittsburgh for the draft, so he had to do 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:54.640 all these coaches do a press conference. So he did 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:56.360 a press conference, stepped out, and the first thing they 0:07:56.360 --> 0:07:58.280 said is it's going to make a comment then take 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:00.880 some questions, and at the end of his comments, he said, 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:03.880 that's going to be all I'm gonna say, essentially trying 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:06.760 to tell the room don't ask me nothing after I 0:08:06.800 --> 0:08:08.920 get done with my statement. So he made about a 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:10.920 three minute statement, but this was the relevant part. We'll 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.760 play for you here. Now it's a little low, but 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:17.000 you can make it out. But this is, I guess Robes. 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:20.000 This was the strongest part of his statement in addressing 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:21.040 all that's been going on. 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:27.080 You know, my previous actions don't meet the standard that 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:31.400 that I hold myself to. They don't. And what I 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:33.760 believe is best for the two most important things in 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:36.640 my life, my family and his football team, is for 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:42.400 us to take the necessary steps to work together and 0:08:42.440 --> 0:08:45.080 to give them what I told them I'd give them, 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:47.439 which the best version of me. And that's what we're 0:08:47.480 --> 0:08:50.840 gonna do. And that's going to start. That has started, 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:55.480 that'll that'll continue this weekend, and it'll continue for however 0:08:55.559 --> 0:09:00.480 long it takes for me to give them complete that 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:03.760 promise of given giving them the best version of me possible. 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:07.360 And that's what's going to happen. And that's what's been happening. 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:12.319 However long it takes. I guess Robes perked some years. 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:14.840 Yes, A lot of people wrote about that, saying that 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:19.440 he's basically leaving space for him to take a leave 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:22.680 or to not be as present on the football field 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:26.040 or with the Patriots if his family needs him to 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:29.480 be focused on something else. So he gave himself room 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:32.679 to prioritize his family over football. 0:09:33.480 --> 0:09:34.880 You know, that was I don't know if I had 0:09:34.880 --> 0:09:36.400 it in this sound bite, but it was a part 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:39.840 of something he said earlier, the two most important things 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.600 in his life family and football in that order. And 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:45.880 he's but he said moving forward, he is going to 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:49.760 find a better balance that he has found. I think 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:53.120 that's probably real because the Robes from college to the pros, 0:09:53.360 --> 0:09:55.720 we've been around a bunch of coaches, a bunch of programs. 0:09:55.960 --> 0:10:00.240 The thing, you, man, these guys are so committed to 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:03.920 that job and head coaching, it just consumes their lives. 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:08.359 Right And now, given what's been exposed, I would imagine 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:12.679 what's going on in his home with his wife. She's like, yeah, 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:17.040 so now now let's talk about balance. Now let's talk 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:18.760 about having you be a part of this family in 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:21.680 a way that maybe you haven't, which allowed for perhaps 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:24.160 what we saw in these pictures to occur. 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:25.720 But you know, we don't know what's going on with 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:28.760 his life. We piece it together. I'm just thinking how 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:34.720 stressful his life. He's been a pro player, went into coaching, 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:37.280 another head coaching gig, he went to the Super Bowl. 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:41.280 Robes the dedication, the sacrifice, his entire but he has 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:44.640 two grown sons, they're on their twenties, props. The sacrifice 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:48.520 is that entire family has made for him to be successful. 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:52.160 It's just a it was a group thing. But we 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:56.439 don't know. But these things robes that balance. We talk 0:10:56.480 --> 0:11:00.880 about how that can He's acknowledging it has contributed to 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:03.920 some failings of his and his household. I hated to 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:05.719 hear that part. That was the realist part. I think 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:07.400 I've heard from Mike Rabel in all of this. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:11.280 Yeah, I mean, look and look, and the point being 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:13.240 is we may not hear from him again on this, 0:11:13.360 --> 0:11:16.280 and maybe let's hope we don't, because if he's not 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:19.560 going to say anything that's going to clear up and 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:22.280 get specific with all of these rumors, then he probably 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.040 shouldn't say anything at all. Because look, we heard from 0:11:24.120 --> 0:11:27.439 NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell last night again, he told ESPN 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:32.439 that rabel is not any of his actions or any 0:11:32.480 --> 0:11:35.880 of this controversy doesn't fall under the league's personal conduct policy. 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:38.520 He said that it is a team. 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:41.640 Matters, that the NFL is not looking into disciplining him. 0:11:41.679 --> 0:11:45.760 They're not looking into investigating him. They are just cheering 0:11:45.840 --> 0:11:51.040 him on and supporting him. So he has no professional issues. No, 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:53.800 so he doesn't need to speak again. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:57.200 As long as they start winning, he will have further 0:11:57.400 --> 0:12:01.080 no professional issues. I took him to a super Bowl 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:06.360 in his first year as coach, his team, the Patriots. 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:08.960 Did you see their statement yesterday, Robes, They put out 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:12.160 a statement. I have never seen a more full throated 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:16.319 support of a guy in scandal from his employer ever, Like. 0:12:16.440 --> 0:12:17.880 Ever, He's gonna be okay. 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:23.200 Wow, that was incredible. Again, no crime is alleged here, 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:28.240 nothing criminal. He's not being investigated for anything. So this 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:30.880 is just something Robes right now that they want to 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:33.400 go away that it looks bad. It is a personal matter, 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:37.800 but it becomes so public now. I don't know if 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:40.800 the NFL is it just a does it hurt the league? 0:12:40.840 --> 0:12:43.240 Does it hurt the team? 0:12:43.280 --> 0:12:43.920 Probably not? 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:44.439 Ask me. 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:48.479 Week four there's no morality clause in the NFL contracts. 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:51.280 Boy, that would be a really crappy product to watch 0:12:51.280 --> 0:12:54.920 on Sunday. There's a morality clause. But stay with us. 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:56.880 Robes was talking about just a moment ago. There. For 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:58.400 a while, at least the first week or so, it 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:02.040 seemed like all we were talking about were women involved 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:05.880 in this particular case. Now, finally all the attention seems 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:08.959 to be on Brabel, but we are getting updates from 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:11.320 the woman at the center of this scandal as well. 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.400 Diana Rossini, has made some moves. 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:25.400 Stay here, Welcome back everyone to this episode of Amy 0:13:25.440 --> 0:13:28.320 and TJ. Mike Rabel keeps standing in front of a 0:13:28.400 --> 0:13:32.760 microphone and not saying much while he's trying to put 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:36.480 to bed this controversy that has not let go for 0:13:36.520 --> 0:13:40.720 the past couple of weeks. More photos emerging between Mike 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:46.240 Rabel and former NFL reporter who was once working for 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:49.600 the Athletic The New York Times reporter Diana Rossini. She 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.600 has since resigned, but now we're looking at photos that 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:56.679 date back to twenty twenty. So the allegations are that 0:13:56.760 --> 0:13:59.679 this relationship, whatever it was, may have been going on 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:03.640 for six years. Plus, so while we aren't getting any 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:09.880 clarification from Vrabel, we are getting some very interesting moves 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:14.640 from Diana Rassini. She has dramatically altered her social media presence, 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:17.160 they can put it that way. On Thursday, when these 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:22.120 new photos emerged, she turned her Instagram into a private account. 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:24.640 She has two hundred and four thousand followers. You no 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:27.960 longer can follow her if you want to, and she 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:29.480 can decide who comes. 0:14:29.200 --> 0:14:29.720 And who goes. 0:14:30.560 --> 0:14:33.080 And then perhaps the most dramatic thing she did, she 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:35.880 completely deleted her ex account. 0:14:36.240 --> 0:14:37.800 And I saw some folks who. 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:40.040 Are NFL, who report on the NFL, they say, this 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:45.760 the X that is like a NFL reporter's like blood. 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:47.320 That's how you communicate. 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:51.320 That's how you get instant information out to fans, to viewers, 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:56.359 to supporters. And this is kind of your communication basically 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:59.080 with the people who follow you for the latest and 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:02.840 greatest information. For her to delete this X account signify 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:04.080 something very significant. 0:15:04.160 --> 0:15:09.280 Yeah, it just rose. Is there an uglier place for 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:14.720 discourse than X? I mean it is. It is awful, babe. 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:16.240 I've been off X for ten years. 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:18.640 I do not I have an account like just to 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:22.320 look at other people's accounts. But this is like when 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:24.680 I was at Good Morning America a long time ago. 0:15:25.960 --> 0:15:29.160 You can go down this horrible rabbit hole a feeling 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:32.760 awful about yourself because pretty much people just use that forum. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.200 To lambast you. 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:36.680 Yeah, it can be that was the right thing. 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:37.240 It's brutal. 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:40.880 That was the right call for her, and I understand that. Rose. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:44.040 I just don't know what's next or what else is coming. 0:15:44.440 --> 0:15:48.200 We talked about Rabel. He is off on Saturday, at 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:51.720 least with the team. The NFL Draft goes through Saturday, 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:53.320 but he has already announced he will not be with 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:58.360 the team on Saturday. Instead, Robes found a counselor working 0:15:58.400 --> 0:16:00.600 on a Saturday, but he told us he was going 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:04.320 to start start counseling, but the sound by yesterday sounded 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:05.400 like he's already started. 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:08.480 It did sound like it, and his family seems to 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:10.760 possibly be involved as well, because he said he was 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:13.880 going to be spending the weekend yes in counseling, but 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:17.120 also with his family. So this could be a personal journey, 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:18.920 he could also be a collective journey. They may be 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:22.080 having family counseling, couples counseling. There may be a lot 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:25.080 of therapy going on in the Raable household, and look 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:26.800 if that puts them on and puts him on a 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:30.040 better path. Sometimes, Look it's it's hard to see it 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:31.760 and feel it when you're in the midst of something 0:16:31.840 --> 0:16:34.840 like this, as public and awful as it feels, this 0:16:34.960 --> 0:16:37.680 could be the beginning of something really beautiful and new, 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:40.200 a new start for him, a new way forward, a 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:42.960 better way of living and being, and so that could 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:46.120 actually this could all end up being a really positive, 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:48.680 incredible thing for him and for his family. 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:53.920 And be kind if you can throughout. I know how 0:16:53.960 --> 0:16:56.160 it is robes and how people are, but just please 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:59.640 take a beat and be kind before you hit send 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:03.120 on whatever you're saying and whatever rumor you're putting out there, 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:06.080 and whatever speculation you're having about it. I know you 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:08.639 think Rabel and you think Russini are the worst people 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:10.880 in the world, and they deserve everything coming to them. 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:14.320 But these people got families. These people have kids who 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.439 are reading this stuff, who are still going to school, 0:17:16.440 --> 0:17:18.840 who still have their own circles, who still have their 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:21.600 own family. There's just so many people touching this thing, 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:25.200 and we know that people are hurting right now. Don't 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:28.120 know who's respond you want to lay blame. I understand, 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:31.399 but Rose, this is just horrible for a family to 0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:35.080 go through privately. It is almost unbearable to think about 0:17:35.119 --> 0:17:38.760 going through it this publicly. So just that to your folks. 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:40.760 It's a lot of stuff being said out there. Just 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:43.720 take a beat and be as kind as you can 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:46.800 to people who that you, even though ones you think 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:51.560 have done terrible things. Just take a beat. Yea, it 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:51.959 hits in. 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:54.280 There's always a level of understanding that we'll never get, 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:56.200 that we'll never know, We don't ever know what it's 0:17:56.240 --> 0:17:59.000 like to walk in someone else's shoes. Always try to 0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:03.280 remember that a certainly before hitting send and without everyone, 0:18:03.359 --> 0:18:05.520 thank you for joining us. We always appreciate you. On 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:07.040 Amy Robach alongside TJ. 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:09.120 Holmes. We will talk to you soon.