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Speaker 1: Shell Hey saying good morning, welcome to the show. How

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Speaker 2: It could be better?

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Speaker 1: Okay? We well right, I say again. Now we got

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Speaker 1: I'm great, except except the love of my life is

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Speaker 1: keeping it real. What's going on with this woman? Alana?

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Speaker 1: We got to know kind of all the backstory, how

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Speaker 1: did you meet? Tell us about any dates that you've

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we actually met Anna Barr. I was with

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Speaker 2: my friends and we were actually seated near her and

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Speaker 2: her friends, and you know, some of my guys started

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Speaker 2: And from there, yeah, it was great and like we

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Speaker 1: We love, We love a casual invite back to her place.

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Speaker 1: We love that. Yes, so that happened.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that happened, and we had a great time over there.

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Speaker 2: But ever since she hasn't answered my calls, she has

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't love that. We love the casual invite.

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Speaker 1: We don't love the two weeks of ghosting, which has

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Speaker 1: and then you want to know, like why they tread

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Speaker 1: me this way? What happened? You know? How do I

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Speaker 1: So that's where we come in, Shane. We're gonna call

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Speaker 1: a Lana. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions.

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Speaker 1: But the hope is that we can figure out where

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Speaker 1: that sounds. Let's find out what's going on? Parts to

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Speaker 1: Fred's show, it's the Fresh Show. We're commercial free. Good morning, Shane,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's say if we can figure out what's

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Speaker 1: going on with Alana. You guys, you actually met in

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Speaker 1: you got away with that. You weren't called creepy or

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Speaker 1: You want to know why.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what's going on.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call her now. Good luck, Shane, thank you. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Elana? It is ye Hi a lot

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Speaker 1: of My name is Fredam called from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: the morning radio show, and I have to tell you

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Speaker 1: whichat for just a second, I said, okay, sure, yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much. I don't want to take up

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Speaker 1: too much of your time, but we're calling on behalf

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Speaker 1: of a guy who reached out to us. His name

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Speaker 1: is Shane. I guess you guys met you met out

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my gosh, I can't believe we're calling about him, right?

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Speaker 1: Why why can't you believe it? Because he liked you

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Speaker 3: Well yeah, okay, so we you know, we went on

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Speaker 1: There and he was like trying on my clothes. Oh no,

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Speaker 3: And I remember coming home for work that day and

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Speaker 1: And then I mean that confirmed it. So I have

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Speaker 1: that part. But you met this guy, took him back

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Speaker 1: More intimate can you get? But that doesn't mean you

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Speaker 1: a minute. Wait a minute. So you meet a guy

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Speaker 1: Let me bring Shane into this. Shane, I'm shocked about

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Speaker 1: I mean, the female clothes thing is weird, but leaving

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Speaker 4: Wait, so you'd be like, she fine, but she's still

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Speaker 1: This is what happens when you leave alone. Put in,

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Speaker 1: you guys, you guys know each other. I'm sorry. I

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Speaker 1: Oh, you wanted to know what it would be like

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Speaker 1: first time this has ever happened, is what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: This is a you got a wild hair to put

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Speaker 2: Mean said the first time, but like I would, doing

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Speaker 1: Oh well, that's still a problem. Did you want to

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Speaker 2: Which one's worse wanting to him by himself in her

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you. Let me tell you how you

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Speaker 1: Which one would you take? You avoid all of this

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, it's her fault. I mean, she never

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Speaker 1: He wants to be alive all right, Wow, Alana, what

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Speaker 1: Change the locks? Did he put on like everything? Like underwear, clothes?

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Speaker 1: Like did he go for it? Like all the way?

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Speaker 1: Why are you ask him? Shane? How how much like

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Speaker 1: a lot of did you want to be?

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Speaker 2: Look, I think you guys are being a little insensitive here.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a problem. You do whatever you do, whatever,

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Speaker 1: not judging that. It's just it's just creepy to put

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Speaker 1: Like you know, well that little people are into that.

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Speaker 1: I mean on your profile, ye, a lot of people

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Speaker 1: All right. Look, I don't think I have to ask,

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Speaker 1: but a lot of any chance you'd go out with

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Speaker 1: our friend Shane again, Okay, come on, it's like dating yourself. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, he just wants to be you. If you

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Speaker 1: and improved. Shame I mean okay, Shane, look, hey, whatever

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Speaker 1: putting on people's clothes they don't know about it. Or

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