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Speaker 2: DOMINICQ is on the phone today for our first Date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Keisha.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call her and
Speaker 2: see scha tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Dominic, how long has
Speaker 2: it been to see her from Keisha?
Speaker 3: Honestly, man, it's been about two weeks.
Speaker 2: You try to hit her up.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've called the tacted like not like trying to
Speaker 3: look desperate, but you know, it's the few. Hey, wanna
Speaker 3: go hang out? You want to meet up? Never message
Speaker 3: me back, never called back. I don't really get why.
Speaker 2: Well, let's talk about it. So you really liked her then, huh?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I mean I felt like, really connected. I felt
Speaker 3: like we had so much just in common and I
Speaker 3: had such a great time. I really thought she wanted
Speaker 3: to meet up again and just disappeared.
Speaker 2: What did you guys do on your date? How did
Speaker 2: you meet her?
Speaker 3: I mean we met, you know, on the date apps,
Speaker 3: and honestly, like I saw her profile and she's just
Speaker 3: so gorgeous. I needed to message her, and I was
Speaker 3: so lucky she messaged back, and we really just bonded
Speaker 3: over like Marvel movies and a little bit bonding over food.
Speaker 3: We both really like pasta, like Italian food stuff like that,
Speaker 3: and I thought, you know, hey, this is going really well.
Speaker 3: So we managed to go out and it was just
Speaker 3: really great.
Speaker 2: Okay, well what was so great about it?
Speaker 3: Well, I kind of gave her. I wanted to make
Speaker 3: it like special. I'm kind of like, hey, we're having
Speaker 3: that first date. Let's make it memorable. Hopefully this will
Speaker 3: lead to a lot more. So I kind of I
Speaker 3: made it a bit of a sensory experience. I put
Speaker 3: a blindfold on her. I walked her into the rest
Speaker 3: of so.
Speaker 2: Hold on real quick. So you went on the date,
Speaker 2: and you started it by putting a blindfold on her.
Speaker 3: I can see where you might be going. Oh no,
Speaker 3: that sounds like a red flag. But I put it
Speaker 3: on her. As we got to the rest, she knew
Speaker 3: where we were, not where we were going, but like
Speaker 3: where we were. She didn't think she was going into
Speaker 3: a warehouse district.
Speaker 2: And going, oh hey, okay, so what were you? What
Speaker 2: was she doing while she was blindfolded so she's she's
Speaker 2: showing up.
Speaker 3: Yah. Yeah, I just walked her into the restaurant. I
Speaker 3: kind of put like the Avengers theme on, so kind
Speaker 3: of a surprise.
Speaker 2: That's fun.
Speaker 1: Now you think it's fun that.
Speaker 2: Look, anybody blindfolds me puts the Avengers them on, I'm down.
Speaker 2: But no, that sounds fun. They're all worried about the blindfold.
Speaker 1: But all of a sudden, this guy is like walking
Speaker 1: around with the Avengers theme song and that's normal, Like.
Speaker 4: It makes your captain American and my great.
Speaker 2: So Avengers theme song.
Speaker 3: And it was, you know, a really nice Italian place
Speaker 3: that I figured we both like, well, I've been there,
Speaker 3: so I knew I'd like it. But you know, we
Speaker 3: bonded over the Italian food, so I was like, we
Speaker 3: bring her here, let her kind of smell you know,
Speaker 3: the aromas, all the things, the garlic and the Italian place,
Speaker 3: and just kind of come in and be like, oh,
Speaker 3: it's going to be good. And she seemed to really
Speaker 3: like it. It really paid off. You know, we had
Speaker 3: a really great meal and you know, and then we
Speaker 3: went back for a little nightcap in dessert.
Speaker 2: When you say night cap and dessert, are we talking
Speaker 2: like actual night cap in dessert or are we talking
Speaker 2: other stuff dessert? Both happened both, Oh okay, the solid
Speaker 2: night yeah, and then how are things when you said goodbye?
Speaker 3: Like we talked about it before, you know, we dozed off,
Speaker 3: you know, let's meet up again, And I kind of
Speaker 3: had to go in the morning, Like, but you know,
Speaker 3: we had talked about everything, and she knew I was
Speaker 3: going to call after that. I like, I don't think
Speaker 3: it was just that I kind of like she knew
Speaker 3: I was going to leave before she woke up.
Speaker 1: Did anything else weird happened on the day he designed
Speaker 1: from the blindfolding. That could have been a reason why
Speaker 1: she decided not to call you back.
Speaker 3: I mean, she she wanted to know generally how many
Speaker 3: people I've been with?
Speaker 2: She asked you that in bed.
Speaker 3: You know, it's kind of just that after glow of hey,
Speaker 3: it's just fun, how many people have you been with?
Speaker 3: Kind of I think she just meant it more playfully.
Speaker 3: And I was there and ended up saying the truth,
Speaker 3: which she was thinking single or double digit and it
Speaker 3: was strippled digit.
Speaker 2: Well I could see that being a reason. All right,
Speaker 2: we'll try to fight it out for you. Play song,
Speaker 2: Come back, call her and then see if she'll tell
Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting you and maybe get to another date.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right man, thanks guys.
Speaker 2: Yeah, plus on, come back and get your first day
Speaker 2: follow up next. Right in the middle of your first
Speaker 2: day follow up if you're just joining us, Dominic is
Speaker 2: on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Keisha. So
Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she tell
Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Dominic, why don't you refresh our memory on
Speaker 2: your situation?
Speaker 3: Hey guys, Well, we had a really great date. I
Speaker 3: blindfolded her, brought her to Italian food, played Avengers music.
Speaker 3: We went back to her place, had a really great night,
Speaker 3: and then I maybe freaked her out by telling her
Speaker 3: I slept with hundreds of people.
Speaker 2: That's a good breakdown. That could do it. All right,
Speaker 2: You ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: As ready as I'll ever be.
Speaker 2: All Right, here we go, Hello him, I a speak Takeisha.
Speaker 3: Please?
Speaker 4: This is Keisha may ask is calling?
Speaker 2: Yes you can. My name is Jebel. I'm calling from
Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Keisha,
Speaker 2: I'm Nina. Also on the Jubil Show. Hi and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: How are you.
Speaker 4: I'm fine.
Speaker 5: This is a little unexpected, and I is this a
Speaker 5: joke right now?
Speaker 4: I'm sorry to be rude about that, but.
Speaker 3: It's like, is this real?
Speaker 2: Yes, this is real. We do a segment on the show.
Speaker 2: It's called the First a follow Up. It's where if
Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and then
Speaker 2: you end up ghosting them, that person can email us
Speaker 2: and then we call you and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 2: So we got an email about you. Oh great, it's
Speaker 2: from It's from Dominic.
Speaker 5: Yeah, unfortunately I figured I listen, I have been ghosting.
Speaker 5: That is one hundred percent true. But I have a
Speaker 5: good reason to ghost him. Okay, very good reason. The
Speaker 5: last date we had was so weird. It felt like
Speaker 5: the entire date. I felt like I was a main
Speaker 5: character in a TV show.
Speaker 2: So we talked to him and he told us. He
Speaker 2: told us how he blindfolded you and gave you a
Speaker 2: sensory experience. Is that what you're talking about? And the
Speaker 2: Avengers theme song was playing, but.
Speaker 4: You know what it goes beyond that.
Speaker 5: He also said he's sang me a lullabyte super cringe.
Speaker 2: And date like sing you a lullaby?
Speaker 4: Yeah, he sang me a lullaby. It was creepy. It
Speaker 4: was so creepy.
Speaker 2: He did tell us that he ended up spending the
Speaker 2: night there. Yeah, he didn't tell us about singing you
Speaker 2: a lullaby.
Speaker 5: Though, So, I mean we're laying there, you know, we
Speaker 5: had a time and you know, he asked if you
Speaker 5: know I was ready for bed, which they.
Speaker 4: Said, yeah, sure, and you know, of course we're doing
Speaker 4: like this spooning. He puts his arm over me and
Speaker 4: hold me tight. But then he.
Speaker 5: Starts to slowly and very quietly sing Twinkle Twinkle a
Speaker 5: little star in my ear.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, And you didn't dig that, not even.
Speaker 5: In the slightest. It was so unnerving, Like I don't
Speaker 5: know who thought.
Speaker 4: That was a good idea, but it was like I kind.
Speaker 5: Of felt like this guy I was with was like,
Speaker 5: I don't even know how to explain it, but I
Speaker 5: was worried he was going to start busting out.
Speaker 4: Old McDonald had a farm.
Speaker 5: A little childish, and it was really uncomfortable, especially right after,
Speaker 5: you know, the the night we had had together. And
Speaker 5: you know, at the same time, I did think it
Speaker 5: was kind of funny. But then I realized I don't
Speaker 5: think he was joking. It was like a very intense moment.
Speaker 3: You didn't think that was romantic?
Speaker 2: Can we say that's Dominic he's actually on the phone listening.
Speaker 6: I was what freaked you out? Just you know, I
Speaker 6: was saying you a little lullaby. Thought thought it was,
Speaker 6: you know, cute. It's something I thought it would be,
Speaker 6: like a little thing we did.
Speaker 4: I'm not even sure how to respond to that.
Speaker 5: But you're a grown man and you were trying to
Speaker 5: like put me to sleep by you know, staying allowaby,
Speaker 5: no disrespect, but if you want me to sleep. I
Speaker 5: feel like there's other activities you could have done, you know,
Speaker 5: to do that, but sure goes straight to doing lullaby.
Speaker 4: I guess it was, you know, I just don't understand why.
Speaker 3: We did the other things first.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you ended it with a lullaby.
Speaker 5: Do you genuinely not see how that might be cringe
Speaker 5: for a lot of people?
Speaker 3: No? I mean I've had, you know, other people that
Speaker 3: really thought it was cute, thought it was you.
Speaker 4: You treat me like you treated me like I was
Speaker 4: a child.
Speaker 3: Well, it's not like I tucked you in and gave
Speaker 3: you a warm milk.
Speaker 2: I don't either. I don't know. I don't understand the problem.
Speaker 1: So like, was it his singing Keisha that was so
Speaker 1: bad about the lullabyer just the fact that it happened.
Speaker 4: It was a bit of both.
Speaker 5: Like again, when he finished, you know, singing Twinkle Spinkle
Speaker 5: Little Star, I immediately was bracing myself for like old
Speaker 5: MacDonald had a farm or something, and I'm automatically thinking,
Speaker 5: if he starts to make the barnyard noises, I'm gonna
Speaker 5: lose it. It's not like in a mean way, but
Speaker 5: I won't be able to stop laughing at I was
Speaker 5: worried about that.
Speaker 2: Oh that's funny. I love it. That's the image that
Speaker 2: came to your mind.
Speaker 3: Now I feel like I should have done that, because
Speaker 3: at least, you know, would have gotten to laugh Maybe
Speaker 3: that would have been better.
Speaker 5: I'm not really sure if you want someone you know
Speaker 5: laying next to you laughing, you know, especially when you're
Speaker 5: in bed together intimately. But if that's you know, if
Speaker 5: that's how you walked away from that experience, I guess
Speaker 5: I get it, But I still think it's it's really itchy.
Speaker 2: What part you'd be scared about that, Victoria, Why is
Speaker 2: it scary because it's like also like you're in bed
Speaker 2: and I always be like, are you okay?
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, if you sing it like that, it's scary.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't like sitting in the corner of the room
Speaker 3: with my eyes go out and going swen trying to
Speaker 3: sing it kind of cute.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's a solid effort, even if
Speaker 2: you don't like it. Kisha, would you like to go
Speaker 2: on another date with Dominic? Will pay for it?
Speaker 4: You know I'm going to pass on the date.
Speaker 5: I appreciate the effort, Dominic, I really do, and I
Speaker 5: don't regret us being together, but I really just don't
Speaker 5: see a future and I don't really see us moving
Speaker 5: forward together.
Speaker 3: I mean, I could not sing lullabies. I'm cool with that.
Speaker 2: What if he doesn't lulla byes? I don't think you
Speaker 2: should give that up, Dominic.
Speaker 4: I can I understand.
Speaker 5: It's just at the end of the day, I found
Speaker 5: it so funny that I actually was worried you if
Speaker 5: you were going to get upset with me, and you
Speaker 5: know it just I cannot move past this.
Speaker 4: I'm so sorry. I really can't.
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess if that's how you feel. At
Speaker 3: least you told me.
Speaker 4: Well, you know what, I didn't really think that.
Speaker 5: You know, I would have to explain to a grown
Speaker 5: man why you know, singing a lullabye to a grown
Speaker 5: woman would be creepy. But it's just, you know, it's
Speaker 5: radio for that whole thing to happen and comes to light.
Speaker 3: That's fine. Some people like romance, some people don't. Oh
Speaker 3: my gosh, radio people seem to really like it. You
Speaker 3: guys like the Avengers, I do yes.
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