1 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome to this episode. To keep it positive. Sweet, 2 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 1: I'm Christopher A. Hazlet and today we are talking about 3 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: Activate your Greatness with my dear friend Alex two sons. 4 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 2: I can't believe on him. So how going to be 5 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 2: here with you? 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 3: I can't believe you here? 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 4: I told y'all will make the promise like I wasn't 8 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 4: gonna flake on you. I'm had to come through for 9 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 4: a real one. I had to come through. 10 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 3: You did that. You got it early this morning, caught 11 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 3: a six am flight to be here today. Wow. 12 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 4: You know why because you would do the same, absolutely, 13 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 4: without question. Anybody that knows you know you would do 14 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 4: the same. 15 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 3: You know. 16 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: I guess it's got to return the blessing. That's it. 17 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 3: I love you, I. 18 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 2: Appreciate I appreciate you. 19 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 3: I like you. 20 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 2: You know that period period. 21 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: So we start every episode with a song girl quote, 22 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 1: and I can't start. 23 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 3: This episode without your quote. Feel good, look good, do better. 24 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 3: That's what you live by. 25 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: And for those who do not know, Alex is a 26 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 1: Pelot instructor, which most of the world knows him as 27 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: you are a Puma athlete, you're a businessman, you work 28 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:10,480 Speaker 1: in the fitness tech music, sports and entertainment industry and 29 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: off the bike, you have a foundation to do better foundations. 30 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: I met you virtually in twenty twenty during the pandemic. 31 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: I didn't have any workout equipment in my house and 32 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: I was like, I need something, so a purchase a. 33 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 3: Pelo Time Listen. I got the Pilot Time bike. 34 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 1: And from there I fell in love with the way 35 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 1: you instruct I was like, this guy lights a fire 36 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 1: under my ass, Like you don't take no mess with anybody. 37 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: And to learn your background, having a military background, it 38 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: made me understand your way of training and how you 39 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: talk to us through that bike. But you touched so 40 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 1: many lives through that. And then we met personally. We 41 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: connects on Instagram that we met personally at a Hawks game. 42 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 1: We share a common love for sports. I feel like 43 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: we've always run to each other. Yeah game and literally 44 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 1: the rest has been history. And I'm just so happy 45 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: that I passed across. You are such an amazing human 46 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: being and I'm lucky to get to. 47 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 3: Know you beyond the bike. 48 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 4: No, not lucky, blessed, one hundred percent blessed. You know 49 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 4: that I say, I'm thankful that you purchased the Felton 50 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 4: Bike because there's people who come into this community and 51 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 4: become members, but there's some people who come in and 52 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 4: become family members outside the platform, and obviously you're one 53 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 4: of those people that became a family member instantly for me. 54 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 4: So I'm honored you joined the Fealton community. 55 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you. Going back to your childhood you 56 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: talk about in your book, Activate your Greatness, I'm so 57 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: proud of you for this as well. You talk about 58 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: your upbringing and the journey to getting to the Alex 59 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: Towson that we all know today and that we admire 60 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: so much. Tell us a little bit about your childhood 61 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: and what really molded you to be who you are. 62 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 4: To first off, my parents. I got to start off 63 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 4: with the two people like the pioneers of this, my. 64 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 2: Mom and dad. My dad being an oil engineer and 65 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 2: I'm going to face stuff for a second, would Branson. 66 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 4: My dad served, maybe had so many military family members 67 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 4: and so hardy to keep up sometimes. My dad served 68 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 4: in the Navy, and my mother was a doctor teacher 69 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 4: for thirty something years. So all I've ever known in 70 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 4: my entire life has just been family, sacrificing, always sacrificing 71 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 4: for the. 72 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 2: Better of others around you. 73 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 4: As a kid, I was an extreme knucklehead though I've 74 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 4: been kicked out of every school I've ever been to, 75 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 4: including military school. Almost got kicked out of high school 76 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 4: as well. And that's just because I wasn't a bad kid. 77 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 4: I just had an issue with authority, and to be 78 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 4: honest with you, the most authoritative figure in my household 79 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 4: being my father, just that clashing NonStop. But I tell 80 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 4: people all the time, like, I'm a product of somebody 81 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,279 Speaker 4: who's father went above. 82 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 2: And beyond, same with my mother to make sure I 83 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 2: was put in a position to win life and thriving life. 84 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 4: I just never understood it and always took it as 85 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 4: resistance versus assistance. That's just due to my perspective of life. 86 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 4: I think to my so all the time, like, how 87 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 4: fortunate I am have two parents that were extremely present. 88 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 4: I just never was able to live to the excellence 89 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 4: that they demanded, being two Haitian immigrants coming to the 90 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 4: United States without knowing the language of how we speak, 91 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:17,040 Speaker 4: let alone being able to like economically wise, like just 92 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 4: so many different things back in the seventies and eighties, 93 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 4: and I'm like, how did you even accomplish that let 94 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 4: alone thrive in that space. And I look back now 95 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 4: and I fast forwards as a young adult, and I'm like, 96 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 4: I understand it. I understand that you guys did the 97 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 4: best you could with the resources you had. I never 98 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 4: lived up to that growing up as a kid. So 99 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 4: what I'm trying to do right now is rewrite that 100 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 4: and trying to validate my parents sacrifices every single day. 101 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 4: So this book is like one of the steps of 102 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 4: me validating everything they implemented. 103 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 2: From my brothers and myself. 104 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: You did a really good job with this and telling 105 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: the story. Once you got you went and you got 106 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 1: kicked out of school, and your parents. 107 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 2: Were fed up. 108 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 4: Let's kep him closed. Like I'm the baby of the family, 109 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 4: that's wolder brothers. So my mom was like, let's keep 110 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 4: him close. My dad was like, nah, I'm shipping you 111 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 4: out of here. Sixth grade, it was either Haitian. 112 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 2: Military school, and I mean I think I got the 113 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:09,600 Speaker 2: good end. 114 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 3: Of the stick, yeh of the stick, yes, but military 115 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 3: school for sure. 116 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 4: It was one of those things in life that like 117 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 4: I felt as if I wasn't I don't know, you 118 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 4: want to use the word abandon because there's people who 119 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 4: go through that actual stage in life. But it did 120 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 4: feel like a sense of I'm not even worthy enough. 121 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 4: So instead of my dad leaving obviously like he was like, 122 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 4: you're not worthy, you gotta go. 123 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, And at the time that broke my heart. 124 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, And you talk about it in the book about 125 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: how it like to this day you really think about it, 126 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: you feel pain, Like there's. 127 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,239 Speaker 2: Just something about it that I was so young. 128 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 4: At the time. I was in sixth grade. I was 129 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 4: twelve years old going on thirteen, getting shipped into the 130 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 4: middle of nowhere, isolated, completely distant from friends, family, anything 131 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 4: that I knew. That was like the normal scene, right, 132 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 4: So when I think about it, I'm just like, damn, 133 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 4: I went through a rough stage sixth, seventh, eighth, and 134 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 4: ninth grade that like unless you were there with me 135 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 4: in military school, you have no idea. But it's i mean, like, 136 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 4: the only people that know we are the people that 137 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 4: were with me, and those things you just keep closer 138 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 4: to the heart just because like their dark moments in life. 139 00:06:10,080 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 4: But we've been able to obviously push through and breakthrough 140 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 4: to get where we are today. So I've been able 141 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 4: to use the same things that were somewhat dark moments 142 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 4: in life as positive moments inspire the world with so 143 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 4: we've done. 144 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 3: An amazing job with that. 145 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: How does Alex work through those dark moments? Because I know, 146 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: like me and therapy, I've learned that those things that 147 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 1: happened to little Crystal, I'm still dealing with those as 148 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: an adult. 149 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 3: How do you deal with that? 150 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 4: Two things therapy like actually speaking to somebody, and thankfully 151 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 4: my job as a former therapy for me as well 152 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 4: as somebody who's been in the industry now eleven years, 153 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 4: I would I joined from mopping floors to cycling, from 154 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 4: mopping floors to cycling. 155 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about the story too. 156 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,919 Speaker 3: We gotta talk about that because people see that all the. 157 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:52,839 Speaker 2: They don't realize where it started. 158 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 3: They don't you know. Yeah, we got to talk about 159 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 3: that too. 160 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 4: Through movement, though, movement of the mind in the body 161 00:06:58,160 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 4: has allowed me to have a new perspective of life. 162 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 4: And I didn't understand that until I started moving my 163 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 4: body on a bike that went absolutely nowhere, but mentally 164 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 4: and emotionally I went so far so every day that 165 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 4: I was pushing pedal strokes from the day one eleven 166 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 4: years ago, till now. I tell myself, like, push these 167 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 4: pedal strokes with an intent and with the purpose, because 168 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 4: it allows you to carve out who you want to 169 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 4: be every single time. And if you miss a pedal 170 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 4: stroke due to you negotiating with yourself or you doubting yourself, 171 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 4: you could be missing an opportunity to carve out who 172 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 4: you want to be long term. So I try every 173 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 4: single day, Like even within the classes that I teach. Now, 174 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 4: I tell people like, sometimes I don't teach for y'all, 175 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 4: teach for me. You just happen to be there, you 176 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 4: know what I mean. I'm be honest with you because 177 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 4: it's been such a form of therapy for me for 178 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 4: so long. So I would say the movement of the 179 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 4: body in the mind has allowed me to have a 180 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 4: new perspective of life for sure. 181 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 3: That's amazing. 182 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: I know we've talked about some warnings where you like, 183 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: I just you don't always feel like yeah, absolutely, But 184 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: we never can tell on that bike the minute. 185 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 2: That red light clicks on. There's just something like gratitude. 186 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 4: I'm not trying to caught myself out of the book, 187 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 4: but like gratitude cancels out my negativity and fear and 188 00:07:58,080 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 4: I'm just like, damn, I get to do this for 189 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 4: a living. I get to get on a platform where 190 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 4: thousands of people show up to listen to my crazy 191 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 4: self talk and like or just unscripted, unfiltered, just like 192 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 4: if I'm in a bad mood, I can tell people 193 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 4: I'm in a bad mood and move like that, but 194 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 4: also breakthrough with people in real time. 195 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:13,680 Speaker 2: That is a blessing. 196 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 4: That's why I'm so thankful for the Peloton community and 197 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 4: the people that support every single day because as an instructor, 198 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 4: you get a lot of the. 199 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 2: Thank you changed my life, thank you changed my life. 200 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 4: Yes, And for a lot of the members that read 201 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 4: this book now they're like, oh, it makes sense. I'm like, no, 202 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 4: thank you because this has helped me change my life. 203 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 4: So it's reciprocated at all times. 204 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:32,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. 205 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: Let's talk a little bit about the journey to walk 206 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: us through the steps that it took to get to 207 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 1: where you are today, because I think it's so important. 208 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. I went to school for audio and video production. 209 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 4: My dream job if you look at my high school yearbook, 210 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 4: was to be a ESPN cameraman. 211 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 2: Wow, that was my dream job. So I always loved 212 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 2: audio and video. 213 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 4: I loved film, and I went to school and I 214 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 4: was I applied myself for the time that I was there. 215 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 4: I truly did, and that was to try to being that. 216 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 4: My mother was an educator, my brother's an educator, and 217 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 4: my dad was like, if you don't work, we go 218 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 4: to school, you ain't living. 219 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: In this house. 220 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 4: It was no option. I went through a dark period 221 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 4: in college. I don't remember exactly what just happened, but 222 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 4: it just wasn't clicking. It felt like I was just 223 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 4: buying time and existing to like make my parents happy, 224 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 4: but I really didn't find what. 225 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:22,720 Speaker 2: Was making me happy. 226 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 4: Car gets stolen in college and I hit like an 227 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 4: ultimate rock bottom. But I still don't tell my parents 228 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 4: that I'm not going to school. So like every day 229 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 4: I'm faking like I'm going to class, and I'm so 230 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 4: scared to like disappoint mom and dad. 231 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, one day Mom calls and she says. 232 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 4: How's class going today, And it was the way she 233 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 4: said it, which I, oh, my gosh, all the mothers 234 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 4: have to have a mother's. 235 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 2: Said the way she said it. It was like she 236 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: was waiting for me to lie to her. 237 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was like class is going great, and 238 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 4: she just stopped. She goes, legs, don't lie to me. 239 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 4: And I didn't know that once you stopped going to school, 240 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 4: your student. 241 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 2: Loans cake in. 242 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I. 243 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 2: Wasn't in school. 244 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 4: So she called me. She sad, Listen, I'm not gonna 245 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 4: be mad. I'm not gonna curse you. I'm not gonna 246 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 4: flip out on you, but you're gonna have to tell 247 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 4: your dad. And that was like I was like, all right, 248 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 4: reality just said it. Now, life starts today. I know 249 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 4: the minute that he finds out my dad's so he's 250 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 4: the there's a method to the madness, but sometimes the 251 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 4: madness is just madness, you know what I'm saying. 252 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 2: And I come back home, we get into a big fight. 253 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 4: He said some hard words to me that I want 254 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 4: people to read in the book. But those words were 255 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 4: what I personally needed. And he said those words as 256 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 4: he said, get out the house and kick me out 257 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 4: the house. So I lived on my best friend's floor 258 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 4: for about like a year and a half and I 259 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 4: got a job at a company called Flywheel Sports. Now 260 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,839 Speaker 4: this company is indoor cycling. So I'm coming to work 261 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 4: every single day mopping the floors, just trying to get 262 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 4: a check because I'm like, I can't rebroke and still 263 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 4: going to my best friend, so I gotta bring something, 264 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 4: like you know what I mean. 265 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 2: So I'm going. 266 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 4: I'm walking to work, jogging to work just to mop 267 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 4: floors every single day, and I'm sitting outside of the 268 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 4: studio and there's like a fish hoole in between the door, 269 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 4: and I'm peeping my head and I'm just listening to 270 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 4: instructors teach everyvery single day. So the same information, the 271 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 4: same inspiration a lot of the members were getting. On 272 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 4: the opposite side, I'm getting while I have the mop 273 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 4: in my hand. 274 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 3: Wow. 275 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 4: So as the days start to go, as the week 276 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 4: start to go, I start to be like, all right, 277 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 4: let me start mopping with more of a purpose versus 278 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 4: like this is just like a temporary moment, not knowing 279 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 4: what could occur long term. Thank God for this lady 280 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 4: named Ruth Zuckerman, who's an angel in my life till 281 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 4: this day. One of my life mentors Wow CEO of 282 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 4: the company at the time, And every day she would 283 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 4: walk in, she would acknowledge every single person in that building. 284 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 4: She would never let somebody feel like they were less 285 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 4: than no matter if you mop floors, the matter if 286 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 4: you were an instructor. 287 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 2: She acknowledged you. 288 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 4: So that always made me feel special, somebody of power 289 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 4: and status noticing me in a time where I really 290 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 4: didn't even notice myself. 291 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 2: I was dark mentally. 292 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 3: Yeah. 293 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 4: One day I'm just in the room and I'm playing 294 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 4: my music mopping, and my boy goes, yo, you know 295 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 4: you could be an instructor, right, And that's why it's 296 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:51,439 Speaker 4: always critical to have these friends that believe in you 297 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 4: or you don't believe in yourself. 298 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, wait a minute, Like, you're right. 299 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 2: I love music. I play music. 300 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 4: I was in a marching man in military, so it's like, count, well, 301 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 4: I have a military background, and I think I know 302 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 4: how to motivate people. I don't know how to motivate myself, 303 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 4: but others, for some reason, felt a. 304 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 2: Little bit easier. 305 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I gained confidence. One day, I'm mopping the floors. 306 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 4: Ruth comes in and I say, Ruth, I have a 307 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 4: random question to ask. I don't think anybody's ever asked you, 308 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 4: but I have a random question. Can I be an instructor? 309 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 2: And I was somewhat joking, but I'm like close mops 310 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 2: don't get fed. 311 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 4: You never know what could happen. Period close mobs, don't 312 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:26,559 Speaker 4: get fair. Yeah, I have nothing to lose in this 313 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,880 Speaker 4: moment right now. And she looks at me and like 314 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:32,800 Speaker 4: takes a pause and goes, give me two weeks year time, 315 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 4: and let's see what we can do. 316 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 2: Wow and t I look back and I tell. 317 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 4: People now the reason she even gave me that opportunities 318 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,160 Speaker 4: cause I mopped the floors with the purpose. 319 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 2: I didn't mop as if I was a janitor. 320 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 4: I moped with a certain purpose, where she was like, 321 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 4: if I provide him an opportunity, I know he's gonna 322 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 4: run with honor. 323 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 2: So she r She locked in with me for two weeks. 324 00:12:50,200 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 4: I did somewhat on an audition with her, and she 325 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 4: was like, Yo, you're gonna change the game. 326 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 2: So I started teaching. 327 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 4: It was like day and night, like I went from 328 00:12:57,160 --> 00:13:01,439 Speaker 4: mopping floors to teaching. But it didn't happen. It happened 329 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:05,200 Speaker 4: so weird because I'm teaching the class. I'd get off 330 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 4: the bike, I'd run to the computer, I'd clock in. 331 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:09,360 Speaker 4: I'd mopped the class up because I was so my 332 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 4: identity was in the mop for so long that I 333 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 4: was like I didn't know how to let it go 334 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 4: in all honest, Wow, there was something about it that 335 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 4: I couldn't let it go. It kept me humble, it 336 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 4: kept me grounded, but it kept me inspired for more. 337 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 4: I didn't feel less than with a MOP. I truly didn't. 338 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 4: And because of the opportunity she gave me was one 339 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 4: of those reasons why I was like, why should I 340 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:27,720 Speaker 4: leave the MOP? 341 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 2: I could get paid the mop floors and teach. 342 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 4: Classlet's double upt's double up. 343 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: I'm going from broke to little bit of money. 344 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 4: Like, let's let's let's double up. She called me one day, 345 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 4: she said, you got to stop mopping and just end 346 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:41,959 Speaker 4: the story for you to like execute this career the 347 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 4: way you need to get side mopping, I told her. 348 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,240 Speaker 4: In order for me to put this MOP down, I go, 349 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 4: what's the industry standard of classes? 350 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: She says fifteen? I go, I need twenty five. You 351 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 2: better know I said, I need twenty five. She goes why. 352 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 2: I was like, you don't understand. 353 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 4: I got like I got to prove my dad wrong 354 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 4: because of what he said to me on the walk out. 355 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 4: I still got the moping floors was just a step 356 00:13:59,920 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 4: in so he I got a job great, mining flour 357 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 4: is great, But what you're gonna do with your life? 358 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 2: What career can you build out of your life? 359 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 4: So when she said fifteen, I go I need twenty 360 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 4: five because that's the only way I'm gonna be able 361 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 4: to I got catching up to do. So many people 362 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 4: have been in their career for five, six, seven years. 363 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 2: I got to catch up somehow. I gotta outwork. So 364 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 2: that's been the mindset. Outwork every single capacity possible. The 365 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 2: first two years. 366 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 4: Of my career, there were eight thirty nine thirty East 367 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 4: Hampton class hop on a Jitney two hour bus ride 368 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 4: for the city, take a train uptown four p thirty 369 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 4: Upper east Side, take a train back downtown seven thirty, 370 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 4: eight thirty Flat Iron And I would do that every 371 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 4: Monday and Wednesday. Mind you, people are teaching one to 372 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 4: two classes a day in one location. I'm teaching five 373 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 4: and three location. You know what I'm saying. So I'm 374 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 4: bouncing around crazy, but I'm starting to find my purpose. 375 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 4: I'm moving pedal strokes. I'm starting to find my identity. 376 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 4: I'm moving mentally, emotionally, I'm starting to find my light, 377 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 4: my inner life. 378 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 2: That feel good. This is where the feel good starts. 379 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 4: So now I'm like, wait a minute, I'm able to 380 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 4: identify myself as a different individual because of the movement 381 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 4: of the body and the mind. Now I'm able to 382 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 4: look good from an internal perspective, which allows me to 383 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 4: shine externally. People think that look good. It's like the yo, 384 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 4: let's get let's put a diamond chain on. They get 385 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 4: flies like no, no, na, it's your energy, it's your attraction. 386 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 4: It's that top chack compliment when somebody's like you glowing 387 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 4: to that. 388 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, that look good. 389 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,280 Speaker 4: So once I started being able to identify the feel 390 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 4: good and look good, I was like to do better. 391 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 2: It's like, oh, let's just run with it. Now, let's 392 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 2: just go wow. 393 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 4: So I talked there for two and a half three 394 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 4: two and a half years, three years, and I tell 395 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 4: people all the time that every day is an audition 396 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 4: to be great. Those twenty five classes a week provided 397 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 4: me an opportunity for Peloton. 398 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 2: I recognize who I was. 399 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 4: This is Peloton as a startup in twenty fifteen because 400 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 4: I bounced around the city and they were doing recruitment 401 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 4: and allowed them to go to different studios and see 402 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 4: how I teach for a West side, a different demographic than 403 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 4: Upper Eastide or the Eastide, different demographic the flat Iron, 404 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 4: and I'm myself in all these spaces. But I didn't 405 00:15:49,920 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 4: realize they were coming to class and takeing it behind 406 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 4: the scenes to see should we hire this guy? So 407 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 4: twenty sixteen comes around, Peloton calls. 408 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 2: They called Ruth. They don't call me directly, they go 409 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 2: through Ruth. 410 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 4: She pulls me aside and says, Yo, there's a company 411 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 4: that's gonna change the game of fitness, and I think. 412 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 2: You should go. 413 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 4: I'm looking at her, like, Yo, you just changed my 414 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 4: life when you talking about I'm like, I'm in motion 415 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 4: right now, I'm thriving, everything is working perfect. 416 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 2: Why go. 417 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 4: She's like, listen, you've reached somewhat of a ceiling here. 418 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 4: This is the next chapter in your life. And I 419 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 4: didn't realize what Peloton was gonna be. I had no 420 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 4: idea at all. 421 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 2: She understood I was going to be the first black 422 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 2: man and a lot of these people's homes across the country. 423 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 4: I had no idea at all. I didn't know what 424 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 4: I was getting myself into. I didn't know what was 425 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 4: gonna cry over. But she always said, if you need 426 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 4: someone to come back home too. You could always come back. 427 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 2: So that gave me the opportunity to be like, you know, 428 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 2: let me take that leap of faith if you told 429 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 2: me I could come back home and this don't work out, 430 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 2: I'm gone, and sure enough your hair. 431 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 4: It's eight years later and it's been the craziest ride, 432 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 4: but like the biggest blessing far crazy. 433 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 2: But that's why I say it's not lucky. Yes, blessing, 434 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 2: all blessings, all blessings for sure. 435 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 3: Wow. First of all, shout out Ruth everybody in their lives. 436 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 3: That's my grandmother's name, Ruth. 437 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: But there's so many nuggets I took from there that 438 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 1: I don't want you guys to miss. One is how 439 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,320 Speaker 1: you honored the mopping season. You know a lot of 440 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 1: people look down when they doing something. They don't feel 441 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 1: They feel like I'm better than this, I shouldn't be 442 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: doing this. You honored that. And then when you got there, 443 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: you spoke about you. You did like me, I told Tyler, hey, 444 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:18,880 Speaker 1: I really want to do this. You had the guts 445 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: to tell Ruth, this is what I want to do. 446 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: Sometimes you have to speak up, speak up close, don't 447 00:17:23,520 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 2: get fat. 448 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 4: Somebody may not know to provide you an opportunity unless 449 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:27,360 Speaker 4: you actually want it. 450 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, And then even when you got that position, 451 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:32,919 Speaker 1: you were still eager to mop afterwards. 452 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 3: But it comes to the point in your life that 453 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:37,360 Speaker 3: once you have to know when to let the past. 454 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:38,520 Speaker 2: I have to know when to let it go. 455 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 3: I took a lot from that. 456 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 2: Goodness. 457 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 4: It's one of those I guess, like so many quotes 458 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:43,639 Speaker 4: pop up in my mind with me and you have 459 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:47,159 Speaker 4: conversations and like within that just now like it's you 460 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 4: can't shrink yourself in environments you've outgrown. I was put 461 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,199 Speaker 4: in a position to continue to evolve and grow, and 462 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 4: part of me wanted to keep that left foot in 463 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 4: while the right foot was going. And I was like, 464 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 4: you have to let that go in order to step 465 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 4: into that new shell, that new align. They knew you 466 00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 4: you got to remove yourself in the environments you've outgrown. 467 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:06,119 Speaker 4: And it's not to say outgrowing the mop it's a 468 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 4: bad thing. It was just more or thot like you did. 469 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:11,080 Speaker 3: That, you did it, and you did that. Season's over. 470 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 2: It's over, so no one, no one to changed seasons. 471 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 2: It's a big here, no one to change seasons. A 472 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 2: big king in life. Thank you for that. 473 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 3: We always we talk is like, Yo, that was good, 474 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 3: I'm gonna use that. 475 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 2: I'm using that one. Wow, I'm using that one. 476 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 3: I love that. 477 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: And from being a peloton being in everyone's home. We 478 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: talked about you being the first black you know what 479 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying. 480 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 3: So what was that like? And what weight does that carry? 481 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 1: Because I know for me it was important when I 482 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: got on that bike to see a black man and 483 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:41,120 Speaker 1: a black woman. 484 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 3: You and Ali love and to they were my favorites. 485 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:47,440 Speaker 1: Always wanted to see something that reflected myself And what 486 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:48,719 Speaker 1: was it like? I do want to know because I'm 487 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 1: sure being that that was a startup company and you 488 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 1: were the first black man. 489 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:54,680 Speaker 3: To be on that bike, what was that? Did that 490 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:55,640 Speaker 3: carry any weight for you? 491 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 2: It carried weight? The weight shifted throughout the years. 492 00:19:01,119 --> 00:19:04,120 Speaker 4: When I joined, it was more of excitement of like, Yo, 493 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:07,120 Speaker 4: I'm the token black guy, and it's like you think 494 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 4: it's a cool thing to be like the only black person, 495 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 4: and you soon to realize that, like, wait a minute, 496 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 4: I don't have all the information and the knowledge to 497 00:19:13,640 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 4: provide this community, the understanding of the black community solely 498 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 4: by myself. I'm a black man. I can't speak from 499 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 4: the black woman's perspective. You know what I'm saying, Like, 500 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 4: that's not something I could relate to. So I realized 501 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,679 Speaker 4: early early on that like, yo, I'm in for uphill battle, 502 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 4: a lot of resistance because I'm not apologetic. 503 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 2: You know, I'm straight with it. I don't. 504 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 4: I'm very like I'm gonna take my drag off to 505 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 4: go on. But I wanted people to understand that, like, listen, 506 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:44,359 Speaker 4: I come from a certain level of respect, integrity, the 507 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 4: foundation of my family, the morals, the principles are so 508 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 4: pure that it's hard for me to allow somebody else 509 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 4: to be like, Yo, what you're doing is crazy. 510 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:53,719 Speaker 2: Somebody's gonna take that offensive way. I'm like, well, that's them, 511 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 2: because I know where my heart is, I know how 512 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,360 Speaker 2: pure it is. And when you play these like. 513 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 4: I'm trying to give them that real atl hip hop 514 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:03,080 Speaker 4: hip to let people know ya we hear. In order 515 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 4: for my community to be here, I got to showcase 516 00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 4: that we are here. 517 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:09,160 Speaker 2: Her presentation matters. I didn't realize how. 518 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 4: Important me being the first black instructor was until Ali 519 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 4: Loved joined. And I say that because when she joined, 520 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 4: it felt like one of the biggest weights off of 521 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 4: my shoulder because I'm like, cool, I don't have to 522 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 4: do this by myself now, and in the same space, 523 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 4: we're gonna be running together, and you, being a black woman, 524 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 4: excuse me, has a completely different perspective of life that 525 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 4: I could actually learn from in real time. 526 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:31,880 Speaker 2: Now. 527 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 4: Ali also was a different individual. She is one of 528 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,919 Speaker 4: the most badass people I know on this planet, like 529 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 4: one of the most inspirational, most loving, like heartfelt people 530 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 4: that I know. But she don't play by business. So 531 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,400 Speaker 4: she helped me understand that, like, yo, this isn't a job, 532 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 4: this is your career. Like turn this into a career 533 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 4: out of this, then Tune it comes along, then just 534 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:56,680 Speaker 4: Simmons comes along. And I truly didn't realize the responsibility 535 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 4: or sorry, I didn't realize. 536 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 2: I got a little lost in the hustle of what 537 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:03,120 Speaker 2: we were doing until. 538 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:08,439 Speaker 4: George Floyd got killed and like the world stopped and 539 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 4: I still got to go to work as a black 540 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,320 Speaker 4: man and people are like, what are you going to say? 541 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 2: What are you going to do? 542 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 4: Like I'm like, wait a minute, I didn't realize that 543 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 4: it all fell on me in that moment. I'm trying 544 00:21:19,800 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 4: to call my dad, like, YO, Dad, this is crazy 545 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 4: what's going on right now? Like as a black many 546 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 4: to call my dad for safety and peace and like YO, 547 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 4: buy me understanding. And I felt like people were knocking 548 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 4: at my door like YO, like what are you going 549 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 4: to say? I'm like, I don't know what the hell 550 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 4: to say. So that was like the point where I 551 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 4: realized how important this is and how much responsibility I 552 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,239 Speaker 4: do have to show up because in that moment, I'm like, 553 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,439 Speaker 4: how I interact on that camera, how I articulate on 554 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 4: that camera, or the stories that I tell will allow 555 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 4: people in their households and their communities to be like. 556 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 2: That's Alex Tucson's perception as a black man. That may 557 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 2: be everybody's reality, and that's not the case. 558 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 4: That's why I was so thankful for Ali Love Tune 559 00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 4: Digest through the Door, because it's like, we need to 560 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 4: tell our stories in all different perspectives. Yes, that's how 561 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 4: we organically build our community here at Pollo Time. 562 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:09,159 Speaker 2: So that probably was a. 563 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,719 Speaker 4: Turning point of me realizing how important this job was 564 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 4: and I had to take it that much more serious 565 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:14,400 Speaker 4: at that point for sure. 566 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 1: For sure, Well, and I mean I watch you like 567 00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 1: whenever you're preparing, you're like, I'm getting my mees my playlist. 568 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 1: How many times you listen to it and you really 569 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:24,880 Speaker 1: take it very serious? 570 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 3: Absolutely, it shows. It definitely shows. 571 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 1: I remember in twenty twenty when George Floyd died and 572 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: we had to sit in that and because you were 573 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: one of the people that we watched every day just 574 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,920 Speaker 1: to like be active and do something, we were looking. 575 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 3: Like what are you going to say? 576 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 1: And that falls on us sometimes in celebrities, like we 577 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 1: want to hear why aren't you speaking up about this? 578 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,639 Speaker 4: That moment helped me understand how much responsibility that I 579 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 4: have those who care must. In that moment, I realized 580 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 4: I was like, all right, this is a call of duty. Like, yes, 581 00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 4: this is my career, this is my job, but I 582 00:22:55,720 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 4: have to, like I have to organically remain myself and 583 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 4: inspire others that don't look like me so they can 584 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:03,919 Speaker 4: communicate with me. 585 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,199 Speaker 2: That has to be the key. That has to be 586 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:07,719 Speaker 2: the key. I don't need you to I don't need 587 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 2: you to love my classes. I actually don't like. 588 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 4: Some of the biggest top Quick top chair compliments that 589 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 4: I received is hey, at I take Monday night hip 590 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 4: hop I'm like you do, and they're like, yeah, I don't. 591 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 2: Take it for the music though, I take it for 592 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 2: the message. 593 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,040 Speaker 4: And when I walk away from that, I'm like, they 594 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 4: don't understand how much of a validating top chair compliment 595 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,640 Speaker 4: that is. That means that we can have a difference 596 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 4: of music, but the understanding of love and the purpose 597 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 4: in the intent of the message is received for that. Hey, 598 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,640 Speaker 4: I'm doing my job. I'm doing my job. 599 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 1: Speaking of how you've turned this into a business, Ali 600 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 1: told you, Hey, this is your career, this is a business. 601 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: I remember I took my family to last year from 602 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:48,480 Speaker 1: went to New York, went to the Brooklyn game. 603 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,639 Speaker 3: I saw you there, and I'm catch you. 604 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 4: Course, matter what city, I'm gonna catch you course signe. 605 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,600 Speaker 1: And I remember waking up because we stayed at the 606 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 1: addition in Times Square because my family had been in 607 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 1: New York, so you gotta stay in Time Square the 608 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: first time we know where to stay. 609 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 5: We're gonna tell you, Okay, it's too loud, But I 610 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 5: remember waking up, opening up my window and there was 611 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:20,120 Speaker 5: this huge Nevado and I see your face pop up. 612 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 3: Then I look to the left. 613 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: It's a huge smart Water add in your face stuff 614 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like video, I'm like, you're. 615 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 2: Everywhere and I didn't see it yet, so you sending this. 616 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 2: It was the first time I saw it and I 617 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 2: was like, yo, it was crazy. 618 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 3: Then you drop past peloton you see your face? 619 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 2: What is that like till this day doesn't get old. 620 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:42,960 Speaker 2: I'm just like we made it to billboard and. 621 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 4: Times Square before we made it to the police blodder 622 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:48,200 Speaker 4: at our local town, you know, all honesty like yeah, 623 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 4: stuff like that, Like it seems crazy still to be 624 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 4: honest with you all from pushing pedals on a bike, 625 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 4: But then when it occurs, I'm like, it's not crazy. 626 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 4: You feel so like it was supposed to happen like 627 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 4: this the entire time. But yeah, seen your face on 628 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 4: the billboard a Times Square. I'm not gonna lie. I 629 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 4: don't get old. 630 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was away. 631 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 2: And it's more importantly like. 632 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 4: It gives me like hope to be like yo, keep going, 633 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 4: like think bigger, like keep up, open up your aperture 634 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 4: for other things that you didn't even think were possibly 635 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,640 Speaker 4: in your scope vision. I never thought I was gonna 636 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 4: be getting paid to drink water. 637 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:23,800 Speaker 2: Like a lot of speaking. 638 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,159 Speaker 3: Let me honestly, something that you should be doing anyway. 639 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 4: I asked my friend one day at my manager, I 640 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:28,879 Speaker 4: was like, Yo, can you just do me a favorite? 641 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,120 Speaker 4: Can you g have cases of water for the house, 642 00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 4: like you drinking as much as I do? 643 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 2: Like? 644 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 4: And he was like, yeah, I got you. A couple 645 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 4: of days goes by, he was like, yo, I got 646 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 4: the cases of water. But like I thought about it, 647 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 4: we should have a water deal. 648 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,359 Speaker 2: I reached out to smart Water and I was just like, 649 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, bro, So to see. 650 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 4: You go from that to then like a global partnership 651 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:45,840 Speaker 4: to then help me announce me getting on the tread 652 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 4: at Peloton to now, it's like it's all. 653 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 2: Working the way it's supposed to work, and it never 654 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 2: feels like actually work. That's the best part. 655 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: Well, speaking the trade, I remember you called and you 656 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,120 Speaker 1: were like, don't say nothing yet, but I'm about to video. 657 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,640 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my goodness, like. 658 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,400 Speaker 3: You literally have taken over everything. 659 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,199 Speaker 1: It's unreal like too and people don't understand that to 660 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 1: be a trainer the way you are, you have to 661 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 1: keep your body toss tier as well. You wake up 662 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: every morning you're in your gym working out before you 663 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: go work. 664 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 3: I'm about to die on the bike. 665 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 1: And I like to think that you're doing something before 666 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:19,919 Speaker 1: that's even prepare for. 667 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 3: That is insane. 668 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 2: Mindset has always been out work, it's always ever known. 669 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 2: But the tread, you know what it is. 670 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 4: The tread has helped me eleven years in the cycling, 671 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,120 Speaker 4: eleven years in the fitness industry. 672 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:31,720 Speaker 2: This feels like a rookie all over again. 673 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:35,160 Speaker 4: This feels like a new battery of new like jumpstart 674 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 4: on the cables of being like I have to learn. 675 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 4: I'm at the top tier tread instructure. I'm not like 676 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 4: I'm learning every single day, every single class. 677 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 2: So it feels great. It feels great. 678 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,680 Speaker 3: I love it. What does a morning for Alex? 679 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 2: You sound look like there's no two days out of 680 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 2: the team because I wake up. 681 00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 4: I wake up every single day at like six seven am. 682 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 4: That's probably the one thing I do. But depending on 683 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 4: the day, depending on my energy, I may knock out 684 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,520 Speaker 4: of work out right when I wake up, I may 685 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 4: be like you know what, I'm a chill reset, walk outside, 686 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,479 Speaker 4: take time to be with the dogs, knock out my meetings, 687 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 4: and then do a workout. But if any every morning 688 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,719 Speaker 4: that I wake up starts with gratitude, gratitude cancers at 689 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,120 Speaker 4: my negativity, my attitude's I'm a firm believer of that. 690 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 2: So wake up, eyes, open up. He touched the ground. 691 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 4: I do this in your inhal your confidence, exhil your doubt, 692 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 4: and I do it three times just to like mentally 693 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 4: reset and emotionally reset for the day, whether it's a class. 694 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:30,400 Speaker 2: In the morning or meetings. 695 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 4: There's got to be a workout before twelve o'clock somehow, 696 00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 4: Like just I got to get into the gym before 697 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,600 Speaker 4: twelve o'clock because I know I'm gonna get back into 698 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 4: the gym at four five o'clock. 699 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 2: Because there's two workouts a day right now. 700 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:42,399 Speaker 4: It's by regiment, but there's no two days out of 701 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,679 Speaker 4: the same my peloton schedule bouncing crazy, me working with 702 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 4: Puma Havy for flying out crazy right now. So there's 703 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,879 Speaker 4: the only thing that's the same every single day is 704 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:51,640 Speaker 4: the gratitude check. 705 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 3: That's so amazing. 706 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 1: I saw where Lebron and Stiff take your classes. 707 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 6: What is it? 708 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: Because you're a huge basketball fan and you let's go 709 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: ahead and give your flowers. 710 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 3: You play in the you played in the All Star. 711 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:14,440 Speaker 1: Game two years, two years, the MVP twenty twenty two. 712 00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,800 Speaker 2: Like baller crazy. Listen, I can tell you something about that. 713 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,159 Speaker 4: As somebody who grew up playing basketball, like I'm a 714 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 4: die hard basketball and that was the first one with 715 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 4: therap my entire life when they offered me the opportunity 716 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 4: to play in the game. Peloton will tell you this 717 00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:28,919 Speaker 4: flat out all the members that were in class. I 718 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 4: looked into the camera. I was flying out on Thursday. 719 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:32,360 Speaker 2: I taught on. 720 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 4: Wednesday night, and I said, Yo, I'll see y'all back 721 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 4: next week with the trophy. 722 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 3: Wow. 723 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 4: And it wasn't to be cocky. It was it was 724 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 4: more so of stay ready so you don't have to 725 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 4: get ready. I played basketball behind the scenes and stay 726 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 4: in physical shape. And I told myself, if I ever 727 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 4: had the opportunity to play on the NBA floor, it's 728 00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 4: non negotiable. 729 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 2: I'm going all for it. Not to be. 730 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 4: Like, hey, I could play basketball, but to always let 731 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 4: kids know, yeah, you could have a dream of being 732 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 4: a pro athlete, you could have regiam of being a 733 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,240 Speaker 4: rap whatever the case may be, but where you are 734 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 4: today could be the platform to where you're trying to 735 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 4: take it. And because I taught every single class with 736 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 4: the mindset of moving like a pro athlete. It attracted 737 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 4: the pro athletes, which put the NBA in in my scope, 738 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 4: in my vision, which allowed me then to have that opportunity. 739 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 4: So that wasn't by accident. That was more so like 740 00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 4: because I taught every single class as an athlete with 741 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:22,960 Speaker 4: that mindset, it attracted the athletes would have allowed me 742 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,720 Speaker 4: to play on that for for sure. 743 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 3: That's good. That's good. 744 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,680 Speaker 1: You talk about how you found your identity on the bike, 745 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 1: What did you discover. 746 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:31,400 Speaker 3: In that time? 747 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 4: I discovered in order to succeed, in order to grow, 748 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 4: you gotta fail. My dad, like I said, my dad 749 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 4: had a different method of madness. All growing up. He 750 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 4: never accepted failure. It was always looked down upon. So 751 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 4: because the failure was looked down upon, I was scared 752 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 4: to even attempt. 753 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,560 Speaker 2: So I did a lot of just existing. 754 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 4: I never really was able to live my true childhood 755 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 4: and attempt things because I was scared to fail. 756 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 2: Knowing the refeverd cushions of my dad. 757 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 4: Now where I am as an adult, I realized, I've 758 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 4: only learned, I've only became successful. I've only evolved through failure. 759 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 4: The first attempt in learning fail I got this from 760 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 4: will Smith fail fast failed, now fail here fell forward. 761 00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 4: I realized everything that I do is a failure that's 762 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 4: turned into a lesson, which is turned into a blessing. 763 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 2: I'm rapping right now. I shouldn't be doing that. 764 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 4: That's one thing that I realized from my career on 765 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 4: moving on a bike is attempt new things because you're 766 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 4: going to learn about yourself in ways that you never 767 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 4: thought you could. 768 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 2: I never thought I would write a book. I'd be 769 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 2: very transparent with you. 770 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,959 Speaker 4: I failed English in eleventh grade, not because I can't 771 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 4: read or write, because I just didn't apply myself. So 772 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 4: the scope of me writing a book was never I 773 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 4: never even thought about that. So when the opportunity to 774 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 4: present itself, at first, I was like, yo, nah, But 775 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 4: then I was like, you know what, I'm okay failing. 776 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 4: I'm okay being vulnerable because I realized that's my ultimate strength. 777 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,960 Speaker 4: I'm okay being in that space of like I guess 778 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 4: for a lot of people that are like, especially the 779 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 4: black men that say Peloton classes, they're like, yo, thank 780 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,480 Speaker 4: you for your vulnerability, And I'm like, I didn't realize 781 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 4: I was bringing vulnerable, right, But I'm just like, you 782 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,080 Speaker 4: know what if that's what's received. 783 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 2: Then let's teach with that space. 784 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 4: Because I see a lot more people now of color, 785 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 4: especially the older black men that like really didn't focus 786 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 4: on their mental focusing on it a lot more now 787 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 4: and have any sort of like roll in that space. 788 00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:27,400 Speaker 2: It doesn't mean everything to me. 789 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:31,719 Speaker 4: So I learned that you mayly be in a position 790 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 4: and inspire a lot of other people and not even 791 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 4: know it. So as long as you wake up every 792 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 4: single day and keep your faith forward and move with 793 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 4: the purpose and execute with the attention, you could be 794 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 4: saving lives and not even realizing it. 795 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 2: But you got to save your life first. 796 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that you taught. 797 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 1: We talked about you still being on the bike but 798 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 1: still having to mind as well, or feeling like you 799 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 1: had to mind? 800 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,280 Speaker 3: Did you deal with a scartoo mind. 801 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:54,880 Speaker 1: Said in that moment, because I know you're still sleeping 802 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 1: on your friends floor and you're like, I got to 803 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:57,600 Speaker 1: prove this. 804 00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 3: To my dad. 805 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,480 Speaker 2: I just didn't. I thought that that psyche thing was 806 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 2: too good to be true. 807 00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:03,840 Speaker 4: I was like, there's no way that an opportunity can 808 00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 4: present itself so fast and get executed and like, my 809 00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 4: life change. 810 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 2: And I'm firm. 811 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 4: Believer of the as fast as things come into your 812 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 4: life is as fast as you can go. So yeah, 813 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 4: Actually part of it was the scarcity of being like, 814 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 4: let me not let this go in case this doesn't 815 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 4: go right and I have something to fall back onto. 816 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 4: I think Ruth being like listen, I got you you 817 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 4: straight like was the level of comfort that I needed 818 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 4: to be like, I can let this thing go. But 819 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,000 Speaker 4: there was definitely a sense of like, yo, don't let 820 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 4: it go because it's like the one he's ever went 821 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 4: from mopingorce to teaching before. So like it's when it's 822 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 4: never been done and you're the one doing it, it's 823 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 4: so scary because you're like, I'm creating the path in 824 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 4: front of me. There's nothing, there's no path to follow. 825 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:43,959 Speaker 4: I have to create it. So sometimes it's it's definitely 826 00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 4: scary in that space. But having people like Ruth that 827 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 4: provide a level of comfort, provide you assistance instead of resistance, 828 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 4: such a key in life, Such a key in life. 829 00:32:54,760 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 1: The goats, so you became the first black instructed at Peloton, 830 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: and then we have the George Floyd death happened, which 831 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: affected everybody in the world in that moment. What parallels 832 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: and what did you feel similarities from your childhood being 833 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: mainly the only black, which is the predominantly white town 834 00:33:18,960 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 1: where you were mainly the black and only black in school. 835 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 1: Were there any similarities in the area where you feel like 836 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:25,640 Speaker 1: I'm living this all over again. 837 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 2: There was one thing in particular. 838 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:29,520 Speaker 4: I wanted to give a lot of credit to the 839 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 4: East Hampton community, to be honest with you, because they 840 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 4: accepted my family and a lot of the black families 841 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 4: out there with open arms and love. 842 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 2: I want to be very clear about that. I came 843 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 2: to Eastampton in nineteen ninety eight. 844 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,120 Speaker 4: My dad bought a plot of land and built the 845 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,440 Speaker 4: house up, and my mom was working out there for 846 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 4: seven years. At the time, I was going to school 847 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 4: out there for a little bit. So they definitely welcomed 848 00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 4: us with open arms, the teachers, the community, my friend's parents. 849 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,400 Speaker 4: But there was one person in particular who did not, 850 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 4: and that was our next door neighbor. 851 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 2: The person who lived right next to. 852 00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 4: Us all growing up, would call the cops on us 853 00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 4: for the most outrageous thing. It was one of those 854 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 4: you know when you have a neighbor like one of 855 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,400 Speaker 4: those people like me walking in the neighborhood d draggon. 856 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,240 Speaker 4: Cops called me coming down the block, car music, cops 857 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 4: called me playing basketball outside in the cops called to 858 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,319 Speaker 4: the point that the East Hampton police would come by 859 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 4: the house and be like, Yo, what up the eteen 860 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 4: you good? 861 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,360 Speaker 2: Like it became. 862 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 4: It became that relationship where the cops are like, yo, 863 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 4: we just have to do our due diligence and drive by, 864 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:26,879 Speaker 4: but we understand what you're dealing with. 865 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:28,840 Speaker 2: So they actually would give me grace. 866 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:30,839 Speaker 4: So that's why, honestly, I shout out all the cops 867 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,359 Speaker 4: out there, because they understood what I was dealing with. 868 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 4: I was the only black hid on my block. My 869 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,720 Speaker 4: mom would be like, do not go to the mailbox 870 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 4: with you? 871 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 2: Do drag on? 872 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,400 Speaker 4: And I'm like, why you talk about we're geting the mails. 873 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 2: Neighbor's gonna see us. 874 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 4: And I'm like, Mom, you've worked your entire life, you 875 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,919 Speaker 4: sacrifice to build this entire beautiful home, raise us here 876 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 4: to not feel comfortable in your own environment because somebody 877 00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 4: else doesn't want you to live here. And I remember 878 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 4: when the George Floyd happened. The only way I could 879 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:03,840 Speaker 4: explain it to the Peloton members is hypothetically speaking, I 880 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 4: get into an interaction with a police officer. He's having 881 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 4: a bad day. I may be having a bad day. 882 00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 4: That tension can cause a little bit of escalated an 883 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:17,399 Speaker 4: escalated situation. And now my ego gets in the way 884 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,439 Speaker 4: of me making it home safe. And now the only 885 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 4: way you're gonna understand is when you click onto the 886 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 4: bike on Friday morning and it's like, Yo, where's at Oh? 887 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't even think I can. 888 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,600 Speaker 4: I'm not exempt from this just because I ride a bike, 889 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 4: just because I want a platform, because people know me, 890 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 4: does not mean I'm exempt from the everyday struggles of 891 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 4: black men in America to black people in general in America. 892 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 4: And I use the example of at the time I 893 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,440 Speaker 4: lived in Brooklyn, when I started Peloton, I drive across 894 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 4: the bridge in Brooklyn, I'm viewed as a drug dealer 895 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 4: due to my nice car and because I wear sweats 896 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 4: and I have a drag on. But the minute I 897 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:51,319 Speaker 4: crossed the bridge into Manhattan, Oh, you're an athlete, You're good. 898 00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:54,839 Speaker 4: So I tell people all the time like those I've 899 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:57,800 Speaker 4: been pulled out of my car driving across Brooklyn at gunpoint, 900 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,280 Speaker 4: not because I did anything wrong, because the cop thought 901 00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 4: I had something. 902 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 2: In the car. 903 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 4: Thankfully due to my training at military school and understanding 904 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 4: how to talk to authority. The minute the cop pulls 905 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 4: up on me, I know how to make him aware 906 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,239 Speaker 4: that I respect the rank, I respect the situation, and 907 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 4: I want to make sure that I'm safe and you're safe. 908 00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,879 Speaker 4: So certain things like that that like my dad, that's 909 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 4: why I give credit to him sending me in to 910 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 4: military school, because I was super hot headed as a 911 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 4: young kid, where like I could say the wrong thing 912 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 4: and it could go up right. And because of military school, 913 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:29,280 Speaker 4: when when you spend so much time with somebody yelling 914 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 4: in your face telling you what to do and you 915 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 4: can't do a damn thing about it, it allows you 916 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 4: to be disciplined in a space where it can make 917 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,880 Speaker 4: you allow you to get home safe. So to just 918 00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:41,759 Speaker 4: bring him all back, that was the only way I 919 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 4: could articulate it to the Peloton community to help them 920 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 4: understand what I go through on an everyday basis, which 921 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,319 Speaker 4: means that's what other black individuals go through on every 922 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,480 Speaker 4: day basis. And honestly, the community was extremely receptive to it. Yeah, 923 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 4: because for me, I don't need you to People are 924 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 4: saying I stand with you, I stand with you. Nah, 925 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,800 Speaker 4: I'm moving, move with me. We ain't got to stand. No, 926 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 4: I'm trying to move somewhere, and I need you to move. 927 00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 4: I need you to move within your household. Move your 928 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 4: kid's mind, help them, help change their perspective. So when 929 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:10,680 Speaker 4: they deal with somebody in their school system that looks 930 00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 4: like me, they're comfortable because their parents provide them information, 931 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 4: help them understand that. 932 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 2: Like, yo, that's eight people, they're good. 933 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 934 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,680 Speaker 2: If we can do that, if I could reach one, 935 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 2: I could teach one. So that's why I show up 936 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 2: to work every single day. 937 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 4: With that level of I have to because I understand 938 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 4: that for somebody out there, I may be the first 939 00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 4: interaction with the black person, which may be the difference 940 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,720 Speaker 4: in them raising their kids and interacting within their community. 941 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 2: So that was that moment for me for sure. 942 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 3: I love that. 943 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,880 Speaker 1: And speaking of community, you started a foundation, Yes, I 944 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 1: want to talk about that because you started in twenty 945 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 1: Did this have anything to do with what was going on? 946 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:43,920 Speaker 3: Or do you have more downtime? 947 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,240 Speaker 4: Is that why you It was a combination of downtime. 948 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:47,439 Speaker 4: It was also a combination of. 949 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:51,440 Speaker 2: I like. 950 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 4: After my grandmother passed away in twenty eighteen, I went 951 00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 4: to Haiti for the first time as an adult, I 952 00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 4: was able to identify where I came from. I was 953 00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 4: able to identify in real time the sacrifices that were implemented. 954 00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 4: I was able to identify as one sacrifice away from 955 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 4: growing up and Haiti. To be honest with you, But 956 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 4: then I also understood that once again, those who can 957 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,600 Speaker 4: must I've been provided so many of blessing, so many opportunities, 958 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:16,360 Speaker 4: so many connections, so many resources. 959 00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 2: What's the point of holding those in? 960 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 3: Right? 961 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 2: The goal is to. 962 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,360 Speaker 4: Extend your hand that do better, that feel good, that 963 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,520 Speaker 4: look good, that do better. This is the part where 964 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:27,439 Speaker 4: you've reached a certain space in life where you're moving 965 00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,600 Speaker 4: out of frequency, in the space where your cup is overflowing, 966 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 4: and within those overflowing gifts and blessings, you got to 967 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,160 Speaker 4: provide it to other people, otherwise they go waste it. 968 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 4: So the Do Better Foundation was founded twenty twenty with 969 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,000 Speaker 4: two of my best friends who are my managers, one 970 00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 4: n uh Nigerian American, one Korean American, and I'm Haitian American. Right, 971 00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:47,880 Speaker 4: we all have the immigrant mindset and that level of 972 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:51,839 Speaker 4: understanding and how we grew up and we just came 973 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:54,759 Speaker 4: to this conclusion of being like Yo, We're so fortunate 974 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:56,880 Speaker 4: to be raised how we were raised, to have the 975 00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,319 Speaker 4: parents that we have, for the sacrifices that they did. 976 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:01,399 Speaker 4: We got to look out for the kids that look 977 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 4: like us from the environments that we come from and 978 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 4: from the environments that we don't come from. Where that's 979 00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 4: kids of the inner city community, kids from haity, kids 980 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 4: for career kids in Nigeria, people that are in the military. 981 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 2: That's close to my heart. 982 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,399 Speaker 4: To Do Better Foundation was created to provide people opportunities 983 00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 4: to wellness resources that they just truly may not have 984 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:25,800 Speaker 4: everything that I was afforded, therapy, after school programs, nutrition, mentors, guidance, 985 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:29,120 Speaker 4: like everything that I realized that like those small details 986 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,600 Speaker 4: which all compile them to make me who I am today. 987 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,080 Speaker 4: I'm just trying to give that to other kids, simply put. 988 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 4: Simply put, and it feels great to do it with 989 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,760 Speaker 4: your friends who are your managers. But friends family first, 990 00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,520 Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. So it's definitely a validating 991 00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 4: thing to wake up and be like Yo. On Thanksgiving, 992 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,360 Speaker 4: we got to go give out Turkey City the kids 993 00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:47,960 Speaker 4: in Brooklyn, but we're going to make sure we do 994 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 4: it with the public school system. That way, there's things 995 00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 4: like that feel so purposeful because then when we go 996 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 4: court side at the NETS game, it feels validating to 997 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,600 Speaker 4: be like, yo, we're course side, were chilling now, but 998 00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,320 Speaker 4: look at all the purposeful things that we did together. 999 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 4: So it makes the friendship purposeful as well. So I 1000 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,280 Speaker 4: love the fact that I got to do with my boys. 1001 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:09,279 Speaker 4: It HiT's different. I love them, I love it. 1002 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 1: I love that you've accomplished all these things. What is 1003 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:14,880 Speaker 1: next for Alex's Tussons? 1004 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:24,279 Speaker 4: Oh man, I don't know what's next because one of 1005 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 4: the hardest things for me to do is think that forward, 1006 00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 4: being that I never thought I would be where I 1007 00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:29,800 Speaker 4: am today. 1008 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 2: I don't know what's next, but I. 1009 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,239 Speaker 4: Can tell you that my aperture has opened up for 1010 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,480 Speaker 4: me to test new things. So I'm not going to 1011 00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 4: block a blessing due to pride and ego. I'm not 1012 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,000 Speaker 4: going to tell myself what I can't do. I'm more 1013 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 4: gonna tell myself what I should try to do. So 1014 00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 4: I don't know what's next. I actually can't even tell you, 1015 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,719 Speaker 4: Like even off came, I can't tell you what's next 1016 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,000 Speaker 4: because I'm in the space right now, being like we 1017 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 4: dropped the shoe, we dropped the book, we did the foundation. 1018 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:57,400 Speaker 4: I just want to take time to just like accept 1019 00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:00,480 Speaker 4: those blessings and then have an understanding of where we 1020 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:02,320 Speaker 4: want to go next without rushing it. So I truly 1021 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 4: don't know, and that's okay not knowing, but I know 1022 00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 4: that I'm not going to block the blessing when once 1023 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:07,920 Speaker 4: it presents itself. 1024 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:08,719 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1025 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,000 Speaker 1: So my last question, this is from my ladies, because 1026 00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 1: everybody they. 1027 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 3: Want to know. I've had people like literally hear me, 1028 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 3: you know him? Is he single? Now? You're very private about. 1029 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,799 Speaker 1: Your personal life, so we don't have to get into. 1030 00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 3: That, but I do want to know what does Alex 1031 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:26,840 Speaker 3: look for in a woman. 1032 00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 2: I mean to be very transparent with you. 1033 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:35,400 Speaker 4: I don't want to say my mother, but I was 1034 00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:40,600 Speaker 4: raised from a woman that did everything Popscott sick, Dinosa 1035 00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:42,440 Speaker 4: coin cancer mom, went back to school, got a PAHD, 1036 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 4: became the breadwinner of the family, became like a boss 1037 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:50,799 Speaker 4: asked woman, but always has family time Like so you 1038 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,319 Speaker 4: gottah man, I didn't even never had I never had 1039 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 4: a question. I got to look at you and be 1040 00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:58,880 Speaker 4: able to know that you could raise a family on 1041 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,440 Speaker 4: the same morals and principles, and even if they're different, 1042 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:02,280 Speaker 4: they're still aligned. 1043 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,080 Speaker 2: I have to know that. 1044 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,400 Speaker 4: Even on my worst days, you're gonna cheat me like 1045 00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:14,360 Speaker 4: it's my best days. And I gotta know that you 1046 00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,439 Speaker 4: take care of yourself because in order to be present 1047 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,520 Speaker 4: with me, you got to be present with yourself. You 1048 00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:20,160 Speaker 4: got to do all the invisible work to make sure 1049 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 4: you arrive every single day feeling like the best version 1050 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,759 Speaker 4: of you in that way that would allow me to 1051 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 4: take care of you the best way that I know possible. 1052 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,360 Speaker 1: All Right, Well that's what he's looking for in a woman, 1053 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:33,719 Speaker 1: all right, because they really. 1054 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,880 Speaker 3: You know him, And I'm. 1055 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:41,000 Speaker 4: Like, yeah, they're like, you know, you know what, we 1056 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 4: give so much of ourselves publicly that like, there's parts 1057 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,719 Speaker 4: of myself, my life that I'm like, I just keep 1058 00:42:45,719 --> 00:42:48,200 Speaker 4: private because it protects my peace. So I try to 1059 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,480 Speaker 4: tell people like, yo, I'm all for sharing your relationships 1060 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,120 Speaker 4: and whatever you got going on social media, but like, 1061 00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,400 Speaker 4: just because I know how much my piece means to me, 1062 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:56,960 Speaker 4: I want to be able to go home at night 1063 00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,279 Speaker 4: and know that my piece is protected, whether it's like 1064 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 4: family relationship, growl from relationships, whatever, Like there's certain things 1065 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 4: that I keep close to the heart for sure, because 1066 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:07,719 Speaker 4: what you give people they can take away so hardway. 1067 00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, that's that's really good. That's good, Alex. 1068 00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 3: Thank you. 1069 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:14,720 Speaker 2: I appreciate you. I love you. 1070 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:16,000 Speaker 1: Your story is phenomenal. 1071 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,200 Speaker 3: Thank you for sharing it with us. 1072 00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:20,359 Speaker 1: Guys, make sure you go get his book, Activate Your Greatness. 1073 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,600 Speaker 1: It is available everywhere. We want to make this a 1074 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:26,279 Speaker 1: New York Times bestseller. I know you're well on the 1075 00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:28,080 Speaker 1: way to that, but definitely want to make that. 1076 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 2: I appreciate you so much. 1077 00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely so. 1078 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:36,919 Speaker 1: At the close of our show, we do what's called 1079 00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:41,359 Speaker 1: positive outcomes, where our listeners right into us and we. 1080 00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 3: Give them advice. 1081 00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:44,560 Speaker 2: Love it all right, So. 1082 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:48,480 Speaker 1: This one says Dear Crystal. I battled with so many 1083 00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,600 Speaker 1: demons in my life. But as I held through all 1084 00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:53,959 Speaker 1: the traumatic life experiences, I have triggers and I'm still 1085 00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,480 Speaker 1: working on myself. I am dealing with something that I 1086 00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,520 Speaker 1: have never experienced in my forty six years of. 1087 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 3: Life, self esteem issue. 1088 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 1: I have gained weight in my stomach area, lost a 1089 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:06,920 Speaker 1: front tooth, and just feel so unpretty and unattractive. I 1090 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:09,880 Speaker 1: hate looking in the mirror and getting dressed. It's too 1091 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,520 Speaker 1: much for me, I feel like a whale in everything 1092 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,000 Speaker 1: I've been there, girl, like nothing is fitting right now, 1093 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,840 Speaker 1: So I know where you are. I don't have the 1094 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 1: motivation and discipline to do anything about it because I'm 1095 00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,200 Speaker 1: a stress eater. I am overwhelmed with being the breadwinner 1096 00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,239 Speaker 1: of my family, taking care of my sick parents as 1097 00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 1: best I can, and I'm working a job with a 1098 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,960 Speaker 1: team who relies on me for everything. Self care is 1099 00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,640 Speaker 1: very important, But what do you do when everyone thinks 1100 00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:37,600 Speaker 1: you are the shei ro and the fixer like Olivia Pope? 1101 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:39,600 Speaker 1: What do you do when you are smiling on the 1102 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 1: outside and drowning in darkness on the inside, but masking 1103 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,720 Speaker 1: it all because you can't change the purpose God placed 1104 00:44:45,719 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 1: on you to be the fixer? 1105 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,400 Speaker 3: How do you balance? How do you find balance? Because 1106 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 3: you can't question God's. 1107 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,160 Speaker 4: Plan for you, definitely can't question God's claim wow wow. 1108 00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 4: To provide feedback on that, yeah, I'm a firm believer 1109 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:05,279 Speaker 4: of breakdown to breakthrough. If you're going through that dark 1110 00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,880 Speaker 4: space instead of trying to avoid it, honestly accept it. 1111 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 4: But like hear what I'm saying, though, break down to 1112 00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:18,840 Speaker 4: break through a lot of the times it's hard for 1113 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,560 Speaker 4: a lot of people. When you look into the mirror 1114 00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 4: and identify yourself from that external it goes back to 1115 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 4: feel good look a letter. When you identify yourself from 1116 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 4: that external look, you forget what's inside of you. I 1117 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:33,839 Speaker 4: think for that young that young queen, I don't say 1118 00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 4: soul searching is the right word, but going back to 1119 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,840 Speaker 4: that internal perspective and understanding how beautiful you are on 1120 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,360 Speaker 4: the inside, Well, she just said that God put her 1121 00:45:41,400 --> 00:45:44,160 Speaker 4: in a position. There's a reason as to why she's 1122 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 4: a chosen one. You got to go back and look 1123 00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,759 Speaker 4: at yourself internally and find that internal light of being 1124 00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:51,879 Speaker 4: like I am the chosen one before you look into 1125 00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:53,879 Speaker 4: the mirror, because if I look into the mirror first 1126 00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 4: thing in the morning, I'm not going to be proud 1127 00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,840 Speaker 4: of what I see, regardless what's going on the light. 1128 00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 4: You got to identify the feel good aspect, yes, then 1129 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 4: you could go from to the look good aspect within 1130 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,319 Speaker 4: that space. Though while you're identifying that internal light, I 1131 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:09,320 Speaker 4: would say, find accountability partners that are gonna help uplift 1132 00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:13,840 Speaker 4: you and not outshine you. I realize in my darkest 1133 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:15,480 Speaker 4: of all days, for the days I can't get up 1134 00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 4: for the days I don't feel motivated, to the days 1135 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,080 Speaker 4: that I'm like, yo, exactly what she's saying. 1136 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,200 Speaker 2: That like you look into the mirror, you like question yourself. 1137 00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:25,120 Speaker 4: The people around me keep me floating when I feel 1138 00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:25,760 Speaker 4: like I'm drowning. 1139 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:27,480 Speaker 2: I like to quote Jay Z. 1140 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,320 Speaker 4: If everybody in your click is rich, you click is rugged, 1141 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 4: nobody would fall because everybody would beat each other's crutches, 1142 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,719 Speaker 4: rich with integrity, rich with perspective, rich with love, rich 1143 00:46:34,719 --> 00:46:38,359 Speaker 4: with purpose. If the people around you understand what you lack, 1144 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,759 Speaker 4: they can help provide it for you when you can't 1145 00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 4: provide it for yourself. That accountability. That won'ta hit me, 1146 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:46,480 Speaker 4: that wanta. 1147 00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,879 Speaker 1: Hit right now. 1148 00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,080 Speaker 3: I got a friend when I need some help. 1149 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 1: The next thing we through is what I'm going through, 1150 00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:01,080 Speaker 1: in what I'm growing through, and I'll start this one. 1151 00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:10,319 Speaker 3: I am going through really seeing what. 1152 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,239 Speaker 1: Else is for me because I'm asking you what's next 1153 00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,520 Speaker 1: for Alex. I'm trying to figure out what's next for Crystal, 1154 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:18,480 Speaker 1: you know, and making sure that I'm not putting all 1155 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: my eggs in one basket. I'm growing through, walking through 1156 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,279 Speaker 1: seasons of uncertainty, you know, and it's kind of hard 1157 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:26,799 Speaker 1: when I'm much. 1158 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,000 Speaker 3: I like to control things. 1159 00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:29,640 Speaker 1: I like to know, Okay, this is where I'm going, 1160 00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,960 Speaker 1: this is what's next, is what I'm doing. But walking 1161 00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 1: and having faith is what I'm growing through right now. 1162 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,040 Speaker 2: So it's going going through and growing. 1163 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,399 Speaker 1: And sometimes it's the same for people. Sometimes whatever you're 1164 00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 1: going through, you're growing. 1165 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:43,040 Speaker 3: At the same time. 1166 00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:47,240 Speaker 4: So to piggyback, I'm going through an evolution stage. 1167 00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:50,360 Speaker 2: I don't even know what's happening. I just all honestly, 1168 00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:51,120 Speaker 2: every workout that I did. 1169 00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,359 Speaker 4: Last week I cried in my workouts, really break down 1170 00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,040 Speaker 4: and break through. I don't know what evolution is happening. 1171 00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 4: But God is like, yo, you're gonna take this next step. 1172 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:01,479 Speaker 4: In order to take it, you're gonna have to shed 1173 00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:03,720 Speaker 4: some weight throughout the process. I'm gonna have you break 1174 00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 4: down and I'm gonna have you break through. So I 1175 00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:09,360 Speaker 4: have no idea what this evolution stage is. I just 1176 00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,600 Speaker 4: know it's happening in real time. Yeah, so that's what 1177 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:16,240 Speaker 4: I'm going through. I guess that's what I'm going through. 1178 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:20,120 Speaker 3: To the Yeah, that's amazing. I have moments where I 1179 00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 3: literally like break down in my. 1180 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,680 Speaker 4: Workouts too, like tears of joy, like not sad I'm 1181 00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,680 Speaker 4: talking like tears of joy, where I'm just likefulness, hatefulness, 1182 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,560 Speaker 4: really thankful for the opportunity. I don't even see but 1183 00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,759 Speaker 4: I feel it's coming, you know what I'm saying. I 1184 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,680 Speaker 4: wanna see it, but I feel it. God's like, Yo, 1185 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:35,680 Speaker 4: you have to keep moving towards it. Get up and 1186 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:38,239 Speaker 4: get out, keep executing. I'm gonna give it to you, 1187 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 4: but you just can't. I'm throw in your lap. 1188 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,480 Speaker 2: You got to go get it. 1189 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:42,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. 1190 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:48,320 Speaker 1: The next thing we do is keep it blank, Sweetie. 1191 00:48:48,480 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna say, for this episode, keep it pushing, 1192 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:53,480 Speaker 1: sweety Okay. 1193 00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 2: Keep it pushing, keep it pure. I love it, Keep 1194 00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:57,040 Speaker 2: it pure. 1195 00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,800 Speaker 3: I love it. That's good. Alex has been amazing. 1196 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 2: Seriously, thank you. 1197 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,800 Speaker 3: Thank you guys so much for tuning into this episode. 1198 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:06,080 Speaker 3: To keep it positive, Sweetie. 1199 00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,879 Speaker 1: If you want to write into our Positive Outcomes listener letter, 1200 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 1: you can write in to keep it Positive Sweete at 1201 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,279 Speaker 1: gmail dot com and that's Sweetye with an Ie. You 1202 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,640 Speaker 1: can follow kIPS on all platforms at keep it Positive, Sweetie, 1203 00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,080 Speaker 1: and you can follow me on all platforms at Love 1204 00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:20,680 Speaker 1: Chris Orine and that's l u V. 1205 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:21,760 Speaker 3: Alex. 1206 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,080 Speaker 2: Tell the people where they can find you, Alex twenty 1207 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,840 Speaker 2: five on Instagram and a social media platforms. 1208 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,439 Speaker 3: That's all right, you guys, do not forget to get 1209 00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:29,040 Speaker 3: his books. 1210 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:29,880 Speaker 2: You get your coffree. 1211 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:31,719 Speaker 3: That's right. You not be disappointed. 1212 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,239 Speaker 1: Alex is always I'm so proud of you and I 1213 00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:34,879 Speaker 1: love you, my friend. 1214 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:36,200 Speaker 3: You. Thank you for coming. 1215 00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,640 Speaker 4: Come on, we gotta do this again next season. Well 1216 00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:40,800 Speaker 4: and we go through the next chapter of life and evolution. 1217 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,719 Speaker 4: I can sit down and be like, remember, here's what 1218 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,640 Speaker 4: I want this, here's what I want Right now. 1219 00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 3: I would love now know the audience with to thank you. 1220 00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:50,319 Speaker 3: I appreciate you so good. 1221 00:49:50,400 --> 00:50:01,520 Speaker 6: Look you guys, thank you so much for this fellowship. 1222 00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:04,480 Speaker 1: Thank you for letting Alice get here safely. Thank you 1223 00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:07,040 Speaker 1: for him keeping his promise to come on this episode. 1224 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:09,280 Speaker 1: I know that's going to touch many lives. He's already 1225 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:11,160 Speaker 1: done that, and I asked that you continue to watch 1226 00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,120 Speaker 1: over him, watch over everyone that has their hand on 1227 00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:13,880 Speaker 1: this podcast. 1228 00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 3: I asked that. 1229 00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:18,000 Speaker 1: Everything that we talk about today just help somebody in 1230 00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 1: some type of way. 1231 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,960 Speaker 3: In your name, we pray amen, let's do it.