Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: Ivy is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 2: Teater and she's been dating her boyfriend Travis for two
Speaker 2: years now, but she thinks something might be going on,
Speaker 2: so and see if we can help her out. Ivy,
Speaker 2: I'm sorry to hear that, but what's going on? Why
Speaker 2: do you think Travis is cheating?
Speaker 3: Thank you? Yeah, So I've just been like, so, I
Speaker 3: live with Travis and we don't share everything, but we
Speaker 3: do share some like bills and things. And one of
Speaker 3: the things that he gave me was the pin for
Speaker 3: his credit card account for emergencies and that kind of thing.
Speaker 3: So I ordered some stuff to the house and it
Speaker 3: hadn't turn up yet. So he was like, you know,
Speaker 3: check my account to see if it's been charged. And
Speaker 3: when I did, there were like other charges that I
Speaker 3: didn't recognize or understand that we're on there.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: So he's got like these department stores and like stores
Speaker 3: that he and I never go to. They were like
Speaker 3: cash withdrawals and like your cash advances and just all
Speaker 3: of these different places that we never shot at and
Speaker 3: I've never seen this stuff. So he's buying all this
Speaker 3: stuff and it's not in our house. I don't know,
Speaker 3: Like I just feel like if he was moaning people money,
Speaker 3: he would say something to me about it, right.
Speaker 1: Is that what he said that he was doing? When
Speaker 1: did you ask him about this?
Speaker 3: So I have been asked in about it? Right? So
Speaker 3: I just because part of it is like I was
Speaker 3: sort of snooping in it, you know, you know, like
Speaker 3: because he just he gave me that for emergencies, and
Speaker 3: so I happened to look across it while I was
Speaker 3: checking the one purchase, and so I didn't want to
Speaker 3: like bring that off. But I kind of think that
Speaker 3: it is a cheating thing because he's also got this
Speaker 3: girl at the office that is bothering me. Oh why
Speaker 3: is she bothering you? First of all, like any time
Speaker 3: that I go to any company function or if I
Speaker 3: stop by and see him at work or whatever, like
Speaker 3: she always is looking at him some kind of way,
Speaker 3: Like she's always like laughing at his jokes. She's always like,
Speaker 3: you know, just right in his presence, and I just
Speaker 3: feel like she's using any excuse she can to get
Speaker 3: around him. And then there was a time that I
Speaker 3: went to see him at his office and his door
Speaker 3: was closed, and when I went in, it was just
Speaker 3: him and her alone in there. Oh yeah, and she
Speaker 3: just takes off and she doesn't say a word to me.
Speaker 3: She just leaves, like she said, excuse me to grow
Speaker 3: out the door. And that's it.
Speaker 1: That's shady. Oh yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean, clearly she's got a thing for your man.
Speaker 4: But how does he react when she's around closed doors?
Speaker 4: We don't love that, but how does he act around her?
Speaker 3: So, like he hasn't said much about it, and I
Speaker 3: haven't like done a lot in terms of accusing it
Speaker 3: because I'm kind of just starting to suspect a number
Speaker 3: of these things, but like mostly it's the bank account, right, So,
Speaker 3: like I'm worried about saying something. I'm worried that this
Speaker 3: is going to turn into like this is not the
Speaker 3: first one that I have been cheated on, and I'm
Speaker 3: just worried it's got turned into this whole other thing.
Speaker 3: Like I was divorced before I met him, and that
Speaker 3: was from cheating.
Speaker 1: And does he know that?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: He does, Yeah, yeah, And if he knows that, he should,
Speaker 2: you know, be understanding of concerns that you have and
Speaker 2: hear you out at least and not like make you
Speaker 2: feel bad for it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I just I guess I'm just afraid to
Speaker 3: like find out exactly what it is. And it's like
Speaker 3: I was cheated on for years before and it was
Speaker 3: like I just don't want that to go on and
Speaker 3: on and on for years again this time around. So
Speaker 3: I'm trying to like build my case to confront it
Speaker 3: early as opposed to just mentioned a suspicion. He's like,
Speaker 3: oh no, no, no, and then I believe him for
Speaker 3: another year, Like I prepare do that.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, you already told us a grocery store he's
Speaker 2: a rewards card member at. So we'll play a song
Speaker 2: come back, and then call him and pretend to be
Speaker 2: from the grocery store and say that he's this month's
Speaker 2: lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our Florida department,
Speaker 2: and we'll see if he sends those to you or
Speaker 2: somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, we'll play a song
Speaker 2: come back, and get your to Catch a Theater next
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Teeter.
Speaker 2: Ivy is on the phone and she thinks that her
Speaker 2: boyfriend Travis of two years might be messing around so
Speaker 2: we're about to call him and pretend to be from
Speaker 2: the grocery store that he's a rewards card member at
Speaker 2: and say that every single month, we choose one lucky
Speaker 2: rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department,
Speaker 2: and we'll see he sends those to IVY or to
Speaker 2: somebody else. Before we do that, Ivy, why don't you
Speaker 2: catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3: Basically, Travis gave me the pin for his credit card account,
Speaker 3: and when I went to check with purchase, I saw
Speaker 3: that he had purchased a whole bunch of things that
Speaker 3: aren't in our house and that I've never seen in
Speaker 3: our stores. We never go to and cash advances, and
Speaker 3: just like a lot of money with coming out of
Speaker 3: discount and I don't know where it's going or who
Speaker 3: it's going to. And I'm suspecting this girl that's at
Speaker 3: his office who is like clearly into him.
Speaker 1: What's the girl at his office's name?
Speaker 3: Patricia?
Speaker 1: Okay, hell, I hope it's not. It's not shy, but
Speaker 1: let's see here. Are you ready? I'm ready? Okay, here
Speaker 1: we go.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, this is horrible calling for I was looking
Speaker 2: for a rewards card member named Travis.
Speaker 1: Uh, yeah, this is Pee Travis. How you doing.
Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling you with good news. Congratulations, you're this
Speaker 2: month's big winner. Thank you very much for shopping with us.
Speaker 2: We're all happy and clapp Before you overhear, I was
Speaker 2: informing you that you're this month's big winner of free
Speaker 2: flowers delivered for a floor department. Every single month we
Speaker 2: choose one Lucky Rewards card member, and it's you this month.
Speaker 2: And you've just won thirty six long stem red roses,
Speaker 2: a box of candy, your chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty
Speaker 2: United States of America. It's a three hundred and sixteen
Speaker 2: dollars value. Congratulations.
Speaker 5: Wow, okay, thanks.
Speaker 1: Well, thank you for shopping with us.
Speaker 5: I had no idea to see is the thing you
Speaker 5: guys did? But all right, awesome.
Speaker 2: So first thing I will leave you be the first
Speaker 2: and last name of the person you'd like to send
Speaker 2: them to. Yeah, Gen, Gen, And is there anything you'd
Speaker 2: like to put on a card to?
Speaker 1: Gen?
Speaker 3: Sure?
Speaker 5: Hey, kid, really proud of the how far you've gotten.
Speaker 2: Keep it up and the ending on that you want
Speaker 2: to is it a love regards.
Speaker 3: Love Travis? Sure.
Speaker 2: And now I'll just let you know that this is
Speaker 2: not the grocery store. This is actually the Jewbill Show.
Speaker 2: It's a radio show. My name is Jewbel.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Nina.
Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2: And this is a segment we do call to Catch
Speaker 2: a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might
Speaker 2: be messing around, see who they send flowers to? And
Speaker 2: your girlfriend Ivy is actually on the phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah, hih hi, So like, what's up? What's your sister?
Speaker 3: Can you? Can you talk to me about that? Like?
Speaker 3: Why are you buying your sister flowers? Why are you
Speaker 3: not getting money flowers? What's going on?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 4: So Jenna is your sister?
Speaker 5: Yeah Ivy, Wait a second, what's happening? Why why are
Speaker 5: you calling a radio station? And what would be wrong
Speaker 5: with me giving gen flowers?
Speaker 3: I'm calling them because I look. I looked on the
Speaker 3: bank statement and the charges on your card makes no sense.
Speaker 3: There's large, large charges on your card and there's something
Speaker 3: up and you're not telling me. And I need to
Speaker 3: know what's going on because it makes no sense where
Speaker 3: you're spending money. It makes no sense. How much you're
Speaker 3: spending money and something is up and you're not telling me.
Speaker 3: And this is how I'm finding out.
Speaker 5: I gave you that card for immersions he purchases IVY
Speaker 5: like stuff for us and stuff that you might need.
Speaker 5: Why are you looking through the statements? That's not your business.
Speaker 3: Okay, you're making yourself look worse right now.
Speaker 5: I'm meaning myself what you called a radio station because
Speaker 5: you're like cheating on you? What do you want?
Speaker 3: Are you giving me evidence to that effect? What are
Speaker 3: you like? You've not given me any evidence to the opposite.
Speaker 5: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Okay, he says, where why are you spending so much
Speaker 3: in like all these places last week, the week before,
Speaker 3: Like what's been going on? Wow?
Speaker 5: I didn't think I was going to get interrogated for
Speaker 5: things that I did with my own money, not that
Speaker 5: this is public information. But Jen's been having a hard time.
Speaker 5: She lost her job and she's needed a little help, okay,
Speaker 5: and I'm a brother and I helped her out. Samantha
Speaker 5: also needed some school supplies and she's my niece.
Speaker 3: What am I going to do?
Speaker 2: Say?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: Okay, well you probably could have told iv that. I mean,
Speaker 4: you know her history. So you did the right thing
Speaker 4: by taking care of your family, no doubt. But your girlfriend,
Speaker 4: who you love right has a history of cheating, and
Speaker 4: that for her to feel concerned right now, So.
Speaker 5: She also has a history of like looking up a
Speaker 5: credit card statement.
Speaker 4: I get that she don't love that, but that's the
Speaker 4: conversation for another day.
Speaker 1: Right now.
Speaker 4: Right now, we're just trying to find out if you're cheating,
Speaker 4: and it's looking like you're not.
Speaker 3: No, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 5: No. I you know, it's really messed up because you know,
Speaker 5: she didn't even come to me. My mother came to
Speaker 5: me and was like, you need to help your sister,
Speaker 5: and she I had to like beg her to take
Speaker 5: the money because she wouldn't take it.
Speaker 3: Why the hell are you even helping her though, Like,
Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense. She never shut anything, but she
Speaker 3: never knew anything for you. She has She never talks
Speaker 3: about you, She never mentioned you. She's never spent time
Speaker 3: with you. You guys don't hang out. She's done nothing
Speaker 3: fort you. Like, why are you helping her? It makes
Speaker 3: no sense.
Speaker 5: She's blood, we grew up together.
Speaker 3: She's my younger sister.
Speaker 5: We don't hang in the same crowds, but doesn't mean
Speaker 5: I don't love her.
Speaker 1: So are you upset that he's helping his sister? I
Speaker 1: don't care.
Speaker 3: I'm upset because he helps people who just take stuff
Speaker 3: from him and freeload off of him, and he just
Speaker 3: lets people roll over him and use his money instead
Speaker 3: of getting off their apps and getting a job. And
Speaker 3: all they do is ask him for handouts, and he's
Speaker 3: like more than happy to give away his money to
Speaker 3: those people. And she said.
Speaker 5: She had two jobs, she got fired from one of them.
Speaker 5: What am I supposed to do?
Speaker 4: We are we supposed to just be happy that he's
Speaker 4: not cheating, like I thought that was what we were
Speaker 4: worried about right now, not the fact that he's seeking
Speaker 4: care of us.
Speaker 3: He's trying to manage my money, Like what is this?
Speaker 3: This is my money? Like I'm still not sold on that. Okay,
Speaker 3: maybe he's helping a sister, which he shouldn't know what
Speaker 3: I was talking to me about regard to Pruven that
Speaker 3: he's lying, which makes no sense. So we've already got that,
Speaker 3: So what is what else is he lying about? Because
Speaker 3: I still think that Patricia's in the mix. But wh
Speaker 3: what are you talking about? Ivy, which is married has
Speaker 3: two children, and I'm find with her husband. What are
Speaker 3: you doing? You know you do not you have a
Speaker 3: single woman to wreck your home like you can be
Speaker 3: wrecking her home and are okay?
Speaker 5: I you need.
Speaker 1: Ivy.
Speaker 2: I've realized you've got some trust issues, but you also
Speaker 2: if you're gonna be in a relationship, have to be
Speaker 2: able to trust the person you're with. If nothing, like,
Speaker 2: you need to look at the situation. Is it is
Speaker 2: it really shady or is it you making up understandable
Speaker 2: stories about things that could be happening.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the one that is lying, like spending his
Speaker 3: money and going after one with him any credit, tell you.
Speaker 5: Table conversation about it.
Speaker 1: I think you guys.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys definitely need to have a much bigger conversation.
Speaker 2: And Ivy and Travis sorry to say this, but I
Speaker 2: honestly straight up feel like you may not be ready
Speaker 2: to be in a relationship yet.
Speaker 1: I know you've been in one for two years, but no.
Speaker 5: Fine print.
Speaker 3: No, he's the one that's trying to like two things
Speaker 3: behind my back.
Speaker 4: I really hope you guys talk before you really decide
Speaker 4: on what you're gonna do.
Speaker 5: Yeah, good luck, goods finding someone who takes all of
Speaker 5: your ship and they both hung up, So.
Speaker 4: That turned into a lot more than cheating. Yeah, maybe
Speaker 4: almost worse. Ju Bill had a really good point though, that.
Speaker 1: She needs to be able to trust. If she's got
Speaker 1: trust issues, you gotta work through that first.
Speaker 2: And also, if you're with someone will trust issues over,
Speaker 2: communication is key. So if you didn't want that to happen,
Speaker 2: maybe just share with her the thing about the sister
Speaker 2: so that she doesn't have to find out about it
Speaker 2: after the fact, because that's always worse with someone will
Speaker 2: trust issues. Absolutely either way, well, I hope they figure
Speaker 2: out something that's better for them, and communication is everything
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