1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show. 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 2: Ivy is on the phone today for to Catch a 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: Teater and she's been dating her boyfriend Travis for two 4 00:00:10,320 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 2: years now, but she thinks something might be going on, 5 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: so and see if we can help her out. Ivy, 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 2: I'm sorry to hear that, but what's going on? Why 7 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: do you think Travis is cheating? 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:24,479 Speaker 3: Thank you? Yeah, So I've just been like, so, I 9 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 3: live with Travis and we don't share everything, but we 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 3: do share some like bills and things. And one of 11 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 3: the things that he gave me was the pin for 12 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 3: his credit card account for emergencies and that kind of thing. 13 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 3: So I ordered some stuff to the house and it 14 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 3: hadn't turn up yet. So he was like, you know, 15 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 3: check my account to see if it's been charged. And 16 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 3: when I did, there were like other charges that I 17 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 3: didn't recognize or understand that we're on there. 18 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: Okay. 19 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: So he's got like these department stores and like stores 20 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 3: that he and I never go to. They were like 21 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 3: cash withdrawals and like your cash advances and just all 22 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 3: of these different places that we never shot at and 23 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 3: I've never seen this stuff. So he's buying all this 24 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 3: stuff and it's not in our house. I don't know, 25 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 3: Like I just feel like if he was moaning people money, 26 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 3: he would say something to me about it, right. 27 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: Is that what he said that he was doing? When 28 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: did you ask him about this? 29 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 3: So I have been asked in about it? Right? So 30 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 3: I just because part of it is like I was 31 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 3: sort of snooping in it, you know, you know, like 32 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 3: because he just he gave me that for emergencies, and 33 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 3: so I happened to look across it while I was 34 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 3: checking the one purchase, and so I didn't want to 35 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 3: like bring that off. But I kind of think that 36 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 3: it is a cheating thing because he's also got this 37 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 3: girl at the office that is bothering me. Oh why 38 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 3: is she bothering you? First of all, like any time 39 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 3: that I go to any company function or if I 40 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 3: stop by and see him at work or whatever, like 41 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 3: she always is looking at him some kind of way, 42 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 3: Like she's always like laughing at his jokes. She's always like, 43 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 3: you know, just right in his presence, and I just 44 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 3: feel like she's using any excuse she can to get 45 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 3: around him. And then there was a time that I 46 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 3: went to see him at his office and his door 47 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 3: was closed, and when I went in, it was just 48 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 3: him and her alone in there. Oh yeah, and she 49 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 3: just takes off and she doesn't say a word to me. 50 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 3: She just leaves, like she said, excuse me to grow 51 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 3: out the door. And that's it. 52 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: That's shady. Oh yeah. 53 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 4: I mean, clearly she's got a thing for your man. 54 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 4: But how does he react when she's around closed doors? 55 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 4: We don't love that, but how does he act around her? 56 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 3: So, like he hasn't said much about it, and I 57 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:55,359 Speaker 3: haven't like done a lot in terms of accusing it 58 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 3: because I'm kind of just starting to suspect a number 59 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 3: of these things, but like mostly it's the bank account, right, So, 60 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 3: like I'm worried about saying something. I'm worried that this 61 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 3: is going to turn into like this is not the 62 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 3: first one that I have been cheated on, and I'm 63 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 3: just worried it's got turned into this whole other thing. 64 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 3: Like I was divorced before I met him, and that 65 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 3: was from cheating. 66 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: And does he know that? 67 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 68 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 2: He does, Yeah, yeah, And if he knows that, he should, 69 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 2: you know, be understanding of concerns that you have and 70 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 2: hear you out at least and not like make you 71 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: feel bad for it. 72 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I just I guess I'm just afraid to 73 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 3: like find out exactly what it is. And it's like 74 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 3: I was cheated on for years before and it was 75 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 3: like I just don't want that to go on and 76 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: on and on for years again this time around. So 77 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 3: I'm trying to like build my case to confront it 78 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: early as opposed to just mentioned a suspicion. He's like, 79 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 3: oh no, no, no, and then I believe him for 80 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 3: another year, Like I prepare do that. 81 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 2: Okay, well, you already told us a grocery store he's 82 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 2: a rewards card member at. So we'll play a song 83 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 2: come back, and then call him and pretend to be 84 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: from the grocery store and say that he's this month's 85 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 2: lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our Florida department, 86 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: and we'll see if he sends those to you or 87 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 2: somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, we'll play a song 88 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 2: come back, and get your to Catch a Theater next 89 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 2: if you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Teeter. 90 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: Ivy is on the phone and she thinks that her 91 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 2: boyfriend Travis of two years might be messing around so 92 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: we're about to call him and pretend to be from 93 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: the grocery store that he's a rewards card member at 94 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:35,679 Speaker 2: and say that every single month, we choose one lucky 95 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 2: rewards member who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department, 96 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 2: and we'll see he sends those to IVY or to 97 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 2: somebody else. Before we do that, Ivy, why don't you 98 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 2: catch us up on your situation? 99 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 3: Basically, Travis gave me the pin for his credit card account, 100 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 3: and when I went to check with purchase, I saw 101 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 3: that he had purchased a whole bunch of things that 102 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 3: aren't in our house and that I've never seen in 103 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 3: our stores. We never go to and cash advances, and 104 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 3: just like a lot of money with coming out of 105 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 3: discount and I don't know where it's going or who 106 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 3: it's going to. And I'm suspecting this girl that's at 107 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 3: his office who is like clearly into him. 108 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: What's the girl at his office's name? 109 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 3: Patricia? 110 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: Okay, hell, I hope it's not. It's not shy, but 111 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:22,279 Speaker 1: let's see here. Are you ready? I'm ready? Okay, here 112 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 1: we go. 113 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, this is horrible calling for I was looking 114 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: for a rewards card member named Travis. 115 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: Uh, yeah, this is Pee Travis. How you doing. 116 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. 117 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: I'm actually calling you with good news. Congratulations, you're this 118 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 2: month's big winner. Thank you very much for shopping with us. 119 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: We're all happy and clapp Before you overhear, I was 120 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:54,920 Speaker 2: informing you that you're this month's big winner of free 121 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 2: flowers delivered for a floor department. Every single month we 122 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: choose one Lucky Rewards card member, and it's you this month. 123 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 2: And you've just won thirty six long stem red roses, 124 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: a box of candy, your chocolates, and a card to 125 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty 126 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:08,119 Speaker 2: United States of America. It's a three hundred and sixteen 127 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 2: dollars value. Congratulations. 128 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 5: Wow, okay, thanks. 129 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: Well, thank you for shopping with us. 130 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 5: I had no idea to see is the thing you 131 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 5: guys did? But all right, awesome. 132 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 2: So first thing I will leave you be the first 133 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 2: and last name of the person you'd like to send 134 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 2: them to. Yeah, Gen, Gen, And is there anything you'd 135 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 2: like to put on a card to? 136 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:30,840 Speaker 1: Gen? 137 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 3: Sure? 138 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 5: Hey, kid, really proud of the how far you've gotten. 139 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 2: Keep it up and the ending on that you want 140 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 2: to is it a love regards. 141 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 3: Love Travis? Sure. 142 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: And now I'll just let you know that this is 143 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 2: not the grocery store. This is actually the Jewbill Show. 144 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 2: It's a radio show. My name is Jewbel. 145 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 146 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Nina. 147 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria. 148 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 2: And this is a segment we do call to Catch 149 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 2: a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might 150 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 2: be messing around, see who they send flowers to? And 151 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 2: your girlfriend Ivy is actually on the phone. 152 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, hih hi, So like, what's up? What's your sister? 153 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 3: Can you? Can you talk to me about that? Like? 154 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 3: Why are you buying your sister flowers? Why are you 155 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 3: not getting money flowers? What's going on? 156 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: Wait? 157 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 4: So Jenna is your sister? 158 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 5: Yeah Ivy, Wait a second, what's happening? Why why are 159 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,559 Speaker 5: you calling a radio station? And what would be wrong 160 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 5: with me giving gen flowers? 161 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 3: I'm calling them because I look. I looked on the 162 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 3: bank statement and the charges on your card makes no sense. 163 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 3: There's large, large charges on your card and there's something 164 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 3: up and you're not telling me. And I need to 165 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 3: know what's going on because it makes no sense where 166 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 3: you're spending money. It makes no sense. How much you're 167 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 3: spending money and something is up and you're not telling me. 168 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 3: And this is how I'm finding out. 169 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 5: I gave you that card for immersions he purchases IVY 170 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 5: like stuff for us and stuff that you might need. 171 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 5: Why are you looking through the statements? That's not your business. 172 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 3: Okay, you're making yourself look worse right now. 173 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 5: I'm meaning myself what you called a radio station because 174 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 5: you're like cheating on you? What do you want? 175 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 3: Are you giving me evidence to that effect? What are 176 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 3: you like? You've not given me any evidence to the opposite. 177 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 178 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 3: Okay, he says, where why are you spending so much 179 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:31,119 Speaker 3: in like all these places last week, the week before, 180 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 3: Like what's been going on? Wow? 181 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 5: I didn't think I was going to get interrogated for 182 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 5: things that I did with my own money, not that 183 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 5: this is public information. But Jen's been having a hard time. 184 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 5: She lost her job and she's needed a little help, okay, 185 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:51,160 Speaker 5: and I'm a brother and I helped her out. Samantha 186 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 5: also needed some school supplies and she's my niece. 187 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 3: What am I going to do? 188 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:55,719 Speaker 2: Say? 189 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 3: No? 190 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 4: Okay, well you probably could have told iv that. I mean, 191 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 4: you know her history. So you did the right thing 192 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 4: by taking care of your family, no doubt. But your girlfriend, 193 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 4: who you love right has a history of cheating, and 194 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 4: that for her to feel concerned right now, So. 195 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 5: She also has a history of like looking up a 196 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 5: credit card statement. 197 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 4: I get that she don't love that, but that's the 198 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 4: conversation for another day. 199 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: Right now. 200 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 4: Right now, we're just trying to find out if you're cheating, 201 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 4: and it's looking like you're not. 202 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 3: No, I'm not cheating. 203 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 5: No. I you know, it's really messed up because you know, 204 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 5: she didn't even come to me. My mother came to 205 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 5: me and was like, you need to help your sister, 206 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 5: and she I had to like beg her to take 207 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:38,199 Speaker 5: the money because she wouldn't take it. 208 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 3: Why the hell are you even helping her though, Like, 209 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 3: it doesn't make sense. She never shut anything, but she 210 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 3: never knew anything for you. She has She never talks 211 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 3: about you, She never mentioned you. She's never spent time 212 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 3: with you. You guys don't hang out. She's done nothing 213 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 3: fort you. Like, why are you helping her? It makes 214 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 3: no sense. 215 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 5: She's blood, we grew up together. 216 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 3: She's my younger sister. 217 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 5: We don't hang in the same crowds, but doesn't mean 218 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 5: I don't love her. 219 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: So are you upset that he's helping his sister? I 220 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:05,679 Speaker 1: don't care. 221 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 3: I'm upset because he helps people who just take stuff 222 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 3: from him and freeload off of him, and he just 223 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 3: lets people roll over him and use his money instead 224 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 3: of getting off their apps and getting a job. And 225 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 3: all they do is ask him for handouts, and he's 226 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 3: like more than happy to give away his money to 227 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 3: those people. And she said. 228 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 5: She had two jobs, she got fired from one of them. 229 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 5: What am I supposed to do? 230 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 4: We are we supposed to just be happy that he's 231 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 4: not cheating, like I thought that was what we were 232 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 4: worried about right now, not the fact that he's seeking 233 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 4: care of us. 234 00:10:36,320 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 3: He's trying to manage my money, Like what is this? 235 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 3: This is my money? Like I'm still not sold on that. Okay, 236 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 3: maybe he's helping a sister, which he shouldn't know what 237 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 3: I was talking to me about regard to Pruven that 238 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 3: he's lying, which makes no sense. So we've already got that, 239 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 3: So what is what else is he lying about? Because 240 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 3: I still think that Patricia's in the mix. But wh 241 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 3: what are you talking about? Ivy, which is married has 242 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 3: two children, and I'm find with her husband. What are 243 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 3: you doing? You know you do not you have a 244 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 3: single woman to wreck your home like you can be 245 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 3: wrecking her home and are okay? 246 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 5: I you need. 247 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 1: Ivy. 248 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 2: I've realized you've got some trust issues, but you also 249 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 2: if you're gonna be in a relationship, have to be 250 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 2: able to trust the person you're with. If nothing, like, 251 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 2: you need to look at the situation. Is it is 252 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 2: it really shady or is it you making up understandable 253 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 2: stories about things that could be happening. 254 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's the one that is lying, like spending his 255 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 3: money and going after one with him any credit, tell you. 256 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 5: Table conversation about it. 257 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 1: I think you guys. 258 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys definitely need to have a much bigger conversation. 259 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 2: And Ivy and Travis sorry to say this, but I 260 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:02,720 Speaker 2: honestly straight up feel like you may not be ready 261 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 2: to be in a relationship yet. 262 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: I know you've been in one for two years, but no. 263 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 5: Fine print. 264 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,559 Speaker 3: No, he's the one that's trying to like two things 265 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 3: behind my back. 266 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 4: I really hope you guys talk before you really decide 267 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 4: on what you're gonna do. 268 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, good luck, goods finding someone who takes all of 269 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 5: your ship and they both hung up, So. 270 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 4: That turned into a lot more than cheating. Yeah, maybe 271 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 4: almost worse. Ju Bill had a really good point though, that. 272 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: She needs to be able to trust. If she's got 273 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: trust issues, you gotta work through that first. 274 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,080 Speaker 2: And also, if you're with someone will trust issues over, 275 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 2: communication is key. So if you didn't want that to happen, 276 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 2: maybe just share with her the thing about the sister 277 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 2: so that she doesn't have to find out about it 278 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 2: after the fact, because that's always worse with someone will 279 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 2: trust issues. Absolutely either way, well, I hope they figure 280 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 2: out something that's better for them, and communication is everything 281 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,960 Speaker 1: The Jubal shows to catch a cheater.