WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: I Got My Bullseye On You 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:02.080 Second date updated. 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:05.680 There's two types of people that you're going to meet 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:10.159 in the dating world. The neurotic uptight over planners like 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:13.400 Brook who have to schedule out every minute of the 0:00:13.560 --> 0:00:16.560 entire evening months in advance, or they won't even have 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:17.160 a good time. 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:17.720 Is that true? 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:20.880 I can't show up on time for anything, let alone 0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:22.840 like over planet. 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:23.799 Do you not know me? 0:00:24.000 --> 0:00:26.079 Brook was literally yelling at me to put it in 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:26.760 your schedule. 0:00:26.840 --> 0:00:29.960 Chap, put it in your schedule, and you're gonna forget you. 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:33.680 Have to travel for work and you're not gonna show up. 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:37.760 Okay, neurotic and then there's the chill suave go with 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:38.600 the flow. 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:39.720 Types like me. 0:00:40.040 --> 0:00:43.800 I knew that they can make a good time happen 0:00:43.920 --> 0:00:47.600 with anyone in any bathroom at any truck stop. 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:51.720 At any time. That's my promise. The tea has to 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:52.440 be a truck stop. 0:00:53.040 --> 0:00:55.520 And one of our listeners says he's also the go 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:58.240 with the flow type, but he's worried it may have 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:01.440 been his undoing on his date. His name is Russell, 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:03.240 but we're gonna call him Russ, and he's not going 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:04.680 to fight us because he's chill with it. 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:06.880 What's up, Russ? 0:01:06.920 --> 0:01:09.960 Nothing much. Yes, I am gonna go with the flow, dude, 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:10.560 that's for sure. 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:17.839 Guy, Russ is just like water. What I got it? Okay, 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:19.480 Then to every need. 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:23.240 Container, we have to turn this into like a physics 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:27.360 lest is the opposite of him. Yeah, let's let's let 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:29.520 me lead this conversation the chill type. 0:01:29.560 --> 0:01:31.039 So, Russ, why don't you tell us about how you 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:33.400 how you met this person that you went out with. 0:01:33.440 --> 0:01:35.240 What's her name by the way, her. 0:01:35.200 --> 0:01:38.200 Name is Whitney, Okay, and how did you meet her? 0:01:38.680 --> 0:01:41.360 Well, we met at this place. I probably shouldn't say 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:43.920 the name, but it's one of those drinking and dark places, 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:44.440 a bar. 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:47.920 Yeah, well, I know that's what I was thinking to you. 0:01:50.360 --> 0:01:54.000 I mean it's one of those newer places that electronically 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:57.160 keep score of the darts as you go, like you 0:01:57.280 --> 0:02:00.400 know that place pop golf. Yeah, yeah, it's like that, 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:01.440 but for dark. 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:05.480 So again, it's just taking like old bar games and 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:08.760 charging better, charging people more for able excess. 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:10.000 But yeah, I met Whitney there. 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:13.400 I was there with coworkers and she was part of 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:14.320 the group next to us. 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:16.000 You just met her in the wild. 0:02:17.440 --> 0:02:18.959 In the wild, how. 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:20.519 Did you approach her? Like, how did you guys, strike 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:21.320 up a conversation. 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:25.200 I'm super totally naturally. Like, there's these tables between our 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:27.440 groups and we were sharing them to set drinks on 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.920 and she set hers down and I was just like 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:32.320 said to her, how's it going? You know? That's it? 0:02:32.560 --> 0:02:33.440 Good pickup line? 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:33.959 Nice? 0:02:34.400 --> 0:02:36.400 Yeah, And she just leaned in and said, I'm just 0:02:36.440 --> 0:02:38.880 going really good. And she whispered to me. She said, 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:39.799 because I'm cheating. 0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:45.360 How do you cheat at an electronic games? 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:51.760 You're talking about darts, not about like relationships, right, funny, 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:52.520 that's awesome. 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:54.560 Were you able to get a date out of that 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:56.639 meeting or is this your one hangout? 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.800 Yeah? I asked her as it was coming to a close, 0:02:58.840 --> 0:03:00.480 I was like, hey, do you want to have Can 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:01.720 I get your phone? Ever? We want to hang out 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:06.399 sometime And she said yes. 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:07.600 That's awesome. So you spun that into a date a 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:09.120 few days later? Is that what happened? 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:10.240 Yeah? The next week? 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:11.640 Okay, what'd you guys do? 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:14.960 I didn't have a plan. I just said I'll come 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.040 pick you up if you're comfortable with that, and we 0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:19.600 can just drive into the city and figure out something 0:03:19.600 --> 0:03:19.800 to do. 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:21.880 Or there's a lot of truck stops outside of the city, 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:25.880 which also guide you to that. But you know, city 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:28.760 is one way to do it. Where'd you go? 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:31.480 Well, so we drove in and I wasn't hungry, and 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:33.000 then I asked her if she wanted to get something 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:34.880 to eat, and she said she wasn't hungry either. 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:38.640 Oh, never trust that you didn't you should have still 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:39.240 bought her food. 0:03:39.240 --> 0:03:40.720 Bro, I've learned from that mistake. 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:42.760 So what did you guys? Did you go get a 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:43.560 drink somewhere? 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:45.160 I was like, yeah, let's go get a drink. And 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:47.000 she's really not actually a big drinker. And it was 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.120 a week night and I was like, all right, so 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:52.360 no drinking, no food. I don't want to go sit 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:55.280 in a movie theater, you know. So we just drove around. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:55.560 You know. 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:57.360 Sorry, wait, you you did what? 0:03:58.480 --> 0:04:00.640 We drove around? That's it. 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:02.880 That was the day, just driving for how long? 0:04:05.040 --> 0:04:07.400 About an hour and less than an hour and a half. 0:04:09.280 --> 0:04:11.040 Was on like a pretty road or is this stop 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:11.760 like traffic? 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:15.240 Does that make a difference to you slightly? 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.320 I mean it was night and there were stop lights. 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:21.039 There was not some scenic drive in the country. No, 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:23.239 it was driving around in the city. 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:26.640 Okay, So now do you regret not having a plan. 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:32.000 Yes, honestly, she would admit it. 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:33.640 Well, how did that night end? 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:34.000 Like? 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:35.680 Was it just driving the whole time? 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:39.880 Yes, that's about it. But but it wasn't as awkward 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:42.119 as it sounds like. That's the thing. We were talking 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:45.360 about our family, talking about our lives or work, and 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:48.000 you know, she was laughing. I was laughing, So it 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.320 wasn't like as painful as it sounds. 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:53.120 But I also I also wonder if it wasn't painful 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:55.440 for you because you had something else to do, like drive, 0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:57.479 She's just sitting there. 0:04:57.720 --> 0:04:59.120 It suggests something at that point. 0:05:00.200 --> 0:05:02.480 Maybe we ended on a high note when they finished 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:03.000 the evening. 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:04.000 How did you guys leave it? 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:08.200 I dropped her off and we said we would do 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:12.680 it again. Do that again, no, I said, I joked, 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:14.640 and I said, you know, next time we'll have a destination. 0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:16.520 And she was into it, you know. I said, let's 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.400 get to dinner, let's be hungry. Maybe a weekend. 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:21.440 And since then, how many times have you driven by 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:22.320 her house quietly? 0:05:24.600 --> 0:05:27.839 Okay, I'm just kidding. 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:29.040 How long has. 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:33.360 It been since since that night? It's been just. 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:36.760 Over a week, okay, and you've heard nothing or little. 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:40.400 Bit I only text her twice. She responded to the 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:41.920 first text and not to the second one. I'm not 0:05:41.960 --> 0:05:42.960 going to keep bugging her. 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:44.320 Yeah you can. 0:05:44.600 --> 0:05:46.040 We're gonna You're gonna let us bugger. 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:47.039 Yeah. 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:50.120 So we're gonna come back and we're going to try 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:51.640 and play it cool and suave. 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:53.120 But we're going to take a page out. 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:55.440 Of Brooks dating life and have a little bit of 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:57.760 a plan and ask her questions. 0:05:58.279 --> 0:05:58.880 Small plan. 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:02.960 We won't yell at her and demand that she put 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:04.400 it in the calendar. 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:07.600 But more effective, wellfly. 0:06:06.839 --> 0:06:08.680 Approach her and try and get you a second date 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:09.920 update right after this. 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:14.080 Okay, all right, man, hold on second date update. 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:18.200 You know what, I'm proud of our listener, Russell, because 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:21.599 he listens to his dates and gives them exactly what 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:28.080 they want. Whitney said she wasn't hungry, no food. She said, 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:30.480 she wasn't thirsty, no drinks. 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:34.279 She said she didn't really feel like doing anything. 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:37.040 And her wish is his command. They're just gonna drive 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:39.360 around the city and talk and talk. 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:42.919 Until they bore themselves to tears. Your wish is his command. 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.200 Until she said, Okay, I think it's time to drive 0:06:45.240 --> 0:06:46.960 me home, right home. 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:48.719 Exactly what he did. 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:51.640 So why isn't our man getting a call back today? 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:54.920 I just hope she doesn't complain that he didn't set 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.400 anything up and plan out a date, because if he does, 0:06:57.600 --> 0:06:59.400 I'm gonna have to rush to his defense. 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:03.000 Brook if that happens, Would that turn you on too much? 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:06.760 Because I could dial back my natural heroic qualities. 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:09.360 If that's going to be a problem, I see. 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:11.160 I didn't know what you're referring me to be turned 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:13.560 on by my heroism? 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:14.760 That oozes out of my. 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:19.320 I feel safe, okay. 0:07:18.760 --> 0:07:20.120 Russell, do you feel safe? 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:21.680 I feel safe? 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:23.240 Okay, yeah, Russell. 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:25.120 I mean I think we know what we're gonna hear here, 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:26.960 but I think it's going to be easy to get 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:27.720 you another chick. 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:28.720 What are we going to hear here? 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:31.440 That she was bored? It was a boring date? 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:33.920 Why do you always bring them down right before we do? 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:35.720 Why do you always do that? 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:37.560 I think she's gonna I think it's going to be 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:40.520 a scheduling conflict and she wasn't bored at all, or 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.680 she's married and you were just a side piece. 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:44.560 Okay, I'm the one bringing the. 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:48.080 Moon between there. There, we'll find it. Okay, let's hope. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:49.160 There's somewhere in between there. 0:07:49.640 --> 0:07:51.840 The part is actually kind of good news. It's not 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:53.920 your fault that. 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:54.880 Because they didn't kiss. 0:07:55.400 --> 0:07:56.920 I don't know, did you guys kiss? 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:59.760 No, we didn't because. 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:02.119 She didn't ask for a kiss. If she had asked 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:03.760 for one, though, he would have planted one on her. 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:09.000 Yeah, that's still cheating, like my husband drive for an 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:11.400 hour with a random woman in a car that. 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:15.840 Went Michael, if you're listening, turn the car round. Now, 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:17.160 we gotta get back to business. 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:17.320 Here. 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:19.280 We're gonna call Whitney. Let's dial her number and see 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:29.160 if she picks up. Here we go, Hello, Hi, We're 0:08:29.160 --> 0:08:30.760 looking to speak to Whitney. 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:34.920 Speaking Hello Whitney. 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:37.480 Hi, who's this. 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:40.600 We like the sound of your voice. We're a radio show. 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:41.800 She's got what. 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:46.600 We're a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:47.000 the Morning. 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:50.320 Are you serious? Yeah? 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:52.599 Not all the time, but right now, Okay. 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:53.320 We're wacky. 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:57.360 We do try and do some fun stuff like Alexis 0:08:57.360 --> 0:08:58.040 tell him about it. 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:03.600 We call people good good. 0:09:04.160 --> 0:09:05.559 Good question. Because we do. 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:08.520 This segment is called a second date update, and that's 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:11.640 where we try and help listeners get another date after 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:13.719 they went out with someone one time and want to 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:14.360 see him again. 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:17.920 Oh okay, that makes sense. 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:20.880 So one of our listeners has asked us to reach 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:22.400 out to you specifically. 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:26.520 His name is Russell. Oh you remember Russell. You guys 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:27.959 like drove around the city for a while. 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:29.880 He asked you out after you guys met at that 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:30.400 dart bar. 0:09:31.280 --> 0:09:31.839 Yeah, we did. 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:36.320 I was out with my sister, my best friend, her husband, 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:37.000 and you. 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:38.800 Know, well that's great, but we want to talk about 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:40.760 Russell a little bit because. 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:43.120 Yeah, but we do know your sister is probably great. 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:43.480 She's awesome. 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:46.439 Yeah, the whole family, I'm sure. But what did you 0:09:46.520 --> 0:09:48.400 think of Russell on your guys' date? 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:54.080 He was okay, okay, okay looking. 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:55.360 Oh oh. 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:57.440 Just call him ugly. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:00.800 It's better than okay, okay, hold on, though he pulls 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:01.560 up to your house. 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:03.600 I mean, you'd already met him in person and agreed 0:10:03.640 --> 0:10:05.320 to the date. It's not like you didn't know what 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:05.880 he looked like. 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:11.760 Yeah, but I didn't know fully about him. But after 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:14.640 driving around for an hour, I really learned a lot. 0:10:15.200 --> 0:10:16.880 And sometimes that's positive. 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:18.679 Sometimes that can be. 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:21.880 Negative, okay, And it can't change the way you're attracted 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:22.960 to someone, that's for sure. 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.319 So what did you learn that changed your mind about him? 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.560 He lived with his parents? 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:37.160 Oh well that was okaytable. 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:37.319 He's co dependent on his parents. 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:40.240 Who wait wait wait, wait, go hold on. I think 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:41.120 it's pretty common. 0:10:41.320 --> 0:10:44.479 I mean yeah, I mean we've definitely heard other listeners 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:46.560 come on the show that have said that they lived 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:48.280 with their parents and they're saving up a lot of 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:52.360 money so they could buy like a nice house, sures live. 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:53.080 In between roommates. 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:55.360 I mean, there's so many different reasons why you would 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:56.880 find yourself back in that position. 0:10:57.080 --> 0:10:58.920 We thought it may have been something that he like 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:02.360 did wrong on the date, but he didn't do anything wrong. 0:11:02.360 --> 0:11:03.160 It sounds like. 0:11:03.720 --> 0:11:05.880 No, no, no, he didn't do anything wrong. But he 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:07.679 needs to have his own place, He needs to be 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:08.160 able to. 0:11:08.040 --> 0:11:08.839 Provide, Okay. 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:10.240 I mean, I know we've heard that as a deal 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:13.040 breaker and a hangar for certain people, But like, I mean, 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:14.640 I can understan why you wouldn't want to bring that 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:17.080 up to him during the date. You really think that's 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:20.640 something where you would not even consider seeing him anymore 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:21.840 because he lives with his parents. 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:23.680 It's a deal breaker. 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:25.880 How come? Like, why is it for you? 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:29.240 Because he needs to have his own money, he needs 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:31.720 to have this stuff together just a little bit more. 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:36.480 Okay, you're like an independent woman who's out on your own, 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:39.120 making your own life, and you want somebody that matches 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:39.679 that energy. 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:40.320 Yeah. 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:44.120 I do wonder what Russell would have to say about that, 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:46.920 because I need to let you know, Whitney, he is 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:48.040 on the other line listening. 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:48.800 He is. 0:11:49.840 --> 0:12:00.000 Yeah, another thing we do, right, But Russell is there? 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:02.480 All right? I think, Yes, I am on the line, 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:05.360 and I'm just it blows me away to hear you 0:12:05.440 --> 0:12:08.320 say that because one of the things I learned about 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:12.320 Whitney is that she also lives with her parents. 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:16.360 Wait what, Oh, yes, I do live with your parents? 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:16.960 You do? 0:12:17.120 --> 0:12:18.360 Yes, Yes, I do? 0:12:19.679 --> 0:12:22.640 What hold on you mean? What do you mean you 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:24.079 live with your parents, Whitney? 0:12:24.480 --> 0:12:27.600 I mean I live with my mom and my dad. 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:30.080 One of us needs to have our own planes. 0:12:30.559 --> 0:12:31.760 I honestly kind of get her on that. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:33.240 It'd be really hard to date if you both lived 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.040 with your parents. 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:36.960 Judge somebody else for. 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:37.760 It, hypocritical. 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:39.280 I can, and I do. 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:41.640 Okay, So what. 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:43.720 We're learning here is the reason that you're not going 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:46.400 out with Russell is because he lives with his family, 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:48.920 even though you also live with your family. 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:50.680 That's a deal breaker for you. 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:54.840 Exactly, why, Okay, how are we going to hang out? 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:56.400 How are we going to hang out? 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:56.800 You know? 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:57.040 Where? 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:58.960 Am I gonna hoot dinner for im? 0:12:59.000 --> 0:12:59.240 At? 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:01.319 It's kind of sexy if you think about it, If 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:02.880 you're like, so, do you want to go back to 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:04.640 your mom's house or my mom's house? 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:07.640 I could see how that would really set in for you. 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:10.800 After you spend just an hour in his car together. 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:13.040 Exactly, you're going to spend a lot more. 0:13:12.920 --> 0:13:13.839 Hours and cars together. 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:14.160 Yeah. 0:13:14.480 --> 0:13:16.440 I would have gone back with him to his house, 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:18.000 but we didn't have anywhere to go. 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:21.760 Okay, Oh Russell, you're staying awfully quiet during this. 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:26.160 To her, I think this was completely ridiculous, Like we 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.280 should be closer to one another because we have the 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:30.040 same situation. We're trying to. 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:30.559 Get out of it. 0:13:31.080 --> 0:13:34.679 Things are crazy now and I am saving towards a goal, okay, 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:36.559 And it's like, I just don't know why you put 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:39.120 that on me completely. It just seems really like a 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:39.800 double standard. 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:40.360 Yeah. 0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:42.760 I put it on you because you're the man and 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:44.320 you need to get this done. 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:48.120 Yeah, okay, this nineteen fifty. 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:52.200 I mean, well, we're coming heading back a lot of 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:53.199 legal ways. 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:55.559 So if we get out of that conversation, I mean 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:57.640 maybe Russell, you just have a better like you have 0:13:57.679 --> 0:13:59.760 a plan of how you guys would hang out, and 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:00.920 maybe that would change your mind. 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:03.560 It's a good idea. We can move forward from this. 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:06.040 Yeah, Like, how would you guys hang out if you 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:07.440 both live at your parents' house? 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:12.120 Really good question. That is a good question. 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:16.520 I mean, as the man, how would you step up 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:18.959 and provide a place to hang out for her? 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:22.200 I mean we could go on dates, get to know 0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:25.400 one another, and then go to the coach. You know, 0:14:25.200 --> 0:14:27.800 you travel a lot. There's a lot of times where 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:28.640 they're not going to be home. 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.520 Get into a real solution. Two point zero. 0:14:32.600 --> 0:14:35.040 Yeah, I get the house to yourself one time, or 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:37.920 if they are home, tie a bandana around the doorknob 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:39.880 and tell mom and dad to go watch a movie. 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:45.040 That's probably a thing in Jeffrey's house is a sad part. 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:47.640 We've got a lot of colorful I. 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:49.280 Feel like his mom uses it more than he does. 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:53.440 I'm not going to that room there. It seems like 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:56.080 you guys have this thing in common. People die to 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:58.320 find things that they have in common with people in 0:14:58.360 --> 0:14:59.200 the dating world. 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:03.120 If you can leave an hour hanging out in the 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:05.720 car and still think that this is a fun person 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:07.600 you want to be with, you may be missing out. 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:08.840 You don't want to throw that away. 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:10.720 That's why we'd love to offer to send you guys 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:13.200 out on another date to somewhere outside of both of 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.400 your parents' homes, and we would pay for it. 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:18.840 If you're up for giving him another chance, Whitney, nothing has. 0:15:18.800 --> 0:15:21.960 Changed since the start of this conversation. If he gets 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:24.240 out of his parents' house, maybe we can talk then. 0:15:25.320 --> 0:15:27.000 Sorry, Russell, it looks like we're not going to be 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:28.680 able to get you a second date here. 0:15:29.040 --> 0:15:30.200 Parents ruined it again. 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:35.200 Jeff Hey, if you have any cute friends that have 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:36.840 their own place, let me know. 0:15:37.480 --> 0:15:39.320 Come though. 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:47.200 Yeah, Jose's got his own place, Freaking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:48.680 What a disappointment, man. 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:53.800 I think she's really not seeing the benefits of this situations. 0:15:55.760 --> 0:15:58.160 I remember hooking up at my parents place when I 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:01.600 was fifteen. You don't think it's gonna be just as 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:03.320 exciting when you're thirty five. 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:03.760 It's not. 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:08.160 No, I mean the parents don't hear as well. 0:16:08.400 --> 0:16:11.240 They can't run up the stairs as fast you're able 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:12.480 to get away with a lot. 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.760 More, but it's your curfew. It's probably two hours later. 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:18.960 Not to mention, free PB and jays. As many as 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:20.920 you can eat. After you're done fooling around, you have 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:23.520