1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,920 Speaker 1: What would you how would you define your perfect day? 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: What's your perfect day? Can keep tell me right now, 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 1: because because there's a scientific formula for the perfect day. 4 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: According to the University of British Columbia, they have cracked 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: the formula for the so called best day ever using 6 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: data from the American Time Use Survey. But before I 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: tell you what they said the perfect day? You wake 8 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: up what time you wake up about? Nine am? Okay? Okay, 9 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,319 Speaker 1: all right, okay, I'm awake now it to nine am. 10 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,959 Speaker 1: And you eat a good breakfast. Okay did I make 11 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: it or did somebody else make it for me? On 12 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:41,000 Speaker 1: a good day? Somebody ordered it for Okay, you're delivered right, Okay. 13 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:42,479 Speaker 1: So I'm in my house m hm. 14 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 2: And you eat a good breakfast, and then you put 15 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 2: on some clothes that are easy to wear, like leggings 16 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: or jogging pants, sweatpants, and like my fur boots. 17 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: So I got my leggings and my fur boots on. Okay, 18 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: good that would. And then I am going to like TJ. 19 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: Mac Martials somewhere mindless bathroom body works, like I just 20 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 2: go in and it's all about the vibes. I'm just 21 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 2: buying what I want not like I don't have a list. 22 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 2: I'm not looking for anything in particular, but it's just 23 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 2: what I want. 24 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: You're walking through every aisles. 25 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 2: And slow, like the make Ultra, like the makeup store. 26 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 2: I'm just vibing, right, and I spend a bunch a 27 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 2: bunch of money. Then I leave there and I hear 28 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 2: somebody's drive through. Now you might go to like Starbucks, 29 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 2: or you might see like Raisin Cane. You know, like 30 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 2: you just whatever the vibe is. Okay, you get you 31 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 2: a snack, yes, okay, we this day for me. Then 32 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 2: you go and get a facial. Oh my god, okay, and. 33 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: You get a facial. 34 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 2: And then after you leave your facial, you go home 35 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 2: and you take everything you bought from the store and 36 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 2: lay it out on your counter and just admire it, 37 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And then you cuddle with 38 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 2: your dog or your man or your kid, whatever you like. 39 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 2: And for me, it's a dog. And so you cud 40 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 2: it with your dog and you watch some reality TV. Okay, 41 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 2: but at the same time you scroll on TikTok, so 42 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 2: you never really saw what was happening on the TV. 43 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: That's right, it's just there. I've noticed I have to 44 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: turn the TV off for proper TikTok scrolling. I can't 45 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:19,239 Speaker 1: do both if the TV's going and TikTok. It's too much. 46 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: It's too much. It's too much, okay, overstimulated. 47 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 2: So then after you realize that you have watched all 48 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 2: your shows but you didn't really watch them. Now it's 49 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 2: time to put your phone on a charger and actually 50 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,200 Speaker 2: watch your shows. But by this time you're hungry again, 51 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 2: so you order a good meal for the. 52 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: Nights, okay, which would be how about you to the house? Okay, house? 53 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 1: It shows up. Okay, I've done it before. Okay, shows up. Okay, 54 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: it shows up. Okay, It's fine. It's not as good 55 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: as if if I made it there. That's the chef, 56 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:53,040 Speaker 1: h I know, well, I know you guys haven't yet 57 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: figured out I'm working there on the weekend. I have 58 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 1: a second job. And yeah, yeah like that, okay, all right. 59 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 2: And then after you eat your you make a couple 60 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 2: of TikTok videos like whatever's on your mind. 61 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: You just get on. Now we're working all of a sudden, this. 62 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 2: Is my dream day, like, and then I make some 63 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 2: content and then I lay down and I just lay 64 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 2: and scroll until I can't scroll anymore till. 65 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: I fall asleep, till you have you done the thing 66 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: where you're laying and I know the answer, it's rhetorical. 67 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 1: Where you lay in bed and you're scrolling and your 68 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: arms start to get like fall asleep you got. 69 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 3: Or you do. 70 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: In the air, you know, and it's like you start 71 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: to feel like they're getting weaker. You start dropping your 72 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 1: phone up right on my face. 73 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 2: Notice I didn't have any human contact throughout the whole day. 74 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: Oh no, I did notice that. Probably this is probably 75 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: my favorite part of you describing your day. That's the 76 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: perfect day. Well, that perfect day. Yeah, that is a 77 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: perfect day. That's my Saturday. That's that's your perfect day. 78 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 4: Yes, I change a couple of things around. I would 79 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,000 Speaker 4: take my friend Jonathan with me because he has to 80 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 4: come with. We do this every Saturday. I pick them 81 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 4: up and we take the baby. Sometimes she stays, sometimes 82 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 4: she goes. We go to Target walk every aisle like 83 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 4: we are like an old married couple. And then we 84 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 4: go to either Kakoola restaurants to get lunch, or we 85 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 4: go to Hooters. 86 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 1: I gotta go one of my spots. You've ever been 87 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: starting to Hooters more because you know I'm trying to 88 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: save them. 89 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 4: He'll eat the plain chicken tenders or whatever they have 90 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 4: the boness, the boness I don't. 91 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: I don't do bonness. I never never touched the bonness 92 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 1: in my life. 93 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 5: I've seen his plate before. Yeah, your parties, I'm like, girl, Yeah, 94 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 5: that makes your. 95 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: Mind boneless, boneless catch it's childish, rubber. It's easier your children. 96 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: It's not great. I don't need on an animal's bone. 97 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: I need the bone I need on a bone. I 98 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 1: just don't. I don't have to have the bone. I don't. 99 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: That's so carnival is. 100 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 6: If you want to say boneless as child is, it's a. 101 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: Very very carnival of you to just chew one bone. 102 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: That is me a carnival animal electively. 103 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 4: Yes, okay, I enjoy it, except I got to the 104 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 4: party two about working. I'm not making a TikTok after 105 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 4: I eat habachis the last thing I'm gonna doing. 106 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: TikTok from the toilet. I got to review the haibachi's. 107 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 6: But that's how you thrive. 108 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: Yes, that is Jason. Yeah, perfect day, the perfect day. 109 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: I disagree. 110 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 7: I would sleep till like eight, but I love going 111 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 7: out to breakfast, so like I would get up and 112 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 7: like go and get like a skillet or something like. 113 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 6: I like going out to breakfast. 114 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 7: And then honestly, I would just come home and lay 115 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 7: for the majority of the day, just because that's my 116 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 7: favorite thing to do in the world, is just lay 117 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 7: TV on with the Office playing on repeat a whole 118 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 7: marathon while I'm on TikTok okay. 119 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 6: And then when my phone dies, that's when I put 120 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 6: on a charger. 121 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 7: But then I get my iPad, prop it up on 122 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 7: my stomach on a little stand I have and swipe 123 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 7: that way until that dies. And then you just rotate 124 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 7: that all day. And then at night it's peppies and 125 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 7: I'm drunk on Margarita's by seven pm, okay, okay, and 126 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 7: then in bed because. 127 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 1: That's your neighborhood Mexican restaurant where you you also work 128 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 1: on the weekends because you serve yourself. 129 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 6: Right, But this day I wouldn't work. 130 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: You wouldn't go behind the barn and make your own 131 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: margarita like you often do. No, you have human contact. 132 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 6: Just probably Mike. 133 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 8: No. 134 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: That would be a lot of people coming over to 135 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 1: my side of the no human contact scale, a lot 136 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 1: of people coming over to decide I'm over here. People 137 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: thought it was weird. 138 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 5: Those are introverts, you three. 139 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 9: A lot of. 140 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: People thought I was weird for not wanting human contact. 141 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 7: The thing is, I just like, by the time of 142 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 7: the weekend, I'm just sick of talking, Like I'm just 143 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 7: sick of timing people, like I just can't talk anymore. 144 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 7: And I feel like Mike gets the downside of that 145 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 7: because he probably wants to yap, and I'm like, I 146 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 7: just that's energy anymore. 147 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 1: There you go, I get it. We talked for a 148 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: living Yeah, kaylin, perfect day. 149 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 10: Okay, So I wake up in a cabin it's summer, 150 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 10: next to Tupac. 151 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,239 Speaker 5: He does he does what he does. 152 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: Okay. I was thinking about, okay, you can have your 153 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: perfect day, but your perfect day, I was thinking of 154 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: something more attainable. Since all right, maybe maybe maybe Tupac 155 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,159 Speaker 1: is in your cabin. We've been looking for it. No wonder, 156 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:56,960 Speaker 1: You're always there. 157 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 5: He loves it. 158 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 10: I checked my bank account and like, money is no object. 159 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 5: You know, somebody sent me a big payment. I don't know. 160 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: I don't know when this became fantasy. Everybody else's was attainable. 161 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: This sounds like a dream. But okay, okay, So now 162 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: now all of a sudden, you're you know, brain surgeon, 163 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: So you have okay, absolutely not well no, I mean 164 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:19,119 Speaker 1: because you have unlimited funds, because you obviously have changed jobs. 165 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 5: No, no, no, I'm not like rich. 166 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 10: I can just like buy whatever food want that. 167 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 5: Day and like money is no object and made me 168 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 5: treat my friends. 169 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 10: Okay, so we wake up, somebody made a bomb breakfast 170 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 10: and all my friends are there. 171 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 5: My friends like make me feel. 172 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 10: Like, I don't know, I need to be around the 173 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 10: right people, Like I don't want to be around certain people, 174 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 10: but I want to be around people that like I 175 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 10: can be quiet with. You know, we chill, we eat 176 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 10: a good breakfast, we hit the boat. You know, we're outside, 177 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 10: we're swimming, we're drinking a little bit. We come back, 178 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 10: order pizza and have like a botton fire and fall asleep. 179 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 5: Naturally, maybe a little game. 180 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: Most of that is attainable, but you could do that 181 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: right now. Most of them that I'm singing in real life, 182 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: like the part where you have unlimited funds, I don't know, 183 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: and the Tupac part that's not yet. So the researchers 184 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: at the university of British Columbia. They cracked this formula, 185 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: I guess, or that they came up with him based 186 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: on data from the American Time Youth Survey. I don't 187 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: know about this. It starts with six hours with family. 188 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: Oh now, I love my family deeply, but six that 189 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: is I'm sorry, six hours with family is not the 190 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 1: perfect day. Family family involved in the day is fine, 191 00:08:33,920 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: but everyone's getting older now and a little more eccentric 192 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 1: and high maintenance, and there's children involved, and speak on it, 193 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: you know. And I would have said my brother in law, 194 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: but I actually would rather hang out with him than 195 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 1: most everybody else. So it's an amazing turnaround. I'll take 196 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,840 Speaker 1: him over my sister any day. He and Polly and 197 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: I guess may you know, because she's probably stoned. I 198 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: know she's only one, but she's already high. Like Mayve 199 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: is going to be a pot head and she and 200 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,679 Speaker 1: I are going to it's going to be great. Maybe 201 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: is Colin. And I'm not saying he's a pothead, but 202 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 1: maybe is Colin? And Polly is Amanda princess. Look at me, 203 00:09:12,080 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: big production, big drama, big emotion, you know, big outburst 204 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: kind of thing. That's my sister, and that's Polly. Maybe 205 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: I can see her just like reading a book, smoking 206 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: a joint. You know, well, kid, why you know? But why? Yeah? 207 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: Two hours with friends. I would flip that. I would 208 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: say six hours with friends and two hours with family, 209 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:38,079 Speaker 1: and maybe even some overlap because my friends like my family. 210 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 1: So yeah, there's that. An hour and a half of 211 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: additional socializing. So now we're up to nine and a 212 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: half hours of talking to people. This is not my 213 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: perfect day. All two hours of exercise? Oh how long 214 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: is this day? And how much do I want to 215 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: torture myself? Right? Blocked that website. One hour of eating 216 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 1: and drinking. No more than six hours is it work? No, 217 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: the perfect day, no work. The perfect day has no 218 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 1: work at it whatsoever. I love my job, but I 219 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:12,679 Speaker 1: don't want to work on the perfect day. No more 220 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: than an hour of screen time. This is I don't 221 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 1: know who came up with this. No more than fifteen 222 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: minutes of commuting. No, I don't agree with this. What's 223 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: this is terrible? That is a terrible day. I'm up 224 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: now for eighteen hours somehow, and I spent more than 225 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,160 Speaker 1: half of it talking to other people. 226 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 7: No, six hours of family and like six hours of 227 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 7: working for it, Like what. 228 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: I'm up till three am on a yeah, I'm working 229 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 1: now all of a sudden, when do I have time 230 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:46,240 Speaker 1: for that? Because I just spent six hours with my family, 231 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: So now the twelve hour workday, I guess six hours family, 232 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: six hours? Yeah, what's going on? What's that perfect day? 233 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: I say, I would sleep in because I still have 234 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: the ability to do that, which a lot of people 235 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: who get up this early in Europe now, I mean, 236 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: if you're listening to us, the people who get up 237 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: at four, you know, ish four thirty whatever, A lot 238 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: of our peers, they can't sleep in. I can sleep in. 239 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: I can sleep till ten, no problem. But I have 240 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 1: the opposite problem where I go to bed at eight 241 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: thirty nine. I get tired a eight thirty nine every day. 242 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: So it's the opposite of what most people. Most people 243 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 1: they their body wants to wake them up early no 244 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 1: matter what. I don't have that problem. I have the 245 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: other problem where I get tired early, which is kind 246 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 1: of it kind of sucks in the other way. So 247 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 1: i'd be sleeping. I would have some format it would 248 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 1: either go to or have breakfast delivered or made for me, 249 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: maybe something involving an airplane, maybe fly somewhere. There would 250 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: be a beach or a pool involved. There would be 251 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 1: mine altering substances, be at alcohol or or legal gummies 252 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 1: if they're legal where I am. Yeah at the time, right, 253 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 1: and I was flying. Of course, you know this is 254 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: all hypothetical, of course, because I would never obviously planes, 255 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:06,520 Speaker 1: I would never ever, of course. 256 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 8: Uh. 257 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: And there would be some form of sexual contact. Yeah, yeah, 258 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: y'all left that out. So I don't know. 259 00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 11: I will do what he does, okay, So okay, anything 260 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 11: so we're by ourselves again, then our eyes are closed, 261 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 11: fully charged. 262 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: Someone I should play him. I should play him to 263 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: bog just I don't know if that make you feel 264 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: a certain kind of way. And then I would probably 265 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 1: go to bed early. Maybe maybe a book, maybe a lego. 266 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:47,199 Speaker 1: I mean, there's nothing, There's nothing hotter than don get 267 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 1: with a hot chicken. Then go put some legos together 268 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: and go to bed. I once heard a story, and 269 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: I still have never been able to confirm if it's 270 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: I'm not sure how I would Speaking of of sex 271 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: and legos, do you remember when Tiger Woods was getting 272 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: with all those like alleged getting with the strippers. Yes, 273 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 1: one of them. This is way back. This is in 274 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: the two thousands when this is happening. One of them 275 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: went on like a strip club tour afterwards and came 276 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: to the radio station and not here. It was in Charlotte, 277 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 1: and we interviewed her, and she claimed that she would 278 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: hide out, that his manager would like arrange for her 279 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 1: to be in his hotel room, like when he was 280 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: on the PGA tour or whatever. He'd go back to 281 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: the room, they'd get it on. She claimed it was amazing, 282 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: that he was amazing in bed, and as soon as 283 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: they were done, he would put on footy pajamas, any 284 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: kid cereal and watch cartoons. Now, I don't know if 285 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:38,959 Speaker 1: this is true. That's what this woman alleged. Okay, and 286 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: I remember that was so weird. I thought, this is 287 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: very weird. 288 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 5: He never had a childhood though, so it was very 289 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 5: it was understandable. 290 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't up. Yeah, so I wouldn't do 291 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,439 Speaker 1: the footy pajamas thing. It would be more like a 292 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: Lululemon kind of thing, you know, maybe a Vori kind 293 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: of thing. But then, you know, thank you for that. 294 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: I got to build Micheloian is not yet assembled. Let's 295 00:13:58,679 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: do headlines biggest stories of the day in two minutes. 296 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 1: Fred Show Fread Show is on. It's stay or go 297 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 1: all right, Cassie, Hi, Cassie, good morning, Good morning. Still 298 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 1: trying to get over the grilled cheese sandwich. I gotta 299 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,079 Speaker 1: eat when I get home. That sounds good, though, I 300 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: mean that's probably what it will be, but there's no 301 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: protein in that. But this isn't about me. This is 302 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: about you, Cassie. What's going on with this? This is 303 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: your husband, right, this is three years you've been married 304 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: to as a man. 305 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 9: Yeah, so I've been married three years, but we've actually 306 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 9: been together for seven so I feel like I've known 307 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 9: him enough by now, and I'm just so freaking frustrated. 308 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I got your note here from Fred Show Radio 309 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: dot com. So all right, what's the issue. You're frustrated 310 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 1: because what what is this guy doing? Let's handle this 311 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: right now. We're gonna solve this problem for you. 312 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 9: Good, I hope. So's I'm losing my mind. So he 313 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 9: stays up all night to play video games and people 314 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 9: tell me I should be grateful because he doesn't drink 315 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 9: or d drugs, but he'll be screaming at people till 316 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 9: four in the morning, and I can't get any sleep, 317 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 9: and he can't get any sleep, and he spends all 318 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 9: his money and time on it. And he doesn't buy 319 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 9: me flowers, but he'll buy a sixty dollars video game. 320 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: Oh boy. So he's got his headset on and he's 321 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: yelling at you know, some kid in Tacoma, Washington. You 322 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: know he's playing Madden or whatever. Those death games are, 323 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: the shooting games Call of Duty COD. 324 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, and I'm sure they're all eleven years old. Right, 325 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 9: I'm like, get some friends. I don't know. 326 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 1: Yesterday or I don't know if it was a tangent 327 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: or on the air, but yeah, it's a little weird that, 328 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: you know, adults are playing against children. And I get 329 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: that kids are good at these games and whatever, but 330 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: I know it's a little strange. Okay, So this dude's 331 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: spending all this time so he doesn't buy you flowers. 332 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: He's not in bed next to you, He's not I 333 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: don't know, he's not paying enough attention to you. He's 334 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: obsessed with these video games. It's bothering you. 335 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 9: Yeah, And since I so crawl in bed and I'll 336 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 9: be like, Okay, it's been a while, maybe we'll have 337 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 9: some you know, some sexy time. And no, he just 338 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 9: is too tired from it. And I can't believe he's 339 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 9: choosing that over me, and I don't know it. It 340 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 9: drives me crazy, and it's it's really hurting our marriage. Honestly. 341 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 1: I've seen tiktoks and I don't know if they're real 342 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: or not, but I've seen tiktoks of women who walk 343 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: out completely naked in front of their men who are 344 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: playing video games. And these dudes don't even look up. 345 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 5: They'd rather play with their controllers. 346 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: They don't even look up, and the woman's just standing there, like, 347 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: come hither, you know. Yeah, I assume you've said something 348 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: to him. I assume you've been like, yo, dude, you know, 349 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: I'm fine with this as a as a distraction or 350 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 1: as you know, in moderation, the same way you'd be 351 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: fine with him playing golf for whatever else, whatever he does. 352 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 1: But come on, like, enough is enough. We can't spend 353 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: hours and hours. We have to like be a couple 354 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: and communicate it and spend time together. You can't always 355 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: be video games. I assume you've said that to him. 356 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 9: Yeah, and I'll dress up and I don't know. He 357 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 9: just like I don't know. He's like more in love 358 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 9: with the video games than me. But yeah, the other 359 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 9: day about like sixty dollars with a lingerie and no, 360 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 9: he wasn't having it. He was not interested, and. 361 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: He was mad because he couldn't spend the sixty bucks 362 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: to make his little Mario Kart better or whatever. Yeah, 363 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: but what's his response? He's tired, Like when you say 364 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 1: this to him, when you say, like, hey man, what 365 00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 1: does he say to you in response or does he 366 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 1: have a response. 367 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 9: Well, like I said, he says, Okay, he doesn't drink 368 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 9: and he doesn't do drugs, so he'll remind me of that. 369 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 9: And maybe I should be great focus. My girlfriends tell 370 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,560 Speaker 9: me that, but I don't know. I feel like maybe 371 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 9: he's just gasolighting me. But I can't tell because I 372 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 9: don't know. I feel like it's an addiction in itself. 373 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,160 Speaker 9: I feel like this is a problem. 374 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody texted, well, it's not he's out cheating, okay, 375 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 1: but I mean that's a bit extreme, right, Like, yeah, 376 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: that's nice that he's not defiling your marriage, but he's 377 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 1: not lucky. He's not spending enough time with you, he's 378 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 1: not paying attention to you. Again, an hour here, hour there, 379 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: maybe even an hour a day or whatever a couple 380 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, a couple hours. But if you're sitting 381 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: there from the time you get home to whenever playing 382 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: these games, like what are you avoiding? You know, because 383 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: that's what I would argue, like what is it? Why 384 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: are you so intense on doing this? As it posted? 385 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 1: Why'd you get married? I mean, I know these are 386 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 1: you know, much broader questions, but this is a problem. 387 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 1: And I don't care if it's that or god, what 388 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: other other things that you could be doing any anything 389 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 1: other than paying attention to your significant other a little 390 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:38,440 Speaker 1: bit occasionally, Right, That's not too much to ask, Cassie. 391 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,120 Speaker 9: Yeah, and definitely I'm glad you brought that up, because 392 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 9: it definitely feels like he's cheating sometimes. But then again, 393 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 9: I feel like I'm just being selfish. But then again, 394 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 9: I don't know who he's talking to on the games, 395 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 9: like is it a child or is it a woman? 396 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:52,399 Speaker 9: Like I have no idea. He's just in there at 397 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 9: four am, so I don't know, but it does feel 398 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,719 Speaker 9: a little bit like, you know, the significant other is 399 00:18:57,800 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 9: his freaking games. 400 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:00,760 Speaker 1: Well, now, hold on, Cassie, let us be the ones 401 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 1: to jump to the wild. Let Kiki be the ones 402 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: the ones to jump to the wild conclusions. Okay, I 403 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,199 Speaker 1: mean I was just I was I was focused more 404 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 1: on the fact that he's playing the games and now 405 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 1: Kik's probably gonna take it to well, he's obviously talking 406 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: to a woman. No, no, on the headset, that's where 407 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,800 Speaker 1: you would go with this. Okay, let me take some 408 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 1: phone calls on this. Eight five, five, five, nine one 409 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: one three five. Have the radio one, Cassie. Let's see 410 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: what people have to say. I'm sure there are other 411 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 1: people who have been through this or are going through this, 412 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 1: uh and may have something to say about it, But 413 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I mean, I wouldn't say go no, 414 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:37,159 Speaker 1: but I would also say it's something that needs to 415 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: be rectified, because I mean, what's the point of being 416 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:44,199 Speaker 1: in a in a relationship if there's no dialogue, if 417 00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,360 Speaker 1: there's no moderation, if he's not spending time with you. 418 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: And it doesn't have to be all the time, but 419 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:51,720 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, sometimes right. 420 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, for sure, for sure, I mean at least 421 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 9: once a week. But he's got to get off the games. 422 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 9: He really does. 423 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 1: Let's see what the folks have to say. Thank you, Cassie, 424 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:02,200 Speaker 1: good luck, have a good day. 425 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 9: Thank you. Yeah. 426 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 1: Someone sitting on the sex Lego building, you keep those, 427 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:08,480 Speaker 1: you keep them. Keep lego out of your mouth. 428 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 5: It's got that Sabrina Carboner skin gone. 429 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 1: He keeps that out of your mouth. I don't. There 430 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: is no one at home, so I can do whatever 431 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 1: I want. I could eat my cheese sandwich on my legos, 432 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 1: actually can, because I can't get the grease on the legos. 433 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 1: And oh it's smudges. It looks terrible. That would drive 434 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 1: you crazy. Yeah. No, I've read about this on people 435 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 1: on Reddit that some people use gloves to assemble the legos. 436 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,440 Speaker 1: Some people they wash their hands every fifteen minutes because 437 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: the oils will get on the shiny parts of the 438 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: lego and it makes it duller. 439 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 7: All right, yeah right, yeah, that's too far for me. 440 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 1: I mean, so for the people who have gamers, these 441 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,760 Speaker 1: significant others, I mean, how do you what would you 442 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:45,239 Speaker 1: say to this? 443 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,520 Speaker 2: I had this situation, but it wasn't to this extreme, 444 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 2: and we weren't married, but we were living together and 445 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:53,360 Speaker 2: my ex was a super gamer to the point where 446 00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 2: I knew the names of the people on the game 447 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 2: that he would be talking to, Like I would walk 448 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 2: in the crib like what a war machine? 449 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 5: That was one of his gamers. 450 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: On the game. 451 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 2: And but and I to some of the textters point 452 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 2: like he's not out in the street. You know, he's 453 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 2: safely in your house in the mills. He's still active. 454 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 2: But it was like not to this extreme. So my 455 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 2: my suggestion to this lady would be, take a talk 456 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 2: to your partner, take away the game for a week, 457 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,959 Speaker 2: and just see how he adjusts. If he is like 458 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 2: sweating and he's like having withdrawals, then it's in an 459 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 2: addiction and he needs to go talk to. 460 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:30,360 Speaker 1: Somebody about it. 461 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 2: If he can't go a week without it, then you 462 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:34,119 Speaker 2: all have a big problem. 463 00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 1: I'm would say try that the whole he's not cheating 464 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 1: thing or she's not cheating bot is not That is 465 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,119 Speaker 1: not a good enough justification. Like I'm being negligent in 466 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: my relationship, I'm ignoring my partner, I'm not fulfilling my 467 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,879 Speaker 1: partner my obligation as a as as a member of 468 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,080 Speaker 1: this relationship. But I'm not cheating. 469 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 2: So and I'm not drunk or doing drugs to be. 470 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 1: It's not a malicious thing that he's doing. He's a 471 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: malicious thing yet he's doing. 472 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 2: It's a hobby that he's obsessed with. And I think 473 00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,200 Speaker 2: if you figure out that there may be an issue that, 474 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 2: like a real addiction, then you can work through that. 475 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 2: I don't think she needs to leave her marriage, is 476 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 2: what people are saying. Like, if he was cheating, if 477 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 2: he was at the bar, the strip club every night, then. 478 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you got a big, big problem. 479 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,920 Speaker 2: But this man is playing video games in the middle 480 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,200 Speaker 2: of the night, so maybe he was with you all day. 481 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 2: He just can't sleep, he can't go to sleep. That 482 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 2: may be another thing that he can talk through with 483 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 2: a therapist. I think it's an addiction there. But I 484 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 2: just I don't want her to leave her marriage over this. 485 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 1: You're right, I would have said there's malice, But I 486 00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: also I would argue that if she's expressed a concern 487 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 1: and he doesn't adjust his behavior, then there's a problem. Yes, 488 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: and it may not be rooted and hate, but it 489 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: also or dislike. But it's also he's ignoring her, he's 490 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 1: not concerned about her needs. It would sound like Amanda, Hi, Hey, 491 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 1: what do you want to say? Good morning, Welcome, thanks 492 00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 1: for listening. 493 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 12: Good morning. I just wanted to say I have a 494 00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 12: lot of intake on this. My boyfriend also plays a 495 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,640 Speaker 12: lot of video games, and so you know, he got 496 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,920 Speaker 12: me a computer and everything. So we actually play video 497 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 12: games together because he was spending a lot of time 498 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,760 Speaker 12: on it, and we have games that we play together, 499 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 12: and so we kind of made it like an US 500 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 12: thing and it's worked out so far. It's really fun. 501 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:22,919 Speaker 1: So basically, you had you had to go over to 502 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 1: his side. You had to either get into his hobby 503 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 1: or you were going to see him. I'm not trying 504 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: to minimize, you know what the compromise you come up with, 505 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: But it wasn't all play less and do your thing. 506 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,320 Speaker 1: It was you can just do what I'm doing. 507 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 12: Yeah, because I like to leave by like example, So 508 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 12: I was like, well, if this is something he's into, 509 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 12: then I can be into it. So now he's the 510 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 12: one that comes to like Farmers Markets with me, he'll 511 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 12: go out with me, because it's like a I started 512 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,560 Speaker 12: a compromise, so I started the bend and so now 513 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 12: he bends back. So it's worked out pretty well and 514 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,119 Speaker 12: we I actually have fun like those games that I 515 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 12: play by myself now, and I'm just like, no, I'm 516 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 12: playing by myself. 517 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: Yeahs A, the tables turn and Amanda, you know Amanda 518 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,880 Speaker 1: Killer sixty nine sixty nine on on cod Wait wait, 519 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,920 Speaker 1: wait till you become a champion and and you're not 520 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 1: paying attention to him anymore. We'll see how he likes 521 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: it then, exactly. 522 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 12: And that's another thing I wanted to say too, is 523 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,600 Speaker 12: if he's not, like, you know, wanting to spend time 524 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 12: with you, like, go spend time with yourself, get all 525 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 12: delld up, go take yourself to dinner. He'll see that 526 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,640 Speaker 12: and he'll be like, wait, am I missing out on things? 527 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:25,120 Speaker 1: And he definitely not a bad idea. Thank you, Amanda, 528 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: have a good day. What do you want to say, P. 529 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,119 Speaker 4: I'm going to get dragged to hell by the gamer community, 530 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,679 Speaker 4: like I know they're going to come for me at 531 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 4: this very moment. 532 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 1: Go ahead. 533 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 4: Well, but I say with my chest because I don't 534 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:38,919 Speaker 4: understand this hobby. 535 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: And somebody I think, texted, no, I really. 536 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 4: Don't, and I have hobbies to people probably look at 537 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,679 Speaker 4: it and go I don't understand why or whatever. But 538 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 4: someone texted us in saying that most gamers are in 539 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,439 Speaker 4: their thirties. So now is this deeper, Like is this 540 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:51,840 Speaker 4: like a childhood thing, like you didn't get your games 541 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 4: when you were a kid, or you didn't get to 542 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 4: play enough when you were a kid. 543 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,239 Speaker 1: I do that. It's a distraction. It's a diversion from 544 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 1: real life. And I don't think that's all bad in moderation. 545 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 1: I have the same way that I think people golf. 546 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 1: They get their mind off stuff legos. Yeah, well, I 547 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 1: mean that's why I'm doing it. I'm not doing it 548 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: because I really need a model of a car, you know, 549 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,600 Speaker 1: or whatever. I just it's something i've found, it's something 550 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,960 Speaker 1: I can do. That just I have to think about 551 00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,920 Speaker 1: it and not whatever else is going on. And that's 552 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,879 Speaker 1: like literally yesterday, I'm putting this thing together and it's 553 00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 1: my phone's going ding ding ding ding ding, and I'm 554 00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: not paying any attention because I want to finish that 555 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 1: section of what I was doing. And that is an 556 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: okay thing for me, because otherwise that phone goes thing, 557 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 1: I grab it and I attend to that, and that 558 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 1: is that is a slippery slope. You ignored me, that's abuse. 559 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: What did you ask me? 560 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 561 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,800 Speaker 1: I sent you. I was calling you, but you was 562 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: doing lego. You did not right now. 563 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 4: But yeah, that makes sense, I guess because everyone's entitled 564 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,919 Speaker 4: to their their fun. I guess if legos makes you 565 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,639 Speaker 4: happy and it's fun and it distracts you from the world, cool, 566 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 4: But I guess the moderation is key, right for anything 567 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 4: you do in life. To be sitting all night like 568 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,679 Speaker 4: you're thirteen years old, like your parents are, you know, 569 00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:58,880 Speaker 4: like got the lenk it over your head. 570 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: Parents are coming in and get your game boy whatever. 571 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 1: Like that's too much. Yeah, I mean if you're not 572 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: you know, bathing and eating and going to work and 573 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: your relationship and whatever else. Hey, Jane, you live this Thane, 574 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 1: Good morning. 575 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 3: J Yeah. I my first husband and he was in 576 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 3: med school, you name it. I mean, the whole world 577 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 3: coming for him and gonna look good. And he started 578 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 3: gaming and it was all the time. And you know, 579 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,399 Speaker 3: Trump's therapy. You know that's a big thing for her 580 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 3: to do. But if he won't do it, it's not 581 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,120 Speaker 3: going to get me better. I mean, it's it's sad, 582 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 3: but it is an addiction. When it's like interfering with 583 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 3: your life, it's no different than the bottle. It's no 584 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 3: different than staying out all night. It's the same exact thing. 585 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 3: It's just been a different task. Yeah, it's not even 586 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 3: a good way. Addiction is addiction, and that's what's going on. 587 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 3: And if she doesn't get any help, you know, she's 588 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 3: looking at three years now, she's looking at fifteen or twenty. Yeah, 589 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 3: because it's going to stop. 590 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 1: You left your husband over this, It says, yes, I did. Wow, Wow, 591 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that happened to you. But I mean, I again, 592 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 1: I think you're right. I mean it may be different, 593 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 1: you know, chemically or whatever. But if if someone has 594 00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:14,679 Speaker 1: behavior that's detrimental to your relationship and you try and 595 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,679 Speaker 1: address it and it doesn't change, I don't know what 596 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: you're supposed to do. 597 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's either you can accept it for what it 598 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:24,159 Speaker 3: is and stay because all she can do is control 599 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,159 Speaker 3: what she does. And she can either accept it and 600 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 3: hope it changes it may it may not, or she 601 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:30,200 Speaker 3: can go. 602 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:30,879 Speaker 1: Yeah. 603 00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,200 Speaker 3: I mean, if he's not gonna she can't make him 604 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,680 Speaker 3: do anything. And if it's not, if the relationship isn't 605 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:39,399 Speaker 3: worth it for him, then she you knows, decided she 606 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 3: wants to stay with him or not, because you know 607 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 3: what happens if they have kids. 608 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, fair enough, and then Jean, thank you, thanks 609 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,159 Speaker 1: for calling, thanks for starting to have a good day. 610 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: You know, if I could quote the great Mel Robbins 611 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 1: from the Lead Them Theory, yeah, rob Yeah, well she's 612 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 1: we tried to get her on and we were denied 613 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 1: too busy. Oh yeah, so he took about five seconds 614 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,919 Speaker 1: for them to say not happening. But she does kind 615 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,359 Speaker 1: of address this at the end of the book, talking 616 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 1: about you know, people's behavior, like trying to get someone 617 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,239 Speaker 1: to work out was an example she used, Like if 618 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:15,960 Speaker 1: you have a partner who just lays on the couch 619 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: all day and won't get in shape, and you've tried 620 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 1: to express that you care about their health and well 621 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,679 Speaker 1: being and whatever. First of all, you got to model 622 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: the proper behavior, which would be then to maybe do 623 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 1: some of these things that you want him to do yourself. 624 00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,639 Speaker 1: But you cannot ride people like you simply cannot ride 625 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:34,160 Speaker 1: someone and give ultimatums and make threats and the rest 626 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: of it. It's like, you know, maybe she does. I mean, 627 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 1: maybe there's something too. Getting dulled up and going out 628 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 1: with her friends and not riding him on it all 629 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: I see you later and going out and living life 630 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,959 Speaker 1: and having a good time and doing the things that 631 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: she wants to do without him, and either he's going 632 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 1: to see that and go, Okay, wait a minute. You 633 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 1: know she's not on me about this? Why not? You 634 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: know why all of a sudden Is she not all 635 00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: over me about changing my behavior? Is she moving on? 636 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:01,360 Speaker 1: Is she? Do? I need to try harder? You know? 637 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 1: And again, it's not about him, it's about you. But 638 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 1: at the same time, and if you do that long 639 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,080 Speaker 1: enough and there's zero adjustment, zero change, zero motivation, then 640 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 1: you got to go. But I mean, I think you 641 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 1: start by again. If every day you come home we're 642 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 1: like a video game again, that's not going to motivate 643 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: anybody to change. Look at me, I'm basically a motivational speaker. Now, 644 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 1: Thanks Mel Robbins. I'm gonna give a Ted talk soon. Hey, Kara, 645 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 1: let them Hello? Hi, how are you? What you so? 646 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 1: Just to recap I'm storry to interrupt you, but just 647 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 1: to recap your stair go. This woman is married to 648 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 1: a guy who appears to be addicted to video games. 649 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 1: He cares more about the video games than he does 650 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:37,840 Speaker 1: about spending time with her. 651 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 8: What do you think I mean, girl, Look, it does 652 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 8: not matter if he's not in the clubs. It does 653 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 8: not matter if he's not cheating with her and doing drugs. 654 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 8: The end result is the same. He is not chaining 655 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 8: out with her like a married man should be. And seriously, 656 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 8: who takes a grown man seriously who plays video games 657 00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 8: all day? 658 00:29:58,320 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 5: And alost me he lost me? 659 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 1: Oh my, well, what do you mean video games all day? 660 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: I wouldn't take a person seriously who plays video games 661 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: all day instead of attending their needs and their relationship. 662 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 8: Who could Now she can jump on the bandwagon and 663 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,080 Speaker 8: get into video games with him, But then what happens 664 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 8: when they have kids? 665 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:18,280 Speaker 1: Yeah? 666 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 8: I mean she's got two, three, four kids with him included. 667 00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 3: Well there, you make it a family. 668 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: Thing the kids. Is he even involved in that process? 669 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,320 Speaker 1: You know? Because he's playing with. 670 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 8: Her right now? 671 00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:34,720 Speaker 9: How can he be involved with them? 672 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:42,920 Speaker 1: Yeah? I agree, girls, gotta go have a good day. 673 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 10: I was with her, But I think it's okay to 674 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 10: sometimes take someone seriously who plays video games all day 675 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,680 Speaker 10: and all night constantly. No, I'm with I think it's 676 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 10: okay to sometimes do that, Like it's okay to indulge 677 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 10: my issue, which is what she started with, is going well, 678 00:30:57,600 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 10: at least I'm not doing X, Y or Z. No, 679 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 10: that was what you committed to when we got into 680 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 10: a relationship. You the bars on the floor. You are 681 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 10: giving me the bare minimum you owe me that, so 682 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 10: to go. I'm not doing this, so I should be 683 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 10: allowed to do this. That is completely unfair, and that's manipulation. 684 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,560 Speaker 1: I don't care if it's video games or working out. 685 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 1: I don't even care if it's a healthy activity. If 686 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 1: you're doing something all day and all night, you're obsessed. 687 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 5: I could be worse, Yeah, for sure. But I'm saying 688 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 5: you can have days where you do that and indulge. 689 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 1: I'm okay with. 690 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 2: That, true, because I mean it's like your kid doing 691 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 2: drug like mom. I could be a crackheads, ribbing banks, 692 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 2: rob banks these days. 693 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 1: It's not arm Well, I don't know. I'd much rather 694 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 1: you do that, see what I'm saying. Yeah, we're gonna 695 00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 1: move on to entertainment. Report is up next? Five hundred 696 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,000 Speaker 1: bucks with Kiki less than ten minute to eight If 697 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 1: you could beat her in five questions, Friend's show back 698 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 1: into and we're commercial freaks.