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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgane Part one.

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Speaker 2: Behind the scene with a member of the show, What's Up?

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Speaker 2: Happy weekend?

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Speaker 1: Everybody? Abby is showing me this weekend?

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Speaker 2: Abby, how are you good? How are you? Yeah? You're

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Speaker 2: feeling good? You ready to chat?

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Speaker 1: You dropped some big news since the last time you've

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Speaker 1: been on here.

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Speaker 2: I did, I really did?

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Speaker 1: Or as we put on the social post, bumpshow news.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a dramatic headline.

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Speaker 1: We're adding some drama lately, you know, just spicing it

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Speaker 1: up these days.

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Speaker 2: That's what we're doing on social media. I'm fixing my mic.

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Speaker 1: Ocause we're in a different studio than we normally are

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Speaker 1: to do best bits because all of our studios are

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Speaker 1: all taken up, so Abby and I are sitting in

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Speaker 1: the big studio.

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Speaker 2: We are unusual. That's weird. It does feel weird.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you dropped huge news. How are you feeling

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Speaker 1: about dropping the big news?

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Speaker 2: Very like a vulnerable like I feel like people know

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Speaker 2: a lot because I did so well at keeping it private,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, I said a lot.

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Speaker 1: It's now all out there. And so you share that

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Speaker 1: you're now living with your boyfriend and.

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Speaker 2: He has two kids.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that was the big bombshell news in case she

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Speaker 1: missed it, which you can check and you know, go

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Speaker 1: catch up on best bits. But vulnerability is hard and

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Speaker 1: sharing something that you kept for secret for at least

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Speaker 1: six months the kids saying you've kept secret for you

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Speaker 1: how long you guys have been dating, which is a

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Speaker 1: year and a half.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I mean, I plan. I think I'm still

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Speaker 2: gonna keep it, you know, not give too many details.

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Speaker 2: Just like privacy. I have everybody involved, so it makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Having kids involved is a different role than just you

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Speaker 1: and a boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 1: It's a whole different lifestyle.

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Speaker 2: It is. But it's going really well.

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Speaker 1: And how is living together going good? Like I thought

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Speaker 1: it would be.

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Speaker 2: I've never lived with someone, you know, and so I

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Speaker 2: thought it'd be, I don't know, more difficult, But it's

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Speaker 2: actually fun. It's like fun. I don't do anything really

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Speaker 2: to annoy each other. Like he's really clean, He's like

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Speaker 2: more clean than me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Like I say, have you figured out your differences yet?

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like living together is when you start

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Speaker 1: to see, oh, well we have this a little bit

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Speaker 1: different or we may operate a little bit differently.

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Speaker 2: Here or there. So like I get coffee every day

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Speaker 2: and I leave it on the counter and I don't

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Speaker 2: throw it away. He's like, are you done with this?

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Speaker 2: It's like four pm. I'm like, yes, I am.

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Speaker 1: So is it a half drinking coffee?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh you don't even finish them no, huh. And you're

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Speaker 1: buying coffee yep, okay every days.

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Speaker 2: It's really bad. It's a bad thing. But I leave

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Speaker 2: it out all the time and he just gets annoyed

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Speaker 2: at that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you are learning to pick up a little

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Speaker 1: bit more.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's also weird because just not being at my house,

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Speaker 2: you know, like feeling more in control. I'm at someone

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Speaker 2: else's house and I still kind of feel like I'm oh,

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Speaker 2: can I get in your Pantry's like, Abby, you don't

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Speaker 2: what are you doing? You don't have to ask?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like what you're getting comfortable with being in his.

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Speaker 2: Space when I have always been in my space, so

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Speaker 2: I've never had to feel uncomfortable or like ask if

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Speaker 2: I can do something. So it's yeah, I'm getting used to.

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Speaker 1: That, and you're learning to different like finance, like who

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Speaker 2: That side of things.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's always an interesting and uncomfortable start, and then

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Speaker 1: you start to figure it out. But the beginning's always

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Speaker 1: a little awky and quirky.

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Speaker 2: It really is awkward. Wait, what do you do? I'm

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Speaker 2: curious how financing saying things?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in the beginning, he wanted to pay for everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it got to a point where I was like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: would start paying for some things and he'll still insist

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Speaker 1: in different areas. So we just kind of make sure

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Speaker 1: both of us feel like we're contributing. Is really where

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Speaker 1: it matters for me. I don't ever want to feel

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Speaker 1: like a relationship is one sided.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: So that's kind of where it lies right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like for us, he would just eat in every day,

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Speaker 2: like he loves to just like cook at home and

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Speaker 2: he has like a sandwich every day for lunch. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I want to go out all the time. I love

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Speaker 2: eating out, and so I feel about making him pay

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Speaker 2: I'll pay for it. God, Because he would just save

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Speaker 2: so much money and he's a financial planner, like I said, so,

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Speaker 2: he's very good with money.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and the budgeting. Are you good with money?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, no, No, like he did like a

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Speaker 2: budget thing for me or whatever, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, wow, really yeah, just because I'm not.

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Speaker 2: He is so organized and everything he spends and did,

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Speaker 2: like this whole sheet, and how he like nets this much?

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Speaker 2: He you know, puts everything out itemized. Like, sorry, Eddie's sitting.

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Speaker 1: In the room with us and he's given eyes. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: if you're gonna at least ask, might as well turn

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Speaker 2: How much does he net? No, it's just like a

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Speaker 2: monthly thing as much as he should. Because of me.

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Speaker 1: Having a girlfriend really changed his financial planning, didn't it? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It did? It did? Sorry, but yeah, so I'm figuring

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Speaker 1: So you are learning your differences. How are you guys

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Speaker 1: navigating the difference? Does it feel good? It feels like

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Because he's very patient with me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, has he understood your shopping habit yet?

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, we only need to talk about that.

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Speaker 1: You have mentioned on the best bits, And I'm not

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have. Abby loves to go shopping and we'll

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Speaker 2: just buy stuff.

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Speaker 1: Heck, there was one time when Abby was staying at

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Speaker 1: my house and it was so sweet of her. But

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Speaker 1: I showed back up after she was washing my animals

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Speaker 1: and she had got me a Marvel sweatshirt. She's like,

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Speaker 1: I was just walking them all.

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Speaker 2: And I found it.

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Speaker 1: I think, that's so sweet. What are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. That's what I do. It's really bad.

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Speaker 2: And I have like through the three closets in my

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Speaker 2: house are like full of clothes, and so I've had

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Speaker 2: to try to consolidate all into his closet and he

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Speaker 2: moved everything like to the left, and I have like

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Speaker 2: his whole closet.

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Speaker 1: It's yeah, in all fairness, boys have ten outflit fits.

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Speaker 1: They don't really have the same. Women's fashion is a

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Speaker 1: little bit different. Guys can wear the same outfit for

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Speaker 1: ten plus years and never goes out of style. The women.

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Speaker 1: Everything we do goes out of style once a year.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: So it is it different in sharing, And I do

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Speaker 1: to take over more on the shoe department. So does

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Speaker 1: he have more shoes than you? No?

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Speaker 2: Still he has more. I guess hats. He loves wearing hats.

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Speaker 2: A thousand hats.

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Speaker 1: They always have one, like it's an accessory. There's something

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Speaker 1: else is like a sliver of a closet. Yeah, at

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Speaker 1: all with my friends.

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Speaker 2: Yep. No, mine's shoes have closed everything. So I gotta

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Speaker 2: work on that. That is something that he's like, you

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Speaker 2: really need to work on this. This could be a

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Speaker 2: serious problem in the future. Oh yeah, it could be,

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Speaker 2: but you're working on it. Yeah, and you're it's okay.

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Speaker 1: It's okay to have flaws and to work through them.

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Speaker 2: M hm.

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Speaker 1: So also part of what living together is about is

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Speaker 1: understanding each other and learning each other more, because when

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Speaker 1: you're not living together, I feel like you kind of

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Speaker 1: have this side of you that they don't know about,

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Speaker 1: and then you live together, it's like, here's all of

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Speaker 2: I go, hope you like it. Yeah, but it's good. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And living with kids around, is that an adjustment too?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is, especially like with our jobs because we

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Speaker 2: I just feel so bad. So I'm like I have

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Speaker 2: to go work. They're like, why are you working? I

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Speaker 2: already worked earlier.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: You don't get it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so when they like go to bed, is that

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Speaker 1: Basically, And how are you guys navigating alone time together too?

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Speaker 2: Well? He has them half the time, so I you know,

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Speaker 2: I get to see him.

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Speaker 1: So your moments happen on the off weeks when you

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Speaker 1: guys kind of have some time together and yes, go

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Speaker 1: do stuff.

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Speaker 2: You want to do, Like he has them every other weekend,

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Speaker 2: so you know, it's like they're like completely opposite weekends.

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Speaker 2: You know, we have the kids. It's just like all

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Speaker 2: kids centered, yeah, stuff, which is really fun. And then

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Speaker 2: the next weekend it's like, let's go to Broadway or

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Speaker 2: something I don't know, like.

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Speaker 1: And it sounds like that's you sided where you're like,

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Speaker 1: I want to go do things.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but he also does too, like he wants to

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Speaker 2: get out. He's like, you should do something.

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Speaker 1: But just better about it. Financially, it's thinking what's the

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Speaker 1: best scenario?

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Speaker 2: I know, yeah, I mean those white claws downtown are expensive, are.

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Speaker 1: You know a six bag of white claws back home,

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Speaker 1: caused about half the price of one down town. No.

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Speaker 2: I thought about that. I was like, we should add

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Speaker 2: up how much you spend in like three months and

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Speaker 2: just drinks the river priced we had went.

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Speaker 1: So I took my boyfriend for the first time for

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Speaker 1: his first concert at the Ryeman. We went and saw

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Speaker 1: Tucker Wetmore's sold out show there, which was so awesome.

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Speaker 1: Tucker was so great. He plays insane piano. It's really

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Speaker 1: good piano skills. Would never have known.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh. It was really cool. It was cool.

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Speaker 1: He had standing ovations multiple times. He was just like

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Speaker 1: super emotional too because it was at the Ryman. It

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Speaker 1: was a really cool show to see. But that was

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Speaker 1: his first one. And we walked up. He goes, dang,

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Speaker 1: twenty eight dollars for a double, and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're getting into pricey stuff down here downtown. He's like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I should have assumed that, but.

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Speaker 1: But you and I have also talked about it was

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Speaker 1: really hard for you to make this transition. M h.

441
00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,760
Speaker 1: Are you feeling better about things now and you don't

442
00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:49,879
Speaker 1: have to talk about if you don't want it?

443
00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:52,359
Speaker 2: No, I am, actually, I really am. I thought I

444
00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,399
Speaker 2: was gonna be a lot harder, like i'd be like, oh,

445
00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:56,919
Speaker 2: I'm missing it. And like I said, the drive is

446
00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,440
Speaker 2: twice as long at least, like it's a lot more

447
00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:03,280
Speaker 2: like in the more and stuff. But it's not bad.

448
00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,240
Speaker 2: It's really not. I like it. I kind of like

449
00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:08,399
Speaker 2: being there and just like feeling part of a house

450
00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,560
Speaker 2: and like a backyard. And because mine's the townhome.

451
00:19:11,880 --> 00:19:13,800
Speaker 1: I mean, you went straight from city girl life to

452
00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:14,760
Speaker 1: suburban mom.

453
00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:20,119
Speaker 2: I know, I know, it's so weird. I saw somebody

454
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:22,520
Speaker 2: comment and he's like, man, Abby jumped in the deep end.

455
00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:25,120
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, kind of like.

456
00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,399
Speaker 1: You find the right person and it's worth jumping in

457
00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,160
Speaker 1: the deep deep in for And I feel like that's

458
00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:34,200
Speaker 1: what's happening. But internal battle you were having a very

459
00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:38,359
Speaker 1: just nervous of you and I have talked about the

460
00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:40,800
Speaker 1: other shoe dropping. You and I both have that feeling

461
00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,280
Speaker 1: just were we're just waiting for it. Yes, because of

462
00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:46,280
Speaker 1: things we've been through. Do you feel like the feet

463
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,800
Speaker 1: are both firmly planted on the ground.

464
00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do, okay, because like, at the end of

465
00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,000
Speaker 2: the day, you're like, this, it's just like a house.

466
00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,680
Speaker 2: It's just wood, you know, and nails.

467
00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,680
Speaker 1: You had to break it down to the wood in

468
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Speaker 1: the nails.

469
00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,919
Speaker 2: It's a box with walls. I don't know, and like

470
00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 2: does that really matter at the end of the day.

471
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 2: It's like, it's who you're with inside those walls. That

472
00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,679
Speaker 2: was so cheesy. That was sobering cheesy, but it's.

473
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:11,679
Speaker 1: Cute, but it was very cheesy.

474
00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:14,720
Speaker 2: So I'm like, why am I so holding on to

475
00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,159
Speaker 2: this house? I know, it's like my first house that

476
00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,320
Speaker 2: I bought, But why am I holding on so much

477
00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:21,200
Speaker 2: to it? When I knew eventually I was gonna move out.

478
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:24,400
Speaker 2: It's a town home, it's pretty small, so I knew eventually,

479
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 2: like when I met somebody, I would move out into

480
00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 2: a different home. So now's the time.

481
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Speaker 1: Yeah, But it's just I feel like, in a lot

482
00:20:33,040 --> 00:20:37,240
Speaker 1: of ways of transition, you probably weren't expecting. It's just

483
00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,400
Speaker 1: a lot of different things. But you just, I mean,

484
00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:42,240
Speaker 1: you took the bull by the horns. You said let's go. Yeah, seriously,

485
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,159
Speaker 1: well let's go anywhere. I always knew that you were

486
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 1: capable of that. I think you were just a little afraid.

487
00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:50,119
Speaker 1: I think both of us are afraid of getting hurt,

488
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,760
Speaker 1: and especially when you're this far in for you for

489
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 1: your sake, so I get it, oh for sure.

490
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. How do you feel like it's different with your

491
00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 2: current boyfriend and then like others in the past, Like

492
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:04,480
Speaker 2: why does this one feel so much more like secure?

493
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:06,479
Speaker 2: I think I feel different.

494
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,720
Speaker 1: I think that's a big part of it. Yeah, and

495
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 1: I think I finally attracted the right person that I

496
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,199
Speaker 1: was looking for. I think it has a lot to

497
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 1: do with it.

498
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:17,640
Speaker 2: I don't think I could.

499
00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:19,959
Speaker 1: I think I talked about this with Eddie a little bit,

500
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Speaker 1: but I don't think I could be where I am

501
00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 1: now had that not last relationship not happened.

502
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:26,119
Speaker 2: Oh wow? Really?

503
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:28,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he gave me a lot of security

504
00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:31,560
Speaker 1: and understanding. And I don't think it was meant to last,

505
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:33,840
Speaker 1: but it taught me a lot of things that I

506
00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 1: just wasn't prepared for in a healthy relationship because I'd

507
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:39,160
Speaker 1: just been through so many bad ones. So it gave

508
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 1: me a lot of tools I needed to even make

509
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:47,400
Speaker 1: the right one successful, and he in general feels different.

510
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,399
Speaker 1: He's an impath, which I've never dated before, which I

511
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 1: always needed, and consistencies there. He's just very sure of himself.

512
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: There isn't a lot of doubt. I'm not questioning. Ever,

513
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: this support is insane. So there's just a lot of

514
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: things that were missing before in each if I like

515
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 1: really look back, because hindsight's always twenty twenty. Always when

516
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,399
Speaker 1: you're in those it feels like this is it. This

517
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 1: feels good, you know whatever, and you know, I could

518
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 1: be putting my foot in my mouth and it happens

519
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 1: again whatever, but it doesn't feel that way. This feels safe.

520
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 1: That's why I felt also safe to post. I felt

521
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 1: like secure. I felt supported, and I just don't know

522
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 1: that I ever truly had that before. But I couldn't

523
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 1: tell you that when I was in it.

524
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,840
Speaker 2: Isn't that crazy, h That's so wild? Yeah, but I

525
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 2: get it. It's like hindsight is twenty twenty. It really is. Yeah,

526
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 2: you learned so much.

527
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,320
Speaker 1: You look back on your I think that's more of

528
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: the craziest thing.

529
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,400
Speaker 2: I really look back on just.

530
00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:52,440
Speaker 1: My twenties in general now, and it was just wild.

531
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 2: My twenties are wild.

532
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: I went through so many different things and even just

533
00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 1: thinking of, you know, the listener's gonna be such a

534
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 1: hard time for my dating life. And I shouldn't say

535
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 1: all listeners, but some of them where it's just like

536
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 1: we've heard about this, here we go again.

537
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 2: I started the show at twenty three years old.

538
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I was genuinely like in my metamorphosis of

539
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,240
Speaker 1: my twenties when I was on this show.

540
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 2: When you are dating, that's what you do is date.

541
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 1: In your twenties, what you're doing is dating, especially at

542
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: this point.

543
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 2: Most people aren't getting married till after they're thirty.

544
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: So really the twenties are about dating and understanding and

545
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: learning relationships and what you want, what you don't want.

546
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 1: And I was just full force going through that the

547
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 1: entire time I was on this show. That's wild and

548
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:41,720
Speaker 1: that feels crazy, hmm, it does, I know. So it's

549
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 1: just weird in general to look back and just see

550
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: the growth. And people always say that you always hear

551
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: from people. The wisdom is everything, and the knowledge that

552
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: you gain is so powerful. But yeah, you're twenty one

553
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 1: year old or whatever. I know, you can't tell me anything.

554
00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you really have to see it for yourself because

555
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 2: you're no one's gonna make you like they can tell

556
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 2: you everything, but like if you don't look for it

557
00:24:04,760 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 2: and see it yourself, you're just gonna be like, yeah, okay, thanks,

558
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 2: thanks for the advice.

559
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: Oh and things that used to be I would be

560
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: now like, oh I love that, Like we were, Yeah,

561
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: we would talk about just so many different things on

562
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 1: the show, and you hear these stories coming.

563
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 2: I'm like, dang old me would.

564
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,959
Speaker 1: Be like that was an Ick new He's like I

565
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 1: love that, which also feels weird.

566
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if you ever feel that way.

567
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 1: And you're just like you have this moment where you're like,

568
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I am a changed woman.

569
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 2: I mean sometimes I like look back, I'm like, what

570
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 2: was I thinking? Why was that? I have those moments

571
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 2: where I'm just like, oh my gosh. And then my

572
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 2: phone for some reason, brings that old pictures like the

573
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 2: display one, and I'm like, I know, and I have

574
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:47,840
Speaker 2: a thing about deleting pictures.

575
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Yeah, I can't delete pictures really.

576
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because I like the memory

577
00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: around somebody versus the memory like necessarily of them m

578
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: but I like, like a moment, if we traveled or

579
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 1: we went somewhere, I'm like, I want those pictures. I

580
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,880
Speaker 1: was there, I went to a new state there.

581
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, my memory's bad. I can't delete anything. I'm like,

582
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 2: I won't even remember that happened in my life in

583
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,479
Speaker 2: like two years. You and I both have memory problems.

584
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 2: It's not crazy, No, it's not. It really is. And

585
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: people don't understand when I'm like, I can't think, I

586
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know what I did yesterday?

587
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: Is this also because you had met I always ask

588
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: everybody if if there's anything they want to talk about.

589
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: On part one, you had said your allergies or you

590
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 1: haven't bad, they've just related.

591
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 2: So also you have a brain maybe that's it. Yeah,

592
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 2: they've taken my brain power. No, they've been terrible. Have yours.

593
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 2: I've been blowing my nose for two months, Like my

594
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 2: eyes are itchy. It's just rough.

595
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 1: Well. And also, in all fairness, I can't tell between

596
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: mine what is allergy illness or a long COVID, So

597
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: just why I'm just permanently ill. But I did find

598
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 1: bee Paul in the other day. Really, have you ever

599
00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: had be Paul? No, it's really good. I put it

600
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: on a sie and it's just like these little balls

601
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: of bee pollen and they're supposed to be really helpful

602
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: one for your immune system into especially so the bee

603
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,680
Speaker 1: pollen I got from he was from here specifically in

604
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: Middle Tennessee. So it can help me with allergens in

605
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: Middle Tennessee. It's helping like you develop an immune system.

606
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: And there's smarter people who have better understanding than scientific

607
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 1: knowledge behind it. But all that to say, I did

608
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 1: find bepall on that I'm adding into my diet to

609
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: try and help me out a little bit with my

610
00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: immune system with potential allergens all of that stuff.

611
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: Oh, I need to do that. So it's expensive.

612
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 1: I mean I think like it was eighteen bucks for

613
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,639
Speaker 1: a jar like a honey jar. If you think of

614
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: like a honey jar, it's that same size.

615
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 2: If it helps, I'll do it.

616
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, Turnip truck here in Nashville.

617
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 2: Okay, they had some be pollen.

618
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: But I and I don't know. Again, don't much smarter

619
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: people than me. But I'm willing to try everything at

620
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:55,680
Speaker 1: this point.

621
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've done zertech claritin nothing's working.

622
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: It's the same concept if you take a spoonful of

623
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: honey that is from again has to be from here,

624
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: like where your allergens are, and have a spoonful of

625
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 1: honey every day. It's supposed to also help with allergens

626
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:16,159
Speaker 1: because it has to do with bees in their pollen

627
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: and they're in the area the immunity. Yeah, then I

628
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: gave my brain stop rushing one hundred percent anymore.

629
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 2: So I'll look it up something like.

630
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: That, but try try it if it helps with your allergies.

631
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 1: It could not, but it could also at the very

632
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: least it's helping you with some vidermins and minerals that

633
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 1: you need.

634
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 2: So that's the worst case that happens. And it tastes

635
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,280
Speaker 2: um me good. Oh it does. I can't believe. I

636
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 2: haven't even had it.

637
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 1: A little crunchy, just like kind of like honey, but

638
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 1: crunchy okay, so not a bad taste.

639
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 2: I will try it.

640
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna take one more break. We have

641
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: some more things to chat about going on in our lives.

642
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 2: We'll be back.

643
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 1: I'm actually shocked right now, Abby, Why because you sid

644
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: to me that you're you watch Final Destination Marathon. You

645
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 1: watched a movie.

646
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 2: Marathon all five of them. Who are you?

647
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: You don't even watch one movie half the time?

648
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 2: I love movies, now, do you?

649
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 1: That's part of your newfound yeah identity with the boyfriend.

650
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,399
Speaker 2: Actually, we do watch a lot of movie and I

651
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:19,439
Speaker 2: love it because his TV is huge. It's like an

652
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 2: eighty five.

653
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,240
Speaker 1: And listen, a TV does make all the difference. Do

654
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:23,959
Speaker 1: you have a sound thing? Two?

655
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: I got him a sound thing sound Bard.

656
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: Sorry, we both so.

657
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 2: It goes like on the mantle and it is awesome.

658
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,400
Speaker 1: Does it come with the speaker that you also sit

659
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: somewhere else?

660
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 2: No, that's that was a little above my understanding budget

661
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 2: or whatever, you know. So I'm like, you want to

662
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: get those speakers that go along with it? That'd be awesome. Yeah.

663
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 2: Did he end up buying him?

664
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: No? I was gonna say you could get it for

665
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 1: a Christmas give. They always have good deals on those

666
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: on Amazon or best Buy around different holidays today.

667
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 2: But he has so nos have you heard of that?

668
00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: Like with the app? Okay, those are oh my gosh, yeah,

669
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 2: those are price the one I wanted to get the

670
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 2: sound bar it was like nine hundred, so I got

671
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: like the mini. Okay, I'm talking like you know, just

672
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 2: like the basics, Like it's crazy, they're a lot and

673
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 2: so it's like an app. You control everything. So he

674
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 2: has like three to listen to music on. You put

675
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 2: them in different rooms.

676
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: Abby, you're living in a smart house. This is my

677
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: dream when I watched that movie on Disney Channel Smart House.

678
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: Do you remember Smart House?

679
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? That was awes me too.

680
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: Are you living in a smart house?

681
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: I mean not really? Three speakers?

682
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: You don't have an AI robot that take over the house?

683
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:37,440
Speaker 1: Did she vacuum clean, turn it on and off, the lights, make.

684
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 2: Food until she malfunctioned and.

685
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: Then she like became obsessed with them. It's like you're

686
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 1: never living.

687
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I want to watch that. Wait have

688
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 2: you not seen No? I just mean I want to

689
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 2: watch it again. Oh it's been a long time.

690
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 1: I panic first. I was like, you know what I'm saying.

691
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 2: It's so funny. It is like it's good.

692
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: I do wonder if it holds up now Princess Diaries

693
00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 1: holds up that in Lizzie McGuire movie, because I've definitely

694
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 1: watched of those multiple times in the last few years.

695
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 2: You have yeah, Oh my gosh, I need to like

696
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 2: do a whole sometimes I.

697
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: Need just comfort and I'll throw in one of my

698
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: movies from the back and as I'm like doing other stuff,

699
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: I just need a little nostalgia or comfort in my life. Yeah,

700
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 1: and that's where I go to Disney Channel original movies.

701
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 2: I go to Halloween. Michael Myers have the same.

702
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: This is also watching Why you watch freaking.

703
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 2: Final Destination A mo? Do you both like horror movies? Yeah?

704
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 2: Uh huh. He doesn't like watching them like alone. Me either.

705
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 1: I like watching him let alone alone.

706
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: I love it. Oh my gosh, Halloween crazy during Halloween time.

707
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 2: Just give me all the scary movies by myself, like,

708
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 2: let's go. But anyway, wild have you seen Final Destination?

709
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 2: I think I saw the.

710
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 1: First few because they came out in high school and

711
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: you went to the theaters with everybody. But they they

712
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 1: actually ruined my brain. Oh my gosh. Tanning beds, oh yeah,

713
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: b truck beds that have log the tree lodges on

714
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 1: them ruin my brain. I still see the roller coasters.

715
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: I already hated roller coasters, made me hate them more.

716
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 2: Now are that's the tree that come to mind? Oh

717
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 2: my gosh, yeah I do. That does happen to me now?

718
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 2: Now when I'm driving like a truck with all these logs,

719
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosh, Final Destination. See, well, I

720
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 2: only did it because the new one is in theaters.

721
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 2: So are you going to see the new one? I

722
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 2: do want to see it. Yeah, I haven't yet, but

723
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 2: I had to get all caught up on those. Now

724
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 2: I'm ready to go. I'm so proud of you.

725
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: Thanks, even though I don't understand why those, but I

726
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: am so proud of you. One that you had a

727
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: movie marathon and two that you're watching movies.

728
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 2: I need to be shocked. I know, I am shocked.

729
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you ever watch any of the other ones

730
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:37,959
Speaker 1: that I told you?

731
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 2: Did you ever which one?

732
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: I don't remember that? That was in the Sun from

733
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: like a year ago. I think when we're in the

734
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: old studio.

735
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 2: There were shows or movies, there were movies. Well I

736
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:55,479
Speaker 2: put one of that. Yeah, I loved it. Are they

737
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 2: coming out with another one?

738
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: We're supposed to be But that was like five years ago.

739
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 2: Because I see it on Netflix, it's like one of

740
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: the top ten movies. I was like, huh, it's always is.

741
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 2: It's so good. I thought they were doing it to like,

742
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 2: you know, get you ready for the next one coming out.

743
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: But no, I hope so trust me that the day

744
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 1: that comes you will see me post about it.

745
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 2: I will be so excited. Okay, let me know when

746
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 2: you here, well I think I was one.

747
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: It was one, and you have your You're getting your

748
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: real ID as we were about to record this.

749
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 2: Yes, uh huh, like after this.

750
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: Wait, so you're not actually gonna physically get it because

751
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:27,719
Speaker 1: it takes a few days to get to you, so

752
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: obviously like a few weeks.

753
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 2: But I'm going to do the process. That's what it is.

754
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 2: I gotta go, like, do my hair. I want to

755
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 2: look good. Wait, but you got an appointment. I couldn't

756
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 2: get an appointment.

757
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: When I did this way back in February until July.

758
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. No, I don't know how I got lucky.

759
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 2: I think somebody had a cancelation, because yeah, they were

760
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 2: not until like July fifteenth. And then I just looked

761
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:48,800
Speaker 2: one day and I was like, oh my gosh, there's

762
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: an opening in Nashville. That's actually Franklin, so but it's outside.

763
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 2: But still the other ones I was looking in like

764
00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: two hours away. It was like Chattanooga in the appointments, but.

765
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: It really was, And I mean because I when I

766
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: went and did it. It was one day when Bobby

767
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: was traveling, and I went as soon as they opened,

768
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: literally eight thirty.

769
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 2: I was there as the doors were supposed to open. Yeah,

770
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 2: there was a line.

771
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: There was before the doors even opened, and I was

772
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: fourteenth the line.

773
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I sat there for three hours. Do

774
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: you have to take like a driver's test?

775
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: No?

776
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 2: Or like do they check your eyes? You're just getting renewal,

777
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,280
Speaker 2: are you? Yeah? They do check your eyes?

778
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: Oh god, but no, you do not have to do

779
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: a driver's test.

780
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:34,960
Speaker 2: Okay, did you well? When did you have your other?

781
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 2: It's a long time, so you're just about to expire

782
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: this year my eyes. So I think it's been like

783
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 2: what ten years?

784
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 1: But you're sure you don't, Oh you're sure you don't

785
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: have a real idea already though, No I don't.

786
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 2: Huh, But I look like so bad in my current one.

787
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 2: So I'm really excited.

788
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:49,719
Speaker 1: You're gonna go get all dulled up.

789
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 2: Like people like make comments like people at the airport,

790
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 2: they're like, whoa, that doesn't even look like you. I'm like, good,

791
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 2: thank you, thanks.

792
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: I think they just have to entertain themselves somehow. Maybe

793
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: when I were Bay, I always got questioned you did, yeah,

794
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 1: because my ID picture never had banks right. So when

795
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 1: I would go there like this isn't you, I'm like

796
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 1: I'd literally pull all my banks back and be like hello,

797
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like.

798
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 2: Oh it is.

799
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, get that haircut?

800
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, we can't get our picture taken every week.

801
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: Update this because I got a new hairstyle.

802
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 2: Is really funny. Yeah.

803
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: I think they just like to have fun with that.

804
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: I'm just nervous that I'm going to be missing something,

805
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 2: Like they're gonna be like, did you put this stuff

806
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 2: in online?

807
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: Because you can put this stuff in like your documents

808
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: online to get approved, and then you just bring.

809
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 2: All the documents that got approved. Oh no, I didn't.

810
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 2: You didn't do that. I'm old school. I just like

811
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 2: to show up.

812
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: Okay, but you're gonna be one of those people who

813
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: gets turned away. You know how many people I wash

814
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:44,919
Speaker 1: get turned away?

815
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 2: Are you serious? I have everything I need. I have

816
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: my birth certificate, my cecil security card.

817
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: Proof of address, like a bill, yeah, a bill for

818
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,320
Speaker 1: your house okay, two different ones?

819
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: Do you also have?

820
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: Let me just look it up for all the people

821
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: who need help because apparently old school.

822
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, what if we don't want to do technology.

823
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: It's literally on the government website. It is Yes, all

824
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 1: you do is type it in ABBY. You need real

825
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: ID required documents, proof of US citizen citizenship or illegal presence,

826
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,760
Speaker 1: proof of your full Social Security number, and two proofs

827
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: of Tennessee residency. But I think they're specific about those,

828
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: so you either need two. So a current utility bill,

829
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: current bank stand at, current mortgage, or deal of sale,

830
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: employer verification, paycheck workstuff something like that. You need two

831
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 1: of those from list A, and then you need one

832
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: from list B, which is your taxpayer identification number Form

833
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: I ninety four from the United States Citizenship or the

834
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: I seven. There's a lot of numbers, a lot of

835
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,480
Speaker 1: it is HEARDing members. Why Okay, I would double check

836
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: it before you go, and I would bring more than

837
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 1: you think you need, because at the very least is

838
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 1: all in your hands. I watched so many people get

839
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 1: turned off, like they literally were like, no, you don't

840
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: have what you need.

841
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 2: Oh that's so bad.

842
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 1: Oh I can't imagine, especially because you did get an appointment.

843
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 1: I know, just very far you have everything you could

844
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: ever want, And imagine okay. I even tell people like

845
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: getting their names changed, and they if they had the

846
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:22,320
Speaker 1: signature in the wrong place on like the.

847
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,720
Speaker 2: Marriage certificate, they'd get turned away. Oh.

848
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: I witnessed a lot in my three hours while I

849
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: was there. I had a lot of friends too.

850
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 2: You were fourteen in line and you were there three hours.

851
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: They sat on number nine for like two hours. It

852
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: was moving really fast. I was like, yeah, we're gonna

853
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: get in and out.

854
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 2: And then it just sat there and I.

855
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: Was like, are you kidding me?

856
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 2: They all went to lunch.

857
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: Something happened. I felt like the scene in Zudopia with

858
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 1: the freaking sauce.

859
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is so funny. It's my favorite scenes. Yeah,

860
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 2: it's so accurate, like they would do that. That's the

861
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 2: animal that's going to be in.

862
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: It is and that is exactly what it was like,

863
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 1: That's how it was.

864
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 2: In my brain.

865
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: All I was picturing was slows and slats are my

866
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: favorite animal. I cannot understand it.

867
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 2: So, yeah, I don't I feel for people going through that.

868
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:15,919
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I feel for myself at least you though, Yeah, okay, yeah,

869
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 2: there are fun things happening in your life before we

870
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 2: jump out of here. Anything else. I want to add,

871
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:24,760
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I don't think so. Just living life? Yeah, living,

872
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 2: living life, living, living life? Are you living large? Living loving?

873
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 2: What is it living? Love and fishing, fishing, loving every one.

874
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: Hunting fishing and living every day?

875
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 2: Is that what you're trying to do?

876
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: Sung?

877
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't been hunting yet. I mean I haven't

878
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 2: been fishing lately, so, but I am loving every day.

879
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 2: What about you living every day? Oh? I was gonna

880
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:48,839
Speaker 2: ask you hot take.

881
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: Do you feel like Riley Green shaming his mustache or

882
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 1: Morgan Wallen shaming his mullet was more controversial? Oh more

883
00:37:59,200 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: broke the internet.

884
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 2: It's probably the better word to say. I think Morgan mullin.

885
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 2: I just remember it being just a huge when he

886
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 2: like cut it off and like completely cut his hair.

887
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:13,279
Speaker 1: It was a wild moment because the mullet was so

888
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:19,560
Speaker 1: profound throughout when he like spiked in his stardom into

889
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: like the peak kind of.

890
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 2: His career, it was just gone. Because I feel like

891
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 2: Riley didn't have his mustache that much. Like we wouldn't

892
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 2: be like, what artist has a mustache and think Riley Green?

893
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 2: I wouldn't.

894
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: Now, Yeah, but to your point, he's I think he

895
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: started having it. If I remember, I saw an interview

896
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 1: that Ella Langley wanted him to have it for the

897
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 1: U like you Look Like You Love Me video music video, Yeah,

898
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: and told him to keep it or he had it

899
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: and he was gonna shave it off and She's like.

900
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 2: Keep it, and then he kept and he's.

901
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: Kept it when now I was gone, and I wonder.

902
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 1: I also wonder if there's also the theories online that

903
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 1: has to do with all that drama.

904
00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, what is going on? I don't know, man.

905
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: But then I also saw La post a TikTok video

906
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: her literally stirring the pot and saying something like she

907
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: was singing a song from Caitlin butts of like some

908
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 1: dang it. I wish I knew what the lyric was,

909
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 1: but it was like if I was talking about you

910
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: know it or likes something to that effect.

911
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 2: That's funny.

912
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,879
Speaker 1: So there's certainly things happening, yeah, and I just don't

913
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 1: know they're just messing with us. Though also at this point,

914
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 1: because I have this feeling sometimes when like people think

915
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: stuff is happening with me or they try and get info,

916
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,320
Speaker 1: I'll be like, let me stir the pot because it's funny.

917
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:30,720
Speaker 1: They're playing the game.

918
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 2: I know, I think they are. That's a thing, and

919
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 2: then having a show after the next day, people are

920
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 2: saying they were normal, so like, yeah, gow do.

921
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,319
Speaker 1: You know they performed at Stand in my Boots and yeah,

922
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: seemed fun.

923
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 2: She brought him out like she invited him during her time, right,

924
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: and she didn't have to. Yeah, she could have.

925
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: Been like if it's so bad, she could have been like, yeah,

926
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 1: I'm not bringing you out. Yeah, I'll get somebody else

927
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:53,560
Speaker 1: to do it, like she really could have.

928
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 2: So I'm confused. I don't know. I don't really follow

929
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 2: that that much. Like I know there's a lot happening,

930
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 2: but I feel like people and skew it either way,

931
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 2: Like people were zooming up on Mega Maroni when they

932
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 2: won the award there, like look at her face and

933
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 2: I looked at it and I was just like, she

934
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 2: just was standing there. What else is she supposed to do?

935
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 2: So like I don't know, I really don't know.

936
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 1: I know it's so it's so funny and I don't

937
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,359
Speaker 1: even get that invested, and then it just all starts

938
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 1: showing up on my fee and then I'm just next thing.

939
00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 2: I know, I'm down a rabbit hole. I'm like, why

940
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,439
Speaker 2: am I here? Yep, oh, it's gonna don't actually care

941
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 2: now that we're talking about it even more videos.

942
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: I know that was so that was a funny thing

943
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: that I was watching online. But I do think it's

944
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: hilarious when dudes cut their mustaches. I love a mustache.

945
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 1: I also don't mind a mustache if you don't have one,

946
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:40,160
Speaker 1: vice versa. I'm kind of indifferent, but I do think

947
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:44,240
Speaker 1: it's funny because I remember this very vividly when my dad,

948
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: my dad, my entire childhood, had a mustache, and then

949
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 1: when we were in high school, we were convinced he

950
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: should shave it. We're like, get rid of it, no

951
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 1: longer the mustache. And I cried when he shaved his

952
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,240
Speaker 1: mushats because I thought he looked like a naked morat.

953
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:05,080
Speaker 1: I was like, where did he go? And he's like,

954
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:05,839
Speaker 1: you told me.

955
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 2: To shave it.

956
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: I was like, I know, but put it back?

957
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 2: Did he get it bad? Does he have one? No?

958
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,439
Speaker 2: He doesn't, Okay, And now I'm used to it.

959
00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: You know, it was just that initial moment picture, but

960
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: dudes do kind of look a little bit like a

961
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: naked mole rat when they shaved the mustache, you know.

962
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, No. When I looked at the Riley Green picture,

963
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh.

964
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:24,879
Speaker 1: Not in like a bad way. It's just like it's

965
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: just full blown, like straight clean shade. Just feels like

966
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 1: a naked mole rat.

967
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 2: Because I like how it reminds me of yeah, you know,

968
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 2: because Riley always has scruff, and then he would just

969
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 2: like full of like, oh, I didn't even recognize him.

970
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 2: It was weird. I know, and he.

971
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: Still looks great, but it's just I don't know why

972
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:48,080
Speaker 1: I will because of my dad. Mustachesn't no longer have

973
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 1: a mustache remind me of naked mole rats.

974
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, your poor dad.

975
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: He didn't look like from that.

976
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:55,399
Speaker 2: He didn't look like one.

977
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 1: I just for some reason associated the two.

978
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, if you're listening.

979
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: My dad always listened, so for sure called me about

980
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: this one. Hey, Dad, like, really a naked moulerat.

981
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 2: No?

982
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 1: Okay, I have I have a question. I am considering

983
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: creating starting doing a co ed softball and or volleyball team.

984
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,439
Speaker 2: But should I Am I too old for that? No?

985
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 2: My boyfriend does it. He does volleyball. See volleyball. What

986
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 2: do you want to play on our team. Who he maybe,

987
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 2: but the only thing with him is it's hard because

988
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 2: it's usually on like the same night, like every Tuesday. Yeah,

989
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 2: and every other Tuesday. He wouldn't be able to with

990
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 2: his kids. That's fair. Well, you all you can find it,

991
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 2: that's all that matters. But yeah, oh no, you're not

992
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 2: too old. That's fun. I'm considered. I'm all about it.

993
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 2: But also all the softball stuff, like you've the home one.

994
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 2: I didn't want to admit this.

995
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 1: I had, like I went and did some practicing since

996
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: it's been a minute since I practiced because I didn't

997
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: get a plan in the softball Game of the Year

998
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 1: prior because of my sister's wedding and bachelortt stuff. So

999
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: I went and did some like practice. I think I

1000
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,400
Speaker 1: might have messed up my shoulder, and so like then

1001
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: I did the home run derby and I was like,

1002
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna have to suck.

1003
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: This up and do this. It's still hurt. Yeah, oh shit,

1004
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 2: how do you mess it up? I don't know.

1005
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 1: It's like I think I just might have bruised it

1006
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: because it's like the rot I don't know that I

1007
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: actually like hurt my rotator cuff. I think it might

1008
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 1: just be super inflamed or something. But I'm also like

1009
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 1: I want to start these things. I'm like, am I

1010
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:30,960
Speaker 1: too old? And since that my body is.

1011
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 2: Oh god, okay, yeah when you say it that way,

1012
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 2: I know is just a number.

1013
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 1: Your body ounce back in the same way. No, it

1014
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: really very active. But every time I get injured, man,

1015
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 1: I mean like when I broke my tailbone rollerblading, or

1016
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:48,359
Speaker 1: like when I ruined my hip from doing gymnastics. Every time,

1017
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 1: it takes me at least six months to recover.

1018
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's why I say no to a lot

1019
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 2: of like ice skating, like it scares me.

1020
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 1: But I get to I love activities, so I do too.

1021
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 1: Maybe I just need to be like the Michelin man,

1022
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: like put me in just like shit, right up there,

1023
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: you go all the pads, and then I can play.

1024
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: The sand volleyball. Oh that's gonna be fun, right because

1025
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 2: I've been playing.

1026
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,440
Speaker 1: My boyfriend plays sand volleyball a lot, and I've been

1027
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 1: playing filling in on some of his teams because I

1028
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 1: used to be a lebarro and like a back row hitter.

1029
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:19,440
Speaker 1: But also, sand volleyball is drastically different from court volleyball.

1030
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I like subbed in one time with mine.

1031
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 2: It's not great. Did you play? No, I'm a runner,

1032
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 2: that is true and basketball, but yeah I did not.

1033
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 2: Volleyball is not my thing. It would break my wrist

1034
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 2: if someone spiked it hard enough and I tried to hit.

1035
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,280
Speaker 2: Oh a snap, ma'am.

1036
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 1: You're not supposed to hit with riz What where do

1037
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 1: you hit?

1038
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 2: You're supposed to hit on your forearms.

1039
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: Well, like when you put your hands out right, like yeah,

1040
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 1: close your fists together and you bump with your fore arms.

1041
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: If it hits your wrists, like, you're not hitting correctly.

1042
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: There are some people who will like hit it with

1043
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: the back of their wrist because they're like last minute reaction.

1044
00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 2: Okay, that's see, that's where I messed up. But you're

1045
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 2: I supposed to Oh my whole rist was brown, like

1046
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 2: black and blue, like it was bruised so bad. After that?

1047
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: Were you trying to set? Because if you were setting too,

1048
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 1: you you just like your hands and setting, but you

1049
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: were bumping. You're attempting to bump, and it hit on

1050
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: top of your wrist.

1051
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like right here. It was right here on

1052
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 2: that bone on the inside by your thumb. Yeah that's bad, girlfriend,

1053
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 2: Yeah it was really bad. I'm just very.

1054
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: You're like, I would not like to sell it never, No,

1055
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 1: not really.

1056
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean maybe Okay, I played t ball, Okay,

1057
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 2: that's righte Like during the derby, you guys did like

1058
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 2: Bobby's like, Abby you want to hit. I'm like, oh,

1059
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 2: I think I'm good. I'm good. I don't know how

1060
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 2: this will go. I haven't touched to bat in like

1061
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 2: fifty years. Yeah, fifty fifteen. Yeah, well that's where I

1062
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 2: am right now. But don't hurt your shoulder worse.

1063
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: I know I'm having to take a break from the

1064
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: gym tune. It's just not I'm not very happy about it.

1065
00:45:58,800 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 2: But here I am.

1066
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 1: Truly, that's the worst I know. So anyways, we're get

1067
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: out of here. Okay, thanks for being here hanging out

1068
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: with me. You're welcome answering all the questions. Are you

1069
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: gonna have a vulnerability hangover? Are you okay?

1070
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 2: No? I should be Okay, Okay, I had one after

1071
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 2: on the show. You did just a little.

1072
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: Those are hard, but you did great. You didn't do

1073
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: anything wrong, and you were authentic and you shared your story.

1074
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 2: M hm. Yeah, I'm just sharing my story.

1075
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:31,439
Speaker 1: It is your story, Okay, you're like smiling, never mind

1076
00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,320
Speaker 1: telling people where they can find to hear you all.

1077
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 2: That good stuff on Instagram at Abby Lee Anderson.

1078
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 1: Woo, and go subscribe to the show YouTube page at

1079
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: Bobby Bone Show and you can follow me at what

1080
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: Girl Morgan. I did have a semi hard launch that

1081
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:47,839
Speaker 1: feels weird to.

1082
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 2: Say, and it was pretty hard.

1083
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: No, okay, medium.

1084
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 2: Hard, yeah is good, so my heart. Anyways.

1085
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: Bye, that's the best bits of the week with more.

1086
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out the other

1087
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 1: two parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all

1088
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 1: social platforms Bobby.

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Speaker 2: Bob Show and follow at Webgirl

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