1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: I had a client become my sugar daddy. Then I 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: realized he was my friend's actual dad, real nappy five females, 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: real daddy. 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 2: He's a sugar father. 5 00:00:12,160 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: Oh man, preserve your daddy to Baba's. I twenty five female, 6 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: met my best friend Leyla fake name, also twenty five 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: female in sixth grade and we instantly connect, thaying twenty 8 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: five and sixth grade, do you know you might want 9 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: to read up a little bit. After becoming friends, we 10 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: were inseparable and we did absolutely everything together, from coordinating 11 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: our class schedules to sports, to even the point our 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: other uh even to a point where our other friends 13 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: knew if either of us were invited to something, the 14 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: other wouldn't attend unless he were both invited. 15 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, solid aarit? Whoa my friend? 16 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 3: One time she was invited to a birthday party in 17 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 3: sixth grade and she went with that mean. 18 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: All right, pete. 19 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: It was one of the popular. 20 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 3: Boy And then they came back and they had, like 21 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 3: the whole group had a bunch of inside jokes. 22 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: He went to minigall, guess what now? They don't you 23 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: guess what you have now? The whole chat when inside 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: jokes proclaiming you aren't literally there clean, literally where's there 25 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: of chat? Are they? None? 26 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:14,080 Speaker 4: None? 27 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: Zero? None? But do you know who this? The story 28 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 1: comes from deleted user from case right. I read it. 29 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: They was deleted. Like your friendship with them? 30 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: No? No, I. 31 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: Mean I think you should. I think you should do 32 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: a friend brett I lived there. I think you should 33 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: just break it off. But I digress. So we were 34 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: so close that my parents allowed me to have sleepovers 35 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:43,559 Speaker 1: with her, even on school nds. Yeah, pretty big, which 36 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: was never in the cards for any of my other friends. 37 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: Both of our families referred to us as their second daughters, 38 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: and we will basically. 39 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 2: Cha friend literally ever literally twenty three, which is not 40 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 2: the age that. 41 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: They are at the time. Laila had a pretty rocky 42 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: home life. Parents were divorced. Layla's mom struggled with prescription 43 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: use as well as a pretty pretty unhealthy, possibly even 44 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,239 Speaker 1: abusive relationship, while her dad ended up dating a much 45 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: younger woman and started a new family no a sugar family, 46 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:20,239 Speaker 1: sure family delicious. Despite all of this, while her parents 47 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: didn't create the most healthier, stable environment, they did love 48 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: her and always treated me like family as well. All 49 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: through middle school in high school. We spent every single 50 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 1: day together, went on summer trips with both of our families, 51 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: and basically never submit to day of art. We were 52 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: the type of friends that neither got sick of each other, 53 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: never argued or had any sort of falling out. Damn, 54 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: we are building up to the higher you rise, the 55 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: art you. 56 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 2: The thing is that I think that if you have 57 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 2: long term friends, like from when you're like little little, 58 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 2: I think it's healthier to argue. 59 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I think when your. 60 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: Friends that long, I mean just argue like siblings. 61 00:02:53,440 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: I speak from inspiriting This is true. Yeah, when you're 62 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,959 Speaker 1: like friends with someone for like your whole life really 63 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 1: could be, it can get really toxic. 64 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. They kind of even. 65 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: Like like you sleep in the same It's like they're 66 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 1: like musing your starlight, Yeah, and causing chat to have 67 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: interruptions and crop Pravis, we're not talking about anyone. So 68 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: fast forward to senior year. I had experienced a trauma 69 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 1: in my life, and to make long story short, I 70 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 1: ended up in a psych ward for about three weeks. 71 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 1: Because we lived in a very small town, my classmates 72 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 1: all found out about this and I became the center 73 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 1: of gossip. No because of this, I decided to move 74 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 1: in with a family member in a neighboring city and 75 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: drainsfore schools at the end of my senior year, as 76 00:03:35,800 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: I was embarrassed, and I also did want to be 77 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: reminded of what I went through, as my hometown became 78 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: a huge trigger for me in mental help. For a while, 79 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: Leyla and I had kept in some contact, but I 80 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: could tell that she was hurt by my sudden disappearance 81 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: as I was still struggling mentally and involved in legal 82 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: proceedings related to my trauma, and I never really got 83 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: the chance to fully explain to her why I left, 84 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: or had the chance to say it by something. They 85 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: still were wreat to this day, as they never meant 86 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: to just up and abandon my best friend, so maybe 87 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 1: she didn't even like no. But after some time we 88 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: slowly lost contact in drifted apart. The last time we 89 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: spoke was several years ago when I learned through social 90 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: media that her mother had passed away. I expressed my 91 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 1: condolences and spent some time reminiscing about the good time 92 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: that we had, exchange gas of old pictures, took them 93 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: memory and her mom. We kept in contact and texting 94 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: on social media for a short time after that, slowly 95 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:27,919 Speaker 1: drifted apart because we have both changed a lot and 96 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: just got busy doing our ely. That's what happens people, something. 97 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,919 Speaker 1: You got to do your own thing, right. She became 98 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: super religious, and I ended up getting pregnant and being 99 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 1: a single mom, and we were both in college finishing 100 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: our undergrads. A couple of years later, finished my undergrad 101 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 1: and secured a good job with benefits to support myself anyway, son. 102 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 1: A few years later, I got accepted into a three 103 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 1: year law program. In an addition, had set a gold 104 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 1: Starts a savings account for my child early to be 105 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: able to purchase in the car. Sixteen dude has got 106 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: sixteen years ahead of the game. You know that? How 107 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:03,799 Speaker 1: many years ahead of the game are you? Guys? 108 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:05,480 Speaker 2: I'm not even fine head? 109 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: Wow? Are you ahead? You just look behind on like 110 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: I'm two years ahead technically that's on your brag. I'm 111 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: two years ahead because of schooling. Nice, I'm my associates 112 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: in high school, big man, But. 113 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 5: Did you can continue your higher education? I didn't need 114 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 5: to know, but but then that means you're dope. That's 115 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:33,119 Speaker 5: like doing your homework like or like do the work 116 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 5: that you do it early and then you're you're assigning 117 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:35,799 Speaker 5: to do homework. 118 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: The goal in life was to get a bachelor's and 119 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 1: I got that. I think you're just hating O'Riley. But 120 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 1: then you're but you're no longer early. 121 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 5: You were early for the two years that you had 122 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 5: it before everyone else, but now you're no longer. 123 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 1: Can we get a pool? Is Sam a hater or not? 124 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 4: That's just trash everything. We're oh, yeah, yeah, are they 125 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 4: both haters? I'm a lover, but there some time now 126 00:05:58,440 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 4: you're just on die? 127 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: What are we combining the two jokes into water? Okay? 128 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:11,039 Speaker 1: So they should we do about the wheat? So I 129 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: wanted to get McCart sixteen to start a college fun, 130 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. Okay, so it's like multiple things basically, 131 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: just to be able to set them up for success 132 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: and support them financially into his early adult as. This 133 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:21,919 Speaker 1: is something my family was able to do for me. 134 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: So these So for these expenses, I ended up working 135 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: weekends in a bordering state as a spicy gymnast. What 136 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 1: does that mean? You put that in? It? Was it there? Naturally? 137 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 5: Unless unless unless live maybe spicy GM I'm thinking spicy 138 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 5: gymnasts of someone who danced creves their body. 139 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm like a fire oh pull dancer. They can't hear me. 140 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: Oh I see a station. Oh yeah, we were, we were. 141 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: We really see how we really have deep into that. 142 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: So uh, this worked that well for me as I 143 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: was starting to make two to six K a night 144 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 1: on Yeah. 145 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 2: Okay, two to six kN I someone in the map. 146 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 5: Uh with two or six K, I'm gonna I'm gonna 147 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 5: go in the middle to say five three hundred times 148 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 5: five h I just go like, right, well, yeah, but 149 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 5: I I want to do I want to do five 150 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 5: because then you know that that it's five times three 151 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 5: hundred times is twenty one point five million? 152 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe working three und days a year that that 153 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: things that seems we work three d the days a year. 154 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: That's pretty tough though, of like not all weekend. But 155 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: oh and I only planned to do this until I 156 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: fully paid off my previous suit the lows and grad 157 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: school to be clear, the loss of my state that 158 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: I dance and are pretty strict so nothing fully naked. 159 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 5: Oh okay, so she kind of dances across the line, 160 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 5: but no touching sitting on laps, et cetera, et cetera. 161 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: Most of the money I make is credited to my 162 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: mouth peace so because she's really she's a podcast. No, 163 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: most divince stuff comes from our mouth vias to Yeah, 164 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: your can that I know? Yeah, I might need to 165 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: put your your yours on the other side. Yeah, it's 166 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: because rising dog, it was on you. So fast forward. 167 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: Now my studlows are fully paid off. My son's saving 168 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: account is growing. If I was able to pay for 169 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: my first year of law school completely out of pocket 170 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:44,599 Speaker 1: without taking any more loads law school, guys, that's crazy. 171 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: And moved to a nice neighborhood with a good school 172 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: defect a great school difficct Oh, dang, is she thinking 173 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: about kids? She has a kid? Oh, she has a kid. 174 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 5: She's a single mama, is single mama and has all 175 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 5: that sugar. 176 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:01,880 Speaker 1: Well, about four months ago, I met a man at 177 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: the club when I was working. I'll call him Jimmy. 178 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: Does he run a YouTube channel that of Mike And 179 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 1: we immediately hit above. I dated one hundred strippers. I 180 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: want that datating show. I ever got to be part 181 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: of it. I just want it to exist. Guys, put 182 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:25,599 Speaker 1: in the chat if you want same to do that 183 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: as a video. One hundred strip I've never borne to 184 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 1: one strip club, and then you marry one of them. 185 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: You have to marry one of them. I have to. Yeah, 186 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: you have to. It's part of the video. Yeah, oh yeah, Deadpool. 187 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: I don't usually connect with customers in the way that 188 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: I connected with him. Something about him just felt so 189 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: safe and familiar. They couldn't figure out what. He ended 190 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: up getting a VIP room with me for the entire night, 191 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: and for reference, VIP in the club that I work 192 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: in is full one hundred and fifty dollars same. 193 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 6: The entire night. 194 00:09:55,800 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 1: He ended up coming to see me every single weekend 195 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: after that. He was playing four fifteen hour every single weekend. Listen. 196 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 3: I just can't I so understand why. 197 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: He looked what He took one good look at her 198 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 1: and said, zooey, mama, I gotta. 199 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 5: Have that because he has no rigs out of habit, 200 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 5: so he pays for companty oh chat. 201 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:22,079 Speaker 1: But she still likes him though. Yeah, I don't know. 202 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: He ended up coming to see me every single weekend 203 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: after that, and every time he'd get a VIP room 204 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: and we just have some drinks and talk or goof 205 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: around for a few hours, so he always told me 206 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:34,319 Speaker 1: that he came to see me so he could take 207 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 1: a break and just hang out. He never wanted dances 208 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: or even to see anything. He just wanted to hang out, 209 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: which is truly the best customer to have. Once he 210 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: became one of my Yeah right, sounds like you're not 211 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: doing it. Yeah, well, the chat chat chat chat show it. 212 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 5: I think it is most everybody's coming from her mouth, she says, 213 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 5: chat w ruth. 214 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: Once he became one of my established regulars, I gave 215 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: him my number. Not uncommon for dancers have to encourage 216 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 1: regulars to come in on flow Next, after several months 217 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: of working Monday to Friday at my desk job and 218 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: nights and weekends, I decided to take the night off 219 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: and enjoy a kid free night to myself in the 220 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 1: house with a bottel of v Noo. I was a 221 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: few glasses in when Jamie texted me, ask you why 222 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 1: it wasn't at work. He basically begged to come maybe 223 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 1: to come meet him for a drink, and since meeting 224 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,960 Speaker 1: customers outside of work is something I never do, I 225 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: obviously declined. After pleading with me, he sent me five 226 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 1: hundred dollars on Apple Bay and expressed that he would 227 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,760 Speaker 1: be leaving town for work for the rest of the year. 228 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: What I insisted he needed to talk to me before 229 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: he left, So I told him I joined him for 230 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: a drink, but only if he met me at the 231 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: club I worked at, to which he agreed, and he 232 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 1: sent me an uber to get me there, and I 233 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: had told him I had already been drinking. Dude, she 234 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: doesn't even have to pay for an uber. That's so 235 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 1: you were what great benefits? Yeah, right, Sam, I think 236 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 1: you can get this one day? What the situation? Why 237 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: would I want that situation? 238 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 6: You're saying what you're saying, one day I can pay 239 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 6: for someone. 240 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 1: No, no, no, you're the other way around. Good no, no, no, 241 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 1: you're you're there. You're ope, you're not You're not the guy. 242 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:11,439 Speaker 6: So you're saying, one day I should have people pay 243 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 6: for my company. 244 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: I can see somebody paying for your uber. You're gonna 245 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: pay for you every hour just to sit and chat 246 00:12:16,920 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 1: with you. I don't want that. I just want a 247 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: deep connement the uber things. That's what I meant. 248 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 249 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: I just wanted jennieban connection it right away. So once 250 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: I arrived, he got at the table at a bottle 251 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: of the champagne and told me that you haven't had 252 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 1: a proposal to me, to which I rolled my eyes. 253 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: Because of this field of work, it usually means he's 254 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: gonna ask for some sort of spicy sleep favor, to 255 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 1: which I would say no. But what happened next was 256 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: not at all what I expected. He told me he 257 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: wanted to foot the bill for the rest of my 258 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 1: entire law program, as well as provide additional finances to 259 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 1: support me if I quit working at the club, since 260 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: he wouldn't be around to make sure I was being 261 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 1: treated right. Literally, the plot, I'm pretty one, wow dude, 262 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: to which I laughed out loud right in his face. 263 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: Yeah freaking right, punk. 264 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she's been hurt too many times, so he 265 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 2: called dark cheap. 266 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: She's been burnt, burned one tot. 267 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:19,679 Speaker 5: She has a heart of gold, but it's a hard 268 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 5: heart and no one can get inside. 269 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: That gold has been melted and needs to be reshaped 270 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,640 Speaker 1: into a heartache. And a lot of customers say things 271 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: like this out of being wasted, or because they're creeps 272 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: hoping for some spicy slink favors, or expecting some kind 273 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 1: of romantic relationship. He frowned and said he was insisting 274 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 1: and he was serious, to which I just said, okay, yeah, 275 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: and he smiled and asked me how much my tuition 276 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: books would cost for the four semesters I had left, 277 00:13:46,320 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: and to entertain him. So to entertain it, so he's 278 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: gonna pay for four SEMs. 279 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 2: Cool, just like that. I'm never gonna anyway, I say, 280 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 2: fully SEMs. 281 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never heard that moment I never heard of. 282 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 1: So I'm paying for four somethings. Nice. Beat him up, 283 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: beat him, beat him up, beat him up. So to 284 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: entertain him, I pulled up my student account and I 285 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:15,080 Speaker 1: showed it. He then reached into his pocket and pulled 286 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 1: out a check book and wrote a check for about 287 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: five K over the total I gave him and slid 288 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 1: it over to me. WHOA right, Yeah, come on, don't 289 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: don't tease me like leandrin. Okay, yeah, that's two years 290 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: of law school and like a play. Wait, so she 291 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 1: told him. So She's like, She's like, okay, here's my phone, 292 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: here's the total amount. Lets say it's two hundred k 293 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: for the for the next two years of long people. 294 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: Five K over that he paid two of five K. 295 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, he'd be yeah, but but you could be it 296 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 5: could be like Australian in law school. 297 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 1: It's like way cheaper than America. It could well we 298 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 1: have knowing or like what do you what do you know? 299 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: What country? 300 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 3: We do? Not? 301 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 2: So it could be editwhere from ten k to two? 302 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yes, from from fifteen day to tw about uh 303 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: Ninja t says, check it's gonna bounce. A check that's 304 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 1: gonna bounce. Oh that's a bro ninja tea. That's such 305 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: a good point. What if check bounce me? What if 306 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: a check bounces? I mean, but it seems like he's 307 00:15:12,680 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: good for you, she said a lot. He has been 308 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: paying four fifteen hours for like a long Yeah, like 309 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 1: he's built. 310 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 2: He builds up his credit. 311 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: Or he he so he's like rich, but now like 312 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 1: he's like mega rich, but like lubber rich and that's 313 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: like a uber rich move and he so he built up, 314 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: Like oh, when I give her this check, she won't 315 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 1: think about it because I always pay the board? What 316 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: the game? What's the what the game? 317 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 3: Like? Is he. 318 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: What check bounces moves to Croatia moves to but what 319 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 1: does he But he doesn't would like. He's like, you 320 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: know what, but she'll just take the money. 321 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 5: He said this, but he's sending this check for her 322 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 5: to quit her job and then he moves away. 323 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: But she could just re be hired there. So it's like, 324 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: we don't know. I think it's legit. I think it's legit. 325 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: I think to fake. But I just stared at it, 326 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 1: honestly shocked. 327 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 3: Man. 328 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 1: I was still highly doubtful, but I slid it into 329 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: my purse and he continued on with the night as usual, 330 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: chatting and drinking until he eventually ordered me in uber hooe. 331 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: The next day, I hesitantly took to check out to 332 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: the bank, fully expecting it to bounce or be fake 333 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:23,280 Speaker 1: or something. But the following day the money was in 334 00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: my account. No. I called him to express my gratitude, 335 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: and he told me to just keep my end of 336 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 1: the bargain, which is just quit, which is quit beat 337 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: uh dancing, quit the dancing, and just keep going. 338 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 5: Such a good deal, I wore she could not quit 339 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 5: and then getting double the mutt. 340 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: That's what I would do. The following weekend rolled around. 341 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 2: Let's say you were a full time dancer. 342 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: And dead dancing amount dead dancing. 343 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 5: No, it's what whatever you're making for the time that 344 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 5: you would be paying whatever you would be making basicly, Yeah, 345 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 5: probably double what you're making. 346 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,239 Speaker 3: Would you continue to work if you had done as 347 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 3: a as a dancer, because then you could just focus 348 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 3: on law school scut that you are after dancing all night. 349 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: And now I got like cross reference had a study 350 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 1: and then you got to take care of a kid, 351 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 1: and taking care of a kid yeah maybe not, maybe 352 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 1: or not. But so the following weekend rolled around and 353 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: Jimmy texted me asking how I was doing and saying 354 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 1: that he was planning a big YouTube video just good 355 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: and asking how much I typically made in a weekend 356 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: at the club. I told him, and he sent me 357 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 1: the money I would have made for the entire weekend. 358 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: Remember how she was saying she could make two to 359 00:17:39,840 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 1: six k a night. Yeah, so that's the entire weekend. 360 00:17:42,600 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: So that's like two to six k times too. Actually, 361 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: probably like on the higher end, like that weekend. 362 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:50,879 Speaker 2: She's like, I actually make this scene, dude. 363 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:54,159 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Well, Mixed Emotion just skift to ten 364 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:58,719 Speaker 1: memberships who mix emotions, bro, Mixed emotions really have one 365 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 1: emotion and that is freaking right. So I told him 366 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,400 Speaker 1: when I typically make it a weekend, and he sent 367 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 1: me what I would have made for the entire weekend 368 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 1: and has done that every weekend since. So every weekend 369 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 1: he just sends her h So he's already sent her 370 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: two years of blosst Lobbie whatever, Yeah, something like that. 371 00:18:20,760 --> 00:18:24,680 Speaker 2: And that is sending her about seven six K every weekend. 372 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 1: Probably twelve K, like two days Saturday and Sunday or 373 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: Friday Saturday senday. Uh. We don't talk to each other 374 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 1: much other than him sending the random things he sees 375 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 1: in his travels and asks how I'm doing short conversations, 376 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 1: but that's pretty much it. Well, a few days ago, 377 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: you guys aren't even writing it. Put your ic us 378 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: in a chat because this is this is absolutely insaneit Well, 379 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: a few days ago, I was randomly looking through some 380 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 1: old memories in my camera roll when I came across 381 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 1: a photo of me and Layla with her family on 382 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:56,119 Speaker 1: a trip that we took in high school. 383 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 2: I forgot at the start of the story. 384 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 1: I recognized the man in the back of the photo, 385 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:09,159 Speaker 1: Jimmy is Layless Dad. Tell him my God. For some 386 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,479 Speaker 1: back context for Sam The beginning of the story was 387 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 1: Opie's friendship with Leila, her childhood best friend, that fell 388 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: apart op Ope got pregnant early. She had a very 389 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: traumatic experience that caused her to like move out of 390 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: town and not really even be able to say say 391 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 1: goodbye to her to her best friend Laila, we've just 392 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 1: found out that her that her sugar daddy is her 393 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: child and best friends famby, who knew her very well. 394 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: By the way that's going, that's why he felt Familia 395 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: knew he knew because remember they're like, oh, we would 396 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 1: sleep over all the time. Wow, he knew, he knew 397 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 1: the idea of whack because because her name is not 398 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 1: for sure, we don't know. I mean, maybe she used 399 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 1: a separate name, but I mean it's it's like he 400 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 1: spent a ton of time with her when she was 401 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,440 Speaker 1: a child. I'd have to imagine he knows her first 402 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 1: name if he's sending her like two hundred and you know, 403 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:02,120 Speaker 1: he's got to know her first name so well. 404 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 2: You know, dads sometimes don't know their kids. 405 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:11,640 Speaker 1: Fred, but he did weeknights. No, he got no favors. 406 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 1: He's literally they've literally done nothing. Spicy sleep. Why so 407 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: far they've literally gone. I think, actually hold it because 408 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:18,879 Speaker 1: now it sounds too far away. Dot you there we go. 409 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,159 Speaker 1: We figured it out. I'll do it right here, right 410 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 1: at meat chin. I think that's perfect. Yes, so should 411 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: we do do? I don't know how I didn't realize 412 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 1: as sooner. He looks much older now and has gained 413 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 1: quite a bit of weight. This immediately made me feel 414 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: so gross and wrong that the man who became my 415 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 1: best customer was the same man I used to refer 416 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: to as my second dad. Yeah, I was so creeped out. However, 417 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 1: to give him the benefit of the doubt, there is 418 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:53,399 Speaker 1: a chance Jimmy didn't recognize me either. Since high school, 419 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: I lost about seventy five pounds and have had cosmetic 420 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,880 Speaker 1: surgery that changed my body type drastically. I do look 421 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 1: significantly different than I did back then. Sometimes looking at 422 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 1: old photos, I don't even recognize myself. And in addition 423 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 1: to that, I've never told him my real name. 424 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:12,399 Speaker 5: Okay, so yeah, I mean it's nothing of This is 425 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 5: a win check. 426 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: How do you what she gets to check? Oh? Yeah, 427 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 1: you have to write their real name. She got to 428 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: put it in like she could have. He could have 429 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,640 Speaker 1: put the amount and everything in this. Yeah, she writes 430 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 1: it's insane though that they were this whole time and 431 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: she doesn't know. 432 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 6: Even just real money holy crap because. 433 00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: It and her name on like Apple pay and stuff 434 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 1: like yeah, I don't know, man, But but Opie says 435 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,879 Speaker 1: that I never told him my real name. Maybe she 436 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: has like a fake name for her like payments and stuff. 437 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: I don't. 438 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 5: I mean, most trippers, if they are most spicy sleep 439 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 5: gymnasts a fake name. 440 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: This is true, but Crystal and to make it as 441 00:21:57,119 --> 00:22:02,719 Speaker 1: long as pretty surprised, but also Doma Dominika gifted five memberships. 442 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 6: Wow, Dominica Dominika serious, let's freaking go now. 443 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 1: He's never brought up any old memories or any conversation 444 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: that suggested TV lead from the past, but after discovering this, 445 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:23,399 Speaker 1: I feel so gross. This is potentially horrendously disgusted. But 446 00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 1: what is it disgusting is that we're live every single 447 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 1: week to answer a PNPSD. Okay, so just that a 448 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:29,959 Speaker 1: profile and you can hop it just like we are 449 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:30,280 Speaker 1: right now. 450 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 5: And faris also did Mixed Emotions give us another five 451 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 5: gifted memberships? 452 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 1: Mixed Emotions Oh yeah, make them shout out. Mixed emotions. 453 00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: Also not disgusting is literally the exact opposite of me. 454 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:49,919 Speaker 1: Think about it. So, now chat, Do I bring it up? 455 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,120 Speaker 1: Do I bring it up or try to find out 456 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: if he does know who I am? Yeah? Do you 457 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: do you like? Bring it up or trying to like 458 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 1: secretly you know, see if he knows? Do I just 459 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 1: ghost him and quit accepting his money? I'm honestly at 460 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 1: a loss, and on top of all of it, I 461 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: feel guilty for accepting all this money and spending all 462 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,880 Speaker 1: this time with my best friend's dad. Granted we aren't 463 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 1: close anymore, but she's someone that I will always hold 464 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 1: dear in my heart and consider family. I'm honestly so 465 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,159 Speaker 1: confused by this entire situation. Would I be the avile 466 00:23:19,280 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: if I just leave it alone and pretend I never 467 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,159 Speaker 1: figured this out and keep things as they are? I 468 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: don't know what to do. I don't know if I 469 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,439 Speaker 1: should feel guilty or roast out or what that is? 470 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: Literally while we have but let's answer the big hairy question. 471 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: Would be the A hole if she never not asking 472 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 1: for her to do anything right? 473 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 3: No, I don't like I understand why she's saying that 474 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 3: she feels grow style and stuff. 475 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: I don't think. 476 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 2: She she would. She hasn't done anything with him. 477 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 1: It could be a weird thing for him. But yeah, 478 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: but they haven't done he hasn't done anything yet. Feel 479 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:00,920 Speaker 1: like that is in good ear. 480 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do kind of think maybe he should tell him. 481 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: I think I think she should. 482 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:08,880 Speaker 2: I don't think she should go to him. 483 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: No, maybe maybe should another fuck gifted memberships are going 484 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:19,359 Speaker 1: for another thirty by uh mixed emotions, mixed emotions, sat 485 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:19,760 Speaker 1: at you? 486 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 6: Oh? 487 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,159 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think she could maybe do like an 488 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: order a possible order of operations. See if she can 489 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 1: find out, you know, in a way that's like ethical 490 00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 1: without him, without him knowing. If she can't be that, 491 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 1: then maybe just ultimately come to be like, hey did 492 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 1: you did you know this? And then maybe decide. But 493 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:43,119 Speaker 1: if he says yes, then what maybe then she's like 494 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: it's too weird. I think I think he's very gross 495 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: out yeaheah. So I think at that point, because she 496 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,479 Speaker 1: didn't know the entire time, I don't think she deserved 497 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:54,160 Speaker 1: to feel any guilt because like she didn't know. She's 498 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: but he's not. 499 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 6: The able like like because she's at the angle. 500 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: For what has happened yeah, I guess like she's asking. 501 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 6: Am I for essentially ghosting. 502 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:03,679 Speaker 1: She she's trying to decide, and she's like, hey, if 503 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 1: I if I do ghost or just keep going and 504 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: not tell him, what would I be? They whole Keith joing. 505 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: But she doesn't have to do anything else. Oh you 506 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 1: mean just I think it because there is a possibility 507 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: that he actually doesn't know. I think. 508 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 6: I agree date to transparency when you're taking that seven money, yeah, 509 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 6: is importance. Yeah, And it's. 510 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 5: Not like he's asking for anything, So I don't I 511 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 5: don't see an issue with. 512 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 6: You, like even keeth in the money, if that's something 513 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 6: you're worried about. 514 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: Totally totally, I would, yeah, keep all the old money 515 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: because again he didn't know, and just just just tell him, 516 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: tell him or at least try to find out first initially. 517 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, and then you can I think, I think, yeah, 518 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 5: I think if you I I think if I was 519 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 5: in this situation, I would like call him tell him 520 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,119 Speaker 5: at I don't know, well my reaction would be if 521 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:02,960 Speaker 5: he's like, yeah, I know, of course I knew. 522 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 6: I would be like you, let's stop talk anymore. 523 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,480 Speaker 3: Like I don't think I'm comfortable continuing this type of relationship. 524 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 2: She look for the money that you given me. 525 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I don't think she owes him that. I 526 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,359 Speaker 1: don't think she would owe him anything because it's just like, no, 527 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 1: she didn't know, you know, And it's like, you gave 528 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: me this money, so it's like get this for gifting policy. 529 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 1: You're done. No takes back, no take back the