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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and welcome to stephone

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Speaker 1: Never Told You production of iHeart Radio, and welcome to

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Speaker 1: another edition of Happy Hour. As always, if you choose

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Speaker 1: to drink, do so responsibly. Do whatever you're doing responsibly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just joined us for this time, which actually, this is

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Speaker 1: gonna be an interesting episode around.

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Speaker 2: Well what are you siping out, Sabantha?

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Speaker 3: I am keeping it caffeinated over here and having some

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Speaker 3: iced coffee from yesterday's leftover coffee.

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Speaker 2: That's how I do Oh so you iced old.

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Speaker 3: That's how I do it, Okay, Yeah, Like I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I need to just go ahead and just put the

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Speaker 3: rest of it in the refrigerator for the following day.

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Speaker 3: Just make you how good creamer?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the US, I'm very very jealous.

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Speaker 1: Although iced coffee it could all be in my head,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like it makes me much more caffeinated.

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Speaker 3: Really, is it because to drink it faster?

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Speaker 1: Possibly? Possibly? I mean a lot of that is honestly

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Speaker 1: in your head. Yeah, So it could just be I

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Speaker 1: don't have it as often, and when I have it,

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Speaker 3: I've offered it to you before, and you have had

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Speaker 3: a couple of times, but you tend to lean to.

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Speaker 2: The hot yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I do love ice coffee though I did too. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm drinking my red wine. It is a different red

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Speaker 1: wine because I went home for Mother's Day. What a

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Speaker 1: whirlwind that was, Like yesterday, it was it was recently.

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Speaker 1: My mom gave me some wine, so that's nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I went home for Mother's Day. Not necessarily for

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Speaker 3: Mother's Day though, but for my niece who was graduating

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Speaker 3: high school this year. This is my final niece nephew

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Speaker 3: graduating and she's been doing drama for the past five years.

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Speaker 3: She's been doing it since before high school, and so

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Speaker 3: this was the last play she was in and I

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Speaker 3: had to go see it, and I made a mistake.

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Speaker 3: Went on the last day of the play, so that

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Speaker 3: means they were telling all the seniors goodbye, and she

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Speaker 3: as well as the fact it was a Mama Mia,

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Speaker 3: which is probably one of the plays that I hate

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Speaker 2: Wow, I've never heard about high school.

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Speaker 3: Doing men Just for a second, I know this is

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Speaker 3: your happy hour, Yeah, but apparently they did this play.

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Speaker 3: They did Chicago, and I'm sitting here going and they

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Speaker 3: are again. You know, if you've been following us for

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Speaker 3: a while that I come from a very very conservative

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Speaker 3: course there is still queer kids involved in drama, but

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Speaker 3: So Bram and Mia is all about this woman who's

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Speaker 3: slept around and didn't know who her baby daddy was,

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Speaker 3: which is not a big deal, but to have high

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Speaker 3: schoolers making jokes about it and pretentidly it's them, it

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Speaker 3: was so awkward, painfully awkward that I was like, what

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Speaker 3: It was very proud of her. The rest of it

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Speaker 2: From what I remember, it's a pretty long play.

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Speaker 3: It was two hours.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's actually really interesting because I know I've talked

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Speaker 1: I don't think my experience was nearly as conservative as yours,

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Speaker 2: Interesting?

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Speaker 1: Well, listeners, if any of you have any insight, we

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Speaker 3: That, because yeah, it's also talking about how this woman

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Speaker 3: hated marriage, which good on her. If it was just me,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, but I was sitting next to people

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny because so I recently traveled for the

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Speaker 1: I know nothing about their politics, but they were watching

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Speaker 3: Made me, well, you know, I guess maybe we did.

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Speaker 3: I don't think about it because again I don't have children.

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Speaker 3: And then I'm in there, I'm like, wait, this is odd.

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Speaker 3: Is Las Vegas a family friendly?

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Speaker 1: Uh, it's trying to be. It's trying to change its reputation.

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Speaker 1: City they've I think they've changed it though.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, Okay, and there's a lot of really bad.

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Speaker 1: Like we saw a poster from like Gordon Ramsey's restaurant

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Speaker 2: Is it just bad food? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But so like I think, anyone from Vegas write in

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Speaker 1: what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas anymore. It's like,

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Speaker 1: what happens in Vegas can only happen in Vegas.

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Speaker 3: Is that true?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's definitely some unique things there, but it's

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Speaker 1: certainly more they're going.

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Speaker 2: For more family friendly.

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Speaker 1: A lot of hotels, okay, a lot of restaurants did

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Speaker 3: Yes, you got that fancy stuff, that's right, fancy treatment.

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Speaker 2: Kind of. I did get it.

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Speaker 1: So for the other podcast we do Savor, we went

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Speaker 1: to Las Vegas. We're going to go apparently two more

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Speaker 2: But then I still have TSA pre check for some reason,

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Speaker 3: Oh no, Oh. I hate the prep though, Like you

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Speaker 3: don't know what to do and you're watching other people

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Speaker 1: Right, Yes, the like businessman that like huffs loudly behind you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and then like slams the state trade the

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Speaker 3: And you're like, but give me a minute, sir.

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Speaker 1: People are a chance in the airport, yes, sometimes understandably.

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Speaker 1: It's other times I'm like, look, we're all in the

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Speaker 2: You can't go anywhere faster. Just calm down there, right.

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Speaker 1: But I think the thing I was going to talk

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Speaker 1: which is like when you have an X and there's

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Speaker 2: Like in the South.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, because he loved Vegas and he was pretty rich,

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Speaker 2: And he invited me to Vegas and was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: Wait, you didn't know he was hitting on you when

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Speaker 3: he said I'll pay for your trip to Vegas. No, girl, Okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny because one of the things I really

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Speaker 1: in other ways. It was very like pretty Woman because

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Speaker 3: Yes, Okay, this is starting to sound like a kay drama.

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Speaker 3: Did he'd buy clothes for you? I mean, what did

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Speaker 1: To?

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Speaker 2: But what happened was so I I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I look back and I shake my head. It past me,

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Speaker 1: but I've never been to Vegas.

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Speaker 3: So none of your friends said anything to you either,

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Speaker 3: Like when you told them He's taking me to Vegas,

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Speaker 1: Well, in my defense and I know, I know, but

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Speaker 1: I oftentimes wanted to do exp things that my friends

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he lied, but I think he

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Phil, I'm waiting for my invite, which hasn't happen

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Speaker 3: If you really want us to be honest, we gotta

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Speaker 2: Maybe we can work an angle. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Well, cheers to you for uh surviving your mom

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Speaker 1: And yeah, if anyone's from Vegas or has any thoughts

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