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Speaker 1: Subject my ex's new wife needs advice. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm a forty six year old divorced mother of two

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Speaker 1: and I had a great co parenting relationship with my

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Speaker 1: ex husband. I was friendly with his new wife and

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Speaker 1: my children liked her. But my sixteen year old thinks

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Speaker 1: her step mom has low self esteem. It tickled me

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Speaker 1: to my core that a child peaked this behavior. My

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Speaker 1: ex husband is very established and he likes things a

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Speaker 1: certain way, down to his sexual experiences. That can be

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Speaker 1: intimidating for any woman, but he was my equal, and

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Speaker 1: in fact, by the time we got divorced, I brought

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Speaker 1: home more of the bacon than he did. I found

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Speaker 1: out he cheated on me, and I was fine with

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Speaker 1: leaving because our marriage had run its course. I was

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Speaker 1: ready to go. He married the woman he was cheating with,

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Speaker 1: so she entered the marriage with heavy guilt. She called

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Speaker 1: and we had a face to face meeting, and I

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Speaker 1: told her I forgive her and I told her to

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Speaker 1: live her life.

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Speaker 2: That was almost two years ago.

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Speaker 1: The other day I got another call from her and

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Speaker 1: she left a message asking for advice.

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Speaker 2: I called her and we talked for an hour.

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Speaker 1: She said my ex told her that I was the

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Speaker 1: ultimate lover and that I did everything around the house

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Speaker 1: just the way he likes it. He suggested that she

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Speaker 1: call me and maybe come by my house to see

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Speaker 1: how I keep things in order here. I told her

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Speaker 1: that would never happen, and I advised her to stand

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Speaker 1: up to my ex and stop letting him compare to me.

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Speaker 2: This woman asked.

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Speaker 1: Me about detailed sexual positions that my ex and I

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Speaker 1: used to do, and I had to remind her that

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Speaker 1: she took him from me by having an affair, so

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Speaker 1: she should do whatever.

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Speaker 2: She did back then.

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Speaker 1: Now she's all upset and told my ex that I'm bitter.

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Speaker 2: He's on board with her.

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Speaker 1: Bs. I cannot block them because of the children. How

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Speaker 1: should I deal with them? Well, first of all, I

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Speaker 1: got to say I love you, I really do. You

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Speaker 1: are one heck of a woman. I don't know any

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Speaker 1: woman who would be as nice and accommodating to the

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Speaker 1: other woman, to the woman who stole her husband. It

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Speaker 1: says you're mature, You've got class, You've gotten over the

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Speaker 1: pain that the affair must have caused.

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Speaker 2: It says that you're a grown woman.

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Speaker 1: Even though you said the marriage had run its course

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Speaker 1: and you were ready to go, that was the last

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Speaker 1: straw that ended it. The former side chicken now wife

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Speaker 1: has a lot a lot of nerve calling you. I

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Speaker 1: thought your response to her to do what she did

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Speaker 1: back then when she asked you about how to please

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Speaker 1: her husband was brilliant. I told you, I really like you.

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Speaker 1: You could have laughed at her, you could have cussed

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Speaker 1: her out all kinds of things, but you kept it

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Speaker 1: really cute.

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Speaker 2: And I like that she.

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Speaker 1: Was stupid to even ask you, and really dumb to

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Speaker 1: think that you would tell her she took your husband,

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Speaker 1: and now she wants to know from you how to

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Speaker 1: keep him.

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Speaker 3: M M.

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Speaker 2: I think this has to be a first hunt.

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Speaker 1: Steven Strawberry letter history, Lady, You've dealt with this whole

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Speaker 1: situation like a queen. That's all I can say to you.

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Speaker 1: Enough is enough, though, and how do you deal with this?

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Speaker 4: You ask?

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Speaker 1: You have to stop taking her phone calls. You have

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Speaker 1: to tell your husband to stop encouraging her to call you,

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Speaker 1: and only deal with him when it comes to the kids.

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Speaker 1: Don't deal with them when it comes to their marriage.

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Speaker 1: They're treating you like their marriage counselor or something. You

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Speaker 1: got to shut them down right now. Album Steve.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, great answer, Shelley.

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Speaker 4: In the words of our forever first Lady, Michelle Obama,

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Speaker 4: when they go low, we go high. I've always admired

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Speaker 4: that about the first Lady Obama.

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Speaker 3: I really did.

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Speaker 4: I don't really live my life like that all the time.

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Speaker 4: I do sometimes, But in this case, right here, you've

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Speaker 4: already taken the high road.

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Speaker 3: I think it's time to dip right on down there

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Speaker 3: on that road. Sheh.

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Speaker 4: So here go my answer to the letter your divorced

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Speaker 4: mother to forty six year old. You had a great

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Speaker 4: coparatter relationship with your ex, and you was friendly with

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Speaker 4: his new wife, and your children liked her. But then

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Speaker 4: your sixty year old found out and made the announcement

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Speaker 4: that you think the step mama got low self esteem,

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Speaker 4: kind of tickle you to the court that a child

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Speaker 4: had peaked this behavior. Now, your ex husband is a

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Speaker 4: really established man, right, and he likes things a certain

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Speaker 4: way down to his sexual experiences. And then you said

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Speaker 4: that can be intimidating for any woman. So I don't

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Speaker 4: know what homeboy required that made this potentially intimidating. But

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Speaker 4: then you said he met his match when he came

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Speaker 4: to you. So what you wanna do, Let's go lift

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Speaker 4: your leg up. You lift your leg up, being back here,

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Speaker 4: you being back here. So now y'all was just in

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Speaker 4: there doing the aerobic gymnastic loving with a little bit

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Speaker 4: of jiu jitsu wrestling in it and Roman greco. So

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Speaker 4: now y'all was in there doing the damn most just

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Speaker 4: in there UFC cage fighting, and I was.

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Speaker 3: And then you ended up.

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Speaker 4: By the end of the divorce, by that time, y'all

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Speaker 4: got rid of get you was bringing home more bacon

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Speaker 4: than he did. Then you found out he cheated on you,

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Speaker 4: and you was fine with leaving because your marriage had

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Speaker 4: run its course and you was ready to go. But

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Speaker 4: he married the woman that he was cheating with. Then

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Speaker 4: you say so. She entered the marriage with heavy guilt.

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Speaker 4: She called you one day y'all had a face to

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Speaker 4: face meet. You told her you forgive her, and I

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Speaker 4: told her to live her life. She actually did you

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Speaker 4: a favor at the time because he had run his

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Speaker 4: course and he was a cheater. He'd the likes thing done.

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Speaker 4: All this sudden when he had everything in you, but

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Speaker 4: he wanted something else. But then you got enough call

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Speaker 4: from him. She left a message she was asking for

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Speaker 4: some advice that this is curious letting. So after we

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Speaker 4: come back, I will tell you what advice she wanted,

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Speaker 4: what I think you should have done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hang on, we'll have part two of Steve's response

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Speaker 1: to today's Strawberry letter. My ex's new wife needs advice,

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Speaker 1: and we'll get into that at twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour right after this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: My ex's new wife needs advice.

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Speaker 3: This lady had a marriage.

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Speaker 4: Her ex husband was rather demanding order in the house,

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Speaker 4: sexual experiences, and she was tired of him anyway, So

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Speaker 4: the marriage had run his course, he find she found

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Speaker 4: out he cheated on him, so she was ready for

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Speaker 4: the marriage in anyway.

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Speaker 3: She was ready to go.

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Speaker 4: But the woman, the woman he was cheating with, he

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Speaker 4: ended up marrying her. Now they have a relationship. Because

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Speaker 4: the woman felt guilty called at one time to apologize,

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Speaker 4: I guess or something like that, and then she said,

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Speaker 4: you forget. She forgave the lady and totally gonna live

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Speaker 4: your life now. Recently she got a call and left

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Speaker 4: a message asking for some advice. The new wife. I

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Speaker 4: called her and we talked for an hour. She said,

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Speaker 4: my ex husband told her that I was an ultimate

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Speaker 4: lover and I did everything around the house just the

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Speaker 4: way he liked it, and what you should have did.

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Speaker 4: At that point said yes was I did. And what

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Speaker 4: damn business is it of yours? Now? I know he

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Speaker 4: told you that, But what do you want? He suggested

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Speaker 4: that she called me and maybe come by my house

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Speaker 4: and see how I keep things in order here.

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Speaker 3: What crazy?

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Speaker 4: I would have said it, Come on, but that's all

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Speaker 4: I would have said to work.

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Speaker 3: Come on now. If you can't tell in the.

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Speaker 4: Tone of my voice that this probably ain't gonna be

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Speaker 4: a safe visit, you probably don't want to without a shit,

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Speaker 4: And she told he told me to come over your

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Speaker 4: house see how things are on. Come on, come on,

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Speaker 4: come on. That's all I'm gonna keep saying, just come on.

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Speaker 4: And then if she still act like she coming, then

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to add something. Bring your ass over here,

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Speaker 4: because see, I don't know where all this goodness coming from. You,

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Speaker 4: lady like Shirley says she loved you because you a

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Speaker 4: special lady, but I wouldn't do it. So but she

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Speaker 4: And then you told her that that'll never happen. You're

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Speaker 4: not coming over here to see how I do nothing

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Speaker 4: in my house. And then she told her you ought

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Speaker 3: This woman asked me.

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Speaker 4: About detailed sexual position that my husband and I used

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Speaker 4: to do, and I had to remind her she took

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Speaker 3: So maybe y'all just do what you did back then.

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Speaker 4: You know, whatever you did, all them tricks you was

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Speaker 4: doing back then, you need to bring them back up.

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Speaker 4: You need to come over these new tricks. But what

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Speaker 4: i'd have did was I'd have told her what he liked,

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Speaker 4: since she need advice how to gave her information, Like

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Speaker 4: when he's looking in the refrigerator, he loves it. When

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Speaker 4: when you bust him upside the back of his head

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Speaker 4: and kiss him real hard.

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Speaker 3: Girl. She show about that girl that used to drive

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Speaker 4: The next time you see him in that refrigerator, you

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Speaker 4: bust him upside his head with a broom and then

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Speaker 4: snatch him around real quick and start kissing him.

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Speaker 3: And girl, and watch what happened. Are you sure?

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Speaker 4: Girl, didn't he tell you to call me? I have

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Speaker 4: her doing all kinds of stuff. Girl, you know what

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Speaker 4: he really loves. He really loved Like if he laying

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Speaker 4: put it out right quick.

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Speaker 3: Girl, that makes him so hot.

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Speaker 4: Ooh, I'm gonna have her in here, just do it.

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Speaker 4: All kinds of house ain't gonna be worth heimdam So

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Speaker 4: now you told her, you know you're'm just gonna do

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Speaker 4: what you do. When you took him from it, she

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Speaker 4: all upset and told yo, ex, I'm bitter. Now he's

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Speaker 4: on board with her bs. I cannot block them because

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Speaker 4: of the children. How should I deal with them? You

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Speaker 3: You ain't gotta take her calls. You free.

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Speaker 4: Now, you ain't gotta listen to nothing he's say. We

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Speaker 4: talking about these kids. I don't give a damn what

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Speaker 4: you in that hell for do, cause you gonna end

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Speaker 4: up cheating on her, just like you did me. Because

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Speaker 4: if you think I was everything, and you telling her

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Speaker 4: she ain't everything, then your next move is to go

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Speaker 4: try to find your else, try and find yourself something else.

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Speaker 4: So I already know what's gonna happen right here. I

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Speaker 4: ain't in your business. You didn't want me, and now

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Speaker 4: you don't want her. You gonna run out of women

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Speaker 4: in a minute, homie, because you ain't all that, So

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Speaker 4: I would just I wouldn't worry about nothing. You ain't

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Speaker 4: gotta deal with none of this. What you care about?

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Speaker 4: How she feel about you? She got what you didn't want,

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Speaker 4: no way, So now I let her live over there

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Speaker 4: with her miserable ass life trying to be you and

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Speaker 4: let him regret letting you go to get her, because

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Speaker 4: that's what's really doesn't happen, homeboy want her to be

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Speaker 4: like you because he realized now he was a better choice.

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Speaker 4: But so now see what we're gonna do. Leave both

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Speaker 4: of them over there in their misery. You ain't got

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Speaker 4: to discuss nothing but them kids. Excuse me, excuse me. Uh,

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Speaker 4: let me talk to the babies. Excuse me, excuse me.

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Speaker 4: They not coming over.

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Speaker 3: There this weekend. Excuse me. The kids need some shoes.

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Speaker 4: That's all you got to do, right, That's all you

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Speaker 4: got to do. You got custody the kids. I don't

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Speaker 4: want you to use them as pawns. That's not what

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Speaker 4: I'm saying. But just deal with the kids. You ain't

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Speaker 4: got to hear none of this foolish How do you

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Speaker 4: have them? You ain't got to block them. He on

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Speaker 4: board that bs remind him of what he did see.

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Speaker 4: Men don't like to be reminded. Just remind me home.

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Speaker 3: Excuse me, excuse me. You be on board with that.

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Speaker 4: Hell all you want, that's the one you pick your

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Speaker 4: slept with in your maner. Live with us. Don't ask

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Speaker 4: me nothing else about this dusty helpful.

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