1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,000 Speaker 1: S Fred Show, Good Morning, one O three five Kiss FM, 2 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. Jason's giving away his car. 3 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 1: He's giving away Uh yeah, yeah, we don't want you know, 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: I don't. I watched him cool today. That's good. That 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:16,959 Speaker 1: might be the first prize in history that someone's like, actually, no, 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: I just I'm not going to come claim that. Talk 7 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: back for tickets today. I know to I know what 8 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 1: tomorrow is. Tomorrow is a sold out to sate McCray today, 9 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: Nelly and joh Rule in fact, a couple of chances 10 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: to win. Nellie and joh Rule tickets, got North Coast 11 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: Music Festival tickets see Geek Stadium to see Cascade and 12 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: Zed and more. We'll hook you up with that, and 13 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers tickets as well as Maren Morris at Ravinia. 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 2: Will hook you up with that. 15 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 1: And we want to take care of first responders, so 16 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 1: starting on Friday with Amy Wither at our friend one 17 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 1: one hundred truck breaking. You know, you got the big 18 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: bag of money and we're always dipping in there to 19 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: hook up deserving people. Go to one O three five 20 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: kiss fm dot com. Nominate a first responder doing amazing 21 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: things in your community would be a family member or 22 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: a friend, and we could be calling them live on 23 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: Friday morning and hooking them up with one thousand bucks. 24 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: Because you know, there's nothing more important in our community 25 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: than our first responders and who are keeping us safe. 26 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: I'm talking about police, fire, EMT, nurses, all the people 27 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: who are there to help us when we're in need. 28 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: And you know we love teachers around here too, but 29 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: this is all about first responders. One O three five 30 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: Kiss FM dot com to nominate someone, and it's never 31 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: just a thousand bucks. That's what it's supposed to be. 32 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: But you know, Hoimi does. It's like, ah, you know, 33 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: here's eighteen gazillion dollars enjoy like you can retire now, 34 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: it's fine morning. 35 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 3: You got to recharge your crystals. 36 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: You recharge your No wonder if my crystals have been 37 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: empty for my whole life, I never recharge. 38 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 2: Come on, friend, Fred's show is on. 39 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: It's Tuesday, Good Morning, August twelfth. 40 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: The Fred Show is here. 41 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: Hi Kailin, Good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi Paul, Hi Kiki. 42 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: Good morning showby Shelley one hundred and fifty bucks. In 43 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: the showdown at about twenty five minutes, you can win 44 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: if you could beat her in five questions. Snapper eighteen 45 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: game win streak, Cander lost number seventy means here on 46 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,559 Speaker 1: the phone and the text eight. 47 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 2: Five five five five. 48 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 1: We'll get to blogs in just a second, our audio journal, 49 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: stay or go, debate some relationship drama, and the entertainment 50 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: report this hour too. What's in there? 51 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 4: K I will tell you who just paid the entirety 52 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 4: of their child's child support for a baby so up 53 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:25,399 Speaker 4: until eighteen years old. 54 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 2: It's just like, here's the money, here's the money. You 55 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 2: can do it, be paid and get the heck out 56 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 2: of here. I guess you got money like that. Yeah, 57 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: they talk better than they scit. 58 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show that 59 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: is like I don't want anything to do with you 60 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: or this kid. 61 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 2: Here you go. 62 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not it's not giving nice. 63 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 4: And the mom has some some serious concerns and I 64 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 4: understand why. 65 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: Man like, yeah, dad said no, here's here's a bunch 66 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: of money. But no, I hope at least they gave 67 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 1: them money, because a lot of dads say no, they 68 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: don't get the money. 69 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 2: So there's that like running right right. 70 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 5: Right? 71 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 3: Is he not evade child support? 72 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 2: I thought we were talking about personally. 73 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, celebrity, I'm not the betty. Oh no, you 74 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 3: didn't pay your child support. 75 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 2: Well I haven't paid any child sport. I don't have 76 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 2: any kids. 77 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I haven't like writing in our diaries 78 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: except we seen them alive. 79 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 2: We call them blogs. Nobody call blowing gliss. You take 80 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 2: a blog, go. 81 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 3: Okay, dear blog. 82 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 6: Speaking of paying for things, I have come to the 83 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 6: point of my life where I am experiencing extreme sticker shock, okay, 84 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 6: And I don't appreciate how we just go through life 85 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 6: and allow these things to happen. So I went to 86 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 6: six Flags the other day, which I had no business 87 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 6: being there, okay, talk about a Jetsu holiday woo, not 88 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 6: a big girl sport anyway, So you know, but the 89 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 6: pop you know, like I wanted to get some pop 90 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 6: soda whatever you want to call it. And it was 91 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 6: seven dollars for a twenty ounce of Coca Cola okay, 92 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 6: And everybody was in there just swiping and tapping their 93 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 6: iPhones like. 94 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 3: This was normal. That's not normal, okay. 95 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 6: First of all, then yesterday I went to get an 96 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 6: oil change. 97 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 3: Every time I go get. 98 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 6: An oil change or something but it was over one 99 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:24,359 Speaker 6: hundred dollars. 100 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 2: And I know, wait a minute, but did you go 101 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 2: for all the stuff? 102 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 5: What? 103 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 2: No, did they sell you all the stuff? 104 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: That capacitor is Oh no, Oh my gosh, blinker fluid, 105 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 1: completely empty. I'm not even sure how you operated like this. 106 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 3: You know, I don't go for that. 107 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 6: You know they come over there with that little white 108 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 6: sheet of paper with all those things, and tell them 109 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:45,800 Speaker 6: take that right back. 110 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 3: But that's my point. That's my point. 111 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 6: There was I didn't do anything on the list, and 112 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 6: it was it was still one hundred dollars, and we 113 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 6: all sit around and act like this is normal. No, 114 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 6: when I used to go get my nails done, friend, 115 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 6: it was twenty five dollars. Sure was I go get 116 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 6: a full set of nails one hundred dollars? 117 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? You had become that person. Now we just walk 118 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 2: around and act like this is normal. You've become that person. 119 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 6: We need to start like having full meltdown sticker shock fate. 120 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 6: Like the next time somebody tell me something that's overprice, 121 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 6: I'm gonna just faint right there, like I can't believe 122 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 6: it and fall out because. 123 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 1: Well, don't do that, because the hospital bill won't make 124 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 1: you happy, either you go or the coope or the 125 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: medicine or the ambulance tried. 126 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 2: So no, yeah you don't want that. Don't faint, bro, 127 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 2: This is insane. 128 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 6: Like and it's just like people just go up on 129 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 6: their prices and we we just we just pay it. 130 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 3: Nobody reacts. 131 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: I want to know where all the money is because 132 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:41,039 Speaker 1: like every time I look at to your point, every 133 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,080 Speaker 1: time I like go on vacation or I take a 134 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 1: trip and I'm like, this place is nice. I wonder 135 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: how much of condo would be here just for just 136 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: for fun, like how much it costs to live here? 137 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 1: And I look it up and I'm like eight million 138 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: dollars for an apartment, you know, or like next year 139 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: I want to go on a trip and I'm looking 140 00:05:55,760 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: at hotels and I'm like, huh huh, like who who 141 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: has somebody? I get that things are more expensive, but 142 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: who's buying it right? Or like to get on you know, 143 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: just crappy airline, you know whatever, crabby airline. I'm not 144 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: gonna pick it any one of them, but where they 145 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: don't give you anything and nothing crazy happens, and you 146 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: know what, you gotta get on it whatever and that's 147 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: seven hundred bucks to go to, you know, Saint Louis. 148 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I've always wanted to go to Saint Louis, 149 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: but not for seven hundred bucks. Yeah, I mean, I 150 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 1: just I don't know who has the money to do 151 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: all this stuff. So, like, at what point does everybody 152 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 1: stand up and go, we can't afford any of this, 153 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 1: We're not doing it anymore, none of it. And then 154 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 1: everything has to come down in price exactly. So I'm 155 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: ready to cool. 156 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: Come on, I'm ready to start it. Lead the charge. Okay, 157 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 3: where are we going? I don't know. 158 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: I still have no idea how you spent one hundred 159 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: bucks in an oil change, though I think I think 160 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: you got bamboozo. 161 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 2: No, they put they put the diamond oil in. 162 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 3: Well, they put the air in. My tire was an 163 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 3: extra forty five dollars. 164 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: Somehow, somehow you drove your card of the oil change. 165 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 1: But you only had three tires somehow. Oh yeah, don't 166 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:56,280 Speaker 1: know what happened to the fourth tire. You gotta have 167 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 1: to buy another one. I don't know where it went. 168 00:06:57,680 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 3: Okay, So how much are y'all paying for oil change? Nothing? 169 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 3: Why do you continually get ripped off. 170 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: It just so happens that a guy in here with 171 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: a man who owns a garage that operates, you know 172 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: that there. 173 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 2: It would be crazy for you to go to that 174 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: place where I'm done. 175 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 3: Jason is so fat with me. I'm done, I'm done selling. 176 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 2: You're paid one hundred dollars for an oil change. 177 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 3: Can you live near him? 178 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: The mechanic owns the garage, the closest one in this room. 179 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 6: My head, Jason, I never want to bother. 180 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 2: That's the And that's another Jason, I can't believe it. 181 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: Editing, I took I took my Pinto to the dealership, 182 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:39,239 Speaker 1: to the Pinto dealership, and they wanted to replace eighty 183 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:40,239 Speaker 1: four spark plugs. 184 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 2: And I did it. It was four thousand dollars I did. 185 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:44,600 Speaker 2: Can you believe it? Can you believe that? 186 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: Jason? 187 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 2: If only there was someone in here who could help 188 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 2: me with same, Gosh, it's so good. 189 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 3: It's all hard to find a good mechanically. Also, our 190 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 3: Bella went to another mechanic her window face. 191 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 2: I don't know one. His problem is with the gayaraje 192 00:07:58,280 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 2: in here, but I. 193 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 3: Know we do payment plans and finance there. You have 194 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 3: to come there. Yes, I do need to come there he. 195 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 2: Stay or go? 196 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: Okay, you guys, something going on? You want us to 197 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: talk about you? Well, He'll be on the phone for 198 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: part of it, so it's not all behind your back. 199 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: You can hit us up on all the different social 200 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: search for The Fred Show and Fred Show Radio dot Com. 201 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: I got to pull out my phone because you know, 202 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: my outlook doesn't work. 203 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 2: Why would it? Hey, Kelsey, how you. 204 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 7: Doing good about yourself? 205 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 1: Kelsey doing all right? Welcome to the program here. So 206 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:37,199 Speaker 1: you have been in a relationship for a year and 207 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: a half and it says here that you think your 208 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 1: boyfriend's wonderful. Okay, great, well thanks for calling. I mean, 209 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: what are we talking about here? Your boyfriend's wonderful, You're 210 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: and a half a nice run, So what's the issue? 211 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 7: Okay? So I'm going to say it again. He's really great. 212 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 7: He's very loving, very helpful. 213 00:08:58,720 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 3: Around the house. 214 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 2: He's a big buye coming. There's a big bud coming. 215 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 8: Yeah. 216 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 3: He gets angry, okay, like. 217 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: I mean, you know his sports seems losing angry or 218 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: you know his I don't know, he stuffed his toe 219 00:09:17,040 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 1: angry or he ran out of fish ticks angry, you know, like, 220 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: what kind of angry are we talking about here? 221 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 7: So I would definitely say he has anger issues. He yells, 222 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 7: he's punched a ball or two. Sometimes he'll throw things, 223 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 7: and it's a lot. And it's not like he's ever 224 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 7: hit me or anything, like, I don't think he would 225 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 7: ever do that, but it's just kind of terrifying to 226 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 7: be around him. 227 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 2: Is he mad at you or is he mad about 228 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: other things? 229 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 5: Or it? 230 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:53,920 Speaker 2: Does it matter? 231 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 7: It doesn't matter. It's just the way that he expresses 232 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:04,439 Speaker 7: whatever he's feeling is not healthy. It's scary, okay. 233 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 2: And do you feel in danger? 234 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 1: I mean you say that you don't think he would 235 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: hit you, but like, do you feel do you feel 236 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 1: at risk by this behavior? Or is it just scary 237 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 1: because of how quickly it ramps up and the way 238 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 1: that he's sort of you know, it's communicated, I guess 239 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: or manifest. 240 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:27,439 Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't feel like I'm in danger, but it's 241 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 7: it's just stressful having to witness it and be around it. 242 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 7: And that's just how he is when he's upset. 243 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: And has it always been this way the whole year 244 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: and a half or is it something that you're only 245 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: now seeing Maybe he was able to sort of keep 246 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: it under. 247 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 2: Wraps for a while. 248 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 7: Well, I mean I would say like the first few months, 249 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,839 Speaker 7: like I hadn't really seen that side of him. But 250 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 7: you know a few months in that's when you start. 251 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: To see, right, you're not really dating the real person 252 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: for about six months, I've found. Yeah, if you make 253 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 1: get that far, Yeah, you're only seeing You're seeing what 254 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: they want you to see. So this is more likely 255 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 1: what you would be dealing with if you were with 256 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: him forever. A lot of texts already coming in. You 257 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: got to you gotta run, like you gotta go the 258 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 1: other way, Like this is a huge red flag. Now 259 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: do you have any idea where this is coming from? 260 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 7: Like? 261 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 1: Is it where this why it ramps up so quickly? 262 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: I mean, is it like is it Do you feel 263 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,839 Speaker 1: like he's really stressed out? Do you feel like it's 264 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: some sort of childhood trauma? Do you think it's anxiety 265 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: or I mean, you know, is this something that a 266 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: medical professional could address? Is he willing to go to therapy? 267 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 1: I mean, have you talked about any of this with him? 268 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,839 Speaker 1: Have you said, hey, I watched you go from zero 269 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 1: to one hundred so quickly, and it really concerns me 270 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: or does that just cause him to go zero to 271 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 1: one hundred. 272 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:53,719 Speaker 7: I'm I'm a little scared to talk to him about it, 273 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 7: and that's a problem. 274 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 3: Flag. 275 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:01,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's scared, because don't think anything's gonna change unless 276 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 1: you communicate to him that you are concerned about it. 277 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: And if you already feel trepidation about sharing it with 278 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: him or sharing your thoughts with him, then that's the problem, 279 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 1: because how is it ever going to be resolved? 280 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 2: Do you guys live together? 281 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 7: We don't not yet. 282 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 2: Huh. 283 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: But you say he's wonderful. I mean, so every other 284 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: aspect of the relationship you're happy with, except when he 285 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: gets angry, he gets really angry. 286 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 7: Yeah, huh yeah, And that's what's that's what's difficult here, 287 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 7: is he's actually really wonderful. It's just he's got a 288 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 7: short fuse and his emotional regulation just isn't good when 289 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 7: he's mad. 290 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 8: Yeah. 291 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 2: I mean, he's. 292 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: Overwhelming on the text, like it's blowing up eight five 293 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 1: five five three five, you can call him text the 294 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:57,079 Speaker 1: same number. It's it's overwhelming that you have to move on. 295 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: And I know that's easy for other people to say. Unfortunately, 296 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people have lived through this before, though, 297 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: and so they're they're they're coming, you know, they're they're 298 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 1: talking to you, or they're they're giving this advice from 299 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,319 Speaker 1: their perspective, and and maybe some of these people have 300 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: seen it through a little bit longer and it's been bad. 301 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 5: Uh. 302 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 1: This is above my pay grade, though, which is why 303 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: I think when you have a bunch of strangers tell 304 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 1: you what to do eight five five five nine three five. Fortunately, 305 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: this is not one that I've encountered before. I've encountered 306 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: people that drink way too much and then their behavior 307 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: becomes extremely erratic and dangerous, and that's a problem. But 308 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:36,199 Speaker 1: I've never encountered anybody who gets just just hair pin 309 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: trigger angry. But if you can't talk to him about it, 310 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:44,520 Speaker 1: I guess that's the first sign that, I mean, how 311 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: do you expect it to be any different? If you 312 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable talking to him about it, and and 313 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 1: and and thus coming up with some kind of a resolution, 314 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,679 Speaker 1: him getting some kind of help. I mean, I guess 315 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:56,199 Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know what to tell you. 316 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,079 Speaker 1: If you can't talk to him about it like that 317 00:13:58,240 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: to me says everything. 318 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 7: I mean, I could try to talk to them. I 319 00:14:04,360 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 7: just I haven't yet. 320 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 2: Hmmm. 321 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take some phone calls on this, Kelsey. I 322 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:12,199 Speaker 1: want you to listen because I do think that a 323 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: lot of people out there. You know, something about our 324 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 1: show is when we talk about stuff, and people can 325 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: call from their perspectives and a lot of people have 326 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 1: lived this before. So maybe someone will say something that's 327 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 1: helpful to you or that inspires you to know what 328 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 1: to do next. But I wish you the best, you know, 329 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: be safe. Please, Okay, Yeah, thank you, thank you, thank you. 330 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 2: Have a good day. 331 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 5: Yeah. 332 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 1: People are saying and I do feel like she's looking 333 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:36,000 Speaker 1: for validation to leave. 334 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 2: That's what I said. 335 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: I think she's looking for someone to tell her to leave. 336 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: And I agree with that. A bunch of texts like that, 337 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,239 Speaker 1: Hey Jessica, good morning. 338 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 9: Good morning, how are you? 339 00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 2: And I was kind of serious to start the day. 340 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: But nonetheless, I think people out there may have lived 341 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: this before and might have some perspective to offer. This 342 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: woman is concerned because she's been with a guy for 343 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 1: a year and a half and she says he's a 344 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 1: great guy. Maybe she's say next week, doesn't get mad, 345 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: but she says he's a great guy. He said, he 346 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 1: has a temper and it hasn't really necessarily come out 347 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:08,280 Speaker 1: at her, but it comes out, you know, punching walls 348 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: and you know, really sort of over the top, and 349 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: it's scary. 350 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 2: What do you think. 351 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 9: Well, I'm kind of on the other end of this. 352 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 9: I married this person. We dated for about four years, 353 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 9: and unfortunately I had unknown resolve unresolved childhood traumas, and 354 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 9: I thought this was normal, and we got married. We 355 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 9: have some kids, and I finally threw my therapist have 356 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 9: taken a standards and I'm not doing this anymore. You 357 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 9: have to go to therapy, you have to be on medication. 358 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 9: It has gotten better, but he still has never said 359 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 9: this is a problem. Like he always says I'm working 360 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 9: on myself, but he's never really come out and said that, 361 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 9: you know, I have this problem. I have anger issues, 362 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 9: I have of fatality issues. Like it's really hard. It's 363 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 9: really hard. So if I could go back in time, 364 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,600 Speaker 9: sad to say, I love my children, but I would 365 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 9: not have stayed with it. 366 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: It's such an interesting thing, Jessica, because I guess I 367 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 1: never really understood this until recently, and I've been alive 368 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 1: for a while, but you are saying that you grew 369 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: up seeing this or experiencing this, and so as obvious 370 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 1: as it sounds, you know, you just thought that was 371 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: how everybody was, and at some point what you had 372 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: an awakening, like you just said, wait a minute, this 373 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 1: isn't how. This is not how every relationship is. It 374 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 1: was modeled for you, and so now it's like, no, 375 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: hold on, I don't want to live this way. 376 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 2: Is that what happened? 377 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 1: How did you come to that spot where you realize, Okay, no, 378 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 1: this isn't how it's supposed to be. 379 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:41,840 Speaker 9: Well, I started going to therapy and I explained all 380 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 9: my situations to my therapist and she's and me. I've 381 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 9: been with her for probably about four years now, I've 382 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 9: been married for seventeen. But yeah, she's just like this 383 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 9: is not normal, and she kind of, you know, let 384 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 9: me see that it's not okay that he yells at 385 00:16:58,080 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 9: loud and throws things. You know, I've actually had to 386 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 9: call the police. And I feel like that that was 387 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 9: kind of like an awaking need for him, like, Okay, 388 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 9: she's not dealing with this anymore. This is not going 389 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 9: to be okay, Like I have to change and my 390 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 9: kids are now experiencing, you know, problems because they witnessed this, 391 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 9: and so we're having to go through therapy with them 392 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 9: and you know, unresolved trauma. And I mean it's big, 393 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 9: Like she like I said, if I could go back 394 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 9: in time, I wouldn't I would have left him. 395 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:31,080 Speaker 1: Do you see a world, Jessica where he I mean 396 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 1: he recognizes it and actually makes big steps towards changing it, 397 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 1: or do you think it's a lost cause. 398 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 9: Well, my therapist says, I still have hope. So if 399 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:43,280 Speaker 9: I still have hope, then there's you know, I shouldn't leave. 400 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 9: Yet He's actively working on it, and he has gotten better. 401 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 9: And I know that people in a puse of of 402 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 9: situations often say, you know, like, oh, but he's gotten 403 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 9: so much better since then, But he has, and so 404 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 9: I'm trying to focus on that. And I've laid out 405 00:17:57,480 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 9: to him what I need in this marriage for it 406 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,800 Speaker 9: to work, and and we're actually they have a couple 407 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 9: of therapy tomorrow, so I'm going to present him with that. 408 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:08,199 Speaker 1: But that takes what you're doing, jess takes a lot 409 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:10,680 Speaker 1: of courage, because everyone on here saying run, and I 410 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:13,400 Speaker 1: know why they're saying that because it's dangerous, there could 411 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,720 Speaker 1: be dangerous. It sounds like you're fighting for it and 412 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: you know, giving this gun an opportunity to change and uh, 413 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 1: and that takes a lot of courage. 414 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 2: So good for you. 415 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 9: Thanks, thanks, I appreciate it. 416 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:24,159 Speaker 2: You have a good day, Jessica. 417 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 9: Thanks you. 418 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 1: It's amazing how like you can not to make it 419 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: about me, but like you you can experience something growing up, 420 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 1: you can know what it was, you can and then 421 00:18:34,359 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 1: and then you can be triggered by that behavior all 422 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: your life until one day you just say, and it 423 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 1: happened for me recently, it's like wait a minute, no, 424 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 1: like no, I'm not you're not, You're not going to 425 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: do that. And then you you connect it with the 426 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:50,120 Speaker 1: thing that happened, you know, early on in your life, 427 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,440 Speaker 1: and you're like, well, that's why that triggers me. But 428 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 1: now I'm taking a stand like no, not no, like 429 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be treated that way by anybody. 430 00:18:57,359 --> 00:19:00,199 Speaker 1: And unfortunately sometimes it takes over correction to then come 431 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 1: to the place where you just avoid it entirely. But 432 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 1: that that makes me sad. It makes me sad that 433 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 1: this woman got herself into a marriage thinking this is 434 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: this is how it. This is just how it is, 435 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 1: right because it's what she saw it, and it doesn't 436 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,280 Speaker 1: have to be that way. Hey Becky, good morning, that's 437 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:16,000 Speaker 1: good morning. 438 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 3: How are you doing? 439 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 2: I beg you. 440 00:19:17,359 --> 00:19:20,159 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're not a total random You are a therapist. 441 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 1: You know, we did not check your licensure, but we'll 442 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 1: go with it. 443 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 9: You hear this. 444 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:24,439 Speaker 2: What do you think. 445 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,360 Speaker 5: If a person doesn't have emotional regulation, which is really 446 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 5: control of their emotions right now the relationship that relationship coach, 447 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 5: I will tell her, he's only going to get to 448 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 5: know you. He's going to become familiar, which once he 449 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 5: becomes familiar with you, he's going to feel comfortable lashing 450 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 5: out and you and you don't know where that lashing 451 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 5: is going to go to. 452 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:54,679 Speaker 8: It definitely if he's behaving like that, asis well, adverse 453 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 8: childhood traumas have come in those experiences. So if he 454 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 8: he doesn't have control of it, you have an individual 455 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 8: with unmanagemental health issues. 456 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:06,639 Speaker 5: They may manage it. 457 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 7: What a fas with alcohol? 458 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 2: You never know in your experience for your life. 459 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so she says, go now, in your experience, though, 460 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 1: have you ever seen where people can be rehabilitated from this. 461 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 1: Like if the guy is really opened, if he accepts 462 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 1: the fact that this is really happening and he wants 463 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: to save his family, and he goes to the right 464 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 1: person and he leans into the process. 465 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 2: I mean, does it have to be a. 466 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 10: Go No, it doesn't have to be a goal. 467 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 5: But she's afraid to address him, and he's he hasn't 468 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 5: taken responsibility for his actions, because if he took responsibility 469 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 5: for his actions. You think of is when you look 470 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 5: at an individual you care about and you see how 471 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 5: you've wounded them or you see how you've brought them 472 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 5: to fear, you try to comfort them in that whatever 473 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,080 Speaker 5: means it takes, you would try to you know, on 474 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 5: what I'm going to talk to somebody about this. You 475 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 5: should be your own advocate. 476 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that, Yeah, that's not happening. Becky, thank you. 477 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,160 Speaker 2: Have a good day, you too. Yeah. 478 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not naive to the fact this is 479 00:21:12,600 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 1: happening a lot, but my god is the text is 480 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 1: blowing up with people who unfortunately can relate to this 481 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:22,600 Speaker 1: very scenario. Hey Monica, Hi, good morning, Hi Monica. Yeah, 482 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 1: So if you're just joining and I know you're not. 483 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 1: But if you're just tuning in stare go, this woman 484 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: you know, loves her boyfriend, says he's a great guy, 485 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:33,000 Speaker 1: but things go zero to sixty with the anger. He 486 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:34,879 Speaker 1: gets very angry, very quickly, and well it's not directed 487 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 1: at her yet. It concerns her, but she's not willing 488 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,199 Speaker 1: to talk to him about it, and she's wondering if 489 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 1: she needs to get out. It sounds like if she's 490 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: not willing to talk about it, then there's nothing left 491 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:45,160 Speaker 1: to talk about. 492 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 2: Like she's got to go. 493 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, she has to absolutely go. 494 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 11: And as out listening the fact that she says that 495 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 11: I don't think he'll hit me, Oh, she's not certain. 496 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 11: I've been married with my husband for over eighteen years 497 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 11: and I can say he will. 498 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 5: Not hit me. 499 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 11: There's a difference between being angry simply just you know, 500 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 11: the temple of angry. 501 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 12: Oh you know, I'm hungry or I've. 502 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 1: Lost the game. 503 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 11: But the fact that she cannot say he won't hit me, 504 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:16,919 Speaker 11: and even listening to her talks, she sounds very scared 505 00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 11: to get the words out. 506 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 9: All the red flags are there. 507 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 5: She has to go. 508 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 9: She's setting herself up for a. 509 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 11: Lifetime a failure. And once she brings kids into the mix, 510 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 11: it's going to be even harder to leave. So I 511 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,679 Speaker 11: hope that she's listening, but she needs to. 512 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 9: Go, needs to go. 513 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, have a good day, welcome, so thank you. 514 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: I think it sometimes gets you in new a value 515 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 1: proposition too. Some people think that they just don't they 516 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 1: don't deserve to have it all. And I'm not sure 517 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,520 Speaker 1: if that's what she's thinking. But you know, for some people, 518 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: it's well, they just stay in it because it's like, well, 519 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: you know, he's nice most of the time. 520 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, you make excuse excuses, and you see potential and 521 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,200 Speaker 6: you and when it's good, it's probably really good, you 522 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 6: know what I mean. 523 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 3: Like when they make up, it probably feels great, but 524 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 3: then it happens again. It's a cycle. 525 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, maya, Hi, Hey, good morning, Stay or go? What 526 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: do you think when you hear this? It's kind of 527 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:07,360 Speaker 1: overwhelming today. 528 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 12: Yeah, she needs to go, definitely. I sadly was in 529 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 12: a similar situation and he was throwing things and screaming 530 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 12: on stop until one day he drew something towards me 531 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 12: and smashed my face. 532 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, and he said. 533 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,959 Speaker 12: He would never hit me, he would never do anything 534 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 12: like that. But one day it happened. 535 00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 9: He was so remorseful. 536 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 12: I'm so sorry, but you know what, I walked away good. 537 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,159 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, a lot of strength and I'm sorry it 538 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: came to that. But so for you, when you hear this, 539 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,600 Speaker 1: it's well, it's not happening yet, but you know we're 540 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 1: on the trajectory. It's escalating. And so you hear this 541 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: and you think, well, you know, we're certainly headed in 542 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 1: the wrong direction. As far as he may not, he 543 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 1: may say that, or you may feel that now, but 544 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,399 Speaker 1: it's but since they've Matt, it's gotten so much worse. 545 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,639 Speaker 1: So it's possible that it turns on her. 546 00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 7: See. 547 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 12: The scary thing about this is that God Forbata turns 548 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 12: on her, and then when she walks away like myself, now, 549 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 12: if I hear a man yelling or loud noises or 550 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 12: anything smashing. 551 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 5: I jump. 552 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 12: And I was in therapy for three years because of him. 553 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 12: I'm much better now, but I still get triggered. 554 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I can imagine. Yeah, that's step that's Steph Lingers. Yeah, 555 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 1: thank you, Maya, thanks for sharing. 556 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 2: Have a good day. 557 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 11: Thank you you too. 558 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 2: All Right, I was gonna move on. I got time 559 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 2: for one more though, Albert, good morning, good morning. 560 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 10: How you guys doing that all the time? 561 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:33,199 Speaker 1: And this guy kind of heavy? But I maybe it's 562 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,200 Speaker 1: something that people need to hear because it obviously resonates 563 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: with people. But you are calling because you were this 564 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: guy in some ways. I'm not saying this guy because 565 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:42,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what you were and I don't know 566 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: what he is, but but you were the angry guy. 567 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 2: Yes, So. 568 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 10: Throw out her trauma. All of that aside. There are 569 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:56,399 Speaker 10: issues in our marriage, and I became very angry and 570 00:24:56,720 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 10: hateful and verbally would lash out and things like that. Unfortunately, 571 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 10: my kids also saw me acting like that, and I 572 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,200 Speaker 10: knew I needed to get better. I knew I wanted 573 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:14,160 Speaker 10: to be better, but I was just in my own 574 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 10: little world with that hate and anger for so long 575 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 10: that that that was my normal. And it took for 576 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 10: my ex wife to actually go through with the whole 577 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,639 Speaker 10: divorce process for me to you know, hit rock bottom, 578 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 10: man realize, hey, I need to change. I need to 579 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 10: you know, work on myself and get rid of this 580 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 10: anger that's built up. So I'm in a much better 581 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 10: place now. But and I'm not trying to victim, blame 582 00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 10: or anything like that. But I feel now that I 583 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 10: can think clearly about how I behaved and how my 584 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 10: anger was and what I put my ex and the 585 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 10: kids through. I'm a little ashamed that, you know, my 586 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 10: ex stayed with me for as long as she did, 587 00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 10: because I kind of hope, you know, she would have 588 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 10: left that situation before it got to that point. 589 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: I hear you saying that you're accepting your behavior and 590 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:09,640 Speaker 1: you look back and think, how on earth would someone 591 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,680 Speaker 1: stay with me through that, which is something you weren't 592 00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: able to see at the time. 593 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 2: Correct. Yeah, And so here's the here's the guy in 594 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 2: the situation go. Yeah, he's selling this woman to go 595 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 2: from his perspective than that. 596 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,800 Speaker 6: So much, Cousin, I do to relationships, say I'm going 597 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 6: to stay for the kids. I'm going to stay and 598 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 6: work it out for the kids. If you are in 599 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 6: an abusive relationship, the best thing you can do for 600 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 6: your kids is to leave. 601 00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. 602 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 4: And if the abuse can be emotional, and it can 603 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,160 Speaker 4: be burner, it doesn't have to be physical. 604 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,359 Speaker 1: Yep. I appreciate you call him man because you know 605 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: we really we had only heard from you from the 606 00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: other side. So and the fact that you can say 607 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 1: that now you could admit that you were that person, 608 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 1: and I appreciate that's valuable. 609 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,439 Speaker 2: Have a good day, man, Yeah, I have a good one, 610 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 2: thank you. 611 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 1: And then we did get a text to Taylor Swift 612 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:55,199 Speaker 1: announced an album. So just so you know, uh, did 613 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 1: you guys know Taylor Swift announced very heavy, very heavy topic. 614 00:26:58,000 --> 00:26:59,359 Speaker 1: But Taylor Swift announced. 615 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 2: An album's entertainment report he's on the Bread Show. 616 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 4: We now know the cause of death for Kelly Clarkson's 617 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 4: ex husband, Brandon Blackstock, also a talent manager and former 618 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:13,639 Speaker 4: stepson of Ruba McIntyre, died from melanoma, a form of 619 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 4: skin cancer that he battled for over three years. He 620 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,879 Speaker 4: passed away peacefully at his home in Montana, surrounded by 621 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,400 Speaker 4: family under huspic's care. He leaves behind four children, which 622 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 4: is so sad, two with Kelly, two from a previous marriage, 623 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 4: as well as a grandson and extended family. So while 624 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 4: a lot of people think melanoma no big deal, beatable, 625 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 4: it can be a big deal. So please wear your 626 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 4: son's screen. I don't care if you don't burn, I 627 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 4: don't care if you tan well. Please wear your sun's screen. 628 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 4: It's always my PSA. NICKI Minaj and former NFL star 629 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 4: Dez Bryant have ended that social media feud I told 630 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:46,160 Speaker 4: you about. 631 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 3: I think it was last week if you forgot though. 632 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 4: The whole thing started when Nicki referenced his past legal 633 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 4: issues and he fired back by calling attention to our 634 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 4: husband's criminal history. 635 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,359 Speaker 3: Niki even offered des ten million to fight her husband, 636 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:00,359 Speaker 3: which was wild. 637 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 4: The online showdown concluded with Dez issuing a heartfelt apology, 638 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,920 Speaker 4: acknowledging that he let the devil win, and expressing regret 639 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 4: for bringing up Nikki's husband. She responded with grace, accepting 640 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 4: his apology and praising his accountability. 641 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,960 Speaker 3: So that was that was not something I'd expected. That 642 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 3: was a very mature way to end social media feud. 643 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 3: NBA start And this is the story that I teased. 644 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 4: Anthony Edwards just paid over one million dollars in child support, 645 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,880 Speaker 4: covering the next eighteen years for his child in one 646 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,159 Speaker 4: lump sum, but his ex, Ayisha Howard, says it's unfair 647 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,159 Speaker 4: because she can't go back to court and ask for 648 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 4: more if his income goes up. She said, I've already 649 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 4: paid one hundred thousand or I've already used that. Rather, 650 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 4: what if it runs out before eighteen years. She didn't 651 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 4: blame the judge for betraying her, saying this is an injustice, 652 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 4: injustice to poor women like me. 653 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 3: I feel betrayed. So I guess a judge signed off 654 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 3: on that. I've never heard of that happening. 655 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 6: Which is crazy because look how the prices keep going up, 656 00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 6: right exactly inflation. 657 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 4: Souish is not to wishing tomorrow a million percent, So 658 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 4: it'll be interesting to see if that can be challenged 659 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 4: or how that moves forward. 660 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: Base get a million bucks. It was just over Yeah, 661 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 1: so fifty grand a year. Yeah, yeah, I mean, yeah, 662 00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 1: I guess I guess I'm surprised. 663 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, me too, Yeah, that that would. But we'll see 664 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 3: how it all plays out. 665 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: And then there are some people now listening going fifty 666 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 1: grand SEMs a bit because my diad be. 667 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 2: Don't pay anything for sure. 668 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, it's all ends of the spectrum. 669 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 4: We got to get to the showdown though, but if 670 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 4: you want to watch us on YouTube, you could type 671 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 4: Fred Show Radio and we will go live throughout the 672 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 4: show during the portions that we can afford. 673 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 1: Who wants to take on Shelley eight five, five, five, 674 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 1: nine one three five call right now. One thousand, one 675 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty bucks is the price Shelley's record one 676 00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:52,959 Speaker 1: thousand and thirty nine wins only sixty nine losses. Showbiz, 677 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,320 Speaker 1: Shelley is here, Sis. I'm counting on you to light 678 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: and you get a light in the mood. 679 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 2: Man, it's you. It's your job. 680 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 1: Tell us, tell us a joke, say something fun right 681 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 1: now on the spot. Immediately, Yeah, did you see that? 682 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 3: I was like, I'm I'm surprised. Are Jason and Kayln 683 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:09,120 Speaker 3: Are you freaking. 684 00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 2: Out about that? 685 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I was, and I'm not even like 686 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 3: here Swift, the moon has. 687 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 2: Been pretty calm this morning. 688 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 6: I was tired see sales spreadsheets over there. I don't 689 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 6: let them fool you. They guts, really, they are trying 690 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:22,640 Speaker 6: to put it all together. 691 00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 3: Shelly with what like Easter eggs, Blines. 692 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: Doing Massive twelve twelve, but the announcement was at twelve. 693 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: But then it's your twelfth album twelve twelve twelve, and she. 694 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,840 Speaker 3: Wins twelve times and then yeah. 695 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't somebody go back and look in the background 696 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: of the set. Maybe there's some clue in there too. 697 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 3: There wasn't Easter egg there was an extra suitcase and 698 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 3: am me, I don't know. 699 00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 2: But the t s on it. It was up on 700 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 2: his little shelf. 701 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: And then you all trying to, like, you know, go 702 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 1: through a trash to figure out who she was working with. 703 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: So you think maybe it's gonna be like a nineties 704 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 1: pop sound next, Yeah, who did it in nineteen eighty nine? Oh, 705 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 1: Battrey Boys and a bunch of other stuff too. So 706 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,000 Speaker 1: maybe maybe there'll be some mixed up lyrics too where 707 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 1: I'll tell me like I want it that way, where 708 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,560 Speaker 1: the song won't make any sense, but it will be 709 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: a complete and total banger. 710 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 2: Maybe do you have what it takes to battle show biz? 711 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 3: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown Show? 712 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 13: You're gonna listen to the actual podcast episode right like that. 713 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 13: I'm gonna watch it, Shelley, watch it. Oh my gosh, 714 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 13: I leave my house. Yeah, okay, she wants it on 715 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 13: a movie theater. 716 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 2: Watch it. That's a good idea by herself. Why didn't 717 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:42,640 Speaker 2: do that already? 718 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: You want to talk about overpriced stuff, how about going 719 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 1: to the movies try and buy it. You gotta buy 720 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 1: seven gallons and it's like twenty eight dollars and don't 721 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: refill it. 722 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 6: For you though, and it all tastes like grape because 723 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 6: they use the machine with all the different flavors. 724 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,720 Speaker 1: Man, I was just somewhere the other day where they 725 00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:03,240 Speaker 1: had the one that makes every shoda ever ever invented, 726 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 1: And you're right, they all taste like cherry coke. 727 00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 3: Yes, it makes me so mad. 728 00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:08,960 Speaker 2: I didn't order cherry coke. 729 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:09,800 Speaker 9: O the water. 730 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: It tastes like cherry coke. Somebody getting your cleanest thing. Hey, Jenna, 731 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 1: Hi Jenna, good morning. Fun fact about you is what. 732 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 7: My sister and I have the same birthday, but we 733 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 7: are not twit. 734 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 2: Okay, how far apart? 735 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 11: Are you? 736 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 8: Cool? 737 00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 3: Two years? 738 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 2: All right? Wow? 739 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: Fascinating. I wonder if your parents got it on on 740 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 1: the same way. What is your birthday? Let's figure out 741 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: the day they got it on. What's your birthday? 742 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 3: July twenty seven, so. 743 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 2: Like around the holidays. Yeah, so they were doing it 744 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 2: on Christmas. 745 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 1: They were they were the holiday party two years and 746 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 1: they got it on a little too many cocktails, a 747 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: little too much egnog. And then look what happened you 748 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 1: and your sister Boom problem. 749 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 2: Solve it. 750 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: I just figured the whole thing out. That's how it happened. Yeah, 751 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: She's like whatever, I don't want to consider and fifty bucks, 752 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,800 Speaker 1: one thousand, thirty nine wins, only sixty nine losses all 753 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 1: time and eighteen straight for Shelley. 754 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 2: Five questions. Let's go, guys, good luck all right? 755 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 3: Good luck? 756 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: Sold to respect Shelley. You gotta go soundboof poof Jenna. 757 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: Question number one. The Kelsey Brothers had the Internet going 758 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: crazy over a podcast teaser hinting the Taylor's swift maybe 759 00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: a guest tomorrow. 760 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,400 Speaker 2: What is the name of their podcast, New Heights. 761 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: Christiano Ronaldo, which for some reason it always heard for 762 00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:30,000 Speaker 1: me to say, proposed to his girlfriend Georgia Rodriguez with 763 00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: the biggest ring I've ever seen. 764 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 2: Yes, and you know they dug that out of somewhere. 765 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 2: That is not a loud grown diamond. 766 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:36,160 Speaker 3: Wait it long for that? 767 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,480 Speaker 2: What is Christiano best known for? 768 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 5: Stoccer? 769 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 1: Who did the Jonas Brothers bring out for a Camp 770 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: Rock reunion during night one of their Greetings from Your 771 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:52,600 Speaker 1: Hometown tour. Jemmy Lovato influencer and singer Dixie Demilio is 772 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 1: twenty four today. What is the name of Dixie's famous 773 00:33:55,040 --> 00:34:02,280 Speaker 1: sister who is a dancer and TikToker and which Columbian 774 00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 1: singer paused his concert to call out a mom for 775 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:09,640 Speaker 1: bringing her baby without ear protection. That's a five. 776 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 5: That might be it. 777 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 2: You might do it, you might get it. We might 778 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 2: be writing a check. She got a five. 779 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 1: She got a five, Shelley, get the typewriter out, Jason, 780 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 1: that's out. I think today's the day. Well, I'm going 781 00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:28,680 Speaker 1: to need to write emails because that's the only reason, 782 00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:32,279 Speaker 1: only way I can do that. All right, question was 783 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 1: running and someone corrected me. I guess Jenning your parents 784 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:38,640 Speaker 1: got it on around Halloween, so same deal, you know? 785 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 10: And then. 786 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:45,400 Speaker 1: Right, question number one that Kelsey Brothers had the Internet 787 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,280 Speaker 1: going crazy over a podcast teaser, hinting that Taylor Swift 788 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:49,480 Speaker 1: may be a guest tomorrow. 789 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:53,040 Speaker 2: What is the name of the podcast New Heights? That's right. 790 00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:57,320 Speaker 1: Cristiano Ronaldo proposed to his girlfriend Georgia Rodriguez. What is 791 00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:00,520 Speaker 1: Christiano best known for soccer? 792 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 3: Did you say a ring? 793 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:02,160 Speaker 1: Yeah? 794 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 2: Oh, I saw the ring? All right. 795 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 1: I don't know how she can carry her hand around 796 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 1: who and I'll also be afraid of my hand? I 797 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 1: get cut off wearing that there? Yes, who did the 798 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 1: Jonahs brothers bring out for a Camp Rock reunion during 799 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: night one of their Greetings from Your Hometown tour, Demie Lovato, Yeah, 800 00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,000 Speaker 1: influencer and singer Dixie Demilio's twenty four today. What is 801 00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,360 Speaker 1: the name of Dixie's famous sister who is a dancer 802 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:23,799 Speaker 1: in TikToker? Oh? 803 00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 5: No? 804 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:30,799 Speaker 3: What a stream? Dixie too? And a tricksy Yeah? 805 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 2: Ooh Dixie and Trixie. No, Charlie, Charlie? 806 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:40,359 Speaker 1: And which Columbian singer pushed his concert to call out 807 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:42,520 Speaker 1: pause rather his contract to call out a mom for 808 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 1: bringing her baby without air protection. 809 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,560 Speaker 2: Oh, Maluma, Oh you got that? I thought you'd get 810 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:47,800 Speaker 2: I thought you missed. 811 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 1: Five Jennings and last number seventy and you snapped her 812 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:59,799 Speaker 1: eighteen game win streak back to one hundred bucks? 813 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 5: Wow? 814 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,879 Speaker 2: Wow, What are you gonna do with the money? 815 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,920 Speaker 3: Probably go on to vacation. 816 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 2: There you go. 817 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 1: That's okay, all right? One thousand, one hundred and fifty 818 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 1: bucks is yours? Hang on one second, you. 819 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 2: Can hang with it. Got really you did it? Hang on? 820 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not going to go along for it. 821 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 1: No, hold on, that's what he's saying. I'm not well, 822 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: you know, I don't have a comeback for that. You know, 823 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to yes, and I'm not going to 824 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: go along. Does that mean I have to say yes, 825 00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 1: I'm not going to go along. I'm not going to 826 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,320 Speaker 1: say that, not on purpose. Sometimes it happens, you know, 827 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 1: sometimes if you're that hot. Anyway, I gotta go, Shelley, 828 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:47,800 Speaker 1: have a good day. One hundred bucks tomorrow we started 829 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:48,480 Speaker 1: all over again. 830 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 3: All right, sounds good, okay, I. 831 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 1: Mean, if it's that good, you know, what can I say? 832 00:36:55,840 --> 00:37:01,840 Speaker 3: Not much to saykky, you know what do I know? 833 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,800 Speaker 3: You know, being that hot, somebody has a little. 834 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,959 Speaker 2: I mean sometimes a little sometimes. 835 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:09,120 Speaker 5: What can I do? 836 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:10,480 Speaker 2: What can I do? 837 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 3: There's nothing you can do? 838 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:12,840 Speaker 5: Are you? 839 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:17,799 Speaker 1: Aren't you complimented sometimes me when that happens, yes, all 840 00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: the time. 841 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 2: Oh it's everything. Well that's a different problem entirely, but 842 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:21,960 Speaker 2: more bread.