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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: Forbes magazine just declared US the number one show in

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Speaker 1: the world for relationship drama.

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Speaker 4: That's awesome.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, they also ranked US seven hundred and fifty eighth

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Speaker 1: at effectively solving relationship dramas.

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Speaker 4: That can't be last place, though it's not much higher

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Speaker 4: on optimism.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, today's callers should feel real good that they turn

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Speaker 1: to us. Her name is Shana. Shana, it's your last

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Speaker 1: chance to back out? Are you sure you want to

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Speaker 1: do this?

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Speaker 2: I'm sure.

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Speaker 4: We're not almost last for nothing.

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Speaker 1: I'm proud of that. So Shana, tell us a little

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Speaker 1: bit about what's going on in your life that's caused

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Speaker 1: so much drama.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a play super weird situation going on.

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Speaker 2: I've been friends with the same group of people basically

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Speaker 2: for like eight years. We get everything together.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think everybody has like that pure group, right,

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Speaker 4: like your people that you use.

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Speaker 1: And if you don't, that's totally okay. Brooke did not

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Speaker 1: mean to single you out and make you feel bad?

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Speaker 1: Does that hurt your feelings? I haven't traveled with I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying not everybody has a huge group of friends

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Speaker 1: that they do everything. But it's okay, you don't need

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Speaker 1: other people anyway. I'm proud of you for having that, SHANEA.

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Speaker 1: What's going on with your cool group of friends?

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Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, we we do everything together, concerts, sports, stuff, everything.

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Speaker 2: We get it. You have a great friendship and we're

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Speaker 2: all best friends and we're so happy and there's nothing wrong.

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Speaker 1: It's great.

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Speaker 4: It is it? Is it all women or is it

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Speaker 4: a mix of guys and girls?

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Speaker 2: So it's actually a mix of guys and girls. And

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Speaker 2: I'm a little bit closer to one of the guys

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Speaker 2: in particular. His name's Brett. Okay, So he's dating a

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Speaker 2: new girl and and they've been dating probably for like

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Speaker 2: a few months now. At first he was bringing her

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Speaker 2: to our group hangout things like it was fun and

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Speaker 2: you know, I don't know too much about her yet,

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Speaker 2: but she seems a little shy but still really sweet

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Speaker 2: and cool. And I know it must be kind of intimidating, like,

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Speaker 4: Are you guys cool with that? I mean, like I

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Speaker 4: would assume between the eight of you, there's been a

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Speaker 4: lot of boyfriends and girlfriends that have come.

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Speaker 2: And gone, and yeah, exactly, like we're kind of yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're pretty used to it at this point, and it's

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Speaker 2: always just kind of like a more the merrier type thing.

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Speaker 2: We all have a good time. Yeah, well so I

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Speaker 2: thought we were all having a good time. But about

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Speaker 2: a month ago, I noticed every time I would reach

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Speaker 4: That's odd, okay, And is this on a group text

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Speaker 4: or are you talking about when you privately message him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like when I privately reach out to him, he

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Speaker 2: doesn't really say anything back. So I really haven't heard

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Speaker 2: from him very much in like a month now. And

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Speaker 2: what's even weirder is I noticed that when we would

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Speaker 2: all go hang out, I would never see them. And

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Speaker 2: then I realized it wasn't that he wasn't going to anything.

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Speaker 2: He was just not going to stuff when I was there.

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Speaker 5: Something that's happening that must make you feel so bad.

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Speaker 4: I mean we all feel that, right, because like, I

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Speaker 1: Oh really, do you have loads of male friends?

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Speaker 3: Brooke?

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Speaker 4: By god, I'm just saying, like, is a jealousy thing? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: With like significant others and sometimes it's worse than others.

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Speaker 4: Are you thinking that the girlfriend is like you can't

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're too close?

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, So I reached out to my other friends

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Speaker 2: when I realized that it was it wasn't an everybody

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Speaker 2: think it was just anything, and they basically were like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: something's definitely going on there. Okay, I'm not crazy.

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Speaker 1: Can I just compliment you?

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Speaker 5: You must be very pretty because this happens a lot

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Speaker 5: if you're especially if you're attractive and you're clothes with

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Speaker 1: Is there any like history between you and bread or

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Speaker 1: is it just strictly a friendship.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we're definitely just friends. It's strictly our friendship.

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Speaker 2: But I will say we've known each other for years,

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Speaker 2: so like we went on a road trip and like

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Speaker 2: had one random like hookup thing, like there was no

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Speaker 4: You got to try and make out once, you know, right,

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Speaker 4: how do you know how?

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Speaker 1: I mean that's the thing.

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Speaker 4: It's like, how do you know if you're just going

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Speaker 4: to be friends or not? If you don't like just

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Speaker 1: Friend text is called the sample plat. Yeah, you.

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Speaker 5: Don'd you to you did your tongue.

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Speaker 1: All right, it sounds like that happened. You said it

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Speaker 1: happened years ago.

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Speaker 2: It was yeah, it was so long ago. It's it's nothing.

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Speaker 2: It's ancient history. And you're we're one hundred percent just

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Speaker 2: you know, platonic. We're just friends, like to the point where.

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Speaker 5: If he ever came out and said you had feelings

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Speaker 5: for you, you would be.

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Speaker 2: Like you, Yeah, I'd be a little uncomfortable at this.

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Speaker 4: She would be nicer about it.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, I'm used to hearing you.

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Speaker 4: I mean, has this happened before as this, you know,

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Speaker 4: because it sounds like you guys are really really close

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Speaker 4: and it can be intimidating for potential girlfriends or boyfriends

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Speaker 4: if you're dating somebody too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it has happened. But for me to just kind

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Speaker 2: of be completely shut out, this hasn't happened before. This

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Speaker 2: is definitely weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it definitely sounds awkward. So what made you email

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Speaker 2: I just want to get in touch with him, like

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Speaker 2: I don't know how else to do it. I just

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Speaker 2: he's not really giving me that chance because you won't

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Speaker 1: He's avoiding the convo.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's understandable and avoiding their calls.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because he doesn't want to.

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Speaker 3: He knows the girlfriends probably got the phone, not that

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Speaker 3: I've done that, it's.

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Speaker 1: That would be weird. Feel We're going to play a

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Speaker 1: song here real quick, Shana, and we'll come back give

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Speaker 1: you a little bit of advice before we make the

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Speaker 1: phone calls. Are wait, are we calling Brett? Are we

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Speaker 2: Brett?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll let you make the call to Brett and

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Speaker 1: do your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. As I said previously, our

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Speaker 1: expertise is in ruining relationships, not mending friendships, so this

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Speaker 1: really isn't in our wheelhouse right now, but we're gonna

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Speaker 1: try our best for Shana, who needs our help reaching

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Speaker 1: out to her good friend Brett because Brett is not

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Speaker 4: Well that's what she thinks, so.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't feel comfortable with that. She wants our help

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Speaker 1: to get him on the phone and see if they

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Speaker 1: can salvage the friendship. And I really think we need

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Speaker 1: something special to start this one off. And I know

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Speaker 1: Jose and Alexis you guys are friends. Yeah, So to

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Speaker 1: kick this off, I'd like both of you to do

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Speaker 1: a good luck kiss. That'll make Shana feel comfortable calling

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Speaker 1: a guy that she's kissed.

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Speaker 5: This We already did it outside the studio.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe if we can't give you a good luck kiss,

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Speaker 1: SHANEA will at least have some advice. Brooke, do you

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Speaker 1: have anything for her good.

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Speaker 5: Luck kiss you?

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Speaker 4: I'm good yeah, no, honestly, SHANEA. Lake, I think the

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Speaker 4: one thing you need to watch out for in this

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Speaker 4: conversation with him is making sure you're not putting his

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Speaker 4: it'll make him defensive. He's already got one lady given

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Speaker 4: him weird ultimatums. You need to be the sane, nice

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: That was actually some good advice.

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Speaker 5: Well, I think that a lot of people out there

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Speaker 5: are assuming, including myself, that there's some type of jealousy

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Speaker 4: Well, I think that's obvious.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, totally. Well I'm an investigator, Brokay, no I did that.

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Speaker 5: There's obviously something there, So once you confirm that, I

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Speaker 5: think the best solution is to find a way to

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Speaker 5: set up a date with just you and her, not

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Speaker 5: him involved, so she can get to know you a

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Speaker 5: little bit and know that you're harmless. You're really just

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Speaker 5: a friend, there's nothing there, and that way she trusts you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I didn't think of that.

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Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, you and Brett's girlfriend can kiss. I I

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Speaker 1: mean it worked out for you and Brett. You guys

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Speaker 1: have a strong relationship.

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Speaker 4: Is this why you don't have a.

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Speaker 1: Kiss all of them?

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: See, I'm learning something by doing this too. This is

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Speaker 1: really useful. But we're gonna die Brett's number right now

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Speaker 1: for you, Shane and let you make your awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 1: phone call you ready, all right?

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Speaker 3: Got it?

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Speaker 5: You can do it.

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Speaker 1: We'll be here when we feel like you need a

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello, Fred.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Hey it's me. Oh sorry, I'm like, that's not

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Speaker 3: what came up on my phone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, that's because you weren't answering your phone.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sorry, I'm kind of a I wasn't prepared to

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Speaker 3: talk to you right now. Sorry, I'm just kind of yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was trying to figure out. Yeah, I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: figure out what's going on, dude, Like I haven't heard

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Speaker 2: from you in like a month, and I've just kind

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Speaker 2: of been hearing stuff and I'm trying to figure out.

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Speaker 2: You know, I wanted to hear from you about it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I get that. It's just the thing I'm in

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Speaker 3: kind of new and I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like, I know, I know this relationship is

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Speaker 2: new and everything. I totally get it, like we've all

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Speaker 2: been there, but I don't know, I just feel like

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Speaker 2: I don't want to feel like she's the reason, like

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Speaker 2: we don't ever talk again, and this just feels really weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I get that it is weird.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm trying to figure out, like does she hate me,

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Speaker 2: because you know, you don't tell me anything, so I

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Speaker 2: just don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 3: No, she doesn't, she doesn't hate you. I mean you've

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Speaker 3: been around her a little. She's she's kind of shy

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Speaker 2: Well it was only I mean you only, like it

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Speaker 3: Well, the road trip thing, yeah, and then the Sinco

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Speaker 2: Oh oh oh, I totally forgot about that. But I

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Speaker 2: Like it's not like we're not like that like where

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Speaker 3: I'm well aware, we're good, you know, Just it's it's

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Speaker 2: Mean what can we do, Like how do we prove

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Speaker 2: how do we show her, you know, like that I'm harmless.

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Speaker 2: We are literally just really good friends.

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Speaker 3: Like you'll have to bury those really really strong feelings

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Speaker 3: you have for me. That's the first thing.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, br shut the hell.

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Speaker 3: You are not making this better.

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Speaker 2: That's not funny.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, you're so in love with me that

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Speaker 2: Oh it's unbearable. It's really Oh god, whatever will I do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I actually I think I have a theory about

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Speaker 3: the Synco Demyo thing. I don't think you knew me.

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Speaker 3: You are such.

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Speaker 2: I mean I don't remember most of what I so

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean. That doesn't make me look very good,

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Speaker 3: Like, we're just having fun and I.

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Speaker 2: Don't know, like should we like can we talk to

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just want to be friends with you again, and

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Speaker 3: Really I don't know. I don't want I obviously don't

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Speaker 3: want to set this friendship to go away. That's never

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Speaker 3: since we know, we're not going to be doing anything

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Speaker 2: Uh, that is not going to work. So the thing

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Secrets?

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Speaker 2: So right, I'm so sorry. I didn't realize that.

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Speaker 3: You mean, like on a rate like like live. Yeah, Hey,

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Speaker 3: why is there fifty people saying?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like there's four of us here that five

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Speaker 1: you're on Brooklyn Jeffrey in the morning right now, Brett, Well,

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Speaker 1: that it's okay, I mean, friend you didn't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm thinking about the secret friends thing. That's not

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Speaker 1: Just a few brilliant people know.

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Speaker 4: It was good. I mean you were joking about her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, it's a it's a joke though. You guys

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Speaker 2: No, no. I mean that's why I came on here, like,

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Speaker 2: I yeah, this isn't it shouldn't be a big deal.

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Speaker 5: But what about you told us you hooked up once

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Speaker 4: I forgot about the other time.

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Speaker 5: I don't know that's hooking.

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Speaker 1: Up when it comes to cheating, Jose is like suddenly

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Speaker 4: But the thing is it was so forgettable that she

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Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't bode well for you, Brett.

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Speaker 4: Brett, it doesn't sound like you have delivered your friendship

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Speaker 4: to your girlfriend very well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it wasn't handled well obviously. So I just once

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Speaker 1: And look, we are running a little bit short on

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Speaker 1: time here. But Brett, something that you don't know is

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Speaker 1: before we called you, we went around the room and

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Speaker 1: all gave advice to Shanea on what we thought she

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Speaker 1: should do. And somebody here suggested that Shana and your

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Speaker 1: What do you think of that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but she's she's such a like ballbuster that I'm

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Speaker 1: That's how you're bone though. I understand it's a weird situation,

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Speaker 1: but I think you should at least talk to your

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Speaker 3: It's low risk, bro, Yeah, and be like, you're the

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Speaker 3: only one in the area that doesn't know that this happened.

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Speaker 3: So I know her now, you know, Like, well, I

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Speaker 3: gotta tell you.

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Speaker 4: Awkward Tuesday is one of our most popular podcasts. You

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Speaker 4: could actually send it to her, find it on Spot

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Speaker 4: to buy anywhere else. You can hear it all over again.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you can hear your not good joke about.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, laugh about it together.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I don't have to rag on you. They're doing

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Speaker 2: it for me.

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning