WEBVTT - Episode 206: Y'all Think This Is Funny? (Feat. Ann Marie) 0:00:00.240 --> 0:00:02.720 Let's say, what's that. What's type of slip service. I'm 0:00:02.720 --> 0:00:06.360 Angela yee, I'm g G McGuire, I'm GS nipples shut up, 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:14.319 I'm out every yea everything. I'm not sure this me 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:18.200 right now. But let's introduce Amory because this is your 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:21.799 first time YE service. So let's talk about to you 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:26.040 from Chicago. I'm from Chicago Southside and good. You know 0:00:26.680 --> 0:00:31.400 I've been to Anglewood before you are. That's surprising. Why 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:33.400 do you say that a lot of people don't everything. 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:35.520 I've been there. I was in the park that Derek 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:39.519 Rose built. Um, I was working with this m on 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:43.960 this documentary for Spenzo. Okay, that's cool. Yeah, so I 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:48.680 was out there. It was an experience experience you they like, No, 0:00:48.840 --> 0:00:50.879 it's good. I mean, look, I'm from Brooklyn. Like I 0:00:51.000 --> 0:00:55.120 enjoy going places that's not necessarily like the downtown tourists 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:57.520 the area. I think it is important when you go 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:00.320 places for people to see you, like being six to slow, 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:04.000 to know that people care get back. Yeah, we're not 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:06.400 scared to go into certain places, but we also show 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:09.480 our respect. I think you have to respectfully go places, 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:13.760 you know. Yeah, so some people be scared. I don't 0:01:13.760 --> 0:01:16.479 know if y'all saw that video, but the video Safari 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:20.720 Safari had like four armed guards with him and Detroit 0:01:21.120 --> 0:01:25.200 and they had like a K forty seven. Yeah, it 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:28.880 was crazy. It was like he was surrounded on security 0:01:29.360 --> 0:01:33.880 like he was in Iraq or something. Yeah. She's like, 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:37.959 I would you sell if somebody came through Chicago, Yeah, 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:41.680 your neighborhood and say it was a Safari because he's 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:44.319 not really that famous. So like saying with somebody like 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:47.400 he's not like I think now, if that was like 0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:50.840 jay Z, I'd be like, all right, keep it wouldn't 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:53.280 even do that. He wouldn't exactly what I'm saying. But 0:01:53.320 --> 0:01:55.960 if he was somebody of that caliber of a select 0:01:56.720 --> 0:02:00.280 then I would maybe think. But I don't mean he 0:02:00.320 --> 0:02:03.280 needs because of the type of name in Chicago have 0:02:03.480 --> 0:02:06.960 like some people not really like yeah, I think about 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:09.320 like I'll murderate, Like that's really what they everybody talked 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:11.920 about when they talk about Chicago. So if somebody like 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:15.360 him is not comfortable enough to go in there, I can't. 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:18.239 But he would lame with all of these they said 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:22.360 he was shouting if you go to if he was 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:25.720 if you was to be a young walking around with 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:28.880 four arm guards. I mean, because I wouldn't be offended. 0:02:29.000 --> 0:02:31.720 Like I think he's old javantic, but it's very relaxed. 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:34.200 Don't where about the jewelry when you go someplace you 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:39.560 don't know. So maybe he got PTSD from being robbed 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:44.440 at gun point rob he got robbed right outer Department 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:49.880 about a year ago. But let's talk about you and 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:52.240 how anger Wood made you who you are today, Like, 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:54.880 tell us about where you're from and what made you 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:58.040 want to be an artist? Who inspired you all of that? Okay, 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:59.640 So what made me want to be an artist is 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:01.840 like I got like music and my family, like my 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:04.880 mama saying she right, she wrapped my father do the sing. 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:07.960 And my uncle really started me, like with the karaoke machine. 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.440 Like when I was like probably like three years old, 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:12.320 he used to make me sing songs like over and 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:15.200 over on karaoke machine. But growing up in Inglewood, I 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:18.720 think he molded me to be like a strong woman. 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:21.040 I think I'm stronger because of the environment I grew 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:24.280 up in. Like I got the self caring type of 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:26.840 feelings as a female, but I got the hard body 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:29.040 as a male because it's it really was like pros 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:32.360 and cons being in Inglewood like you had your bad times, 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:34.480 you had your good times. They comes through your music. 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:40.280 You talk some ship. Yeah all right, well let's get 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:43.240 into that a little bit because, um, you know, you 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:44.880 talk about a lot of things that I think people 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:47.360 could relate to. Now I gotta ask you, do you 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:51.000 send selfies of yourself out to guys when you're dating, 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:55.680 like like nudes? I didn't get to that part because 0:03:57.880 --> 0:04:02.280 what do you think we are never saying hold on 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:05.920 itselfies like regular pictures? Yeah, like if AXD, I don't 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.720 just rending if they asked, Yeah, people like they see 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:11.920 me a pig. I sent it through. Now do you 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:14.960 saying nudes? Ever? I've never said the nude? Not gonna 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:19.440 give me like that. What about a thomb picture? No, 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:22.240 not a thomb, not a not a Keenny, not a sports, 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:25.600 not a McKenny. Bikenny is okay. I don't even wear 0:04:25.600 --> 0:04:28.480 a bikinis on the beach, believe it or not. Why, 0:04:28.520 --> 0:04:32.560 I don't know. I just think I don't know. I 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:34.360 just didn't get to that point yet. So what you'd 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:38.840 be wearing one pieces? No, I would like I would 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.800 like I probably would like a two piece. But I'll 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:42.800 put like some shorts on over to something like that. 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:45.440 I don't never just be on the beach with two 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:48.760 pieces and alrightually gonna get there at some point. Yeah, 0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:52.440 your tan line about to be crazy. It's gonna be 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:54.760 right here all the way up to you, like the 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:58.679 farmer's staying. You think that's part of how you were raised, 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:00.880 because I say, I always say the my family, like, 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:03.560 nobody walked around the house. You know how some families 0:05:03.560 --> 0:05:06.200 be naked in the house. My family and me, Yeah, 0:05:06.240 --> 0:05:08.360 my family, everybody was covered up. We had to wear 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:11.839 socks even people work around the house. And our bare feet. Oh, 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:14.359 I wasn't at first. I want too comfortable with just 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:17.000 showing my body. Like I wouldn't even have like crop 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.120 tops at first I started wearing crop tops, and I 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.960 was like eighteen, it's not WoT. It ain't like I 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:25.640 don't know, I'll just never like, Yeah, I'm not mad 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:28.560 at you got to be all here, all naked all 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:32.080 the time. Yeah, I think I'm just a little tomboy. 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:37.320 But guys like you growing up, I'm sure you know 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:41.800 what kind of guys did you like? Uh? I like 0:05:41.880 --> 0:05:45.640 what Drake say, Uh I forget basically I like somebody 0:05:45.640 --> 0:05:49.320 with like a story like Drake. No, like a Drake times. 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.560 You know, I like Drake as an artists, but not 0:05:52.680 --> 0:05:55.800 on the other ship. But what did Drake say? He said, 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:59.039 what's ang? Was it sensitive? I kind of think it was. 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:00.800 It was an old When it was, I think it 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:03.880 was proud of You's like, no, it ain't. It's like 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:06.240 you gotta pass and now I do too. We're perfect 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:08.400 for each other. But I like somebody with a story 0:06:08.440 --> 0:06:12.080 that I can relate because I came from like a struggle, 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:14.000 a hard background, so I want somebody I can relate 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:18.960 to what you got. Loydt honesty like like sot like 0:06:19.680 --> 0:06:21.440 like you're like a ball of belly or you like 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:24.360 guys in good shape always. I ain't mad about a 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:28.240 bo in. I ain't too many. I don't really care, 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:36.600 like ready to say, wait, you're not what nigga old 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:46.200 nigga shout out? Can't Louise? I like that? All right? 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.800 What about Secret? Now? You have a song called Secret 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:51.760 with White Kao Cyrus. Is he here type somebody like him? 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:56.800 Is it a little cute too? You ain't saying no 0:06:56.880 --> 0:07:01.480 because Drake it was like no, him was a drink no, yes, 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:06.719 too late. Now y'all. Well she said it's type. Yeah, 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:09.760 that's your type. I'm not saying, are you talking to him? Okay, 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:14.480 I'll see your type. Um. Is it cute? Yeah? Sorry's 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:21.000 cute personality wise, you like he's funny, he got a 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:24.040 nice personality, and being around him, he counted. He not 0:07:24.120 --> 0:07:26.400 counted with the godfaring. So that's a good quality to 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.400 happen to me. But like, so I like boyfriend material 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:35.080 to me, shout out his future girlfriend? Is she sitting 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:46.680 on this couch? Yeah, that's cute. Now about to be 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:49.720 empty back? You need some more? So is it fun 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.760 to have a relationship that's a secret, because I'm sure 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:55.880 we've all had those. The sex is fun, you know, 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:58.000 sex always good. We aren't supposed to be doing when 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.160 you're doing it with somebody to drinking doing it and 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:02.160 somewhere you ain't got u business doing it that it's 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:06.920 always like a married man. Not that not that serious? 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.200 All right? So I think things did is better on 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:15.480 the low though. We'll have social media and stuff. Isn't 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:17.800 that like they take everything in the count of destroys? 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:20.480 People like that's basically what secret is about. People think 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.440 it's about creeping with the nigga ain't supposed to be 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:24.440 with what it's really like keeping it out of social media, 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:26.880 keeping it out of people faces. Because I feel like 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:28.680 now the way social media is set up, a count 0:08:28.680 --> 0:08:31.760 of rowing relationships count. I agree with that it does 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:34.280 because people be scrutinizing people being d m s. People 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:36.880 be telling ship that's not even true. Yeah, and bitches, 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:43.600 bitches really like fucking with niggas that gat bitches like 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:46.160 they want to say that I got her nigga. You 0:08:46.160 --> 0:08:48.480 know what I'm saying. They're getting props like you know 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.560 I was sucking he got that's his girl. And then 0:08:50.600 --> 0:08:53.600 they'll tell you right, girl, you think he faithful? And girl, 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:58.360 you think you um the only one he Yeah, you 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:01.560 think you're wipe material? Baby. What percentage of guys you 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:11.840 think are faithful? Na? No one, no, zero zero zero 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:15.520 nine percent exactly. Anybody that has faithful like in your 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:17.360 life like that you see in a relationship and you 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:21.640 believe they're faithful. No, I personally don't know. I'm gonna 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:23.680 hear people seeing that they faithful, but I've never seen 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:27.920 a faithful man before. God Damn, that's tough. Like, what 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:30.600 why are you making up face because you already know 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:33.400 how I feel about these nigews. All the guys I 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:36.520 know that are like faithful, are like older than been 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:39.920 through it than got caught, probably had a sneak side baby, 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:42.560 and that's what made them be faithful because they couldn't 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:47.000 mess up no more. M what she's about to see 0:09:47.000 --> 0:09:50.080 her something that she wanted to say, something so bad. Well, ship, 0:09:50.120 --> 0:09:52.560 they ain't got the souse no more. They can't really 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:56.000 get nobody because nigga temptation is real for me, Like 0:09:56.440 --> 0:09:59.480 Nigga's claim, they faithful all days. She a nice little 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:03.800 ass of ason be going. But let's keep it real. Okay, 0:10:04.200 --> 0:10:07.360 there's guys that it ain't even like they some of 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:08.920 the guys that you look at that be cheating and 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:11.800 doing all this stuff, you'd be like, how it don't 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:14.280 even matter if they're not good looking, ain't got shit, 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:18.880 They still would do it. That mouthpiece words is words 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:21.360 is play a big part, and like people be in 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:24.559 relationships to like a net could sweet talker. You can 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.280 sweet talker woman right out of draws if you got 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:30.240 the right words and the right mouthpiece. Who so let's 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:34.800 talk about you. She said, I don't even know the sip. 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.720 So have you ever been in love? No? Not yet. 0:10:39.240 --> 0:10:41.120 What's the longest relationship you've ever been in because you 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:46.720 still what are you? Twenty three years? That's a long time. 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:49.599 He wasn't in love. I was close to it, but 0:10:49.679 --> 0:10:56.040 he was. He was right. He was the verdish person 0:10:56.520 --> 0:10:59.200 to ever get myself in the situation with. So like 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:02.120 every time I've kept see myself like getting up, then 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:05.240 he had drawn me. I take something. Yeah, and I 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:12.840 it's like resetting what made you stay so long? Um? 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:15.160 He was my first, I guess, so I had a 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:18.559 certain type of attachment to him. That'll do it. Yeah, 0:11:18.720 --> 0:11:24.240 were you hit first? I knew what told him, what 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:27.200 ultimately made you ender the you in relationship, and what 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:29.800 totally openly made you do so when you did, Yeah, 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:31.680 Because I didn't see it getting no better, it actually 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:34.360 got worse. And like I thought I was trying, you can't. 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:38.280 You cannot raise a man like came Michelle and said, 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:40.480 like you are who you are when you reach a 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:43.560 certain age. I feel like you're already an established person. 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:46.520 So it's not you gotta change yourself. I can't change 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:48.960 you, you you feel me. So I couldn't change him, and 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:52.079 I feel like yeah, and me staying I feel like 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:55.720 I was hurting myself more than I was, um gaining 0:11:55.840 --> 0:12:00.520 what I'm saying, what was the last strang? Don't tell 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:03.600 he had a baby. Oh he did that too good, 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:08.839 you know? But she said the last jo I think 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:12.520 somebody had. Um, I think I was. I was in 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:15.880 a like starting my career whatever, and females knew who 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:18.920 I was, like the dummy A brag about who I 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:22.640 was to females, and then somebody inboxed me and showed 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:26.400 me like like yeah, and I was like, yeah, I 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:29.240 had to. I had arressed me now. And that goes 0:12:29.280 --> 0:12:31.000 back to what we just said. How girls I want 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:32.680 to be your girl, Girls that want to deal with 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:34.280 a guy when they know they got somebody just to 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:36.320 say that, oh that's your girl, but I'm doing this 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:38.960 with him. Yeah, then you think we're gonna be pop 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:45.040 girl sister sisters after Yeah, yeah, that's crazy. That happened 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:47.480 to me before. This guy that I used to day 0:12:47.480 --> 0:12:49.480 and out to him for like four and a half years, 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:52.200 so he had broke up with his ex and we 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:54.760 got together like in the middle of his breakup, and 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:56.520 then he ended up getting back together with her, but 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:58.960 it was early on in our relationship. So then she 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:01.240 went through his phone, had two phones and he had 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:02.720 left one at home and she was at his house. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:04.680 And she was at his house because she had just 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:08.679 had an abortion and she couldn't go to work. But anyway, um, 0:13:08.760 --> 0:13:11.480 so she gets my number and she calls me and 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:12.959 she's like asking me all these questions and then she 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:16.600 want to hang out. No. I was like, let's make 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:20.240 your ma Ansluce, No, I don't want to hang out 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:22.160 with you. And then she was mad at me and 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:23.840 still trying to get back together with him. She threw 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.400 all his clothes out the window, broke his TV and 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:28.080 did all this ship and then we're still trying to 0:13:28.080 --> 0:13:31.520 get with him and trying to bash me. It's that's 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:33.360 always weird to me when the woman is trying to 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:36.120 link up though, Like what is it that we're about 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:39.280 the link up? For? Yes, she want to see you, 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:41.040 you know, with him for real so she can keep 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.079 sucking with him. That's what she wanted. And she had 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:45.600 actually befriended another girl that he cheated on her with 0:13:45.920 --> 0:13:52.240 and they would hang out. Yeah, come on, yeah, don't 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:57.440 be friends the girl that your boyfriends. Just as a 0:13:57.440 --> 0:14:01.200 matter of fact, do you recommend calling a girl if 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:05.079 you find out because what's gonna happen, Either leave him 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:07.720 or stay whatever you're gonna do. Would you call Emory? 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:10.199 If what if you found out your man was cheating 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.079 on you? Would you call the girl that he was 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:15.520 cheating on? Do I already have physical proof? Yes? Then 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.760 I already know what I need to know he out, 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:20.880 But like if I don't know, and then like his 0:14:21.080 --> 0:14:24.440 room was like uh, like the guy I was supposed 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:26.800 to calm myself signe to now it was room was 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:30.520 like I saw something the internet or whatever, and then 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:32.880 I didn't know, like it wasn't physical proof, like he 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:36.640 was with her, and then into the d M s came. 0:14:36.720 --> 0:14:38.560 But like if you don't know, like if you're not sure, 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:40.160 like see if like he and the club will her 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:42.160 but they ain't hooked up with something. But people telling 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:45.280 you like they're dealing, then this look what you know, timmy, 0:14:45.280 --> 0:14:47.280 what's going on? And if she tell you and his 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:50.400 dad then ain't not enough to talk about? But do 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:53.840 you believe somebody? Because what is she exaggerating? Now you 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:56.440 gotta come and receipt, you gotta give me receipts, you 0:14:56.440 --> 0:15:00.520 got proof? She she gotta be detective. Now you just 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:03.600 gotta like, Okay, he was at your house yesterday. What's 0:15:03.640 --> 0:15:05.800 the proof he was at your house? He was he 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:07.400 takes you? I love you? What a proof? What a 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:09.240 date to? What is you know? You gotta get that 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:11.040 black light and go over the bed and check her. 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:18.200 That's crazy peoples, and they will try to just say 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:21.200 anything to mess up a relationship. Remember when that happened 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:24.480 with Travis Scott and some girl and a guy was 0:15:24.520 --> 0:15:27.720 taking pictures acting like he was cheating. But then they 0:15:27.760 --> 0:15:31.080 came out a week later like ah, just joking, and 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:33.680 you're like, what the funk is funny about that? Ship? 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:37.080 Not funny? Now? Would you listen say you started dating 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:40.280 a guy and other women tried to warn you about him. 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:43.040 What I listened to to the other women like, girl, 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:44.880 let me tell you something. He did this, this, that 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:47.440 and to me And I'm telling you right now he's 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:49.200 gonna do this, And would you listen to that? I 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:50.840 pay attention to that or do you want to find 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:53.720 out on your own? And I take note. But at 0:15:53.720 --> 0:15:55.800 the same time, you take a certain type of woman 0:15:55.800 --> 0:15:58.440 to change men like you probably wasn't what he was 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:01.240 really looking for, Like you wasn't fulfilling him in a 0:16:01.320 --> 0:16:03.640 way that probably I could. What I'm saying, I'm just 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:06.280 gonna have to find out for myself. We think that, 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.720 But do you feel like when you get with a man, 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:11.240 if he's done this in the past, you feel like 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:14.080 you could change him. No, I feel like he'll want 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:15.480 to change on his own if that's what he want 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:17.680 to do. And I also feel like coming from another woman, 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:19.400 you can't really trust what she's say about, Like you 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:22.920 can't take your her advice for her experience. You gotta 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:24.920 have your own experience. So I'm gonna still go ahead 0:16:24.960 --> 0:16:27.360 and get my own experience and see what's gonna happen, 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:29.160 because my situation with him is not gonna be the 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:31.560 same situation that she had with her. What if multiple 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:34.160 people want you and they all saying the same thing, 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:36.880 I mean, then you gotta contentat that. That might be 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:40.760 a little diffinitely there, like he'd be beatings Like what 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:43.160 if they got what if they say he has her fees? 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:45.600 I mean, well, you ain't gonna have to listen to 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:48.640 three moms one person telling me that you're just kind 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:50.760 of like that could be a lie, though, that could 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:54.360 be hate. I'm gonna ask. You would ask, I would ask, 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:56.520 and then what would you say that? What? What? What 0:16:56.560 --> 0:16:58.720 If he says no, then let's go get checked out 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:03.520 to make sure I'll make the right What if you 0:17:03.560 --> 0:17:06.119 already sucked them, I'm still we still want to go 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:07.919 check get checked out now. I really want to go 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:09.240 to the doctor because I want to make sure that 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:13.720 you ain't spread the ship. She's like, because she's sipping 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:16.440 so much, you need another drink. Every time we asked 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:19.480 something like now, what if he was with a guy? 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:22.680 Everything was amazing, right and you're about to have sex 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:25.800 and he tells you, like, just so you know, I 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:29.600 do have her peas, but it ain't flared up right 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:31.639 right now, I'm not having an outbreak. And you know 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:33.720 you can only get it skin and skin contact. So 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:36.560 I'm just letting you know. Then what I gotta go. 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:42.600 I can't know. I gotta little myself first. I'm not 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:45.840 gonna catching. But if he has pamphlets to show you 0:17:45.880 --> 0:17:48.240 how you can make sure you don't get it, I can't. 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:53.119 You know. I give this to everybody. Here you go, 0:17:53.520 --> 0:17:55.080 here you go. This is how you can make sure 0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:58.840 you don't catch it now. The disease is a different 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:03.000 sit like I'm not. I am sorry. I could be 0:18:03.000 --> 0:18:07.560 your friend, I can't be your girlfriend or your loved 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:12.080 on his mouth? What I kissing myself? Would you be 0:18:12.160 --> 0:18:15.160 with him? Still? Though? What you mean if he telled 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:16.520 me that he got herpes? You got a coach out 0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:18.800 of cold or forget the herpes. Let's just say you 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:22.600 got a cold store? Does that bother you see a 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:26.400 cold sort? Is herpies one? Right? Yes, ma'am, but it's 0:18:26.400 --> 0:18:29.160 not a safe not genital herpes, but it's still a 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:33.439 version of I still feel like we got gonna get tested. 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:36.720 I'm gonna do anyways, like I'm I asked those questions, 0:18:36.840 --> 0:18:39.440 asked if you got tested? Yes, I promised paperwork. When 0:18:39.520 --> 0:18:42.359 last time you have sex? When the last time you 0:18:42.359 --> 0:18:44.960 got tested? When last time you was you had sex? 0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:48.359 I'm protected, I asked outlet because there's too much going around? 0:18:48.520 --> 0:18:50.159 Are you honest about things like that? Like if I 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:52.280 guy asked you how many people have you been red here? 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:55.320 I know my number? I ain't really true. I don't 0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:57.000 think I should ask that. I don't think they should 0:18:57.000 --> 0:19:01.640 even any that. No, would you asking me? I wouldn't 0:19:01.640 --> 0:19:03.679 want to assume any guy's been with has probably been 0:19:03.680 --> 0:19:08.239 with so many women he can't count. Yeah, I just 0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:10.240 assume that. I don't know if that's true. We also 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:13.160 damn me twice your age so that you know, yeah, 0:19:13.280 --> 0:19:15.680 we gotta think about the type of the age range 0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:20.400 of guys that we're dealing with. They've probably been you know, yeah, 0:19:20.440 --> 0:19:29.480 because I'm kidding. My man is actually twice your age, 0:19:29.760 --> 0:19:34.040 so and a few and if you add a few, okay, nephew, 0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:35.840 metic guy, what we turn you off right away from 0:19:35.840 --> 0:19:38.119 talking to him? What are some things that it's like 0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:43.040 aunt red flag, no mass set, like if you oh no, 0:19:43.080 --> 0:19:45.320 it's a nigger gotta come a certain type of way 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:47.680 for me, like it just you gotta he gotta come 0:19:47.720 --> 0:19:51.280 off like a I was like raised to think like 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:54.159 be up. I was raised as believing the man is 0:19:54.200 --> 0:19:56.359 supposed to be like a manly man. What I'm saying like, 0:19:56.400 --> 0:19:58.080 I don't want to as boy, I don't want to 0:19:58.119 --> 0:20:00.159 niggle with no little as massa, no go was no 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:03.200 ambition like if you ain't got she going for yourself, 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:06.040 for you don't got a steer forward man said like 0:20:06.440 --> 0:20:11.760 as a deal breaker, Okay, what else, m just it 0:20:11.760 --> 0:20:13.520 looks wise. What would you look at him and be 0:20:13.560 --> 0:20:17.920 like the way you dress? I like the nigg didn't 0:20:17.920 --> 0:20:20.960 know how to dress, Like, what's knowing how to dress 0:20:21.000 --> 0:20:23.840 to you? Who tell us somebody who's a good dresser? 0:20:25.320 --> 0:20:31.840 White Cyrus. I knew that was coming back around. Fabulous, Okay, 0:20:34.119 --> 0:20:40.240 who else she's like? Nobody? My age? Who my age? Anybody? 0:20:40.240 --> 0:20:43.760 Your age? Jeans is tied jeans? No, I think it 0:20:43.800 --> 0:20:47.200 should be like in the middle somewhere. Yeah, not too tight, 0:20:47.320 --> 0:20:49.600 not too But if a guy came to take you 0:20:49.640 --> 0:20:54.480 out and he had a person like or one of them, like, 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:56.479 but it was an led light when it lights up, 0:20:56.720 --> 0:20:59.639 you know, it was really nice. But it's still a bag. 0:21:00.080 --> 0:21:04.720 That's not that's not my preference. So you're gonna be like, no, no, no, yeah, 0:21:04.760 --> 0:21:06.919 I wouldn't. I wouldn't see somebody in the club with 0:21:06.960 --> 0:21:09.640 a person, I mean being going and be like, oh yeah, 0:21:09.680 --> 0:21:12.800 let me have let him. But if you liked him, 0:21:12.840 --> 0:21:16.440 it's not a deal breaker for a purse. Yeah, yes, 0:21:16.480 --> 0:21:21.000 it is a person day you really like it's a man, 0:21:21.840 --> 0:21:24.720 you're not? Yeah, what about a fanny pack? If any cool? 0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:28.240 Like the little messenger bags not bad. But I mean, 0:21:28.359 --> 0:21:33.200 like then be wearing bags now like persons like they 0:21:33.200 --> 0:21:37.040 got to carry stuff. That's what pockets are, fool, that's 0:21:37.040 --> 0:21:39.119 what the assistant is. You can't everything and put it 0:21:39.119 --> 0:21:42.200