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Speaker 2: Fred's show is on now, Honest Morning Show, Kidding, Good

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Speaker 2: morning everybody. Monday, June second, The Fred Show's on. Hi Kaylin,

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Speaker 2: good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hilina, Hi Kiki, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Bebla Hamina is here on the phone in the text

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Speaker 2: eight five five nine one three five and you can

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Speaker 2: hit us up anytime, same number. The Entertainment Report this

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Speaker 2: What are you working?

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Speaker 3: Okay, we are talking very big news for Taylor Swift,

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Speaker 3: Ariana Grande moving over to another acting role, and Cardi

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Speaker 3: b shares how much it takes to raise our kids

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Speaker 3: for some reason.

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Speaker 1: But we got to unpack that.

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Speaker 2: A new waiting by the phone this morning. Why does

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Speaker 2: somebody get ghosted? Kinky's Court butt on.

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Speaker 1: Bump Girl Stealing is a crime?

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Speaker 2: Case closed and we don't have to do it now? Okay?

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Speaker 1: I feel differently.

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Speaker 2: Twitter Bucks New Player, Final Week, Final Week, Billy one

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Speaker 2: week from today, and that's what it's told Twitter Bucks.

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Speaker 2: Is the price thirty nine and five is your record?

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Speaker 2: If you can beat Kiki in five questions, that money

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Speaker 2: is yours. What would you do in this situation? Probably

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Speaker 2: what this woman did. If you're gonna want a date, okay,

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Speaker 2: and you're gonna drop off your date and you're gonna

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Speaker 2: be upset about how the date went or about how

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Speaker 2: the date is ending. I don't recommend that you say

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Speaker 2: anything once the door is closed in front of your

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Speaker 2: date's house. Why well, because there's such a thing as

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Speaker 2: a rain camera and people are watching and recording you here.

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Speaker 1: Listen to this for dropping me off and stuff?

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Speaker 2: Sure, sure, sure you don't want me to come inside?

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Speaker 2: There a drink? I'm an excellent partender. First of all,

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Speaker 2: it's so cringey, so cringey. I you don't want me

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Speaker 2: to come in and drink? I'm an excellent bartender. No,

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Speaker 2: it's like if I had any inclination to do so,

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Speaker 2: then I I I just lost my boner, but.

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Speaker 4: A lot of fun.

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Speaker 1: No, me too, Thanks again for dropping me off and stuff.

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Speaker 2: Sure, sure, sure you don't want me to come inside?

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Speaker 2: There a drink? I'm an excellent bartender. Glance I bt some.

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Speaker 1: New girl very nick from New Girl Coded. I've been

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Speaker 1: told tempting.

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Speaker 2: I'm just kind of tired. Maybe next time tired, Okay,

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Speaker 2: it's worse next time. Okay, Yeah, he chooses to just

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Speaker 2: stand there. Oh, oh, and thanks for paying for dinner,

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Speaker 2: by the way. By the way, Oh but you can't

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Speaker 2: come inside? Why not? Why not? I can't side because

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Speaker 2: you were nice to be all day.

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Speaker 3: I see he's got something going on, something like there's.

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Speaker 2: A screw in the ring camera. I mean, what are

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Speaker 2: you doing?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 2: First of all, First of all, I think the game

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Speaker 2: is and and that's coming from my guy that doesn't

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Speaker 2: have much game. But I mean, if I'm like dropping

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Speaker 2: you off and I'm getting all the hands that you

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Speaker 2: like would you like to come in, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 2: ask you if you're sure, Like I'm gonna drop you off,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna walk you to the door, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: leave because I'm not I'm not going to beg anyone

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Speaker 2: let me in their home. Second of all, like he

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Speaker 2: doesn't even take no for an answer, Like he keeps.

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Speaker 1: Going telling himself, I'm very nick from new girl coded.

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Speaker 2: I think good with my hands, it's just so cringey.

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Speaker 2: And then and then the whole little little uh uh

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Speaker 1: This is why we'd rather be with a bear in

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Speaker 1: the woods. Do you see that? I'm like, you're still

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Speaker 2: We're still of that mindset that if I pay for

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Speaker 2: That's still the mindset greatly. That should be the expectation

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Speaker 2: if I asked you on a date, as in this case,

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Speaker 2: to pay, in my opinion, because I extended the invitation. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Now I realized that that's not that. There are a

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Speaker 2: getting some advantages because he's more exciting. Is there anything

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Speaker 1: No, I think being.

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Speaker 4: Nice as the bare man a moment I'm in a

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Speaker 4: But I do think that the whole edgy bad boy

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Speaker 4: an hour that was that was cool, But I don't

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Speaker 4: like you said, the expectation like I'm nice to you

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Speaker 1: I want to I want to be nice everybody.

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Speaker 2: But I think I think you're I think you're healed. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Not totally okay, I can see that, or like the

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Speaker 4: nice guy finishes last, right, So like if you're a pushover,

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Speaker 4: dating life, right, and nobody should be a pushover or

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Speaker 4: be pushed over. But you're right, maybe I am semi healed,

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Speaker 5: I feel like when you're immature and young and like

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Speaker 2: Crap you're entire it's hard to know though it's a guy.

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Speaker 2: It's hard to know who wants what because like, there

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Speaker 2: are times when I've tried to be like the proactive, nice,

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Speaker 2: And then there are times when I've you know, completely

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Speaker 2: but the ignoring has a higher probability of working in

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Speaker 2: the course of like if you look to it like

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Speaker 2: one hundred different situations, because it's I think psychological. Why

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Speaker 2: Like people I think are for whatever reason, you're praying

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Speaker 2: it that way, like somebody that's unhealthy to begin with.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I think if you go out with someone

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Speaker 2: opposed to the person that you know you can get.

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Speaker 2: I think the truth is it's true the other way

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Speaker 2: the one who's and this isn't right, probably shouldn't be

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Speaker 2: this way. But the person who's just straight up, hey,

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Speaker 2: I'm here, I'm available. What's going on? It's almost like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like why is this well, why does

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Speaker 2: this seem so easy? I see your saying, but it's

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Speaker 2: not necessarily easy. It's healthy. People confuse the two things though.

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Speaker 4: Well that's fair, Like maybe there's just it's it's getting older,

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Speaker 4: it's it's healing. Maybe there's just parts to it, because yeah,

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Speaker 4: if you're talking to me, you know, ten years ago,

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Speaker 4: I'm sure it's to be a whole different conversation. And

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Speaker 4: I was probably going for the wrong guys one hundred percent.

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Speaker 4: I know that I was. I was missed too available.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I you know, let my guard down alive.

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Speaker 4: I feel like I let people treat me like crap,

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Speaker 4: like men that I was dating or seeing or whatever.

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Speaker 4: But now I'm married. But if I ever was not

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Speaker 4: not married, first I wouldn't date again. But number two,

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Speaker 4: you were not married, that would make you married. If

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Speaker 4: you were not not married, then you're still married. So

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Speaker 4: you want to be not married to this example.

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Speaker 1: In this example, I was not married.

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Speaker 2: I know what you mean, right, but I stop for

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Speaker 2: a second. I'm like, wait, minute, I were not not

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Speaker 2: that I am married? Not right? Just got it?

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Speaker 1: Got it? I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just feel like I don't know i'd be a

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Speaker 4: different person in this dating world because I've been got

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Speaker 4: married or been with the same person for five years.

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Speaker 4: I think today i'd be different. I'm thirty three years old.

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Speaker 4: Tomorrow like it's gonna be different. Like I can't keep

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Speaker 4: the same you know what I mean, the same patterns

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Speaker 2: Hopefully the patterns have been over for some time now,

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Speaker 2: I hope since you're not not married, let's do headlines

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Speaker 2: the biggest stories to today after Shopper Road Next in

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Speaker 2: three minutes, frend Show It's not Welcome to Monday.

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Speaker 4: Fread's show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day.

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Speaker 2: Nate Texi said, being an actual nice guy's is something

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Speaker 2: you try, it's something you are. I don't know about that,

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Speaker 2: because I think there are men that are capable of

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Speaker 2: if they're not that nice, then they have a better

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Speaker 2: success rate. And then I think there's such a thing

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Speaker 2: as being a decent person who tries really hard and

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Speaker 2: And so the problem is you do that once in

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Speaker 2: once or twice, and you start to begin like to

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Speaker 2: feel that that's not what people want because you've had

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Speaker 2: more success being a loof. And then there you go,

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Speaker 2: What's in it?

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Speaker 2: Well I don't know. Do you want someone? Can I

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Speaker 2: I can look at your search history. Oh, I can

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know, I tell you everything, like literally, good

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Speaker 3: Just keep those first of all, and not you don't

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Speaker 2: Hell no, Oh, I think you're in the minority. I

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Speaker 2: Whatever you want, I think I'm good. It's just whatever

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Speaker 2: They were going to release him, and you know what,

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Speaker 2: You don't need to go through it now. I guess

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Speaker 4: I'll make sure there's money in there. My sister had that.

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Speaker 4: Think at least a little something to take care of me,

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Speaker 2: But that's another thing. Let's say you win into someone's

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Speaker 6: I feel like it's all up to the person, But

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Speaker 6: Let me rest you no, like, give me a I

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Speaker 3: Did that, didn't he? Like, I think his family released

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Speaker 2: Right, yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Just don't put me in clouds. We won't go through years.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry again.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm dead, so I mean who cares.

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Speaker 3: But we're not like judging. We know you, so we're

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Speaker 3: how do I kill my coworkers? You know, Other than that,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, well.

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Speaker 2: Well I haven't. I haven't searched that in several days,

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Speaker 6: To my detriment sometimes like what's up y'all? This friend

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Speaker 6: so I'm doing it? Yeah, ideas ahead and died. That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: I did go ahead and die? Yeah, and then what

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Speaker 2: else would it since you're being mean? Now, what's something y'all?

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Speaker 2: It's fred? What else would he say?

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Speaker 6: Like I'm dead? That's crazy? But you know, shout out

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Speaker 2: dogs better meet me in heaven. Right. They might be

434
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Speaker 2: the only ones, but every one of them better beat

435
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Speaker 2: me in heaven.

436
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

437
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Speaker 6: You could, you know, do one last, you know is

438
00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:26,880
Speaker 6: waiting by the phone. You could do whatever you want.

439
00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,880
Speaker 2: You could do it last waiting, But that because that's

440
00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,560
Speaker 2: what my legacy is going. It probably is. Honestly, Remember

441
00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:33,600
Speaker 2: that guy that used to do that thing with the dates.

442
00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:34,920
Speaker 2: Remember him, what was his name?

443
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:39,160
Speaker 1: Bob ed the whole intro off the dome.

444
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:43,840
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I trust me if this company has anything

445
00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:45,159
Speaker 2: to do with it, if I were to die that

446
00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,480
Speaker 2: you'd probably never stop hearing waiting by the phone. They

447
00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:49,359
Speaker 2: would just use a little AI machine to make it

448
00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:53,040
Speaker 2: sound like me. It might even be better. Oh and

449
00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 2: I remember back in the day. Remember this is what

450
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:59,240
Speaker 2: so many decades ago, maybe a decade ago, when you

451
00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,399
Speaker 2: used to have to download the music that you wanted

452
00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 2: off iTunes and then you technically owned it. I remember

453
00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,440
Speaker 2: there were conversations about that. It was if I have

454
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,880
Speaker 2: a hard drive full of music, because back in the day.

455
00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:11,359
Speaker 2: I know this is gonna be hard people to believe.

456
00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,800
Speaker 2: Back in the day, you didn't stream the song. You

457
00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 2: had to spend ninety nine cents to buy the song

458
00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,560
Speaker 2: you wanted, unless you had the illegal stuff the LimeWire

459
00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 2: or the napster or whatever, and then it was on

460
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Speaker 2: your hard drive and so you had to like transfer

461
00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 2: it from device to device, as opposed to now you

462
00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:29,440
Speaker 2: can just stream it online. So there was a big

463
00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 2: conversation about, well who owns that? Like if I die

464
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 2: and I spent ten thousand dollars on songs, then should

465
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Speaker 2: I get to pass that on to somebody? Well, it

466
00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,640
Speaker 2: turned out, if you look very carefully, all you did

467
00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 2: was lease the song for your life. So then when

468
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 2: your dad, technically no one owns it anymore. That's how

469
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,040
Speaker 2: it used to be. Now you don't have to worry

470
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Speaker 2: about it anymore. But yeah, back in the day, because

471
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,080
Speaker 2: that was a whole conversation was like, well, if I

472
00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:56,760
Speaker 2: spent twenty five grand collecting every Beatles song and every

473
00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:58,439
Speaker 2: this and that and whatever, and I bought all that,

474
00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:02,160
Speaker 2: well then who gets it? Nobody? Nobody gets it, I guess.

475
00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:06,600
Speaker 2: And are you ready for the latest? At work? Trend.

476
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:12,960
Speaker 2: It's called ghost working. I mean, how many, how many weeks?

477
00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:16,160
Speaker 2: How many different versions of not working? But making people

478
00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 2: believe that I mean, and then people want to know

479
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:22,159
Speaker 2: why they get fired. It's like, well, because you pridefully

480
00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 2: have been telling everyone about this thing that you're doing

481
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:29,199
Speaker 2: called ghost working. Move over quiet quitting. Now we have

482
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 2: ghost working. That's the practice of looking busy in the

483
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 2: office by carrying around prop notebook, scheduling fake meetings, or

484
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:40,119
Speaker 2: just typing random words. According to a new survey from

485
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Speaker 2: Resume Now Whatever, that is, fifty eight percent of employees

486
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:47,400
Speaker 2: admit to the practice regularly, perhaps an outgrowth of anxiety

487
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 2: over job security, the rise of AI and recession fears.

488
00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 2: One expert says the workforce is currently under immense pressure

489
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Speaker 2: to appear productive. How about just be productive, sees I mean,

490
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 2: if you're worried about AI taking your job, then wouldn't

491
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:02,679
Speaker 2: now be the time to make it look like you

492
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 2: can do better than AI? As opposed to pretending to work.

493
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people around here do that.

494
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Speaker 1: By the way, I was gonna say, that's not new.

495
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Speaker 4: I feel like I've seen notebooks in people's hands and

496
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Speaker 4: iPads and.

497
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 2: A lot of ghost working, A lot of ghost working.

498
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Speaker 1: Open it now.

499
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 4: Let But the way that I'm picking that story up,

500
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,320
Speaker 4: or that I'm thinking of it, is that, like I

501
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 4: don't know, maybe they're trying to look more busy, like

502
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 4: they're working, but they're trying to be like no, like hey, I.

503
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Speaker 1: Can't do this. They can't pull off the notebook and

504
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: schedule a meeting with us today.

505
00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:37,880
Speaker 2: This is exactly not no, This is exactly the opposite.

506
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 2: This is not working but making it look like you are.

507
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: Because I'm out. Look, if you want to do ghost working,

508
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,159
Speaker 1: do your thing. I'm not I'm not a hater, but

509
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 1: don't involve me.

510
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Speaker 6: I hate the person who is ghost working, and it

511
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 6: involves everybody else. So like I got to come to

512
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 6: your fake meeting or I have to. You're sending me

513
00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:58,399
Speaker 6: random emails about nothing, like why do why do I

514
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Speaker 6: have to play this game with you? Just ghost work

515
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 6: on your own, Like, don't involve me, Ray, I don't

516
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 6: want to go.

517
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Speaker 2: It's okay you, but you don't really hate it. You

518
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 2: don't really like a ghost worker. You are you? You

519
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 2: would hate on a ghost worker because you work really hard.

520
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

521
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 2: And so it's like you said, I don't hate on

522
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 2: a ghost worker, but you do though, because it's like

523
00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 2: you're not doing anything, like you're not you want us

524
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: all to believe that your life is so hard, and

525
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:23,359
Speaker 2: you know what else, you know, you know where I

526
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 2: find this happens. This tends to happen when everybody around

527
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 2: you is actually working their asses off, and then it's

528
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 2: like it's opposed to just working your ass off. You

529
00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 2: just tell everybody how hard you're working and how difficult

530
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 2: your life is, and then you will become resentful of

531
00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,200
Speaker 2: You could happen absolutely say oh, I got an idea.

532
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 2: Why don't you just make yourself actually is what? Why

533
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 2: don't you produce as much as everybody else? And then

534
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 2: you don't have.

535
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Speaker 3: To You shouldn't have to say you work hard ever,

536
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 3: like it should just be a parent like but oh,

537
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 3: come on.

538
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 2: People do it. And everybody driving to work right now

539
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 2: in every workplace can think of the person you're like, oh,

540
00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 2: I'm just so exhaust It's like if you know you're

541
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 2: right and the person that's talking is like, like I've

542
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 2: never once heard Jason brown say that, And Jason Browner's

543
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,439
Speaker 2: seventeen hours a day never once hear him say that.

544
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 1: Twenty three hour ghost working.

545
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 2: But then I think maybe you should consider it.

546
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: I'm want to send you all a bunch of emails

547
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 1: that make no sense.

548
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 2: It's a national Rotisserie chicken day, Rosari, national Bubba Day,

549
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 2: Bubba day. Hey, that's me a national leave the office

550
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 2: early day, which is about to be me. Because it's

551
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:33,239
Speaker 2: hard to ghost work when you have to talk like

552
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 2: I can't. I wish I could. Well, I shouldn't wish

553
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,960
Speaker 2: too much because they're probably working on the ai a's

554
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Speaker 2: Entertainer Report. He is on the Fread Show.

555
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 3: Miss Taylor Allison Swift now owns the masters to her

556
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 3: first six albums, sharing the news on Instagram, like right

557
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 3: after we got off the air, I think Friday, She wrote,

558
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 3: you belong with Me, alongside photos of her sitting with

559
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 3: like all of her albums surrounding.

560
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Speaker 1: Her on the floor. Remember this all art.

561
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 3: In twenty nineteen, afters she made it known that she

562
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 3: would like to buy her masters, then her old label

563
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,440
Speaker 3: went behind her back, selling them to Scooter Braun. Less

564
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 3: than two years later, he could not take the heat

565
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:14,199
Speaker 3: and sold his private equity company to Shamrock Holdings for

566
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Speaker 3: three hundred million, which worked directly with Taylor to sell

567
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 3: her everything, including videos, concert films, album art, photography, and

568
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 3: unreleased songs, along with her master recordings. As for those

569
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 3: two albums that she has yet to release re recordings of,

570
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 3: Taylor says that her debut album, Taylor Swift Is Down,

571
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,480
Speaker 3: sounds great, but she did share that she had a

572
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 3: really hard time re recording reputation because it was a

573
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 3: very specific time in her life where she was desperate

574
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 3: for other people's approval and she's just not there anymore.

575
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 3: Remember that's the album that she sort of the whole

576
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 3: thing with Kim and Kanye happened. They lied on her,

577
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 3: she went into hiding, and then she re emerged and

578
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,640
Speaker 3: she was like, yep, I'm the villain. She also said

579
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 3: that there's not much that she would change on that album,

580
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 3: but yes, we will get the vault tracks if we

581
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 3: want them, and we do the way. The next night,

582
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,679
Speaker 3: she hit up the restaurant The Monkey Bar in New

583
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 3: York with Selena Gomez to celebrate They've been friends forever.

584
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: I wonder who got the bill though, because like she's

585
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: spent a lot of money, you know on those.

586
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 2: You better pay for everything all the time you think, like,

587
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

588
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 1: Isn't Selena a billionaire?

589
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 3: Or no?

590
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 1: Did she get She's close close?

591
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 4: Maybe that's true your big day, like Kayling she got

592
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 4: her master's.

593
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,159
Speaker 1: Like I'm taking her out. We're going to red Lobster or.

594
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: Billion. Okay, it's a hold on. Let's see what Taylor's

595
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:32,719
Speaker 2: is a billion?

596
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 1: All the billion?

597
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 2: Well, I mean she probably just spend close to half

598
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 2: a billion. So yeah, it's just one point six. It's

599
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 2: got to be higher than that. It's got to be

600
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Speaker 2: higher than that. Maybe not. I don't know, because because

601
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 2: deep well because you got the consumer products that that's

602
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: one thing. Yeah, Taylor doesn't really Most of this is

603
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 2: tied to her music, isn't it.

604
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's the only one who did it, like just

605
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 3: through music, like other musicians have done it with makeup

606
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 3: companies like Rare Beauty and Fancy.

607
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, so I don't know.

608
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 2: I still want to hear the re release of the

609
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 2: first album, Yes.

610
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: Yes, I want to hear it.

611
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 3: I want to hear the re recording because it's all

612
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 3: about the vault tracks. So like the tracks that she

613
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 3: give us, gives us that never made the album, those

614
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,239
Speaker 3: are new to us and I'd like to hear her

615
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,399
Speaker 3: grown up voice singing her first ever album, because remember

616
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 3: how different her voice was. That's like Tim McGraw tear

617
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 3: dropped on my guitar. So yes, I would like to

618
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 3: hear it. But I'll take anything she'll give me. So

619
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 3: looks like Ariana Grande has lined up another acting role.

620
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 3: This time it'll be and Meet the Parents four, alongside

621
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Speaker 3: Ben Stiller and Robert de Niro, Paulina's friend Bobby as

622
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 3: she calls him. The plot of the fourth movie is

623
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,160
Speaker 3: set to revolve around the son of Ben Stiller's character,

624
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 3: who gets engaged to a woman that's wrong.

625
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: For him, which I think is who Ari is playing.

626
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Speaker 3: Meet the Parents four is do in theaters November twenty

627
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,520
Speaker 3: fifth of next year, by the way, so I'm sure

628
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 3: it'll be funny.

629
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Speaker 1: She's very funny.

630
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,159
Speaker 3: And lastly, Cardi b was on spaces on Twitter or x,

631
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 3: which I feel like that's her favorite place to hang out.

632
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 1: She's always on there.

633
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 3: But after it was found out that a strange husband

634
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 3: offset was asking for full custody and spousal support from her,

635
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 3: she shared the amount of money it takes to raise

636
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 3: her three kids and those are offsets kids. By the way,

637
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 3: Cartie said that she has a driver on retainer for

638
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 3: her kids that cost ten thousand a month. She said

639
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 3: her oldest Culture takes piano lessons. Those run her three

640
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 3: hundred an hour and she takes those three times a week.

641
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 3: Both Culture and Wave take gymnastics and boxing glasses too.

642
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 3: Claimed Offset isn't paying for anything, including Culture's private school tuition,

643
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,959
Speaker 3: which costs forty five thousand a year for private school.

644
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 3: She also said she wants Offset to die slowly, So

645
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 3: I think she's mad about it.

646
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 1: Oh she's yeah, he made her real mad. Yeah, so

647
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: I think that's going on.

648
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 3: But then on the other hand, she just went Instagram

649
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 3: official was stafun. So she's having fun, but she's mad

650
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 3: about her ex and you know, doesn't want to pay him.

651
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: So there you go.

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Speaker 3: By the way, if you miss any part of our show,

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Speaker 3: to type the frend Show on demand and said this

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Speaker 3: is a preset on the free iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 2: Kayla's wearing a lobster clab band today, so I think

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Speaker 2: she's been through the main airport. I can't be certain.

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Speaker 2: We'll do blogs. We'll find out about it in two minutes.

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Speaker 2: French job, they talk better than they excited. Tell me

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Speaker 2: these are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like

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Speaker 2: we're writing in our diaries, except we say them loud.

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Speaker 2: We call them blogs. Kaylin is back from the the Bachelrette.

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Speaker 1: Party, the bachelorette party of the Sentry. It finally happened.

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Speaker 3: I planned successfully my first ever bachelorette party. I'm a

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Speaker 3: professional attender, but I've never had to plan one. I

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Speaker 3: am a maid of honor to my best friend Laurie,

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Speaker 3: and it has been a little bit of a stressful situation,

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Speaker 3: so I'm very proud of myself. Things came together very well.

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Speaker 3: We went to a small town in Maine called Kenny Bunkport.

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Speaker 1: It's like an ocean town.

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Speaker 3: It's about forty minutes from Portland, which is what I

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Speaker 3: would say is the biggest city nearby.

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Speaker 1: It's beautiful there.

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Speaker 3: The people are like the nicest people I've ever met,

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Speaker 3: Like they really want people from out of town to

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Speaker 3: come there, which I feel like I'm.

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Speaker 1: Not very used to.

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Speaker 3: They have like free street parking, Their public restrooms are nice,

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Speaker 3: like very nice. I don't know, it's just like a

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Speaker 3: little quaint ocean town. As for the schedule, I think

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Speaker 3: I did a good job. Because both the bride and

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Speaker 3: I don't love when things are like planned, packed to

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Speaker 3: the brim, you know, you gotta be up at six

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Speaker 3: am and you got to do you know, sunrise. So

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Speaker 3: we did have shirts matching, they were not matching. They

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Speaker 3: were her theme that she picked was like Lori's final tour,

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Speaker 3: farewell tour, like a band tour.

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Speaker 1: So we all got to pick our own band tees

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Speaker 1: and our own like colors.

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Speaker 3: So it wasn't as like and we didn't go outside

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Speaker 3: with them like we were not the group that was like,

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Speaker 3: you know, charging at you with the matching stuff on.

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Speaker 3: But I liked it, like we had built in time

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Speaker 3: to chill. People could do what they want. Some people

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Speaker 3: want on a bike ride, some people did do yoga.

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Speaker 3: I was not some of those people. But yeah, we

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Speaker 3: had some dinners. We went on a boat, which is

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Speaker 3: crazy because I don't know, like when we went out

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Speaker 3: in Portland, like the original Cobblestone is there, and I'm

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Speaker 3: a history nerd like Paulina, and I just like got

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Speaker 3: drunk and I kept being like bro like Sam Adams

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Speaker 3: like in his little clogs, was like at this bar,

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Speaker 3: like at this bar stool, like I thought about it all.

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Speaker 2: Weekend like Sam Adams, like Sam.

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Speaker 3: Like Paul Buyan was just like he probably broke this

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Speaker 3: glass that's broken, you know, I don't know. It was

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Speaker 3: like I was in really old stuff and it was

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Speaker 3: freaking me out.

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Speaker 2: It's so old.

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Speaker 3: Everything so old there. Well honestly I have a lot

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Speaker 3: to say about that too, but yeah, so it was

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Speaker 3: fun in the last night. This is a move. Let

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Speaker 3: me tell you when you're all hungover and tired. I

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Speaker 3: actually had a chef come to the house and make

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Speaker 3: Italian food so.

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Speaker 2: That it's called door dead. I do the thing. It's crazy,

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Speaker 2: so I could cook's amazing.

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Speaker 3: You can order whatever you want. But that's when we

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Speaker 3: wore our shirt. So I'm I'm happy. It was like

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Speaker 3: success and uh, wouldn't recommend it if you're not into

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Speaker 3: working very hard at something that isn't your job.

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Speaker 1: But planning, yeah, planning a Bacheloretta is.

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Speaker 2: Did the one lady who would never pay you pay

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Speaker 2: She did.

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Speaker 1: End up paying me.

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Speaker 3: But now the fun part begins, like you have all

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Speaker 3: it's all fun and games on your trip because someone

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Speaker 3: picks up aka me picks up every bill. So when

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Speaker 3: you when you're hung over the next day and the

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Speaker 3: Venmo requests start coming, you know.

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Speaker 1: That's got to be scary for them.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, my friend was smart. On the the

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Speaker 2: bachelor party, I went to the famous one to Key West,

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Speaker 2: which is where a bunch of straight guys should go.

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Speaker 2: And I think the bride made him go there because

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Speaker 2: she thought it was less threatening than Vegas or some

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Speaker 2: other places like that was the word on the street

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Speaker 2: was that they actually she sent us to the gay

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Speaker 2: domestic Well, no, I think I think P Town is

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Speaker 2: that is Providence, Rhode Island, the gay It is the

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Speaker 2: gay capital of the United States, the domestic gay capital.

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Speaker 2: It's called P Town.

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Speaker 1: We almost went there. That's the only reason I know

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Speaker 1: that that was in the running.

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Speaker 2: And then Keith West would be I think a close second,

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Speaker 2: so of course that's where we would go. But this

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Speaker 2: guy was smart. He he put everyone's hotel on his

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Speaker 2: credit card and he was like a Hilton member or whatever.

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Speaker 2: So that dude's like lifetime titanium now because you know,

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Speaker 2: seven men, grown ass adults, all with hotel rooms that

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Speaker 2: were expensive in this place, that's how you do it.

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Speaker 2: And then we all paid him back and he got

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Speaker 2: all of his money because well he made sure that

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Speaker 2: he did. But that was smart though. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: can't imagine what the hotel bill was. Four days, eight rooms,

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Speaker 2: you know, and.

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Speaker 1: He's got free staying like mawi' something.

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Speaker 2: All of a sudden he lives in a Hilton. Now

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 2: Like, what about more fresh show next