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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl lex p And it's Sugarls

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Speaker 1: right in the cold.

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Speaker 2: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 1: Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: Hid Hi were machine, we are look at us thought

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Speaker 2: so real quick shout out to hoo Cherry Lou the brand,

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Speaker 2: got us together, got us in our cute little outfits

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Speaker 2: looking like some bad bitch.

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Speaker 3: Power Rieriod mighty more for power rights period, gonger the vocals.

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Speaker 1: That was good. I feel like that's so typical. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: typical for a little girl. I'm bad.

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Speaker 2: I was definitely like trying to be the green one

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Speaker 2: in that bitch, trying to prove a point.

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Speaker 1: I was woke.

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Speaker 2: I was a woke baby. I was like, why do

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Speaker 2: we have to be the pink because well, women.

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Speaker 1: You just wanted to be the green one. I had

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Speaker 1: to be the green one.

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Speaker 4: I used to like the pink one, I mean obviously

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Speaker 4: because it was the only girl.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I was girly kids where you look good?

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Speaker 2: You look good hair lead thanks girl, that look good

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Speaker 2: up a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah we all love bar but me too.

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Speaker 2: We found a new hair Solace it's our permanent hair girl,

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Speaker 2: and I just love her to death.

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Speaker 1: So shout out to bars. And she from Houston.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's from Houston and she lives in Atlanta. So

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Speaker 2: if you ever need your hair done, shout out to

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Speaker 2: a super bar. I'll put her act in the description.

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Speaker 2: So anyways, anyways, what's up?

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's that up? Girl?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 1: Nothing like, it really don't be nothing going on. It

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Speaker 1: really don't.

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Speaker 4: But you know what, but we're about to have at

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Speaker 4: least summer though we both being very calm and chill

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Speaker 4: for the last few months. Well, I mean besides like

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Speaker 4: my birthday, right, Yeah, yeah, I think we've been pretty

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Speaker 4: calm and chill like for the most part.

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Speaker 1: But you know, it's about to get me up a.

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Speaker 2: Twentieth it's you know, yeah, yeah, I don't know what day,

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Speaker 2: but anyways, either way it goes. Summer is here, and

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Speaker 2: I told myself, I'm about to be outside.

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Speaker 1: I'm vaccinated.

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Speaker 2: And why I'm vaxing pussy is wax. Just when got

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Speaker 2: that thing wax?

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Speaker 1: Yesterday? Garfield is like we bought off go off side.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, I can't wait. I think this

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Speaker 4: is gonna be a crazy summer. It's definitely gonna be

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Speaker 4: an interesting summer. My year has been interesting thus far,

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Speaker 4: so even though I've been chilling and I still have

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Speaker 1: Have a crazy ear.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just I'm happy to be outside. But I

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Speaker 2: do want to say, even though masks aren't mandatory anymore, y'all,

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Speaker 2: please still wear your masks, especially if you're not vaccinated.

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Speaker 2: Like y'all have to remember, no matter what the news

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Speaker 2: report is reporting, and even those stores and everything is

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Speaker 2: opening back up, we still need to protect ourselves because

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Speaker 2: we are still in a pandemic. I think people do

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Speaker 2: forget that sometime.

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Speaker 4: And protect the elders y and protect the people that

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Speaker 4: already have, you know, low immune systems and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: You have to think about them people to you, guys.

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Speaker 4: You know it's not always about us when we're young

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Speaker 4: and healthy, think about other people.

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Speaker 1: Right exactly.

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Speaker 2: So don't be going to a fucking local club and

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Speaker 2: then going home to your grandma house and bringing home

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Speaker 1: You wake up and she did, Now you may, I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure she did. You gonna wake up and she

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Speaker 1: gonna be gone, bitch. I'm just saying we're still in

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Speaker 4: Now we are still in the middle of the penny,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. So y'all need to be responsible.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like, I don't know, I've just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been in a good moved too.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Like I'm I'm just excited to go see my family.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to see my family soon. And you know

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Speaker 2: the love life is thriving when it's the last time

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Speaker 2: you went home. I've been home in a minute, bro,

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Speaker 2: Like since the beginning of the year. But you know,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm ready to get up and move around now.

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Speaker 2: To the old med beach and turn up. I'm drinking again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you had took a little hiatus, I did. I

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Speaker 1: haven't smoked hooks in a long time. That's good. Was

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Speaker 1: probably good now. Well I wouldn't say all that, my bitch. Nah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because you've been smoking hookah for a.

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Speaker 2: Long I was smoking hookahs ains i was three. Nigga,

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Speaker 2: there's a lot of shill I gonna have to unwind.

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Speaker 1: Think you're actually the person who put me on hookah. Nah,

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Speaker 2: If something happened and you get a little sick of something,

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Speaker 1: You were like, lett start me on that ship.

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Speaker 4: I do think that you're the one who put me

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Speaker 4: in Houston, Like, I'm.

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Speaker 1: You're the reason I started cracking.

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Speaker 4: Now what I don't do crag, that was somebody else

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Speaker 4: he got confused with another friend.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So let's go ahead and get into these because

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Speaker 2: I'm actually excited to talk about this first topic.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm gonna let you go ahead and introduce it. Girl.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, the first topic is, you know, being scared

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Speaker 4: we've all been there before, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes it's just it's difficult getting into a new situation

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Speaker 4: or like trying to make yourself be open to the

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Speaker 4: idea of dating again after somebody hurts you, especially if

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Speaker 4: it's like a bad breakup, right, know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: So I just kind of wanted to talk about that

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Speaker 1: It's like you no, I think we just both thought

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Speaker 2: Because one thing that y'all know about me, especially if

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Speaker 2: I'm a Leo lover to the max.

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Speaker 1: I love love. I love being in love. I like

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Speaker 2: So it's just weird for me right now in the

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Speaker 2: a really tough situation. Like I know i'd be on

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Speaker 2: the show talking about this nigga and that nigga, but

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Speaker 2: So I feel like I went through something personally with

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say breakup, but it kind of

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Speaker 2: I really fucked with a friend, like all of that

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: We was friends in love was tell me, tell me

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Speaker 1: Woo oh. It's not the same. It's not the thing.

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Speaker 1: So anyways, that was my lover and my friend and.

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Speaker 2: It's over, like it's over over, like im super over now,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So honestly, I'm not even

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Speaker 3: Jumping the gate because let me tell y'all, credit baby

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Speaker 3: already over, didn't I say?

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Speaker 4: Remember I said this shit a few weeks ago. I

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Speaker 1: I'm crying.

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Speaker 2: I prophesied you did. But don't jinx this one because

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Speaker 2: I'm not rushing into things.

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Speaker 4: But I don't say that it's not gonna last. But

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Speaker 4: you don't even know I won't.

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Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy because I was so hurt from my other situation.

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Speaker 1: Usually I'm like, fuck it, why can't we fall along?

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Speaker 2: That's how I babe. So many things I'm going went through,

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Speaker 2: so said I want another ude. That's how I usually, baby,

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Speaker 2: But this time I'm just not like that, I'm scared.

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Speaker 1: Why are you scared of here? Because I don't want

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Speaker 1: to get my feelings hurt. And it's like, but you

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Speaker 1: gotta stop jumping the gun. That's how you avoid it.

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Speaker 2: I jumped the gun, like honestly, I really be joking

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Speaker 2: I mean, like the situation, like the little breakup I

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Speaker 2: I didn't even want to go out on a date

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Speaker 2: But I did a long time, right, But I'm saying

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Speaker 1: It and start liking him and this and that, Like

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So what I'm saying is is just like I feel

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Speaker 2: because I'm like, why are you here? What are your intentions?

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Speaker 2: Like why are you gonna hurt me? Are you gonna

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Speaker 2: I feel like that last situation really fucked me up.

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Speaker 2: For the first time in my thirty one years of living.

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Speaker 2: I really have like this thick ass guard up. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: And it's weird for me because I'm just like I

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Speaker 2: know me and enjoy me.

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Speaker 4: Because I he'll get to I mean, and he'll get

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Speaker 4: to see it when it's time. I mean, I get it,

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Speaker 4: cause I feel like I never have been like a lover,

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Speaker 4: like niggas when to be fucking with him or whatever.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like I used to date more care freely.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: Now I kind of feel the same way, Like I

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Speaker 4: I don't know what your intentions are and I don't

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Speaker 1: We just haven't found them yet. We keep running into

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Speaker 4: But I think possibly the reason that we possibly keep

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Speaker 1: To figure out why you lying on camera? What? How

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Speaker 2: Just because I was fucking other niggas doesn't mean I

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Speaker 1: First of all, it wouldn't hella. Don't do my coochie

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Speaker 2: I feel like, but if he if the nigga really

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Speaker 1: That's not necessarily have locked me down. Yeah you should have.

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Speaker 4: But I think sometimes too, like us as women, lets

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Speaker 4: Like, so it's not necessarily always the guy's choice to

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Speaker 1: You can't, No, you can. I I don't think it's possible.

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Speaker 4: Two different entities, now, I know, but sometimes they confuse.

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Speaker 4: You be thinking it's so hard, and it really be.

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Speaker 2: That's why it's called post nut clarity. So after I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why you always run into ain't she niggas

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Speaker 4: I ain't say you ain't she. I think you're a

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Speaker 1: This is not supposed to be my therapy session.

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Speaker 4: Right, it's not, but we're just talking. I got ain't

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Speaker 2: But you know, I just feel like I guess for

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Speaker 1: Of and why because y'all wouldn't get it exactly.

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Speaker 2: So I figured, if I'm talking to a nigga, I'm

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Speaker 4: But how he's gonna tell you to stop? When he

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Speaker 1: The style? Either way it goes.

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Speaker 2: If you know a girl is single, you're taking that

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Speaker 2: chance of I mean, you don't know, but you're taking

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Speaker 1: So she could be seeing other people.

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Speaker 4: I'm saying you could, like seeing other people is cool,

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Speaker 4: Like that's fine, but I feel like if you're actively

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Speaker 4: If you're really trying to be with this person, it

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, I wanted to go to Legos,

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Speaker 4: I get it, I get it, But sometimes I think

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Speaker 1: No, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: And I think that with that situation, it's like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I really wanted to be Like, No, I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: Let me not say that. Yeah, I mean, you went

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Speaker 4: But I'm saying as far as like at the time,

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Speaker 1: Because I still didn't care about him.

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Speaker 2: That I didn't start caring about that nigga until like

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Speaker 1: You love love helping Jesus. At the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: I just feel like nobody.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to be open and really like give this

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Speaker 2: My mind is my mind, my heart, my coochie, nothing,

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Speaker 2: everything is blocked. My chakras are closed. Bitch them, motherfuckers

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Speaker 4: I just think you have to like try to block

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean. You have to give people

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Speaker 1: a fair chance. I'm learning it too. So you said

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Speaker 1: I gotta get his nigga a fair chance and not

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Speaker 1: talk to my other niggas. Why would you be?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I just be trying to understand why do

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Speaker 4: you gotta talk to like three different niggas?

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Speaker 1: Got well, my options made the best dick? When? All right?

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Speaker 4: All right, I think that if you really like somebody,

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Speaker 4: I do think that you should give them a fair

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Speaker 4: if you're gonna be having six with them, only having

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Speaker 4: six with them, still be dating other niggas like you

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Speaker 4: can still kind of help your options open. But I'm

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Speaker 4: just saying I feel like that's would make it hard

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Speaker 2: Well, let me make this clear though, I have not

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Speaker 1: None. No, I have not been.

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Speaker 4: But I'm about to get something. So you as nasty

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Speaker 4: I am. I'm sitting with my disappointment we speak.

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Speaker 1: I'm dead, so yes, I haven't.

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Speaker 2: I've really like cut off everything, Like I'm really not

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Speaker 2: talking to nobody like this is the first person. I'm

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Speaker 2: really kind of like, Okay, this could be something, but

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Speaker 2: I'm kind of like.

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Speaker 1: But do you even know yourself? What you wanted to be?

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: I wanna be in love. I wanna get married. We

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Speaker 1: supposed to be in love. I want to have his baby.

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Speaker 1: You wanna have his baby?

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Speaker 2: I mean, the baby would have great jeans, awesome geens.

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Speaker 2: He's tall and it's wall and fine like it won't worry,

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Speaker 2: got good whole hairline there, we can make some shrike.

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Speaker 1: Now, yeah, we don't like niggas with the uncle fish. No, No,

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Speaker 1: so I'm not. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: We'll see, We'll see. So I'm going to try to

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Speaker 2: open up a little bit. We're hanging out this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Now, I don't open up too much. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: and see that give him I can't give him the coochie.

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Speaker 1: I'm kidding. I'm that square walk, not really kidding.

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Speaker 4: I'm really kidding, cause we was talking about DC yesterday

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Speaker 4: and I really feel like when it comes to six,

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Speaker 4: you should just have sex with people. Like people be thinking,

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Speaker 4: oh I got to wait a certain amount of time,

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Speaker 4: or I should make this nigga wagh a certain amount

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Speaker 1: A niggas gonna do whatever fuck you wanna do.

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Speaker 4: So, so whether you make him wait a week or

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Speaker 4: I literally I'm not like at the woman. You should

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Speaker 4: just do whatever you want.

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Speaker 2: I have a friend who literally she was like taking

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Speaker 2: the Steve Harvey advice ninety day rule. She waited ninety days.

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Speaker 2: I swear y'all know, I'm not waiting ninety days for shit.

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Speaker 2: She waited ninety days to have sex with the guy

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Speaker 2: and he literally fucked.

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Speaker 4: Her and her Yeah, cause some niggas just like the

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Speaker 4: thrill of the chechase, right, and then it's like once

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Speaker 4: they giddy, they'd be like, okay, cool, Like I'm not

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Speaker 4: gonna like they really don't be nothing else there. Like

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Speaker 4: if y'all ever notice, but like sometimes a dude might

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Speaker 4: just kind of like he's just sticking around because he like, damn,

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Speaker 4: I ain't got this swioty eggs, right, I ain't got

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Speaker 4: this any Once he eaty, he gone, because it's like

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Speaker 4: fact that he had it.

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Speaker 1: But I see it. I've never been worried about that

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Speaker 1: because this I ain't.

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Speaker 2: Never been worried anybody neither niggas gonna come back for

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Speaker 2: these knock knock jokes.

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Speaker 1: Nigga gonna come back for the joke.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, one thing about me. These niggas be laughing, bro.

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Speaker 1: They be like, Damn, I miss my beach.

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Speaker 2: Every time a nigga laugh.

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Speaker 1: He think about me.

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Speaker 3: Nigga can't even watch Nickelodeon without thinking about me.

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Speaker 1: Why is he watching Nickelodeon? He got kids, nigga. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Niggas gonna come back for them good old laughs now.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I don't know, Like I just m I

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Speaker 4: what I mean. He might be completely different from what

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Speaker 4: you used to, but you have to be open to

440
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Speaker 4: the idea, and I think we're both sometimes just not open.

441
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Speaker 2: I'm not the idea at all, but I'm going to

442
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Speaker 2: try to be optimistic, going to try to give him

443
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Speaker 2: a chance. I'm not gonna give him a nickname yet,

444
00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:55,280
Speaker 2: because I feel like every time I give a nigga nickname,

445
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,520
Speaker 2: jinx him and the girls.

446
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Speaker 1: They be asking questions. They be putting two and two

447
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Speaker 1: together too much for me. Y'all is smart bitch? Is

448
00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,159
Speaker 1: they smart? Or is they nosy?

449
00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:09,479
Speaker 2: No? Well, I won't say y'all smart because one person

450
00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,200
Speaker 2: sent me a DM and she was right about somebody.

451
00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,720
Speaker 1: But most of the time, y'all be off. But they do.

452
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Speaker 1: That's facts. Most of the time they do be off.

453
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Speaker 2: But I'm just not gonna give him a nickname yet

454
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Speaker 2: because we gonna see where it goes.

455
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Speaker 4: If I just pop up with a ring, well, I'm excited,

456
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Speaker 4: Like I'm excited to see where it goes.

457
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Speaker 1: I'm excited to see where because it seems like you

458
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Speaker 1: really like him.

459
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Speaker 2: I mean, you be really liking everybody, but you know,

460
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Speaker 2: maybe it's timing to be different. I think you know

461
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Speaker 2: that this is kind of more my type though, Like

462
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Speaker 2: I feel like physically, like physically and yeah, just like

463
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Speaker 2: everything else, like you know what I like and what

464
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Speaker 2: I'm attracted to so compared to like the other guys

465
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Speaker 2: that I've showed you. You was like okay, girl, okay, But

466
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Speaker 2: I feel like when I showed you his.

467
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Speaker 1: Creative I was like, WHOA bad? I was like what?

468
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Speaker 2: But I feel like with this one, when I showed

469
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Speaker 2: you him, he was like, oh, okay, I get it,

470
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Speaker 2: Like this.

471
00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 1: Is more your speed.

472
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get While you're talking to him, like you

473
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 2: know it makes sense, Like, h yeah, I mean hopefully,

474
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Speaker 2: you know, hopefully he meet the criteria when you meet

475
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Speaker 2: him in person. Yeah, Like honestly, hopefully y'all have a

476
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Speaker 2: good time, because I feel like sometimes that's the downside

477
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Speaker 2: of dating people too, like when y'all don't live in

478
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 2: the same city or whatever, like you be talking to

479
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,359
Speaker 2: them on the phone or you be facetiming them all

480
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Speaker 2: the time, and then once you get around people in person,

481
00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 2: it'd be like a whole different vibe.

482
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Speaker 1: I know.

483
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Speaker 2: But and that's the thing though, Like he's already done

484
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:34,199
Speaker 2: so good as far as like planning out shit and

485
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Speaker 2: sending the money. Whenever I'm going to do stuff like

486
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,920
Speaker 2: he just I'll be like, damn, I even got to

487
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,639
Speaker 2: tell him. It's like I think he might be watching

488
00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 2: the show a little bit. I don't know, because he.

489
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Speaker 1: It's like he just these niggas watch the show. They

490
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Speaker 1: try to talk to us, you.

491
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Speaker 4: Think, Yes, I think every nigga that have ever tried

492
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Speaker 4: to talk to us has watched at least one episode. Absolutely,

493
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 4: because every n bro, every nigga that be trying to

494
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Speaker 4: talk to me always say something about the show.

495
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Speaker 1: They do, Like you be.

496
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 2: Talking on this shoe anyway. You know, it was nobody specific.

497
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Speaker 4: All these niggas be having deep voices, they niggas, it's

498
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Speaker 4: the one.

499
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Speaker 1: It's the one.

500
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Speaker 2: Okay, So being scared today after a breakup, we're gonna say,

501
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 2: don't be scared, keep your heart full and just continue

502
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Speaker 2: to love.

503
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Speaker 1: Don't be scared.

504
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Speaker 2: And that's what I've always kind of been that kind

505
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Speaker 2: of person. So this is weird for me to be

506
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 2: that person because I've always been like, nobody's ever gonna

507
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 2: stop me from loving, and nobody's ever gonna stop me

508
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,360
Speaker 2: from being a good person and giving my all when

509
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:45,640
Speaker 2: I really liked someone. So for me, the last situation

510
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 2: I was in, like I'm not gonna lie I'm a human.

511
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say like that nigga fucked me up.

512
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Speaker 4: Same fucking broke my last my last long term situation

513
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,720
Speaker 4: definitely fucked me. A lot of people look at us

514
00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 4: like human, I'm up on snapped, and we be like, oh,

515
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 4: fuck you, nigga, you ain't treat me right, move on,

516
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 4: Like no, we're still very much women, still very much human,

517
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,360
Speaker 4: and we got our hearts. Bro I'll be saying I'm

518
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 4: gon WV one and then I do a righte by

519
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 4: the same like, yes, I don't give a fuzz.

520
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: Yes, honestly, sit here and stay like, yes, I got

521
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,879
Speaker 2: my heart broken and I wasn't talking about it on

522
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Speaker 2: the show or talking about it online, but I definitely

523
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 2: like was.

524
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Speaker 1: Going through it like the past few months.

525
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Speaker 2: And you know, now I feel like I'm like eighty

526
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Speaker 2: eighty five percent heels and I feel like, okay, I'm

527
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 2: ready to kind of really so it's no turning bag.

528
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:37,159
Speaker 2: It's definitely I it's no turning back. It was just

529
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 2: things have been done that are unforgivable, and I know

530
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Speaker 2: in my mind, I know I deserve more. You know,

531
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Speaker 2: my heart has to catch up to my mind.

532
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Speaker 1: You know. Couci say though my Cuchie ready, she ready

533
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: for the new babe. I understand. Cucci is read tea.

534
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Speaker 1: You know I'm gonna talk about this in the bad

535
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Speaker 1: Listen to her. I'm listening to her.

536
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Speaker 2: I tell y'all what Garfield said when we get to

537
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:02,640
Speaker 2: the big signet.

538
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Speaker 1: So hold that thought. I'm dead, all right.

539
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 2: So the next topic, Oh, you picked both topics today,

540
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Speaker 2: come on, content creator.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So what's up, y'all? It's your girl, like pay

542
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Speaker 4: any sugarl Tray and La call Ooh, this is.

543
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Speaker 2: My favorite thing to talk about because we need mental

544
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Speaker 2: health in the community.

545
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Speaker 4: It's so important and I feel like people don't talk

546
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Speaker 4: about it that much, especially within the black community.

547
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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: One thing I will say about better Health The reason

549
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Speaker 2: that it works so well for us is that you

550
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551
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552
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Speaker 2: drive across town and do this and do that. You

553
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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, and you can even do it on

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Speaker 4: the go because it's an app that you can download

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Speaker 4: counselor from the app on your phone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

562
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Speaker 2: So if you want to, if you feel more comfortable

563
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Speaker 2: doing it on video, you can do it video texting.

564
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Speaker 2: They can do texting as well, phone calls, whatever you prefer.

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Speaker 1: Better help is going to make sure they get done.

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Speaker 2: We actually got a patient review girl, So I want

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568
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Speaker 2: this one now, she's not a life so it says

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Speaker 2: Andrea is wonderful. I feel completely at ease with her.

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Speaker 2: She is so kind and extremely easy to talk to.

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Speaker 2: I'm so glad I joined Better Help Now. This person

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579
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Speaker 2: need it.

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Speaker 1: For the next Come on, Bob, sweet this where where

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Speaker 1: not there? Lord four quarter could never bitch. He ain't

582
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Speaker 1: got shut up?

583
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Speaker 2: Yeah, ain't know his shit was very still getting very

584
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Speaker 2: much still hun.

585
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Speaker 1: We don't like that, okay girl? Oh yeah.

586
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 4: So the next topic that I wanted to talk about

587
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 4: is like people are always trying to say that, like

588
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Speaker 4: in order for you to become successful, you have to

589
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 4: like really just put your head down and work and

590
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 4: not do nothing, not have any fun.

591
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 1: You know, you don't get no sleep. You can't sleep you.

592
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,359
Speaker 4: Gotta be up all night, working all nighters and all issue.

593
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Speaker 4: You gotta be grinding to be successful. So I just

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Speaker 4: kind of wanted to talk about that a little bit.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to see how you feel about it, because

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Speaker 4: I mean, I know I have my own opinions about that,

597
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Speaker 4: but I want to see how you feel about it,

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Speaker 4: because I don't necessarily always think that that's one hundred

599
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Speaker 4: percent true that you know, to stack funds, you gotta

600
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Speaker 4: mess out on fun.

601
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Speaker 1: Okay.

602
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Speaker 2: I I love this topic because I feel like I

603
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,000
Speaker 2: can only speak on the Black community because that's my

604
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 2: community that I mean, you know.

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Speaker 1: Here, you know what I'm saying.

606
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 2: But I feel like a lot of people in our

607
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 2: community community are so obsessed with team no sleep, getting

608
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Speaker 2: by any means this and that.

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Speaker 1: First of all, first of all, I need, I need.

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Speaker 1: You need to rest.

611
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 2: Your mental health and your physical health should come first.

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00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 1: It means necessary. So with that being.

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Speaker 2: Said, I feel like as long as you have a

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Speaker 2: good work ethic, you can still have fun.

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Speaker 1: It's life is about balance. Amen.

616
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Speaker 2: You can't do too much of one thing and just think,

617
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 2: oh it's all gonna fall in line.

618
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,119
Speaker 1: It just don't happen like you gotta be responsible. You

619
00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 1: have to be responsible. Now.

620
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 2: It's different if you're partying and then you waking up,

621
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Speaker 2: like say you're trying to start a podcast, you partying late,

622
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Speaker 2: you're supposed to be at the studio the next day noon,

623
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 2: and you're not there. Now, that's when the ship is

624
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 2: fucked up. But if you can have balance and like

625
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:09,360
Speaker 2: we do really good with that, we still go out

626
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: have a good time. But like nights before we have

627
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 2: to record, we try not to like.

628
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: Get drunk and stuff like today before we have to.

629
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 2: But I still definitely much go out and like you

630
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 2: can still stack your funds to have fun, because when

631
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 2: I go out, these niggas be paying anyway, fix.

632
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Speaker 1: My mother fucking money. I'm not spending my money anyway

633
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Speaker 1: for you men.

634
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Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe you gotta pop that bussy a

635
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Speaker 2: little bit because it's little over here.

636
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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, as far.

637
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Speaker 2: As you always gotta take ships, well, I'm just saying

638
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 2: I feel if you're going out and having a good time,

639
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 2: somebody else gonna be paying the tab.

640
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: Now, I'm not saying go out.

641
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Speaker 4: Yeah with women with women usually yeah, Like I mean,

642
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Speaker 4: if you're going out nine times out of teen, but

643
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Speaker 4: your person that you know you necessarily don't have men

644
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Speaker 4: to pay the tab or you know you're.

645
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Speaker 1: A guy budget yourself. You need to know.

646
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm making X amount of money a month, let

647
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Speaker 2: me put aside five hundred dollars a month to go

648
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 2: out and have fun with the rest is gonna be

649
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 2: investing in myself, my bills and everything else.

650
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Speaker 4: And once that shit gone and it's gone, yes, they

651
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:18,480
Speaker 4: ass in the house. I used to do that for

652
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 4: a long time. Remember are you that now still? I

653
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 4: used to do that with my cat. Well, I don't

654
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 4: be using cash app no more. After somebody has stole

655
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Speaker 4: my love the fucking money.

656
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Speaker 2: But we're not gonna get your cash up ad cashub fuck.

657
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Speaker 1: I know, yeah, I don't want to cash up as

658
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Speaker 1: for them.

659
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna promote them because y'all be letting people

660
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 4: steal people shit.

661
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: And don't reimburse them.

662
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 4: So anyways, like I was saying, I used, well, I

663
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 4: used to use cash ap all the time. I used

664
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 4: to transfer money for my bank account, like maybe like

665
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 4: five hundred, six hundred dollars a month. I would transfer

666
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 4: it to my cash app car for like leisure sheet

667
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 4: and then after I would use all that money up.

668
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 4: I would be done for the month, Like, don't invite

669
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 4: me nowhere, l you paying because I'm not comming because

670
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 4: out of used all my leisurement.

671
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie like this is the first time

672
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 2: I've actually in my life been able to budget like right,

673
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: because I have like a lot of money coming in, you.

674
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: Better be reaching. Well, No, I'm not rich. I'm very

675
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: I'm very poor. Not gonna w Well, clearly you ain't

676
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: got three dollars no more. I still got three dollars.

677
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:21,840
Speaker 4: Hi, So what you're doing putting a dollar account.

678
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 1: In each account because that ain't budgeting.

679
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying is I literally put myself on a budget

680
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 2: of like one hundred and fifty dollars a week.

681
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: So you don't got three dollars, is what you're saying.

682
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 2: I mean it was loan to me. I'll be taking

683
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 2: we got the same business account. I'll be taking something

684
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:37,800
Speaker 2: from yosing. You need to notice it.

685
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 1: Nah, I'm ana notice if you take my one FT.

686
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 2: I budget myself still and I live comfortably, and I

687
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 2: budget myself still to this day because I still have

688
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 2: goals I want to reach and things I want to do.

689
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 2: So but I still make sure I have funds to

690
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,959
Speaker 2: have fun because life is short.

691
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: You don't want to be miserable just working all the time.

692
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 2: I feel like the way that everything is set up,

693
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: it's like you live if you're like living to work

694
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 2: and working to live and this, and it's just it

695
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 2: comes like an endless cycle.

696
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: Because I used to be that person.

697
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 2: All I would literally do was go to work and

698
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 2: go home because I was literally making enough money to survive.

699
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 2: And that's what a lot of people live. Like, that's

700
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 2: how a lot of people live. And that's what really

701
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 2: kicked me into like, you know what, I gotta come

702
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 2: up with something else. I gotta really go hard with

703
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 2: poor minds so I can have another source of income,

704
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, So I feel like

705
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 2: having that balance of work life and a social life

706
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 2: and being with your friends, your family and having fun

707
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 2: is so important. Like just because you're grinding and you're

708
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 2: out here trying to reach a goal does not mean

709
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 2: you can't have a day off to relax. For me,

710
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: those days like you're gonna burn yourself out before you

711
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 2: even hit thirty, and when the real work starts, you're

712
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 2: not gonna want to do it because you're fucking tired.

713
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: Yep, I agree.

714
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 2: I think that that's like some bullshit, Like you could

715
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 2: definitely know, get your rest, you need to get eight

716
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 2: hours of sleep a day.

717
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 4: You definitely need to have fun sometimes. You need to

718
00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 4: do things that make you happy, you know what I mean.

719
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 4: You can't just be working all the time. Like that's

720
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 4: not no type of life to live working all the

721
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 4: time and not never having fun. It's y'all haven't lived

722
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 4: that way in a long time. Because girl, different topic

723
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 4: for another day, another day, another day.

724
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: But ye so yeah.

725
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 4: But like honestly though, but the only reason truly that

726
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 4: I haven't really like been through that in a long time,

727
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 4: it's because I've had that mindset for a long time,

728
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 4: Like I just don't want to what you annoying as

729
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 4: fucked but no, yeah, because it's like I just feel

730
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 4: like life is too precious and it's too short and

731
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 4: your time is too valuable. Then to be given all

732
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 4: of your time to like accompany and doing something where

733
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 4: you're never going to really get anything out of it.

734
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 4: But like you're you're you're getting money in exchange for

735
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 4: your time. Yeah, but it's like you're never gonna own

736
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 4: the company. You're never going to.

737
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: Stop a good part. You're annoying.

738
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 4: It's fuzzed because you keep distracting me. Why do you

739
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 4: keep doing that? I was trying to but you keep

740
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 4: distracting me because you keep making these stupid ass faces,

741
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 4: like with the fuck not I forgot what I was

742
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 4: about to say.

743
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: You can say something cause I'm.

744
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 5: I was gonna say some of y'all gonna look up.

745
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 5: It'sumble across a rich nigga that's gonna do everything you want.

746
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: But no, but you all right.

747
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 2: I do feel like it's you come to a point

748
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 2: in your life where you realize, like this is enough.

749
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 2: But I feel like you helped me with that too,

750
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 2: Like when I was working, you were like licks, like yeah,

751
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: because prior to those of us that are so lucky,

752
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 2: prior to me meeting a nigga, I would it's definitely

753
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,959
Speaker 2: a hustler and a grinder myself and I had like

754
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 2: two bartending jobs that was making bands a week on.

755
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 1: My own band period on my own.

756
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 4: So when I decided to stop working in the club, yeah,

757
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 4: I had started talking to someone, but before that I

758
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,240
Speaker 4: was working, but it was like I was only working

759
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 4: a certain amount of hours a week. I was really

760
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 4: only working on the weekends and stuff and making all

761
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,440
Speaker 4: these money versus like when I used to work a

762
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 4: corporate job, I was working forty hours a week for

763
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 4: somebody and wasn't even making half of that.

764
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 2: But when I met you, you were working your forty

765
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 2: hours a week and we were bar tending together.

766
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: Speak on it a what hustler.

767
00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you were working a lot, But it was

768
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,439
Speaker 2: just kind of like you got to that point before

769
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 2: I did.

770
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 1: Cause you was like I wanted right right what I wanted.

771
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 2: You was like working so much. But even when you

772
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,840
Speaker 2: first moved to Atlanta, when I was still in Houston,

773
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:50,919
Speaker 2: every time I called you, like, bitch, I'm going to work.

774
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

775
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 4: I had two bartending jobs when I first going to work,

776
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 4: and I was just.

777
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,439
Speaker 1: Like, God, damn, bitch, you haven't you some time?

778
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 2: Oh?

779
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 1: But I always tell that the trap drawer was lead.

780
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 1: I remember the trap drawer he was telling me about.

781
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 1: I mean, I used to be posted it. It was

782
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: I remember the good old day.

783
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 2: But like I said, I feel like now around a

784
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: point to where we can have like it's good to

785
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 2: have balance, and I feel like that also in our

786
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 2: creativity too, because like.

787
00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes like I just be laying in bed and I'll.

788
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: Be chilling, and that's when I have my most creative

789
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 2: moments where I think of stuff that we can work on,

790
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 2: the stuff that we can do. Because when I was working,

791
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 2: I didn't have no time to think about poor minds

792
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,359
Speaker 2: because I was working at my job and doing things

793
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 2: for them. So by the time I got to the

794
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 2: end of my job, I was like at work just

795
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 2: doing stuff for poor minds all the time.

796
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 1: M They was like, we see you logging on the computer.

797
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,439
Speaker 1: Why are you on She used to be at work

798
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: making canvas everything. That computer was full of ship with

799
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:48,959
Speaker 1: poor minds.

800
00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 5: I know.

801
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,399
Speaker 1: They was like, what the fuck is this? They see

802
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: that in point I'm like, suck dick to get what

803
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: you need. And it was partly like, wait, what the

804
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 1: fuck is this?

805
00:35:58,239 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 2: Bro?

806
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 4: They used to always be on work computer creating stuff

807
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 4: for mine.

808
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,560
Speaker 2: I did, I did, but it was just kind of

809
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: like that's why I just knew. I was like, I

810
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 2: have to fucking get out of here, right. But yeah,

811
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,479
Speaker 2: I think we both agree, like you have to have.

812
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 4: A balance, Yeah, you do, for sure. It has to

813
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 4: be a balance in your life. Like I said, I

814
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 4: mean to me, people that become successful don't get there

815
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 4: by like over super overworking themselves. I feel like, you know,

816
00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 4: you just have to be smart, like you have to

817
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 4: work smarter and not harder.

818
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 2: And not only that, I feel like a lot of

819
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 2: people are scared to hire people to help them, like

820
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 2: when you start making Oh.

821
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: No, baby, I'm always delegated task. You know, we know

822
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,760
Speaker 1: I have three dollars. I'm gonna do that forever.

823
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 2: Literally had three dollars in my account. No one point

824
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,280
Speaker 2: was like, why don't we hire somebody?

825
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: I said, hire hill.

826
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all something I been. I was ready

827
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:50,359
Speaker 2: to hire people since day one.

828
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 4: I was like, fuck this shell.

829
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 1: This sheep, bitch, we need to hire people to do

830
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 1: these lakes. Used to be like, I Network, can you

831
00:36:58,239 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: insert this ad?

832
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,880
Speaker 2: No, bitch, can we hire somebody to do the sheet.

833
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 1: I ain't sign up for this.

834
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 2: I signed up to see it in front of the

835
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 2: motherfucking camera and talk bitch, not the edit videos and

836
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 2: insert ads and she bitch, No.

837
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 1: That's not my job. Bro. You used to hate it.

838
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: I did.

839
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 2: I used to hate this, was like, but getting to

840
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 2: the point what I was saying is hate somebody, not

841
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 2: only that whenever you get to the point to where

842
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 2: you have a budget, like, don't be afraid to like

843
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,760
Speaker 2: hire people and bring people on to make things easier

844
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 2: and run smoother. Cause like, when you hire people on,

845
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 2: it makes the job easier. It's not that you're being lazy,

846
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 2: but it frees up your time to focus on other things.

847
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 2: Like I just feel like, you know, in this world,

848
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 2: like God has given us all different talents since she

849
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 2: liked that, So I just feel like, but I feel like,

850
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, this person is probably really

851
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,240
Speaker 2: good at this, and I'm really good at a lot.

852
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: Of things too, and so are you.

853
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 4: But whatever I'm not good at, I'm not about to

854
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 4: try to stress myself out trying to do it when

855
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 4: it's somebody who way more talented doing that than I am,

856
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 4: and they can do it easily, and all I gotta

857
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 4: do is pay them to do Like.

858
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 1: I'm cool with that. That's how it needs to be.

859
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I got to know money now, I got

860
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:10,760
Speaker 1: six dollars.

861
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was gonna say, like, WHILEX talking she be

862
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:14,879
Speaker 4: loving to delegate, ask now.

863
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, you think we should hire somebody to do that?

864
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 4: She was she was tired of us. She was tired

865
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 4: of doing orders merchant order. She was like, I think

866
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 4: it's time for us to hire somebody.

867
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 2: Broday, I said, you want to hire somebody?

868
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 1: See how this is three dollars the multiply goofy today. God, anyways,

869
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: let's move on.

870
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you got my last is about to

871
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:56,959
Speaker 2: fall off?

872
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: Maybe be like we got the budge? What what's up?

873
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 5: Y'all?

874
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 2: Is your girl alex p and each chu girl's ray

875
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: and the cold and y'all know we had to talk

876
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:05,720
Speaker 2: about Hello Fresh today.

877
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 4: Yes, because it just makes ourn like so much simpler

878
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 4: and much easier. I don't like growing into the grocery store,

879
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 4: but I don't mind hooky, so you know, with these

880
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:16,800
Speaker 4: it just makes things so much easier.

881
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: And the food is the leashy yes, and nutritions. Yes,

882
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 1: it's quick and easy. Meals fifteen to twenty minutes.

883
00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 2: So I know y'all got fifteen to twenty minutes, you know,

884
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:25,720
Speaker 2: to make yourself some food, making men some food.

885
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

886
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 2: I made some crispy Parmisan chicken this week. Baby, I

887
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 2: had to bust it open for myself.

888
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I had some firecracker meatballs. Not the meatballs, huh.

889
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 1: They was bliss. I'm going on. So Hello Fresh.

890
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,479
Speaker 2: They offer like fifteen menu items marketing items each week,

891
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 2: so you can choose what you want. Whatever kind of

892
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,919
Speaker 2: preference you need is gonna hook you up and personalize

893
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: it to you.

894
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: Know, your flavor Pallette.

895
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 2: So if you go to HelloFresh dot com slash poor

896
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Speaker 2: Mind's fourteen, you're gonna get fourteen free meals plus free shipping.

897
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Speaker 1: So that's HelloFresh.

898
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:03,320
Speaker 2: Dot com backslash poor Month fourteen and get you some food.

899
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,399
Speaker 1: Hun So, now we're gonna get into the.

900
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 2: Bed a bowl Bowow.

901
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 1: He was off beat. I thought I was on point.

902
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 4: Usually we'd just be like the bed a bow.

903
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,919
Speaker 1: No, I think I'm just a little tissy.

904
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 2: Okay, So today we're gonna talk about we're gonna give

905
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 2: a review, so uh, if y'all don't obviously, we had Somaya,

906
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: which is a sex expert. We had her a few

907
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 2: weeks ago on an episode and she just gave us

908
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 2: so much intellect and so much knowledge about sex and

909
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:41,080
Speaker 2: how to have better orgasms, how to have better sex

910
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 2: with your partner. So we went to these sexual Essentials

911
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 2: dot com and she actually offers classes, so.

912
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: We took a class. Yeah, we took like three what class?

913
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 4: I took the class about Rodendeck and a mouth master class.

914
00:40:55,960 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: Mouth Master, Well, you know you've been there. Thanks, that's factual.

915
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: Come on, mouth master, I'm not gonna lie.

916
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 4: When I was watching it, I was like, I was like,

917
00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 4: I already be doing anything right, y'all.

918
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 2: Dre was texting me, she was like, wow, I'm so advanced.

919
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 2: I really am. I'm top of the class.

920
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 1: Come on, valedictorian. Don't play with it. Okay.

921
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:28,359
Speaker 2: So I took the masturbating and squirting class. Oh oh,

922
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 2: I took the masturbating and squirting class. And y'all know me.

923
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 2: I'm the resident squirter. You can catch me at Las Vegas.

924
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 2: I have a residency there performing.

925
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:39,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if.

926
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 4: That's the show I would want to be it cause

927
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 4: where do you Which way do you squirt?

928
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:44,240
Speaker 1: Kidding?

929
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 2: Anyways, and the masturbating and squirting class, she taught you

930
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 2: how to properly masturbate. This is actually for men and women.

931
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of times when y'all hear

932
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 2: us talk about this stuff, y'all feel like it'll just

933
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 2: be for men. But she was giving a lot of

934
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: tips for men. Now what I did know is practicing keegels.

935
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 2: Men's are supposed to do kegels as well.

936
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know that. I mean I knew when

937
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:09,720
Speaker 4: she said it, I knew what she was talking about,

938
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 4: but I didn't know that that was considered a keegel.

939
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 2: Yes, girl, yes, so yeah, niggas need to do kegels too. So,

940
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 2: like I don't care what y'all say, I didn't know

941
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 2: this whole time I've been about that gym life.

942
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,760
Speaker 1: I'm in the gym right now. Yeah, I do kegels

943
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 1: all the time.

944
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 4: But I talked about this on I think one of

945
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 4: our past episodes or maybe on Patreo and like using ben.

946
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:35,840
Speaker 2: Wa balls and stuff, so that puts it strong it is.

947
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 2: But yes, so she talked about keegels. She talked about

948
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:45,680
Speaker 2: like using different Yoni eggs like crystals if you believe.

949
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: In that Jinny egg. Yeah, yeah, she was talking about

950
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:49,800
Speaker 1: all that stuff.

951
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 2: So if you've like never been a person that masturbates

952
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,120
Speaker 2: or knows how to masturbate, she teaches you. And for

953
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 2: men you can learn too, like how to properly touch

954
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 2: a woman. Because that's why I was looking at it,

955
00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 2: like a man needs to watch this to learn how

956
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,399
Speaker 2: to touch on girlfield, touch on that kiddy cat.

957
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 1: You gonna show it to you. I mean, hopefully he

958
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: already knows how to do it and I don't have

959
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,720
Speaker 1: to teach him, but if you don't, I will show him.

960
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 1: I will show him.

961
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 4: So yes, I like in the class that I took,

962
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 4: like in the mouth Master class, she was talking about

963
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 4: how you're supposed to like suck while you're like sucking

964
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 4: big and I think most people don't do that.

965
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 2: You just in and I show my mouth, but you're

966
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 2: supposed to like suck it, okay, vacuum.

967
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:35,319
Speaker 4: So yeah, so I thought that I used to call

968
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 4: me back in the day so anyways, and they call

969
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:51,040
Speaker 4: me dicey. But I thought that was a really good

970
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 4: point for the beginners or whatever.

971
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 1: And then she was also talking about the fruit roll

972
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: up trick. I hate the fruit.

973
00:43:56,440 --> 00:43:59,239
Speaker 4: Roll up trick, but yeah, lex Okay, So one time

974
00:43:59,280 --> 00:44:00,800
Speaker 4: I did the thro roller treak on these nigga and

975
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 4: I'll call licks and I was telling her about it,

976
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 4: and she was like, what the fuck are we in

977
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 4: high school? But clearly, Beach, we in the mouth masterclass.

978
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: Clearly that's where we at.

979
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 2: It's like, why would you want to put candy on

980
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 2: a dick and then he has to go clean off

981
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 2: his dick so he can inserted in your vagina.

982
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 4: I mean maybe, I mean, if you good like that,

983
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 4: I mean you could make him nug while you sucking

984
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 4: his deck and then you know, he take a little intermission,

985
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 4: go take a shower, then we can fud already h

986
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 4: w birds okay, all right, but yes, So then she

987
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 4: was talking about that, which I thought, you know, was

988
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:41,919
Speaker 4: a really really good tip as well. I'm not gonna

989
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 4: go to a deep into it because y'all got to

990
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 4: go about him with the class. So then she was

991
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 4: talking about the linga massages. But now that's something that

992
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:53,759
Speaker 4: I'm new to. Linga massage. Yes, so it's basically when

993
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 4: you massage the deck, but she was giving you different,

994
00:44:57,200 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 4: many different variations of.

995
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 1: Ways so like massage the deck because you know, even because.

996
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 4: Remember even when she was on the show, she was

997
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 4: telling us how you know, most people only jack the

998
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,600
Speaker 4: deck one way, and it's like that. So she was

999
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 4: showing you different variations in different ways that you can

1000
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 4: like massage the deck all that type of shit. So

1001
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 4: I thought that that was really good as well. Than

1002
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 4: in the Dick riding course. You know, I think one

1003
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:20,879
Speaker 4: of the main things with a lot of us while

1004
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 4: we don't like to ride Dick is because your knees.

1005
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,080
Speaker 1: We don't got the magni. We don't got the magnies.

1006
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: My knees be cracking and popp us.

1007
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:39,760
Speaker 4: What does it cost, yes, price crispy knee. So yeah,

1008
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,720
Speaker 4: I do not like riding because my knees are not strong.

1009
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 4: So she was showing different techniques of ways where you

1010
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 4: could like kind of put your weight on other areas

1011
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 4: of your body to where it's easier for you to

1012
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 4: ride d She had one technique where you kind of

1013
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 4: could put the weight on your elbows. Strong anyways, bitch

1014
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 4: it need so back to she was talking about, you know,

1015
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 4: doing keegels while you're right now, that's what I always do,

1016
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 4: but it's a certain technique and it's a certain way that.

1017
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: You have to do it. Okay, So they gotta take

1018
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 1: the class. So y'all gotta take the class. And I'm

1019
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: about to tell y'all to take me.

1020
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 4: It was a lot of great tips, you know what

1021
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 4: I mean, So shout out to Samoya. We love the class,

1022
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 4: and we definitely think y'all should join the class.

1023
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: Yes, y'all definitely need to take this class because I'm

1024
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I learned a lot. I was like,

1025
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 1: I can't wait to try it.

1026
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 2: I feel like with that that what I learned from

1027
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 2: her class, plus like the toys that she gave us.

1028
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:32,439
Speaker 1: I'm really excited to have to say.

1029
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 2: And y'all see me and Lex was both looking at

1030
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: our notes because we had put we made.

1031
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 1: No college best college courses. Okay, I'm ready, all right,

1032
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into the bop.

1033
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 2: Hey the bow.

1034
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 1: Boubout bow bow. Okay, so we do that for the

1035
00:46:50,320 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: both two. Maybe I'm a little tea. We started it.

1036
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: We started, and we've been doing okay.

1037
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:09,279
Speaker 2: So I actually have two bops of the week. I

1038
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 2: feel like it's getting hot outside. It's summertime. I know

1039
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 2: y'all love my R and B shit, but I'm about

1040
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,799
Speaker 2: to put y'all on some like different shit, like it's

1041
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 2: time to be outside and row your nigga up type shit.

1042
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 1: So my first bop of the week is called Nigga Up.

1043
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 1: It's by Dave and Burner Boy.

1044
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:31,080
Speaker 2: It's called Location, and it's basically like an afrobeats type song.

1045
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 2: Y'all know, I love the afrobeats, and it's like basically

1046
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,240
Speaker 2: about a guy telling you, like, send me the location,

1047
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 2: I'll be right there, Like let's turn up, let's get it.

1048
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 2: We about to be I'm dead, were about to be

1049
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 2: outside turning up. So this is like the perfect summer song,

1050
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 2: you know what. It falls in line with your best

1051
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,160
Speaker 2: bop of the week has still been Essence to this day.

1052
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 2: That might be the bop of the year because you

1053
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 2: did that things that you.

1054
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 1: Did that beat.

1055
00:47:57,239 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 2: Y'all know, wiz Kid and Tims have that song called Essence.

1056
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,879
Speaker 2: So if you like Essence, you'll like this song. It's

1057
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 2: such a good song.

1058
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: So it's called da It's called Location by Dave and

1059
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: Burna Boy.

1060
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 2: My I got a second bop of the week. Sorry,

1061
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,239
Speaker 2: so my second bop of the week. Y'all know, this

1062
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 2: is my absolute favorite rapper. I've been catching up with

1063
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,280
Speaker 2: the kids lately, you know, I've been listening to the tunes.

1064
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 2: How do you do, fellow kids, I'm here, you know. So,

1065
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,720
Speaker 2: uh Don Tolliver has a song called what You Need

1066
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 2: and I actually tweeted this last night. I am working

1067
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:33,880
Speaker 2: on I finished my alternative playlist, so y'all, y'all already

1068
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,960
Speaker 2: got that. I'm actually gonna make a playlist of like

1069
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 2: rappers getting in their sex bag, cause I feel like,

1070
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 2: do you have sex to music?

1071
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:45,839
Speaker 1: Sometimes? I mean it just depends cause I don't know.

1072
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 4: Sometimes if I be listening to music during six I

1073
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 4: be wanting to like start dancing.

1074
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 1: Alright, Michael Jackson, calm down.

1075
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 2: But I feel like there's a lot of good music

1076
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 2: that rappers have made that you can have sex to.

1077
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and this is one of those songs.

1078
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:04,439
Speaker 2: So I'm working on a playlist of like like hip

1079
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 2: hop sex music cause it's easy to make an R

1080
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:08,440
Speaker 2: and B sex music playlist.

1081
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 1: So when you be having sexy, I'll be trying to

1082
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: fuck to the beat. Not really.

1083
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 2: I mostly like like to listen to the words, and

1084
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:15,799
Speaker 2: it's more of like an intimate type of.

1085
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,479
Speaker 4: See that's why I can't do it. I'll be trying

1086
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,360
Speaker 4: to fuck to the beat pop lock and drop.

1087
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,760
Speaker 1: Not you fucking the pop lock and drop it not two.

1088
00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,760
Speaker 2: Make it so Anyways, Don Tolliver has a song called

1089
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 2: what You Need, and it's basically about him just like

1090
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 2: asking a girl what you need, Like I'm a double CCU.

1091
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: Like that's like that. We know, we know the little

1092
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: Don like that.

1093
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 2: So basically he's just talking about asking a girl what

1094
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 2: you need, like I'm gonna satisfy you. I'm gonna put

1095
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:47,839
Speaker 2: it in them guts. I'm gonna give you whatever you need.

1096
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 2: He did say that. He definitely did say that, So

1097
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 2: it wasn't if I take you to my crib, I

1098
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:56,760
Speaker 2: put that way down in your.

1099
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,959
Speaker 1: Gut and I like it.

1100
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 2: Points were made you, So yeah, Don Tolliver, What you Need.

1101
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 2: It's a great song, Don Tolliver. I'm not gonna lie.

1102
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 2: I'm super biased when it comes to him. He don't

1103
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 2: miss to me, I haven't heard a Don Tolliver song.

1104
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:16,400
Speaker 1: I don't like yet.

1105
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 2: Bro, you haven't I haven't. I haven't, so I really

1106
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 2: fuck with him What you Need. I'm ready for the

1107
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 2: new album. I heard him and Kali uchas Kallie.

1108
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: I think that's how you say her. No, I don't

1109
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 1: know who that is.

1110
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 2: She got a she's an R and B singer, but

1111
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 2: I heard they have a track coming out with which

1112
00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:34,080
Speaker 2: I'm super excited about because I like her as well.

1113
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: So shout out to Don Tolliver, What you Need. It's

1114
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:38,359
Speaker 1: a bob. We fucking with it.

1115
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,000
Speaker 2: I'm working on the playlist for y'all sex music by

1116
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 2: a rap artist, and it's gonna be fired.

1117
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: I got some.

1118
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 2: Good fucking songs sex music, bro, I don't got a

1119
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 2: sex playlist for y'all, And it's gonna be straight rappers,

1120
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 2: and it's so good.

1121
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:51,760
Speaker 1: Y'all gonna be fucking hod y'all.

1122
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 2: Gonna be fucking long and strong, and it's time to

1123
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 2: get the friction on.

1124
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna end it with that. Baby got back.

1125
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 5: That.

1126
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,720
Speaker 1: Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. Okay.

1127
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 4: So I wanted to kind of like talk about the

1128
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:08,000
Speaker 4: Culture three album.

1129
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,919
Speaker 1: Okay, so, like, what did you think about it?

1130
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 2: Kwevo actually said that this was the best culture album. Now,

1131
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 2: while I don't believe it's the best culture album, it

1132
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 2: was definitely a great comeback.

1133
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:23,840
Speaker 1: So which one do you think is the best? The

1134
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: first one? Uh? Is that the one with rain drops

1135
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: dropped off? Yes? Yeah?

1136
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 2: The first one yeah? Bad and Bogie yeah yeah so

1137
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 2: and Kelly Price and.

1138
00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:33,879
Speaker 1: Sh yeah yeah yeah.

1139
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:35,799
Speaker 2: So the first Culture was the best, but the third

1140
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:36,439
Speaker 2: Culture isn't.

1141
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: Second? I agree? The last Culture I agree.

1142
00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 4: Too, but I wasn't like two was cool, but it

1143
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,799
Speaker 4: wasn't like these I feel like I definitely think so too,

1144
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 4: and it's it's funny. It's fun because people was really

1145
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 4: trying to say that that was thee it was a

1146
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,399
Speaker 4: rap for them. But I really do like this album too.

1147
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 4: Like you said, I don't feel like it's better than

1148
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 4: the first one, but I do think that it's a

1149
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:01,760
Speaker 4: great album.

1150
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: Like a lot of oops so on here. I love

1151
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: the song we Cardi B. Drake. I love the song

1152
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 1: with Cardi B.

1153
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 4: Cardi B quite slid a on the track please when

1154
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 4: I play with my girls, She's slid on the tread.

1155
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 2: But I love the Cardi B song. I love the

1156
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 2: Drake song. I also love don't he Got a song

1157
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:26,760
Speaker 2: with I would say it's not is it Travis Scott?

1158
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 2: On that I think Travis Scott is one of the songs. Yeah,

1159
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 2: that's the one the songs I heard that I actually liked.

1160
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: I listened to the whole thing twice. But I like

1161
00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: the song with Future too.

1162
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,239
Speaker 2: I need to listen to it again. But from what

1163
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 2: I heard, I really enjoyed it. I really liked it.

1164
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 2: Like I said, Cardi B fucking slid I love that

1165
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,719
Speaker 2: the I know what people say about their relationship, but

1166
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 2: I love the fact that they show up for each other.

1167
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: I like that.

1168
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,479
Speaker 2: Like when all Set does a song with Cardi, he

1169
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 2: writes his best ship. When Carti does a song with Migos,

1170
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 2: she writes her like best or whoever writes I mean,

1171
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 2: I'm not being funny. No, see that wrong, it's the wine, Cardy,

1172
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,280
Speaker 2: you watch your own ship. I don't whoever you delivered it, bitch,

1173
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 2: I couldn't do it.

1174
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: I didn't mean it.

1175
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like party. I think I think Carti slid

1176
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 4: on the track per you she But I also I

1177
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 4: just am a fan of albums where it's like because

1178
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 4: I love to listen to music while I'm getting ready

1179
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 4: and doing my makeup, doing my hair and stuff to

1180
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 4: go out. So I just am a fan of albums

1181
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 4: that I don't have to skip, right, Like I listen

1182
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:29,719
Speaker 4: to an album from front to back and I have

1183
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 4: to skip a song. I'm a fan And honestly, the

1184
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 4: whole album is like a vibe. So the whole album

1185
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 4: is about a few songs that I feel like, you know,

1186
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 4: it's notice when is.

1187
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:42,520
Speaker 1: Drake coming out with Certified Lover?

1188
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 4: He said that he coming out with it before the

1189
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,840
Speaker 4: end of the summer, So we gonna see how you

1190
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 4: know you talked to him.

1191
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 2: No, he did an interview recently. All about to say

1192
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 2: he did an interview recently. I'm ready for I'm ready

1193
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 2: for Drake to come get you.

1194
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 1: Grow girl. He on the way. When you do, notbody

1195
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 1: will know. I'm gonna tell it. Y'all know I can't

1196
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 1: hold water.

1197
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, shout out to Cardi b shout out

1198
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 2: to the migos, Don Tolliver, what's his name?

1199
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 1: Burna boy and they all the bops of the week.

1200
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 2: All right, So now we're doing the poor your Heart

1201
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:19,880
Speaker 2: segment of the episode.

1202
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: If you want your I love this part.

1203
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 2: I love it because I get to see, like, who's

1204
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 2: listening to our show, Like we have so many different

1205
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 2: listeners now. So if you want your question answered on

1206
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,839
Speaker 2: the show, make sure you email us at ask Poor

1207
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 2: Minds at gmail dot com. That's a s k p oh.

1208
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:38,919
Speaker 2: You are am I N. D s at gmail dot com.

1209
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 2: If you're a Patreon member, make sure you put in

1210
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 2: the subject that you're a Patreon member, because you get

1211
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 2: to skip the line only if you're the top tier,

1212
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 2: the top tier of the Patreon Okay.

1213
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: You better let it be.

1214
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:52,400
Speaker 2: No gotta lift to be longer, so we're gonna b

1215
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:54,959
Speaker 2: re you first. Bob is bobbing. I can't stop looking

1216
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 2: at it. It looks so good.

1217
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: I had just need these two in the camera. Come

1218
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: on Lord for a quad. Shall we name miss an episode? Okay?

1219
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:12,319
Speaker 4: I'm a gay man studying as a grass student here

1220
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 4: in bad and Rouge, Louisiana. I've been talking and going

1221
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 4: on extensive dates with this really rich guy with a

1222
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:21,000
Speaker 4: super serious job. He single and lives in a nice house.

1223
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:23,359
Speaker 4: We text all the time, and he hints at being

1224
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 4: together with some at being together with someone. It seems

1225
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 4: like he does not want to have sex with me,

1226
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 4: no matter how much we flirt. He went on vacation

1227
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,879
Speaker 4: to Hawaii and I low key catfished him. We met

1228
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 4: on Grinder, but I have his number now. I was

1229
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:41,359
Speaker 4: myself with my stats, but I didn't have a pig

1230
00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 4: completely anonymous with him. He sent me every new he

1231
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,719
Speaker 4: had almost immediately and lied about his age. I didn't

1232
00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,400
Speaker 4: send him anything but small talk. He had never spoken

1233
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 4: with me like this. It was honestly filthy stuff. But

1234
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 4: I learned more about him as pickless, as a pickless

1235
00:55:56,880 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 4: profile than I ever did talking to him. I'm disgusted

1236
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 4: in him and in myself. However, I've never had such

1237
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 4: good dates with someone here. Did I overstep a possible

1238
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 4: blossoming relationship or should I let him do him on

1239
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 4: VAK and pretend like nothing ever happened.

1240
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: You've crossed a boundary.

1241
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 2: So now, no matter what you do, when you hang

1242
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 2: out with this man, you're gonna think about the conversations

1243
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:23,719
Speaker 2: you had as your catfish in the back right line.

1244
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 2: You cross the line that cannot there's no going back.

1245
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:32,720
Speaker 2: So I feel like, if you're so disgusted, stop talking

1246
00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 2: to him. Yeah, it's not gonna get better because in

1247
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,560
Speaker 2: the back of your mind you're always going to think about.

1248
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: What you did in the conversations y'all had on grind.

1249
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're gonna think you're You're gonna keep constantly thinking

1250
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 4: about how you know he was so open with this

1251
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:49,239
Speaker 4: anonymous and he can't be that way with you when

1252
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 4: y'all communicate, you know what I mean, which I do

1253
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 4: think also is weird.

1254
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:54,760
Speaker 1: You know what, I think that's weird as well.

1255
00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 4: But time sometimes people are okay with being more of

1256
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 4: themselves when they don't know who the person is exactly.

1257
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 2: So I feel like, for anybody out there listening, this

1258
00:57:05,080 --> 00:57:08,719
Speaker 2: is not advice for you specifically because you already did it,

1259
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:11,399
Speaker 2: but for everyone. I never think it's a good idea

1260
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 2: to catfish someone you're interested or dating in, because if

1261
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 2: you have a problem or issue, talk to them. Communication

1262
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 2: is so it's like a lost art. Why don't people

1263
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 2: want to talk anywhere? If you feel like you have

1264
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 2: questions or you're curious about something, sit that person down

1265
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 2: and talk to them. This could have all been prevented

1266
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 2: if you would have just sat down and talked to

1267
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 2: him and been like, hey, you know what's going on?

1268
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: Are you in a relationship? I feel like you're not

1269
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 2: opening up to me. What can I do to make

1270
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 2: you feel more comfortable? Usually things can be solved with

1271
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 2: one conversation.

1272
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 1: Well what I said, what if he tells him that

1273
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 1: he can't fished.

1274
00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 2: Him tells the man that he can't fish him. I

1275
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 2: mean the man will probably get.

1276
00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 4: Mad, and he'll probably get mad, but it's like it happened,

1277
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 4: and I like we were talking, so I mean I'm

1278
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 4: telling you like it was.

1279
00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 1: I mean, if you want to be the open I

1280
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 1: would say go and just tell me.

1281
00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 4: You think that it would like make him not want

1282
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 4: to talk to him anymore.

1283
00:58:05,880 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 2: It's either it's a fifty to fifty chance either that

1284
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 2: man is gonna cut you off and be like, oh,

1285
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 2: hell no, because he's gonna be embarrassed that you know

1286
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 2: about that side of him, or he's gonna be relieved

1287
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 2: that you know, right.

1288
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 1: And that's more so what I was thinking.

1289
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 4: I was thinking more and so about being relieved that, like,

1290
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 4: now I can kind of be more of myself with

1291
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 4: you because I know you.

1292
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: Kind of you know you are into this, you cool

1293
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 1: with it. I mean, he didn't say he was into it.

1294
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: He just said he because.

1295
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, he did say he was discussed, yeah, he said,

1296
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:33,000
Speaker 2: And you cannot be trusty miss.

1297
00:58:34,000 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1298
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 2: I just feel like that wasn't a good idea. But

1299
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you know now, But I feel like

1300
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 2: you should probably move on because now that you now,

1301
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:43,560
Speaker 2: you know his kinks are something that you're not into.

1302
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:46,840
Speaker 2: And I feel like, if I'm dating someone, I need

1303
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:49,560
Speaker 2: to like your kinks, the nastiest shit that you're into

1304
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 2: that you like. I need to like that right in

1305
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 2: order for it to work. Yeah, obviously you know his

1306
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 2: nastiest kinks and everything.

1307
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:59,440
Speaker 1: And move on. You gotta find you somebody more of

1308
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 1: a nilabu mm.

1309
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 2: Hmmm, because we love a little vanilla because we ain't

1310
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 2: we do?

1311
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: But I want to get freaky. That was a hard pop.

1312
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 1: That was a hard pop, but that.

1313
00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 2: Was serious about e Come on, eat freaky?

1314
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: What? What is this? I don't know what kind of

1315
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 1: wine I'd have got today? How they get turned ill?

1316
00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 1: Not ill? Hello, ladies. So I was diagnosed with herpes

1317
00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: last year.

1318
00:59:33,800 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 2: This was devastating to me, especially because I haven't had

1319
00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 2: sex with a lot of guys and it's actually very

1320
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 2: common but not really talked about as common as it is.

1321
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 2: I feel alone and it was a huge blow. I'm

1322
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 2: feeling better about it now, although some days I still

1323
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:49,880
Speaker 2: can't believe it. I'm ready to date again, but I

1324
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 2: am dreading the disclosure piece. Do you, ladies know how

1325
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 2: anyone personally that is dealing with herpes? And if so,

1326
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 2: how have they managed to disclose and date? Also, any

1327
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:01,800
Speaker 2: advice that you guys might have, even if you don't

1328
01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 2: know firsthand?

1329
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 1: Thanks? Oh well, hmm, it's crazy. Let me say something though.

1330
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 2: Okay, me and you have had this conversation about this

1331
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:18,880
Speaker 2: specific disease before because we both know people.

1332
01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: Yes who have it.

1333
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 5: Yes.

1334
01:00:21,320 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 4: And you know.

1335
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:27,560
Speaker 2: It's weird because the person that I know, me and

1336
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,680
Speaker 2: her actually got into it yep, because she was like,

1337
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 2: I'm not telling them and I was like, that is

1338
01:00:34,560 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 2: not fucking fair and that is not right.

1339
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 4: So me and the person that I know, we never

1340
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 4: got into it because I just feel like, although it's

1341
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 4: not right, I just don't be wanting to cross boundaries

1342
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 4: with people people do. People gonna live their life and

1343
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 4: do whatever the fuck they want to do, you know

1344
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 4: what I mean.

1345
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,840
Speaker 1: So we never got into it.

1346
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 4: But sometimes I didn't like the way that this person

1347
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:04,760
Speaker 4: would handle league, just because I do feel like with

1348
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:08,720
Speaker 4: a situation like that, with any STD that you can't

1349
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 4: get rid of that you know that you have, you

1350
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 4: need to let people know that you have it because

1351
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 4: you need to give people the option whether or not

1352
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 4: they're okay with having sex with you knowing that you

1353
01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:22,400
Speaker 4: have it. Because, believe it or not, there's plenty of

1354
01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 4: people out there that's cool with having sex with people

1355
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 4: knowing that they have herpes, HIV, whatever, as long as

1356
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:33,040
Speaker 4: you're being cautious and you're protecting yourselves, you know what

1357
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 4: I mean. It's a lot of people who would be

1358
01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 4: okay with you. So I always feel like honesty is

1359
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 4: the best policy because it's kind of like when you're

1360
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 4: going into sex, having sex with somebody, and a lot

1361
01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:45,439
Speaker 4: of the time people who have STDs that they can't

1362
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 4: get rid of their favorite thing to say, it's oh, well,

1363
01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:49,880
Speaker 4: you know, I'm gonna be safe, I'm gonna use protection.

1364
01:01:50,240 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 4: Things happen, Condoms break, Let's be honest, they break, you.

1365
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.

1366
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:58,960
Speaker 4: So for condom breaks and something end up happening, and

1367
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 4: then now y'all fucking raw, you know what I mean.

1368
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 4: You don't possibly pass this shit over on into these

1369
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 4: persons and they have no fucking idea.

1370
01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 1: But you knew the whole time that you.

1371
01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 4: Had this STD, and if they would have known prior,

1372
01:02:14,760 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 4: they might have chose not to have sex with you.

1373
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 4: And yes, that's fucked up, but that's also their decision.

1374
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 4: And it's okay if they don't want to fuck you

1375
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 4: no more because they found out that you have a herpee.

1376
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I think the stutistic of herpees is like

1377
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:28,680
Speaker 2: one in four. It's way more people out there, way

1378
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:31,360
Speaker 2: more people out there with it than First of all,

1379
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 2: that people would like to admit right, but nobody wants

1380
01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 2: to get it right. But I will say this, I

1381
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 2: feel like this is a part of your life now,

1382
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 2: and honestly, it happens.

1383
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 1: You're not alone.

1384
01:02:43,440 --> 01:02:45,480
Speaker 2: It's a lot of people out there with it. So

1385
01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 2: I feel like it's nothing to be ashamed about. You

1386
01:02:48,040 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 2: went through something with somebody. It happened, and unfortunately you

1387
01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 2: know it's what it is. But fortunately you're still alive

1388
01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 2: and you still have a life to live, and you

1389
01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 2: are still able and capable to date, to have kids,

1390
01:03:00,720 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 2: to be out there and do what you want to do.

1391
01:03:02,920 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 1: So I feel like, just be honest with people.

1392
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 2: I don't I can't tell you how to have a

1393
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 2: conversation with somebody because I don't have it per same.

1394
01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never had to have it. We've never had

1395
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 4: to have those kind of conversations. But I do feel

1396
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 4: like this. I know that it's support groups for stuff

1397
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 4: like that, you know what I mean, support groups for

1398
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:22,200
Speaker 4: people that have herpes and support groups of people that

1399
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 4: have HRV.

1400
01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:24,000
Speaker 1: And stuff like that.

1401
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 4: So I just feel like, maybe you should start going

1402
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 4: to support groups and maybe and you know, it's so

1403
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:32,439
Speaker 4: many people that you can date that have the same thing.

1404
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 2: I've actually heard that, like if people like dating in

1405
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 2: their inner circle with like I.

1406
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 1: Mean, yeah, like y'all, I be watching polls.

1407
01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 4: I mean, this ain't Herpies' is hrv's another libel, but

1408
01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 4: I be watching poles but on polls, like all the

1409
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 4: people you are so annoying because I'm really being serious,

1410
01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:54,760
Speaker 4: Oh my god. But yeah, so like a lot of

1411
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 4: people who might have.

1412
01:03:58,400 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 1: Pratz Ellen Ricky, I hate you, bro, oh my god.

1413
01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 4: But yes, it's like I mean, you know what I mean,

1414
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:11,200
Speaker 4: Like I was saying, it's support grooves is I feel

1415
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:13,400
Speaker 4: like you could date within that community as well, and

1416
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,920
Speaker 4: they probably will be easier for you because I mean

1417
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 4: it'll be like okay, I.

1418
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,680
Speaker 2: Mean yeah, And like I said, I don't feel like

1419
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 2: there's anything to be ashamed of.

1420
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: I feel like people will respect you. But I think

1421
01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 1: you need to.

1422
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 2: This sounds wrong, but maybe like you're gonna have to

1423
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 2: toughen up as well, because you're gonna tell people and

1424
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,320
Speaker 2: they are gonna cut you off and they are gonna

1425
01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 2: be like, I don't want to fuck with you. Yeah,

1426
01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 2: so I think you have to be okay with that

1427
01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 2: as well, you know what I'm saying. So, but I

1428
01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 2: feel like you'll feel better in the long run knowing

1429
01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 2: that you've been honest.

1430
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry what you just funny? I'm an educator. It's

1431
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: the wine. I'm not honest.

1432
01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:58,919
Speaker 2: Wine no fucking more, because we've both been Wilie, good

1433
01:04:58,920 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 2: little girl.

1434
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 1: Question three.

1435
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:09,200
Speaker 2: Okay, the third question Heydrea and LyX. I'm a twenty

1436
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:12,680
Speaker 2: seven year old Euro African girl. I started to speak

1437
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:15,120
Speaker 2: with his fifty three year old Chinese man online a

1438
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 2: few months back. He lives in a big city in Asia,

1439
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 2: and he offered me to come and pay for everything

1440
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 2: so I could be his No, he offered, Okay. She

1441
01:05:23,040 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 2: meant he offered to pay for everything so she could

1442
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 2: come and be his mystery.

1443
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 1: That's what she said. I think it was worded not

1444
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 1: the right way.

1445
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 4: But anyways, when we met, I thought, okay, he actually

1446
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 4: betuits get story.

1447
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 1: That's like, ILL set them right here. Got a little

1448
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:40,600
Speaker 1: booger go.

1449
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 4: When we met, I thought, okay, he's actually good looking,

1450
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:47,520
Speaker 4: plus he has good conversation. Two months later, I cannot

1451
01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:50,200
Speaker 4: stand him anymore. The deck is super trashed, so trash

1452
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 4: that after the first two times we did it, I've

1453
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 4: been avoiding stix like a professional, but he caught my

1454
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 4: tactics and now he's pressuring me into it. I'm used

1455
01:05:57,840 --> 01:06:00,680
Speaker 4: to black or Brazilian men. He just can't compete in

1456
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:03,600
Speaker 4: terms of size, but also in terms of his stroke game.

1457
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 4: He had a besixte mey years ago and his deck

1458
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 4: is very weak.

1459
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 1: Now.

1460
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 4: I'm used to mirroring nutting quickly and intensely, but he

1461
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 4: takes two hours just to release two drops.

1462
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 1: Ill.

1463
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,919
Speaker 4: At this point, I'm so disgusted when I'm with him

1464
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 4: that I'm thinking about going back to my broke eggs. Oh,

1465
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 4: I'll never do that far Now, I was one till

1466
01:06:24,520 --> 01:06:26,600
Speaker 4: you said this, sheek, what would you do?

1467
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 1: Not go back to my broke eggs? Pis.

1468
01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 4: I was so frustrated to find myself in this position

1469
01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 4: that I actually started better help counseling using your coat.

1470
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:37,959
Speaker 1: It helped a lot. Thanks, ladies, shout out to better help.

1471
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:40,760
Speaker 2: Not better help helping you through a small dick crist Now,

1472
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 2: I don't I mean it's a crisis.

1473
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:47,360
Speaker 4: A crisis is a crisis. Don't go back to y'all

1474
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 4: broke ass eggs.

1475
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 1: That's not the option.

1476
01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 4: But stop sucking that nigga too, because so I was

1477
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:52,920
Speaker 4: you fucking for two hours.

1478
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I like a lot of nuts.

1479
01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 2: I want to wash, condition my decondition, my hair, lay

1480
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:00,480
Speaker 2: my edges, brush my.

1481
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 1: Teeth like I like a lot of nuts too, drugs.

1482
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 1: That's you know, you see you. I know at the

1483
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: end of the day, I don't want no two drops.

1484
01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 1: I need that splash waterfall.

1485
01:07:13,640 --> 01:07:17,000
Speaker 2: So I feel like, girl, stop fucking him. There's I

1486
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 2: don't know why we talked about this one day too.

1487
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,800
Speaker 2: Why do women act like the man that you're fucking

1488
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 2: with is the only nigga out here with money? Go

1489
01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 2: find another one.

1490
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 1: It's plenty. It's plenty out here. It's well, let me

1491
01:07:30,680 --> 01:07:32,560
Speaker 1: not say plenty, plenty, plenty, but it's enough.

1492
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's enough to find you one, especially if you

1493
01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:37,520
Speaker 2: was being a mistress. Half of these married. I'm just

1494
01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,440
Speaker 2: saying that she was a mistress. Obly he's married. So

1495
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 2: if you're okay with fucking married men, ninety nine percent

1496
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:45,200
Speaker 2: of them ready to cheat.

1497
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 1: It's the truth.

1498
01:07:47,320 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm ninety nine, bro, I'm not gonna lie

1499
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 2: to you.

1500
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 1: You know this. A lot of married men.

1501
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:55,120
Speaker 2: We get hit on by married men all the fucking time, bro,

1502
01:07:55,800 --> 01:07:58,280
Speaker 2: all the fucking time. So if you're okay with sleeping

1503
01:07:58,280 --> 01:08:00,520
Speaker 2: with married men and that's what you're doing, that's fine,

1504
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 2: so it's easy to replace him if you're not satisfied. Y'all,

1505
01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:09,240
Speaker 2: ladies please listen and men as well. Stop having sex

1506
01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 2: with people and not getting your pleasure. Sex is supposed

1507
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:17,719
Speaker 2: to be satisfying. Stop fucking people that you're not enjoying

1508
01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:18,440
Speaker 2: it unless.

1509
01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 1: It's your job.

1510
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 2: It's especially right, Like if you're an OnlyFans person or

1511
01:08:23,560 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 2: you're a porn.

1512
01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:25,080
Speaker 1: Star, that's different.

1513
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 2: But if you're just like having sex for pleasure and

1514
01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:30,599
Speaker 2: you're getting gifts or getting whatever vice versa.

1515
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:31,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1516
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 2: Or if somebody you're dating and you love them, stop

1517
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 2: having sex if you're not enjoying it, have a conversation

1518
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:41,280
Speaker 2: with this person. If the conversation doesn't work, I move on.

1519
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:42,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. I really don't understand.

1520
01:08:42,720 --> 01:08:45,559
Speaker 4: I don't understand not having pleasurable sakes period, But I

1521
01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 4: really don't understand not having pleasurable seks and you're not

1522
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 4: getting nothing else out of the situation, just some bad

1523
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:53,680
Speaker 4: Like I'm confused. Yeah, I mean it sounds like she

1524
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,680
Speaker 4: was getting something because you said why, I'm not talking

1525
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:58,120
Speaker 4: about her, I'm just staying in general, but I would say.

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01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:01,639
Speaker 1: Move on two drops two hours. Mm hm no, ma'am.

1527
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:02,639
Speaker 1: Don't like that shit.

1528
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 4: Hey Patreon here, love the show. What can you do

1529
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 4: with someone that is distrustful? I assume nothing, but I'm

1530
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 4: so into this guy. We're together. He's a BDB and

1531
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:15,639
Speaker 4: does everything and more for me. I actually think there

1532
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:18,160
Speaker 4: could be a real future here. But I'm noticing he

1533
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 4: has trust issues. It's almost like he's baiting me or

1534
01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 4: testing me the the closer we get. I don't pay

1535
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 4: it any mind because my shit always adds up. Right now,

1536
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:30,639
Speaker 4: he thinks I lied about being asleep. Such a silly

1537
01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:33,360
Speaker 4: and extreme thing to be dragging and saying that he

1538
01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:36,920
Speaker 4: needs his distance. I'm happy to work through whatever troubles

1539
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,479
Speaker 4: he might have. But should I be taking this as

1540
01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:42,280
Speaker 4: a white flag to help my men trust again, or

1541
01:09:42,320 --> 01:09:45,680
Speaker 4: as a red flag that this isn't my problem You're lost?

1542
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 4: It's quite the turnoff. So I'm messaging my good sisters

1543
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 4: Lex Andrea. But I spent the past few days gloating

1544
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:54,439
Speaker 4: about my men. I can't talk to my homegirls right

1545
01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:57,639
Speaker 4: now about this, and they know hold on, I can't

1546
01:09:57,640 --> 01:09:59,640
Speaker 4: talk to my homegirls right now about these and know

1547
01:09:59,680 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 4: how they goes.

1548
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, we know about that, because especially if you've

1549
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:11,000
Speaker 2: been bragging about him mmmmmmmm. I'll say this community, I

1550
01:10:11,120 --> 01:10:13,720
Speaker 2: always go back to communication. So if you've tried to

1551
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:18,160
Speaker 2: communicate with him, obviously you have. I don't understand. I

1552
01:10:18,200 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 2: feel like counseling has worked so much for me. I

1553
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:22,760
Speaker 2: feel like the next situation I'm in if we come

1554
01:10:22,800 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 2: to a like, I'm like, be is she going to

1555
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 2: better help dot com?

1556
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:28,720
Speaker 1: Not even like whatever? Just try therapy with him.

1557
01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 2: Obviously you say you feel like he has issues from

1558
01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 2: his past or something that he's been going through.

1559
01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:38,120
Speaker 1: I don't couple therapy. If you love him and he

1560
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 1: loves you and y'all want to make it work.

1561
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 2: Try therapy. Why people are so scared of therapy? Yeah,

1562
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:47,200
Speaker 2: I don't really understand why. That's never like the first thing.

1563
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 4: That people think about up in people's mind when they

1564
01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:51,680
Speaker 4: having an issue in a relationship. It's like, if you

1565
01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:53,680
Speaker 4: and the person love each other and y'all really want

1566
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 4: to stay together and things are just not clicking and

1567
01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 4: not working out right then and there, why not go

1568
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:02,520
Speaker 4: to therapy and see kind and get somebody that specializes

1569
01:11:02,600 --> 01:11:04,679
Speaker 4: in these type of matters that can help y'all work

1570
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:07,719
Speaker 4: through it, because sometimes it's not something that's that serious

1571
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 4: to end the relationship, you know what I mean. But

1572
01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:13,160
Speaker 4: these things, like like Leck said, these different emotional traumas,

1573
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 4: things that somebody have been through in the past, and

1574
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:17,360
Speaker 4: stuff that they need to be in a comfortable space

1575
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 4: with somebody who's unbiased to be able to see and

1576
01:11:20,120 --> 01:11:22,400
Speaker 4: talk about impoor out they feelings because they might not

1577
01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 4: just feel comfortable pouring it out to you just sitting

1578
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 4: there with you when y'all talking.

1579
01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 1: So sometimes it helps to have somebody mediate, right, you know.

1580
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:32,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I said, I feel like maybe y'all should

1581
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:34,720
Speaker 2: try therapy if you've already tried to communicate with him.

1582
01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 2: But honestly, I'm big on like loyalty and trust before love.

1583
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 2: I feel like it's easy to have a relationship with love.

1584
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 2: It's easy to love somebody. You could love me and

1585
01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 2: still not be loyal, right, you can love me and

1586
01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:49,360
Speaker 2: not be loyal and not trust me. But a relationship

1587
01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 2: is nothing without loyalty and trust.

1588
01:11:51,439 --> 01:11:54,400
Speaker 1: I want loyalty over love, you know what I'm saying.

1589
01:11:54,439 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 2: So I feel like if y'all are missing that loyalty

1590
01:11:57,160 --> 01:11:59,519
Speaker 2: and that trust that needs to be fixed first.

1591
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:01,960
Speaker 1: Love is easy. Yeah, Look, I mean, love is.

1592
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,080
Speaker 4: A natural emotion, you know what I mean. You get

1593
01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 4: to know people, You're gonna love them a lot of

1594
01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,679
Speaker 4: the time. You know, y'all share starting experiences, different things

1595
01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 4: go on between y'all.

1596
01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:14,519
Speaker 1: You're gonna love a person. But loyalty, how do you

1597
01:12:14,520 --> 01:12:16,360
Speaker 1: feel me when I fall in love quick?

1598
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:18,040
Speaker 4: Well, I mean I love a lot of people. I

1599
01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 4: just gonna be loving these niggas. But loyalty is a

1600
01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 4: whole different you know what I mean, a whole different thing.

1601
01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:26,919
Speaker 1: You either got this shit in you or.

1602
01:12:26,960 --> 01:12:30,800
Speaker 2: You know so, yes, make sure, yeah, I would try

1603
01:12:30,840 --> 01:12:31,599
Speaker 2: therapy with them.

1604
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 1: That's all we got to say.

1605
01:12:33,280 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 2: So, if you aren't a Patreon member, make sure you

1606
01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 2: join our patreon It's patreon dot com backslash poor Minds.

1607
01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:42,760
Speaker 1: And if you're watching this, make sure y'all like and subscribe.

1608
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:43,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. We're trying to get our

1609
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:45,360
Speaker 1: subscribers up. I like something.

1610
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 4: We need our plague you being nice, beach. We need

1611
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:52,480
Speaker 4: the play, yes, So make sure y'all like as subscribe.

1612
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:55,439
Speaker 2: What else we got to add before I close? We

1613
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:57,439
Speaker 2: gonna close this bitch. I got something so good for

1614
01:12:57,520 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 2: us today, I'm trying.

1615
01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:02,759
Speaker 4: To think, what do we have to get some March?

1616
01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 4: Definitely go copy your March. We have new March coming.

1617
01:13:06,680 --> 01:13:10,000
Speaker 4: You know, we're updating the site every month at this point.

1618
01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:13,559
Speaker 1: So March queen.

1619
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so what canda do it for us today?

1620
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:28,840
Speaker 1: You ready? Are you ready? You call? I'm just saying

1621
01:13:28,880 --> 01:13:32,200
Speaker 1: it's doing what it's supposed to do. It's doing what

1622
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 1: it's supposed to do.

1623
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:35,600
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. Like, damn, I wasn't trying to

1624
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:36,719
Speaker 2: be you know, funny.

1625
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:39,840
Speaker 1: Yeah you wasn't. No, I wasn't. I really wasn't.

1626
01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:42,439
Speaker 4: I feel like it's only one person that we know

1627
01:13:42,640 --> 01:13:44,120
Speaker 4: to be etn called fair quid.

1628
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:52,760
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not saying you read that, Bob, do

1629
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 1: not be hitting. Excuse me? Can I please talk to

1630
01:13:55,520 --> 01:13:56,240
Speaker 1: you for a minute?

1631
01:13:57,200 --> 01:14:02,400
Speaker 2: Now we're supposed to be a character.

1632
01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:06,400
Speaker 1: Fine, okay, excuse me? Can I please talk to you

1633
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:09,439
Speaker 1: for a minute? Oh? Sure, you know you look kind

1634
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 1: of familiar? Yeah you do too. But I wanted to

1635
01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:16,479
Speaker 1: know do you know somebody names? Oh? Yeah, definitely you know?

1636
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:19,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, definitely, I know his name. Well, I just

1637
01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:20,920
Speaker 1: want to let you know that he's mine. Well, I

1638
01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:22,719
Speaker 1: just wanna let you know he's mine, bitch.

1639
01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:27,560
Speaker 2: You need to get vide us how the body. No,

1640
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 2: it's not hard to see boy it is mine. I'm

1641
01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 2: sorry now you seem to be confused.

1642
01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:40,040
Speaker 1: He been alongst to me.

1643
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 2: The boy is mine.

1644
01:14:44,320 --> 01:14:46,920
Speaker 1: I think it's your go okay, see who it's time

1645
01:14:46,960 --> 01:14:48,200
Speaker 1: we got this trade.

1646
01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:51,599
Speaker 2: See it in tall face, two face, And there's no

1647
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:54,280
Speaker 2: way you couldn't misstake him for your man?

1648
01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:56,120
Speaker 1: Are you insane? You see that?

1649
01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:59,880
Speaker 2: I know that you maybe just a bit jealless of me,

1650
01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 2: but trouble lyne if you can't see dad, his love

1651
01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 2: is all in me.

1652
01:15:05,400 --> 01:15:08,600
Speaker 1: And see I tried hazard taste. I didn't want to

1653
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:09,760
Speaker 1: see he told me.

1654
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 2: He said without me he could it may get through

1655
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 2: a the tag that shit. But maybe you mean it's

1656
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 2: not because I can't see how he could want to

1657
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:22,479
Speaker 2: change something that's so good.

1658
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:26,719
Speaker 1: All my love is all it too. You need to

1659
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:32,080
Speaker 1: give it up. Had about it enough. It's not hard

1660
01:15:32,160 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 1: to say it's mine. Ye, don't forgive me matter enough.

1661
01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 1: It's not hard to see the ball his mind not

1662
01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:54,519
Speaker 1: your but mine, No but mine?

1663
01:15:57,400 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 2: Because you was trying to outdo me, bitch, Relax, I

1664
01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:05,200
Speaker 2: said we was gonna do a douet, but bring that ship.

1665
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:10,040
Speaker 1: You got me fucked up. You need to give it up.

1666
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:15,160
Speaker 1: You need to give it up. First of all, somebody

1667
01:16:15,200 --> 01:16:17,280
Speaker 1: requested that we do a do it. That's the first

1668
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 1: and last time. Why this is a beyonest? I want

1669
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:24,240
Speaker 1: to think. I want to sing key? Whyatt in the vine?

1670
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:27,720
Speaker 2: Maybe next week you won't punish nigo.

1671
01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:34,640
Speaker 1: She don't let it spray. First of all, don't do that.

1672
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:37,639
Speaker 1: Don't spray. Don't do that. No more, don't do that.

1673
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 1: You don't do that no more.

1674
01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:43,519
Speaker 2: Got some ship in my last I got a little

1675
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 2: crumb right there.

1676
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:51,880
Speaker 1: Not a crumb. It's probably some things the Philaophies. You

1677
01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 1: know your family, like the girl. Don't about my mama.

1678
01:16:56,080 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 1: She watched the episode. I love your mama. Anyway, y'all

1679
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:06,360
Speaker 1: do like I don't eat bao fish. My mama did

1680
01:17:06,400 --> 01:17:09,600
Speaker 1: when she was baby. Sitting home. I can't tell what

1681
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:12,800
Speaker 1: you trying to study. No, I don't I eat.

1682
01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 2: When did you ever seen me eat a fl fish?

1683
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:20,479
Speaker 1: And then you're lying? I was with you last night

1684
01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 1: eating dinner. Shake y'all so much. We'll see y'all next week.

1685
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:33,759
Speaker 1: Bye y'all with a mac flurry First of all, bitch,

1686
01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:41,719
Speaker 1: you ain't never seen me, fucking liar My Quick