1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: All right, so, Pauline and Rufio. 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 2: The cost of childcare OH has increased nearly twenty percent 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 2: between twenty sixteen and twenty twenty one, the latest year 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 2: for which the complete data is available. According to lending Tree, 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 2: excluding tax exemptions or credits, it'll cost twenty one thousand 6 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 2: dollars a year to raise a child at minimum. That 7 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 2: means the typical family spending about two hundred and thirty 8 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,159 Speaker 2: seven four hundred and eighty two thousand dollars over the 9 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 2: course of eighteen years to raise a kid. And that 10 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: is excluding excluding the cost of college. 11 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: Mm hm that college right? 12 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 3: Oh? 13 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: No, mode what college? 14 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 4: It's wild because people want to give me backlash or 15 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 4: like whatever. Have an opinion about having one kid only, 16 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 4: but it's like do you see the numbers, Like it 17 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 4: doesn't make sense for me and my family to have 18 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,200 Speaker 4: for other reasons too, but to have one kid. I mean, 19 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of people are doing that 20 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 4: these days, and I don't blame them. It's really expensive. 21 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 4: I can't even afford myself. How is giving you backlash? 22 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 4: Listen listeners? People, Yeah, like grand people. My own mom 23 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 4: has said, like you sure you don't want another? And 24 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 4: I said, Mom, I know you're coming from a good place. 25 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 4: You know you're just asking because this is like your grandkid, 26 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 4: and I love that for you. But we're not doing 27 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 4: this again. We're one and done. We love it here. 28 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 2: Well, you'd posted a question the other day. We didn't 29 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 2: get to it, but I am curious. Eight five five, five, 30 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 2: one one oh three five? Do you ever wish you 31 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 2: only had one kid? 32 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: Some of your kids? 33 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 2: I guess I could answer the I could ask the 34 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 2: question I'm going to call it depends on the day, I. 35 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: Think, mind us for sure? 36 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 2: I Okay, more importantly, did you only have one kid? 37 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 2: Or did you strongly consider only having one kid? And 38 00:01:45,480 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 2: do you wish that you'd had more? That's that will 39 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 2: ask the question that way. Okay, that's probably a better way. 40 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: Which kid would you erase from your history? 41 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 2: I mean that we can answer it that way too. 42 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 2: It really it's potato, potato, tomato tomato. 43 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, if you had to say one kid, right, perfect, 44 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 4: Jason Brown, one and done, Linda want and done? 45 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: Did great? Well, that might be something to do with it. 46 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 2: But like my sister did I mean, honestly, I don't 47 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,080 Speaker 2: know that she was like gong Ho. Let's go have 48 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 2: another one. I don't think she loved the process of 49 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 2: having a child. I don't think she loved being pregnant. 50 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 2: But she was afraid that Polly would be weird if 51 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,079 Speaker 2: she didn't have a sibling. And that's a quote, that's 52 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 2: a direct quote. 53 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: I've heard that before. I don't know. I feel too 54 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:33,920 Speaker 1: like I've be getting a lot of d MS about this. 55 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 4: I think there's pros and cons to everything, right, so 56 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 4: when it comes to like having more than one kid, 57 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 4: I mean, you've got your pros, your cons. 58 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: It's just whatever works for your family. 59 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 4: But I think for me, I want to put my energy, 60 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 4: my finances, my very little finance, everything that I have, 61 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:48,399 Speaker 4: just into Gabriella. 62 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 1: That's all I want to do. 63 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 4: I want to raise her the best I can, because 64 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 4: it's it doesn't be the best I can. She's got, 65 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 4: you know, her family, the village, everyone's there for her. 66 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 4: I think she'll be okay. And if she's a little 67 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 4: a little weird, she's just like me. Then we're all 68 00:02:59,160 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 4: a little weird, right. 69 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 2: I wonder when my sister thinks she's gonna get two 70 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 2: hundred and thirty seven thousand dollars, so that's you know, 71 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 2: basically five hundred and ten grand. 72 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 5: But you don't look at like I've never looked at 73 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 5: that like before having kids, like, oh gotta have twenty 74 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 5: one thousand dollars a year to have kids. 75 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: You just you just have kids. It's like part of life. 76 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: You just make it work. Yeah, you make it work. 77 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: It is expensive, no kidding. 78 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 4: I bought formula yesterday, I bought diapers and wipes. 79 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: I was like, how much you spent? I spent two 80 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: hundred dollars wipes? 81 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 2: Is that like a like monthly? Would you say you 82 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: spend two hundred bucks a weekly. 83 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: Weekly on formula? Yeah? 84 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 2: Roughly, wow, two three hundred dollars and rufio. You seemed 85 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: a little bit surprised. Apparently you're having like four and 86 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 2: you didn't know this well, I mean the. 87 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 5: Three would be ideal. I mean, uh, two is ideal 88 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 5: as well too. Well, you did have no shor right 89 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 5: up to me there just she came from a family 90 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 5: of three siblings, so and then her sister has three kids, 91 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 5: so I wouldn't mind three, but I would like to 92 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 5: do if we have another one closer to an age 93 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 5: to the second child, like. 94 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: Hey, Jess, twins would have been nice, and I know 95 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: it's happening next month, but like, if you could figure 96 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: out a way to culture up another one somehow or 97 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 2: you know whatever, I. 98 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: Would like a girl. I would like a girl. But yeah, 99 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: I would love to see what you're say. I would 100 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 1: love Yeah, yeah, he'd be a good grew. Yeah, it 101 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 1: would be for Jess. 102 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 5: Just give just because she's raising two boys right now 103 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 5: and then she's gonna get a third in less than 104 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 5: a month. 105 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 2: So just don't do the thing where you keep going 106 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 2: back to the well. Because like my a buddy who 107 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: did that, he had he and in fact his family 108 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 2: I don't understand the story completely, but they really, let's 109 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 2: just put this way, they really wanted a son from him. 110 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 2: I think there was a financial incentive even like I 111 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 2: think there was, like yeah, and so they kept going back. 112 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 2: Three daughters, four women in that house, three daughters, and 113 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: they're all within like two years of each other. 114 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 1: So he's screwed. I mean, my brother in law is screwed. 115 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's gonna have Polly's three May who's three months. 116 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: They're both gonna be in high school the same time, right, 117 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 2: He's have to put them both in college at the 118 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: same time. And if you think that he's raising these 119 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 2: kids on two hundred and thirty seven thousand, whatever, not 120 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 2: my sister's way. Hell now, hello Christina, good morning, How you. 121 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 1: Doing, Good morning? 122 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 2: How are you very well? So you have two kids, 123 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: and that's enough for you? You wish you had more, 124 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 2: you wish you had fewer? Which one would you eliminate? 125 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 6: So I had two kids. They're four years apart, not 126 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 6: by design, but are not by choice but by design. 127 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 6: And if my husband and I could have had more kids, 128 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 6: we would have. But we have what's called secondary infertility. 129 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 6: So it just was never in our cars, okay, And 130 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 6: I mean like we had means, we just didn't, you know, 131 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 6: just make sure did not provide, you know what I mean? 132 00:05:47,320 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 6: And like I would have had my kids closer together. 133 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 6: But now that you know my son's in high school 134 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 6: and my daughter's in middle school, it's like, thank God 135 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,919 Speaker 6: that they're four years apart, because then again, what you 136 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 6: were saying before, you know, at least my kid it 137 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 6: will not be going to college and university at the 138 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 6: same time. 139 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, my god. 140 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 2: I mean we know some other people like that who 141 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 2: have several kids in college at the same time. And 142 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 2: then when when you think you're done that he's got 143 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 2: like another young one, like a random straggler young one. 144 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 2: It's just still coming up. And it's like, oh god, 145 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 2: we thought we were done. No, we got this other one. 146 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 2: We're going to put through college, and you put the 147 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 2: other ones through college. You can't tell the last one, 148 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 2: like you know what. I give up on this, like 149 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: you know what, you figure it out, like top over it. 150 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:27,560 Speaker 2: Thank you, Christina, have a great day. 151 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 6: Can I just add one thing? 152 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 1: Yes, of course. 153 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 6: And Pauline, I know you just had a baby. Mm 154 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 6: hmm my sister mama, she said that she was she 155 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 6: was one and done. See and now she's got to Yeah, 156 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 6: she now got two under two, so you never know. 157 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 1: Wow, well I got my you never know. You checked yesterday, So. 158 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 2: I actually don't call it an iou because that's like 159 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 2: this one still coming. I mean like, well we'll get 160 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: you one of these days. Thank you, Christina, have a 161 00:06:57,440 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 2: good day. 162 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 4: I have a good one. 163 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 1: Well good, I'm glad everything still there. It's still there. 164 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: I thought it fell out for five minutes. I was 165 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: fell out. I did. I was like, I don't think 166 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: it's in there. So when they checked, we're good. 167 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: Okay, well, I mean, I know they do come out, 168 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 2: but anybodys they fell out, but you know, hey whatever, 169 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: you know, however it works. Hey Wendy, Hey Wendy, good morning. 170 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 2: Just one kid and it's perfect. It's lovely. You love 171 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:23,600 Speaker 2: it every single second. 172 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 7: That's right. 173 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 2: Okay, that's it. You're just like, hey, I had one. 174 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 2: I'm happy. That's that's all you wanted to say. 175 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,040 Speaker 7: Yep, yep, one and done. Never regret it. 176 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: Was that always the plan. 177 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 6: Weird? 178 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 7: Actually, no, we were going to have to and we 179 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 7: were at the threshold of making that decision and we 180 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 7: babysat our dear friends. Little nearborn cried for five hours. 181 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 7: My husband walked down the hall asking for dinner. My 182 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 7: child was on my leg saying you love the baby 183 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 7: more than me, and I decided in that very moment. 184 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: No, okay, fair enough. 185 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 2: But you're saying, do you have a son or a daughter? 186 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 2: I have a daughter and she's not weird. 187 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 7: No, normal, shares caring. One of the nicest people. Actually, 188 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 7: you know, a lot more well adjusted than kids that 189 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 7: come from a family of five. 190 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: Sometimes. Okay, that's all right, there you go. 191 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Ashley without a sibling, I think would 192 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: be a dangerous I am so. 193 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 5: Scared when this, when his brother comes, I don't know 194 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 5: how he's gonna act. I'm really scared because his beautiful 195 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 5: life is coming to an end. Beautiful Astly is four 196 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 5: and a half. So he he understands, you know, he understands. 197 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 5: But we'll see, he says, he understands. But I don't 198 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 5: know when that attention goes to somewhere else, will see 199 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 5: what happens. 200 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, Wendy, thank you the day here too, thank you 201 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 2: for listening or not here we're going to here comes 202 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 2: to honesty. 203 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:54,559 Speaker 1: Julian. 204 00:08:56,080 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 2: Hello Julian, you got a son and twin girls? Yes, 205 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 2: And if you had it to do over again, what. 206 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: Would you do? 207 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 8: Well? 208 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 6: I had three of them in college at one time. 209 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 210 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: Okay, so one of them has to go basically what 211 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 2: you're saying, one of them's got to go. 212 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,439 Speaker 9: Yeah. I probably would have had my son and stopped 213 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 9: if I had known I was going to have twins. 214 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: Oh wow. 215 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 7: And the girls are much harder to raise than boys are, okind. 216 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: And how old are the twins? 217 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,439 Speaker 9: They're twenty eight and my son's now thirty. 218 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: One, and they're still hard to raise. At twenty eight. 219 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 9: Yes they are. 220 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,959 Speaker 5: For the twins would have been like y'all sharing this tuition. 221 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 5: You guys could switch days and go to whatever tup 222 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 5: for one to raise it right. 223 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 9: The other thing is when they were babies, you don't 224 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:48,079 Speaker 9: think about it, but when your kid is drinking four 225 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 9: bottles of formula at eight ounces in a day, that 226 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 9: is sixty four ounces between two kids. 227 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: Wow, whoa wow. 228 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 2: So what I'm hearing you say is you love your kids, 229 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 2: but there's an asterisk, there's a caveatea thank you, Julian, have. 230 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 1: A great day. 231 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 2: I'm sure my mom will hear this later because she 232 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,719 Speaker 2: listens to the podcast later when she wakes up, and 233 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 2: she'll probably tell you that she's still raising me at 234 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 2: forty three, and she is. Basically we talk all the time. 235 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: I think maybe she at this point now, that's what 236 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 2: reason she's gotten less selective about who I marry, because 237 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 2: it's like somebody else, please, like, will somebody manage this guy? 238 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: Like anybody? Like when I was in my twenties, it 239 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 2: had to be the perfect woman. Now I think it's 240 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 2: just like and now I think she doesn't. I think 241 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 2: she doesn't want you to she likes you know, having 242 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 2: conversations with you every day. Well, I do think she 243 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 2: likes that, right, Yeah, you could still do that. Oh 244 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 2: and trust me, she still manages to make sure I 245 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 2: know who she doesn't like. 246 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: Oh boy, what a bad life that would be. 247 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, No, it's like, honestly, if Amanda, if you're 248 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 2: out with Amanda and Amy, sister and mom respectively, there's 249 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,559 Speaker 2: no turning back. I think my sister would tolerate. I 250 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:00,080 Speaker 2: think she would pretend, but she would make you miss 251 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 2: like you'd know, like she would pretend, but you'd know. 252 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 1: My mom would not. 253 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 2: I can't like, And we've talked about this before my 254 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 2: mom and she gets older, like I just physically can't 255 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: take her certain places because she'll just tell people what 256 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 2: she really thinks and she just doesn't care. I don't 257 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: know if that's just like you just earned that, Yes, 258 00:11:17,960 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 2: you do. You just earn your stripes. Yes, at a 259 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:22,199 Speaker 2: certain point in life. But the problem is, like she 260 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 2: can be liberated in that way. I'm the one who 261 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 2: has to pay for it. I'm the one who has 262 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 2: to be Know your mom doesn't like me. You're right, 263 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 2: she just told you that. 264 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 5: Since since moving here, have you ever brought anyone home 265 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 5: to meet your mom. 266 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 1: Hey, how you doing? Save me? 267 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 2: Immediately you were an only child, you had an only sibling. 268 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 2: The wait a minute, so what are we talking about 269 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 2: you or are we talking about your like how many 270 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:53,559 Speaker 2: kids you're going to have? 271 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 8: Got? 272 00:11:54,520 --> 00:11:55,199 Speaker 1: Myself? 273 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 10: So I am the oldest is two. My brother and 274 00:11:58,800 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 10: I are four years apart. And honestly wish I either 275 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 10: had an older sibling or I was an only child 276 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 10: because with me, my parents were super strict, super hard 277 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:13,880 Speaker 10: on me, also gave me the most attention until I 278 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 10: was four my brother came along. Once my brother came along, 279 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 10: I had like no attention. I was kind of like 280 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 10: pushing aside. 281 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 1: And I mean, I know how to do everything. I 282 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 1: know how to wipe my own butt. 283 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 10: I could do summersaults and he just kind of laid 284 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 10: there and and then slept and pooped all day. 285 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to be more important wiping your butt 286 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 2: of the summersaults, because I'm not sure I can't do 287 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:35,679 Speaker 2: a summer result, so you can. 288 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: I don't think so I think I hurt my. 289 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 10: I would say probably wiping your own butt. 290 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 7: You don't want to have a. 291 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 2: Rash, No, you don't want to, but yeah, I don't know, Holly, 292 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:48,319 Speaker 2: you have a great day. 293 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 1: Oh no, and then what and then what finish your thought? 294 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 1: I'm sorry? 295 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 10: And then I feel like my little brother. Kind of 296 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 10: they gave up and they were just like, do whatever 297 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:57,200 Speaker 10: you want, go wherever you want, super strict on me. 298 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: But he could do no wrongs. 299 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 2: Well that was my sister. She could do all the wrong. 300 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 2: She could do all the wrong. But she they let 301 00:13:04,280 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 2: her do whatever she wanted. But then again with eight 302 00:13:06,400 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 2: years apart, so it was just like, forget about it. 303 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 2: I think they were just done. Thank you, Holly, have 304 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 2: a good day. Thanks But I kind of got only child. 305 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 2: I got only child for a little while, and then 306 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 2: I then she came along. But see now that and 307 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 2: then when she was really young and I was like 308 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 2: a teenager, that was annoying. But now that we're the 309 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,079 Speaker 2: you know, as you get older, the age gap, I 310 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 2: think sort of becomes less and less prevalent. I mean 311 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,319 Speaker 2: she's in her mid thirties and I'm in my early forties, 312 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 2: and so like now we're the same basically, you know 313 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 2: what I mean as far as like maturity and interests 314 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 2: and stuff like that. So now it's good. It was 315 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 2: never bad, but it was just annoying. I had nothing 316 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 2: in common with her. You know, I'm in high school 317 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 2: and she's eight, you know what I mean. Like I'm 318 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 2: trying to, like, you know what I was trying to 319 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 2: do unsuccessfully, and she's like looking through the cracks, trying 320 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 2: to catch me, tell on me. 321 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:52,719 Speaker 8: And then you're trying to tell on her. Yeah, I 322 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 8: came home, you damn right. Yeah, that's what you get payback, guys. 323 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 8: It is misunderstand here with NASA. They've delayed the return 324 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 8: to Earth for their Boeing Starliner aircraft crew thing. I 325 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 8: think it's not called a crew thing, but whatever. NASA 326 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 8: astronauts of the International Space Station. They guess up there 327 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 8: for at least another week or so. Butch and Sony 328 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,840 Speaker 8: are up there. Butch Willmore, that's an astronaut right there, 329 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 8: and he's a real astronaut. 330 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 2: He's in the space station. As you know from the 331 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 2: Fred Show. Constitution that constitutes a real astronaut. Not Jeff Bezos. 332 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 2: Not Hey, I'm up here in space. I've floated around 333 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 2: for like thirty seconds. No now, No, Butch is a 334 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 2: real astronaut. So is Sonny Williams. They launched them Cape 335 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 2: Canaveral on board Boeing Starliner spacecraft last Wednesday. This marked 336 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 2: the capsule's first crude mission. NASA and Boeing gave an 337 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 2: up to yesterday, saying the astronauts will we re turn 338 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 2: to Earth no later than June eighteenth, so that engineers 339 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 2: can keep an eye on a couple of small helium 340 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 2: leaks that they're having up there. So I'm sure they 341 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 2: I'm sure they screwed everything in. Honestly, this is miss 342 00:14:56,880 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 2: this is a miscommunication. Everything's fine, It's Boeing, of course 343 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 2: is fine. At this point, I'll be like, yo, Bezos, 344 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 2: let me hitch a rock. 345 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know you're running, but can you get 346 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: that thing up here at. 347 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 8: Quick? 348 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 2: I wonder if they can send like another if they 349 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 2: have a backup. They have to have a backup ship 350 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 2: of some kind. They can't just keep them up there forever, 351 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 2: like one of those things. What if it doesn't work, 352 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 2: They got to get some other uber to go up 353 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 2: there and get them. I mean, honestly, but yeah, that 354 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 2: would make me nervous. The thing was broken to get 355 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 2: up there, and now it's broken to come back. They 356 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 2: probably even think about that, right, They're like, wow, I 357 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 2: got to fix Now we're here. Everything's good. Oh no, 358 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: now we got to go back. Boy, I wonder Spirit 359 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 2: can go get them. Do you think Spirit mean Spirit 360 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 2: could absolutely get the job done. Yeah, yeah, Spirit goes. 361 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 2: I mean it would cost a lot because I mean 362 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 2: they probably have things they. 363 00:15:44,560 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 1: Have to bring back. They should have took Spirit to 364 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 1: get up there. They probably should have. 365 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 6: Yeah. 366 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 2: Apple has revealed to push into AI a bunch of 367 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,720 Speaker 2: new features for their iPhones, Max and iPads. People are 368 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 2: making a big deal out of this Apple intelligence that 369 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 2: will be integrated into Siri, allowing the assistant to retain 370 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 2: contexts from previous requests and improve its language comprehension. 371 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: So we're excited about that. I guess, Oh yeah, I 372 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: don't know. 373 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,680 Speaker 2: And when it comes to ranking cities for staycations, Orlando 374 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 2: is number one out of one hundred and eighty two cities. 375 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 2: Wallet Hub use a number of metrics including things to do, 376 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 2: restaurant costs, parks, spas, massage costs, summer weather, et cetera. 377 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 2: Why trying to go to Orlando in the summer. Maybe 378 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 2: it's cheaper at Disney, But is it cheaper at Disney 379 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: in the Summer's more expensive? 380 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: Really it is. Yeah, because everyone's on summer game. 381 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: God miserable. I would think they'd make it more expensive 382 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 2: in the winter when it's like more tolerably. No, they 383 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 2: make you more affordable because no one wants to go. 384 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 2: You know, they got people got this all wrong. Yeah, 385 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 2: you want to go to Florida in the wintertime, that's 386 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 2: what you are You sure about that? 387 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:45,360 Speaker 5: I am sure about because I've gone in the summer 388 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 5: twice and it's expensive. 389 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 1: Spring break that's expensive too. 390 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's cold in a lot of places 391 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 2: you go there, the weather's nicer. 392 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: I would think they would charge more. 393 00:16:53,560 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 2: But anyway, Orlando is uh the top place for staycation Honolulu, Cincinnati, Ohio, Okay, 394 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:07,160 Speaker 2: Las Vegas, Tampa, Chicago, San Diego, Atlanta, New Orleans, and Tucson. Tucson, 395 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 2: Arizona top ten for staycations. I guess you gotta remember 396 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 2: you're already living there for the most part. I mean, 397 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 2: I don't know who's like you're not. It's not a staycation. 398 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 2: I guess if you fly there and stay in a hotel, 399 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 2: that would then be a vacation. 400 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 11: I guess, isn't that old timy like Western Town in Tucson. 401 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 1: It was on Jersey Shore family vacation. There's a few 402 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: of them, but yeah, what was it called? I want 403 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: to watch anythink of Jerome. It's been around since like 404 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 1: the night that one. Yeah, there's a bunch of them. 405 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 5: Jerome's the one on the hill on the you gotta 406 00:17:35,600 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 5: climb to drive up the hill, had the mine. 407 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 2: There are several of them, and then there's some fake 408 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 2: ones too. There used to be called raw Hide. We 409 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 2: used to go to as a kid. Oh yeah, please 410 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 2: go Rawhide for your birthday? 411 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: Was yep? 412 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, Christopher's eight. Let's celebrate in nineteen eighty eight PM 413 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 2: red shirt to the sheriff. Yes, everyone got a shirt. 414 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,399 Speaker 2: They're collectible now, yeah, I hope, I hope. I'm sure 415 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:56,360 Speaker 2: kids held onto those. 416 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, they were rare. Doesn't have an extra one. 417 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 2: I don't know if she does. And they had like 418 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 2: a red sheriff's thing on it. Oh yeah, well I 419 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:03,919 Speaker 2: was still an only child when I was eight. So 420 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 2: what was the name of raw Hide? You could mine 421 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 2: for gold. They had like painted little rocks, gold rocks 422 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 2: you could mind from, you know. They had like an 423 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: old like a western town. They had a western show 424 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,200 Speaker 2: that had a petting zoo at raw Hide. Oh yeah, no, 425 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 2: it's a big deal. Yeah, you can get like a saloon. 426 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 2: You go to the saloon, get like a steak or something. 427 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:26,080 Speaker 2: I think they tore it down and put condos there. Sadly, 428 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:30,639 Speaker 2: but Santa Ana, California, Marino Valley, Laredo, Texas is the 429 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 2: worst places, by the way. Santa Clarita, Yonkers, New York 430 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 2: one of the worst places for a staycation. 431 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 1: Pearl City, Hawaii. 432 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 2: I didn't know you could have a bad time in Hawaii, 433 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 2: but you know, I guess you don't want to have 434 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 2: a staycation in Pearl City, Irving, Texas. In Fremont, California. Oh, 435 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:48,360 Speaker 2: one more AI story for your Researchers are exploring how 436 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 2: AI will someday be able to interpret dog vocalizations, possibly 437 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 2: distinguishing between playful barks and aggressive growls, and even identifying 438 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 2: characteristics such as age, breed, and gen of the dog. 439 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 2: So someday with about so far they have fifty percent accuracy. 440 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 2: But someday they're saying that you'll be able to use 441 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:13,880 Speaker 2: AI to understand what your dog is saying. Maybe my dream, Well, 442 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 2: but I prefer just to do I prefer to just 443 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 2: translate myself like I have the dialogue already with my dog. 444 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:21,480 Speaker 2: Like we just we talked to each other, and I 445 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 2: say what she's gonna say, and then I already know 446 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:25,119 Speaker 2: to me. 447 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 11: She's doctor Doolittle. I can't say. She'll text me and 448 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:28,959 Speaker 11: be like Chance wanted you to know this and this 449 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 11: and this. I'm like, girl, I can't understand him. 450 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: Oh no, you know we did the same thing. 451 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 2: I called the house. Lily says, Hi, she's asking about you. Yeah, 452 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,679 Speaker 2: she wants to know where you've been. No, and she 453 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:41,080 Speaker 2: probably doesn't want to know where I've been. I believe them. 454 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:44,400 Speaker 2: It's National Call your doctor Day, So do that. And everyone, 455 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,280 Speaker 2: well Paulina did yesterday and everything's in her io used 456 00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:48,680 Speaker 2: in place. 457 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 1: That's all is well. 458 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 2: The entertainment reporting blogs next day or Go will debate 459 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 2: some relationship drama all coming up Fred's show. 460 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:57,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they excited. 461 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the friendship who writing 462 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 2: in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 463 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Caitlin, you're ready, yes, take it away, 464 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: dear blog. 465 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 11: So I am very very curious what you guys think 466 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 11: about this, And I feel like everyone is gonna have 467 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,600 Speaker 11: their a different opinion in this room, But how much 468 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:22,199 Speaker 11: weight do you put on social media in general and 469 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,120 Speaker 11: also when you're in a relationship. 470 00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 1: So recently it got back. 471 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 11: To me a friend of mine mine told me that 472 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:38,160 Speaker 11: some people were talking about my relationship and the difference 473 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 11: between which my boyfriend posts me on social media and 474 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 11: I post him on social media. Okay, which is interesting 475 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 11: to be talking about in itself, because like, hmm, But basically, 476 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 11: these people were saying that they were super concerned for 477 00:20:56,240 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 11: my boyfriend because he posts me a lot more. He 478 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:04,400 Speaker 11: you know, expresses his feelings a lot more on social 479 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 11: and I don't really post him that much, and so 480 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 11: I must not like him. I must be hiding him. 481 00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 11: They're concerned for him. Wow, very interesting? 482 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: Who are these people? Exactly? Very interesting? And you would 483 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 1: think of that. 484 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,919 Speaker 11: Right now, right and you'd be interested to know that 485 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,959 Speaker 11: they never once reached out to him to go, yo, 486 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 11: I'm concerned. You're just you're just running your mouths okay. 487 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 11: So I just think it's very interesting. We have these 488 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 11: conversations all the. 489 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: Time, you know. 490 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 11: Some people have their certain social media rules. Some people 491 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 11: are really into looking at who views your stories. Some people, 492 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 11: some people want to be posted. I feel like, A, 493 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 11: if I was a dude who wasn't posting my girl, 494 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 11: I'd be like keeping. 495 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 1: A player, you know. And B I've just never been 496 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 1: like that, you know. And I'm no. 497 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 2: I'm because if you're like that doesn't post, you're keeping 498 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,280 Speaker 2: a player. But you're a girl who doesn't post that much, 499 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 2: so you keeping it plower. 500 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 11: Because I'm a girl that's not posting, I must be 501 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 11: hiding him or not liking him. I just feel like 502 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 11: it's a little bit of a double standard. I feel 503 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,679 Speaker 11: like that's just my personal opinion. You don't have to 504 00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 11: agree with me. First of all, I don't run his 505 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 11: social and I'm not a girl who's like, please post me. 506 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 11: It's just never been my thing. I don't really care. 507 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 11: He can post whatever he wants. If he wants to 508 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 11: post me, go for it. Never ask for that. Don't 509 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 11: need that. Sometimes I just feel like A I move 510 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 11: a little slower and be I like to have something 511 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 11: just for myself. They would be happy to know I 512 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,199 Speaker 11: have a close friend story that I post him all 513 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,960 Speaker 11: the time. Sometimes I just don't like to share every 514 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 11: little thing of what I'm doing. 515 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 2: Oh my not a close friend because I don't see 516 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 2: him all the time. Oh that's good to know. 517 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,919 Speaker 1: Anyway. I guess I'm a work friend. I'm just a 518 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:55,719 Speaker 1: work I'm just I'm just as I gotta earn it. 519 00:22:56,440 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: I gotta earn it. Hello, Yeah, how long did it take? 520 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I think without you, guys, I don't think 521 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 1: you have to. 522 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 2: I don't think you you don't have to post anybody 523 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 2: you don't want to post, especially if you guys have 524 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 2: discussed it. I mean, I guess if I were posting 525 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,440 Speaker 2: you all the time and you never posted me and 526 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 2: we never talked about it, then I might start to 527 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,199 Speaker 2: feel a certain kind of way about it. The other 528 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 2: thing is, are you know I know that he has 529 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 2: a public job, but we have a more public job. 530 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,360 Speaker 2: And I've had this argument in really, I'm not dissing him, 531 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 2: I'm not docing him. I'm just saying our listeners are 532 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,919 Speaker 2: very into our lives. They're they're very connected to us. 533 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 2: And I've had this argument with people I've dated before too, 534 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 2: where it's like, well, I post you on my private 535 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 2: Instagram for my friends and family only, many of whom 536 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,439 Speaker 2: you've met, but you don't post me on your public 537 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 2: social media. And I think those are two different things. Now, 538 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 2: the people and there was one particular person I dated 539 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 2: who we never saw an eye on them. It was like, Okay, 540 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:01,679 Speaker 2: well I'm gonna start posting you and then people are 541 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 2: gonna write nasty stuff in the comments and they're you're 542 00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 2: not gonna like it. Yeah, And they're gonna either gonna 543 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 2: friend you on you know, they're gonna request you on 544 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 2: all these platforms that you don't want. You don't you 545 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 2: don't know these folks, and you may not want to 546 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 2: approve them, and so we'll go ahead. 547 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 9: And do that. 548 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 2: Me though, not posting you is more of a protection 549 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 2: mechanism than it is me not being you know, wanted 550 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 2: to be with you. Because I talk about relationships I'm 551 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 2: in all the time. I just think there's a it's 552 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,200 Speaker 2: just two different things. 553 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:28,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 554 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 11: I also think like, so the people that we're talking 555 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 11: about it have never been in the same room with 556 00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 11: us together, never seen us together, which is where you 557 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 11: should be able to tell if someone like someone right, right. 558 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 11: And so we're putting more weight on social media than 559 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 11: we are on like real life interactions. And I just 560 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,719 Speaker 11: think it's interesting, you know, everyone in this room posts 561 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 11: a different level of their significant other. 562 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,160 Speaker 1: Kiki doesn't post at all. Big Tim never. Well that's 563 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:52,919 Speaker 1: because she's singles. 564 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 3: That's right, my girls saying, And I won't until I'm married. 565 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 3: Because a big Tim as you know today might be 566 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 3: another Big Tim side on Friday. 567 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 2: Well he could be because I've never seen the real 568 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 2: Big Tim. So you could bring another guy. 569 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: Can at least be close friends on that post? 570 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,719 Speaker 3: Everybody's my close friend, that's my problem. I think everybody 571 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 3: is a close friend. 572 00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:12,920 Speaker 1: Clearly not. 573 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 3: But but Big Tim, Yeah, he will never see the 574 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:19,879 Speaker 3: light of social media because you know, for what what? 575 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 3: What's the reason you don't need to be on my 576 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 3: social media? It doesn't dictate how I love him, though, 577 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 3: you know he has a great life with me. 578 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 1: That's your toys, and every one has a choice. Can 579 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 1: you post me, babe? 580 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 7: No? 581 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 1: No, no, no no, he actually stopped. 582 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 3: He took away his whole social media like he's just 583 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:39,640 Speaker 3: off social media altogether. 584 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:47,320 Speaker 1: A girl, and I love doing as easily, I guess 585 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 1: exactly on my birthday, I'm not gonna lie. 586 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 3: I'm like, dang, like I kind of wish my man, 587 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 3: would you know, because he used to be he's to 588 00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 3: post me all you looked at his old pages is 589 00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 3: all me. 590 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,440 Speaker 1: So you know, I'm like, I kind of missed that, 591 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,680 Speaker 1: But I can't have the best of us bros. Like, 592 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: let's because you were running his social media. 593 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 4: So I used to one of those girls that would 594 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 4: truly believe like, oh, if you don't post your you're 595 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 4: just gonna make it other then you guys, I don't 596 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 4: know one likes more than the other or whatever. 597 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:14,719 Speaker 1: Right. I used to believe that wholeheartedly. 598 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 4: But what I've realized now is that these people, especially 599 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 4: when it comes to that anniversary post. 600 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,640 Speaker 1: And it's like two pages long, there's. 601 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 4: Usually a lot of stuff under that, like it's not 602 00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 4: what it seems the whole Like we've been through hell 603 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 4: and back, you're going through hell there. 604 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 11: The more you write, the more it's not doing well. No, Like, 605 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 11: the longer the caption, the more problems you're going through. 606 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 2: In my experience, social media appearances are not what they seems. 607 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 3: And we've all admitted that we read into people's relationship 608 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 3: based off their social media posts, like you just say it, 609 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 3: like we judge you off of your social media post. 610 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 1: So sometimes it's safer to just not do it. 611 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 10: For what right? 612 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:58,440 Speaker 1: Can anything just be private? Right, are no? Actually no, 613 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,880 Speaker 1: I'm more concerned with why none of us are well, 614 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,160 Speaker 1: I should say none of us just waiting to hear 615 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:08,640 Speaker 1: who the worst talking smack Fred, Oh that'll be nice. 616 00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 2: I guess I'm about to hear in eight seconds after 617 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,760 Speaker 2: I tell you to say or go his next after. 618 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,880 Speaker 1: It's the friend Show. Now, let's talk about the fread 619 00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:33,560 Speaker 1: show is on Friend's Fun Facts. Fun guys. 620 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 2: Did you know that some cats are allergic to human beings? 621 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 2: So a lot of a lot of humans are allergic 622 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 2: to cats right around me as I am as well, 623 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 2: aren't you? I'm allergic to cats? Yeah, I mean I. 624 00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: Like a cat. I like a cat's vibe. I do 625 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 1: like a cat. 626 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,439 Speaker 2: I mean my mom has always had cat. Growing up, 627 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,119 Speaker 2: we always had cats. I'm in their chill, like I 628 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 2: like him to hear me. Go ahead, rufie, I like 629 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 2: a cat. You're going to isolate that. I mean, go ahead, 630 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 2: I like a cat. Right. 631 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 1: Let me make it clear for you. 632 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:09,399 Speaker 2: I like a cat, right, I'm allergic, not interested. But 633 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 2: it turns out tho they're just like humans. Animals of 634 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,040 Speaker 2: all kinds can have allergies to a variety of substances. 635 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: Although it's rare. 636 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 2: Some pets are allergic to our own dead skin cells, 637 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 2: known as dander. Different pets can be allergic to each 638 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 2: other's danderd as well. Common allergy symptoms include breathing difficulties 639 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 2: or skin irritation. So just the same way as you 640 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,639 Speaker 2: might be allergic to a cat, a cat could be 641 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:35,440 Speaker 2: allergic to you as well. That might explain why some 642 00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 2: people don't like cats, because the cats, I mean to 643 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 2: them or something, because they're allergic. Yeah, trying to get 644 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 2: away from you. Yeah, I mean, I hate to say it, 645 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 2: like on a dating alb or whatever, if I see 646 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 2: cats and I'm just like, it's not gonna work out. 647 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 1: I can't do it. 648 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 2: I can't because I'm really like, this is really kind 649 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 2: of bad. I get, you know, I get like the 650 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 2: watery eyes and the whole thing. It's not worth the risk, 651 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 2: I guess not. But then I go home my grabma 652 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 2: mom's rag dolling like you know, his name is Moose. Yeah, 653 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,200 Speaker 2: why you're disgusted. 654 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 1: I didn't say anything. 655 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 2: I didn't even say I grabbed my mom's cat. I 656 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 2: said I grabbed my mom's rag doll. 657 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 1: Okay, But like, why couldn't I You could say my mom's. 658 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 8: Cat exactly exactly, but no, Cakey's on. 659 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 1: There you go, you got okay. I don't need two 660 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: of you. 661 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 2: Moose is a big ass cat, and I like Moose 662 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,719 Speaker 2: and I hold him anyway, even tho I'm allergy, Jim, 663 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 2: I don't care. 664 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 1: I call it big Moose too. I got I gotta 665 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:43,959 Speaker 1: more Fred show next right here. 666 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 2: Our blogs, audio journals like writing in our diaries, Paulina, Yes. 667 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,640 Speaker 1: Take it away, Thank you so much, dear blog. So 668 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 1: I got a friend. You guys know my best friend. 669 00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,040 Speaker 1: You know, he has a lot of opinions. He's uh, 670 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,520 Speaker 1: he's you know, just he's Jonathan Ray. We all know Jonathan. 671 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 4: Everybody has that one friend who I feel like just 672 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,200 Speaker 4: speaks their mind. And right now I think he's mad 673 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 4: at me. And he told me it's because I don't 674 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 4: set him up with people. Now, let me explain and 675 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 4: break that down a little bit more. It's more I 676 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 4: don't set him up with people because I don't. He 677 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 4: thinks I don't care enough to or whatever. If I mention, 678 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 4: oh I met somebody whatever, and my best friend is gay, 679 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 4: so he'll be like, oh, you know, I'll bring up 680 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 4: another man or whatever, and he'll be like, and he 681 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 4: didn't mention me. I thought he was kidding. I thought 682 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 4: this man was kidding. He is not kidding. He goes 683 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 4: he didn't mention me, and I'm like, why would I 684 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 4: mention him talking about business or something else, or like 685 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,959 Speaker 4: someone's asking about I don't know some thing that I'm doing. 686 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,240 Speaker 4: I'm like, why would you be brought up? And he 687 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 4: was just so offended. And he wants to get specifically 688 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 4: with someone that I know, and I don't know this 689 00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 4: other person's gay though, So now. 690 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 1: My issue was like that would best time, but that's. 691 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 4: So inappropriate to my I mean to ask somebody like 692 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 4: and be like, you know, I mean, I think he's gay. 693 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 4: Most of us think he's gay. I think he gives gay. 694 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,480 Speaker 4: Is he going to be something if he's not. I 695 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 4: think I'm confident he gives gay, But I well, you know, 696 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,680 Speaker 4: he'll say certain things and I could pick up on it, right, 697 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,560 Speaker 4: I'm like, Okay, I see things like I like man. 698 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 1: Much, I mean pretty much, and and my other friends 699 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 1: the manhole this weekend, like what that's what I'm saying? 700 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: And what what what sorts? I love the. 701 00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 2: Property brothers, Like what's what sort of things is he saying. 702 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 2: I mean, let's figure that out first. 703 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 4: Well, my friend did some investigation and I guess asked 704 00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 4: him something about a vacation and he's like, yeah, like 705 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 4: my friend that I travel with. 706 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:58,520 Speaker 1: He this he that he doesn't mean he's gay either. 707 00:31:58,840 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: I mean it doesn't, but. 708 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 4: You know the way that he's talking about his friend, 709 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 4: they're traveling and things sound a little sexy. In my opinion, 710 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 4: it sounds like it might be a guy he's seeing. 711 00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 4: So I just I can't shut up ask him that. 712 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 4: I feel rude asking him that. So I'm picking up 713 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 4: on the cues here. But if he is, I would 714 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 4: love to set them up, but I can't get over 715 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 4: this step first at to find out is he even 716 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 4: interested in Jonathan. 717 00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 2: Why don't you just put them in the same place 718 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 2: together and then let him do the work so that 719 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 2: you don't have to be the middle person. I can 720 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 2: try that, I can see what I can and let 721 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 2: him do his own investigation. Because that way then you 722 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 2: don't have to ask the uncomfortable questions. Thank you, you 723 00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 2: don't have to be told no, you don't have to 724 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 2: be the messenger. I mean, I get it, but I've 725 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:34,840 Speaker 2: given you a hard time over the years for not 726 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 2: setting me up with your hot friends. 727 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,200 Speaker 1: If one in particular, well that was early on. That 728 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 1: was early I think it was just one hot friend. 729 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 1: It was one hot friend. You just wouldn't do it. No, 730 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 1: I would not not do it. 731 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 4: I was just like trying to keep my job. I 732 00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 4: was so new here and I didn't talk back yet. 733 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 4: I was like a little afraid. I was like, I 734 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 4: don't want to like you talked, you said, you said no, yeah, 735 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 4: I don't know. I was very afraid if this was today. 736 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,000 Speaker 4: But I don't blame but I don't blame you, because 737 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:05,200 Speaker 4: it gets weird when it. Trust me, it gets weird 738 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 4: when there's middle people involved, you know, in one person 739 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 4: or the other. 740 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 2: Ax up. 741 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 1: Look, I get that. 742 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:12,720 Speaker 2: I get that it can be awkward to be sort 743 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 2: of in the middle of a situation like that, and 744 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 2: so it's sort of like, hey, but but what you 745 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 2: don't get to do, which a lot of people do, 746 00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,680 Speaker 2: is dabble, like get in the middle of it, and 747 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,920 Speaker 2: then when it goes bad, then step away like, oh. 748 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 1: I had nothing to do with it. You no, no, no, 749 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: I'm telling you this was today. 750 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 2: You either avoid it or you either you either support 751 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 2: it or you avoid it, but you don't get to 752 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:33,000 Speaker 2: play the middle. 753 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 1: That is true. 754 00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 4: I agree with that, but I'm telling if it was today, 755 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 4: like look at my friends, I'll let him up for you. 756 00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,640 Speaker 1: You can take a pic. I don't care. At that time, 757 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 1: I think it was like a different me, different like mentality. Now, 758 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,160 Speaker 1: I would love. I would love if you got one 759 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:44,600 Speaker 1: of my friends. 760 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 4: I would love I recommended you to my friends. Wow 761 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 4: I have I'm like, I know a good guy. 762 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: Thank you. Don't tell Jonathan because he'll I was. 763 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 2: Gonna say, Jonathan's like he thinks it sounds like he 764 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 2: thinks every man should you should be like, hey, a 765 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 2: nice to meet you. How I'm pulling them on the radio. 766 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 2: And then oh, by the way, would you like to 767 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 2: have sex with my friend? Jonathan? Like I don't. 768 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 1: That's not how it goes. 769 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 4: No, Like you have to meet them. You have to click, 770 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 4: you know, see if there is a vibe, you catch 771 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,480 Speaker 4: a vibe on each other. Gay, Yeah, we'll find out. 772 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 1: First step that part is. 773 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,279 Speaker 2: I would say that would be priority number one, right 774 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 2: if you're looking for a high level of success. But 775 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 2: I do think that at this point, if I'm going 776 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:27,400 Speaker 2: to meet anybody who I'm going to be with, like, 777 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 2: really really be with. I do think it's going to 778 00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 2: be a setup. It's going to be somebody who knows 779 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 2: me well saying to someone else who they know well, 780 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,359 Speaker 2: you know, this is a match. Like I think that's 781 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 2: the only way it's truly going to work because the 782 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 2: dating apps every time are a total crapshoot. You have 783 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 2: no idea what you're really getting on either side, and 784 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,320 Speaker 2: I don't know how people are. We've talked about this, 785 00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 2: you know, for hours on the show about dating apps, 786 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 2: but it's a hot or not game. It is not 787 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 2: a chemistry game. And I feel like the chemistry is 788 00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 2: probably what keeps people together and and also somebody vouching 789 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:08,000 Speaker 2: for common interests in common you know, uh, the quality 790 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,680 Speaker 2: of the human you know what I mean, Like you 791 00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,279 Speaker 2: just don't know. You don't know if the person you 792 00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 2: thinks hot online is going to be a person who 793 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 2: you want to be with in person. 794 00:35:16,320 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 1: And that's why I think I'm with Jonathan on this one. 795 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 3: I think if you have a hot single friend, I 796 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 3: try to hook my hot single friends up with everybody. 797 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 3: They don't always like it, Kaitlin, but I always try 798 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,600 Speaker 3: to do it. I just think you should always play 799 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 3: matchmaker with your friend. Why not that was a waiter 800 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:31,799 Speaker 3: that you thought was hot. 801 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: That was not your friend Fred is hot and single. 802 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:35,920 Speaker 9: What you do? 803 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you have to produce anything, have to be 804 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 1: very selective. 805 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,040 Speaker 3: For you, Like I have to be because I got 806 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 3: a loyalty to mam afraid, Like, I just can't have 807 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 3: you out here doing everything but Kalyn. 808 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:55,359 Speaker 1: But Kayls husband material. That's my close personal friend. 809 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:59,239 Speaker 2: I mean, he just read me to specials, but he 810 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 2: eat and deliberately and I'm I feel like we're extremely close. Now. 811 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 1: The Entertainment Report is next.