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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Tim,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome, good morning.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 1: We didn't do it? Okay, we call this waiting by

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Speaker 1: the field of course. Oh gay here here we are

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Speaker 1: just hanging out with you, Tim. What's going on with

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Speaker 1: this woman? Is it Francesca? How did you meet Francesca?

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Speaker 1: And then tell us about any dates that you've been on.

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Speaker 1: What's going on now?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I met I met Francesco on Hinde and I

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Speaker 3: took her out to dinner and the dinner went really well,

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Speaker 3: and so I was like, it went so well that

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Speaker 3: took her back to my place, and I was trying

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Speaker 3: to be a gentleman, so I didn't want to be

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Speaker 3: like pushy, here, make a move. Yeah, And I guess

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Speaker 3: that that wasn't the move because I haven't heard from

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Speaker 3: her since.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you think that because you weren't, because nothing

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Speaker 1: physical happened, because you didn't initiate that. You think that's

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Speaker 1: her problem. She was turned off, like you're not interested

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Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, I thought that would be the move.

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Speaker 3: I thought that she would appreciate that because guys are

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Speaker 3: always so pushy. And I guess that I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I just haven't heard from hersis.

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Speaker 1: I just don't no line. He was trying to be

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Speaker 1: a good guy. He's trying to be a gentleman. But

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Speaker 1: I also see how that could be misconstrued as he's

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Speaker 1: on intimate he doesn't like me because now you're back

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Speaker 1: at your place. So I guess it's kind of, you know,

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Speaker 1: not necessarily guaranteed, but maybe implied that that kind of

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Speaker 1: stuff might happen, and it didn't, so that could be

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Speaker 1: the issue. I don't know, that's that's an interesting observation.

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Speaker 1: But let's call this woman, Francesca. We'll get her on

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Speaker 1: the phone, we'll ask some questions. You'll be on the

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Speaker 1: phone at the same time. I don't want you to

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Speaker 1: jump in right at first, but at some point you're

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Speaker 1: welcome to come in on the call and hopefully we

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Speaker 1: can straighten this out and then get you guys set

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Speaker 1: up on another day that we pay for. Okay, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: let's see what's going on. Part two of waiting met

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Speaker 1: a phone after usher back in two minutes. Don't move.

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Speaker 1: a preset please, Hey Tim? Yeah, all right, Tim, let's

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Speaker 1: call off Francesca. You guys met on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: You went on this date. You thought that went really well,

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Speaker 1: back to your place, and then you know, you were

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Speaker 1: a gentleman, you weren't aggressive, didn't make any moves. But

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Speaker 1: then since the date, you haven't heard anything, and you

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Speaker 1: think maybe that's why maybe you I don't know, maybe

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Speaker 1: she thought you weren't into it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want to know first of all.

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Speaker 3: I like to know what happened.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, let's call her right now. Good luck? Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is his Francesca. Hi, my name is fredam callin

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Speaker 1: from the Fred Show. Not sure if you've heard it before,

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Speaker 1: but I'm hoping we can talk to you for a

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Speaker 1: second on the radio. I would need your permission though,

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Speaker 1: to continue on the air.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: I actually, well, thank you very much. We appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: So you know what's going on here. We're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a guy who says he recently went out

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Speaker 1: with you. His name is Tim. Do you remember meeting too?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so okay, Well that's usually the tone of

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Speaker 1: somebody who like has got a story to tell. So

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Speaker 1: he reached out to us that he liked you was

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Speaker 1: hoping to see you again, but he can't get a

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Speaker 1: hold of you. Now, can you explain maybe kind of

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Speaker 1: fill us you know, what's going on and why.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So we went on agate and it was I

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Speaker 4: mean effortually, like completely fine, and he was a sweet

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Speaker 4: gentleman and everything was pretty chill and pretty cool. And

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Speaker 4: so then we decided to, you know, go back to

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Speaker 4: his place, and I'm thinking, oh, okay, like.

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Speaker 2: We're going to get to know each other a little

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Speaker 2: bit more and we share a little nanco. Soon maybe

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Speaker 2: something will happen.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So your expectation going back there was it like

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Speaker 1: you guys were going to hook up. That's that's where

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Speaker 2: I didn't think it was going to happen right away,

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Speaker 2: Like I mean, he was being like a pretty sweet

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Speaker 2: could dig this, like yeah, and then h he did.

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Speaker 2: When we got back to his place, we didn't do anything.

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Speaker 2: In fact, the only thing we did is that he

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Speaker 2: which is like that Japanese fighting fell. I mean, I

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Speaker 2: didn't find anything wrong with that. At first. I was like, hey, man,

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Speaker 2: at least you're in shape and mean wrote good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But then but then he just proceeded to like have

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Speaker 2: me sit.

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Speaker 4: There for hours and I'm not and I'm not talking

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Speaker 4: like one or two hours, like I'm pretty sure we

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Speaker 4: sat there like.

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Speaker 2: Like four or five hours. I'm surprised I lasted that long.

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Speaker 4: And he just showed me videos of him and showing

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Speaker 4: me moves on how to like down my opponent.

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Speaker 1: Huge hit like match his row whatever they're called, the

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Speaker 1: literal video of him doing what you did.

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Speaker 4: Wo.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it was like home videos, like I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 2: his mom or his grandma filmed it because there was

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Speaker 2: some lady going oh.

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Speaker 4: My god, and then again and then but then.

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Speaker 2: I thought maybe something was gonna happen, because then he

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, let me show you something, and so

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Speaker 2: he was like, you know, getting behind me home, Like okay,

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Speaker 2: maybe it's NIC's not gonna be a total loss. No,

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Speaker 2: he just proceeded to show me how he would take

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Speaker 2: out his opponent, and I was like him, I'm done,

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Speaker 2: and I he like grand again, I'm thinking maybe something's

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Speaker 2: gonna happen, know, and he stands up in the like.

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Speaker 1: And that he wanted to I'm scared. Okay, I gotta

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Speaker 1: bring Tim and I forgot to mention Tim is here. Dude.

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Speaker 1: You brought her back to your house to watch videos

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Speaker 1: of you doing martial arts. Wanted to those hours of them.

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Speaker 1: I mean like even maybe like a few clips, but

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Speaker 1: four hours of you whatever you're doing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought she was interesting, she was interested at first.

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Speaker 1: I did.

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Speaker 2: I did that to be nice.

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Speaker 4: And nobody wants us to sit there and watch you,

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Speaker 4: you know, get the great at jiu jitsu for you.

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Speaker 2: Sure your mom got sort of filming you.

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Speaker 1: No one's trying to watch videos that you're being great

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Speaker 1: for four hours. I'm not trying to watch anything for

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Speaker 1: four hours. Botanic. And then you try to tell.

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Speaker 3: What was this that I'm good at jiu jitsu?

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 2: I was. I was nodding off. So you did your

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Speaker 2: ow like demonstrations. I gave you the hand of like,

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Speaker 2: oh boy, I'm kind of tired.

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Speaker 1: Maybe even you could have maybe like, uh, you could

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Speaker 1: have done like a little like I'm good at ju

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Speaker 1: ju jitsu flirty thing where maybe maybe and then you

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Speaker 1: kind of pin her down and like in a fun way,

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Speaker 1: and then yeah, you know, like in a fun way,

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Speaker 1: and then lock her up but never let her leave again. Like,

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's a way you could have made this fun.

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Speaker 1: She sounded into it, but four hours later she's exhausted

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Speaker 1: of watching all your moves, Like what the hell, dude.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I mean she could have communicated that with it.

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Speaker 3: My thing is, like I was, I wasn't trying to

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Speaker 3: be pushy. I wondered the show where I'm as good

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Speaker 3: as you, like, I'm pretty sure she would appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: We're on a date and somebody attacked her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know how.

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Speaker 1: You already she was at your house, man, Like you

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Speaker 1: didn't need to impress her any further. She was down.

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Speaker 1: I mean she was already you won the match. I

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Speaker 1: mean you were good to go.

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Speaker 3: I know, okay, mateks like I lost it. I don't,

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Speaker 3: I don't, I don't.

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Speaker 1: You know. This seems like that would be like me

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Speaker 1: inviting women over to my house to play this. You

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Speaker 1: want to hear clips of me on the radio, It's like, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't. Four hours later, yeah jesus, all right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: well yeah, that's the thing that this sucks. I'm dried up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got Francesca another date with this guy. Would you

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Speaker 1: consider it? We'll pay for it. No, no more video

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Speaker 1: clips of him, no things.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I could take another fourteen hours.

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Speaker 1: Of jiu jitsu, all right, Tim, dude, come on, man,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's one thing to have a

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Speaker 1: that without having to go overboard like this. I think

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Speaker 1: you kind of missed it on this one. You missed,

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Speaker 1: you missed the cues.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I guess you're right to this day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you just got me sense Oh Jesus, all right,

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Speaker 1: I gotta go, sensey. No, I'm the sensor. What are you, grasshopper?

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Speaker 1: I gotta go. Good luck to both of you, guys. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thanks for your time. Francesca, no worry,