WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Secret Garden Shocker

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, can I do the podcast intros every day and

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<v Speaker 1>it's whatever Ashton does it?

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<v Speaker 2>And oh you guys love him? In the comments? You

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<v Speaker 2>know what youre? Ash didn't take it away?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, coming up, it's a classic second date. As the

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<v Speaker 1>resident single man on this show, I just want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope it doesn't work out for them. I'm bitter

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<v Speaker 1>and I need everyone to be as lonely as me.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, enjoyed the second date update? I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you know whatever? Love is great? Right, Alexis were all right?

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<v Speaker 1>I hate this job?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of guys like a woman who's down to

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<v Speaker 3>get dirty.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you're darn right, joh.

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<v Speaker 5>Where do you find someone like that? Like Brooks Hometown Craigslist?

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<v Speaker 5>Of course, pole over back at Brooks Hometown. We already

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<v Speaker 5>covered that, but no.

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<v Speaker 3>Our listener Austin found his special dirty lady. Let me

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<v Speaker 3>listen Brooks hometown hometown again.

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<v Speaker 2>The hometown isn't big enough for Craigs.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, her in the community garden, deep in literal dirty,

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<v Speaker 3>like really dirty, justin you like a dirty girl?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, what.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't with that?

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<v Speaker 4>Laugh?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that the reason why you're on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, yeah, that's uh yeah, we did not meet on

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<v Speaker 7>a dating app. Shocker.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you met over a flower bed.

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<v Speaker 3>Y kind of romantic, kind of dirty.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean she was uh planting veggies, peas, carrots, whatever.

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<v Speaker 6>Some nice bulbs you gotta.

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<v Speaker 3>Can we know what her name is? Yeah, yeah, Katie,

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<v Speaker 3>Katy sounds like a sweet girl.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't frequent community gardens, but I assume people who

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<v Speaker 4>do go there often right to.

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<v Speaker 7>Tend or you act to take care of your right.

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<v Speaker 4>So is it something where you'd seen Katie multiple times

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<v Speaker 4>before you actually went up and talk to her.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, the first time I actually got the courage to

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<v Speaker 7>talk to her, very casual, and I did. We did

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<v Speaker 7>not exchange numbers or anything. It's it's more like talk

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<v Speaker 7>about garden. And I asked her what she was planting.

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<v Speaker 3>She's telling me veggie, Oh wow, you got right into the.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I got right into the dirt.

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<v Speaker 3>Good for you.

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<v Speaker 7>So then I saw her a day or two later,

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<v Speaker 7>she was back in the garden. So then I went

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<v Speaker 7>up to her and I was like, oh yo, how

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<v Speaker 7>how's the radishes? And that got like a chuck off

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<v Speaker 7>from her.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, look at you, mister humor.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I see what the joke is.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, she's thinking that I actually care, which she was planting,

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<v Speaker 7>But I didn't. I just wanted to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 3>That's weird.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Care about she doesn't listen back to this if it

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<v Speaker 3>works out, Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean I told her, like you know, I have

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<v Speaker 7>to be chatted. Then I got her number and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 7>there's a cute pub like a few blocks away if

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<v Speaker 7>you wanted to go for a drink after.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, look at you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, were you talking this fast when you asked her to?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you seem a little nervous right now?

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<v Speaker 7>Was I talking to I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>She's got me nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>This girl comes off a little bit sexy. I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's what Brooke was trying to say.

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<v Speaker 7>I rather sexy than nervous.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, okay, well it's coming through right now.

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<v Speaker 3>So tell So you took her to a pub?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, and it was cool. Everything's going great. But then

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<v Speaker 7>the next day I texted her and nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, can we talk a little bit more about

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<v Speaker 4>your time at the pub? Like was flirting happening?

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<v Speaker 7>Like any I mean, I try. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 7>good my game is, but I drive.

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<v Speaker 3>It's working on us right now, dude, so keep it going.

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<v Speaker 7>I do have a confession though, that I didn't tell her.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, beside the question, you didn't make care what.

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<v Speaker 7>It wasn't we howl?

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<v Speaker 1>I say this.

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<v Speaker 7>I knew she was going to be.

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<v Speaker 2>There, going to be ware at the PA.

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<v Speaker 6>You invited her at the guard at the garden.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, Okay, my parents are on this dating app where

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<v Speaker 7>parents kind of meet up with other parents to find

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<v Speaker 7>dates for their single like young adults.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, that exists.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a dating app for parents to meddle in their

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<v Speaker 4>kids lives.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 3>Please do not tell us what the name of this

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<v Speaker 3>side is.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, I'm not. I'm not telling you. But Katie's

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<v Speaker 7>parents were in on it. Katie doesn't know, I don't think,

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<v Speaker 7>but her parents were on and they're they're so down.

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<v Speaker 7>They talk to my parents and I know this sounds strange,

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<v Speaker 7>but yeah, I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 3>To This is a site where parents meet up with

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<v Speaker 3>each other to figure out if their kids would be

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<v Speaker 3>a good match.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they're basically like it's basically like range daty right.

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<v Speaker 2>So, like, so you're saying.

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<v Speaker 4>Katie's parents told your parents, Katie will be at the

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<v Speaker 4>garden from three to five your son should show up.

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<v Speaker 7>Then, Yeah, so I got a plot. I don't even garden.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know how to garden.

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<v Speaker 6>Whoa, you don't even know how to garden?

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<v Speaker 7>Not really, I mean I was just digging hole. I

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<v Speaker 7>mean I was just like I was digging holes in

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<v Speaker 7>the dark, pretending.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, So you just got a plot to meet.

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<v Speaker 7>Her sun hat? I got a sun hat.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Kay, didn't have to go that hard a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of water. Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So this would be fine if Katie knew her parents

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<v Speaker 4>were doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>But she doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I don't think so. I mean, she didn't mention anything,

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<v Speaker 7>and I just don't want to freak her out.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, at least your parents already approve of me.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder if her parents know that she's not responding

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<v Speaker 3>to you. Now, how long has it been.

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<v Speaker 6>It's been like about five days.

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<v Speaker 2>And have you told your parents that she hasn't responded.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, and her mother actually reached out to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, Katie's mother reached out to you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, and she said, I think you will be perfect

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<v Speaker 7>for her.

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<v Speaker 4>Now you want more people in on this, Like, you've

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<v Speaker 4>got two sets of parents already involved, and you want

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<v Speaker 4>us involved.

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<v Speaker 7>To me, I don't, I can't. I don't know why

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<v Speaker 7>I can't have my own relationship. I don't know idea

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<v Speaker 7>that exture.

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<v Speaker 3>It's odd that the most natural thing in this entire

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<v Speaker 3>situation is actually the fact that you're calling a radio

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<v Speaker 3>show to interview, intervene in your data.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, we're a community garden. We've got the radio,

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<v Speaker 4>we've got the parents. We're just trying to grow a

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<v Speaker 4>relationship here.

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<v Speaker 8>It takes a chance.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember Justin hates community gardens and doesn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Care about them, so it doesn't know about it.

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<v Speaker 7>But I will learn. I mean, if me and her

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<v Speaker 7>go on more day, I'll have her talk to me

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<v Speaker 7>about the garden, like, educate me.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing like faking an interest to get in with somebody.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean, who doesn't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>We're going to share that sentiment with Katie when we

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<v Speaker 3>come back and call her and try and get you

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<v Speaker 3>a second date update right after this. Okay, dirty boy, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. We're

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<v Speaker 3>in the middle of a second date call, and when

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<v Speaker 3>we left, I told Justin that we'd call Katie and

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<v Speaker 3>share the sentiment. And I'm seeing people texting in at

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<v Speaker 3>seventy five nine two telling me, don't do that, don't

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<v Speaker 3>blow his cover about his parents matchmaking app Wait.

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<v Speaker 2>You said that we were going to tell her that.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't hear that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's not what I meant at all. I just meant

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<v Speaker 3>share the sentiment that he really likes her and is

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<v Speaker 3>eager to learn more about gardening. I could see he

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<v Speaker 3>really doesn't want to do that, but he's he says

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<v Speaker 3>he's willing to try maybe. And I guess the more

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<v Speaker 3>important question, though, that we need to talk about, is

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<v Speaker 3>are we all okay with hiding the fact that her

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<v Speaker 3>parents matched her with a guy without her knowledge on

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<v Speaker 3>a dating site for parents that hook up their grown

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<v Speaker 3>kids with each other. I mean, Justin, how do you

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<v Speaker 3>what do you think? Do you feel weird about your

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<v Speaker 3>parents finding you a lover?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, you know, when you like date somebody at the

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<v Speaker 7>meet their parents and it's always awkward and you like,

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<v Speaker 7>are the parents already approved of me? That's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 7>such a credit card like aproved.

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<v Speaker 4>The best relationships can come from like arrangements. Honestly, like

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<v Speaker 4>your parents know you best.

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<v Speaker 2>They really do.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I watch Bridgerton.

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<v Speaker 3>They end up really cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>All for voting to bring marriage and relationships back to

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<v Speaker 3>the nineteen.

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<v Speaker 4>Twenty Hey, listen, listen. If we're allowing algorithms to help

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<v Speaker 4>us find love, why wouldn't we let our parents also

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<v Speaker 4>help us.

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<v Speaker 3>We're trying for a one in a million chance. And

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna say, we're not going to reveal the

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<v Speaker 3>parents matchmaking app, but justin if you want to do that,

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<v Speaker 3>that's totally up to you.

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<v Speaker 2>I do feel like you should do it at some point.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean we'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just feel it out, all right, I'm gonna call

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<v Speaker 3>it right now.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Hello, Hey, is Katie.

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<v Speaker 9>Is this?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why I'm nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm all nervous too. I don't know if you're

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<v Speaker 3>feeling nervous, Katie about being on a radio show right now,

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<v Speaker 3>because you are. What Yeah, surprise, Welcome to our show, Katie.

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<v Speaker 3>We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning do a

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<v Speaker 3>radio show, and we're trying to do a segment right

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<v Speaker 3>now called the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, So We're trying to reach out on behalf

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<v Speaker 3>of one of our listeners who you went out with

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<v Speaker 3>recently named Justin. We're trying to read your vibe on

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<v Speaker 3>if you liked him or not.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I'm exiting another relationship right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh oh oh, so things are a little messy right now.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean I don't really want to talk about it,

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<v Speaker 9>and a few weeks ago, okay, but Justin just seems

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<v Speaker 9>so like sweet and kind and like I just don't

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<v Speaker 9>want to really get into it until i'm like fully unattached.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good, Okay, that's actually mature.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so you actually liked him, you're just not calling

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<v Speaker 4>him back because you didn't want that's got to respect

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<v Speaker 4>it him, right.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know what you know about him, but he's

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<v Speaker 8>a dork, but he's just really sweet.

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<v Speaker 9>But he was just so honest and so kind and

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<v Speaker 9>just so.

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<v Speaker 8>Transparent, Like I just felt like I knew him. And

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<v Speaker 8>I just also feel like I've gone out with so

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<v Speaker 8>many people being crazy or a liar, they're hiding something,

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<v Speaker 8>and it just feels like we don't like anything. For once,

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<v Speaker 8>like I was like, okay, like this guy's actually really

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<v Speaker 8>sweet and.

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<v Speaker 3>All the cards on the table right up front. He

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<v Speaker 3>sounds genuine, but we know he's like, well, I think

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<v Speaker 3>he's pretty genuine.

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<v Speaker 2>I will say he is very earnest.

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<v Speaker 4>He does sound a little dorky in a sweet way.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't tell you. Well, I'm with you, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean he was attractive, right, you were attracted to

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<v Speaker 4>him still, Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 9>Mean it was kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 8>We met in a community garden and he was just like,

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know that he's particularly good at gardening. He

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<v Speaker 8>was just like digging holes in the dirt.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. If Justin were to hear the things that you

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<v Speaker 3>were saying right now, he'd probably be really happy with

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<v Speaker 3>your review of him and of your time spent together.

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<v Speaker 2>Att Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>In fact, I don't have to guess if he liked it,

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<v Speaker 3>because I could just ask him since he's on the

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<v Speaker 3>other line right now listening and wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm thrilled that you.

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<v Speaker 3>Like me, hun dork energy coming through.

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<v Speaker 8>Why didn't you tell me then?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we can't all be as honest and transparent as

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<v Speaker 3>the justice of the world. You know, that's just that's

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<v Speaker 3>more credit to him.

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<v Speaker 7>And it's totally fine. I mean, like I heard that

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<v Speaker 7>you have an ex. I mean, I'm totally cool with that.

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<v Speaker 7>I have like a million acts.

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<v Speaker 2>Million.

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<v Speaker 9>Wow, very strange.

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<v Speaker 8>A million acts.

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<v Speaker 7>Huh okay, it's like literally, okay, four, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Don't know that many days.

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<v Speaker 7>How am I to have acces? I don't. I literally

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<v Speaker 7>have like one ex girlfriend. Okay, okay, actually, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Just closed the mouth for a second to zero.

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<v Speaker 8>It's just kind of a weird thing that you heard

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<v Speaker 8>me say all that. But I really think that you're

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<v Speaker 8>just a really sweet, honest person.

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<v Speaker 7>I love that.

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<v Speaker 6>But h's true.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I be honesty. I am. I am mostly honest.

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<v Speaker 1>What can you do?

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<v Speaker 7>You keep mentioning? I mean, I I do not like lying.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean I did lie that I had a million

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<v Speaker 7>girlfriends ex girlfriends, and we.

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<v Speaker 6>Knew that one.

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<v Speaker 7>It is a joke, and you know, uh okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 7>just going to say it. Here's the deal. I didn't

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<v Speaker 7>go to the gardening community gardening.

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<v Speaker 8>Because I like the garden.

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<v Speaker 7>I knew you were going.

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<v Speaker 6>To be there.

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<v Speaker 7>Because Okay, my parents and your parents are on this

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<v Speaker 7>dating app where they helped their single child get dates. Uh,

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<v Speaker 7>there's mine.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think your.

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<v Speaker 7>Parents loves me. Your parents really love me. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 7>the approof of that, I mean, my parents approve, your

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<v Speaker 7>parents approved? Like, let's make this work. I know that

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<v Speaker 7>this is weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have to say everything just one piece of

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<v Speaker 3>information at a time.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, can we just say real quickly, we really hoped that, Katie,

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<v Speaker 4>you already knew this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I just you know, like I could see

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<v Speaker 2>why a dating app like that would work. Katie, just

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<v Speaker 2>listen for a second. I mean, who knows you better

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<v Speaker 2>than dad? Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Oh my god, that is not parent approved language, Katie.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna come to your side on that one. It's

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit unusual. I will concede that. But Justin

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know that his parents were setting him up either.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I actually did know that. Okay, he's actually a

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<v Speaker 7>great idea. I mean it's like I do not meet

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<v Speaker 7>any women. I see them all over the place, but

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<v Speaker 7>I don't meet them. I'm on every dating app you

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<v Speaker 7>could think of, nobody wife and.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, Katie, listen, listen.

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<v Speaker 4>You definitely have to have a conversation with your parents,

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<v Speaker 4>and you can be angry at them, but this isn't

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<v Speaker 4>Justin's fault.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't make your parents do this.

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<v Speaker 8>Some of this is Justin's fault some of some of

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<v Speaker 8>it he didn't say anything.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well maybe he just shows up in a garden.

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<v Speaker 3>Digging hole, but his heart was in a good place

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<v Speaker 3>when he did it.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, he complimented your radishes, your great gardener.

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<v Speaker 7>I can learn from you. We are going too.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what, it's at this point, Katie, that I

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<v Speaker 3>would like to offer to send you to on another date,

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<v Speaker 3>that we would pay for any restaurant in the city

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<v Speaker 3>and far far away from both of your.

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<v Speaker 6>Sets of chalce.

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<v Speaker 4>Give it one chance. I mean, that would make your

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<v Speaker 4>parents so happy. Absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 8>What about this would be any normal person?

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<v Speaker 9>Are you crazy?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, it's a no right now. But maybe

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<v Speaker 3>you should take some time to think about it, and

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<v Speaker 3>if you want, we can organize so that you and

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<v Speaker 3>Justin and both of your sets of parents can all

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<v Speaker 3>have dinner, happy family reunion.

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<v Speaker 2>John and Julie. I think, I mean, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>they're lovely people there. I know they're in for Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they made you.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm in.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you say?

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<v Speaker 6>Just give one more chance?

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<v Speaker 7>Like many people have arrangements, Like it's not like we

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<v Speaker 7>got married.

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<v Speaker 3>We just got a date, just started off good, and

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<v Speaker 3>then it's all right, we're still there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's still there, Katie.

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<v Speaker 3>We're running out of time here, so we need to

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<v Speaker 3>get an answer from you, yes or no on another date.

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<v Speaker 9>I'm absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, just Justin, you're up to a million and

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<v Speaker 3>one exes.

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<v Speaker 4>Now my parents can give you a date.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Those words have never been spoken before. My parents can't

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<v Speaker 3>give me a day?

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<v Speaker 6>Who can.

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<v Speaker 4>Rerooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>To say that she was not happy that her parents

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<v Speaker 3>set her up would be a pretty big understatement one hundred.

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<v Speaker 2>There is gonna be a conversation in that family.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I'm not. She was so thrown back by it.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, brook, to imagine that it came out that

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<v Speaker 3>your parents are actually the ones who set you and

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<v Speaker 3>your husband Michael up all those years ago. Everybody knew

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<v Speaker 3>about it except you. You wouldn't care.

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<v Speaker 2>At this point. I'm so deep into it.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if it was a second date, I'd be pissed.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know now, it's like, well, I do love them.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess my mom knew.

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<v Speaker 3>But in Justin's case, there's probably never been an example

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<v Speaker 3>of someone who talked themselves out of a date faster

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<v Speaker 3>than he did. Oh my god, I think there was

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<v Speaker 3>like a five percent chance it still would have worked

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<v Speaker 3>if he had just been quiet. I literally was like, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I just need a week or two to end this

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<v Speaker 3>one thing, and I think I'm going to focus on him.

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<v Speaker 3>You should have just ended the calling.

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<v Speaker 4>His parents knew that he's his own worst enemy the talking.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know why, but I just have a feeling that

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<v Speaker 3>he's going to be back with us someday.

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<v Speaker 2>I think probably sooner, like justin maybe in a couple.

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<v Speaker 3>Of weeks, and we'll be ready for him, or his

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<v Speaker 3>mom will be calling him to remember. You could check

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<v Speaker 3>out all of our Second Date podcasts if you ever

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<v Speaker 3>miss any of them. They're up online wherever you get

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<v Speaker 3>yours at Brook and Jeffrey