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Speaker 1: Levels to This is an iHeart women's sports production in

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Speaker 2: Hey, what's up, everybody, it's your girl, Srika Foster Brasby.

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Speaker 1: What's going on, y'all? It's girl Cheryl Swoops and this.

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Speaker 2: Week we are bringing you our live episode from Norfolk,

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Speaker 2: Virginia at the Northeastern Regional Conference of Signia Gammerose Arority Incorporated.

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Speaker 2: Cheryl I had a great time recording this episode all.

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Speaker 1: Kim, I need to redo cuz listen everything about First

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Speaker 1: of all, I love the conversation. Everything about the conversation.

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Speaker 1: I love the episode, but just the environment, the people,

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Speaker 1: the sisters like I fell right at home, so super

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Speaker 3: That love to hear that.

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Speaker 2: Well, without further ado, y'all check out our live episode.

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Speaker 2: I hope you enjoy it as much as Seeryl and

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Speaker 2: I enjoy recording it.

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Speaker 4: The portion that we really came to see was Tarika

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Speaker 4: Foster Brasby, our very own Soar and the legendary Ryl

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Speaker 4: Swoops giving up for them.

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Speaker 3: They are coming to.

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Speaker 4: The stage to film their amazing podcast Levels to This.

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Speaker 2: Oh, y'all not lit enough for me. If y'all know me,

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Speaker 2: y'all know, y'all gotta bring the energy. Hey, hey, Well,

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Speaker 2: first and foremost, thank you guys so much for having me.

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Speaker 3: And so our podcast is called Levels to This.

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Speaker 2: It is found on the iHeartRadio network, so anywhere you

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Speaker 2: get your podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify on a good places.

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Speaker 2: And I'm very fortunate because I host this podcast with

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Speaker 2: a phenomenal and I do mean a phenomenal superstar person, athlete.

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Speaker 3: Just all around individual. Okay.

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Speaker 2: So I want y'all to make her feel very, very

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Speaker 2: welcomed and very special. I'm trying to recruit, Okay. I

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Speaker 2: need y'all to help me, all right. I need y'all

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Speaker 2: you guys to give a huge welcome to the Natesmith

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Speaker 2: Hall of Famer, four time WNBA Champion, Olympic gold medalist

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Speaker 2: be wanted. Only CHERRYL swooons y'all.

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Speaker 1: Hey a, I'm from Texas, so y'all know, y'all, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Right, listen, we got Texas in here. That is amazing.

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Speaker 2: So first and foremost, everybody, welcome to the levels to

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Speaker 2: this podcast. This is the show where we talk about

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Speaker 2: the levels to the ish that women go through. And

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Speaker 2: I'm tame myself a little bit. I'm gonna act like

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Speaker 2: my mama raised me, and I got some decorn because realistically,

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Speaker 2: in our podcast we get a little real and so

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Speaker 2: we are gonna have some real conversation here today. I'm

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Speaker 2: very excited to be here in Norfolk, Virginia. We have

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Speaker 2: a great show lined up and planned. But first, how's

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Speaker 2: you been, Cheryl?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 2: How was getting here? How has your experience been since

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Speaker 1: Okay, So first of all, I am so excited to

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Speaker 1: Now, I had no idea, and I'm just forewarning those

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Speaker 1: Four hundred dollars later, they were smart because they put

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Speaker 1: But I have to tell you I got in super

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Speaker 2: One like it was not It wasn't given. And like,

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Speaker 2: come on, y'all know how we act when we taking photos.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't given. It's got to give because the pictures

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Speaker 2: Gonna be everywhere. I mean, we're as an international organization.

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Speaker 2: We got over We got over five hundred chapters across

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Speaker 2: the world. You see me recruiting. I stay recruiting. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I agree. I mean, no better audience to have that

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Speaker 1: So my question is who knows the year that Tarika was?

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Speaker 3: Hello, period, she claimed Virginia. No, but it's all good.

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Speaker 2: This is a very nice I don't know whose this

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Speaker 1: I'll take the goal.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead and get some blue and gold in your home.

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Speaker 2: And I have a question for you, Cheryl. When I

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Speaker 3: Y'reffing up, no doubt.

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean. And I think that's part.

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Speaker 1: That's what you know. I said. Trust, But just building

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Speaker 1: off of what you said to me, it also means

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Speaker 3: She's not lion.

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Speaker 1: But I only do it when I'm really passionate about

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Speaker 3: Because folks know you know, folks know I'll rock with you, shiry.

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Speaker 1: But that to me goes both ways, right, because I

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Speaker 3: To say them saying, so we're trying to save each other.

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Speaker 1: No, you know what I really love how every time y'all,

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Speaker 1: That's the part for me that I'm like, we first

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Speaker 2: That is what is the challenge is that. So I

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Speaker 3: Because you had enough for all of us? What you mean,

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Speaker 2: So I have three real sisters, blood sisters, one of

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm looking at swor Tanya.

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Speaker 2: Money is green everywhere. But I have three, three blood sisters,

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Speaker 2: She's just a completely different person than I am, and

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Speaker 2: I don't, I don't, I don't know. I did not

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Speaker 1: Well, I ain't got no sisters, but I got brothers,

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Speaker 1: Like we can disagree. That doesn't mean that I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't want people in my life. Yeah, don't do that.

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Speaker 1: but it's but it's true. That goes back to me

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Speaker 1: Where I'm finding this DJ from? No DJ? You all

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Speaker 3: Take us nowhere, take us nowhere.

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Speaker 3: Be like Sis. You might have went a little too

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Speaker 2: And so we said trust, We said loyalty, real, honest, real,

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Speaker 3: But do you have an example?

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Speaker 2: Do you have an example of what sisterhood look like

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Speaker 2: There after this. Well, because I got an example for

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Speaker 2: and my love Dawn Staley.

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Speaker 3: That's my love to see what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: That's that's that's a good one. That's a real good one. Listen.

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Speaker 1: it is, to come for my sister Don's day. That's it, Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm never gonna do that because, first of all, a

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: I just need people to.

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Speaker 1: Recognize that, right and appreciate that and show respect to

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Speaker 1: And show when I when I see things on social media,

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Speaker 1: and sideways and talking bad to you, like I'm going

440
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 1: to use my voice. I'm going to use my platform

441
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: to say, hold on a minute. One you don't even

442
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 1: know her, so like, let's not let's not do that,

443
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 1: let's not go there. But I want to give you

444
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 1: one example of.

445
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:55,359
Speaker 3: What I thought sisterhood was ooh, and then it wasn't.

446
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 1: And I found out that it that maybe what I

447
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: feel towards you is different than what you you feel

448
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 1: towards me, right, And I'm not gonna say any names.

449
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 3: But.

450
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 2: I told you all they get real our podcast. It

451
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 2: was probably yeah, it was. It was a year ago.

452
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: Someone who I have always considered a friend. I have

453
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: nothing but love and respect for her, had just probably

454
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: seen her a couple of weeks before, and I go

455
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 1: on social media and all of a sudden, I'm like

456
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 1: reading things of like what happened? Where did this come from?

457
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: And this person had actually posted something on her I

458
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: guess YouTube channel from her podcast basically calling me out

459
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: on something that wasn't even true, and later came back

460
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: and apologized. But my issue with that was I could

461
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: have very easily done the same thing gone to social media.

462
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 1: We could have gone back. For first of all, I

463
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: am a grown, sorry ass woman, So if I have

464
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 1: an issue with you, and especially if we're friends, I'm

465
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 1: gonna call you. I'm not gonna go post nothing on

466
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 1: social media. So I saw it people sending it to me,

467
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 1: texting me, girl, did you see what she said?

468
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 3: I called you.

469
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:25,959
Speaker 1: If you don't remember, I remember, and I cried. I

470
00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: cried because I was angry. I cried because I was hurt.

471
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 1: And I said, te do you have so and So's number?

472
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: She was like, oh yeah, I got a girl. Why

473
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 1: what's up? And I was like, I don't even want

474
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 1: to talk. I just need the number. I said, but

475
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: before you give it to me, make sure she's okay

476
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 1: with me having her number. I got the number. I

477
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,479
Speaker 1: text her and I said, if you have an issue

478
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: or a problem with something, I said, as my sister,

479
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: why didn't you call me? Why didn't you text me

480
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 1: instead of putting it out on social media? Never mind

481
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: the fact that what you put out there was wrong.

482
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 1: Everything was wrong. So we ended up having a conversation.

483
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: We did, and she said, please, I hope you can

484
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: forgive me. I'm sorry. She went back and she posted

485
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: an apology y'all. But I'm a firm believer in that

486
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: apology needs to be as loud as the disrespect was. Yep,

487
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 1: And so all the people that were that came on

488
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 1: and were like, yay, yay. Somebody says that the tour, well,

489
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 1: this apology was hidden somewhere, so those people didn't even

490
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: see it. Nor do I care. But what I cared

491
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: about was what you did. Like our friendship, because I

492
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 1: don't even call it a sisterhood anymore, our friendship will

493
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: never be the same because it goes back to the

494
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: first word I said, trust. I don't trust you, yep.

495
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 1: And it hurts me to my heart, my core, because

496
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 1: this lady is one that's big on TV, in the

497
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: space and even right now. It hurts me, yeah, to

498
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: feel this way because like I genuinely yeah, love and

499
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: respect that woman.

500
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 3: Yep.

501
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 2: That's that is another part of So let me preface

502
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 2: that by saying this right.

503
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 3: When we talk about like.

504
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 2: Breakups, friendship breakups, since sisterhood breakups, they hurt too.

505
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:29,640
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, they hurt too.

506
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 2: They hurt just like relationship breakups because you, again, you

507
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 2: invest time, you invest yourself, You expose a part of

508
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 2: yourself to someone who you believe is your friend, is

509
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 2: your sister, and when you find out that that person

510
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: has broken your trust, broken your loyalty, not been honest

511
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,920
Speaker 2: with you, not being real with you, that is not

512
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 2: something that is easy to get over. And so I

513
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 2: oftentimes have conversation with my friends where I'm like, girl,

514
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 2: I get why that might have hurt your feelings, and

515
00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 2: I get why.

516
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 3: It might not be easy for you.

517
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: I had my bridesmaid, myrides, my maid of honor, and

518
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 2: my wedding. She and I are nowhere near. We have

519
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 2: been friends for fifteen years, and my wedding was the

520
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 2: the what's the thing the needle that broke the camel's back?

521
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, straw, straw.

522
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 2: See that's how you know. I ain't from the South forreal.

523
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 2: I don't either.

524
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 3: I can't even get the Analogy're right, I'm from Detroit.

525
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 3: God here it is.

526
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 1: Anita could probably break this back.

527
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 3: Okay, wait a minute, time out, because Detroit is clearly

528
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 3: in the building.

529
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: What's going on?

530
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 3: You feel me?

531
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: You feel me?

532
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 3: Hold on, it's New York in the building. Okay, all right,

533
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 3: all right, all right, all right, y'all see New York.

534
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 2: Y'all see New York, New York showing up. I did

535
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: that on purpose. Detroit Knicks fans, all of them. We

536
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 2: ain't talking to none of them folks.

537
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 3: Who was just Hike fifteen.

538
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 2: Minutes ago, acting up in the middle of the show.

539
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 3: I swear to God, you can't say black people.

540
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 2: No, y'all so fun showing out, y'all saw all them

541
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 2: New Yorkers. We ain't talking to y'all at seven thirty

542
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 2: because the Pistons played the Knicks.

543
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 3: I don't know, y'all at.

544
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 2: Seven thirty okay, luck, I'm just letting you know I said,

545
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 2: good luck, Oh, thank you. But so when we were

546
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 2: talking about friendship breakups, all them New York is gonna

547
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 2: be mad at me at seven thirty five.

548
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying, y'all, not gonna.

549
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 2: Be paging, is not gonna be friendship breakups. We broke

550
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 2: up at seven thirty. Okay, you know I wanna. I

551
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 2: want to go back to what you were saying.

552
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 1: Listen, in all honesty, Sometimes, at least to me, sometimes

553
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: a sister or friend breakup, it's harder than oh, I agree,

554
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: a partner, boyfriend, girlfriend's significance. I agree, because you know what,

555
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:52,960
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go find me another partner.

556
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 3: Right.

557
00:30:54,720 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 1: But I have told you all, look something, some things

558
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: that I ain't even told my husband. See what I'm saying, yeap, y'ah.

559
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: And to invest the time and energy and all the things,

560
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: the peers, all the things yeap, that you and I

561
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: have shared for you to do what you did, yep,

562
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: likes that's hard.

563
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: Now let me ask you this and this is I love,

564
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 2: We love audience participation. So if you have question, comments,

565
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 2: things you want to get in, please let me know.

566
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 3: We can definitely get you on.

567
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 2: That's part of the live podcast experience, so you can

568
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 2: be on the show. Do you think that it is

569
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 2: possible to revive a sisterhood once it has been broken?

570
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: Ooh, y'all said no.

571
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 2: They are a tough crowd. They said no. They said no.

572
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

573
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: You know, I I think I want to say no,

574
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: but I also think it depends on.

575
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 3: What happened.

576
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 4: Right.

577
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: So example, the situation I was just telling you all

578
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 1: about you and I have talked about this because I

579
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: initially you were like, let's bring her on the podcast

580
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: so we can have a conversation. And I said, oh no, no, no,

581
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: she I did. She don't want that. But just the

582
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: other day you say.

583
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 3: The type of since I am massy, watch you.

584
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: But just the other day, right after some time I

585
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: said to you, I said, tee, I think I'm ready, right,

586
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: And that doesn't mean ready to like rebuild that sisterhood,

587
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 1: that friendship, but from for my peace of mind and

588
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: for me to move forward, I need to have a

589
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: conversation with you. So you know, here's what you did.

590
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 1: Here's how you hurt me. You don't. You don't get

591
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: to have that bad face with me anymore. Right Like,

592
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna respect you for what you do and

593
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: all the things, but I'm gonna do that from a distance.

594
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 3: See, I'm on the fence.

595
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 2: I'm on the fence because I think that one of

596
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 2: the one of the things that we do we have

597
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:31,840
Speaker 2: en Sigma is seven misses.

598
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 3: It's who seven misses?

599
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: Seven misses?

600
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 3: Uh huh.

601
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: And one of those misses is misunderstanding. Oh okay, And

602
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 2: it's not a good thing, by the way. But sometimes

603
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 2: and I see this on social media a lot, and

604
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 2: every time I see it's like a meme, well one

605
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: of those like a meme that people post and they

606
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 2: share all the time, And I absolutely hate it because

607
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: to me, it is from my perspective, it is just

608
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 2: absolutely untrue. But one of the things that I see

609
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 2: that people to share a lot is people know what

610
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:04,720
Speaker 2: they did to you to.

611
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 3: Make you act the way you act. Of course, I

612
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 3: don't believe that. I don't believe that at all.

613
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 2: No, because there are times that your energy, your spirit

614
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 2: or just being you can cause offense to other people

615
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 2: and now they mad at you, and you don't even

616
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 2: know why they mad. That is true, and they haven't

617
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 2: had the opportunity to come to you and tell you

618
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 2: this is what you did or this is what you said.

619
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 2: They just assume whatever you did or said was done

620
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 2: intentionally and purposefully. So now they walking around for twenty

621
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 2: years with an attitude with you when really we could

622
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 2: have had a conversation to settle the misunderstanding. That's good

623
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 2: and so I, in full transparency, have been the victim

624
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:44,760
Speaker 2: of that a lot.

625
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 3: I'm a blunt person.

626
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 2: You didn't know you could tell. Let me give you this,

627
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 2: no kidding, but I'm a blunt person. I'm very fun,

628
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 2: very transparent.

629
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 3: I joke around a lot.

630
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 2: And there are times where one of something that I've

631
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 2: said or done not necessarily done it on purpose. But

632
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: I'll give you an example. I came into a room.

633
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 2: Now I'm a Leo.

634
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 3: Any Leo's in the building. Now, y'all know when we

635
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:15,399
Speaker 3: walk in the room, we steal the show.

636
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,280
Speaker 2: It's just what we do. It's just what Leo's do. Right,

637
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 2: we just got that Leo energy. It comes in, it

638
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 2: steals the shout.

639
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: Right.

640
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: So I walked into what birthday party? And I said, Hey, everybody,

641
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 2: what's going on? How y'all doing? Where's the birthday girl?

642
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 3: Girl?

643
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 2: The birthday girl got mad because she felt like I

644
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 2: came to her party and just stole, like stole her

645
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 2: thunder was she your friend?

646
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 3: She was my friend?

647
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 2: And I was like, And so what ended up happening

648
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: was after this incident, like I would text her, but

649
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 2: she wouldn't text me back, or if she did text

650
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 2: me back, it'd be like a one word answer, or

651
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 2: it was little things. And I was just like, did

652
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 2: I do something to her? Or did I do something?

653
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 2: And I found out many months later that she felt

654
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 2: like I ruined her birthday because I.

655
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 3: Was overly energetic and overly friendly. And that's just my

656
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 3: natural who I am.

657
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 2: And you also know that when it comes to me

658
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 2: in birthdays, I didne probably bought you by fad drink.

659
00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh you know for sure.

660
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: Girl.

661
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 2: We're gonna tell y'all one day, not today. You want

662
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 2: one day about how I acted on Cheryl's birthday.

663
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: So how she acted on my birthday?

664
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,280
Speaker 3: Okay, I celebrate.

665
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: Girl almost had me getting a divorce because you had it.

666
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 3: You almost not really, y'all.

667
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:39,760
Speaker 2: But I say all that to say I celebrate other people.

668
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 2: So just like I celebrated you on your day, absolutely

669
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 2: celebrated her on her day, but she felt my energy

670
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 2: and everything was over the top and it took away

671
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 2: from her on her day. And so if I think

672
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 2: about that meme, people know what they did to make

673
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 2: you feel a way. How would I know that you

674
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 2: felt that way and you didn't, as my friend, come

675
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 2: to me and tell me, talk to me, share that

676
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 2: information with me. At least let me know that I

677
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 2: offended you so that I could apologize, because it's not

678
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 2: my attent. And that's the other thing to me about sisterhood.

679
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 2: When you're wrong, it's cool to be like, since my

680
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,760
Speaker 2: bad facts where you're.

681
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: Wrong, it's cool to be like, I didn't realize that

682
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 3: it affected you that way. I didn't mean that I apologize.

683
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: I just I think sometimes we use that word sisterhood

684
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 1: to lightly loosely, yeah, because a lot of people don't

685
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 1: really truly understand what not only what it means, but

686
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: what comes with it. Yes, if I say to you

687
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,320
Speaker 1: like you are my sister, like you are.

688
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 2: My you are my sister girl, and I'm trying to

689
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 2: make you my sorrow, Oh, I'm.

690
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 1: Conversation but I know that you're going to have my back.

691
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: I don't care where i'm at if I'm not in

692
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: that room and you're in that room. Oh already know,

693
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 1: like I know it's going to happen. So I had again, dang,

694
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: y'all probably like I need to pick better friends, not you. No,

695
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 1: because I was about to tell this story real quick,

696
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: because when you talk about like just saying no, you

697
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,440
Speaker 1: say no to a friend, then.

698
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 3: They say you ain't right, you ain't a friend.

699
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: You know. I can't believe she said no to mean somebody.

700
00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 1: The other day, I said, how are you mad at me?

701
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 1: Because I won't spend my money on something for you?

702
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: It's my money, So she said to me, she said, yeah,

703
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: but you can do it. It ain't even about that, right,

704
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: It's not about that. I had a friend say to

705
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 1: me that she couldn't be my friend anymore because we

706
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: went two weeks without me texting her. But I reminded her,

707
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 1: I said, if we go through our text exchange, I

708
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 1: text you once a week every week. I'm the one

709
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: that's always reaching out to you. So I intentionally did

710
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: text see if you would reach out to me. Yeah.

711
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: So my point in that is how like it should

712
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,399
Speaker 1: work both ways, right, And if you if you're really

713
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 1: my friend and you haven't heard from me in two weeks,

714
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 1: you don't, you're not concerned? What what's going on?

715
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 3: Going on with me?

716
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: Exactly exactly like the old thing that says check on

717
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: your strong friends sometimes, yes, because your strong friends struggle

718
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:45,479
Speaker 1: and we go through stuff too.

719
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,239
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, but if.

720
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: You're not going to text, text me and check on me,

721
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: you have no idea, Yes, what I might be going what.

722
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 3: I might be going through, exactly exactly, And so as.

723
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 1: We look, so I said, by and run me my

724
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 1: money back. Yeah, I asked, what you want to do,

725
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:06,359
Speaker 1: just come on running back?

726
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 2: Well, if you got some extra coins laying around, there's

727
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 2: a vendor room downstairs. I just tell you what I

728
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: bought over here that looks the cook whar I'm just

729
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 2: laying There's a vendor room downstairs. I got some nice

730
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:26,240
Speaker 2: stuff in it. But I know we have to start

731
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 2: to wrap up very soon. But I would love to

732
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 2: just kind of pull the audience a little bit, if

733
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 2: you don't mind, and just see if there are maybe

734
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:43,320
Speaker 2: two or three who don't mind sharing with our audience

735
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 2: what their definition of sisterhood is, or what they would

736
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 2: describe a sisterhood to be, because we started this by

737
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 2: saying it's different for everyone.

738
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 1: So do I have one over there? Three?

739
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,120
Speaker 3: Just come up straight?

740
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,479
Speaker 2: She range, Just come on, come on up to the front,

741
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 2: because I can't take the mic down there, so you

742
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: got to come up here.

743
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 3: You got oh see there we go. Hello, Hello, Sure,

744
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 3: I love you.

745
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 6: My definition of sisterhood is actually being the person that

746
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 6: I expect from myself to you. If you can't be

747
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 6: honest and open with me, tell me what I'm doing wrong,

748
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 6: tell me when I'm doing good, be my cheerleading when

749
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 6: I need it, and even be my mentor and even

750
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 6: my mom at times to say nope, like you do.

751
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 3: Terrika, Rika, she she is a sister. You can't be

752
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:37,800
Speaker 3: my sister.

753
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 6: I've had too many friends who I call cis and

754
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 6: ended up being the cist that was the snake cysts

755
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 6: because the whole time I'm sitting here and I'm being

756
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 6: the friend and a sister to you, and the whole

757
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 6: time you were actually planning and plotting against me. So

758
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 6: sisterhood is when you can genuinely be yourself and be

759
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 6: able to tell me bad good, and indifferent and we

760
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 6: could still hook it out at the end.

761
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good, And you hit on something else that

762
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 2: we needn't got time to discuss because I have oftentimes

763
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 2: been that person where I'm like, I would do that,

764
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 2: and therefore I expect you to do that for me

765
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 2: because I would do that for you. But then you

766
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:23,400
Speaker 2: realize that everybody not you, right, so you can't really

767
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 2: do You can't really expect people to give you and

768
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 2: do for you as you would do for them because they're.

769
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: Just not you.

770
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:32,280
Speaker 3: Yep, so interesting, hey, sith.

771
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 5: So for me, sisterhood is about communications, about communicating your love,

772
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 5: and the most important thing about that is grace and empathy.

773
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 5: I think if that's anything that we do, we have

774
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 5: to extend grace to one another and also be truthful.

775
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 3: And truth isn't about.

776
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 5: Just because something like I don't like your head like that.

777
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,959
Speaker 5: There's ways that you can say something to someone without

778
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:57,359
Speaker 5: hugging their things, but also showing the truth in it,

779
00:42:57,880 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 5: and that comes down to also.

780
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: Being raceful with one another.

781
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,719
Speaker 5: People make mistakes and understanding that your friends aren't going

782
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 5: to be perfect, your sisters aren't always going to be perfect,

783
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 5: but giving them the grace to understand and try and

784
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 5: emphasize with where they are.

785
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: That's good, that's really good. We got one more. I

786
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 2: see the sword right here. Can you meet me at

787
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:22,399
Speaker 2: the stage, sore. Sisterhood for me is the sister that's

788
00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 2: gonna pray for me, pray and truth and hold it

789
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 2: in their heart and not share it with anybody else.

790
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 2: To pray me out of that situation. Now tell me

791
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 2: what to do, but pray me out of it. Thank you,

792
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 2: that's all you need. Oh that's good. That should have

793
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 2: been p r A Y. No, that's good.

794
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: Not pr e y.

795
00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: Okay, we are Hey, we can have church up in here.

796
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 3: Okay, thank you for that.

797
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 1: That was so good. And because I know we're gonna

798
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,760
Speaker 1: wrap in a minute. But I was sitting here thinking

799
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 1: about something. So it's a question I'm going to ask you,

800
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: and if anybody wants to answer it, sure, if I'm

801
00:44:15,800 --> 00:44:20,919
Speaker 1: your sister and you're my sister, like, I only want

802
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: the best for you, absolutely in everything, absolutely, So why

803
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 1: is it that we feel like we always have to

804
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: compete with each other?

805
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:36,959
Speaker 3: I wouldn't know how to answer that because I don't

806
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:37,720
Speaker 3: have that spirit.

807
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:43,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, I want all the things for you, absolutely,

808
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: because I believe what's for you is for you.

809
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:50,399
Speaker 2: So this actually takes me to the conversation we had

810
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 2: this morning when and we won't get too too political,

811
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 2: when your brother asked you, so, I'm supposed to vote

812
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 2: for Kamala just because I'm black?

813
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:03,879
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, yes, But I can give you a whole

814
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 7: lot of other reasons why you should, other reasons why

815
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 7: you should, But yes, yes, because.

816
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 2: Number one, as a black woman, I want the best

817
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 2: for you, and I want you to be successful and

818
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 2: to see another black woman sitting in the highest office

819
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 2: in our land.

820
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: How about yes?

821
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 3: And for nothing else, Yes, that's why I'm vote for you.

822
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: So here's what I told you. It's my baby brother.

823
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 1: But I mean he's forty years old, right, So I

824
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,919
Speaker 1: said to him, because he I said, well, if you're

825
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: not going to vote for her because she's a black woman,

826
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: let me give you a lot of other reasons why

827
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:41,839
Speaker 1: you should. Right anyway, But I said to him, I said,

828
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: when you say the things you're saying about her, you're

829
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: saying about me. And I'm your sister for real, So

830
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: I am good enough to cook your food, to clean

831
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,800
Speaker 1: your house, to wash your clothes, to run your beast

832
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,800
Speaker 1: to give you massage, to do all what all the

833
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: things that we do, but I ain't good enough to

834
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 1: run the country.

835
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 3: Yep, yep.

836
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: So he was like, no, no, no, understand about you. But

837
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 1: it is. But it is the only difference is I

838
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 1: mean there are several but she light skin. I'm dark skinned.

839
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: But it's a black woman. So when you say the

840
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 1: things that you're saying, I notice a little off topic, y'all,

841
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 1: but I got hot. But when you say the things

842
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: that you're saying about Kamala Harris as a who is

843
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 1: a black woman, I feel this. I feel those things.

844
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 2: You know, it's not off topic because that is another

845
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 2: level of sisterhood. We have sisterhood here because remembers of

846
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: sigmcguame Moreau. We have sisterhood because we are representing in

847
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 2: the sports world and beyond. But there is a sisterhood

848
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 2: among black women. And too often people are doing and

849
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 2: saying things yes this, yes, when there is space and

850
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 2: love for literally all of us in everything that we're doing.

851
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,360
Speaker 2: And you can see how big and bad that sisterhood

852
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 2: really is. Speaking of Kamala when the day her announcement

853
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 2: was made about her campaign, that evening four million dollars

854
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 2: was raised.

855
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: How about that.

856
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 2: That's how the sisterhood is. That's how we operate as

857
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 2: black women. So there is absolutely a sisterhood among us,

858
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 2: and I think the best way to close is that

859
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,920
Speaker 2: we literally have to be diligent and have to be

860
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 2: intentional about how we utilize that sisterhood. We have to

861
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: keep each other together and we have to hold each

862
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 2: other accountable. But they don't never need to be a competition. No,

863
00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 2: it never needs to be a competition now ever. Ever, ever,

864
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 2: unless there's some money on the line, then maybe.

865
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 3: Maybe it will then become a competition.

866
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 1: Like gonna I'm gonna compete.

867
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:44,720
Speaker 3: I'm gonna compete.

868
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: That's different, like I'm competing with you, right, cheer for

869
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 1: you, you know what. I'm gonna push you a little bit.

870
00:47:51,880 --> 00:47:54,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like tea girl, what you waiting on?

871
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 3: Yeah? Go get her for sure, Go.

872
00:47:56,640 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: Get your blessing. Go gig go gig yeah yeah yeah.

873
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 2: Okay, So before we get out of here, I want

874
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 2: to first of all say thank you all for allowing

875
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 2: us to have our show.

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Speaker 1: We got giveaways.

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Speaker 3: We do have a.

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Speaker 2: Couple more giveaways to give away, and I already know

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Speaker 2: who I'm gonna get this to Oh do you know

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Speaker 2: how'mna get this too. I'm giving this to Sora Shakara,

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Speaker 2: who literally just came up here to speak. And I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna tell you why, because it is not easy to

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Speaker 2: get on a microphone. And anytime you ask somebody do

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Speaker 2: you want to have something to say, y'all know y'all

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00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 2: got something to say, but you always scared to come

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Speaker 2: to the mic. And so because she was the first

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Speaker 2: one who was unscared to come to the mic, she's

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Speaker 2: finna get this.

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Speaker 1: One, right. Did you say unscared? There? You did say unscared?

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Speaker 3: There you go?

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Speaker 1: Well, I feel like I should just give this to somebody.

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Speaker 3: Then we'll listen.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna keep it. I give it to somebody.

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Speaker 1: I will give it. I'm gonna give it to you.

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Speaker 3: Wanna give it to who herd?

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Speaker 1: There? Yep?

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Speaker 3: Which one in the blue?

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Speaker 1: What's your name? Connie Kanya? I know I met you outside, right,

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Speaker 1: I don't want my glasses on? Yep?

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Speaker 3: This is hers.

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Speaker 1: I got you.

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Speaker 3: Now you know she's from the Southeastern region. Why you

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Speaker 3: were worn?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: Wait, we're giving up.

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Speaker 1: We're giving out hoodies and all the things.

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Speaker 3: Oh, go ahead, go ahead.

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Speaker 2: You then came up to our region and just taking stuff.

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Speaker 2: We're giving out latives and taxis. I have got a complaint.

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Speaker 3: I got a.

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Speaker 2: Grievance, and no I gotta I gotta grievance. Oh oh,

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Speaker 2: I didn't point of order. I'm just like, we gonna

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Speaker 2: get enough of that tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: I'm playing. I'm playing.

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Speaker 1: And she talked, she told me right, you know, but

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Speaker 1: she also told me that she used her I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it was her first paycheck, but she used

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Speaker 1: her paycheck to buy a pair of air swoops. She's hid.

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Speaker 1: Look at that. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: I do.

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Speaker 3: I love that.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 2: How we close our show as we again, our show

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Speaker 2: is levels to this and so if you notice the

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Speaker 2: opening its surface level.

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Speaker 3: The conversation is next level.

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Speaker 2: And when we get to the end, we always level

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Speaker 2: off with a good positive word because no matter what

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Speaker 2: we talk about on the show, we want you to

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Speaker 2: leave feeling that there is a promise of hope, of positivity,

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Speaker 2: of good just good nature after listening and kind of

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Speaker 2: being on the show with us.

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Speaker 3: So what you got for us today, Cheryl?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I do have something good? So I know we

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Speaker 1: just ended Women's Black History Month. We did, but it's

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Speaker 1: Women's Black History Month for us every day period. So

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Speaker 1: I felt like this quote was very fitting for this room,

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Speaker 1: and it says, I am a black woman. Don't look

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Speaker 1: beyond me, don't see through me. Look me in the eye,

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Speaker 1: hold my gaze, Listen to my heart, see my soul,

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Speaker 1: see me for who I am, not what you would

943
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Speaker 1: like me to be. Accept or reject, but don't hide

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Speaker 1: from my truth.

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Speaker 2: I love that so much, especially the don't look through me,

946
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Speaker 2: don't look beyond me.

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Speaker 1: Like, see me for who I am.

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Speaker 3: Amazing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is an incredible way to end the show,

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Speaker 2: and so I want to say thank.

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00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 3: You to all of you.

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00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 2: We appreciate you being a part of this podcast experience.

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00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 3: Feel free to download our show. You can give us

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00:51:58,000 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 3: a rating on.

955
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 2: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, wherever you get your podcasts. And if

956
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 2: you really liked and enjoyed our show, we have an

957
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 2: email address. We take feedback, criticism, suggestions for new topics,

958
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 2: and that is at levels to this podcast at gmail

959
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 2: dot com. So until next Instagram, oh Instagram, follow us

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00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 2: on Instagram at l tt pod on Instagram ltt pod

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Speaker 2: and so.

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Speaker 3: Until next time.

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Speaker 1: Keep your say one thing you can I know you're closing.

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Speaker 1: Y'all probably already know this.

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Speaker 3: Uh oh, don't you don't you? And Bear, don't you like?

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Speaker 1: I love you this this one right here? And she

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00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: may not know it.

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Speaker 3: Don't you do this showyl like she's held.

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Speaker 1: Me down a lot and gotten me through some really,

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00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:59,840
Speaker 1: really really dark days just to hear her voice. And

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Speaker 1: I know no matter she might not answer when I call,

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Speaker 1: but she gonna text and be like this, I call

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Speaker 1: you right back like I need. I need you to

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Speaker 1: know in front of all of our sisters in this room,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you.

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Speaker 3: Don't you make me mess.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you for always being you.

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, sir.

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Speaker 3: I love you that.

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Speaker 1: I love you.

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00:53:34,360 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna fight you because when I came a

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Speaker 2: beat the heck out my face and now you didn't

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Speaker 2: got She's still here somewhere say got me out here

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Speaker 2: tearing up. But anyway, thank you all so much. We

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Speaker 2: appreciate you. We we really do appreciate having this opportunity.

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Speaker 2: And before I get off the stage, I said I

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Speaker 2: was gonna make sure to get this on my podcast.

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Speaker 2: I have to show love to the Spear Foundation. Which

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Speaker 2: is doing amazing work and it's continuing and as a

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Speaker 2: sponsor for this event, and I absolutely have to as

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00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,839
Speaker 2: we talked about paying homage, I absolutely have to show

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Speaker 2: love to our leadership that is sitting in the front

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Speaker 2: of this room, Madam first and second, Grand Madam, Grand Madison,

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Speaker 2: Tactis Madam Far Western Tactis, Madam Southwestern Taxis Madam Southeastern

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Speaker 2: UCC Madam twenty three Send our Jordan's Send Tactis to

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Speaker 2: pasting Taxtias Preston and passing Taxis Vannable. Thank you all

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Speaker 2: so much for what you all continue to do.

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