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Speaker 1: The Jewel Show on demand. Dating a felon can have

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Speaker 1: its perks? Really, Didjewels Show? Yeah? Call us up right now.

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Speaker 1: We're asking this question when you first start dating somebody,

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Speaker 1: what crimes are you cool with? Because Nina overheard something

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Speaker 1: the other day that she'll tell you in just a second.

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Speaker 1: But we have to ask you that question because people

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Speaker 1: are cool with all kinds of things, and I think

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Speaker 1: that dating a felon can have its perks because it

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Speaker 1: depends on what kind of crime. Right, kind of crimes

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Speaker 1: are considered felony. Auto theft, Oh okay, that's definitely a felony.

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Speaker 1: But if you date someone who's a car thief right

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Speaker 1: one morning, why are you looking at me? While you

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Speaker 1: say that? You can just roll over and wake up

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Speaker 1: and you're like, oh hey, this is pretty nice. This

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Speaker 1: is greg. We got a Nubugatti there. I feel wonderful.

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Speaker 1: I love you so much, by the way, I'll see

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Speaker 1: you in five to ten years, you know, So call

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Speaker 1: us up right now. Eight to eighty three, four three one,

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Speaker 1: six one text in foward or six one. When you

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Speaker 1: first start dating somebody, what crimes are you cool with?

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Speaker 1: Nina asked this question because of something that you heard

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Speaker 1: Doctor Phil. Yeah. Yeah, So my mom records Doctor Phil

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Speaker 1: and every once in a while she gets in the

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Speaker 1: mood to watch it. Last night was one of those nights.

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Speaker 1: So I do live with my parents. In case you're wondering,

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Speaker 1: I was getting wine. She was watching Doctor Phil. But

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Speaker 1: there was a woman on the show that was talking

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Speaker 1: about how she was married to this man who had

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Speaker 1: kidnapped two women and had them in their basement and

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Speaker 1: he didn't all of a sudden get a conscious until

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Speaker 1: she told him that she was pregnant, and so then

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Speaker 1: he like released the women and didn't end up killing

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Speaker 1: them as he intended. So you're killed me. You married

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Speaker 1: a murderer and then got up sip when you had

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Speaker 1: a kid that he was still murdered. What right? So

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Speaker 1: that part because then she revealed that he had killed

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Speaker 1: somebody at eighteen, and so when she married him, she

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Speaker 1: knew he was a murderer. And so I'm standing in

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Speaker 1: the kitchen just looking at the TV, like, what is

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Speaker 1: wrong with this woman? You married somebody that you knew

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Speaker 1: was a murderer and then you know But then my

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Speaker 1: mom was like, well, what were the circumstances. She's like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'd marry a murderer. But you know,

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Speaker 1: then we just got into this big discussion and I

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Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you guys about it because what

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Speaker 1: crimes aren't you okay with? I guess it depends, right,

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Speaker 1: it's conditional maybe right, like if um, if it was

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Speaker 1: self defense, okay, true self defense Okay. Also, you still

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Speaker 1: probably got a lot of baggage from that. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if I want to date you, but maybe you know,

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Speaker 1: but if it was just cold blooded murder, I don't

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Speaker 1: know how people marry people like that, but they do.

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Speaker 1: It happens a lot, how about it all the time

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Speaker 1: because everybody wants to see the best in people. Everybody

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Speaker 1: wants to give people second chances. I mean, murder is

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Speaker 1: a hard note for me. But I definitely did dat

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Speaker 1: a carthy for a while. Yeah. I never woke up

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Speaker 1: in a New bougan No, probably woke up in some

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Speaker 1: old Hona civics because those are that they steal. You

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Speaker 1: nailed it, like all the parts of the civics, like

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Speaker 1: where it was a hat. So, so did he get arrested?

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Speaker 1: Did he end up getting arrested time? A few times? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a few different times, and then also like would sell

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Speaker 1: drugs and stuff. But this was a different time of

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Speaker 1: my life. I was a different person, so I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: do that again. So you wouldn't date a karthief again.

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Speaker 1: And no, I wouldn't recommend it. Well what about you,

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Speaker 1: It's all right for you. Um, you know, like I said,

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Speaker 1: it would depend on we're back to murder. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: back to murder in my head. And it would be conditional. Also,

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Speaker 1: you know, of course with everything in life, because humans

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Speaker 1: are how we are, It would depend how hot they were, right, like, like,

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Speaker 1: if you're super hot, you probably can get away with murder.

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Speaker 1: I might date you, but I would probably anything that

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Speaker 1: it was heist related, I think would actually be kind

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Speaker 1: of hot. I like heist movies, you know that also robbery, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so date a robber, but so like, heist is like

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Speaker 1: an elevated word for a robber, Yeah, like a classy robber. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like a like a heist is like a where you

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Speaker 1: get a group of people together and it's really planned

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Speaker 1: out and you got blueprints of something. I mean, you're

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out how to get around all the

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Speaker 1: security cameras. What is this? You know, maybe there's maybe

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Speaker 1: she's trying to rob from a museum or something. That's

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Speaker 1: kind of hot. Yeah, let's go to the museum. I

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Speaker 1: like going to museum, you know, to walk around the

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Speaker 1: museum on a date and then go, hey, are you

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Speaker 1: thinking about robbing this place later? That's so hard. He's

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Speaker 1: so serious? Name Tom. Yeah, what crimes are you cool

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Speaker 1: with when it comes to dating? Well, I'm cool with

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Speaker 1: anything reasonable. I guess nothing. No, you know, crazy amount

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Speaker 1: of murders or anything, but cool crazy amount? So like

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Speaker 1: what's a crazy amount? Like over two or we're gonna

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Speaker 1: well over five? Yeah? Like, well, so about eleven years ago,

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Speaker 1: I met this woman that's like a nine and I'm

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Speaker 1: like a five or six, and she's telling me about

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Speaker 1: a involuntary man spotter chart. She was a prison for

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Speaker 1: a few years, end up getting dropped and getting out.

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Speaker 1: Here we are eleven years later, happily married for ten

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Speaker 1: years and four kids and loyal and that's amazing. You

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Speaker 1: know what, Tom, you just made me. I always try

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Speaker 1: to look at the positives in everything. Right, you just

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Speaker 1: gave me some insight on something. So she did prison time, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how long? Four to five years? Stuff like that? Four

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Speaker 1: to five years? So That shows me. If I start

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Speaker 1: dating somebody and they had done time in prison, well

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Speaker 1: guess what. There's no fear of commitment there, right. I mean,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna stay married, They're not gonna go anywhere. They're

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Speaker 1: not scared of getting locked up for a little while

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Speaker 1: in a relationship, are getting cuffed up, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. Thank you for your full comment. The Jebel

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