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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Anyone going up for a date this weekend? Maybe a

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Speaker 2: date with someone new?

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Speaker 3: Does Coaster Boy Josh count No, okay, no, no.

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Speaker 2: There's a new term. You must know what is flood

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Speaker 2: Lighting's okay, flood lighting on a date? Do you know

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Speaker 2: what that means? Is when you go out with someone

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Speaker 2: and you just give them everything about you, You say

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Speaker 2: everything about you, you, you, you, you, you, You give

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Speaker 2: them too much information. I so agree with all these

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Speaker 2: memes we see coming by. Stop telling people everything, have

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Speaker 2: some mystery. But flood lighting when you expose way too

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Speaker 2: much about yourself, way too soon.

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Speaker 3: Yep? Is that the same as verbal diarrhea?

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Speaker 2: Or no, I think verbal diarrhea is floodlighting. Okay, you

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Speaker 2: know who brought this term up, Brene Brown, she said,

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Speaker 2: I love Brene Brown. By the way, a lot of

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Speaker 2: times we share too much information as a way to

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Speaker 2: protect us from vulnerability.

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Speaker 1: Okay, like putting all your cards on the table at once.

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Speaker 2: Exactly who wants to be on a date with someone

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Speaker 2: and the person you're across the table with is like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm an only child, I hate my dad,

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Speaker 2: I'm on a cleanse. Okay, Can I be honest though

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Speaker 2: I want ab lot of debt.

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Speaker 3: I would love to know all of those things on

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Speaker 3: a first date. Give me all your red flags right

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Speaker 3: now so I can decide if this is something that

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Speaker 3: I actually want to deal with, Like debt is a

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Speaker 3: huge issue. Please tell me up front. They'll let me

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Speaker 3: find out later.

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Speaker 2: When I love you, I know, But how about the

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Speaker 2: questions like you know, when's less than me cried or something?

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Speaker 2: You know, who do you love to have sex with?

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Speaker 2: I don't know anything, but I'm just you just start

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Speaker 2: spewing out all your stats. I'm like, okay, what else?

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Speaker 3: Credit score, bank account, Please show me all of it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Nate, Well, I was quick to pooh pooh this

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Speaker 4: as well, but I do agree with that, especially as

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Speaker 4: you get older, you kind of want the resume so

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Speaker 4: you don't have to go on four or five dates

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Speaker 4: to realize Oh wait, oh god.

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Speaker 2: I mean you don't want that day one or night one.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 6: I'm kind of thinking, let's get this out of the way.

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Speaker 2: Okay. If you have information like why you're banned from Walmart,

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Speaker 2: I want to hear that. Yeah, hell, yeah, you know

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But I don't know, not everything.

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Speaker 3: I just like, I don't I like wasting time. So

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Speaker 3: if there's something that you think would be a huge

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Speaker 3: issue down the road, maybe just tell me now and

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Speaker 3: let me decide.

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Speaker 2: Let me give you the big one though. Yes, if

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Speaker 2: I'm going to date with you and one of the

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Speaker 2: first things you say to me in the first half hour, huh,

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Speaker 2: I just want let you know right now. I don't

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Speaker 2: want to have children? Yes, oh yeah on your first date?

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Speaker 3: Yes, because you know what if that is what you

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Speaker 3: want in your life. Yeah, don't waste your time here

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Speaker 3: because I don't want children.

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Speaker 2: Well maybe, but maybe I'm not dating you to marry.

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Speaker 2: I'm dating you to have fun.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But you know how many people have been with somebody

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Speaker 1: for a while and then they find out and then

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Speaker 1: they're like, oh damn.

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Speaker 2: What do I do now, Daniel. I'm not saying for

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Speaker 2: a while. I'm just saying I'm talking first date. Well,

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Speaker 2: like dogs sniffing each other's butts, right.

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Speaker 1: I think I would ask that question. I think I

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Speaker 1: would say, hey, do you want to have kids?

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Speaker 2: One day?

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Speaker 3: And I think for the most part, like I date

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Speaker 3: have fun, I'm not really trying to get married. Or

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Speaker 3: have kids or anything like that. But I think a

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Speaker 3: lot of people are dating to get married. So if

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Speaker 3: you are dating to get married, that's also something that

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Speaker 3: you should let people know up front and then bring

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Speaker 3: up the kid thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let me ask you this. Maybe an hour into

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Speaker 2: the date, you look at them and go, hey, what

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Speaker 2: is this and you point to them, point to your

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Speaker 2: point to them, like what is this so hilarious? I know,

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Speaker 2: but you're basically kind of saying that a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Where are you? I think you're knocking on that door

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Speaker 2: by talking about whether you want kids or not, because

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Speaker 2: you're basically if the kid's conversation comes up, unless it's

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Speaker 2: organically whatever or carefully planned and planted, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It seems like you're kind of running in.

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Speaker 3: I think if it's going to be in a dating profile,

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Speaker 3: you should be able to talk about those things on

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Speaker 3: a first date. And that isn't a lot of dating

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Speaker 3: profiles like kids are no kids, marriage, no marriage? Those

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Speaker 3: I think those are okay. I would I would love

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Speaker 3: a credit score. Please tell me.

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Speaker 2: I'm in debt.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to have a ton of money. I

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Speaker 3: just need to know your credit score because that does

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Speaker 3: state a lot.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think it really depends on your age too.

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Speaker 2: If you're twenty four going on a date, who cares, right,

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Speaker 2: go on four.

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Speaker 4: Or five dates and then you find out you know

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Speaker 4: somebody's political views or whatever. But if you're eighty five, oh,

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Speaker 4: you just got to have like, here's the will. Seriously,

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Speaker 4: you got to just jump right to the point. The

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Speaker 4: older you are, the more you have to get right

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Speaker 4: to the point as to why you're there and what

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Speaker 2: Let's okay, so let's say I got let me put

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Speaker 2: myself in some situation. Let's say that I'm single again,

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Speaker 2: and I'm getting older at your age. Yeah, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: getting older at my age. Thank you, thank you, thanks

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Speaker 2: for being there for me. He goes in. He's going

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Speaker 2: into that voice again. Hold on now, hear me out.

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Speaker 2: I'm on a date with someone. I'm like, okay, I

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Speaker 2: don't want to get married. I just want to hang out.

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Speaker 2: So I have to use I'm old, so I have

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Speaker 2: to start using the the extras. I'm loaded. I've got

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Speaker 2: so much money. I've got properties around the world. I

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Speaker 2: don't but you know, I'm trying to get them on

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Speaker 2: my hook. Yeah, for all the wrong reason. Who wants

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Speaker 2: to date someone like that? At this guy right here?

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Speaker 2: Really I was with a friend of the night and

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Speaker 2: she said, you know, I gotta find this ninety year

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Speaker 2: old guy in the hospital who's really loaded about to die.

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Speaker 2: What that's the relationship you want? Absolutely?

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Speaker 3: Wow, she knows what she wants.

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Speaker 6: You gotta put all the chips on the table. I mean,

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Speaker 6: if you don't have like your youth or your looks,

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Speaker 6: you gotta you gotta supplement that with something else.

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Speaker 2: You don't don't.

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Speaker 6: I got riches, I got boats, I got this. You

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Speaker 6: gotta you gotta hook him somehow, And I'll.

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Speaker 2: Go, oh yeah, you want him to want you for

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Speaker 2: that reason?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, who cares?

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Speaker 2: There are people like that? Scary?

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Speaker 1: What is a ninety five year old guy anyway gonna

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Speaker 1: do with like a twenty five year.

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Speaker 6: Old best final days of his life?

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Speaker 3: And I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: At ninety five, you guy's gonna have the heart attack

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Speaker 1: right there and drop dead on the floor right away.

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Speaker 2: His last words were he looked up at this guy

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Speaker 2: and said, I'm coming hit them mout.

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Speaker 1: Isn't there like a sports coach that's like ninety something?

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Speaker 3: Bill Belichick he's a ninety something and how old is

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Speaker 3: this go for?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: And how old is Bill Belichick? In the sixties or seventy? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: there's like a forty eight years.

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Speaker 1: She's with him because she's you know, he's hot and

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Speaker 1: she's really attracted to him. And yeah, he's a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: That's the reason she's with him.

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, Okay, stupid Nate went through all the

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Speaker 2: phones and found one person that degrees with them. I

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Speaker 2: don't even know her name because you want a hold

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Speaker 2: of the sign. Okay, enough, Hello Beverly, Beverly Hory.

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Speaker 5: Hello, I'm great.

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Speaker 2: You hear you're hearing what we're talking about. What's your thought?

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Speaker 5: I am scared to death and now this makes me

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Speaker 5: even more nervous, so I show her share.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so first date and how many years?

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Speaker 5: Nine years?

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Speaker 2: Okay, tell me is it tonight?

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Speaker 5: When is it tonight? Yeap tonight? After? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You sound scared?

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Speaker 5: I am. I'm I think I'm more nervous talking to y'all.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know, let's get on with that. You've

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Speaker 2: got to get a grip on that, because we won't.

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Speaker 5: I will.

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Speaker 2: Have a little sip, have some scissor and let's move

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Speaker 2: on with the conversation. So, yeah, what was the thought?

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Speaker 2: Help her out here?

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Speaker 4: So Beverly is scared it's her first date in nine years,

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Speaker 4: but she also wants the date to get right to

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Speaker 4: the point, right because she's older.

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm, I'm, I'm not here to waste time, and

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Speaker 5: I want to know what I'm getting into.

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Speaker 1: So look, what are important questions that you would like

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Speaker 1: answered on this date?

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Speaker 5: Well, start with the job of kids. How many times

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Speaker 5: have you been divorced? It's the basic stuff, pretty much,

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Speaker 5: I want to know. Yeah, okay, wait, hold, apparently I

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Speaker 5: cannot be a sugar mama.

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Speaker 2: Someone's gonna sit across the table from you and you're

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Speaker 2: gonna ask them their credit score on our first date.

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Speaker 5: No, but that's where the job comes in. I mean,

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Speaker 5: make sure they've got a good job going.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you could bring up credit troubles or arrest arrest

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Speaker 2: a record.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the horses will ruin a credit.

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Speaker 2: Score, so right, exactly.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, I mean health problems. I don't want to

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Speaker 5: deal with anybody with health problems. I got my own

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Speaker 5: stuff to worry about. I understand that.

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Speaker 3: But there are ways to get to the credit score

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Speaker 3: thing without asking about a credit score, like, if we

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Speaker 3: were to go get an apartment today, would you need

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Speaker 3: a coast line up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I need to write this stuff down.

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Speaker 2: You know you don't know. Yes, no, you don't. You're

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Speaker 2: gonna look across the table at me.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to yeah, go ahead, go ahead.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm waiting near the question that you're gonna ask me. No, no, no,

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Speaker 3: oh no, the microphone got on blud. Okay, we might

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Speaker 3: have broken a microphone.

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Speaker 5: At the hole.

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Speaker 3: So he broke his microphone hot the water.

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Speaker 2: God, here's my point.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you.

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Speaker 2: Don't write this stuff down. It's all awful. No one's

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Speaker 2: gonna want to be with you if you start asking

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Speaker 2: these questions.

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Speaker 1: I think she should write them down and hand them

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Speaker 1: to him with a pen and say, please fill this

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Speaker 1: out and see what.

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Speaker 5: Oh that's a good idea and application.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that park No it's not.

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Speaker 5: Yes, good, I like that idea. All right, Well you

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Speaker 5: don't how all the girls agreed?

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Speaker 1: You know, wait, can I go back to one thing?

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Speaker 2: I totally agree with you. I'm talking about a first date.

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Speaker 2: I've been very clear about that, haven't I first date,

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Speaker 2: I don't even know you. You're going to get to

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Speaker 6: This first date.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I'm a single mom, so this is just a

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Speaker 2: Well, not asking about if they're about to die.

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Speaker 5: I am going to write Gandhi's questions now blame her, Beverly.

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Speaker 6: Let us know how we'll have a second date if

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Speaker 3: that's how you would date. You would have a long time.

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Speaker 3: You take your time and enjoy yourself. Nate's like, no,

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Speaker 2: Do you think that someone's going to look at you

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Speaker 3: I think the person for me, they would be okay

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah right, aren't first dates like interviews anyways?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to be a little more sly, I think,

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Speaker 1: Yours first date is I make a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: I'm a radio personality.

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Speaker 3: I'm on the air. Yeah, no, she hooks them all.

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Speaker 3: We got a glimpse into scary. In the next five years,

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Speaker 2: Best to look on your the best look on your

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Speaker 5: I appreciate it, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Good luck for that. I don't know. Relationships are tough.

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Speaker 2: worst credit score in the world, but I eliminated them

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Good luck, Nate.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to date anymore.

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Speaker 2: Now, go have fun. You hold people. You're the fun

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to have fun with someone else who

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Speaker 3: So I was talking about this actually in one of

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Speaker 3: and sandals disgusting. I would never date a guy with

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Speaker 3: you think, oh, this is cute, How cute?

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Speaker 2: You're so weirding for how long?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, socks and so I understand that, But I do

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, someone just said, mm Elvis, you're living in

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Speaker 2: the past. This is twenty twenty five. Okay, I'm living

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Speaker 2: in the past. Sure.

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Speaker 3: Why is everyone just not allowed to have their own opinion?

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Speaker 3: You feel like that? Why do you have to be

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Speaker 2: Oh I'm living in the past because I'm from an

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Speaker 3: Okay, off with your head.

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Speaker 2: That's what it is here. You go, Well, good luck,

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Speaker 2: good luck to all you people out there in these interviews,

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Speaker 2: Tonight interview. Make sure they bring maybe they need to

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Speaker 2: print up their credit score and bring it to the table.

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Speaker 6: Have it written.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny you mentioned that I got it right here.

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Speaker 1: the chase.

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Speaker 5: There you go.

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Speaker 2: I have one word to you, first dater Equifax. I

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