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Speaker 1: All right, I did to hear we're calling on, little Ludon.

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Speaker 2: I can't hear, but I think I'm one of the

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Speaker 3: I think we can hear. Actually, if you can hear us.

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Speaker 3: Now, hey, there we go, little Luddon. So thanks for

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Speaker 1: I have two questions with you, uh, your experience with

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Speaker 1: childhood favoritism and then divorce or a couple's counseling. Starting

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Speaker 1: with what was your personal experience with childhood favoritism?

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Speaker 2: So first off, I'm also Stella Davis.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh heck, yeah, let's go.

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Speaker 2: I go buy a little Duddon because John, actually, you

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Speaker 2: gave me that nickname.

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Speaker 1: No, I forgot that.

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Speaker 2: My experience with childhood favoritism is that my older biosister

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Speaker 2: Everything My sister was allowed to hit me, she was

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Speaker 4: I are I'm still a Davis little Udon. Shout out

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Speaker 4: you for being able to do all that. I feel

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Speaker 4: like it's We've read a couple of stories about it

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Speaker 4: for everyone who just jumped into the stream is basically ope,

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Speaker 2: And why I would go to new divorce? And the

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Speaker 2: She only started like softening up because she was trying

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Speaker 2: The fact that eventually, like this daughter is just going

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Speaker 4: It's like not only is the like like all I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, the silent treatment is super childish. Well well, Stella,

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Speaker 4: thank you so much for calling in and share your perspective.

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Speaker 2: Thank you all for listening.

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Speaker 1: I mean that that was a point that I didn't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and Stella was like essentially a version of that

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Speaker 4: perspective in this story. Have you read all the donations Sophia,

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Speaker 4: I'm late, but I made it like the stream. You

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Speaker 4: And well we're gonna like we're gonna go into this

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Speaker 4: next story. Am I the ahole for not sticking up

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Speaker 4: I'm in a really tough spot and could use some perspective.

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Speaker 4: I twenty female, have been dating my boyfriend Alex's thirty

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Speaker 1: That is terrible parenting. I mean, I think old people accountable. Yeah, exactly, exactly,

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Speaker 4: And also, like Sophie and I have a great sibling relationship,

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Speaker 1: But then it makes for great home DVDs.

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Speaker 3: That is true. That is true. I feel like we

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know why we don't. The only rivalry

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Speaker 4: Then I haven't continued into adulthood. Tom still makes condescending comments,

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Speaker 1: Apple ain't fallen far.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and Bethan, he says, let's Sam have his gold.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Thank you. Also, the TLDR is for the

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Speaker 4: So for context, I work at a museum in our city,

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Speaker 4: Last weekend, Alex and I were at a family gathering.

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Speaker 1: That listen to the girlfriend's family not easy, not easy,

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Speaker 4: And also you didn't say it to the girlfriend's family

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Speaker 4: Things escalated quickly. Tom got defensive and the situation turned

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Speaker 1: I mean they definitely should. They should punish bad behavior.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm more I think so, I'm more asking should

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he he's really putting himself out there, and

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Speaker 1: And it's like it's easy for op to kind of

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Speaker 1: why would you want to be around them? And OPI

439
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 1: has the context of like like like Opie said, she

440
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 1: was like her eyes were kind of like opened and

441
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Speaker 1: then she's like, oh, now I see this for what

442
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Speaker 1: it is.

443
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Speaker 4: Also, I think something we also have to focus on

444
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 4: here is Alex Like what a blessing a partner who

445
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 4: suddenly makes you realize that you are worthy of something

446
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 4: more than you've had. Like, I think there's there's every

447
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 4: once in a while we come into contact with a

448
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:58,919
Speaker 4: person that sees us has more than we are and

449
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 4: or sees that as more than we think of ourselves. Yes,

450
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 4: And Alex was that person for Op and I think

451
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 4: made her believe that she did not have to be

452
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 4: treated this way. He based it her self esteem, for sure,

453
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 4: a self esteem and when he saw how she was treated,

454
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 4: he's like, wait, that doesn't even make sense to the

455
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 4: And I think OPI had been just inundated with so

456
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 4: long that she just believed that that was how she

457
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 4: was supposed to be treated to her family.

458
00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 3: It's all she knew.

459
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 4: And sometimes it takes a person like Alex to actually

460
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Speaker 4: break you out of that. And I think that's a

461
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 4: beautiful thing. But I think also we can do that

462
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 4: for ourselves, like you are worthy of the best treatment.

463
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 4: You are worthy of feeling good of, like about yourself

464
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 4: and around like the people you have in your life.

465
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Speaker 4: And so if you ever don't feel that way, that's

466
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Speaker 4: a problem.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, But to your point, it can be harder for

468
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Speaker 1: people to even realize and recognize it without an outside

469
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Speaker 1: force coming in and being like, oh, this is not normal.

470
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Speaker 4: A fish that doesn't the fish that's been in water

471
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,520
Speaker 4: its whole life, doesn't know what the breeze feels like,

472
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 4: you know, And sometimes sometimes you have to have someone

473
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 4: take you on land and feel the breeze and your

474
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 4: little fish hair to feel.

475
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Speaker 3: What it feels like the plot of Luca. Yeah, yeah,

476
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Speaker 3: it is. It is the plot of Luca.

477
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Speaker 1: Wow.

478
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Speaker 3: Great movie, but no free sponsors A movie I have seen.

479
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 3: But I'm surprised you've seen that movie.

480
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Speaker 1: A great movie.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I like some movies. I feel like it's like

482
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 4: an underground Pixar film.

483
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Speaker 3: It is, it is. Yeah. My professor in college was

484
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 3: the voice of the father.

485
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Speaker 1: Awesome.

486
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Speaker 3: Yeah, like the father with the mustache. Yeah. He doesn't

487
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Speaker 3: say anything, doesn't he. Yeah, he says, he says stuff.

488
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Speaker 3: He's just like, it's like, groot, here's my Shakespeare teacher.

489
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Speaker 3: That's awesome.

490
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Speaker 4: Nice, But I think that's where that story ends. So

491
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Speaker 4: if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

492
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Speaker 3: We Love You and see it tomorrow. This is an

493
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Speaker 3: episode from Deep within the Archives.

494
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: Time for okop re Lash.

495
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Speaker 4: I faked having tourettes in the seventh grade, and I'm

496
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 4: horrified by what happened next.

497
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Speaker 1: You get what's coming next. If you fake turettes, if

498
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: you fake to rest, I will be ticked off this right.

499
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Speaker 1: Can't expect that from meke yep It's about four and

500
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Speaker 1: a half years ago.

501
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Speaker 4: I wasn't even that young, which makes it so much worse.

502
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 4: I had come across this YouTube channel of a girl

503
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 4: v logging her life with Tourett's would switch my hands up,

504
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 4: and I was suddenly convinced I had it too, and

505
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 4: immediately started mimicking the behavior. I wonder what her parents thought, Honestly, God,

506
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 4: I probably thought she developed turettes like late on set,

507
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 4: like honey, we need to go to the doctor.

508
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Speaker 3: Oh God, And.

509
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Speaker 4: I continue to do it at school the next day.

510
00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 4: I honestly don't recall much, but I remember I would

511
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 4: walk around with my friend and it would be excessively

512
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 4: loud and swear, and I would even drag it into classes,

513
00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 4: doing questionable movements and noises. I have no idea how

514
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 4: long this lasted and exactly why I was doing this,

515
00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 4: but my stomach drops embarrassment in guilt every time I

516
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Speaker 4: think about it.

517
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Speaker 3: OPI I would be embarrassed too. You sound like a

518
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 3: problem child.

519
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: Also, like this was four years ago, they still are

520
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:15,640
Speaker 1: a child.

521
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, you are a kid.

522
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 1: You're an idiot, baby.

523
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 4: Don't worry, you have plenty of fuck ups in your future.

524
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 4: That's right, We're here to read all of them. Ooh

525
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 4: will dwell will drain from the well of fuck ups

526
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 4: for the rest of your life exactly, Send us your

527
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 4: fuck ups.

528
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:32,640
Speaker 2: Oh.

529
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 4: Also, if you want to set up your fuck ups,

530
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 4: come to r slash okayop show tell us why your

531
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 4: life is maybe not going optimally right now, and we'll

532
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 4: give you advice on it.

533
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: And I got another story for you. I stole from

534
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: my own mother to buy Roebucks. She found out, and

535
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 1: I'm terrified about what happens next. Hey, you need Roebucks. Listen, Mama,

536
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 1: you gotta line my digital pockets.

537
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you know how am I supposed to buy.

538
00:27:58,400 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 1: The Roebucks things?

539
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:00,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

540
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 1: And if she's ever heard of them.

541
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,879
Speaker 4: Bro Roebucks were the original NFTs. Come on, we're insane?

542
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you trying to gate keep me from

543
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 1: from my future as an NFT art investor? Mom? Wow,

544
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: she is, I think she is. She doesn't understand the

545
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 1: future of the roadblocks community. Thanks for not seeing my potential.

546
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: Thank you. All of my eleven male friends from school

547
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: were getting Roebucks and I was the only person not

548
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 1: getting any.

549
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 3: Dude, you suck your I.

550
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: Would never be your friend. Roebucks.

551
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Speaker 4: Bro, I only associate with people who have at least

552
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 4: over one hundred roebucks.

553
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Speaker 1: Dude, try a million, bro.

554
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not snoody. I just want someone that I

555
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 4: rull the game.

556
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Speaker 2: You know.

557
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 1: I had asked my mom several times to get me roebucks,

558
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: but she always said that she doesn't trust buying online stuff. Again, Mom, NFTs. Hey,

559
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: if you're the future.

560
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 4: Coin, you would have been a millionaire and then maybe

561
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Speaker 4: lost at all.

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Speaker 1: You fucking idiot. You thought me trust the future, Trust

563
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:05,440
Speaker 1: the future, trust the process. Oh this is great. So

564
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: when my mom was bathing, I snuck into her bedroom

565
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Speaker 1: and stole her wallet. Daceyes, Mom has that going on.

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Speaker 3: She won't buy me rope bucks, and I've been waiting

567
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 3: for so long. Mommy, can't you see that these robutsu

568
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 3: for me? Hey be wrong, but I'm gonna steal you

569
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 3: from my mom.

570
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: Oh wow, banger, that's the same time completely by the way, Okay,

571
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: that's that's a ok op moment in history right there,

572
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: topt us charts chart, topping single coming to you, top hits,

573
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 1: that's right now. I took out my iPad and put

574
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: her credit card details, and then I bought four hundred roebucks.

575
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 3: What is the roebucks.

576
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's see the roebucks dollar. She's gonna assume that

577
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 1: it's four hundred dollars. I'm gonna see assume one roadbucks

578
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: is a thousand US dollars. Eight hundred roebucks is ten dollars. Okay,

579
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 1: that's not that bad that But but then I wanted

580
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: more because when it comes to roebucks, it's hard to

581
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: save it, know what I'm talking about.

582
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 3: I saved the roebucks. Let me eatdal yo.

583
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: So then I bought myself even more. Then I ran

584
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Speaker 1: back to my mom's bedroom and put her card back

585
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: in her wallet.

586
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 3: Sly smooth criminal, sly dog.

587
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Speaker 1: Next day, at the next day at school, I showed

588
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: off all my roebucks to all my homies, but then

589
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:41,080
Speaker 1: show off a number she had, just like, bro, check it, bro,

590
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: how many roadbucks do you have? Bitches? But when I

591
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: got home, my mom beat me up, saying I just

592
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: got back from the bank, shouting at them that they

593
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: stole my money. And then when I opened my phone

594
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Speaker 1: again to show them, I saw it was your iPad

595
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 1: and you're the only one using it in this house.

596
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 3: Dude, that's some detective work right there.

597
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: Bustin bro. She continually beat me up asking what I

598
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: did with the money, and I lied, saying I had

599
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: to pay for Apple storage, but she could tell I

600
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: was lying. Ever since that day, I stopped asking my

601
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: mom for roebucks, Sam, what do we think?

602
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 4: I think You're never gonna get more roebucks if you

603
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 4: stop asking, you know, we need more one hundreds of

604
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 4: percent of the shots you don't shoot for.

605
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: I think, actually, I think we need to do like

606
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,440
Speaker 1: he needs to get into like the credit card fraud

607
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: like teams where they go they like steal all the

608
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 1: credit cards and you're just like running it and you're

609
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 1: just building a Roebucks empire.

610
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 3: Low key. Actually Roebucks is a great way to money launder.

611
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: Who would ever suspect it? And and the let dude,

612
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 1: this is eleven year old Ozarks literally like the kid

613
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: the kid, Yeah, yeah, this is actually a huge money

614
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: laundering operation and he's just getting his feet a way.

615
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: What if this red of story was like the guy

616
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: that Jonah's character was based off of, and this was

617
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 1: his like origin story. Dude, I believe it. I would

618
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: believe it for sure. Come on, John, I got another

619
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: story for you.

620
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 4: Oh, I stole something from every frat party I've been to,

621
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Speaker 4: and I couldn't be happier.

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Speaker 1: I mean, isn't I've never been to a frat party,

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Speaker 1: but I imagine that's what every one does at a

624
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Speaker 1: frat party.

625
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 3: I actually have a story about that, but all we'll

626
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Speaker 3: get back.

627
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: To him save it.

628
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 4: In college, I never joined a fraternity, but became good

629
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Speaker 4: friends with some of the guys in the frat without

630
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Speaker 4: paying the fees. Strongly recommend, strongly recommend this route And

631
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Speaker 4: actually that's the root I took.

632
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Speaker 1: Ooh.

633
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Speaker 4: Being that we were friends, I got invited to a

634
00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 4: lot of their parties in private gatherings. Ooh inside yes, snap.

635
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 4: It began as a drunken gag where I would take

636
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Speaker 4: a small item like a salt shake or a fridge magnet,

637
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 4: kitchen utensil, et cetera. But over time I began to

638
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 4: try and what up myself. My favorite item to produce

639
00:32:56,560 --> 00:33:02,080
Speaker 4: were plastic knobs to the from the oven to door knobs.

640
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 4: At one point over at one point, over multiple different

641
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Speaker 4: house parties, I gathered a total of like sixteen different

642
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Speaker 4: knobs from one house alone. Having multiple parties throughout the year,

643
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Speaker 4: I ended up owning all but one knob from their

644
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 4: kitchen impliances, so they had to pull the knob off

645
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Speaker 4: and use it from the other burners on the oven.

646
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 4: Years after graduating, I heard from acquaintances that multiple people

647
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Speaker 4: had lost their deposits because of my debauchery.

648
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: And I regret nothing. I mean, this isn't an am

649
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Speaker 1: I've a hole, but you are the age.

650
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Speaker 4: You are completely ale, but a little funny that stealing

651
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Speaker 4: a bunch of knobs I.

652
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Speaker 3: Would be so much destruction.

653
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Speaker 1: I would literally because first I'd be like, where the

654
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: hell are my knobs? Like I would be, I'd be

655
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Speaker 1: hung for knobs, and then come to find out that

656
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Speaker 1: this this guy's stole and made me lose.

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Speaker 3: Mine posive that a pause is pretty damning.

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Speaker 1: Dude, I would I would sue him. I would sue

659
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 1: him for his knobs. So I actually related to this.

660
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: This sounds like a guy, but girls will steal anything

661
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 1: at frat parties, especially your clothes. And I remember I

662
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 1: was at this party and Bob was performing.

663
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 3: For some random.

664
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: That's amazing. It was so random, and I'm so pissed. Right,

665
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: I got a red bandana, right, I was wearing it

666
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 1: and I got Bob to sign my red bandana and

667
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: literally me in this red bandana. We were like a

668
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: match made in heaven. I never took it off. I

669
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: wore to every party, right. And so I was at

670
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 1: this frat party, another frat party, right, it was super crowded.

671
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 1: I was wearing my red bandana. I fucking looked great, right,

672
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: and then this girl she's like.

673
00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 3: Hey, Sam, how are you doing a couple a little closer? Right?

674
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh baby, what's going on?

675
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 1: And she like leans in. I think we're about to

676
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 1: mac and then she goes which takes my bendana off

677
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 1: and then runs into the crowd away and I'm like, no,

678
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 1: that's my bandana, and it was you know it's not

679
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: because it's not just a bandana, it's the bo b bandana.

680
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:21,879
Speaker 4: And I never got it back. And she ran into

681
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 4: the night with one of my prized heirlooms. And I

682
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 4: don't think she the most. The saddest part of this

683
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 4: whole thing is I don't think she even realizes what

684
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 4: she has.

685
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: Honestly, my mind is blown because one we if you

686
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: still had that, I would definitely be like we have

687
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: to frame it and like make it a part of

688
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:45,960
Speaker 1: the studio. That's right, number one. That is that is

689
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 1: legendary a Bob signed. So congratulations on at least getting that. Okay,

690
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 1: second look, I've always been like, ah this Andrew take guy,

691
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 1: he hate ain't on it, but.

692
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 3: Hold on, God, turn you over to the Tate side.

693
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I don't know what will throw

694
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 1: me in a Romanian prison because that is wow. Wow,

695
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: she probably has no idea.

696
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 4: She has no idea, Like, oh, you know, I think

697
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 4: I would have felt better if she like stole it.

698
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 4: Knowing that because of this, it's like, oh, this is

699
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 4: she probably faking lost it.

700
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 3: She lost it. She just thinks it's another red bandana.

701
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 1: Wow.

702
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 3: How was it?

703
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 1: Was it like signed on the front or like I

704
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: was signed on the front so I would wear it.

705
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 1: So it was like specifically, I actually think I have

706
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if I have the picture where you

707
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: can see what's on my Instagram.

708
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if I.

709
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 1: Had the picture you can see that you like, m

710
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 1: you know to all of you that there we go,

711
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: can you see it? There?

712
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 3: It is? That's an ex girlfriend, by the way, yeah,

713
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 3: not current girlfriend.

714
00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: Well Sam, that is a tragic story. But I have

715
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:04,280
Speaker 1: a even more tragic story for you. I love tragedy,

716
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 1: we love depression. But this, you know what I'm gonna

717
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: I am. I love depression. I'm planning my flag on that.

718
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 1: All right, let's let's hear your depression, get it? Or

719
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 1: should we call it a depressive episode?

720
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 3: Wow?

721
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: This actually is depressing. I didn't even realize that my

722
00:37:24,120 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: wife is wanting to suddenly end a ten year marriage

723
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: because she fell in love with a stranger she saw

724
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: on the street.

725
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 3: Yo. That reminds you James Blunt. Uh, I could see

726
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 3: her face the walk, dumb bah, I could wait out.

727
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 3: I could see from my face, you know, fucker.

728
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 4: I always we always seen you, even false set out.

729
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 4: But you know James playing You're beautiful.

730
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,720
Speaker 3: You know you're beautiful. Yeah, it's like you see.

731
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: The stranger on the subway, It's like, damn, that girl

732
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: so fine, but I'm never gonna see her again.

733
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 3: Maybe she's my soulmate. And this it sounds like Opie's

734
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 3: wife live that.

735
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe that. Maybe this is James Blunt. This is

736
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 1: James Blunt's wife him or wow, dude, all right, well

737
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: let's let's say this is James Blunt or not as

738
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 1: effed up as it might sound. She said, something just

739
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,919
Speaker 1: happened inside of her and she could not explain when

740
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 1: she saw the stranger, a guy on the street.

741
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 3: Like love at first sight? What is this? That's what

742
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 3: I call street meet? Hello, she said.

743
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 1: She said she felt like her world stopped, and she

744
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 1: found herself exiting her car and following him to the

745
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: gas station. Okay, she swore she didn't even She swore

746
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: she didn't do anything, not even take his number. But hey,

747
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 1: he frequents this gas station, so her plan is just

748
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,479
Speaker 1: to wait for him to come back.

749
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 3: This is bizarre. But what.

750
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 1: She said she didn't know why she felt this and

751
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: failed to explain it or put it into words. So

752
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,319
Speaker 1: now she's asking for a divorce. Wait because she saw

753
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: some hot stranger on the street. Yes, has it even

754
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: talked to? Never talked to? But love at first sight?

755
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: Come on, don't don't you believe in it?

756
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 3: Sam? I mean can't you?

757
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: Can't you see a string? You know? Why can't someone

758
00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: see a stranger get and get a divorce immediately without

759
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:29,399
Speaker 1: talking to them once?

760
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 3: All right? No, you make a good point, you make.

761
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, just think think about it.

762
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 4: I'm here like all right, I'm just trying to follow

763
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,760
Speaker 4: how this How.

764
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 3: Does this unfold? Right?

765
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 4: Like she she's just gonna sleep at this gas station

766
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,120
Speaker 4: twenty four to seven, hoping that this guy shows up.

767
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 4: What if she if she she know she he frequents

768
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:49,800
Speaker 4: this gas station.

769
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 1: She felt it, okay, she saw him, and she's like,

770
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 1: I know you love this gas station the same way

771
00:39:56,360 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 1: you love me. I'm just saying, I'm just saying it's

772
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: gonna work out. Just watch, just wait, there's more to

773
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,640
Speaker 1: the story. There's more to the story. After ten plus years,

774
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 1: she's willing to just turn around and walk away to

775
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: go chase someone else whose name she doesn't even know.

776
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm so shocked and shaken up. My reaction is to

777
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 1: laugh when I think about it, Like maybe this is

778
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 1: a whole love from first sight or something like that

779
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: that she's experienced.

780
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 3: But to go so far.

781
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 1: As to happy as to end to happy marriage, just

782
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 1: like that, I can't believe it.

783
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 3: I mean, again, ridiculous. But yo, I can't wait for

784
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 3: the movie.

785
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, like, this is a Hallmark movie waiting

786
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: to be written. I was in a small I was

787
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: in a small town, but I saw the man I

788
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 1: knew I wanted to be within the big city.

789
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 3: I'm just a little girl in the big city. And then.

790
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 4: Love struck at a gas station and let's just say

791
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 4: it was explosive. Oh that gas was on fire.

792
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: It was Bruce Willis, Bruce Willis, gas station love, gas station, lover, lover. Heartbreak.

793
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: You know what else is heartbreaking? What this next story?

794
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you your next story. Oh, let's go

795
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:12,879
Speaker 1: for it. Breaking my heart.

796
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 4: Baby, My boyfriend left me because I'm not tight enough.

797
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: What Knie say, Keels, that's that's what you can say. I,

798
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 1: twenty four female, am really devastated right now.

799
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 4: My twenty five male boyfriend Joshua left me since I

800
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 4: wasn't tired enough for him.

801
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 3: He said, it felt like I was cave.

802
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: Hey, maybe maybe you got a little sausage in the

803
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: hallway type situation. Shosh whah.

804
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like this is more of a.

805
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 4: I think you've got a little problem with my friend,

806
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 4: inc bitsy problem your penis. Yeah, we've been together since

807
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 4: high school, so he's the only man I've ever known.

808
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 4: I don't know what to do. I did keekeels, Okay,

809
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:03,920
Speaker 4: I talked to the doctor. I've tried dreams, not creams.

810
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 4: He wanted to go the other way. Oh no, but

811
00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 4: it hurts when he does it. God, fun time ends

812
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 4: with him going limp and frustrated at me and leaving

813
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 4: the room to watch corn. He said he can only

814
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 4: finish when he watches corn. When he broke up with me,

815
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 4: he said he slept with a He he said he

816
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 4: slept with a lady of the night to test the waters.

817
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 4: And it's clear that I'm the problem. Oh my, bro,

818
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 4: this guy is the worst person on planet Earth.

819
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:35,319
Speaker 3: Yo.

820
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 4: You like you do not want to be with this

821
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 4: guy at all? Like he seems like he's both the

822
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 4: physical and mental problem.

823
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, you dodged him. Actually you dodged This is big

824
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:50,120
Speaker 1: silver lining energy right here. I'm hurt, I'm helpless. I'm

825
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 1: without options on how to fix it. There is an

826
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:54,840
Speaker 1: option to leave this guy's as.

827
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 4: Bro, I feel like I'm not good enough for him

828
00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 4: as a woman, or good enough for anyone. I can't

829
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:01,839
Speaker 4: be in bed in tears for two days. I don't

830
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 4: know what to do or if I'll able or if

831
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 4: I'll be able to cope with it.

832
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 3: Girl, you dodge the biggest bullet of your life.

833
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 4: There are gonna be big dick men, ready to dick

834
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:16,520
Speaker 4: you down in no time. And I'm sure your cave

835
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 4: is your meat cave? Is you know, good enough for

836
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 4: the best of.

837
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: Us, the best of us, the best of us, No,

838
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: the best of them.

839
00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 3: That's of that.

840
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 1: Sorry, that's that, oh man? But you know what's you

841
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 1: know what's good for for everyone?

842
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:34,919
Speaker 3: Hey?

843
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 1: What my next story? Oh, lay it on me, Johnny boy,

844
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 1: let's get laid. Here we go, let's do it. My

845
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 1: twenty four female coworker, sixty eight male keeps taking pictures

846
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,279
Speaker 1: of my booty and now he's suing me.

847
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 4: That's because he and ask that fine got to be illegal.

848
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 4: That booty is an illegal weapon. Yeah, I can't help

849
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 4: but take a pic.

850
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:04,799
Speaker 2: Uh.

851
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: Hey, you're on your own on that. You and you

852
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 1: and sixty eight male are over here. I know, Okay,

853
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: let's go. How worried should I be about this? As

854
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 1: far as I know, reporting a behavior for someone that

855
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: is actually doing Wait, as far as I know, reporting

856
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: a behavior that someone is actually doing is not defamation, correct,

857
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: it's you can't the true truth, the truth. I'm kind

858
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: of freaking out because I'm barely scraping by and I

859
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 1: can't afford a lawyer. By the way, his reasoning for

860
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: taking these photos was to document my uniform violations when

861
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 1: I was wearing pants that he felt were too provocative.

862
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: They were literally just slacks. But I got a big body.

863
00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: He is not in my chain of command. He's just

864
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: another employee.

865
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 3: I don't think he's employee. I think he's a secret

866
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 3: or not so secret admirer.

867
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 1: Like, what kind of weak defense is that I'm documenting

868
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: your uniform violations.

869
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 4: I mean, he is documenting something I don't know about

870
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 4: a uniform violation. But hey, maybe you can turn these

871
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 4: lemons into lemonade. You just found your first only fans photographer. Honestly,

872
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:29,959
Speaker 4: I think she could sue back.

873
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 1: I'm sort of like a thousand percent Yeah, a thousand percent.

874
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 3: But speaking of a PROMI but speaking of promiscuous situations,

875
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 3: I got a question for you, John hit Me. Is

876
00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 3: it rude? But do it?

877
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 4: If you're staying over as a guest in someone's house,

878
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 4: hot take.

879
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 1: I think it's rude not to. You know, you gotta

880
00:45:56,200 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: gotta make the make your presence known. Okay, that's that's

881
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. I'm saying, leave some snail trails every

882
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: which way. Come on.

883
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 4: If that ain't looking like starry night with the black light,

884
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:10,280
Speaker 4: then you're.

885
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:10,959
Speaker 3: Doing something wrong.

886
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: Come on, try again.

887
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 4: You got a Jackson Pollock, that ceiling Jackson Pollock. The

888
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 4: sheets you know making make an nft I. I want

889
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:25,320
Speaker 4: those sheets so stiff, so stiff that you could karate

890
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,319
Speaker 4: chop that shit and then go from a you know,

891
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 4: a brown belt to a blue belt. It's just a

892
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 4: piece of glass. It's just a piece of glass. You

893
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 4: go watch shah. Yeah, I've been all crusty like m mmmmm. God,

894
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 4: that was descriptive. All right, Uh, these are the top

895
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 4: five answers. Do what you do, what you want with

896
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 4: your wife, but I don't ever want to see her

897
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:53,799
Speaker 4: juices or any trace of you doing it fair and

898
00:46:53,840 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 4: someone responded to this, any first hand knowledge is something

899
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 4: I don't want. If you tell me at hamp if

900
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 4: you tell me it happened, I won't be bothered. Yes,

901
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 4: if I have to hear it or clean it up, we.

902
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:03,840
Speaker 3: Will have words.

903
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:04,359
Speaker 1: Yes.

904
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,879
Speaker 4: My dad and his wife have no issues having very

905
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 4: loud intimate moments when they come visit me.

906
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 3: And it's very uncomfortable.

907
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 1: Not today, daddy.

908
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,280
Speaker 4: Someone has a solution. Stand in the hallway and applaud.

909
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,240
Speaker 4: If they say something, just answer. They were obviously looking

910
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,280
Speaker 4: for an audience. So you're just being a good host.

911
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 4: Love it, Hey, that's how you do it. Clap back, baby,

912
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:32,839
Speaker 4: clap back. I will assume, someone else says, I will

913
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,879
Speaker 4: assume as a host, doing it can happen. The polight

914
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 4: thing is if you must no one can know. It

915
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 4: must be silent, untraceable doing it. Don't ask, don't tell

916
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:48,280
Speaker 4: doing it. And someone responds bingo, whether it's eating cookies

917
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 4: in bed or doing it, it's fine as long as

918
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 4: there isn't any evidence. And now we have it all

919
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,839
Speaker 4: laid out for us in the final comments. Oh, no

920
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 4: context matters. I'd say it to heads on these factors.

921
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 4: One length of stay one night, probably not a month. Definitely,

922
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 4: guess room versus family member's room. Guess room safe, family

923
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 4: member's room not safe, especially a kid's room. Reason for stay, funeral,

924
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 4: don't do it, you can get away do it. Four

925
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 4: closest with host, new friends, last colleagues nope, lifelong friends sure.

926
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 4: And five location of bed, living room, fold out, bad

927
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 4: move far corner of house smooth moves.

928
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: Wow. I mean I never expected in my life to

929
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: have such a clear direction. I mean that is the criture.

930
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 1: We have the guidebook. We have the guidebook, the tools.

931
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,040
Speaker 1: We have the tools for where you should use your tool.

932
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: That's right. Speaking of tools, Sam, heh, Yeah, I have

933
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:48,880
Speaker 1: my own. I have my own ask reddit of probably

934
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: the most important tool of all time. Oh, drill it

935
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 1: into me, baby. You got ten minutes to hide a

936
00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 1: pen from a detective. If he doesn't find it, you

937
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: get a million dollars. Where would you hide it?

938
00:48:59,200 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 3: Oh?

939
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 4: Man, I'm gonna hide it in every orifice I have.

940
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:07,399
Speaker 4: Oh goodness, baby, stick it in me, doc. Top five

941
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:11,760
Speaker 4: best answers, let's get into it. Five in my booty.

942
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:15,960
Speaker 4: Ninety five percent of first people start here. Honestly, that's

943
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 4: my first thought.

944
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 3: Four.

945
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: I'll just write something. I'll just write something with the

946
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: pen and drop it from my desk. It'll go to

947
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 1: some different dimension, like they all do.

948
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:26,919
Speaker 3: Dude, I lose so many pens that way.

949
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: Same. Three behind my ear baking on incompetence here, the

950
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 1: law often is incompetent. You know, you those those copy

951
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: eating donuts. You know they're not paying those donut eating cops.

952
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:45,560
Speaker 1: I like copy eating donuts way better. We want to

953
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: hit me with number two two? Do I have to

954
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 1: be able to find it again? I live five minutes

955
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: from the ocean, so I just paddle out for five

956
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 1: minutes and chuck it as far as I can. You

957
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: have to return it. That's part of the rules. It's

958
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 1: in the agreement, bro add one. This one is so sad.

959
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: I'll give it to the kid who asked to borrow

960
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: my game boy in the fourth grade and then effing

961
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: hopped on a plane and moved back to the Philippines

962
00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:13,399
Speaker 1: with his family that same night. Unbeknownst to anyone in.

963
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:15,760
Speaker 3: The class, that kid was playing four D chess.

964
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 1: He really was, though, mm hmm smooth moves and uh,

965
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: you know what is a really smooth move?

966
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 3: Sam Oh, tell me what the smoothest move is.

967
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 1: Sharing your story on r slash okop show.

968
00:50:25,200 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, go to read dot com, go to r slash

969
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 4: okop show and share whatever you want.

970
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 3: Is it confession? Is it an am I the a hole?

971
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 4: Is it just a personal story that you want us

972
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 4: to know, or is it just something you you want

973
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 4: to tell us about how to improve the show, or

974
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:41,959
Speaker 4: just you know, like, uh, just literally anything, ask us.

975
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 3: Give it to us.

976
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: Okop Lady gets mad at me for being naked in

977
00:50:50,360 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: my own house.

978
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 3: Bruh for starters. I'm a nudist kind of okay.

979
00:50:56,120 --> 00:51:00,439
Speaker 4: I like that definidi semi newest, semi neut here wear

980
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:05,440
Speaker 4: boxer briefs with the one ball hanging out part nudist.

981
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 3: I don't go to nudist retreats and stuff like that,

982
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 3: but when I'm home, I like to be naked.

983
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: My husband is usually at least wearing underwear, he himself

984
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: is rarely naked. I started doing this as soon as

985
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: I moved out on my own about four years.

986
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 3: Ago, itching to get those clothes off, I guess.

987
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 4: Itching to just strip down and be naked and free

988
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:25,839
Speaker 4: in your own home.

989
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

990
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 1: I also have cats and keep the blinds open a

991
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: little so they can't break them, and they're about two

992
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: thirds of an inch open. Obviously, I'm aware of this

993
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: and do my best to stay away from the windows

994
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 1: and do not open the door with my hangout.

995
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:44,160
Speaker 3: We currently live in a.

996
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: Trailer park because our last apartment kicked us out for

997
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: having a German shepherd, which we did not know was

998
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:52,320
Speaker 1: against the rules. So the only place I could find

999
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: that would allow us to keep her is the trailer park.

1000
00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 1: I would never get rid of my pets. So the

1001
00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: trailer park.

1002
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,760
Speaker 3: We went, Wow, that's loyalty, man, Yeah, that's.

1003
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: That really Like, uh, Jevan sheperd you might uh you

1004
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: might be gone, yeah potentially. Uh, living in the park

1005
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: is fine and it's nice enough. Our trailer is a

1006
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: twenty eighteen model and it honestly doesn't feel like a

1007
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: trailer at all once you're inside of it. Like I

1008
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 1: could see that like a really nice bee. Also, like

1009
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,839
Speaker 1: van life is is like a thing now, yeah, and

1010
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,800
Speaker 1: like I feel like it's being more it's more accepted

1011
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,719
Speaker 1: to live in trailers and vans, and it's almost like

1012
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: a little bit cool these days.

1013
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,360
Speaker 3: Totally it's more accepted.

1014
00:52:30,400 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: But also like I could see it being really dope,

1015
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:37,280
Speaker 1: like nice RVs are. Oh yeah, I watched a video

1016
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:40,760
Speaker 1: of just like a tour of Justin Bieber's uh travelvy.

1017
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 3: You see that dude that that has a fireplace in it.

1018
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 1: Bro, Dude, It's it's insane.

1019
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you get you can get some good stuff there,

1020
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:53,720
Speaker 3: and the only problem is the trailers are pretty close together.

1021
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 3: My neighbor already gives us dirty looks because we're a

1022
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:00,359
Speaker 3: gay couple. One day, I was cleaning the floor and

1023
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 3: had to dump some water, so I put on some

1024
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:06,360
Speaker 3: boxers to go dump it outside. She immediately got mad

1025
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:09,879
Speaker 3: because she doesn't work and just sits at home all day,

1026
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 3: and came out yelling, Karen, you can't come outside naked.

1027
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: Me. I'm not. I'm in my boxers and just went

1028
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:24,399
Speaker 1: to dump this mop water. Karen, there's kid's hair. Put

1029
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 1: on some clothes, Me, I have clothes on. Goodbye.

1030
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it. It's like peace. Yeah, I leave

1031
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 3: in this conversation, and.

1032
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,440
Speaker 1: So I walked back in. About a week ago, I

1033
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: was hanging out at home naked like I do. I

1034
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: was in my office playing some video games with my

1035
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: headphones on, which is just kind of a funny picture

1036
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,959
Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, just wig out, just like playing video

1037
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 1: games in the office of all places.

1038
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:54,399
Speaker 3: Hopefully it has a cover on his on his.

1039
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 1: Webcam, I saw on my phone that the camera on

1040
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: my front door picked up some motion side, so I

1041
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:04,280
Speaker 1: looked at it to see it was my neighbor looking

1042
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 1: through my windows into my living room.

1043
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 3: What Karen was peeking?

1044
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: Literally? Maybe maybe she wasn't wasn't mad at what she

1045
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 1: saw earlier.

1046
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 3: If you catch the drift. You liked the angle of

1047
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 3: the dangle through it.

1048
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: I told her to go away, and she jumped quickly

1049
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: and left. So he literally was like through the speakers,

1050
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: what are you doing here?

1051
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:28,440
Speaker 3: Like?

1052
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:31,000
Speaker 1: What are you? Damn? Oh my god, I bet I

1053
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:34,040
Speaker 1: bet that gave her a heart attack. After playing for

1054
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:36,520
Speaker 1: a while, I walked into the kitchen and was making

1055
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: some food again. I got a notification that someone was

1056
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:43,839
Speaker 1: at my door. So I look at it and it's

1057
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 1: her again again. I grabbed my shorts and head to

1058
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 1: the door. Me. Yes, Karen, who do you think you are? Me?

1059
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 1: What Karen? I saw? Are you walking around naked?

1060
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:03,319
Speaker 3: Me?

1061
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1062
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 3: I was in my house? So were you watching me? Obviously?

1063
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:16,080
Speaker 1: She was, Yeah, Karen, there's kids, Harry. You can't do that, bro.

1064
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 3: The kids aren't peeking through the windows. You're the one

1065
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 3: like you. Bro Pep and Tom over there peep and

1066
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 3: Karen creepy Karen right here, baby peeping Karen. I like that.

1067
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 2: Me.

1068
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: I was in my house. No one could see me

1069
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 1: unless they were looking through my windows like you were, Karen.

1070
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:44,760
Speaker 1: How dare you accuse me of that? That's disgusting, freaking

1071
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:48,879
Speaker 1: ridiculous me. Okay, goodbye? I mean she literally has her

1072
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: on film.

1073
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, like he knows what she's doing. He's a

1074
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 4: spider on his spigam.

1075
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 1: I shut the door and called the office, complaining that

1076
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: she's been looking through my window and was harassing me

1077
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 1: for being naked in my own house. Ultimately, they sided

1078
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:08,719
Speaker 1: with me instead. If she continues, I'm free to call

1079
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:09,240
Speaker 1: the police.

1080
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:10,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, call the police.

1081
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 1: Seriously, what what a call that would be?

1082
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 3: Yeah? Excuse me. I have a Karen that is invading

1083
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,720
Speaker 3: my privacy and looking at the angle of my dangle.

1084
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:24,240
Speaker 3: Oh dear, but so far I haven't had any more problems.

1085
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 3: Good edit.

1086
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: I forgot she complained about seeing my wang print through

1087
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:34,320
Speaker 1: my shorts. Bro, Karen just likes the bull. She's just looking.

1088
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: She's she's admiring. Honestly at this.

1089
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 3: Point, Well, there you have it.

1090
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:45,759
Speaker 4: I think it's uh. I think it's fine. Honestly, I

1091
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Speaker 4: think it's fine to do whatever you want within the

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Speaker 4: confines of your home. It's other people's, uh issue, if

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Speaker 4: if if they're looking into your house.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, like maybe maybe someone personally is like why would

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00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:03,359
Speaker 1: you be home naked? But they like, they can't look

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00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 1: through you, They can't have an actual you have to

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00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:07,759
Speaker 1: even if you don't agree with what they want to do,

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00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 1: you can't impede on the right to do.

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Speaker 3: It exactly, exactly. Yeah, whatever you want in your own home.

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Speaker 1: Don't let anyone tell you except like, you know, if

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Speaker 1: you're you're doing illegal ship but like you have a

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Speaker 1: right to be naked. Yeah, you know, free the nipple, exactly, dude,

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Speaker 1: colony next.

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Speaker 3: Week Yeah, not this weekend, but next weekend. I'm very

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Speaker 3: excited about it. I'm very excited we're doing. Yourself could

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Speaker 3: be called a semi nudist, Yes, yeah, i am. I am,

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00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:41,200
Speaker 3: I'm participating. I'm I'm definitely not like I'm feeling a

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00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 3: little nervous about it, yeacause I've never been I've never

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00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 3: been naked for that long in front of that many people. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: so I'm a little nervous, but I think it's good exposure.

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Speaker 3: Did you ever in middle.

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Speaker 1: Did you ever in middle school like have to change

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Speaker 1: like naked or anything like that.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean like in front of like you,

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Speaker 3: like you know, in the locker rooms, but well, you know,

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Speaker 3: but it wasn't. So I think there's a there's a

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Speaker 3: generational difference between like being comfortable with nudity. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if you've ever been to a gym, but there's

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Speaker 3: an old dude all past his knees that's just like

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00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 3: bending over butt facing to the world and just like

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Speaker 3: no care in the world about who sees what. And

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00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 3: then you have all these like twenty year old guys

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Speaker 3: or like you know, thirty year old guys that are

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Speaker 3: you know, they're wearing the towels and yeah, like not

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00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 3: like throwing it around, but yeah, get naked. But I'm

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Speaker 3: just not thrown it around.

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Speaker 4: I've had I've had these dudes like well like come

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Speaker 4: up and like start trying to have a conversation and

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00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,080
Speaker 4: I'm like, dude, when you're gesticulating, you're freaking Newton balls

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00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 4: are swinging from side to side, slapping into your like

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00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 4: through your knees. I don't know how that's comfortable, but like,

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00:58:57,440 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 4: please just put on some pants before or you try

1133
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 4: to hypnotize me with your your balls and like some

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Speaker 4: kind of hypnotism, like you are getting very sleepy.

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Speaker 3: I think they just they just stopped caring at something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think it's probably that, But I also

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Speaker 1: think like back in the day, like yeah, at least

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00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 1: in the locker room. You were you were just supposed

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Speaker 1: to be nude totally, right, And I don't. I think

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Speaker 1: I actually think we've become less comfortable with nudity in

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Speaker 1: the last twenty years. That's actually, yeah, which is interesting

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00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 1: because we could argue become more progressive. But like, uh,

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Speaker 1: like in middle school, we never like no one ever changed.

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Speaker 3: Out of their boxers. Well, we would just like no,

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Speaker 3: not at all, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So like I didn't I didn't like undress nude myself

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Speaker 1: until I was like an adult at a at a

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Speaker 1: gym like a Planet.

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Speaker 3: Of Glass or something.

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Speaker 1: Even still, like I'm like, so I was, I was

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Speaker 1: a swimmer growing up, and we would do this thing

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00:59:50,720 --> 00:59:53,440
Speaker 1: called the deck change where we would change into our

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00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: our speedos and our trunks right right to get into

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Speaker 1: the water, and we just wrap a towel around and

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00:59:57,760 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 1: then like we were stripped down. So I'm like an

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Speaker 1: spurt it doing that, right, And so like I feel

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Speaker 1: like that even in the locker room, I'm like, pretty

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01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: like you know you still employ that technique.

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Speaker 3: I still employ the technique. Yeah, So I don't. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know how I I like,

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Speaker 3: I don't I think I'm still a little bit uncomfortable

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01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 3: with nudity, definitely, I think more comfortable in the average person,

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Speaker 3: which and I'm really that's what I'm really excited about

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01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 3: this new It'll be an interesting to see how you

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Speaker 3: how you come up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my biggest worry is just like being nude around

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Speaker 1: that many people. She's like getting a random boner, yes,

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Speaker 1: and like you know, I'm like doing this interview with

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Speaker 1: this this web and and like I have random boners

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Speaker 1: all the time, right, So it's like, uh, I don't

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Speaker 1: know how they explained display that away.

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Speaker 3: You know. It's like, no, it's not you, it's just

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Speaker 3: the temperature of the air. I think.

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Speaker 1: I think I think you need to add that as

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Speaker 1: as a question in your how.

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Speaker 3: Do you deal with boners? How do you deal with boners?

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Speaker 3: But yeah, that's I'm excited for this interview at the

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Speaker 3: Nudest Colony next week. Interesting. But yeah, that was that.

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Speaker 1: Was It was a good exploration of nakedness, explorations of

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Speaker 1: naked through. We always give you guys, the fun, the

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Speaker 1: fun director's cuts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, YouTube and podcast. You're getting it. You're getting it, sir.

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Speaker 3: But if there was one sign off, it's it's okay

1184
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 3: to be nude embrace your body, but it's also okay

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01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,640
Speaker 3: to not be nude. Just embrace unless unless I guess,

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Speaker 3: you're in a public place that doesn't allow new to do. Also,

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