WEBVTT - It’s Complicated with Angela Amezcua 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.280 Hell I Suck At Dating with Dean Angler and Dared 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:10.800 Haven and I Heart radio podcast. All right, welcome to 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:13.440 help I Suck At Dating, a brand new episode in 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:16.600 two say, is our second third of the year. I'm 0:00:16.640 --> 0:00:18.440 losing track of time. I'm about to have a kid, 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:22.120 so that's pretty excusable. I'm Jared, joined by Dean Angler, 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:25.320 who's currently recording in some car. I don't know if 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:29.120 if it's his own, but the mic is looking like 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:31.800 it's hanging on by a thread. It's just like my life. 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:34.840 Everything is hanging on by a thread, but hanging on nonetheless. 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:36.839 And what are you doing? Where are you and what 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:40.280 are you doing? Well? You guys. I was very close 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:42.560 to calling and sick for this podcast. Today it's the 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.839 best powder day of the season at Bridge Bowl in Bozeman, Montana, 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:48.680 So I'm taking an hour break to record my favorite 0:00:48.680 --> 0:00:51.440 podcast in the world. That's because he's a Trooper. And 0:00:51.440 --> 0:00:54.120 we're joined by a very very, very very special guest 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:57.600 who has been on the podcast before. I'm pretty sure 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:03.160 and I'm going I'm going to absolutely butcher your last name, Angela, 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:06.840 to which I apologize, but here we go, Angela, as 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:10.920 miss Kua, I feel like the last time I was 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:12.720 on the podcast, we went over this, but it's fine. 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:16.360 It's been a minute. It's a masqua, which is so 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:18.959 much prettier than the way I said it. I'm so 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:22.119 bad at names. It's embarrassing. Honestly, I'm embarrassed by how 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:26.840 bad I pronounced names. Anyway, Angela, how are you Welcome 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:30.840 back to the podcast, Okaya, thanks for having me. Um. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:34.440 Things are great. Life is very different since the last 0:01:34.440 --> 0:01:37.520 time that I was on the podcast. I'm now in 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:42.480 a different country, so that I know you're dating a Canadian, 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.720 I am. I'm dating a Canadian. So I've been in 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:50.000 Toronto since October, just you know, seeing seeing how the 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:55.880 weather is up here. I'm sure she immigration services yet no, 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:59.040 because I'm about to be here for six months. So 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:02.080 we're just you know, I'm figuring it out as I 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:04.720 I've been talking to ask for it a lot, pout 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:07.080 advice because she was kind of in the same boat 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:10.359 when she came here to be with Kevin. So I'm 0:02:10.440 --> 0:02:13.240 keeping it. I'm keeping things legal, you guys, So come 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:15.360 come mid come mid April. You've got to get back 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:18.040 into the US before you get to quarterback. I gotta 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:20.440 figure it out, yeah, or I've got to file some paperwork. 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:22.320 I'm not really sure. Honestly, I'm just trying to get 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:24.400 through the Christmas in the New Year's and I was like, 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:27.760 I'll figure it out later. So when did you get married? 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:32.000 Is that? I don't know, that's about pressure on you, 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:34.040 but yeah, no, that's not going to happen. I don't know. 0:02:34.840 --> 0:02:38.320 Can you know for the listeners out there that are 0:02:39.080 --> 0:02:43.000 unaware of your current relationship, because people will have like, 0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:44.920 you were on a bachelor show in Canada, right, So 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:47.120 I don't think that maybe a lot of the American 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:49.400 audience I've seen it, So can you like walk us 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:51.600 through everything? Because I knew a little bit because I 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:53.120 know Alex was on the show, so he like filled 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:55.280 me in and I watched a couple of episodes and honestly, 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:56.840 I loved it. I thought it was so much better 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:59.359 than the American Paradise Um. But for those that haven't 0:02:59.400 --> 0:03:02.480 seen it, phillis in on what we missed. Yeah, so 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:04.960 I got asked to do a Bachelor in Paradise, Canada, 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:08.519 and I really wasn't going to do it. I feel 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:10.200 like after last time, I was just like, all right, 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:14.320 I'm done. With the love dating reality shows. Um, but 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:16.919 long story short, I just had a meeting with the 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:21.720 showrunners and they convinced me like like Canadian version is 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.000 way different, Like our viewers want to see love up here. 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:26.080 We don't want to see like all drama and this 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:27.600 and this. And I was like, you guys know me, 0:03:27.639 --> 0:03:30.800 I'm always that person. So I was like okay, and 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:32.919 they really asked, you know, what am I looking for, 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:36.480 like physically and but more importantly like personality wise, Like 0:03:36.520 --> 0:03:39.040 I just felt like they really cared to see, like 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:42.400 you know, to make it work for me. And so 0:03:42.480 --> 0:03:44.760 obviously I ended up doing it, and I'm really glad 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:48.000 I did because I met my boyfriend on the show, 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:51.680 who is Canadian, um, and he had never done a 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:56.000 bachelor show before, which I loved. So yeah. So um 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:59.360 that was fun. And we've been together since June, and 0:03:59.640 --> 0:04:04.000 I've been and not you know, technically living up here 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:06.800 like officially, but I've been you know, checking it out. 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:12.160 So yeah, we lived together. Um, so it's been fun. Well, 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:16.560 so for for the American Bachelor in Paradise especially, you 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:18.839 have to be a former contestant, probably with like a 0:04:18.839 --> 0:04:21.200 few exceptions. So how did how did he get on 0:04:21.200 --> 0:04:25.760 the show, so he got, um, it's funny. So he 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:30.120 also models as well. Uh, and so he his agency 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:33.320 got like a casting call, and he had watched the 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.760 show before and always kind of like made fun of it, 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:37.720 like you know how guys are when they watched the show. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:40.920 Girls do it too, and uh, and he was just like, 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:44.400 let me just try it out, and you know the 0:04:44.440 --> 0:04:47.640 rest of history. I used to crap on the show constantly. 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:49.479 And now where I am in a coffee shop that 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:53.000 literally has Bachelor, that literally has a nice coffee called 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:56.360 here for the wrong reasons, so oh yeah, hell yeah, 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:58.080 come on now of course, and then we all have 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:01.040 another coffee. It's called My favorite is take a moment, 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:05.159 say your goodbyes. That's my favorite. People actually, when they're 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:06.760 ordering at the desk, do they go, hey, can I 0:05:06.800 --> 0:05:09.679 get to take your moment? Take a moment say you goodbyes? Please? 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:16.200 A thousand percent they're videoing it probably say that they 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:19.880 love every second of it. Are you kidding me? It's 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:23.960 the Rose ceremony trip to Paradise. Uh. And then especially 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:26.560 if you're a fan and I'm the one serving you, 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:28.320 you know, so it's like, oh, what type of milk 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:30.359 with you a lot, and they're like, if I just 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:32.320 wanted like a regular black coffee, what would that be 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:41.599 called black coffee? Basic? Um, So I wanted to ask you, 0:05:41.800 --> 0:05:44.520 what do you think is the Angela? What was the 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:47.080 biggest difference between the Canadian version and the American version? 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:50.800 Because I actually I did Bachelor in Paradise, Australia a 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:53.320 few years ago before Ashley and I got together, and 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:57.400 it was wildly different. Like you know how the American version, 0:05:57.440 --> 0:06:00.839 you're never off camera, you're always if something is happening, 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:03.719 you are miked up your on camera. That was not 0:06:03.800 --> 0:06:07.960 the case at all down Under. It was you'd stroll 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:10.720 I'd wake up at ten in the morning, stroll down 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:14.000 to breakfast. We'd sit down with the entire cast and crew, 0:06:14.160 --> 0:06:17.520 eat breakfast, talk about everything that happened the night before. 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:20.960 Then around twelve one o'clock they'd finally mike us up, 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:22.840 put us in camera and be like okay, yeah, kind 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:25.320 of recap what happened. And it's like, dude, you missed 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:29.000 all the great juicy conversations already. I guess we'll try 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:32.080 to give you something. Yeah, oh my gosh, I didn't 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:34.280 know you did bash up here and ice Australia. That's fun. 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:37.080 It was fun. I went. I was there for two weeks, 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:40.800 did not kiss anybody, quite pathetic. I don't know how 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.640 I made it as far as I did, but it 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:46.760 actually it was at the time, UM not it was. 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:49.320 It's a long story anyway. I this is about you, 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:51.919 not me. What was the biggest difference for you, between 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:54.760 the Canadian version and the American version? UM. I would 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:56.960 pretty much say exactly what you just said, in the 0:06:56.960 --> 0:07:00.200 fact that I felt like filming the Canadian verse and 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:04.360 was extremely more laid back. UM. And I also felt 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:09.520 like producers weren't as like, as involved as they are 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:12.760 in the US. You have a producer, but they're not 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:16.800 like you know, in your ears and only constantly like 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:18.520 they're in the US. But I would say mostly like 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:20.600 we got to go back to what we had cabins. 0:07:20.800 --> 0:07:22.720 We got to go back to our cabins, like after 0:07:22.800 --> 0:07:25.240 filming in the evening. And I mean we would, honestly, 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.160 we would film kind of late, but not nearly as 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:30.360 late as in Mexico. But there's no mis in the cabin, 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:33.560 there's no cameras in the cabin. You wake up, you 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:36.080 are on a time schedule in the morning, but it's 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:38.080 so much more relaxed and the fact that you have 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:40.960 time to decompress as a human. You know, you're going 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:43.800 through all this like emotional turmoil and we all know 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:46.600 how that goes. And in the US, you literally never 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:49.200 get a moment to yourself unless you're in the shower. 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:50.760 But I felt like even in the shower there was 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:53.440 a camera up on the wall somehow peeking in, invading. 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:59.320 So yeah, so I feel like it was so nice 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:01.680 and easy or to keep almost like a level head 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:03.880 because you did have that moment to just go back 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:06.160 and like I had two roommates and we just like, 0:08:06.280 --> 0:08:07.960 you know, had girl time and chit chatted and it 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.040 was great and you just felt like you could just 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:12.640 have a moment, you know. So I would say it 0:08:12.680 --> 0:08:15.240 was much much more relaxed. I really enjoyed it. And 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:18.800 I also loved the fact that it wasn't so much 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:22.320 like producers all the time. I mean there's still some producing, 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:28.000 you know, obviously, but it wasn't as like intense. I guess, I, 0:08:28.080 --> 0:08:29.960 for one, would way rather sleep in a cabin in 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:35.760 the woods than villa on the beach. I actually, yeah, 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:42.000 as you're in overalls right now, I love overalls. Don't 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:45.000 bring the overalls into this, Okay, leave the overalls out 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:47.599 of it. Um. So you you left with Brendan is 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:50.439 his name, right, So tell us a little about him. 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:52.440 How did you guys, Like, at what point did you 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:54.640 guys knew know that you guys were gonna like and 0:08:55.000 --> 0:08:57.719 the show together, leave together, um, and then ultimately be 0:08:57.880 --> 0:09:00.120 boyfriend and girlfriend. Because I watched a few episode in 0:09:00.160 --> 0:09:04.000 the middle I saw Alex, Alex's shining moments, I didn't 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:05.760 see him. I didn't see all of it. So just like, 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:08.200 at what points were you like, yeah, this is my guy, 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.199 and then like how how did it all unfold? Yeah? 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:14.200 Well we had. It was really funny because I would 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:16.480 say from like from the moment Brendan and I met, 0:09:16.600 --> 0:09:19.719 it was just this like thing and everybody could tell 0:09:19.760 --> 0:09:21.800 we were just like I think what the first time 0:09:21.840 --> 0:09:24.120 that we were talking, we were talking so long that 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.719 producers had to be like, guys, go like mingle like 0:09:26.880 --> 0:09:30.240 the new people came, and so we've always just had 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:33.080 this magnetism. I mean, we didn't have the easiest road. 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:36.560 I would say whenever we were filming, we um, you know, 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.560 he was a little bit wishy washy, and then I 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:41.400 went on a date with somebody else, and then he 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:45.320 and then then we were like, you know, pretty much good. 0:09:45.360 --> 0:09:48.240 And then towards the end he ended up going on 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:51.160 a date with somebody else, and I was like mmmmm, 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:54.240 So we always we always were kind of like but 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:56.559 then at the very end we were like the stable 0:09:56.600 --> 0:09:59.240 couple and everybody else was just falling apart, and so 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:02.360 we were like, oh, this it's nice. Yeah, So we 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:05.640 actually ended up being the only couple that left like 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:10.439 together as like boyfriend girlfriend and together. Yeah, like nobody 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:13.080 was together at all. What I didn't know that, that's 0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:17.080 that's crazy. Congratulations, Well thanks. I definitely think there's a 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:19.719 lot of bigger benefit to having like that turmoil for 0:10:19.800 --> 0:10:21.840 lack of a better word, in the very beginning, like 0:10:21.840 --> 0:10:24.080 maybe it's like weaker two then you know like go 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.080 and steady right out of the gates and like fully 0:10:26.080 --> 0:10:27.800 diving on this one person because like you guys had 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.720 the option to date other people. And then like also 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:32.280 like see how you react when they go on a 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:35.040 date with another person, and like, as it seemed like 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:37.439 you alluded to, like you get a little like not upset, 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:39.280 but like it maybe a little jealous or territorial, and 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:41.640 you're like, wow, I actually really do like this guy. Um, 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:43.520 and then that kind of like sets the precedent for 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:45.040 it later on. So I mean, I think that's definitely 0:10:45.080 --> 0:10:47.520 the method to success out there. Yeah. Well, and it 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:49.560 also helped because then it's like we were used to 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:53.560 having like uncomfortable conversations and like listening to each other, 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:55.960 and it was like, Okay, we we can get through 0:10:56.000 --> 0:10:58.079 this and here, so like we felt like we could 0:10:58.120 --> 0:11:00.719 you know, accomplish and get over hurdles in the real 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:02.480 world too, because we were already kind of so good 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:07.040 at communicating and like about issues or just concerns or anything. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:09.680 So we were just like, okay, this, you know, this 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:12.040 helped us grow, even though it's sucked in the moment, 0:11:12.080 --> 0:11:15.079 and helped us grow. So, and everybody who goes through 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:18.480 a long distance relationship has to come to the moment 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:21.559 where you decide who's going to move where. So how 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:23.320 did you decide that you were going to go up 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:26.160 to Canada rather than him come to the States. Yeah, well, 0:11:26.240 --> 0:11:29.360 so we actually kind of both moved. I guess I 0:11:29.520 --> 0:11:31.840 put that in air quotes because so he grew up 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:34.920 outside of Toronto and then moved to Edmonton, which is 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:43.200 in western Alberta, Canada. Yeah, and so, um, he's lived 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:45.640 there for the past couple of years and I obviously 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:48.920 was in South Carolina for like nine years. And we 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:52.559 just kind of decided like Toronto was like the middle point, 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:54.640 like meeting point for both of us because we both 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:57.120 were like, okay, like there's the industry is up there. 0:11:57.160 --> 0:12:00.800 We're both in that industry. Like it just made sense. Um, 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:03.560 so we both kind of you know, made a made 0:12:03.559 --> 0:12:07.480 a bit of a move. That's perfect. I think that's 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:09.559 definitely also the recipe to six six. You got it 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:12.280 all figured out. Um, you mentioned communication earlier. I got 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.280 one question for you. You're the only couple that have 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:17.520 left Bachelor in Paradise, Canada together. Was there any conversation 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:21.400 around leaving engaged? So yeah, I mean we had it. 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:24.280 We had like our fantasy suite date, um, you know, 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:26.640 and we had our time to kind of talk, and 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:29.560 we both knew that like, Okay, we're not ready to 0:12:29.559 --> 0:12:33.720 get engaged. So going into that last like final row ceremony, 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:37.280 I knew and he knew, like we weren't getting engaged. Um, 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:40.920 I just take engagement really seriously, like I that's something 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:44.600 should yeah, well I know, but mostlim people on this 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:50.560 show don't. Of course they don't. I agree, So, you know, 0:12:51.120 --> 0:12:53.439 from so many names are jumping to my head right now, 0:12:54.320 --> 0:12:56.679 I wish I had the balls to say it. Come on. 0:12:57.840 --> 0:13:02.120 Think certain couple were like, you guys got engaged? Are 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:05.160 you out of your mind? Yeah? But you know, I 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:07.400 just I think it's like that's a moment that I've 0:13:07.400 --> 0:13:09.760 looked forward to my entire life. I'm that I'm like 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:12.000 that girl, you know. I'm sure Ashley was the same, 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:13.920 you know, she's I feel like, actually and I are 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:16.280 very similar. We're both like, you know, girly girls, and 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:21.000 we're romantic, like romantic of people. And I wanted to 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.920 make sure that, like you know, this would be forever 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:26.200 if it's going to be an engagement, and we both 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:29.679 want to just make sure, like you know, we were 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:31.400 making the right decision. And I think we feel like 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:34.440 we did. Feel free to plead the fifth on this one. 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:36.800 But obviously we know that you dated Clay for a 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:39.680 little bit. Was there any like outreach from him towards 0:13:39.679 --> 0:13:41.440 you about being on the show or anything like that, 0:13:42.920 --> 0:13:46.160 not directly towards me. Now, I haven't talked about a 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:50.079 long time, but it sounds like there was something more indirect. 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:54.079 I mean, I don't know, I don't know. We're not 0:13:54.160 --> 0:13:56.680 we're not talking about it. Okay, okay, she's played in 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:58.280 the fifth. You can plead the fifth on this one. 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:00.679 I will never forget the moment that you walked down 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:02.439 the aisle at Christ and Christ's wedding. That was the 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:06.000 best moment ever because it was he was down in 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:08.880 paradise and then you looked stunning, and then you were 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:10.920 walking down the aisland. You had this like one of 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:14.160 your eyebrows was raised and you're kind of doing a 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:18.679 look as if like you say something like you weren't 0:14:18.679 --> 0:14:21.800 actually like that wasn't a unintentional and b you weren't 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:23.480 even looking in his direction or something like that. As 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:26.160 that's why I heard, no, we were. We talked about 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:28.400 this on the podcast last time. That's what it was. 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:32.040 I swear to you like I didn't do that on purpose. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:34.560 And this is the reason is because I remember I'm 0:14:34.640 --> 0:14:36.680 a model, so like you put me on a runway 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:39.080 or like a straight thing. I go into the auto 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:43.120 pilot and I'm like, yes, bitch, Oh no, I believe that, 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:46.400 but I don't care because in my mind, in my fantasy, 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:49.240 that is why you made the look and it made 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:52.560 my life, and honestly it was what made it was 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:57.320 actually thought. She was literally like kidding me in the shoulder, like, 0:14:57.600 --> 0:14:59.880 oh my god, this is awesome. This is what I 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:04.080 live for. Oh my god. That's fine, Jared. I will 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:08.800 give that to you. That is, you think whatever you 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:10.280 want to think. And for the record, you put me 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:12.520 on a runway with the Paris four inch stilettos, I'm 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:16.280 going to do the exact same thing. So pay anything 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:19.720 to say that. I mean, honestly, I probably do it 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:21.920 for free. Anyways, we're gonna take one quick break and 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:25.320 we're gonna jump into our hot topic dating headlines that 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.680 just get Jared's blood pumping. So stay through the break, 0:15:27.680 --> 0:15:41.200 we'll be right back. Welcome back to help I suck 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:44.960 at dating. We course have some hot topics. Angelis sticking 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:49.280 around with us. The first hot topic I have to 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:53.640 talk about because it's literally everywhere people are obsessed with 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:56.760 this story. And I'm curious if Dean you have any thoughts, 0:15:56.760 --> 0:15:59.640 and Angela, if you have any investor in this and 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:03.560 Hendrick and Bill Hayder have been secretly dating for more 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:06.280 than a year and it just came out. Now. Anna 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:09.240 Kendrick is thirty six years old, Bill Hayters forty three. 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:12.480 Obviously they're both very you know, she's known for Pitch Perfect, 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.480 he's known for SNL and Barry if anybody's seen that show. 0:16:15.520 --> 0:16:19.760 They're both very likable people and now people are freaking 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.400 out that they're together. So my question to both you 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:29.080 are you guys freaking out? To um? Well, before we 0:16:29.280 --> 0:16:31.040 before we get into this, I just want to say, Angela, 0:16:31.080 --> 0:16:33.400 thanks for the thanks for the laugh. Am I I'm 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:35.800 drinking a beer right now. You guys thinking I think 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:38.360 angels laughing at me drinking a beer. I'm skiing. Okay, 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:40.560 I'm allowed to drink a beer. Anyway, you have a day. 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.320 This podcast more compelling with the more beers he has. 0:16:45.160 --> 0:16:46.600 You want to know what to I went to the 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:48.560 restaurant right before coming to the podcast and I got 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:50.280 myself two beers. So when this beer is empty, I 0:16:50.320 --> 0:16:56.720 got another one, right and back to j questions, I 0:16:56.760 --> 0:16:59.440 refused to plead the fifth um. I love Bill Hayter, 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:01.240 I like and to Kendrick, I don't really know her 0:17:01.280 --> 0:17:03.080 that well, I was never a Pitch Perfect fan, but 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:07.000 she also wasn't Frozen, right she was Else's sister or 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:10.960 my am I wrong? No, you're wrong. That was Kristin Bell. 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:13.600 Kristin Bell, That's what I'm saying. Kristin Bell's sister in 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:15.919 the movie was Anna Kendrick. I could I could be 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:19.199 very wrong, but I'm pretty sure I'm right. But um no, 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:21.000 I love Bill Hayter. That's pretty cool that they were 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:22.600 able to keep it secret for a while. I think 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:25.639 that's like, uh, that just like shows that they're a 0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:27.639 they're serious about it and be they don't want to 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:32.439 like unnecessary attention, which I just respect the crap out of. Yeah. No, 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:34.560 I I just saw that yesterday and I was kind 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:37.120 of surprised. I'm I like both of them, but I'm 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:39.800 again like, I'm not super fans of them. I actually 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:42.520 just saw Bill Hayter. Don't know why. We just turned 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:45.520 on Pineapple Express. Have you guys seen that movie? Yeah? 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.440 With James. Yeah, I was like, oh, I can't seen 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:49.080 this reverence and we just turned it on. I forgot 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:51.240 he was at the beginning of that movie. So funny. 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.240 I don't remember him in that movie. Yeah, it's not 0:17:54.320 --> 0:18:00.159 talking about it afterwards, but it's so the guy is. 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:02.040 It's at the beginning. It's like back set in like 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:04.960 nineteen thirties when they're trying to decide if weed is 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:07.960 like legal or illegal, and Bill Hayter is like or hater, yes, 0:18:08.040 --> 0:18:11.400 the test subject, and he's in this room like smoking, 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:13.320 and they're asking him all these questions and he's like 0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:16.199 just doing all this funny stuff. Yeah, and then they 0:18:16.240 --> 0:18:19.880 and then they have killing them. So it sounds about right. 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:22.760 But I love Bill Hayter. I used to love Bill 0:18:22.840 --> 0:18:25.160 Hayter on SNL. He was one of my favorite actors 0:18:25.440 --> 0:18:29.320 honestly because he always broke character. I love that he 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:32.720 always left. And then if you guys remember on what 0:18:32.880 --> 0:18:36.000 is It Weekend Report, the one that the two guys 0:18:36.080 --> 0:18:39.520 do there like a news station, but it was Stefan, 0:18:39.920 --> 0:18:42.880 If you guys remember his his character there, Stefan would 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:46.280 always have the new hotspots in New York. Anyway, nobody 0:18:46.320 --> 0:18:48.239 remembers this. Obviously I'm alone on this one, but if 0:18:48.280 --> 0:18:51.000 you remember it out there, help I suck at dating. Uh, 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:54.199 people who listen to this podcast let me know, so 0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:56.439 at least I'm not alone. We can like it. According 0:18:56.480 --> 0:18:59.879 to Easton, um also, let's say what we can update. 0:19:00.040 --> 0:19:02.800 Thank you. What's the one of Amy Schumer and Lebron James. 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:05.200 That one is great too. Bill Hayter love Bill Hayter, 0:19:05.600 --> 0:19:07.719 great headline. I just think it's it's kind of it's 0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:09.000 like in a weird way. It gives me the warm 0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:13.520 and fuzzies. You know. Eastern is just an encyclopedia all knowledge. 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:16.520 It was called train reacting the movie with Amy Schumer. Um, jed, 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:18.680 how do you feel about it? The secret relationship for 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:21.840 a year. Yeah, whatever, I'm indifferent about it. I like it, sure, 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:24.080 I know what I What I don't get is just 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:28.000 the overall fan fair. People are like, holyh this is 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:31.040 the coolest thing ever. I'm more invested in Pete Davidson 0:19:31.040 --> 0:19:33.320 and Kim Kardashian than I am Bill Hayter and Anna Kendrick. 0:19:33.320 --> 0:19:37.000 Maybe that says more about me, but um, you want 0:19:37.040 --> 0:19:39.040 to same though. I feel the same with Jared On. 0:19:39.280 --> 0:19:41.639 I'm way more fascinated with as So. My brother is 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:43.400 a big like rapp and hip hop fan. He loves 0:19:43.480 --> 0:19:45.359 Kanye West, and on our way up skating today he 0:19:45.400 --> 0:19:47.359 was like, have you heard the new Kanye song. It's like, no, 0:19:47.480 --> 0:19:50.240 I haven't and he's he's like Kanye West talks about 0:19:50.240 --> 0:19:54.240 beating Pete Davidson's ass in his new song and it's hilarious. Yes, 0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:56.480 it's so funny. What's it called? I want to listen 0:19:56.480 --> 0:20:00.000 to it. I honestly have no idea. It was blue 0:20:00.160 --> 0:20:01.840 seeing it. I mean, he's lost it for a while. 0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:05.320 But whole can't there be a threat? Like can't isn't 0:20:05.320 --> 0:20:06.639 that comes to it as a threat if you're a 0:20:06.640 --> 0:20:08.639 thread And I guess maybe it could be art. I 0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:13.640 don't really know. Never bet Pete Davidson's ass isn't kind 0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:15.720 of like sixty years old now anyways, there's nothing like 0:20:17.359 --> 0:20:20.159