1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my daughter she 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: can't go to America? 3 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 2: America is the land of the free, home with a 4 00:00:06,200 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 2: brave Give us your huddled masses and your reddit children. 5 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: And your daughter. This comes from mysterious Jumper seventy three, 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: who says, my male fifty daughter, female seventeen, recently bought 7 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: herself a plane ticket from the UK to Los Angeles. 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: She did not ask for permission and bought the tickets 9 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: and is now stating that she's going whether I allow 10 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 1: her to or not. 11 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: Can you at seventeen? Is that allowed? I mean so? 12 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, good question, Sophia. Maybe let us know what can 13 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: you buy and fly yourself at seventeen? 14 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 15 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 3: I did? 16 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: I flew alone at sixteen without a which mcaan. 17 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I went to Australia by myself at sixteen. 18 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 2: There you go. 19 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: Proven. She bought the ticket a week ago and only 20 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 1: tried talking to me about it three days ago. Classic 21 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: teen behavior. She does not have a clear plan of 22 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: whom she's staying with or what she's doing whilst she's there. 23 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: She stated that her reasons for not asking me is 24 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: because she'd already asked her mother. We are divorced and 25 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: My daughter moved in with me four months ago. She 26 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: thought that she did not have to get my permission, 27 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: as she thought her mother's was enough, and that I 28 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 1: scare her. While I'm open to the idea that I 29 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: may scare her, I'm opening to this concept that I 30 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: terrify her. I find it harder to believe that when 31 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: she went ahead and bought these tickets, regardless she lied 32 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: to me, and I feel like I've been manipulated into this, 33 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: as her mother has said she can go despite neither 34 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 1: of us giving her permission for her to buy tickets 35 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: or six weeks time. My concerns are that she's seventeen 36 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 1: and never left the country on her own. She's never 37 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: been to the States, and she doesn't know what TSA 38 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: can be, like how I love how the Dad's like, 39 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: you don't know the horse TSA, TSA take your shoes off, 40 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: take your belt off, computers out of the bag. She's 41 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: previously struggled with major anxiety, to the point where she's 42 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: found it difficult to get to the underground in the UK, 43 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: like the tube metro system is what he's talking about. 44 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: We don't have family or friends out in LA that 45 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: could get to her. 46 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 2: If she needed anyone. 47 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 1: So there's no fallback plan and she's only seventeen, she 48 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: doesn't have any world experience. I'm very reluctant to let 49 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: her go due to poor decision making regarding the whole 50 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: situation as it stands, all of my side of the 51 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: family has said that it's a bad idea and that 52 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 1: I shouldn't let her go. But my daughter has said 53 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: she will hate me forever if I don't let her go, 54 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 1: and her mother doesn't think it's a bad idea, So 55 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 1: am I the a hole. We have an edit and 56 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: an updates. 57 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 2: So the seventeen year old is going on a trip 58 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 2: and the dad's like, she's never been anywhere, Yes, but 59 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 2: she will continue to not be anywhere if you don't 60 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 2: let her go anywhere. 61 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: This is true. Yeah, I'm like very pro Uh. 62 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 2: You basically went to freaking Silicon Valley when. 63 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: Your id basic kind of did this a bit at seventeen. 64 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 4: I don't know if I Yeah, Amanda says, oh god, no, 65 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 4: I wouldn't let my seventeen year old fly alone with 66 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 4: no plan and no place to stay. 67 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know what the plan and no place 68 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 2: to stay is kind of crazy. 69 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would love my I mean I flew alone 70 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: when I was seventeen or sixteen, but I had a 71 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 4: plan and a place to stay. 72 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, which it seems like OPI was saying there's no family, 73 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:13,679 Speaker 1: there's no like if anything goes wrong, and I think 74 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: I think he did say that she doesn't have a place. 75 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 3: Transportation, LA's yeah difficult. 76 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 2: And so when you went to Australia, you were saying 77 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 2: with families. 78 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 3: I was staying with family, Yeah, family and friends. 79 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 4: And I mean I did have to like I had 80 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 4: to take the metros early all that, all public transportation 81 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:32,120 Speaker 4: by myself. You know, I did a three hour like 82 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 4: two buses and a train into the city by myself. 83 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 3: But I had a you know, I knew where it 84 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 3: was going. 85 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: I think maybe maybe this is what we do. Maybe 86 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: the dad is like, hey, I just don't want you 87 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: to go into LA alone. Yeah, let's you know, I'm 88 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: not sure what the finances are, but hey, let's see 89 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: can we move the ticket. I can go with you. 90 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: I'll make sure you have a place to stay and 91 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: all this stuff, and I'm gonna let you travel explore 92 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: like like do everything all will fly over together. 93 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 2: And LA is not the safest place. 94 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:05,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, for a young seventeen year old woman, it could 95 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 1: be overwhelming, overwhelming one who's prone to anxiety as well. 96 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, I think that's the move here and be like, hey, like, 97 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: why don't we just fly over together and then literally 98 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: free reign. I'll be here if you ever need anything, 99 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: but like go. I feel like that's the move where 100 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:26,039 Speaker 1: she can still maintain full independence. Sophia Cologne says, OMG conspiracy. 101 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: She's meeting a guy she met on the internet, which 102 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: this does sound like some teen runaway Tumblr boyfriend behavior. 103 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:40,040 Speaker 2: I'm not because it's Pride month a girlfriend, true. 104 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 1: Dad, I don't want you up in my girlfriend this. 105 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: What do you What do you think, Sofia? Do you 106 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:46,600 Speaker 1: think that as a former teenage young. 107 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 2: Woman, Yeah, as a woman, As a woman. 108 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 3: I don't know. 109 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: I speak for the women, speak for all women. 110 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know. 111 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 4: If she says maybe, I don't know why she's going, 112 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 4: I can guess like you guys do. 113 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's see what actually happens. 114 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 1: Let's see so edit for those asking why I've ignored 115 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: the whole daughter being scared of me. She tends to 116 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: pick and choose when she wants to be scared of 117 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:13,520 Speaker 1: me when it comes to asking for money or get 118 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 1: a lift to party or work, or to come get 119 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,840 Speaker 1: her before her phone dies late at night. She doesn't 120 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: have an issue asking me for anything. I mean, I 121 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: think it's like of things that she wants that she 122 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: may fear your Yeah, I mean, let's be reasonable. She 123 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 1: only becomes scared of me when she does something wrong 124 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: and doesn't want to face the consequences and uses fear 125 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: against me. That way, I can't instill any consequences. Also, 126 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:37,240 Speaker 1: her plans for combinations is one of two friends, but 127 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: she's unsure who and has never met them in real life. 128 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 2: There are people she. 129 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 1: Met online and video calls most nights to game with. 130 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 2: I feel like that's kind of scary to write. I mean, 131 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 2: like to a seventeen year old girl traveling across the 132 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: world to meet online friends that she has no idea 133 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 2: who they. 134 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 4: Are, I, as a parent, I would be like, I 135 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 4: need their night name, I need to meet them. 136 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 2: Yes, I would not actually would not allow that as 137 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 2: a parent. 138 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 1: Now, I feel like I would still be like, Hey, 139 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 1: let me find a flight, let's meet him on the call, 140 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 1: let's meet their parents, and then I will come with 141 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: you to see them, but you're staying with me at 142 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: our like yeah place. 143 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 2: Yeah I would, I would not allow. That's not safe. 144 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: That's what I would do, But I have never met 145 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: them before and therefore don't trust them. Fair enough, daddy, 146 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: And there's an update. Firstly, thank you to everyone who 147 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: has offered advice and ideas on how to tackle this. 148 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: My daughter and I have sent that down and tried 149 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: to the best of our abilities to talk through this 150 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 1: in a calm manner. She continued to demand that she 151 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: was going to the States regardless of my blessing or not. 152 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 1: The conversation became heated and she decided to bring her 153 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 1: mother in for backup. However, she eventually decided to reveal 154 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: that one of the friends that she could stay with 155 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: is actually coming to the UK to visit within the month. 156 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:49,919 Speaker 1: She has said that she can give me all of 157 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: her friend's parents contact details. I am still undecided. My 158 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: daughter deceived me through her actions, and while I'm going 159 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: to do my best and not let that affect my 160 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: decision towards this, it does need to be addressed so 161 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: that way she doesn't think she can steamroll every time 162 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,359 Speaker 1: she makes a rash decision. My eldest daughter suggested that 163 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: I genuinely consider all the options she has, but fine 164 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: consequences regarding the deceit more domestically, like grounding her for 165 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: a few months. I have not decided whether she can 166 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: go or not. However, I am willing to meet her 167 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 1: friend who is coming to visit, and have some very 168 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: long discussions with parents. Thank you for all your advice. 169 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: It's all been very helpful and made me feel less 170 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: alone in my reaction to my daughter's decisions. 171 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, your daughter is almost an adult. I 172 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 2: think it is good to have experiences and travel, so 173 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 2: that generally is pretty good, but to like you want 174 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 2: to make sure they're safe, and you want to suss 175 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 2: out the people that they're going to be staying with, 176 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 2: and the parents make sure they're good people. Yeah. 177 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: I think both of them are, and I think they 178 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: are both self aware to a degree and are kind 179 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: of recognizing trying to work on it. But I feel 180 00:07:54,840 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: like they're both being like, like the dad is like 181 00:07:56,960 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: trying to keep himself from being petty. She's like, you know, 182 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: giving a little bit of you knows, crossed arm kind 183 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: of vibes. You know, both of them are are kind 184 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: of mean, mugging each other, being maybe a little little 185 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: petty a little bit. So I think that like Opie 186 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: or Opie coming to the table and being like, listen, 187 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: I want you to meet your friends. I want you 188 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: to have independence and learn and grow and travel the 189 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 1: world and experience and meet your friends. I just want 190 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: to make sure you're safe. And also maybe the mom 191 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: is a better person to talk to her about that 192 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: because she could be like, listen, when I was like 193 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: young and like traveling around, like I was always like 194 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 1: making sure I was looking out for my own safety 195 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: as a woman, you know what I mean, or somebody 196 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:36,559 Speaker 1: else in aunts she trust. 197 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 2: I don't know that being said when what I guess 198 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 2: mom was nineteen when she started traveling the world, yeah, which, yeah, 199 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 2: a couple of years makes a big difference. 200 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: And also I feel like it's the added like honestly, 201 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 1: I think from the beginning of the story, Opie was 202 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 1: just like I'm gonna go and I'm taking the flight 203 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: and I don't care, and it's like she's in her 204 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: kind of like, hm, I'm gonna go, and when I 205 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: know everything, yes, she's not like thinking through all of 206 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: the things, which I believe are absolutely. 207 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 2: Genuously dumb and naive enough to not realize how much 208 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:09,800 Speaker 2: she doesn't know exactly. 209 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: So it's like, hey, let's get you out there and 210 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: exploring and meeting these friends and whatnot, but just like 211 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: to do it safely. 212 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, really, that's really what It's a responsible thing to do. 213 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 2: But I would love to know what you guys think. 214 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 2: But we actually have a calling that we were gonna do. Yeah, yes, Madolo, 215 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:32,120 Speaker 2: if you're still in I would love to hear your voice. 216 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 2: We're gonna give Modolo overring, Madolo. Can you hear us? 217 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 5: Hello? 218 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: Hey, how're you going? Modola? You messaged us and said 219 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 2: you have a coming out story of how one should 220 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: react to a child coming out. I'm curious how it 221 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 2: happened and what was good about it. 222 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 5: Well, first of all, I was planning on calling my 223 00:09:57,160 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 5: mom and my dad the same day, but my mom 224 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 5: didn't pick up, so I decided, you know what, I'm 225 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 5: not gonna tell her yet, and I told her when 226 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 5: I got a girlfriend, and she was very supportive and everything. 227 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 5: And my dad when I called him, the reaction was great, 228 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 5: but also really funny because he had about the same 229 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 5: reaction as if I told him my socks are white. 230 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 2: What did he say? 231 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 5: You know, I don't care, right, are you telling me 232 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 5: this because you have a girlfriend? No, well, I don't care. 233 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: Is that a good Is that a good reaction like 234 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: after getting off that call where you like actually relieved 235 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: and like kind of kind of laughing or did it 236 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: feel dismissive at all? You had to feel? 237 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 5: No? He He also said, you know, I hope you 238 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,959 Speaker 5: don't think this is you still have to bring them 239 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 5: to me. I still have to meet who ever you're dating. 240 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:05,319 Speaker 5: Of that, so what's very loving? But it was also 241 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 5: he's a dad, He's got of course kind of humor. 242 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, throw some dad here in there. 243 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 2: But w dad, Yeah, that's g I don't care. But 244 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 2: also when you do have a girlfriend, I want to 245 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 2: meet him to make sure that they are solid, good 246 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 2: enough for my child. I love that. 247 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, and he he actually has old Cimer's. But one 248 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 5: thing he still remembers is that I'm gay. He keeps 249 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 5: he keeps asking me like, when are you going to 250 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 5: get a girlfriend. I'm like, Dad, I'm twenty five, give 251 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 5: me a love, give. 252 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 2: Me some time. Well, your dad. 253 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 5: Has people close to me that have had to stay 254 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 5: quiet for really long, and eventually they felt they couldn't 255 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:03,319 Speaker 5: stay alive anymore. Lucky they are still here, and eventually 256 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 5: they did come out, but they had to cut the 257 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 5: family off. 258 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you do you have any like in closing 259 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: this out? Like, do you have any advice for people 260 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: like the parent in the first story who is like 261 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: seemed like they wanted to learn, but we're just you know, 262 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: approaching it really poorly, Like, do you have any like 263 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: quick quick bit of advice for how they could approach 264 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 1: their child to try to like learn and help. 265 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 5: Well, first of all, you shouldn't compare being gay with prison. 266 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 5: You could start compare being gay with being straight or 267 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 5: friends things like that. Yeah, and you should also just 268 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 5: check out YouTube TikTok whatever. 269 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, the education is such an important part. 270 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, with queer people talking about what it is that 271 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:59,720 Speaker 5: people say that actually hurts them and learn from that. 272 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for calling in Madula and 273 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 2: giving us your perspective. And your dad sounds like a 274 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 2: total awesome dad, so shut up. 275 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 5: He is awesome. 276 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. 277 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 1: That's so funny. Which when Modila said, like socks are white, Yeah, 278 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: sent me, sent me. 279 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 2: And the one thing he remembers is that I'm gay. 280 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 2: But to close out this stream, we'll read a couple 281 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 2: donations and and uh membership goals, and we'll do our 282 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 2: sign off. Heck yeah, Jody Wredo, thanks for the ten bucks. 283 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 2: This is hard. My sister is a lesbian and says 284 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 2: her family is unsupportive because we stay with the religion 285 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 2: we grew up and we include her and her wife 286 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 2: in family things. I was even in her wedding, so 287 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 2: it sounds like maybe it was the relationship was still. 288 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,520 Speaker 1: There, like they were able to at least mend it 289 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 1: more than the story that we heard. 290 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 2: At least Angie, thanks for being a member for two months. 291 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 2: My mother was awful to me and my sister. I 292 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 2: have had the most difficult morning Perier the last nineteen months. 293 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 2: I would regret if I wasn't by her bedside. Wow. 294 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:12,200 Speaker 2: So even though the mother was awful, it's like I 295 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 2: still wanted to be there. Videographo, thanks for the three months. 296 00:14:15,640 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 2: Not gonna lie. I'd rather my dad think I don't 297 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 2: care about him by never reaching out than come out 298 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 2: to him after what he said as a Catholic. So 299 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: it's like really hard to actually have that conversation BB memes, 300 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:30,120 Speaker 2: thanks for the three months of membership go live at Pride. 301 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 2: I meant it would be pretty We would get so 302 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 2: many people coming up, so many people. 303 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: Oh like people who know the show. 304 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 2: Oh no, just like people wanting to be on Oh oh, 305 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 2: it would be right if we were at if we 306 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 2: were at Pride with our cart now, it would be crazy. Yes, 307 00:14:50,520 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 2: it would be crazy. 308 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: I know we'd. 309 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 2: Probably get some crazy stories. So we probably would MJ 310 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 2: Growings for the ten bucks. But how would the daughter 311 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,400 Speaker 2: feel living the rest of her life knowing her mother's 312 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 2: to refused to except her that she chose her beliefs 313 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 2: over her daughter. 314 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 1: Yes, that's like the same conversation that we had yeah 315 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: in there before was like, but that. 316 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: Is the end of the members only live stream. Thank 317 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 2: you for coming in and participating and giving your perspective. 318 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 2: I feel like the you guys were actually able to 319 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 2: provide a lot of stuff that a lot of a 320 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 2: lot of sides of things that we wouldn't have been 321 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 2: able to get just on our great conversations. Great conversations today. Yeah, 322 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 2: which is why we do the members only stream, because 323 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 2: we want you guys to be within these episodes. Immortalized 324 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 2: on Okay story time. So when it goes lives in 325 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 2: a couple, when it goes live in a couple of weeks, 326 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 2: like your your guys' perspective is baked in this creating 327 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 2: community act. Just content m that's what your boys do. 328 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,880 Speaker 2: But with that, if you love us, make sure to subscribe. 329 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 2: We love you and see you tomorrow. This is an 330 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 2: episode from Deep within the Archives. Time for o kaopee reelam, 331 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 2: why is there no good men? Great question and we 332 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 2: will answer that for you, But first we'll read the story. 333 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 2: Oh I thirty eight female, have some physical problems, but 334 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 2: do everything myself. I started dating a few years ago, 335 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 2: and every date I get just wants to be friends 336 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 2: with benefits or just do one night stands. But I 337 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 2: went on a date a bit ago. We went Applebee's 338 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 2: and he was wearing a long trench coat and when 339 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 2: he's when he sat down, he took off his coat 340 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 2: and was dressed as a baby from head to toe. 341 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 2: He had a diaper on and a binkie. Oh the 342 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 2: whole nine yards. He was thirty six at the time. 343 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 2: Oh I walked out? Am I wrong? Wow? 344 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: Literally? 345 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 2: Not wow? 346 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: Wow? That's crazy. Although OPI I gotta I gotta say, 347 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 1: I'm a little disappointed you should have snapped a pick 348 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: and shared it with us. Yeah, like I am slow 349 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: key slightly disappointed in air. 350 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 2: You are also just like why, just like like I like, 351 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 2: you know, you don't have to go through the whole day, 352 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 2: but maybe just ask him, like like I would be curious, 353 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:10,520 Speaker 2: like curious anyways, you know, like maybe I'm not going 354 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 2: to hook up with them, but I would definitely be 355 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 2: like what series of events led you to the position 356 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 2: you are now? And there's actually a comment exchange. The 357 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 2: original story is from Possession Possession Do four nine to three, 358 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 2: and to Ryan says, as somebody who's actually into this 359 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 2: sort of thing, Oh wow, I can definitely say, no, 360 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 2: you were not wrong. I'm assuming that this was a 361 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,879 Speaker 2: first day, but even if it was not, a public 362 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 2: place is not the place to introduce a partner to 363 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 2: this kind of thing. It was disrespectful of him to 364 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 2: do what he did. Very true, super weird, but again, 365 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 2: I'm so to know what's going through this guy's dead. 366 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 1: Actually, there's a great therapy get Goo episode on like 367 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 1: the baby, oh baby baby finish thing, which is a 368 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: weird sentence bro it is it is very weird, like 369 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:01,320 Speaker 1: like he he asked a like, like, isn't it like 370 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: so close to pedophilia and the dude is basically like yeah, 371 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 1: like yeah, basically yeah, and they like catch. 372 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:13,359 Speaker 2: People and expose them and you bro Op says yes, 373 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 2: it was a first day and in public, so God 374 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 2: especially confirmed, Op, you deserve better. I'm sorry dating in 375 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 2: your thirties ends up with the freaking weirdos like that. 376 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 2: I have an idea. 377 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 1: I have an idea, OPI, could you make another post 378 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 1: on our on our subreddit, our slash okob and basically 379 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:39,919 Speaker 1: give us your like dating profile and could uh clean, professional, nice, 380 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:45,239 Speaker 1: non baby men politely requests your hand in marriage, your 381 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 1: hand in marriage. 382 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 2: I don't know. 383 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:49,199 Speaker 1: I'm kind of low key, like it's obviously like a 384 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:52,159 Speaker 1: long shot, but I'm low key, like slightly interested. Is 385 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 1: there someone who like happens to be in there and 386 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: it's like, hey, you love OKOB, I love okots fit together. 387 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 2: I don't know, I havent you can do together. You 388 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 2: can listen to OKOPI together. 389 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 1: Literally love has been made to the show. We've certified 390 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: fact Nick told us, so we can have it happen again. 391 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 2: Hey, we're open to it. Do it, okyop. 392 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: My boyfriend secretly got tested after a bachelor party in Mexico. 393 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 2: What, bro, someone's cheating. Not a good look. 394 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 1: I'm just feeling defeated after just discovering that my boyfriend 395 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: of four years secretly got tested just a week after 396 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 1: returning home from a bachelor party in Mexico with his 397 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: guy friends. 398 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 2: She's the boys went why old? 399 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,680 Speaker 1: I know it's not good, And also she adds that 400 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 1: I've never actually met them except for one guy that 401 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:47,880 Speaker 1: I know just not well. 402 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 2: See, that's actually even more sketchy because you don't know 403 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 2: how like fed up these guys are exactly like it 404 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 2: could be a bunch of frat dudes. 405 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 1: Just for some relationship context, Our relationship has zero cheating 406 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 1: scandals and has been. 407 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 2: Really good thus far, zero cheating scandals that you know 408 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 2: of that you know exactly, and. 409 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: We were even recently talking about taking the next steps 410 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 1: towards marriage. So well, obviously it's a bachelor party. Yeah, 411 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:14,680 Speaker 1: so it's like, dude, this is. 412 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,639 Speaker 2: I think it was someone else's bachelor party. 413 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:24,159 Speaker 1: Oh you're probably right, man. That's a misleading title that 414 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:27,680 Speaker 1: should be clarified. Additional relationship contract wife. Come on, anyways, 415 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I just checked the mail together and 416 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:33,040 Speaker 1: there is a bill under his name from a doctor's office. 417 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: I asked him if he had been to the doctor's 418 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 1: office recently, to which he replied, no. 419 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 2: It seems fishy, suspicious. 420 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: And it details a full panel test for down there 421 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 1: that he was charged for. Immediate red flags are going 422 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:50,120 Speaker 1: up in my head and he keeps denying ever even 423 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 1: having done one, so he won't even admit to it. 424 00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 2: Even though you won't admit to this, like, come on, 425 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 2: get out the paperwork, don't leave up. If you're gonna 426 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 2: get tested, don't leave a paper trail. But then how 427 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:05,199 Speaker 2: are they gonna how are they gonna online? Send it 428 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:05,880 Speaker 2: to your email? 429 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 5: Bro? 430 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,720 Speaker 2: I guess, so I get in paper cobbies. What is 431 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 2: this the early two thousands? Yeah, matrix playing and Seinfeld. 432 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: I then asked him to call the number on the 433 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: bill if he suspected it was fraudulent. No good idea 434 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: from op calling him out. 435 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:22,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 436 00:21:22,200 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 1: He finally comes clean after denying it at least five times, 437 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 1: and tells me he got tested and didn't want to 438 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: tell me because he thought I get too upset. He 439 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:35,199 Speaker 1: continues to say that he suspected me of cheating, so 440 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:36,120 Speaker 1: he got tested. 441 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 2: That's such bullshit, right, that is so much bs whacked. 442 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 2: And it's like because he denied it so many times beforehand, 443 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 2: that's what's the real. 444 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 1: Like at the beginning, well, honestly, I didn't want to 445 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,199 Speaker 1: tell you, but like, at least you know that that 446 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 1: was him denying. It was buying time. 447 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 2: To come up. Ye excuse, and a very poor excuse 448 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:57,199 Speaker 2: at that. 449 00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,199 Speaker 1: Actually, I mean it would have been good if it 450 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,920 Speaker 1: was at the beginning. Yeah, yeah, it's still terrible because 451 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 1: it also like, not only are you doing this terrible live, 452 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,439 Speaker 1: but you're making her feel bad. This just screamed bes 453 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 1: to me because not once has he ever expressed any 454 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: suspicion towards me. And then I told him, if this 455 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 1: was true, he could have told me and I'd have 456 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: no issue. I'd even go with him to get tested myself. 457 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: I go on to further look into this test that 458 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:21,640 Speaker 1: he received. 459 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:22,400 Speaker 2: He booked the. 460 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: Appointment right after he came home from his bachelor party trip. 461 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 2: Bruh, he is bone and hookers and that. 462 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,639 Speaker 1: I thought you were saying, like hook line and sinker. 463 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,120 Speaker 2: You know, he's hooking up with hookers. He's doing some 464 00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 2: kind of he's hooking the hooker, and he. 465 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: Deletes all evidence that he booked the appointment or received 466 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 1: results at all. 467 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 2: Bro, Yeah, you didn't get the complete trail. But also, 468 00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:50,439 Speaker 2: why are they freaking sending it to your house? 469 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: That is a good question. Like a call and like 470 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: an email is enough. 471 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:54,439 Speaker 5: Oh. 472 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: He goes on to say he denied getting tested even 473 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 1: when I had the evidence right in front of me. 474 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 1: I mean, thankfully the test came out all negative. 475 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,160 Speaker 2: That's good, thank you. 476 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 1: But still I have an awful gut feeling that he cheated. 477 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: This cannot be coincidental. I'm trying to be rational, but 478 00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:14,000 Speaker 1: this screams infidelity to me. Despite his denial, anybody out 479 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,919 Speaker 1: there that can reason this in any other way than 480 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 1: him cheating? 481 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 2: Nah? Yeah, bro, he cheated. I got nothing, dude. That 482 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 2: is damning. Coming back from a bachelor party and getting 483 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 2: tested like some frisky business happened wherever he was. 484 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,119 Speaker 1: And his reaction, Yeah, his reaction just tells it. 485 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 2: All. Everything points to break up with this thirty. 486 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's got four years, man. 487 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 2: Four years, four long years. 488 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: Well sorry, you know, op, While we can't help this situation, 489 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: there is one thing that everyone could do. 490 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 2: Yes, there is one thing to subscribe. You've made it 491 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:52,119 Speaker 2: this far. 492 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 1: You've made it this far, gun the whole thing. We 493 00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:58,399 Speaker 1: love you and you should join the subscribe. And with 494 00:23:58,520 --> 00:23:59,919 Speaker 1: that I think we bid you a do. 495 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 2: We bid you ADU. 496 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:01,880 Speaker 1: See you next time.