WEBVTT - The Suite Life with Nicky Hilton 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:08.920 Wind Down Kraler Michael and Radio podcast. Good morning everybody, 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:11.960 or afternoon or evening or whenever you're listening to this, 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:14.880 But it's Janna Kramer and Michael Cosson for another episode 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:22.240 of wine Down. Jannah Cosson, Hey, Team Cosses all about 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:25.400 the team. What's going on? Boo you good? I'm great? 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:27.320 How are you good? I had to take the monitor 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:30.440 away from you before we recorded this because you're gonna 0:00:30.440 --> 0:00:33.080 be looking at the whole time again. Yeah, where'd it go? Yeah? 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:36.160 You go. Jason is doing better though. He's doing so good, 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:42.120 so good. He's not screaming at night any more, which 0:00:42.159 --> 0:00:45.360 is amazing. He's not throwing his love and Wabbi and 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:47.440 he's back to doing that really cute thing like every 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:49.680 time I put him in his crib, he'll stand up 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:51.599 and then give me a kiss and then he'll lay 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:53.320 back down and like he like watched you walk out 0:00:53.360 --> 0:00:55.600 of the room. Yeah, but he doesn't like throw the 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:59.200 love and Wabbi at you, and his naps aren't great. Um. 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:01.560 But a Llana who's the good night sleep coach that 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:04.880 um we talked about two episodes ago. Yeah, she's um. 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:07.600 I've been texting her and she's been you know, just 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:10.280 like keep on it. Like sometimes naps can be the 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:13.240 one like a little bit harder, but I mean he's 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:15.160 been given us at least forty five minutes to an hour, 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.640 So I'll take it. I'll take anything. The only like 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.720 she even said to She's like, don't worry about the 0:01:20.720 --> 0:01:22.920 the amount of time he slept. It's about just the 0:01:23.040 --> 0:01:26.560 quiet time of him in his crib, which I was like, okay, 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:28.240 I'm not stressed. She's as long as he's not like 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:30.760 screaming the entire time, and he's just is he just 0:01:30.880 --> 0:01:33.400 chilling there? And I'm like, yeah, he's just he's not crying. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:36.080 So that's been as long as he's not crying. It's 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:38.479 the crying that gets me. Oh yeah, that wears us down. 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:41.119 That's what yesterday when you're going and I was here 0:01:41.200 --> 0:01:43.200 during his nap and it was like he woke up 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:45.800 after forty five minutes, but he was just chilling. It 0:01:45.840 --> 0:01:48.360 wasn't until the last wasn't ntil the last ten that 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:49.760 you started crying. And so I was like, all right, 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:52.840 that's good. Yeah he's chilling. No, that's really good. And 0:01:52.880 --> 0:01:56.400 then a lot of people on our Instagram say our 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:58.800 Instagram's on my Instagram, I should just like rebrand it 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:03.840 Creamer and Mike girl, Like, how do I say Cramer 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:08.880 and Mike. I don't know, Cramer Girl, Cramer Boy, Cramer kids. 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:13.840 But I had not like backlash on the I s R. 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:19.079 But like, because I posted the video of Jace the 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:22.120 swimming not being able to he has I posted the 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:25.200 one video of him um where they were holding him up, 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:27.520 and then I posted the one of him jumping off 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:30.919 the diving boar or h then sorry correction, being thrown 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:37.320 off the diving board. And you know, he's not there yet, 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:39.120 but he will be, like I think by the end 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.679 of this week, he'll he'll have it. Takes you a 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:46.040 little bit longer for that age. But it was so 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:47.799 hard and you weren't You weren't able to go because 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:51.280 he had a meeting. But I went to I saw 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:53.359 jolly dooit and she did great, she did amazing. You know, 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:58.560 all of a sudden, she's finally not relying on her 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:00.919 floaties and she's proud of it, and she's so proud 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:03.800 of it, which is like makes me so happy, but 0:03:03.800 --> 0:03:05.440 but also a little like a crap. Now we have 0:03:05.520 --> 0:03:08.040 to really watch her in the pool. Really watch her. 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:13.200 She's a little over confident. Overconfident for sure. So now 0:03:13.200 --> 0:03:16.359 it's like, dang, now we can't go back to the floaties, 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:20.600 which was like our babysitter in a way. Um well 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:26.080 know we were always outside of correct, not twisted, um no. 0:03:26.280 --> 0:03:29.000 But so you know, Jollie did it, and so then 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:30.760 I went to go get Jason. I'm like, is he done? 0:03:30.840 --> 0:03:32.360 And they're like, oh no, he's going off the diving 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:37.720 board and I was like, um what huh? And so 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:40.040 I had my friend Linda there with me and I 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:41.600 was like, I can't watch it, so I'm going to 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:43.400 turn away, but I want you to record it because 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:47.080 I'm gonna watched it. She recorded it, but then when 0:03:47.080 --> 0:03:49.160 I heard the splash, I turned around. Then I was like, 0:03:49.600 --> 0:03:52.280 roll over, roll over, Chase, And you know, he didn't 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:54.920 get it, and obviously they like corrected him and helped him. 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:56.600 But you know a lot of people are like, how 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:58.680 could you throw your kid in the water? And that 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:01.720 seems a little rough, and for some people it is. 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:04.360 And that's why I like our swim or the I 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:08.680 s R. Teacher that's teaching this class is he's like, 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:11.640 I might not be your guy, if you want someone 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:14.280 to be like your kids aren't here to just play 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:16.400 splichy splashy, especially as what he said, He's like, if 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:17.880 you're here to play sp if you want me to 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.479 play splichy splashy with your kids, Like I ain't you guy. 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:22.920 He's like, you can't leave right now. Yeah. He's like, 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.400 I'm not gonna cattle. I'm not gonna hold him, like 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:28.760 I'm gonna be like, you're fine. And he's like, I'm 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:31.120 going to teach him how to survive. Yeah, And he's 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:34.040 like what was he saying the other stuff? He was 0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:38.480 like like he said the floaties were the worst thing 0:04:38.520 --> 0:04:41.159 you could ever do to your kids, Which I'm like, okay, cool, 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:45.600 pat on my back, bad mom. But I think it's 0:04:45.640 --> 0:04:47.760 one of those things where I started to really do research. 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:50.719 And you know, we've known people that have not known people, 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:54.040 but I've seen stories and especially the you know, the 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:57.320 sweet so many kids and they say say they say 0:04:57.320 --> 0:05:01.840 over childhood deaths are in the back or drownings are 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:06.120 in your swimming pool, and as a pool owner and 0:05:06.279 --> 0:05:09.000 as a mom, like that's terrifying. So I was like, crap, 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:11.920 we have to and like my biggest fear is even 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:15.560 though we have a a cover that they could stand 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:20.320 on and be fine, it's still scary. It is, it 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:22.279 really is. And I think we've been We've done a 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:26.000 great job. I mean, being hyper vigilant in keeping it 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:29.400 closed at all times, you know, if it's not we're 0:05:29.440 --> 0:05:33.159 out there and just never really taking our eyes off 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:34.960 of them and taking that for granted. Because I can 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:38.279 see why, right, people think they're comfortable with their own home. Yeah, like, oh, 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:39.800 I'm just gonna go in and do this real quick, 0:05:39.839 --> 0:05:42.680 I'll be right back or whatever. And it's thirty seconds. 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:45.760 It takes thirty seconds. Yeah, so I get it. But 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.240 so I would just it might be a little rough, 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:51.080 but I will just say to the mom is out there, 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:53.360 you know, to do the training. And I would say, 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:55.280 I wish I would have done it earlier with Jay's 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:59.120 like I wish I did it when he was a baby. Yeah, 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:04.840 but you know Andy too because she's four, Like yeah, 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:06.360 but you know, it's one of those things like even 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:08.799 though the teacher said, like the puddle jumpers, the floaty 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:11.599 things are like the worst you can do. It's you 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:15.279 do things in your time that's that's convenient for you. 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:18.479 That's that you you know, that works with your schedule, 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:20.760 that works with your beliefs, that works with what you 0:06:20.800 --> 0:06:23.000 want to do. So yeah, but the second we got 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:24.920 a pool, that's why I was like, we have to 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:29.000 get this kid. Yeah, was like walking and able to 0:06:29.040 --> 0:06:30.600 open the door. I was like, and we're going to 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:34.920 lessons to survive, especially once he started being a little 0:06:35.000 --> 0:06:37.760 velociraptor and opening the doors. Yeah, now that he can 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:40.520 open the doors, I'm like, Okay, yes, the gate is 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:44.400 technically closed, but like what if And I'm like, I 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:46.000 just don't want to play any of those things. So 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:48.560 I'm sorry if people had a hard time looking at it, 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:50.520 because trust me, it wasn't easy for this MoMA either. 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:55.880 But but it's in his survival skills. Yeah. Um, you know, 0:06:55.920 --> 0:06:59.080 we just got off a call for our book. Yeah, 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:02.000 you know, talking about out like our virtual book tour 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:05.080 and how the pre sales are going and all of that, 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:10.200 and we're very taken back by the response that a 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:13.440 lot of our followers, um, you know, have come through 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:15.559 and pre ordered the book. So if you haven't yet, 0:07:16.560 --> 0:07:18.880 you won't be left down. It's gonna be amazing. We're 0:07:18.880 --> 0:07:23.160 working on some exclusive content like a private Facebook group 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:26.360 if you pre order, where we'll jump on their um, 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:28.760 you know what, every day or at least once a 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:30.400 week or something like that. We're gonna work out the 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:33.280 schedule and be posting that stuff. But there's definitely gonna 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:35.080 be a lot of incentive out there for preordering. So 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:39.000 maybe even a song, I guess, yeah, go to uh yeah, 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:42.240 maybe even a song. Who knows um and Mike dot com, 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:44.800 Jan and Mike dot com, go get your book and 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:58.680 let's say a quick break. And so we have an 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.680 awesome guest joining the show today, Nikki Hilton. Did you 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:05.400 ever watch, by the way, the Paris Hilton Show with 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:09.600 Sofia m Yeah, man, that was like high school. I 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:11.560 feel like that was the o G of reality shows. 0:08:11.840 --> 0:08:13.520 It was one had to be one of them for sure. 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.240 I love I mean, I know Nikki wasn't on the show, 0:08:16.280 --> 0:08:19.560 but I always loved how Nikki just always seemed very 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:23.440 not that Paris wasn't, but Nikki always just seemed very classy. Well, 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:27.240 Paris has just had her own stretch of bad publicity, 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:31.080 so did she Yeah, just you know, being I guess 0:08:31.080 --> 0:08:34.440 I don't really remember intoxicated or you know, sex tape 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:36.800 leaking out and stuff like that. So, I mean, but 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:40.400 look at the Kardashians Award for her Kim Kardashian was 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:45.880 actually Paris Hilton's assistant. I remember that wardrobe sold her 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:50.640 wardrobe Now, I mean no, But Nikki has a new 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:52.559 shoe line out, so we're excited to talk to her. 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:56.120 And she's married with two kids, and so we'll dive 0:08:56.160 --> 0:09:01.600 into deep what she's going on during her quarantine family life. Yeah, 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:05.560 so we'll see. How's everything with you? Great? I mean, 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:09.400 I'm excited about what we're doing. I'm you have a 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:13.280 movie coming up? Why, I don't want to say anything yet. 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:17.880 Potential movie coming up, potential that if it goes through, 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:19.440 Jane's trying to get me to play a part in it, 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:24.280 which should be fantastic. It would be so fun. But 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:27.040 you're you're too cute. You're too cute for like I 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:28.880 just don't think you could get their role because you're 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:33.040 just too good looking. But I look like your co 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:37.000 stars friend. And the only thing is, I don't know 0:09:37.040 --> 0:09:40.640 if it's actually going to happen because with everything COVID, 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:44.560 I feel like I have massive PTSD from The Canada 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:47.720 Adventure where it's like you book a movie just kidding 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:51.000 one scene and we're taking everything you need, don't get 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:55.480 paid goodbye. It's like, but no, I mean, I hope. 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:58.360 So I'm trying to stay positive. It's just been it's 0:09:58.320 --> 0:10:01.200 a little hard to stay positive when I feel like 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:05.600 certain things are kind of being taken from you. Yeah, 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.920 that's tough. I mean I might have said this on 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:09.760 here before, at least with a group of our friends, 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:13.640 where I was like, has some high expectations, like people 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.960 are going to have their their expectations through the roof 0:10:18.040 --> 0:10:20.680 because of the way this year has gone so well. 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:24.760 It's interesting. My therapist she sent me this quote. For 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:26.880 so long, you've tried to see the positive. You have 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:29.720 tried to keep a good balance between being a realist 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:33.280 and an optimist. You knew the future was lined with unknowns, 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:35.720 but you also had this hope maybe this was finally 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:37.800 going to be your year. I mean, how many times 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:40.440 have we looked in the new year? By the way, 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:44.319 this is unquote if like when you start a new year, 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:46.360 you're like, this is okay, this is gonna be my 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:48.400 year because last year this happened, and this happened, so 0:10:48.559 --> 0:10:50.800 now this is going to be my year. Have you 0:10:50.800 --> 0:10:52.760 ever had that? Do you guys not think that way? 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:55.240 Because I know girls do, Like you know me, I've 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:58.240 cried for the first five years of my New Year's 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:00.800 because I'm like, it's not what I thought it would be. 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:05.080 I mean, I don't know if it's a guy thing. 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:10.559 I know, for me, I don't. I don't put that 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:13.280 much weight into New Year's like I know a lot 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:14.960 of people do, but I should never have. I've never 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:18.360 been like this is the start of my year. I 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:22.560 think it's you know, in my professional career, it's been 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:26.560 like the end of my year, and so my timeline 0:11:26.600 --> 0:11:29.720 was always a little different because i was like working sometimes, 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:32.600 I was working sometimes. The last week of this season 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:36.079 wasn't until after New Year's. So it's like I'm in 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:38.280 the middle of working towards the tail end of working. 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:41.720 My year is just ending, like I'm getting ready to 0:11:41.760 --> 0:11:44.360 like shut it down for a little bit, you know, 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:46.760 as opposed to like new you knew me, like I'm 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:49.559 starting over. It's like, no, I'm gonna lay on the 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:51.640 couch for like three weeks, you know, and the rest 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:54.600 of my body. So I've just I don't know, maybe 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:57.440 that's part of it. Where you know, those middle five 0:11:57.520 --> 0:12:00.280 years or five six years that I was in that 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:03.120 world really kind of changed my mindset on it. Yeah, no, 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:07.000 that makes sense. Um, by the way, that was from 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:10.360 Morgan Harper Nichols. And she basically goes on to finish 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:14.880 it by saying, um, you know, uh, the year of 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:18.280 things that you know, your year the year things finally 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:20.160 fell in place theory, you finally stepped out of your 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:23.000 comfort zone to embrace new unknowns. You had a passionate vision, 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:24.800 you had a plan for how things could go. So 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:27.320 she goes on to all these things, and then she 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:29.760 goes here's the thing. These are questions you might have 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:31.800 to sit with for a little while. And this is 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:34.800 also true. It's worth it to keep trying to make 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:37.240 the most of where you are, trusting that right here 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:40.719 this July, you can still know a meaningful life even 0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:42.480 though it's not what you thought it was going to 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:46.160 look like. You can keep seeking goodness and everyday life. 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:48.760 Even if it's hard to think positively about the future. 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:50.800 You can still try to make the most of where 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:54.440 you are with music, conversations, writing, nature, and knowing the 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:57.360 future will arrive when it is meant to arrive. And 0:12:57.360 --> 0:12:59.880 for now you have this moment. It's not what you 0:13:00.000 --> 0:13:01.720 thought it would be. But perhaps the end of July 0:13:02.000 --> 0:13:04.839 can be its own kind of beautiful. Perhaps you can 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:08.079 only be here right now and that's okay. I love that. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.600 I absolutely love that, because that's what I'll saying in 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:15.760 my head is why wait until January for it to 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:18.280 be like a fresh start on something? Why wait till 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:20.440 the new year to start something you've always wanted to do, 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.520 you know? And I bring that up because I feel 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:28.679 like we're halfway to the new year and I feel 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:31.440 like people might be I mean, shoot, I had that 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.320 mindset like, well, maybe we should wait to put our 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:35.240 book out because you know, we're gonna miss doing the 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:38.680 book tour, we're gonna miss doing this. Like but it's like, 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:41.880 why pause things because it might not look the way 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:44.480 it's supposed to. And my friend Mallory Irwin, who's so sweet, 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:46.520 she was like, are you gonna be able to go 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:48.520 on a book dor And I'm like no, and she's like, man, 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:50.160 She's like, I know you were so excited about that. 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:52.319 She's like, but maybe there's going to be some beautiful 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:56.360 thing within the the stuff that you know you're able 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:58.400 to do at home, and I was just like, I 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:00.480 love you things for the optimism, you know, and that 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:03.040 helps too, But I think that's I don't know, it's 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:05.640 just something to maybe like introspectively look inside of you 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:07.880 and go, Okay, what am I pausing on in my 0:14:07.920 --> 0:14:10.960 life right now? And how can I how can I 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:15.920 unpause this? Like but this uncertainty because like even like 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:17.920 with the movie or with maybe what with what you 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:20.360 want to do? Mike, it's like you're afraid to almost 0:14:20.400 --> 0:14:26.680 be positive because you're like it will it be taken away? Yeah? 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:30.000 But to not stop either way, I guess it's the point. No. 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:32.440 I love that, and I appreciate you sharing that, and 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:35.160 I think everyone we'll appreciate you sharing that because it 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:38.360 is it is eye opening just to make the most 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:40.280 of the day. And like you said, why wait, like 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:42.120 why put something off when you can do it now? 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:47.520 And yeah, I love it? So what are you putting 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:52.200 off that you would want to start now? Um? Two 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:54.400 things that have actually been on my mind a lot recently. 0:14:55.160 --> 0:14:58.440 One is I mean I feel like everybody in there, 0:14:59.080 --> 0:15:01.480 cousin is there, really wants to get their real estate 0:15:01.520 --> 0:15:04.400 license these days. But you know, you and I have 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:06.880 talked about a little bit. Nick car Rioder has talked 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:09.560 about a talk to us about me doing it a 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:13.640 little bit. Yes, he hasn't mentioned it. Yeah, I thought 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:14.880 he'd be upset about it. I was like, I don't 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:18.160 want to mend it to Catherine. No, he's mentioned it 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:20.720 because he's like to have kind of like a partner 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:24.360 in things. Um. But I think for us, with what 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:28.920 we want to do in the future, with you know, 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:32.000 our money and like finances, investments, it would just make 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:37.440 sense to have it, you know. Um. Yeah, So that's 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:40.800 one thing that I'm like, why wait, you know, this 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:43.160 is the perfect time where we're not traveling. We don't 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:45.760 have these shortened weeks because if we have to go 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:48.680 somewhere or do this or do that. It's like I can, yeah, 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:51.080 we don't have as much help with the kids, but 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:53.160 I can set aside time where it's an hour or 0:15:53.160 --> 0:15:57.000 two during that time of day or whatever. Oh do 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.680 you think you could instead of taking my two hour lunches? 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:03.480 I don't know. But that's but I don't ask. I 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:06.440 don't say that from a um from a snarky place. 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:08.280 I say that from a place like that's what you 0:16:08.320 --> 0:16:12.480 need for sure it is the longest time I was like, God, 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:14.480 couldn't he be doing something else right now? But then 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:17.920 I'm like, just because I choose to spend my two 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:22.320 hour break doing certain things that might seem more in 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:25.440 someone else's mind like proactive, but that's how that's what 0:16:25.600 --> 0:16:29.280 fuels me, Like, that's what feeds me. And that's where 0:16:29.280 --> 0:16:31.160 I've kind of stopped to be like, no, like, that's 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:35.440 your that's what you need for you to be centered, Yeah, 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:37.400 to have something to strive forward. So I don't I'm 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:39.400 afraid to take that like you shouldn't. I hope you 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:41.720 don't take that away. No, not at all. Um. So 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:44.600 that and then I just keep dragging my feet on 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:48.840 learning French, come a flute into French. So yeah, So 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:51.840 I think those are my two things just for this 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:55.280 next six months to really take and uh, make the 0:16:55.320 --> 0:16:57.760 most of. I want to talk about a little bit 0:16:57.800 --> 0:16:59.520 more about that and how I can because I think 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:02.480 it's important to help you, your your partner, what you 0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:04.800 can do to help. But let's pause on that because 0:17:04.840 --> 0:17:07.000 we have Nikki Hilton in the waiting room, so let's 0:17:07.000 --> 0:17:12.320 get her on. Hello, Hey, Hi, how are you. I'm 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:16.920 Janna And this is my husband, Mike. I'm good. How 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:21.760 are you great? We're good. We're just like surviving over here. 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:25.520 How are you doing with the quarantine stuff? I'm in 0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:29.520 l A now. So I was in Long Island from 0:17:29.640 --> 0:17:36.440 let's see, March twelve to July one, so like lockdown 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:43.560 and quarantine, and then I finally mustered up the strength 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:47.959 to come to my family in l A. Which has 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:50.680 been really how has it been with the kids during 0:17:50.680 --> 0:17:53.360 this time? Because your kids are how old? How old 0:17:53.359 --> 0:17:55.960 are they? Again? I have two and a half and 0:17:56.040 --> 0:17:58.639 almost four. How many do you guys have? So we 0:17:58.680 --> 0:18:01.359 have a four year old and we of an twenty 0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:06.800 month old. Okay, so very very similar. Yeah, so you 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:09.639 guys were doing the homeschooling and all that, well, we 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:12.280 tried to do the homeschooling for Jolie. We got to 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:16.200 letter G and then I was like, I'm not meant 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:18.040 to be a teacher. I don't have the patients. And 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:20.439 I'm like, let's just go outside and do chalk or 0:18:20.480 --> 0:18:22.560 something because I can't do this. And you know, he 0:18:22.640 --> 0:18:25.600 was getting just as equally as frustrated as as I was, 0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:28.000 and so we kind of we pulled the plug on it. 0:18:28.080 --> 0:18:35.320 But because she dropped out of her fourth grade preschool class. Yeah, yeah, 0:18:35.400 --> 0:18:37.239 so we try we have Obviously, I think a lot 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:39.359 of people are going to have a greater appreciation for 0:18:39.480 --> 0:18:41.879 teachers right through all of this. So yeah, once we 0:18:41.880 --> 0:18:43.960 got halfway through the alphabet, like, yeah, we weren't meant 0:18:43.960 --> 0:18:46.399 to be teachers, So let's just go play because that's 0:18:46.440 --> 0:18:49.600 our job. What did you do? What I ended up 0:18:49.640 --> 0:18:56.400 doing well boom School, which was brutal because it's all 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:59.320 of the children and they're muted, and they're crying, and 0:18:59.359 --> 0:19:02.159 it's not there turn and they all want to do 0:19:02.240 --> 0:19:06.560 a twenty minute show and tell of their favorite whatever, 0:19:07.720 --> 0:19:13.720 and that was exhausting. So I ended up doing a 0:19:13.800 --> 0:19:20.200 mini camp on my lawn, which was amazing. Um, there 0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:22.360 was a few kids in the neighborhood that had all 0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:27.040 been quarantined and not left their house. So we got 0:19:27.040 --> 0:19:31.560 two teenagers from the neighborhood and did this little mini 0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:34.880 camp with like five or six children. We did arts 0:19:34.880 --> 0:19:40.000 and crabs, we did sports, and it was so much fun. 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:45.359 That recommend Yeah, that's exactly what we're doing this fall 0:19:45.440 --> 0:19:48.760 for her. So we decided that we're going to potentially 0:19:48.840 --> 0:19:52.920 bring her back to two days and the other three, 0:19:53.080 --> 0:19:54.920 we're going to do that same thing where it's like, Okay, 0:19:54.920 --> 0:19:57.120 you're gonna do crafts over at Pamlin's house. You're gonna 0:19:57.119 --> 0:20:00.359 come here and we're gonna do you know, musical theater 0:20:00.520 --> 0:20:02.760 and then like and then we'll learn over here. So 0:20:02.840 --> 0:20:04.919 it's like we're gonna we're going to rotate too, because 0:20:05.400 --> 0:20:07.840 you know, it's just like they're at this at that age, 0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:11.639 it's like, let them have fun but also have experience too. 0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:16.479 So yes, and I would say that Disney plus Apps 0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:22.000 saved my life when they released Frozen too early. It 0:20:22.119 --> 0:20:28.560 was a very exciting day in our household patrols. We're 0:20:28.640 --> 0:20:32.720 on the cocoa melon. Are our old loves cocoa melon 0:20:32.760 --> 0:20:37.400 on YouTube? So it's like, yes, YouTube YouTube another godsend. 0:20:37.760 --> 0:20:40.520 No question, how is how do the kids feel? Did 0:20:40.520 --> 0:20:44.120 you the whole family go back to l A right now? Yes, 0:20:44.200 --> 0:20:46.680 we're all here. How do they feel? Being very nice 0:20:47.080 --> 0:20:51.119 because we're staying with my parents, um, and they have 0:20:51.200 --> 0:20:55.240 their own little room here and it's just nice for 0:20:55.280 --> 0:20:58.439 them to be with people other than my husband and I. 0:20:59.480 --> 0:21:01.960 By the way, speaking of since this is a relationship show, 0:21:02.359 --> 0:21:05.280 have have you guys? I mean do you normally spend 0:21:05.280 --> 0:21:07.399 a lot of time together or was the quarantine just 0:21:07.440 --> 0:21:09.560 like the first time you guys have spent so much 0:21:09.600 --> 0:21:17.000 time together. We both traveled quite a bit, um, but no, 0:21:17.119 --> 0:21:19.719 we spend a lot of time together. But this was 0:21:20.240 --> 0:21:23.440 a lot a lot of time. And I think most 0:21:23.480 --> 0:21:26.520