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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Hey David, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Hey, good morning guys.

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this woman, Cassie? We got to

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Speaker 1: know everything. Tell us about any dates that you've been on,

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Speaker 1: and then kind of where the communication is now and

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Speaker 1: why you think you're being ghosted. We got to you

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Speaker 1: gotta fill us in.

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Speaker 2: Well, hey, look, I'm actually kind of hoping you guys

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Speaker 2: can fill in some of those blanks because I don't

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Speaker 1: Okay, well what happened? How did you guys meet and

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Speaker 1: tell us about the date and whatever else or dates? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we you know, we met on the apps. That's

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Speaker 2: how everybody meets, right, And I said, hey, let's want

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Speaker 2: to want to do some dinner, Let's get some sushi.

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Speaker 2: I feel like everything went really well. I mean, she

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Speaker 2: was really good looking, looked like a proofile picture just

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Speaker 2: through the intelligent, good conversation, good vibes as the actual

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Speaker 2: date was happening.

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Speaker 1: Did you take her to a good sushi restaurant in

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Speaker 1: one of those like bootleg places all you can eat

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Speaker 1: like a little mean, a little little questionable, a little

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Speaker 1: fishy is one i'd say. I mean, it's a nice place.

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Speaker 1: She's never too.

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Speaker 2: No, no, a really nice place.

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have someone ella somewhere something, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, like maybe she's got maybe she has food poisoning.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it does relate, I don't know. I ate almost

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Speaker 2: the same thing she did.

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Speaker 1: I was fine, okay, okay, right, you went to sushi

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Speaker 1: and she met all your expectations.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then, like I said, I felt like the

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Speaker 2: vibe was good between us during the actual date, and

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Speaker 2: then at the end, it was just kind of like, okay,

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Speaker 2: I see, it was like a little bit cold, and

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Speaker 2: that kind of seemed like it came out of nowhere,

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Speaker 2: and I wanted to get clarification, and so I texted

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Speaker 2: her and I called her and there was nothing. And

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Speaker 2: then now she she unmatched me, which like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, so you're definitely I do. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: because it's one thing for her not to text you, right,

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Speaker 1: another it's one thing for her not to text you back.

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Speaker 1: But then she either she closed her profiled down or

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Speaker 1: she went in there and like clicked on you and

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Speaker 1: clicked unmatched, which that's not a good thing.

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Speaker 2: Right right, It's like practically like blocking almost.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, so you haven't heard from this woman

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Speaker 1: and you're confused and you want to know why and

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Speaker 1: at least want some closure. So we're gonna call Cassie

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Speaker 1: in just a second. We're gonna ask some questions and

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Speaker 1: hopefully we get straighten this out whatever's going on, and

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Speaker 1: then get you guys set up on another date that

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Speaker 1: we pay for. Sound good, I'd like it? Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: hang out one second and to play one song. We'll

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Speaker 1: come back and do it. Let's see what's going on

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Speaker 1: next after migal back in two minutes with part two

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Speaker 1: of Waiting by the Phone The Frend Show mcgalle. It's

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Speaker 1: on the Frend show Good Morning Another Time, which show

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Speaker 1: biss Anthony. This is his fifth appearance on the show.

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Speaker 1: It's about ten minutes away. Hey, David, let's call Cassie.

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Speaker 1: You guys met on one of the apps and you

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Speaker 1: went out for dinner and you had a really good time,

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Speaker 1: you thought, Except she has not responded to you since

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Speaker 1: that date. You've reached out to her, called, texted, and

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Speaker 1: she unmatched you on the dating app too. It looks

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Speaker 1: like so she's avoiding you for some reason and that's

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Speaker 1: got to be you know. I mean I would bother

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Speaker 1: a lot of people. I would bother me. And you

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Speaker 1: want to know why, right, Yes, I just tell you reason,

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Speaker 1: you know. Yeah? All right, well let's see we can

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Speaker 1: figure it out. We'll call Cassie now, good luck, David. Hello,

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Speaker 1: is this Cassie. It is Hi Cassie. Good morning. My

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Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the

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Speaker 1: morning radio program, and I have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can which

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Speaker 3: I guess can you tell me what this is about?

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, so we're calling on behalf of a guy

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Speaker 1: named David. I guess you guys recently went out. You

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Speaker 1: Do you remember this guy? Well yeah, yeah, okay, so

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Speaker 1: you don't sound too excited about this. He says that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, it's just not going to be a good fit,

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Speaker 3: so I think I'm I think I'm all set.

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Speaker 1: Well, well, can you tell us why, because you know,

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Speaker 1: we'd like to be able to tell him and he's

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Speaker 1: looking for some closure and that's kind of what our

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Speaker 1: in as to why it's not going to be a match.

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Speaker 3: He seems really nice and I thought he was attractive,

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Speaker 3: and like at first was like excited about all of.

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Speaker 1: This, but at least the date with him.

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Speaker 3: But okay, I'll just get I'll just explain that when

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Speaker 3: and like clearly knew who David was and said something like, oh,

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Speaker 3: must have really loved the food last night to come back.

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Speaker 1: Yes, huh. Also he thought he thought you, so he

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Speaker 1: had been there the night before with someone else else.

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Speaker 1: It looks like you, but it wasn't you.

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Speaker 3: That's exactly I was not with him the night before.

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Speaker 1: This was our first.

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Speaker 3: It gets worse, so it does. Then the manager comes

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Speaker 3: good to see us like me again and like David's

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Speaker 3: trying to blow all this off and change the subject.

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Speaker 3: I also, you know, this was crazy too. I ordered

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Speaker 3: something and the waiter was like, oh, I thought you

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Speaker 3: preferred another menu item, but like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's kind of crazy, right. This is like, so

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Speaker 1: and this person must look a lot like you if

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Speaker 1: they're confusing it well totally.

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Speaker 3: So when he there was a point where David got

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Speaker 3: What this is crazy? And so I talked to the

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Speaker 2: And he was like, oh my.

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Speaker 3: God, I thought you were the girl he was with

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Speaker 1: That is what he said.

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Speaker 3: And then also the waiter thought that I was like

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Speaker 3: screwing with him or like joking around so much, because

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Speaker 3: exactly the same. We're both Asian and he apologized and

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Speaker 3: like asked not to say anything to David, but like, no.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy because most restaurants we've talked about this before,

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Speaker 1: they won't do that. So they must have been really

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Speaker 1: this is sloppy, man, This is this is slobby and

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Speaker 1: Are you married or like? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: I know, I don't know what that dude's talking about.

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Speaker 2: I seriously don't. Okay, I can't. I mean, I don't

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Speaker 2: know about Like, I don't know what he's getting this

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Speaker 2: many times before. I've been to that restaurant before, yes,

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Speaker 2: and I've been on dates with other girls before.

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Speaker 1: Were you there the night before?

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Speaker 2: A well, first of all, just because this dude is racist,

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Speaker 2: Like I can't control that, you know what you think?

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Speaker 2: All these people look the.

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Speaker 1: Same, I mean, but do they? I mean were you

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Speaker 1: You do not, so you were not okay, but were

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Speaker 2: It was not I don't think it was. I've been

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Speaker 2: there before. It wasn't the night before. But like, where

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Speaker 2: does it say that I'm not allowed to go on

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Speaker 1: Oh no, no, I don't think you're telling it. How

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Speaker 1: would they screw this up? Okay? So that all right?

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Speaker 1: So it wasn't the night before and they're racist, But

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Speaker 2: I'm allowed to have excudents, I'm allowed to say things

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Speaker 2: I'm not exclusive with anyone, So with you do anything wrong?

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Speaker 1: You were with your ex right the day before.

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Speaker 2: She's not my I'm not in a relationship with anyone.

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Speaker 1: because I don't really know why they would screw that up.

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Speaker 1: they're talking about what kind of food you like and

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Speaker 3: And okay, so let's say first of all, no matter what,

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Speaker 3: he's lazy, right, like, you can't find a different restaurant.

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Speaker 1: Well just like sushi, so bad restaurant to the same

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Speaker 1: place with different horrible staff. According to this guy, he't

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Speaker 1: be going back there, I don't think, ar Jennifer. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well he's the one taking him. Was probably Asian too,

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Speaker 1: So it's not racist. Okay, all right, so you're saying

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Speaker 1: this isn't This is not how it's coming off. That

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Speaker 1: but you were not there the night before with a

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Speaker 2: No, I can't control if somebody thinks everyone looks the same.

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Speaker 2: I have a tight So like, if it was two

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Speaker 2: blonde girls, would you think that's racist?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's racist against blonde people. Okay, just say you

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Speaker 1: were there last night, Just say you were there the

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Speaker 1: night before. Just say you got caught up. It's fine, Okay, he.

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Speaker 2: Might I've been there before all right before.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. This guy can't tell a straight story.

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Speaker 1: But Cassie, do I even have to ask do you

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Speaker 1: want another day with him? Because you said you liked

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's absolutely no, because at the very least he's

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Speaker 3: of this is.

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Speaker 1: Just shady's if nothing else. Yeah, in a lot of ways,

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Speaker 1: apparently no. Okay, all right, well I'm good. All right. Hey, look, David,

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Speaker 1: it's not going to work out. I would recommend a

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Speaker 1: You know, if you got your go to spot, that's

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Speaker 1: one thing. But if we're going out night after night

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Speaker 1: and we're going out with the same kind of you know,

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Speaker 1: looking people, then we might want to not have this happen.

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Speaker 2: I don't think they look if people like.

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Speaker 1: Other things besides sushi too, bro, you know, you know

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Speaker 1: I like Italian food, I like ried chicken. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. How you having? Well, pro tip from

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Speaker 1: the ancient guys? Right here? Is he your type? I'll

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Speaker 1: go with you every night? Didn't look like Cassie won't

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Speaker 1: have that problem again? All right, guys, thank you for

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Speaker 1: your inside, best of luck to both of you, Okay

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Speaker 3: All right, Thanks