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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocatesla dot com. Breeze on the phone today

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Speaker 1: for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted

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Speaker 1: by a dude named Jeff, and so we're about to

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Speaker 1: see if we can get another date and find out

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Speaker 1: why she was ghosted by calling him in a second.

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Speaker 1: But first let's find out about the date. Brie, how

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Speaker 1: long has it been since you heard from Jeff?

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Speaker 2: I have not heard from him in four days, for

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Speaker 2: a very long day.

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Speaker 3: When did you last talk to I mean, like, what

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Speaker 3: was your last interaction with him?

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Speaker 2: Like, so it was our date with our last interaction,

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Speaker 2: I've not heard from him since the date, and I'm

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Speaker 2: not sure what happened.

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Speaker 1: Did you reach out to him since?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm starting to look a little bit crazy.

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Speaker 2: So friends, you guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair, well, let's talk about the day. How did

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Speaker 1: it go?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So we met on Hinge. He ticks all of

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Speaker 2: my boxes. It was a great first date. He basically

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Speaker 2: picked everything out. He has his favorite neighborhood spots. So

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Speaker 2: we went to this really really nice Battalion restaurant and

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Speaker 2: all the Italian food was really thoughtful. He asked me

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Speaker 2: before we went what my favorite food was, so we

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Speaker 2: had that in common, which was really cool. And then

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Speaker 2: we went to another little cute spot to get some

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Speaker 2: drinks and there was a tooth box there, which I

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Speaker 2: thought was pretty cool, and he gave me money so

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Speaker 2: I could pick out my favorite songs. It was very thoughtful. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like just really a low key, sweet, sweet, thoughtful date.

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Speaker 2: And we sat next to each other and we sang

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Speaker 2: like my favorite songs and uh like, we accidentally brushed

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Speaker 1: And.

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Speaker 2: It was like the best dates that I've ever been on.

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Speaker 2: So I'm kind of confused. We had a lot in common,

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Speaker 2: like we talked about sunny movies, we liked, like our childhood.

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Speaker 2: I was telling him I was interested in self a

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Speaker 2: dancing and he said he was like open to going

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Speaker 2: because I was trying to test the waters because fee

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Speaker 2: we'd be, you know, interested in the mother hang. We

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Speaker 2: both are mediocre cooks. There was just like a lot

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Speaker 2: of commonalities and laughter and just I thought it was

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Speaker 2: good vibes and then I don't know, I thought it

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Speaker 2: was perfect, like yeah, we've closed down the bar. And

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Speaker 2: then Ki walked me home and then we kissed and

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Speaker 2: I thought it was magic. And then I have not

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Speaker 2: heard from him since, so I don't know. I've been

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Speaker 2: We texted that night and that was fine, but then

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Speaker 2: I tried to keep texting to like, you know, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to the Salta Cross. We're gonna hang out. How

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Speaker 2: is your day, how is work? Any of that.

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Speaker 1: I've got nothing, any idea of why he's ghost to

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Speaker 1: you at all.

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Speaker 2: My friends have a prediction. Okay, so I talk a lot.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if she's noticed. They think maybe I

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Speaker 2: over did. I was talking about like pillar talk and

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Speaker 2: intimacy and like, I don't know. Maybe they think I

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Speaker 2: just I was too hardcore for flirting. I came on

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Speaker 2: too strong with hey, let's go sal the dancing. I'm

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Speaker 2: looking too far into it. I don't know. They're thinking

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Speaker 2: I did maybe too much flirting or too much like

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Speaker 2: where are we going with the next step? How do

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Speaker 2: you feel about this?

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Speaker 3: Or that?

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Speaker 1: Maybe when your elbows brushed, did you guys have long

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Speaker 1: sleeves on a bare elbows?

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Speaker 2: I rolled my sleeves up. He did not.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's why we thought you were a little risky

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Speaker 1: going in barrel bow like that. That right, skin to skin. Well,

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can figure it out for you.

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Speaker 1: We'll play a song come back, and then call him

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Speaker 1: and see what tellus why he's ghosting you and hopefully

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Speaker 1: get you in date. Okay, okay, all right, we'll get

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Speaker 1: your first date follow up next. Right in the middle

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Speaker 1: of your first date follow up, if you're just joining

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Speaker 1: us and Bree is on the phone and she's getting

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Speaker 1: ghosted by a dude named Jeff, So we're about to

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Speaker 1: call him and see if you'll tell us why he's

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Speaker 1: ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But before

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Speaker 1: we do that, Rie, why don't you catch everybody up

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Speaker 1: on your situation? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Because he is Jeff. We met on Hinge, best date

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Speaker 2: of my life, very thoughtful, very kind. Now has been

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Speaker 2: ghosting me for four days. My friends think it's because

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Speaker 2: maybe over shit, Maybe I like came on too strong.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it must have been what it was? All right? Well,

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Speaker 1: are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Hello, Hi mansweak to Jeff. Please, Jeff,

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Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jewbel and I host

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Speaker 1: the radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Jeff,

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Speaker 1: the whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Good. How are you?

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Speaker 4: What do I owe the honor?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever listened to the show before?

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Speaker 2: Once or twice?

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Speaker 1: We do a segment on the show it's called the

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Speaker 1: first Date follow up. So that's where if you go

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Speaker 1: out on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 1: that person can have us get you on the phone

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Speaker 1: to ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an

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Speaker 1: email about you, sucka, you need to be very nice, coaxing,

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Speaker 1: but we got an email about you.

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Speaker 4: I think I see where this is going. Yeah. About

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Speaker 4: about Kaylen No, I'm sorry, her name is Breu.

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Speaker 3: You're busy, Jeff never okay, and I heard it it okay.

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Speaker 4: I'm going to give you a short answer. Relie to

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Speaker 4: me be a liar about what about her age? I

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Speaker 4: mean she was. I liked her. I liked her a lot.

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Speaker 4: So I went and you know, I did the the

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Speaker 4: proverbial scouting technique where you going on you know, social

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Speaker 4: media find out things about them. And I found out

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Speaker 4: that actually she told me she was thirty three the

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Speaker 4: app that she was thirty three, I'm thirty years old.

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Speaker 4: Turns out she's thirty eight. What and yeah, yeah, kind

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Speaker 4: of like cousing me for a loop. I was like, well,

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Speaker 4: we had a lot in common, we shared a lot

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Speaker 4: of stuff, we had it. I had a great day.

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Speaker 4: I thought we had a good time. But I just

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Speaker 4: don't do well with liars.

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Speaker 1: How do you know she was lying about her age?

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Speaker 4: Well her because her birthday on her on her social

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Speaker 1: Okay, and then you asked her her real birthday or

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Speaker 1: something like how'd you find out the real birthday?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It shows on apps like how old they are on

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Speaker 1: one app? Right? But then so she said she's.

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Speaker 4: Jay said she was thirty three.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so it said she was. But then you saw

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Speaker 1: her birth date on what.

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Speaker 2: On her social media?

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Speaker 4: On her face?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, So you didn't ask her about that.

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Speaker 4: Well, I didn't really need to ask her anything. I mean,

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Speaker 4: she already lied to me. She's gonna lie to me again.

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Speaker 2: What do you ask me?

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Speaker 4: You're not supposed to have cool woman her age?

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Speaker 3: Right? I mean, maybe it's like an accident. Maybe it

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Speaker 3: was like a typo. All of a sudden, you put

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like, does it matter

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Speaker 1: how old she is?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 1: Like, does is that really what bothers you?

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Speaker 2: No, don't get it twisted.

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Speaker 4: It's not about her age, okay, It's about the fact

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Speaker 4: that she was she wasn't forthcoming. It's about I've had

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Speaker 4: my own pass experience that somebody lives about the little thing,

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Speaker 1: So we spiral a little bit. That makes sense. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: thanks for telling us, Jeff, I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Also, Bri is on the phone. She's been listening this

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Speaker 1: whole time and wants to talk to you. Oh oh, okay, three.

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Speaker 2: Yess. Yes, the age on hinge is not correct. However,

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Speaker 2: you would not have met me if I didn't fudge

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Speaker 2: the number a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so you know you did.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's so many it's not people normally don't bump

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Speaker 3: I think it's safe to assume that anytime you go

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Speaker 2: He should have asked me. You didn't even ask me.

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Speaker 2: You just assumed that I'm like a big wire because

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Speaker 2: it was hinge.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, honestly, I think that should have been

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Speaker 4: one of the things you addressed on our date, you know,

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Speaker 4: I mean, maybe something about letting me know that by

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Speaker 2: Okay, I understand that my intention was never to not

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Speaker 2: just in the moment. The plan was never not to

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Speaker 2: tell you. Well, have you lied to me about anything else?

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Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to come clean about?

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Speaker 2: Or no, that's that's it. I don't know why I

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Speaker 4: So, you know, we were listening there at the jukebox

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Speaker 4: and you play all these songs, is I mean flowers,

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Speaker 4: you know by Miley, Is that not your favorite song?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 2: Are you lied about that too?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: That is my favorite song. You saw me saying to

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Speaker 2: it loudly. That is definitely my favorite song.

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Speaker 4: I mean, do you did you like the food that

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Speaker 4: we had? Did you like my Neighborhood's you lie about

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Speaker 4: that as well?

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Speaker 1: Food?

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed the food. It was great.

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Speaker 1: I think Jeff has some trust issues, and that's okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm not a liar. I'm not a bad person. I'm

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Speaker 2: not like trying to trick you. Nobody after thirty five,

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Speaker 2: like there's a cutoff on hinge. I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: So the pool small for dating options. So I just

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Speaker 2: made my net a little wider and I wouldn't have

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Speaker 2: met you otherwise. I really don't think it's a big deal.

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Speaker 2: I'm not lying about all sorts of weird things like

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Speaker 2: pasta and music. Okay. I was planning on telling you

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Speaker 2: and then I just got caught up, That's all.

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Speaker 1: Jeff, would you like to go on another date with Brie?

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. Give it a chance. You can

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Speaker 1: griller in person?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would love to go on another date with

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Speaker 4: Bree and I would love to you know, come clean

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Speaker 4: about whatever we need to come clean about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, Bree, congratulations, got another date.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You're going to be questioned every movie you make, but hey,

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Speaker 1: more power to you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I will be asking you who Calan is? Why?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 2: I forgot about that. You know what, It's true. I

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Speaker 2: believe you.

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Speaker 1: Oh she had that in her back pocket. Jubile's first

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Speaker 1: day follow up