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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Melli Cats and

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Speaker 1: Tambra Jedge. Welcome back to two Teas in a Pod

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Speaker 1: with myself and Tambra Judge. I'm so excited we're going

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Speaker 1: to have Jacky from who You look beautiful. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You guys look great too. Thanks. I love the short

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Speaker 1: hair on you. It's so much easier. And I've had

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Speaker 1: extensions and for so many years. To not have any

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Speaker 1: end is like the most fringed. Well, you have good

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Speaker 1: enough hair, Like if I cut my hair that length,

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Speaker 1: it would not look good. No, I thought that was

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Speaker 1: going to be the case, but no, it's when it's long.

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Speaker 1: I had like hair that goes into a V because

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Speaker 1: it's so thin at the bottom. But yes, uh well

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Speaker 1: that's that's the start, guys. Since is to Cheese Pod,

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Speaker 1: where we will discuss our extensions and the damage that

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Speaker 1: housewives will do to your hair. Um, Jackie, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for joining us. Nice to be here. And

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Speaker 1: I am an expert on how extensions can look bad

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Speaker 1: on camera. So I think we all are Jackie. We

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Speaker 1: all are at her moments. I feel like sometimes maybe

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Speaker 1: the camera guys could like say, hey, your track showing

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Speaker 1: there's like things for my first season where I had

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Speaker 1: like a calic and then you could see the full

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Speaker 1: blown track, like showing in my house. Sometimes they just

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Speaker 1: do you dirty and focusing on that Like I honestly

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Speaker 1: think they live for those moments. Yeah they do. They're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: track is showing it's not her hair. This season has

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Speaker 1: been crazy. The only thing wait I have is the

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Speaker 1: season wasn't long enough. I know, I don't know why

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Speaker 1: Jersey always gets very few episodes for some reason, but

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Speaker 1: you know, I will say that those episodes are always

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Speaker 1: like action packed. There never Yeah, they get great ratings,

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Speaker 1: so I guess they know what they're doing. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: mean I personally like it that way. I think then

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Speaker 1: each time I can learn, like and then they'll they

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Speaker 1: still dive into personal story though, but I think it's

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Speaker 1: because because ultimately I'll have a connection of some sort,

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Speaker 1: whether it's good or bad. Nobody feels like strangers on

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Speaker 1: the show, right because it's been the same people over

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Speaker 1: and over. Yeah, we all really do know each other.

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Speaker 1: So before we dive into the season in the reunion,

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Speaker 1: let's start from the beginning. Um, how did you originally

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Speaker 1: get cast on the show? Um? You know, I don't

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Speaker 1: really know. I think they called so many people at

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Speaker 1: the same time that they called me, because, um, like

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Speaker 1: half my town was doing like the zoom phone calls

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Speaker 1: and so I really felt like there was no chance

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Speaker 1: reached out to me. A casting director just reached out

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Speaker 1: to me. And at the time, I was I had

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Speaker 1: a pretty popular column in the newspaper, in one of

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Speaker 1: the New Jersey newspapers. Um, but it was like a

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Speaker 1: big New Jersey newspaper. It wasn't like a local rag

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Speaker 1: and I was writing for the huff Post. I was

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Speaker 1: writing for a few other places. So um, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think they thought I had like a you know,

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Speaker 1: And then obviously I live in a beautiful home. So

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Speaker 1: I think it all came together. Siggy was leaving, uh,

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Speaker 1: were looking for at the time. Had you ever filmed

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Speaker 1: the scene before? No? No, no, I never thought and

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Speaker 1: I always watched New Jersey, which I feel like, if

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Speaker 1: you're gonna be on a TV show that you never watched,

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Speaker 1: that's probably not the best move, Like who doesn't watch?

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Speaker 1: But I got, you know, torn apart for actually being

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Speaker 1: But I never saw that. I saw this tweet and

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Speaker 1: I actually thought it was like quite rude that they

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Speaker 1: in you are bro You were being interviewed by Brodie. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was a fan on the show of the show. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and she and the person kept just like going into it,

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Speaker 1: I think that that was a set up. Listen, there's

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Speaker 1: a certain member of my cast who has very many

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Speaker 1: that was ridiculous. So is it fair to say I

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Speaker 1: In fact, I had the delusion that I was going

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Speaker 1: thought I was gonna do, be everyone's best. I have

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Speaker 1: a very important question, Goad. Did everybody on the cast

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Speaker 1: get new teeth? But you and Melissa said everybody's teeth

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Speaker 1: were Wait, you got new teeth too. I got new

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Speaker 1: teeth like three years ago, after my first time. I

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Speaker 1: got your teeth, okay, but before the year I was

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Speaker 1: one of the first. Yeah, did you guys all go

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Speaker 1: Theresa just got has done. I don't know who she is.

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Speaker 1: Jen probably went to Turkey. I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: could have been just the lighting. Yeah, we're on a

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Speaker 1: a judgment free zone. But um, and then who do

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Speaker 1: How often do you think that they spend time together

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Speaker 1: I don't really know what goes on between her and Teresa.

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Speaker 1: There is something off and I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 1: I I don't think it's the full story that she

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Speaker 1: don't know what might have happened. Um, I don't know

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Speaker 1: what it could be. But I just get the sense

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Speaker 1: years at all. Yeah, I think we've talked to about Teresa.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about you. You really put it out there

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Speaker 1: eat anything at this bar. But she was looking at

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Speaker 1: I turned around and I was like, oh god, he

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Speaker 1: is so cute. And that was in that We just

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Speaker 1: hit it off and the rest is history. You guys

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Speaker 1: make the cutest couple. Thank you. So, somebody else, how

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Speaker 1: is your food therapy going? It's going great. So I'm

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Speaker 1: in um therapy twice a week with a therapist, and

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Speaker 1: then once a week I have a medical nutritionist, and

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Speaker 1: so with her, I do a lot of like how

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Speaker 1: I did a lot for a long time of like

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Speaker 1: filler food, so like really high fiber, low calorie foods

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Speaker 1: that made my stomach like being not you know, really

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Speaker 1: foods with no nutritional value. So I work on like

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Speaker 1: replacing that with good foods, eating intuitively, all stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: In my therapy, I work on, like what are the

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Speaker 1: reasons why I did this in the first place? Why

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Speaker 1: do I starve myself when I get stressed out? Like

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Speaker 1: how do I you have a healthy relationship with myself

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Speaker 1: without using food emotionally? So the therapy is going great.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I've learned life skills, coping skills, really

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Speaker 1: like what brings me happiness. I'm in such a good

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Speaker 1: place with that. Um. I'm having a hard time sometimes

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Speaker 1: adjusting to being a bigger size because I was so

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Speaker 1: thin for so long. Um. But you know, I'm working

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Speaker 1: on all of it, and it's it's really great. It's

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Speaker 1: it's such a you know, God send that therapist exists. Um,

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Speaker 1: I don't now I did pre COVID and then stop

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Speaker 1: with my trainer. Um. But so I don't now I

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Speaker 1: do push ups in the morning. But Evan loves yoga.

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Speaker 1: Do you do yoga? I do? I I love yoga

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Speaker 1: And for me also because you know, I was on

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Speaker 1: the opposite end where I would feed all of my

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Speaker 1: emotions like go over the top with you know, any

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Speaker 1: time I was having a bad day, I would need

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Speaker 1: to eat everything and did it in private, and it

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Speaker 1: just became that vicious cycle. Um. And for me, a

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Speaker 1: big thing is meditation. Oh yeah, meditation that helps. And honestly,

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Speaker 1: like people talk a lot about the obsession with exercise

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Speaker 1: and how that can be linked to it, but for me,

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Speaker 1: outdoor walks and having fresh air and just starting my

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Speaker 1: day with a little bit of you know, whether it's sunshine,

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Speaker 1: but you're in Jersey so not as much sun, but

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Speaker 1: just having that really sets the tone. So it's not

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Speaker 1: about like I'm punishing myself by doing this exercise. It's

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Speaker 1: I'm getting outside and moving my body and breathing in

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Speaker 1: the wonderful life that I have to start doing that

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Speaker 1: because for a very long time, my only workouts were

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Speaker 1: just like punishing really meant to keep me very thin.

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Speaker 1: And so now I'm expanding more and it's great. I

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Speaker 1: done yoga twice. I love it. I find doing weight

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Speaker 1: training with heavyweights. Um, it's gonna sculpture body, and it's

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Speaker 1: gonna give you definition. It's going to give you the shoulders,

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Speaker 1: the arms that see yourself. I know, there's a lot

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Speaker 1: of things that I want to, like try so you

484
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Speaker 1: build your muscle. When you're building your muscle, you burn

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Speaker 1: more fat. You know that having your body, the more

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00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: fat you're gonna burn. So for me, that's like key,

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Speaker 1: Like I love all the others. I do it all

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Speaker 1: the yoga that I just you know what with all

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Speaker 1: my kids, sports and everything. And then like the show,

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00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: and I'm also like knee deep into writing a book

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Speaker 1: and so I just like I never had the time

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Speaker 1: for anything. So but um, I do look forward to

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Speaker 1: doing other things with my body physically other than like

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Speaker 1: just you know, like sprinting. Yeah, I know, you just

495
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: you'll figure out what you are figure out. That's what

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Speaker 1: I tell everybody. There's no right or wrong, it's whatever.

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Speaker 1: It's for me, it's my mental state. Like what no

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Speaker 1: I need exercise? I do. Um. And then final question,

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Speaker 1: because I know we're running out of time. Your best

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Speaker 1: memory from Real Housewives of Jersey so far, Um, let's

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00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:02,520
Speaker 1: see maybe my kid's birthday party, even though it got

502
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: called cheap. I like I just loved seeing all the

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Speaker 1: kids from the show, like all the boys jen Aiden's

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00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: boys and lists boys and my boys just like all

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00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 1: being together and like playing and enjoying each other. You

506
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: know I loved that. Um. I love celebrating my kid's

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00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 1: birthdays on camera so that I had them forever. Um

508
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: probably the times of my family that those are my

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00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:30,520
Speaker 1: favorites that we did miss one more. Why why did

510
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Speaker 1: you say you don't want to be on Margaret's bad side?

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Speaker 1: These are fam questions only because no, no, no, listen,

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Speaker 1: it's not because Margaret has anything on me. Margaret is

513
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: legit one of my very best friends. And I don't

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Speaker 1: know how well you know her, one of the most

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Speaker 1: supportive people you could ever meet in your life. It's

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Speaker 1: just that, you know, there's a Yiddish word called yanda.

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Speaker 1: It's like you know you you know everything about it.

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00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: She knows everything about everyone, and so I just feel like,

519
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: if you're gonna mess with her and you have got

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00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 1: one dirty in your past, she's gonna know it and

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00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 1: she's gonna toss it right back at you. So just

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00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 1: and she's gonna do it. Well, Luckily I'm clean as

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Speaker 1: a that's right. I love it. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for joining us, and you guys, I love talking to you.

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Speaker 1: I really appreciate it, and thank you for changing so

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00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,719
Speaker 1: many lives on the show by being Oh that's so sweet.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. And and Timer, I'm so excited for Ultimate

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Speaker 1: Girls Trip to thank you. I can't wait either. I'm

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Speaker 1: actually asking that a big brother. You guys are killing it.

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Speaker 1: Would you do Ultimate Girls Trip? Oh? Yeah? Hell yeah right?

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Speaker 1: Love it all right? Thanks guys, Bye bye. She was

532
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Speaker 1: so great, She's so sweet, she looks great, she looks amazing.

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Speaker 1: That was so nice you guys, Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for tuning in. Please send us any reviews, give us stars,

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