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It's our first time doing Sketch Fest. 11 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: We cannot wait to see you. We can't wait to 12 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: be in San Francisco in January and escape the frigid 13 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 1: New York cold and also I guess the very warm 14 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: Los Angeles weather for Sam and we can't wait to 15 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: see you January seventeenth at Cobbs Comedy Club, part of 16 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 1: SF Sketch Fest. See you there and enjoy the show. 17 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: Podcast starts now. What is up? 18 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 1: All? Happy Sunday Sunday? Everybody, let's face it, Happy Sunday. 19 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 1: How is your Thanksgiving? Oh? 20 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 2: My Thanksgiving was good. I was back in I went 21 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 2: to Virginia. How is your Thanksgiving? 22 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 1: It was incredible. We hosted, I made so many things 23 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:32,759 Speaker 1: you would not believe. 24 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 2: I believe. 25 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: Let me know if you agree with this. I was 26 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: thinking that Thanksgiving is such a I wouldn't go so 27 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: far as say anti capitalist holiday, but I would certainly 28 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: say it goes against the you know, the sort of 29 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: logics of big tech, because Thanksgiving food is inherently so 30 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: ugly when photographed, and yet we have been taught in 31 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: our society to cook for the sake of taking photos 32 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: of the food. 33 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: I think this is such a good point. I had 34 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: never thought about the fact that Thanksgiving food is ugly. 35 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like uniquely it's actually uniquely delicious and uniquely ugly, 36 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: which is the one thing that companies don't want is 37 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: for you to enjoy yourself without it being consumed by others. 38 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 2: Well, I think what's an interesting thing about it is 39 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 2: it's not necessarily uniquely delicious, but it's like uniquely unique. 40 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 2: But it's like you only have it on one day, 41 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 2: and so you're like, well, this day, I'm grateful for this. 42 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: But if I was having this, you know, once a week, 43 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 2: I'd be like, can we do something else? 44 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 1: I mean, I was thinking about that in terms of stuffing. 45 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: I was like, every year I have the thought, why 46 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: don't we have this more often? And it's like, because 47 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: that's how it is, and you can't. It's like, why 48 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 1: isn't Jesus born more often? Because he was born once? 49 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: He was born once, and we celebrate him, and we 50 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 2: celebrate him once a year, well twice an Easter, of course, well. 51 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:53,519 Speaker 1: And every Sunday of course. 52 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. I had as you know, I was mannic in 53 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 2: Toronto and then I went straight to Virginia and I 54 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 2: was feeling so East Coast pilled. I was sort of like, damn, now, 55 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 2: this is a real place. Sorry, I always have to 56 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: bring it back to there, But okay, I've been. I'm 57 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 2: back in LA and I keep looking around. I'm like, 58 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 2: what the hell are we doing here? What is this place? 59 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 2: Yesterday I went to see a movie and I was like, 60 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I live in a damn mall. This whole 61 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 2: place is a damn mall. 62 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 1: Well where would you? I mean, it's funny the movie 63 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: is the thing that is shocking to you, because to me, 64 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you're indoors, you're in a movie theater. 65 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: That's the one where you can just pretend you're in 66 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: New York. Just pretend it's the regal in New York. 67 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 2: The way you can't pretend. It doesn't feel like the 68 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 2: legal in New York. Cannot pretend. And you know, trying 69 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 2: to go to eat food before the movie and you're like, well, 70 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 2: everything I walked past is like essentially a pret totally, 71 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 2: So it's kind of a bummer cool, Yeah, but you 72 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 2: know Sela VI. I also, I have to say I 73 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: woke up today in a horrific, rancid mood. 74 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: That why, well, there's no reason for it. That's the 75 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: worst part. 76 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,119 Speaker 2: It's just like everything I'm taking, I'm taking a shoe 77 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 2: with everything I'm walking around, I'm like, you know, I'm 78 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: having one of those days. 79 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: Totally. What an incredible time to bring our guests in. 80 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: Let's see if she pisses you off, Yeah, that. 81 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 2: Would be awesome. No, I think she's gonna lift me 82 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: up like a like like a thousand doves' hope. 83 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: So we're actually counting on it. 84 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 3: It's really my department is what pisses you off? That's 85 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 3: that's what that's where I live, baby, that's what I love. 86 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: Do you feel like you're ye and that's where you 87 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: love and live? And last yeah, yeah, all of it. 88 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 1: Would you say you are a positive person, Casey Jane Ellison, 89 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: please welcome, Welcome to the podcast. 90 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 2: Jane Nelson. 91 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I am. 92 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 3: I really, like I believe, you know, I really am. 93 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 3: I am perpetually disappointed. 94 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I am, But I am. 95 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 4: And that's why I think, Actually. 96 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 2: That isn't interesting. This sort of fits into George's whole worldview. 97 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: I have a really big worldview that a lot of 98 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 1: people are sort of have been latching onto it and 99 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: it's been gaining traction. Which is one of my main 100 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: beliefs is that pessimism is optimism and optimism is pessimism 101 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:25,280 Speaker 1: because like to go on exactly, but you know what 102 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 1: I mean, as I do, it's unrealistic. 103 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: You're not listening, You're just not here now. You're actually 104 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 3: not here now. 105 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: So you're not here now. And when people are like, oh, 106 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: this person's so negative, this person is so cynical, it's like, right, 107 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: but because they have higher expectations for the world and 108 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: high high hopes for a living to quote that song, 109 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: and when someone is like when someone is like, oh 110 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: my god, I love everything, isn't it so amazing? It's 111 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: like you're you're literally so what a depressing existence to 112 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 1: not be able to imagine? 113 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 3: Agree a liar? 114 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 1: You're well, yeah, a liar at best, at worst, someone 115 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: who literally has no imagination and no, uh, you know, 116 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 1: no desires. 117 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 4: Absolutely well. 118 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: I always returned to Lars von Schreer's Nymphomaniac, of course, 119 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,080 Speaker 2: where there's the monologue where it's like, some people just 120 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 2: want more colors from the sunset, you know, more vibrant pink's, 121 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 2: more beautiful oranges, and I'm like, yeah, that's me. It's 122 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 2: just like everything disappoints me because I dream bigger. 123 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 3: Okay, I will have to interject at this point and 124 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:35,359 Speaker 3: say please that literally also gratitude. 125 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 2: No, totally, especially this Thanksgiving season. This Thanksgiving season, it's 126 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 2: so to be grateful. 127 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 3: It's great to be aspirational and to want more and 128 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,280 Speaker 3: to be gay in that way, but totally we also 129 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 3: have to be like, the sun's doing an amazing job 130 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 3: and you could never no offense. 131 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 2: No, no, you're right, you are right, bitch. 132 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 133 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 2: I'm at a confused in place with gratitude. I'm like, 134 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:03,919 Speaker 2: I'm sort of like, I don't know where it fits 135 00:07:03,960 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 2: into my life, like right now, in such a play. 136 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: Just try right now, try it at once, Just try 137 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: it just for what maybe just stop complaining for one second? 138 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,679 Speaker 1: Have you tried that? Oh? 139 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 3: God, the question what are you thinking for? Say it now? 140 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 4: Don't even think. 141 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 2: I'm grateful to be a podcasting. I find it a 142 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 2: fun way to express myself. 143 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: Wow, is that end of list? Or I didn't know 144 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 1: I had to have a list. I thought I was 145 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: just saying in a case as for one thing, I 146 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: actually think I'm not sure what the best way to 147 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: do this is. But I have long thought that these 148 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 1: concepts of like gratitude, kindness, open heartedness, these concepts that 149 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: are seen are so corny, need to be reclaimed by 150 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: the like cool community, you know what I mean. 151 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 2: So you're you're essentially saying kindness kindness punks. I actually 152 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 2: think it's actually catch. 153 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like, I mean, I hate to say it, 154 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 1: but kindness punk was actually super corny and not cool, 155 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: Like we actually we need it to come all the 156 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: way back. It's like all the people that are like 157 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: edge lord freaks need to embrace kindness as like a 158 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: subversive thing to have and generosity and gratitude. Yeah, I 159 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: mean this is sort of it's the ethos of you know, 160 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: rave culture. It's like we are really cool because we 161 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: are so open to community. It's very burning. 162 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 3: Man, happening to me right now, I'm thinking about so, wait, 163 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 3: when did kindness punk happen? 164 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 4: Did that ever happen? Or we're just thinking maybe. 165 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 1: That's so kindness punk. It was part of the world 166 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 1: of Chromatica during the Lady Gaga album. 167 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 4: Chromatica, during so she Pandemic. 168 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: Yes, she invented the concept kindness punks and it's sort 169 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: of quickly abandoned it, I will quickly. 170 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:01,959 Speaker 4: I don't remember that movement. 171 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, to call in a movement would be generous. 172 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 1: She sort of. It was part of the world building 173 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: of Chromatica, which was a sort of outer space world 174 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 1: that was giving colors. 175 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 2: The theme was colors. It was most literally seen in 176 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 2: the Stupid Love music video, and that's where the thing 177 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: about kindness punks. There was like a title card about 178 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 2: kindness punks. 179 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 3: So is this kind of like spunk, like it had 180 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 3: the same kind of color scheme or different different colors. 181 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:37,079 Speaker 1: There was a there was definitely it was bright pink, 182 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: bright purple, bright blue. That was the scheme. 183 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 2: I would say it was a little more elementary school then. 184 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: A little more elementary school meets streetwear. 185 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, street crops, but cropped yellow with big big pants. 186 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: Big pants, streetwear fonts. Shot on an iPhone. 187 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 4: But was anyone wearing these clothes? 188 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 3: Like I didn't get out of sweats for two and 189 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 3: a half years, like was anyone else? 190 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 2: It's actually did fit in sweats. 191 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: There were sweats actually, and they were green and pink 192 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: if I remember correctly. 193 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, let's fit into the universe. 194 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 4: Okay, So what was the questions? 195 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: Like how do we reclaim like how do we reclaim 196 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: kindness genera city gratitude so that they're not concepts associated 197 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 1: with like needle point pillows and corny. 198 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,559 Speaker 3: Like unfortunately speeches. 199 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 2: Unfortunately you have to commit to like ethical meanness because 200 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,960 Speaker 2: you it's just about like genuinely listening and taking in 201 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:41,719 Speaker 2: everything as it comes and being like does this need 202 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:42,719 Speaker 2: to be critiqued or does it not? 203 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: Yes? 204 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 2: Yes, because it's like sometimes people are mean unnecessarily and 205 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 2: like vengefully and just like taking something else out and 206 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 2: sometimes you're like, well that that deserves like a little 207 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 2: slap on the wrist because it's like what you're doing 208 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: right now is frustrating, and. 209 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 3: I was going to say that unfortunately, like part of 210 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 3: being kind is like being on You have to be 211 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 3: a loser, Like you have to be okay with like 212 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 3: being dorky in a certain way because it's it is 213 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 3: actually fun. Like if you maybe cool, I don't know 214 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 3: what that is or something, but it's like, yeah, cool 215 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 3: can be super lame actually if you're so concerned. 216 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: Well, certainly certainly chasing cool. Yeah, chasing cool is very lame. 217 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 3: But also being you just have to like being above 218 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,079 Speaker 3: it being like cool, Like I think you're you're talking 219 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 3: about like cool where you're just like everything's kind of 220 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 3: like all right, like that's yay, Like just is that 221 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 3: kind of it? 222 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 1: Or yeah, yeah, so you're saying that's lame because you're 223 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 1: not letting you're not. 224 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 3: Getting evolved, you're not getting evolved, but it's yeah level yeah, yeah, 225 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,320 Speaker 3: So I think your values have to change like for 226 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 3: what cool actually is because I think, yeah, like I'm 227 00:11:58,240 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 3: trying to think, what's the coolest thing I've ever seen? 228 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 3: And was it kind yeah, and was it kind wow? 229 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? Wait, First of all, I love the question, what 230 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 1: is the coolest thing I've ever seen? 231 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 2: The coolest thing I've ever seen? 232 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 3: I think it was Greece, like I still think the musical. Yeah, 233 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 3: I think it was John H. Revolt and Grease, And 234 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 3: I think that wasn't that cool? Actually when you think 235 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 3: about it, it was like the best thing on earth. But 236 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:30,559 Speaker 3: I don't know if it's cool, Like it's so beautiful. 237 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, Okay, I lost you you guys. 238 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm I'm you know what my mind is going. 239 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:41,239 Speaker 1: I don't know why, but I'm immediately going to Robin Williams. 240 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, the coolest thing I've ever seen 241 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: is like at his peak, like he reached such a 242 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: stride where like when he was on stage it was 243 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 1: just like, I mean, he was also on like so 244 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: much cocaine, but when he was on stage, it was 245 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 1: just like he was breezing through, and then when he 246 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,559 Speaker 1: was off stage, it was just like head to toe Issimiyaki. 247 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 1: Like so just like constantly with like three completely random people, 248 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: it would be like one model, one you know, uh, 249 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: international social justice activist, and one democratic politician and they 250 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: would all be having Martinez. That's like what Robin Williams's 251 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:22,719 Speaker 1: life was like throughout the nineties. 252 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 3: Sure, I just realized, did you contextualize me at all 253 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:29,040 Speaker 3: in this interview or did we just immediately start like 254 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 3: chatting thank you? Well, because I'm actually on the clock 255 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 3: right now and I need to. 256 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: Like, okay, you are totally emoting yeah, the way you 257 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:43,679 Speaker 1: have domndas throughout this process. 258 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 3: I I I told you, I'm in rehersal right now, 259 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:50,959 Speaker 3: so like it's not a joke. 260 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: First you're like, okay, I want to promote my show. 261 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 1: We're like, oh my god, amazing, we can't wait to 262 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: have you. Then thirty minutes before recording, you were like, 263 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 1: can I take this call from a car? 264 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 2: No? 265 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: Actually, Then we're like, we're actually going to do a 266 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:08,080 Speaker 1: quick intro and then bring you in, and you're like, 267 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 1: can we just not do that? This is and now 268 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 1: we're literally doing the podcast and you're like, I'm sorry, 269 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:16,720 Speaker 1: I'm can you please introduce me properly? 270 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 3: Okay, this is like a sign of unhappiness. Is controlling, 271 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 3: is being overly controlled? 272 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: Right? 273 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 4: Right? 274 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 3: Really? 275 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: Right? 276 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 2: No, but I get me. 277 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 1: Just it's funny because no, it's funny because I so 278 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 1: see it from your perspective, like you are, you are promoting, 279 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 1: You're trying to sell tickets. 280 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 3: Well, no, well it's sold out, but we just added 281 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 3: we just really, let's cut it. Let's just cut it. 282 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 2: No, No, this is actually so gayzy. 283 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: We would love to hear about the show, the sold 284 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: out show. You are in Los Angeles, you. 285 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 3: Guys, it sold out, but we added a new show 286 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 3: on another show on Saturday at five pm in Los 287 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 3: Angeles at the New Theater. 288 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 4: Uh huh, we haven't seen. 289 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 1: What is it called. 290 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 4: It's called It's My Sister. 291 00:15:09,960 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: By Casey j Ellison. 292 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 3: Written star and starring wah and yeah, it's a it's 293 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 3: a one woman kind of play. 294 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 4: And the premise okay. 295 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I actually would love to get at them because 296 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 1: I have been I have been very curious about this, 297 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: because I was just telling you before Sam got on 298 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: the call that I think more people in our community 299 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: need to do fictional solo shows. I have had enough, 300 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 1: I repeat, enough of the sort of Edinburgh trauma plot. 301 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: Like one time, when I was twelve, I looked out 302 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: the window and it was snowing, and that's when I realized, 303 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 1: you know, I was a snowman, Georgia, I'm crying though. 304 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 2: That was powerful though. 305 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's great, that sounds good though, Yeah, let's start. 306 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 3: Actually, so the twist is he's a snowman. 307 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 1: And again that's why it's good because it's fictional because 308 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 1: that would never happen in your life. If you get 309 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 1: if you gave me a trauma plot and it was 310 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 1: that you were a snowman, then I'm listening. But if 311 00:16:05,960 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: the trauma plot is like I had a difficult relationship 312 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 1: with my mother, join the club, well. 313 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 3: I have to say that I'm sorry to disappoint, but 314 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 3: there is tons of trauma in this story. 315 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: Well yeah, obviously, but obviously otherwise it wouldn't be a 316 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: solo show. But I'm saying, it's not you coming out 317 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 1: and being like, oh when I was six, So same one. 318 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 3: The premise is the whole The whole show is a 319 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 3: phone call between two sisters that haven't spoken in five years. 320 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 3: So like, you meet sister, the first sister, and then 321 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 3: she gets a phone call from her sister who she 322 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 3: hasn't spoken to in years, and you hear like just 323 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 3: her side of the conversation, and you end up realizing, 324 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 3: you end up learning what happened to them? Why they 325 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 3: haven't spoken? And then I play the second sister and 326 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 3: you hear her side, but it's like another It's like 327 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 3: later in the phone call, you don't hear the whole 328 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 3: thing again. 329 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: So it's like, oh, you're hearing one side of the 330 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: phone call at a time. 331 00:16:56,160 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 3: Yes, it's like analog play. You're hearing the phone call 332 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 3: from one sister's side and then the other sister's side 333 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 3: at a time. Who so you hear both sides of 334 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 3: an incredible fictional story. 335 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 2: Wow? 336 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 4: Yeah? 337 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 2: And what are the dates that this is happening again? 338 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 4: It's December of Not that it matters because guess. 339 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: What, it's sold out. 340 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 2: No, there's a new night George. 341 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 3: Hey, there's standby as well, and like this is a 342 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 3: really cool new theater called the New Theater Hollywood. And 343 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:27,359 Speaker 3: it's like, well, you know, like it's true, you know, 344 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 3: like it's kind of like it's already it's Hollywood. You know, 345 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 3: you never know. So if you show up and you 346 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 3: want to see, we'll make it work. No, I can't 347 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 3: say it. I can't say that widespread, but you know 348 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 3: what I'm talking, be cool about it, everybody. 349 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:44,920 Speaker 1: Do you think that a theater could ever truly catch 350 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: on in Los Angeles? 351 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 4: Girl, Yes, I think. 352 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 1: Have you like exciting to me, like the fact that 353 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: you're like the fact that you're doing this, It's like 354 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: how fun And there's a new the and like what 355 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: if everyone started doing more of this stuff? What if 356 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:06,679 Speaker 1: we stopped trying to make clowning happen and actually build 357 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,639 Speaker 1: a theater community that's sustainable in the city of Los Angeles. 358 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:13,119 Speaker 3: I have Sorry, Sam, go ahead, well sorry, I have 359 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 3: one of the more where maybe you say what you're 360 00:18:14,720 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 3: gonna say, and then I have an insane take to 361 00:18:16,080 --> 00:18:18,439 Speaker 3: say after that, because mine's kind of changes the subject slightly. 362 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 3: My point is like I think that the everything that's happening, 363 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 3: like with people being clowning and all that, it's all building, 364 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:27,400 Speaker 3: Like we're building an actual enterprise where we all can 365 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:30,959 Speaker 3: bring skills to maybe like the future of theater, and 366 00:18:31,000 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 3: like it's all I think it's sticking, Like I think 367 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,640 Speaker 3: it's gonna it's already huge. It's like, look what happened, 368 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,880 Speaker 3: you know with Jeremy O. Harris and Cole and like 369 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 3: Kate burlanstro It's like everybody everything is like sticking to 370 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 3: itself and it's a big it's a big moment. 371 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 1: No, I definitely think overall theater is having a great moment. 372 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying Los Angeles. 373 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 4: To your point, I have a the. 374 00:18:57,960 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: Show started in Los Angeles. 375 00:18:59,320 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 4: That's true. 376 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 2: Okay, here's my weird theory that I want you to 377 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 2: both comment on. Okay, there's more musical theater gaze in 378 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: LA than in New York. 379 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 1: Yes, well that's because they're dumber. 380 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:19,640 Speaker 2: Okay, No, but literally I think yeah, because you would 381 00:19:19,680 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 2: think they can see Broadway in New York, so they'd 382 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,360 Speaker 2: be in New York. But it's like, it's actually way 383 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 2: more common to be musical theater gay in LA. 384 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 3: I mean, you're talking to a lot. Did you know 385 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 3: that I'm from LA. I'm born and raised in Hollywood, California. 386 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:32,919 Speaker 4: Did you know that? All? 387 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 2: Oh, I don't think I knew that about you? 388 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: Know that about you? 389 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:37,679 Speaker 5: No. 390 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 1: First of all, I just want to be clear. I 391 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:42,320 Speaker 1: know I've been very like jokingly anti La. Actually love 392 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: like I have grown to really appreciate LA. I just 393 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 1: still love making fun of it because it's very fun. 394 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 3: It is fun, and I agree with what you're saying. 395 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 3: It's a confusing place. It's like we have everything and 396 00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 3: there's no friction, and that makes people really uncomfortable. And 397 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 3: then also it's like we live in a bubble. But 398 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 3: it's also really rude here, Like people are so uncomfortable 399 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:09,200 Speaker 3: here because they don't have practice. Like there's no practice, 400 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,639 Speaker 3: you know, chit chat, there's no cuci cou, there's no 401 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 3: there's no like rhythm here. So it's like everyone's like, 402 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 3: excuse me, what are you calling the police? Like it's 403 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 3: just like there's just we are just two. We're awkward here, 404 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 3: but we are like in a good mood or something. 405 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 3: So it's a very weird thing, you know. 406 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 1: I actually think the no rhythm thing is really unlocking 407 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: something that I think has been missing in my theory 408 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 1: of Los Angeles. I think you're absolutely right. It's like 409 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: the that's that is the root of all the kind 410 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: of uh, the root of all the like miscommunication about 411 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 1: the ethos of Los Angeles is that at any given point, 412 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:53,640 Speaker 1: when you're starting an interaction with someone, you are basically 413 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,640 Speaker 1: interrupting the solo show that is their life. They are, 414 00:20:56,760 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: they are starring in a film, and when you are 415 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 1: saying like would you like oat or whole their brain 416 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 1: is exploding because this is not part of like a 417 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: consistent series of interactions are having during the day. 418 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 3: It's an abduction. It's hard, and I think they're jumpier there. 419 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,360 Speaker 3: I'm so jumpy. I grew up jumpy because it's like, yeah, 420 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 3: it's really jumpy because you're like, it's just you're going 421 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 3: with a literal, dry breeze. That's the rhythm of LA 422 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 3: across the plaine the desert into the ocean. Like, that's 423 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 3: the rhythm of LA. And then someone's like you want 424 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:34,399 Speaker 3: oat or almond. It's like, what are you trying to say? 425 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 3: What are you saying to me? Don't talk to me 426 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 3: this way? 427 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 4: And then you have to you have to be like, yeah, 428 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 4: you have to do a. 429 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 1: Lot, and then you have to do a sound bath 430 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 1: like that. It's like, then that happens to you, and yes, 431 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: you have just like a series of basically you are 432 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: going through this frictionless existence, and every interaction you have 433 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:59,360 Speaker 1: with another human or a business or you know, any 434 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: kind of like other entity is a trauma. So then 435 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's like, oh, someone's 436 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,480 Speaker 1: punching me here, someone's slapping me here, someone's you know, 437 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,960 Speaker 1: shooting a little you know, rubber bullet to my forehead. 438 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 1: This is just ordering coffee, by the way, and then 439 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: by the time you get home, you're like, well, I 440 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: have to do something to fix all the all the 441 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 1: trauma and all the bruises I have on my body 442 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: from living a life. And that's how you get into scientology. 443 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 3: Yes, and the dry breeze just hits a wall and 444 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 3: it's the blue building of the Scientology. It's it's actually 445 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 3: like from Pasadena to the ocean Scientology. 446 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:36,400 Speaker 4: You hit it on the way. 447 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I know it's kind of beautiful, but then 448 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 1: it's but then it's like it's unfair that then someone 449 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 1: an outsider looks at that and is like, oh, they're 450 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 1: so out of touch because they're all doing sound baths 451 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 1: and having green smoothes, and it's like, yeah, that's because 452 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 1: they have to heal. 453 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: I saw a man take over upwards of twenty minute. 454 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 2: It's to order breakfast this morning, and in a way 455 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,439 Speaker 2: that I didn't like if if someone if there was 456 00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 2: like a bomb about to go off, and it was 457 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 2: like the only way to tap this bomb from going 458 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 2: off is to like make this interaction last longer. I 459 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 2: couldn't make it last that long. 460 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,400 Speaker 3: It's like Speed. 461 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,400 Speaker 4: It's like Speed the movie, but just ordering. 462 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 2: The bomb will go off, and tempo of. 463 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 3: The conversation like that minute like that mundane, keep it calm, yeah, 464 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 3: otherwise the. 465 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 2: Bomb is going to blow. And this guy was like, 466 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 2: would have succeeded. It was like I've never seen anything 467 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 2: like it. And I was like, I feel like I'm 468 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:41,040 Speaker 2: on a different planet, Like to extend this interaction this 469 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 2: long in a way it made me so angry, and 470 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 2: that was like unjustified. This is part of my ransom mood. 471 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm not built for this place. 472 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 4: Are you from? Where are you from? Vermont? 473 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 2: I'm from the midwestern Virginia, Virginia. 474 00:23:58,320 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 4: Excuse me. 475 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 2: We're in the Midwest, like mostly Michigan, but also a 476 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,120 Speaker 2: little bit Ohio and Indiana. 477 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:07,719 Speaker 1: But I think the reason you're not built for it 478 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: is not because you're from the Midwest. It's because you 479 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,119 Speaker 1: spent all of your adulthood in New York. 480 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 481 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what's crazy. You said that, because it's 482 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 4: just it's a citywide thing. 483 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 3: I was behind this woman ordering like twenty nine barrecas 484 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 3: or whatever, and it's like then the cashier was like, wait, 485 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 3: do you want them in individual bags? And she was 486 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 3: like yeah, And then he was like, are you sure 487 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,199 Speaker 3: you don't want them in the same box? I can 488 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 3: get a box. And then she was like, yeah, maybe 489 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,639 Speaker 3: I want it separate. Maybe I want them separately in 490 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 3: separate boxes. And then he goes, are you sure you 491 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 3: don't want them? Maybe I can put them in bags 492 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 3: and then a box, and then she was like yeah maybe. 493 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 3: It just like kept being a discussion and I was like, wow, 494 00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:52,400 Speaker 3: the Lord is testing me and. 495 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,120 Speaker 1: I am yeah, but this is good life. 496 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:56,919 Speaker 4: Yes, this is as good as this is. 497 00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,200 Speaker 1: This goes back to every interaction being a trauma. It's 498 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:04,959 Speaker 1: like the constant. The experience of ordering the brecas in 499 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 1: New York would be just like something you do as 500 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 1: part of like the fifteen things you do in your morning, right, 501 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,880 Speaker 1: So you're just your goal is to get it done 502 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,840 Speaker 1: as quickly as possible so you can go deliver them 503 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:16,679 Speaker 1: to the big client. 504 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:17,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 505 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 1: But in Los Angeles, the interaction of ordering them starts 506 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, perfect, this is the main event ordering. 507 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, now it's my time to shine. 508 00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 1: Now it's my time, Like this is ordering and I 509 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: better get this right. 510 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 2: I even think part of the part of my triggered 511 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:41,120 Speaker 2: response is that this, to me is essential like Midwestern 512 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,479 Speaker 2: like when people don't know what to talk about and 513 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 2: they can't connect emotionally, they're like, okay, let's talk logistics 514 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 2: for the next hour. Like it'll be like, oh, how 515 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 2: did you Oh you took sixty five? Oh okay, was 516 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,160 Speaker 2: there traffic? Oh well, I heard the Walmart over there 517 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,639 Speaker 2: is closing soon. Oh actually no, they were adding a 518 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 2: grocery center. And it's like just the most mundane nothing. 519 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 2: It's like, how about you just say, like I haven't 520 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,400 Speaker 2: talked to my mother in ten years and like I'm 521 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:10,919 Speaker 2: so lonely, Like just let's get into it. And everyone 522 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,879 Speaker 2: just wants to talk mundane, mundane mundane mundane here and 523 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 2: there as well. 524 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 4: That could be fun. 525 00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 3: It's just weird. How Like I guess that's like a 526 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 3: stradio lab issue. It's like you can talk about like 527 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:25,959 Speaker 3: really like you know which charger it is and like 528 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 3: is it jiff or is it GIF? Like you can 529 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 3: do that, but it's like you can put a twist 530 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:31,200 Speaker 3: on it. 531 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,119 Speaker 4: It can be fun. It can be. 532 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 1: You're sort of like you're reclaiming small talk in the 533 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 1: way that you have already reclaimed kindness and gratitude. 534 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 4: I love small talk. 535 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: Well, I love you, and I. 536 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 2: Want to be clear. I love small talk just like 537 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 2: when it's like someone you should be able to emotionally 538 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 2: connect with, Like if it's like a cashier, it's like sure, 539 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:56,679 Speaker 2: like have a little pleasant interaction. But if it's like 540 00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 2: your uncle who has known you since you were a baby, 541 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 2: like you should be able to talk about something. 542 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 3: Sure, sure, well, actually it's interesting. So the guy, the 543 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 3: cashier or the barista was like creating this mountain out 544 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 3: of a mole hill of brecas like in the containers. 545 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 3: And then when it was my turn, I went up 546 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 3: and I was like, uh, you have Like I was 547 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 3: like holding it in, but I had an intimate thing 548 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 3: to say to him, which was like you have like 549 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 3: a little bit of something like on your head. And 550 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 3: he was like oh shit, and I was like no, 551 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 3: it's like fine, like no one noticed, but you know, 552 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 3: and like we did have an intimate moment. And I 553 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,159 Speaker 3: was like locked and loaded with it because I was 554 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 3: appalled at the the lack of intimacy with this like 555 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:54,720 Speaker 3: insane conversation that was about care, but it actually wasn't 556 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,439 Speaker 3: about care. It was just like wasting paper, you know, 557 00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,040 Speaker 3: of time, And then I was and then yeah, and 558 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 3: I told him about his thing. He got like knocked 559 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 3: off his game. And but I think, what's your policy? 560 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 3: By the way, would you tell a stranger about something. 561 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: But he had something, that he had something on his 562 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,399 Speaker 1: forehead if it were a stranger, I think I would not. 563 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:13,960 Speaker 2: I think I would not if it were a stranger. 564 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: I don't think I would either. But it's like that. 565 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 1: I think I'm right. Long year, I think you. 566 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,919 Speaker 3: Did after a person after person, and it was getting 567 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 3: longer with the Brefast thing. 568 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: Of course, I needless to say. But I think I 569 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:28,240 Speaker 1: think were you a sais? 570 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 4: Yes? 571 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,160 Speaker 3: Is that you? 572 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 2: No? It wasn't me. 573 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 1: Was there someone else? 574 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:35,840 Speaker 4: Were you there? 575 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 2: I wasn't there. But I was like, if I know 576 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 2: a line and I know Brecas, it's going to be 577 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 2: at Safie's. 578 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 4: There you go bucked it. Shout out safe. 579 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,920 Speaker 2: Safe, No, shoutow shout out Safie's. 580 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 3: I live for the Earl Gray Latte. 581 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 2: I Wow. 582 00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 3: I'm saying that without any endorsement, like any check at all. 583 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 2: No, but Savey's should give a special treatment when we 584 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 2: go from now on. And that's fine. 585 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: Let's rush through our first segment so that we can 586 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 1: get to the topic good point. 587 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 2: Our first segment is called straight Shooters, and in this segment, 588 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,600 Speaker 2: we're going to ask you a series of rapifier questions 589 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 2: to gauge your familiarity with and complicity in straight culture. 590 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 2: It's basically this thing or this other thing. And the 591 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 2: only rule is you can't ask any follow up questions 592 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 2: or we will get so upset at you that. 593 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 4: But I already do have questions. What am I supposed 594 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:33,239 Speaker 4: to say? 595 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 2: Exactly? 596 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: Not exactly? 597 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 2: Sam go okay, arrested development or caressing a. 598 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 5: Gentleman, arrested development, getting the dick or eating a dick, 599 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 5: eating a dick? 600 00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 2: Mm okay, face tattoo or mace wind do what was 601 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:56,959 Speaker 2: the Oh? 602 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,280 Speaker 3: No follow ups? Even if I don't even understand the question. 603 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 4: What was it? The first one? 604 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 1: You're on? Thin tattoo tattoo? Okay, okay, casey mid century 605 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: modern decor or she dyed her hair auburn jador. 606 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 3: M This one is hard, Yes, the auburn Yeah. 607 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 1: Fish fry or cis guy. 608 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 4: Oh fish fry? 609 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 1: Buying an American girl doll or side eyeing an arrogant 610 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 1: girl at the mall. 611 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 2: The side eye mmm, male pattern, baldness or female chatter 612 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 2: in the office. 613 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 4: Female chatter in the office. 614 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: Okay, keeping your friends close, keeping your enemies closer, or 615 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: keeping your eyes peeled for that bitch Jessica because you 616 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: know she's always up to fucking something. 617 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 4: Probably the last one. 618 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, wow, A really good job. 619 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 2: So it did a really good job. 620 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:10,720 Speaker 1: I think you did a really really good job. And 621 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: I actually think I really appreciated that for all of them, 622 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: you went with the edgiest one. 623 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,600 Speaker 4: I do do I like edgy? Yeah? 624 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:22,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And you know, we are sort of flip 625 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 2: flumping between different scales right now. Ok. 626 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 1: But normally basically post election, it's been really difficult to 627 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 1: decide what the future of the segment is because we 628 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: think there's been a really intense shift in the vibe 629 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 1: across the country. 630 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that being said, I think I'm going to 631 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 2: go ahead and give you eight hundred and ninety doves. 632 00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: Out of a thousand, out of a thousand. That's good, congratulations. Plus, Oh, 633 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: that is not the kind of scale we're talking about. It. 634 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: This is not school's part. When do I get my dog? 635 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 3: How many are there overed? 636 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: Okay, they're in the male. They're hands delivered one by 637 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 1: one Dove bars or do actually Dove deodorant where it's 638 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: a little travel sized Dove deodorants. 639 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I don't okay, I'll take it. 640 00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: You know, uncented, don't door might Oh that's okay. Well, 641 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:23,240 Speaker 1: people your community will love eight hundred and ninety two 642 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 1: uncnded Dove deodorant. 643 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 2: And the holidays are just around the corner. 644 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 1: And the holidays just around the corner. We're actually we're 645 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,200 Speaker 1: releasing our gift guide soon. It's a bunch of things 646 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 1: that are Dove branded of different kinds. 647 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:37,480 Speaker 4: Wait, isn't there a Dove soap? 648 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 2: No? 649 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: Down, Yes, there's definitely do there's also Dove soap, but. 650 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 3: The body No, I meant like dish soap, just Doves dish. 651 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,360 Speaker 1: No, that's don that's done. 652 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's done. 653 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: But you know, you could just use Dove body soap 654 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: for your dishes. I'm sure it would make them extra 655 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 1: extra smooth. 656 00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:56,480 Speaker 2: That's true. I used to wash oil. 657 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 3: What I felt like I was being led down, a 658 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 3: like I was being proven down a case that I 659 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 3: was going to be upset about. 660 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,800 Speaker 4: But I think I did well. So I'm just recovering 661 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 4: from that. 662 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it can be really frustrating to be asked a 663 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 2: question and not know why you're being asked the question. 664 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like it's like a am I being tricked? 665 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 1: Am I? But what I appreciated about your performance was 666 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:28,280 Speaker 1: that you never strayed from your plan, which was to 667 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 1: pick the edgiest one. 668 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,400 Speaker 3: Well, I just went with what my heart said. 669 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: Which I think is what you should do. 670 00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and also what I'm in the mood for, Like 671 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 3: I'm in the mood for a fish fry, not. 672 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 2: Do it? 673 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 1: Someone comes to your door and there saying do you 674 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,960 Speaker 1: want a fish fry? Or assist guy? Who is going 675 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 1: to pick sis? Guy? 676 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 4: It depends on the guy. Who's the guy? 677 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: I mean, can we see him? That's true? I guess 678 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 1: if it was you know, Paul Hollywood, then of course. 679 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:00,440 Speaker 4: Which is in here? 680 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:02,040 Speaker 2: Get in? 681 00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 1: Okay? So Casey, we would love to know what your 682 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:09,280 Speaker 1: straight topic is for the day and what is straight 683 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:09,839 Speaker 1: about it? 684 00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 4: Okay? 685 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,759 Speaker 3: Well I kind of was sneaky because I just have 686 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,680 Speaker 3: to undermine and be edgy. 687 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 1: It's sort of amazing, thank you. 688 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm slippery, but okay, the topic is sisters. 689 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:28,760 Speaker 4: But you know what I'm. 690 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 1: Saying, well, of course you're you know, the topic is 691 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:34,799 Speaker 1: a tie in. It's a collab if you will with 692 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 1: your it's a plug. 693 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 3: But it's also very straight. I feel like sisters are 694 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:46,319 Speaker 3: always like, like, imagine a boy, a guy, he has 695 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 3: a sister, Like, can you imagine something so more straight 696 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:50,520 Speaker 3: than more straight than that? 697 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:51,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 698 00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:57,280 Speaker 3: Then imagine like a girl she has a sister. That's yeah, 699 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 3: that's very straight too. But imagine like imagine just like 700 00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:06,720 Speaker 3: another girl. Yeah, imagine a sister, she has a sister 701 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:07,319 Speaker 3: that's gay. 702 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 4: Do you know what I'm saying? 703 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:12,800 Speaker 2: Wow, you think about when the sisters. 704 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 1: More removed, the more removed from the main character, you get, 705 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: the gayer it gets. 706 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,360 Speaker 4: Maybe maybe I'm not sure. I'm going to confirm that. 707 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 1: To me. Here's to me, what's straight about sisters as 708 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:28,919 Speaker 1: a topic. It's when there's a family and it's four 709 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 1: the kids are four girls and they're all blonde, or 710 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 1: like three of them are blonde and one is a brunette. 711 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,920 Speaker 1: And even though they're all basically identical, the brunette is 712 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 1: like the crazy one and everyone's like she's brainy, she 713 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 1: wears glasses, like, oh, she's like kind of ugly. 714 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're also you're thinking sort of a bad sister's way. 715 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,279 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I'm definitely thinking boat to it. But also, 716 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 1: just like you know those families where it's just like 717 00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,600 Speaker 1: four girls and they are all even if they're not Christian, 718 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 1: the vibe is Christian and they're all wearing you know, 719 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: little sun dresses. As soon as they each hit twenty 720 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,360 Speaker 1: seven they start having kids, then it's like a big family. 721 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: We're talking kind of a lavender maybe knit cardigan. 722 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,320 Speaker 2: Here's what's straight about it to me is the four sisters. 723 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:24,279 Speaker 2: In particular, when there's four sisters, immediately it becomes there's 724 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:28,359 Speaker 2: like an implied competition of like we have to get married. Yes, 725 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 2: like I think there's a there's like an assumption of like, well, 726 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 2: where's the man here? We have to get married. I 727 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:38,719 Speaker 2: guess I'm thinking pride and prejudice. 728 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 1: I was literally about to say, it's so Jane Austen. Yes, yeah, 729 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 1: it's so pride and prejudice. 730 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 3: It's so like dowry, coded dowry. Dowy's a lot of dowry. 731 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 3: We've got to split up. 732 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 1: Yes, so there are limited dowery. 733 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's not enough dowry. 734 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,879 Speaker 2: And God forbid, the father is ill of Oh my god? 735 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:00,440 Speaker 3: And also what's going to happen with the sheep? 736 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 2: Yeah? 737 00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,359 Speaker 1: The way you know, I don't even have to say it. 738 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,359 Speaker 1: Little women, little women, folks, folks, little women. 739 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:08,920 Speaker 2: Little women, two words, little women. 740 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:09,799 Speaker 1: Here's what it is. 741 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 3: This is what's also straight about that. So when you 742 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:14,840 Speaker 3: go into that where there's the four sisters, but actually 743 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,040 Speaker 3: like some of them are subversive and some of them 744 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 3: are like career and more genius style girls, then there's 745 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:23,440 Speaker 3: still one a. 746 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:27,839 Speaker 1: Man exactly and that is exactly ill straight. 747 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,880 Speaker 3: And that makes them still like, well is it a 748 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 3: man or is it my book? 749 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? 750 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:33,839 Speaker 4: And it is like that's an issue, you know. 751 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:40,520 Speaker 1: The false promise of like diversity within the sister community, like. 752 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 3: It sets up watch your mouth, watch your mouth. 753 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:50,960 Speaker 1: It sets up this like you're where one of them can. 754 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:57,719 Speaker 3: Wait what no, just like we're edging into misogyny. Just 755 00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,840 Speaker 3: want to alarm No no, no, no, no, no, Which is 756 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,080 Speaker 3: I get it? First of all, you a woman is. 757 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,319 Speaker 1: Not gonna tell me when I'm dic into misogyny. I'm 758 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 1: gonna decide when I've drig into misogyny. It's true, But 759 00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 1: it's like if you have little women and if you 760 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:14,400 Speaker 1: have the if you have Oh, by the way, Bronte's 761 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,279 Speaker 1: sister is not even gonna get into that one. But 762 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 1: this is also an example, just like it comes up. Yeah, 763 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:21,920 Speaker 1: you can be the brainy one, you can be the 764 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 1: slutty one, you can be the smart one or the 765 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 1: dumb one. But the fact that at the end of 766 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 1: the day, it all everyone's still looking for a husband. 767 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,600 Speaker 1: It's almost like you're reaching the limits of heterosexuality. 768 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I get it. 769 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 4: I kind of want a wife. 770 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 2: I do. 771 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,399 Speaker 3: I mean, I know kind of like I definitely do. 772 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,760 Speaker 3: I get it comes down to that ship the street 773 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 3: like married thing. But even when you're guy. Yeah, but 774 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:53,120 Speaker 3: this is interesting that you guys went to corsets with sisters. 775 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is notable. 776 00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: You were thinking because I know, I changed, Like when 777 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,800 Speaker 1: you were describing it a was much more. It was different. 778 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 1: It was like the concept of having a sister is straight. 779 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 3: I was thinking more contemporary, like where's your sister, Like 780 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 3: did you pick her up? Or like I don't know 781 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 3: where the fuck she is, or like she's always late, or. 782 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,560 Speaker 2: Or even like don't talk to my sister like that exactly. 783 00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, let me talk to my sister, put her on 784 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 3: the phone like that, like some kind of thing. An 785 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,280 Speaker 3: older sister is like mad and trying to get in touch. 786 00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,719 Speaker 3: Someone's in trouble, someone like needs to be picked up. 787 00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 3: It's usually about getting picked up or dropped. 788 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,279 Speaker 1: Off or dropped off that's right. 789 00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:42,720 Speaker 2: And then well your sister has practice and right somebody 790 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:44,920 Speaker 2: so you can't go hang out with your friends because 791 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 2: I went. 792 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 3: Suburban with that, which wasn't even my last Like, I 793 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 3: don't know why. 794 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 2: This is interesting. We're doing sort of a roar shack 795 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 2: test of just like saying the word sister and being 796 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:55,120 Speaker 2: like where does it take you? 797 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,399 Speaker 3: And then immediately, I mean the show is called It's 798 00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,400 Speaker 3: my sister, which I think is you know what the 799 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,600 Speaker 3: references is like it's my sister, Like it's. 800 00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,600 Speaker 2: Oh, like when you see it on the phone, that's good. 801 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it's it's my sister. It's like it's 802 00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,920 Speaker 3: a blame thing. It's like it's my sister. And also 803 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 3: just whatever, I'm just giving myself compliments. It's a great 804 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 3: it's a great turn of phrase, but also reminded of 805 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 3: hersus burning like. 806 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 4: That's my sister. 807 00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 3: Sure, sure, and sisters it's like the sister. 808 00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:30,720 Speaker 4: I got all my sisters with me. It's like it's family. 809 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:35,960 Speaker 1: Sure, well genderless, I will say, obviously, sisters when you 810 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 1: divorced it from biological family gets more complicated because the 811 00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 1: term sisters has a different valance in queer communities and 812 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:50,920 Speaker 1: black communities in like drag it does. It then becomes 813 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 1: much more complicated, which I think is why both Sam 814 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 1: and I went to courset. So you didn't want to 815 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 1: go there because I think that then if you do, 816 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:04,600 Speaker 1: if you do the like non biological sister, what that 817 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,360 Speaker 1: is doing is taking the strength of these heterosexual sister 818 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,680 Speaker 1: ties and applying it to your chosen family. 819 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 3: Yes, which is powerful, which is I did undermind the assignment. Yeah, 820 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,840 Speaker 3: I mean I don't think the word sister in it's 821 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:23,440 Speaker 3: in its What it is is a straight word. 822 00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:26,280 Speaker 1: It just is right. It's having a sister. 823 00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 3: It's having a sister exactly, and it's a beautiful thing. 824 00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:32,759 Speaker 3: It's such a it's a community word. It's a word 825 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:37,200 Speaker 3: that means community and tension, a lot of tension. 826 00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's something about saying sister like where it is 827 00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:47,520 Speaker 2: even like you're still married to the family element, you're 828 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 2: like before she is Rebecca's sister. Well, because you could 829 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,480 Speaker 2: just be like, oh, it's Rebecca, and instead you're like, 830 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,239 Speaker 2: it's my sister. Yeah. 831 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:02,920 Speaker 1: No. This is actually so it because I find myself 832 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,360 Speaker 1: sometimes saying that about one of my sisters to someone 833 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:09,000 Speaker 1: who knows one of them, Like I could so easily 834 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:12,920 Speaker 1: be like, that's you know, Margaret, that's not my sister's name, 835 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,560 Speaker 1: but that's you know. You could so easily say her name, 836 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 1: say her name, and instead it's it's like, I am, 837 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 1: I want to reaffirm that she is only what she 838 00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 1: is in relation to me. And in that way, I'm 839 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 1: subjugating women by calling them sister instead of calling them 840 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:32,840 Speaker 1: by their names. 841 00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:36,239 Speaker 4: Absolutely wow, absolutely wow. 842 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:37,759 Speaker 1: And so that I think makes it more straight. It's like, 843 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:41,920 Speaker 1: it's honestly, I'm sorry, but it's like saying wife, like 844 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,840 Speaker 1: the way that wife is so inherently misogynist, because you 845 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 1: are taking a woman into fying. 846 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:49,759 Speaker 3: I have to take what you're saying and then give 847 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,440 Speaker 3: it like the positive twist, because I'm a positive person. 848 00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:53,560 Speaker 1: Of course, it's like. 849 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 3: Course to call them one your sister or your wife, 850 00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,400 Speaker 3: that's my wife, it's like you're you're claiming a stake 851 00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,960 Speaker 3: in it. It can be territorial, but it's personal. It 852 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 3: means personal, it means we have a history. It's like, 853 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 3: it's like whatever it is. You might not know what 854 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 3: me and my sister is about, but that's a lot, 855 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:16,239 Speaker 3: it's everything. Actually, yes, so there is something, yes, like 856 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:20,520 Speaker 3: I get what you're saying, but don't don't diminish yourself 857 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 3: in that relationship. 858 00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 4: George. 859 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,560 Speaker 3: That's true because when you're saying that and you're staking 860 00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:29,320 Speaker 3: a claim, you're actually saying like, I exist too in that. 861 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,120 Speaker 1: Right, because of course she's my sister. What's the corelaier 862 00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 1: of that? You're brother, I'm her brother. 863 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 3: Don't mean to gender, but yes you are, and I'm 864 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 3: actually you're also her sister. 865 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,960 Speaker 1: I'm also herself. That's true because you're gay, well yes, 866 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,240 Speaker 1: but also because having a sister, as much as we've 867 00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,120 Speaker 1: already discussed it's a straight thing. But also to have 868 00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:56,680 Speaker 1: a sister makes you a little bit of a sister yourself. Absolutely, 869 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 1: in order to reach across the island, have a sister, 870 00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 1: you have to have sisterly attributes. Otherwise it will never work. 871 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 1: If you're just a brother, and you are firmly a 872 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 1: brother and you refuse to be anything but a brother, 873 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,160 Speaker 1: You're never gonna actually have a relationship with your sister. 874 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 1: Your brother has to be a little bit of a sister, 875 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:14,360 Speaker 1: and a sister has to be a little bit of 876 00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:14,760 Speaker 1: a brother. 877 00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,640 Speaker 3: I've never had a brother, and I don't I'm zero 878 00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:18,239 Speaker 3: percent bro. 879 00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 880 00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 4: Wow, do you guys think that, by the way, that. 881 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:24,040 Speaker 2: You're zero percent bro? 882 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 1: I don't think you're bro. I don't know about zero 883 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:30,560 Speaker 1: pro I think you're like. 884 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,080 Speaker 2: To me, what comes at the forefront of you is 885 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:37,200 Speaker 2: like city city child. You know. 886 00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 1: What I'm getting from you is like. 887 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,480 Speaker 4: What is that like? Biblically is that like? 888 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:43,520 Speaker 2: Who is that? 889 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 4: Who's the arc type? 890 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 2: I'm not super familiar with Bible references. Unfortunately, it sounds 891 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 2: like say Jesus. 892 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 1: No. 893 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,239 Speaker 2: To me, It's funny that we were talking about cool 894 00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 2: stuff at the beginning because to me, you're like the 895 00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 2: essential the cool. 896 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:04,360 Speaker 1: Girl m hm. And I actually think the lack of 897 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,200 Speaker 1: brothers ties into that because I think of you as 898 00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:12,600 Speaker 1: like there's something sort of like you live in a matriarchy. 899 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 3: I do. 900 00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:17,799 Speaker 2: Well, and this whole thing. I'm actually I'm feeling more 901 00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 2: comfortable now. At the beginning, I was like, let's feel 902 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:23,200 Speaker 2: out the vibe more. I think there's something about your 903 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 2: like kindness thing that is very real where you are 904 00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:30,239 Speaker 2: both very cool and kind, and that makes it like 905 00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:33,319 Speaker 2: the kindness is almost like whoa, I didn't think she 906 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 2: was gonna be nice to me, Like she's actually very 907 00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:39,120 Speaker 2: nice in a way. That's like a cool disarming thing 908 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:39,560 Speaker 2: you can do. 909 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:46,360 Speaker 3: I know, I don't know what else to do, like, 910 00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:49,799 Speaker 3: but anyway, let's I mean, yeah, that's that's true. 911 00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:50,279 Speaker 1: That's me. 912 00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:57,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, George, Okay, you look like nothing. You're pregnant right now. 913 00:45:57,280 --> 00:45:58,400 Speaker 3: We want to say something. 914 00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 1: First, Well, I'm part sister, so of course that can 915 00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 1: happen pregnancy. No, no, no, I I don't. I I'm 916 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:10,840 Speaker 1: still thinking about like what it means for you, you know, 917 00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 1: because I also don't have a brother. I guess you 918 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:17,680 Speaker 1: could say I am a brother. You are, but I like, 919 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about. 920 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,200 Speaker 2: Your Okay, but you're a brother, but you're also the 921 00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:22,160 Speaker 2: dad and little women. 922 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,839 Speaker 1: I'm the dad and little women because I'm the oldest. Yes, 923 00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:28,400 Speaker 1: he's the one who says my little women. 924 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 2: Oh, he's out at war and then he comes back 925 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:31,240 Speaker 2: in the middle. 926 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,120 Speaker 4: That's right, that's right. I hated that part. 927 00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:36,839 Speaker 1: By the way, Here's what I'm struggling Casey. 928 00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:38,839 Speaker 2: Were amazing until now. 929 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:43,000 Speaker 1: Here's what I'm struggling with, Casey. It's like, you're a 930 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:46,919 Speaker 1: queer woman, Okay, Traditionally speaking, it's like a queer man. 931 00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:50,359 Speaker 1: The stereotype is that he's more feminine than a straight man, 932 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,400 Speaker 1: and a stereotype of a queer woman more masculine than 933 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:56,560 Speaker 1: a straight woman. Okay, so of course there is. Do 934 00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 1: you agree with that generally speaking. 935 00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,520 Speaker 3: Queer man is more feminine than a queer woman. 936 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,799 Speaker 1: That's sorry, no, sorry, queer man is more feminine than 937 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,319 Speaker 1: just a straight man. That's just like, yes, yes, And 938 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,360 Speaker 1: then queer woman traditionally is more masculine than a straight woman. 939 00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 1: That's just like the general stereotype you think lesbian, You're like, 940 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 1: she's going to be a little more masculine than you know, 941 00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 1: Charlotte York. Yes, okay, here's my question, all right, Queerness 942 00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:27,799 Speaker 1: affords a woman a certain level of masculinity, as does 943 00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 1: having brothers, because it makes you a little bit of 944 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 1: a bro. So how does the masculinity of the adjacency 945 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:36,239 Speaker 1: to brothers compared to the masculinity of simply being a 946 00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:36,800 Speaker 1: queer woman. 947 00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:43,160 Speaker 3: Well, the answer is uh, gay men, it's just like 948 00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 3: I am a gay man too, or I'm not. 949 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:46,400 Speaker 4: I'm not. 950 00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 3: I see you know the word I'm I'm really saying, 951 00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,279 Speaker 3: but I'm not going to say here yes, yes, but 952 00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:58,440 Speaker 3: that's vibe. It's like, it's it's sister, it's it's sister. 953 00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:03,600 Speaker 3: Is the conduit to being mass being gay? 954 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,000 Speaker 4: Mm hm for both? 955 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,720 Speaker 2: WHOA wow? 956 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,360 Speaker 1: So have here's what it is. Having a sister is straight. 957 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 1: Being a sister is gay. 958 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:15,560 Speaker 4: You tour that. 959 00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:22,280 Speaker 3: Being gay if you're if you're in proximity to a sister. 960 00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,240 Speaker 1: Exactly right, because the sister having a sister is straight, 961 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,279 Speaker 1: but the sister instills in you a certain energy which 962 00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:29,520 Speaker 1: eventually makes you gay. 963 00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 4: And you must choose to be a sister too. 964 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,800 Speaker 3: It is bestowed upon you, but you must choose it. 965 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:42,720 Speaker 3: It's a choice. Well, of course, so that thing is crazy. 966 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,799 Speaker 3: I'm really glad we had this talk. It's actually gonna 967 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:48,520 Speaker 3: help you with my show because that's what my show 968 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 3: is kind of about. 969 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,200 Speaker 1: Being a sister and choosing to be a sister, and 970 00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 1: being a sister, having a sister, choosing to be. 971 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:59,040 Speaker 3: A sister, and it's conduit ness to gayness or like whatever, 972 00:48:59,239 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 3: like being. 973 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, connected through that style a kind of stock I do. 974 00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:08,040 Speaker 2: A little bit. Want to talk about brothers for a second. 975 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:11,279 Speaker 1: We're on the same page. It's crazy. I was literally 976 00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:12,480 Speaker 1: about to bring up a. 977 00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,520 Speaker 2: Well, like, first of all, I don't even know in 978 00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 2: the gata straight world where this stands. I just know 979 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:23,760 Speaker 2: that when I'm in a house with all brothers, I'm frightened. 980 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 2: I'm scared for my life. I don't know what physical 981 00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:30,160 Speaker 2: violence will come, but I know it will come. I 982 00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,560 Speaker 2: have one brother and one sister. I'm the middle child. 983 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 2: So it's a very tasteful little mixture. Uh but when 984 00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,479 Speaker 2: the only gay, I'm the only gay. 985 00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, but also, your brother is not toxic. 986 00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:51,200 Speaker 2: Mask, No, it's a very it's a very tasteful, tasteful straight. Yeah. 987 00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,880 Speaker 2: But like if I'm thinking of like one particular family 988 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:56,600 Speaker 2: that I knew in high school and it was like 989 00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 2: three brothers, and like I eventually went over there and 990 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:04,160 Speaker 2: would be like, well, hopefully they think I'm too weak 991 00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:10,279 Speaker 2: to attack, and like, because you never knew, like when 992 00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:12,560 Speaker 2: they were just gonna throw a bottle across the room 993 00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 2: total to one another. 994 00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,360 Speaker 4: Really boys, Yeah. 995 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:19,280 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, of course, the flip side of four 996 00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:22,719 Speaker 1: girls Jane Austen Little women. Of course, the flip side 997 00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:27,200 Speaker 1: of that is the horror, the blatant horror of four 998 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:31,840 Speaker 1: brothers all playing lacrosse, four brothers like piling into the 999 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:36,120 Speaker 1: mini van, you know, just muddy shoes, literally stepping on 1000 00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:41,560 Speaker 1: their mother's brand and new hairdoo. Just disgusting. But this 1001 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:42,360 Speaker 1: is so crazy. 1002 00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,680 Speaker 3: I'm so privileged. I don't even know about this life. 1003 00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:49,720 Speaker 3: And like, I didn't even hang out with many boys, 1004 00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:53,319 Speaker 3: and like I just sometimes, but I didn't see this 1005 00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:58,360 Speaker 3: inside world. I mean I was straight for a minute, sure, 1006 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,760 Speaker 3: but they were very gay. They were very sister people. 1007 00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:05,799 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean when I was around like a well, 1008 00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,120 Speaker 2: when I was around this family of boys, I literally 1009 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,279 Speaker 2: would turn into sister. I would be like, like, I 1010 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:11,680 Speaker 2: would essentially be like, well. 1011 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 1: You fense mechanism. 1012 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it was weird. 1013 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,560 Speaker 1: You can make the conscious choice to be a sister 1014 00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:22,839 Speaker 1: just for self preservation, even just in a temporary way. 1015 00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:25,720 Speaker 1: You're like, I'm I'm entering this house, I'm in danger. 1016 00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 1: I will be a sister for the next three hours 1017 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 1: just to get through this play date. Otherwise I don't 1018 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:35,560 Speaker 1: even know what could happen to me. Yeah, But in 1019 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,440 Speaker 1: terms of the straightness of it, because of course, you 1020 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:40,160 Speaker 1: know we're saying four Sisters is straight. Jane Austen, Okay, 1021 00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,200 Speaker 1: isn't four Brothers straight? But I would argue no, because 1022 00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:50,359 Speaker 1: I think four Sisters is like exactly, yes, it's like 1023 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,360 Speaker 1: it's not. But then it's so over the top that 1024 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:56,560 Speaker 1: it almost becomes like camp. Like it's like four men 1025 00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,759 Speaker 1: that are all basically like ripping open their shirts and 1026 00:51:59,840 --> 00:52:04,319 Speaker 1: like you know, pounding their chest monkey style. That is 1027 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,640 Speaker 1: that's not serious, Like. 1028 00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:08,120 Speaker 2: It kind of turns into a circuit part. 1029 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:10,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, it's a performance camp. 1030 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:13,560 Speaker 3: That's like, isn't that like the like Jacqueline Novak's show, 1031 00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:17,479 Speaker 3: she talks about this like how men are everything they 1032 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:23,279 Speaker 3: say women are yes, And it's like I think that's 1033 00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:27,319 Speaker 3: like lacan or something like sorry whatever. 1034 00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,960 Speaker 1: And yeah, but it's like they are the ones who 1035 00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,879 Speaker 1: are sensitive. They're the ones who have short tempers. They're 1036 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,440 Speaker 1: the ones who and I think she uses the penis 1037 00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,600 Speaker 1: as a metaphor for this too, where it's like it's 1038 00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 1: like so you have to like coax it out of 1039 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:43,640 Speaker 1: its shell, but then it's going to get scared it's back. 1040 00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:45,759 Speaker 1: The penis is a woman, yes, yeah. 1041 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:51,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, right, huh so, but that's really interesting. I would 1042 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 3: maybe in my life I will have seen the boy world, 1043 00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:58,320 Speaker 3: but yeah, I've just never or maybe. 1044 00:52:58,120 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 4: I've like blocked it out or something. 1045 00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:03,400 Speaker 3: I'm just like, that's so not yeah, but it's not true, 1046 00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:05,479 Speaker 3: Like I want to be able to be a part 1047 00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 3: of that world, your world or what is the you 1048 00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:12,520 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, Yeah, part of that is. 1049 00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:15,239 Speaker 2: A world, like I almost would like to revisit it, 1050 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 2: but it's like, how would I ever? I mean, I 1051 00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:21,240 Speaker 2: do think I think this is like a gay man plight, 1052 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,359 Speaker 2: you know, like where you're like you should have fit 1053 00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 2: into that world and then you're like, but you didn't. 1054 00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:28,759 Speaker 2: And so now I it'spen my whole life chasing that 1055 00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 2: and being like how can I be this like nasty man? 1056 00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 2: And I never ever actually can reach the heights that 1057 00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:37,880 Speaker 2: they reach, Like they will always be a nastier gayer 1058 00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:38,680 Speaker 2: man than I will. 1059 00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:43,279 Speaker 1: Yes, men will always be nastier gayer than that's. 1060 00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:44,120 Speaker 4: Very true, but you can do. 1061 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:46,759 Speaker 3: I think gay men are really competing these days and 1062 00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:49,520 Speaker 3: being really that's true that bitch. 1063 00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, caymen are out there being that bitch. 1064 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 3: They are, They're really being even more straight than straight 1065 00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:57,799 Speaker 3: can be. 1066 00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:00,440 Speaker 2: That's true. That's true, that it's true. 1067 00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:04,600 Speaker 1: Here's my question. So being a brother we've decided is 1068 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,799 Speaker 1: gay because it is camp. What about having a brother 1069 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:10,759 Speaker 1: because we decided before having a sister is straight, but 1070 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:11,920 Speaker 1: being a sister is gay? 1071 00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:15,719 Speaker 3: Honestly, having a brother, I literally don't know. 1072 00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:18,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want you. 1073 00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but not even like even if I'm judging and 1074 00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,719 Speaker 3: like trying to critique, I don't know what that is. 1075 00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:33,040 Speaker 3: Brother sounds financial to me. Yes, brother, brother, we're brothers, 1076 00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:33,680 Speaker 3: Like we're brothers. 1077 00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,960 Speaker 2: I will say whenever I say, like I'm going to 1078 00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 2: hang out with my brother, I do feel heterosexual. 1079 00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 1: Oh. Interesting, Like there's. 1080 00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,320 Speaker 2: Something about like having a close relationship with your brother 1081 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:48,640 Speaker 2: that's like there's a like innocence there where you like 1082 00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:52,000 Speaker 2: didn't have to grow up, like like it's like simple, 1083 00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,640 Speaker 2: It's like you know it's going to be easy. Yes, 1084 00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:58,200 Speaker 2: there's something about having a brother and being like, Okay, 1085 00:54:58,239 --> 00:54:59,839 Speaker 2: I'm going to go hang with my brother where it's 1086 00:54:59,880 --> 00:55:02,120 Speaker 2: like I'm actually checking out of like real life for 1087 00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:03,280 Speaker 2: a right. 1088 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 3: It reminds me this is what I see when I 1089 00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:09,960 Speaker 3: see brother like a blue bear children's book Brother Bear, 1090 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:11,719 Speaker 3: It like a little hot sleepy hat. 1091 00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:15,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're in a children's book. 1092 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:19,080 Speaker 1: Yes, they put sleep the Sleepy Time, the Sleepy Time. 1093 00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:26,360 Speaker 3: Key bear like kid like like that. But as a teenager, yeah, totally, totally. 1094 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:28,800 Speaker 2: Huh, I love the Sleepy Time Bear. People. 1095 00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,719 Speaker 1: No, you, as soon as you utter the sentence I'm 1096 00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:37,160 Speaker 1: going to see my brother, you become a cartoon. Like 1097 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,600 Speaker 1: you start looking at your hands and they're like turning 1098 00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,000 Speaker 1: into just line drawings of a hand. You're like, oh 1099 00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,000 Speaker 1: my god, like we're in a children's book. You have 1100 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:46,680 Speaker 1: a paw. You have a paw, You have a paw. 1101 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:48,919 Speaker 1: It's you are you are brother bear. 1102 00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:53,279 Speaker 3: You lose a finger, and you lose a finger for finger. 1103 00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:57,360 Speaker 1: Yes, and you have permission to not worry about social 1104 00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:02,279 Speaker 1: injustices or politics or the election or then use you 1105 00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:05,359 Speaker 1: just it's this beautiful state where you can go back 1106 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:11,400 Speaker 1: to just being brother bear. Yeah God, that's I love that, 1107 00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:15,520 Speaker 1: me too, Me do. Whereas actually I'm and sorry again 1108 00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,960 Speaker 1: to the line of misogyny. But when you well, I 1109 00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,040 Speaker 1: was thinking that same when you have a sister. Actually, sadly, 1110 00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,680 Speaker 1: what's happening is you are going into this realm of like, 1111 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,520 Speaker 1: oh did I say the wrong thing. Oh oh we could. 1112 00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:29,279 Speaker 1: Is this a miscommunication? I mean going back, yes you. 1113 00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:32,720 Speaker 3: Did say the wrong thing, and yes you did because 1114 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,440 Speaker 3: it is an abstract world. It's an opposite of a 1115 00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:41,920 Speaker 3: children's book. It is an abstract film. We are no longer, 1116 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,720 Speaker 3: there is no way, there's. 1117 00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:47,120 Speaker 1: No way there. It's a hall of me. You are 1118 00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:51,160 Speaker 1: literally entering into like a circus hall of mirrors. Anything 1119 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:53,319 Speaker 1: you say ken and will be used against you. 1120 00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:56,240 Speaker 3: And George, I want to give you just unsolicited advice 1121 00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,480 Speaker 3: when you enter this world where yes, did I say 1122 00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,560 Speaker 3: the wrong thing? You're never going to get it right. 1123 00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:03,200 Speaker 3: So you keep trying to be brother in this world. 1124 00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:05,040 Speaker 3: It's never gonna work. 1125 00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:07,560 Speaker 1: You need to let it work. 1126 00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:09,000 Speaker 2: You have to be sisters. 1127 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:09,960 Speaker 4: You have to just be. 1128 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 3: Like I did say the wrong thing, and then see 1129 00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 3: what happens and enter that world of unknown. It's not 1130 00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:17,040 Speaker 3: going to be chill. 1131 00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,760 Speaker 1: No, it's not going to be chill no. I mean 1132 00:57:20,800 --> 00:57:23,480 Speaker 1: maybe this is the crux of like, you know, the 1133 00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,320 Speaker 1: Battle of the Sexes is like there's this Walus cartoon 1134 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:30,880 Speaker 1: brother bear world and to the uninitiated observer, they're like, 1135 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:33,600 Speaker 1: why is that man being so brute? Like why is 1136 00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:36,360 Speaker 1: he being so bear? But in his mind he's being 1137 00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,440 Speaker 1: so cutesye and brother Bear. He just he has no idea. 1138 00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:43,360 Speaker 1: He's knocking over plates and the trains and everything when 1139 00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:47,160 Speaker 1: he's like going into the room. Absolutely, And he's also 1140 00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 1: looking at the sister who is basically in like, you know, 1141 00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:53,080 Speaker 1: a one woman adaptation of Chris Kraus's I Love Dick, 1142 00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:55,439 Speaker 1: And he's like, why is she saying words I don't 1143 00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:56,240 Speaker 1: even understand? 1144 00:57:56,880 --> 00:57:58,720 Speaker 3: By the way, mine is not like that my one 1145 00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:03,280 Speaker 3: woman show just totally. 1146 00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:05,240 Speaker 4: I think we cracked it, like. 1147 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:07,680 Speaker 2: You know, we cracked it. I think we cracked it 1148 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:08,959 Speaker 2: in like a pretty big way. 1149 00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:11,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. I would say this is going to be like, 1150 00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,320 Speaker 1: this is going to go down in the history books 1151 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:18,080 Speaker 1: as like core Stradio Lab mythology is brothers and so 1152 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 1: you can. 1153 00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:22,200 Speaker 3: Refer to this. But I do want a shout out 1154 00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:26,600 Speaker 3: at every time you refer to this conversation as canon. 1155 00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 4: Do you know what I'm saying? 1156 00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:30,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, this is in the canon for sure. 1157 00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:32,440 Speaker 1: And actually, speaking of shout outs, I think it might 1158 00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:33,520 Speaker 1: be time for a final. 1159 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:40,520 Speaker 2: Segment which is called shout outs, which is called shout outs. George, 1160 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:41,400 Speaker 2: will you introduce it? 1161 00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:45,520 Speaker 1: I would be absolutely delighted okay, Casey. Our final segment 1162 00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,000 Speaker 1: is called shout Outs, and in this segment we pay 1163 00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:51,160 Speaker 1: homage to the classic straight oral tradition of the radio 1164 00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:53,840 Speaker 1: shout out, Thank TRL you're shouting out to your squad 1165 00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:56,240 Speaker 1: back home. What we're each going to do is shout 1166 00:58:56,280 --> 00:59:00,560 Speaker 1: outs something that is absolutely making us so happy week, 1167 00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,400 Speaker 1: and we think of it on the spot. So Sam 1168 00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:05,120 Speaker 1: and I are going to think of them now. Okay, 1169 00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:06,560 Speaker 1: I have one, You have one. Okay. 1170 00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,360 Speaker 2: I would like to give a huge shout out to 1171 00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:14,320 Speaker 2: Bad Sisters season one. I watched all the Bad Sisters 1172 00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:18,040 Speaker 2: season one just last week, and I was in heaven 1173 00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 2: the entire time. And when I was in Toronto even 1174 00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:25,240 Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, what am I going to do 1175 00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:27,760 Speaker 2: on this Sunday? I can the whole city is my oyster. 1176 00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:29,640 Speaker 2: And you know what I did. I said, I'm going 1177 00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:31,240 Speaker 2: to sit in my hotel and I'm going to watch 1178 00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:34,720 Speaker 2: seven episodes of a TV show. And I actually have 1179 00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:37,800 Speaker 2: not been so happy in my whole life. I said, finally, 1180 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 2: I'm taking the pressure off of exploring your city and 1181 00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,960 Speaker 2: I am just watching Bad Sisters live it up and 1182 00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:46,600 Speaker 2: be bad. I will say I did watch episode one 1183 00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,840 Speaker 2: of season two and I said, oh, no, no, no, 1184 00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:51,400 Speaker 2: I hope they don't undo the perfect ending they had 1185 00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:53,480 Speaker 2: for season one, and it seems like they might be 1186 00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:55,480 Speaker 2: undoing it. And I don't know if I will continue 1187 00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:57,760 Speaker 2: to watch and I will live in the fantasy that 1188 00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:00,960 Speaker 2: is the ending of season one because it was satisfying. 1189 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:04,440 Speaker 2: It felt good, and honey, it's all fiction, so just 1190 01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:07,960 Speaker 2: let me enjoy the fiction. So shout out to Batist 1191 01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:09,880 Speaker 2: season one, shout us not doing anything when you were 1192 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:13,320 Speaker 2: in a foreign city, and shout out to Ireland. Woo. 1193 01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:17,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm scared about season two. Sam. I also just 1194 01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:19,960 Speaker 1: watched the first episode and I don't know, wait. 1195 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:21,800 Speaker 3: So that you're not even trying to plug my thing. 1196 01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:27,080 Speaker 3: You're just like coincidentally watching something called Bad Sisters. 1197 01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:27,960 Speaker 2: It's a good show. 1198 01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:30,680 Speaker 4: You ever heard of it? I need to watch. 1199 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,800 Speaker 1: Oh, it's on Apple TV. It's so good at Sharon Oregan. 1200 01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:37,520 Speaker 1: You'd like it. Okay, okay, okay. I have a Canada 1201 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:40,000 Speaker 1: related one too, Sam, and I just got back from Canada. 1202 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:46,040 Speaker 1: What my little piggies. I want to give a shout 1203 01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:50,400 Speaker 1: out to the classic Quebec style hot chicken sandwich. I 1204 01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:53,840 Speaker 1: was not familiar with this dish until my dear friend 1205 01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:56,480 Speaker 1: Sarah Haggie planned a beautiful day for us in Toronto 1206 01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:59,000 Speaker 1: and took me to all the Canadian sites and sounds, 1207 01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:04,360 Speaker 1: culminating in a dinner at this place that served Quebec 1208 01:01:04,480 --> 01:01:07,520 Speaker 1: style hot chicken sandwiches. And I'm sure you're thinking, what 1209 01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:10,480 Speaker 1: the hell is that? It's pretty simple shreded chicken, un 1210 01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:14,240 Speaker 1: buttered white bread with gravy and green beans on top. 1211 01:01:14,640 --> 01:01:17,080 Speaker 1: And that's it. It is an open faced sandwich, piece 1212 01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:20,600 Speaker 1: of bread, shredded chicken, gravy, green beans. It was such 1213 01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:24,360 Speaker 1: a beautiful like introduction to the spirit of Thanksgiving because 1214 01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:27,880 Speaker 1: this was a few days before American Thanksgiving. And you know, 1215 01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:31,600 Speaker 1: I think something I appreciate about Canada is their willingness 1216 01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:35,960 Speaker 1: to let gravy be a year round dip slash topping. 1217 01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,480 Speaker 1: I think we are so scared in America to divorce 1218 01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:43,880 Speaker 1: gravy from the Thanksgiving table and it needs to be 1219 01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:47,160 Speaker 1: something that has to be enjoyed with the biological family 1220 01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:51,680 Speaker 1: while celebrating violent colonial histories. And I think what Canada 1221 01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,360 Speaker 1: has done is said, you know, we can just serve 1222 01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:57,720 Speaker 1: it at McDonald's on fries. So shout out to Quebec 1223 01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:00,920 Speaker 1: style hot chicken sandwiches. Shout out to sort of anything 1224 01:02:01,000 --> 01:02:03,920 Speaker 1: Keba Quad. In fact, I'm really fascinated by their culture. 1225 01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 1: I know that's different than Toronto. And also, you know, 1226 01:02:07,240 --> 01:02:10,320 Speaker 1: shout out to Gravy. 1227 01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:12,040 Speaker 2: Well, that was beautiful, George. 1228 01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:12,800 Speaker 1: Perfect, thank you. 1229 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:14,720 Speaker 4: Okay, what up? 1230 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:18,320 Speaker 3: Cuties, which is what I call my fans, That's what 1231 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,200 Speaker 3: my fans are known as, and those of you who 1232 01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:23,840 Speaker 3: do not identify as Cuties, I would love to shout 1233 01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:31,439 Speaker 3: out first of all, Alfresco Dining. I love you. You've 1234 01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,040 Speaker 3: always been there for me. I'm from La so that's 1235 01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:39,120 Speaker 3: a fact. And I love you so much. Like I 1236 01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:43,160 Speaker 3: love spending too much in this setting. I love a 1237 01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:47,040 Speaker 3: chicken caesar. I love the French fried chicken caesar combo. 1238 01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:47,600 Speaker 3: It's just me. 1239 01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:50,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I call it the Sharon Stone of lunches. 1240 01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:53,000 Speaker 1: Beautiful. 1241 01:02:53,240 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 3: It's a perfect fun and you know, nutritional extravagance. I 1242 01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,880 Speaker 3: love like ordering like an orange juice, like things that 1243 01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:11,960 Speaker 3: you can get for much cheaper Alfresco simple things. Yeah, 1244 01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:15,840 Speaker 3: I love Alfresco dining. I used to smoke like a 1245 01:03:16,200 --> 01:03:18,920 Speaker 3: psycho and I and that's where I initially fell in 1246 01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:22,640 Speaker 3: love with Alfresco dining, just to smoke in between courses 1247 01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:26,560 Speaker 3: and sorry it's a shout out or a condo areno 1248 01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:28,040 Speaker 3: all right? 1249 01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:28,680 Speaker 1: Please? 1250 01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:33,000 Speaker 3: And I love friends Alfresco. I love dining solo Alfresco. 1251 01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:38,280 Speaker 3: I love chit chatting with the waiter slash waitress slash 1252 01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:49,080 Speaker 3: whatever gender. And I love uh yeah, I. 1253 01:03:51,520 --> 01:03:52,400 Speaker 4: Love Alfresco. 1254 01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:56,880 Speaker 1: I love that. God wow, to order an orange I 1255 01:03:56,920 --> 01:04:00,680 Speaker 1: know exactly what you mean about like deciding that, yeah, 1256 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to pay six dollars for an orange juice 1257 01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,919 Speaker 1: glass that they just is it literally yes? And it's 1258 01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:09,480 Speaker 1: worth it because that is the experience of drinking the 1259 01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,960 Speaker 1: freshly squeeze orange juice outside is literally worth six dollars. 1260 01:04:13,400 --> 01:04:15,840 Speaker 3: I will also say alfres not to be like classes 1261 01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:18,280 Speaker 3: with the Alfresco dining, back to the shoutout, shout out 1262 01:04:18,280 --> 01:04:21,520 Speaker 3: to like in and out Alfresco dining. Just like when 1263 01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:27,880 Speaker 3: you take your your your anything outside picnics, sitting outside 1264 01:04:27,920 --> 01:04:32,320 Speaker 3: the McDonald's, sitting on the curb having the taco Alfresco 1265 01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,000 Speaker 3: works work. 1266 01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,560 Speaker 2: Alfresco just means outside. 1267 01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:38,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think dining outside. 1268 01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:42,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, now I've seen everything in Italian? 1269 01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:43,760 Speaker 1: Yes, what is it? 1270 01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:47,600 Speaker 4: What's the actual translation? Fresh to the I think. 1271 01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:53,040 Speaker 1: It means outside al fresco to the fresh English it 1272 01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:53,840 Speaker 1: means fresh. 1273 01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:59,960 Speaker 3: It means fresh, means to the fresh, Yeah, which is experience. 1274 01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:00,720 Speaker 3: You know. 1275 01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:04,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, they knew exactly what they were doing with that 1276 01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:05,720 Speaker 2: one when they named that one. 1277 01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:09,360 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, wait, no, I just want to say 1278 01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,280 Speaker 1: little Translates says it means cool. 1279 01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:15,560 Speaker 2: Mmmm hello, Hello, are you. 1280 01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:16,800 Speaker 4: So much kidding me? 1281 01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:21,560 Speaker 1: Bitches? Wait, so the epitome of cool, to answer our 1282 01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:25,920 Speaker 1: initial inquiry is quite literally dining outing. 1283 01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:26,960 Speaker 2: Wow. 1284 01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:32,720 Speaker 3: I didn't even mind, you, guys, I'm just naturally cool crazy. 1285 01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,760 Speaker 3: I thought it was just kind and low key. 1286 01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:38,480 Speaker 1: Well yeah, no, it actually means and by the way, 1287 01:05:38,480 --> 01:05:40,960 Speaker 1: al fresco I think literally means in the fresh air, 1288 01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:44,720 Speaker 1: but but it also means in a different literal way cool. 1289 01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:47,080 Speaker 2: Well it means cool, I means wow. 1290 01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:49,640 Speaker 4: I mean your Greek. You understand alfresco. 1291 01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:51,160 Speaker 1: I get it more than anyone. 1292 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:51,720 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1293 01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:56,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, see, this has been an absolute delight. Yeah, thank 1294 01:05:56,040 --> 01:06:00,880 Speaker 1: you so much for people once again about your show. 1295 01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:04,320 Speaker 3: Yes, so it's called It's My Sister. It's a one woman, 1296 01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:08,400 Speaker 3: two sister. It's two sisters, one woman show. It's December 1297 01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:11,439 Speaker 3: fourth through the seventh that we just added a show 1298 01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 3: on the seventh at five pm Pacific Standard. Please come. 1299 01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:19,680 Speaker 3: There's more tickets available and their standby at all the dates. 1300 01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 3: So like calmbabes, it's going to be great, and I 1301 01:06:24,000 --> 01:06:26,640 Speaker 3: really want to give this gift to you and to me. 1302 01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:30,480 Speaker 1: My god, I'm so bummed I missed genuinely. I was like, 1303 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:32,200 Speaker 1: what if there's a way to make it work, and 1304 01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:32,440 Speaker 1: there is. 1305 01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,240 Speaker 3: I think I'll just go do it on Broadway, like 1306 01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:36,040 Speaker 3: next month, So I'm do it on Broadway. 1307 01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:36,920 Speaker 4: It on Broadway. 1308 01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:39,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it'd be great, Okay, perfect, all right, see you 1309 01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:40,120 Speaker 1: on Broadway. 1310 01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:42,560 Speaker 2: Okay, bye, thank you, Love you. 1311 01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:47,160 Speaker 1: Guys podcast and now want more. Subscribe to our Patreon 1312 01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:50,720 Speaker 1: for two extra episodes a month, discord access and more 1313 01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:54,400 Speaker 1: by heading to patreon dot com. 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