WEBVTT - Season 09 Episode 14: Cats in the Cradle

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<v Speaker 1>Philip Larkin once wrote, they fuck you up your mum

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<v Speaker 1>and dad. They may not mean to, but they do.

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<v Speaker 1>They fill you with the faults they had, and add

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<v Speaker 1>some extra just for you, whether for good or bad.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all shaped by our family dynamics. Some of us

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<v Speaker 1>are the product of heteronormative relationships. Others will have been

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<v Speaker 1>raised by same sex partners, or maybe even in non

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<v Speaker 1>monogamous or communal parenting arrangements. Some of us will have

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<v Speaker 1>grown up with two parents who live happily together, some

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<v Speaker 1>by parents who are separated, or perhaps by a single

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<v Speaker 1>parent due to choice or loss. Perhaps you are raised

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<v Speaker 1>by your grandparents or another member of your family. Some

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<v Speaker 1>of us will be only children. Others might have ten

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<v Speaker 1>sisters and brothers. Some are adopted or fostered with no

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<v Speaker 1>knowledge of their forebears, while others have large blood related

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<v Speaker 1>families that can be traced back for generations. The nuclear

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<v Speaker 1>core of the traditional two parent household has become so

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<v Speaker 1>entrenched as an aspiration in popular culture that when many

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<v Speaker 1>of us think of the word family, we often neglect

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<v Speaker 1>to account for more complex versions of the structure, versions

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<v Speaker 1>that are as individual and variable and valid as the

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<v Speaker 1>people contained within them. This two point four version of

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<v Speaker 1>the family has been a staple of everything from the

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<v Speaker 1>Simpsons to the Adams family, but in reality, this domestic

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<v Speaker 1>ideal can sometimes conceal a much darker truth at its heart.

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<v Speaker 1>For a start, the family is where we first internalize

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<v Speaker 1>ideas about societal hierarchy. Patriarchal attitudes, for example, place the

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<v Speaker 1>father at the head of the house, followed by the mother,

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<v Speaker 1>then brother, then sister. The law of primogeniture ensures that

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<v Speaker 1>the eldest and in many cultures historically the male heir,

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<v Speaker 1>regardless of age, inherits the lion's share of ancestral wealth

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<v Speaker 1>and status when a parent or grandparent passes on darkest still,

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<v Speaker 1>most of us are familiar with the phrase stranger danger,

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<v Speaker 1>and yet of the five hundred and seventy homicides recorded

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<v Speaker 1>in the UK, for example, in twenty twenty four, a

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<v Speaker 1>staggering forty two percent of crimes were perpetrated by a

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<v Speaker 1>partner or ex partner of the victim. A further eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>percent of cases involved people who were murdered either by

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<v Speaker 1>a close relation or other family member, meaning that almost

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<v Speaker 1>sixty percent of deliberate killings in the UK were perpetrated

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<v Speaker 1>in the victim's own home by a relative or partner.

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<v Speaker 1>This galling number has even led the United Nations to

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<v Speaker 1>suggest that, rather than that big bad world out there,

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<v Speaker 1>home is statistically the most dangerous place to be, especially

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<v Speaker 1>for women and girls. For one artist, perhaps more than

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<v Speaker 1>any other. The dark truths that lie behind the facade

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<v Speaker 1>of domestic bliss proved to be an obsession. Over the

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<v Speaker 1>course of nearly fifty years, American filmmaker David Lynch fixed

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<v Speaker 1>his penetrating gaze on the hypocrisy of the suburban American dream.

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<v Speaker 1>He emphasized the strangeness lurking at the heart of seemingly

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<v Speaker 1>ordinary family homes and neighbourhoods by utilizing dream logic, surrealist imagery,

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<v Speaker 1>and the occasional dose of dark humour. It's impossible to

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<v Speaker 1>overstate the importance of Lynch's twin peaks in how influential

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<v Speaker 1>it was in puncturing the wholesome veneer of sweet suburbia.

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<v Speaker 1>Lynch's unique take on the police procedural, which by the

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen nineties had grown stale, arrived like an atom bomb

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<v Speaker 1>into the living rooms of households everywhere. He showed that

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<v Speaker 1>beneath the surface of the supposed familial ideal of straight,

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<v Speaker 1>church going, white, picket fenced middle class aspiration, though, were

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<v Speaker 1>complex power dynamics at play, with the potential for violent

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<v Speaker 1>hidden at every turn. He showed how abuse often went

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<v Speaker 1>hidden or was ignored for the sake of etiquette and

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<v Speaker 1>lambasted the insincerity of communities who dared to be shocked

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<v Speaker 1>when the inevitable consequences washed up on their doorsteps. More

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<v Speaker 1>alarmingly to some, he showed how repression can lead to

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<v Speaker 1>madness and how it spreads like a contagion when its

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<v Speaker 1>root causes are not addressed. You might have heard about

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<v Speaker 1>the rare condition of shared madness known as folly adieu,

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<v Speaker 1>which we explored to some degree in Season four, episode sixteen,

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<v Speaker 1>folly Adieure. The idea was first conceptualized at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the nineteenth century by psychiatric doctors Charles Lazigai and

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<v Speaker 1>Jules Ferret. The pair noted that in several cases where

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<v Speaker 1>one patient presented with primary delusions as a result of

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<v Speaker 1>schizophrenia or other serious mental condition, a partner or someone

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<v Speaker 1>living in close quarters began to experience the same delusion.

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<v Speaker 1>The condition is so rare that only about two percent

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<v Speaker 1>of all psychiatric hospital admissions are said to qualify. Even

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<v Speaker 1>rarer is when a delusion is shared by more than

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<v Speaker 1>two people, termed progressively as the madness of three or four, etc.

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<v Speaker 1>Or even the madness of several, which is so rare

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<v Speaker 1>that only a handful of cases have ever been documented.

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<v Speaker 1>Some believe it was just this kind of madness that

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<v Speaker 1>descended on one unlucky family in rural Australia in twenty sixteen.

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Unexplained and I'm Richard McLean Smith. Back

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<v Speaker 1>in twenty sixteen. On a chilly Tuesday morning in August,

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<v Speaker 1>it had just gone eleven a m when Keith Whittaker,

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<v Speaker 1>owner of a local mining utilities company, pulled into a

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<v Speaker 1>service station in the city of Gulban in New South Wales, Australia.

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<v Speaker 1>Keith was heading south to Canberra, about an hour's drive away,

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<v Speaker 1>for a doctor's appointment, and was conscious of time, so

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<v Speaker 1>after a quick dash into the garage store to pay,

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<v Speaker 1>he got straight back into his truck and sped off

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<v Speaker 1>as fast as he could. Keith was about halfway into

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<v Speaker 1>the drive when he felt something kick the back of

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<v Speaker 1>his seat. Turning round, he was shocked to see a

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<v Speaker 1>young woman lying down behind him in the back. Keith

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<v Speaker 1>hurriedly pulled the car to the side at the road,

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<v Speaker 1>but when he tried to talk to the woman, she

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<v Speaker 1>was completely unresponsive. Much to Keith's relief, she was still

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<v Speaker 1>breathing at least unsure what to do exactly, he continued

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<v Speaker 1>to try and rouse her without success, until about twenty

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<v Speaker 1>minutes later, when the woman abruptly sat up and, with

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<v Speaker 1>a completely blank expression, stared straight ahead at nothing in particular.

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<v Speaker 1>Then slowly she seemed to come back to the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Keith asked if she was okay and what her name was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was only then that the woman finally seemed to

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<v Speaker 1>notice him. What's your name, asked Keith again, confusion clouded

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<v Speaker 1>her face. I don't know, she replied. Keith looked her

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<v Speaker 1>over for any sign of injury, but saw nothing. There

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<v Speaker 1>was no smell of alcohol on her breath, and her

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<v Speaker 1>clothes were clean and presentable. It was, needless to say,

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<v Speaker 1>all very weird. Unable to get any sense from her,

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<v Speaker 1>Keith reassured her that she was safe and promptly called

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<v Speaker 1>the police. For the next half an hour, the woman

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<v Speaker 1>just stared silently out at the window until the police arrived.

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<v Speaker 1>As they helped her out at the vehicle, she suddenly

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<v Speaker 1>turned to Keith and offered him fifty dollars for his trouble,

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<v Speaker 1>but he told her to keep the money. Then he

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<v Speaker 1>watched with complete amusement as she was led into the

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<v Speaker 1>back of the police car and driven away back to Goulburn.

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<v Speaker 1>About the same time that young woman was found in

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<v Speaker 1>Keith Whittakert's truck, police in Melbourne, about five hundred miles

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<v Speaker 1>away to the southwest in the state of Victoria, received

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<v Speaker 1>a strange call from the New South Wales Police. They

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<v Speaker 1>themselves had received a call a short time earlier from

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<v Speaker 1>what sounded like a young woman in a severe state

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<v Speaker 1>of distress. The woman, who was calling from a payphone

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<v Speaker 1>in Gulbant, frantically explained that her parents had gone missing.

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<v Speaker 1>Their names were Jacoba and Mark Tromp, and they were

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<v Speaker 1>both in their early fifties. She said the last place

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<v Speaker 1>she'd seen them was that morning at a place called

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<v Speaker 1>the Jenolan Caves, a famous natural landmark on the edge

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<v Speaker 1>of the sprawling Blue Mountains National Park. The woman didn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem to be making much sense, but the urgency in

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<v Speaker 1>her voice was palpable. After giving the police a brief

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<v Speaker 1>description of the couple and their home address, the woman

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<v Speaker 1>swiftly hung up. The address was a farm located on

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<v Speaker 1>the eastern fringes of Melbourne, hence the call to the

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<v Speaker 1>Victoria Police. The call was passed on to Sergeant Mark

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<v Speaker 1>Knight of Munbulk Police Station, a small town close to

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<v Speaker 1>the address given by the woman on the phone. As

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<v Speaker 1>it happened, Sergeant Knight was familiar with the property and

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<v Speaker 1>knew the Tromp family reasonably well. The family were well

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<v Speaker 1>known in the area, not least of all because they

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<v Speaker 1>had a thriving red current business that employed a number

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<v Speaker 1>of people and the large family home, swimming pool and

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<v Speaker 1>collection of horses to go with it. There were five

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<v Speaker 1>of them in total, parents Jacoba and Mark, and their

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<v Speaker 1>three children, twenty nine year old Rihanna, twenty five year

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<v Speaker 1>old Mitchell, and twenty two year old Ella, all of

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<v Speaker 1>whom lived in work on the farm. What Sergeant Knight

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get his head around, though, was what on earth

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<v Speaker 1>would Mark and Jacoba be doing at the Jenolan Caves

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<v Speaker 1>five hundred miles away on a workday. Things only got

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<v Speaker 1>weirder as reports from some of the Trump's employees started

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<v Speaker 1>to come in saying that the entire family seemed to

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<v Speaker 1>have completely disappeared without warning the day before, and so

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<v Speaker 1>Sergeant Knight gathered a small team and drove out to

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<v Speaker 1>the property to investigate. When they arrived, things immediately felt off.

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<v Speaker 1>As Knight approached the house, he could see the curtains

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<v Speaker 1>were drawn despite it only being early afternoon, and though

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<v Speaker 1>a few vehicles were parked in the drive, it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>take long to realize that nobody was home. Hello, he

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<v Speaker 1>called out as he stepped up to the front door.

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<v Speaker 1>He rang the bell, then, after a few minutes of

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<v Speaker 1>no response, he tried the handle and was surprised to

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<v Speaker 1>find the door completely unlocked. Hello, he called out again

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<v Speaker 1>as he and his colleagues stepped into the eerie silence

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<v Speaker 1>of the home, but again got nothing in response. The

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<v Speaker 1>house was in a state of utter disarray. Various items

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<v Speaker 1>were scattered across the floor, including endless pages of paperwork,

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<v Speaker 1>streams of bank statements and financial records. After a further

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<v Speaker 1>search of the property, the officers also found the family's passports,

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<v Speaker 1>bank cards, and mobile phones all had been left behind.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a few hours later, as the police continued

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<v Speaker 1>to investigate the property, when they heard the sound of

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<v Speaker 1>wheels crunching up the gravel. It was followed moments later

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<v Speaker 1>by the appearance of a harrowed looking Ella Tromp in

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<v Speaker 1>the doorway. The youngest daughter. It may have been the

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<v Speaker 1>bloodshot eyes and the fact that she clearly hadn't slept

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<v Speaker 1>in a while. Or maybe it was the odd vacant

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<v Speaker 1>expression on her face. Whatever it was, it was clear

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<v Speaker 1>tonight that something wasn't quite right with the young woman.

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<v Speaker 1>When Ella saw the police, she didn't flinch, which, naturally,

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<v Speaker 1>Sergeant Knight thought immediately strange, although in truth this was

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<v Speaker 1>most likely because it was Ella who'd made the original

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<v Speaker 1>call to the police back in Golbin to report her

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<v Speaker 1>parents missing. Even still, the nonchalance with which she asked

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<v Speaker 1>the officers if they wanted a cup of tea was

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<v Speaker 1>a little jarring, to say the least. Knight said yes, nonetheless,

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<v Speaker 1>keen to use the opportunity to get a handle on

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<v Speaker 1>her current state of mind. It was his job to

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<v Speaker 1>be suspicious and right then, for all he knew, they

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<v Speaker 1>could be dealing with anything from a domestic dispute to

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<v Speaker 1>a possible murder. He followed her into the kitchen and

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<v Speaker 1>watched her like a hawk as she casually boiled the

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<v Speaker 1>kettle and threw some tea bags into mugs. Satisfied that

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<v Speaker 1>she was compassmenttous enough to be interviewed, he began with

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<v Speaker 1>some easy questions, namely where the hell was everyone, though

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<v Speaker 1>Ella was a little scatter gun at first, Slowly a

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<v Speaker 1>very strange picture began to emerge. It all started a

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<v Speaker 1>few days ago, she said, with her parents becoming increasingly

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<v Speaker 1>anxious over something to do with the farm's finances, or

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<v Speaker 1>at least that's how it seemed at first, But then

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<v Speaker 1>things began to get weird. At some point, both her

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<v Speaker 1>parents became convinced that someone was stalking them and wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to steal all their money, perhaps even kill them for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Things came to a head on the morning of August

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<v Speaker 1>twenty ninth, the day before. In a sudden burst of panic,

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<v Speaker 1>her parents, Jacoba and Mark, announced that the family had

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<v Speaker 1>to leave the property immediately. They told the kids that

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<v Speaker 1>their lives were in days if they didn't leave that instant.

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<v Speaker 1>They ordered them to drop everything, especially their phones, because

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<v Speaker 1>they were bugged. Suddenly, Rhianna began to panic too. Then

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<v Speaker 1>Ella felt a surge of terror rush through her. There

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<v Speaker 1>was no time to spare. It was Mark who suggested

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<v Speaker 1>they'd take Ella's car, a Silver Pergio SUV, since the

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<v Speaker 1>other vehicles were probably bugged too. Sergeant Knight looked out

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<v Speaker 1>the window toward the Honda Odyssey parked on the driveway

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<v Speaker 1>that Ella had arrived in. And whose car is that? Then? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>said Ella, Yeah, I stole that. The sergeant let that

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<v Speaker 1>go for a moment and asked Ella to continue her story.

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<v Speaker 1>From what she said, it seemed her parents had no

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<v Speaker 1>real plan other than to get to the Jenolan caves.

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<v Speaker 1>Perhaps they thought they could hide out there until whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it was that was going on blew over, But Ella

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't sure. All she knew was that in the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>it had all seemed so very real, and before she

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<v Speaker 1>knew it, they were on the road. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen minutes into the drive when they realized that Mitchell

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<v Speaker 1>had taken his phone with him. The parents got suddenly hysterical,

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<v Speaker 1>both clearly terrified that they whoever they were, would track

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<v Speaker 1>them down if he didn't throw it out the window immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>Unlike the others, Mitchell had begun to question everything that

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<v Speaker 1>was going on, who was after them exactly and why

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't their parents tell them? But they just screamed back

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<v Speaker 1>in response, telling him to throw the phone out unless

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted them all to die. Eventually, he did what

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<v Speaker 1>they asked, and with that they continued on their way.

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<v Speaker 1>They drove non stop for five hundred miles until some

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<v Speaker 1>time around seven a m. The next day, the twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five year old Mitchell had had enough and demanded to

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<v Speaker 1>be let out. Ella had no idea where he was,

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<v Speaker 1>so what then of her sister, Rihanna, asked Sergeant Knight.

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<v Speaker 1>Ella looked sheepishly to the floor. Not long after Mitchell

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<v Speaker 1>left the family, Ella too began to question what on

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<v Speaker 1>earth it was they were doing. But more than that,

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<v Speaker 1>she began to worry about her horses. Since they'd left

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<v Speaker 1>without any warning, there was no one to look after

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<v Speaker 1>them within twenty four hours. Without food, they could be

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<v Speaker 1>at serious risk of developing fatal digestive problems. Ella couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get the thought of them in pain out of her mind.

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<v Speaker 1>When they finally arrived at the car park for the

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<v Speaker 1>Genolan Caves, Ella seized her moment, grabbing Rihanna, the pair

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<v Speaker 1>made their getaway. It isn't clear how Ella stole the car,

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<v Speaker 1>but she likely found it in the same car park,

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<v Speaker 1>perhaps spotting the keys and the ignition. With Rhianna in

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<v Speaker 1>a complete daze in the passenger seat beside her, Ella

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<v Speaker 1>drove for about one hundred miles until they found themselves

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<v Speaker 1>in Golban. It was there that she called the police

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<v Speaker 1>to report her parents missing, and it was there that

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<v Speaker 1>she inexplicably left her sister Rihanna, who at that point

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<v Speaker 1>could barely string a sentence together, about four hundred miles

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<v Speaker 1>from their home. Ella couldn't explain why she'd done it exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>She just simply had to get home to her horses.

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<v Speaker 1>Sergeant Knight listened to it all with complete and utter amusement,

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<v Speaker 1>but promised to do whatever he could to help locate

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of her family. It was around this time

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<v Speaker 1>that the woman who'd been found in the back of

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<v Speaker 1>the truck just outside of Golban finally remembered who she was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was, of course, Rhianna Trump. Still not quite in

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<v Speaker 1>her right mind, she was kept at the Low Hospital

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<v Speaker 1>for psychological observation. The following morning, Mitchell made it back

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<v Speaker 1>to the farm safe and sound. Mitchell, who'd managed to

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<v Speaker 1>find an overnight train home, later confirmed Ella's statement, at

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<v Speaker 1>least up until the moment he left. Unlike Ella, to

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<v Speaker 1>Sergeant Knight, Mitchell seemed to be of entirely sound mind, and,

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<v Speaker 1>as he explained to the sergeant later, he was equally

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<v Speaker 1>baffled by his parents and sister's behavior, he didn't believe

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<v Speaker 1>for a second that anyone was really after them, and

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<v Speaker 1>had only joined the others in the car because he

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<v Speaker 1>was worried about them. That worry only intensified when he

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<v Speaker 1>arrived back home to find Ella on her own and

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<v Speaker 1>no sign of their parents, who were by then genuinely missing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was some time around ten pm that night that

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<v Speaker 1>a couple driving somewhere close to merrowa park in Wangorata

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<v Speaker 1>in northeast Victoria, spotted a silver Pergio suv being driven

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<v Speaker 1>erratically and fast approaching them from behind. The suv then

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<v Speaker 1>proceeded to tailgate them for about five minutes until they

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<v Speaker 1>were eventually forced to pull over to let it pass.

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<v Speaker 1>Only it didn't it pulled over to The couple watched

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<v Speaker 1>in horror as the driver, a man in his early fifties,

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<v Speaker 1>raced up the road toward them, only to then stop

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly and stare at them intensely for what felt like

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<v Speaker 1>an eternity, until finally, having not said a word, the

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<v Speaker 1>man turned and fled on foot into the park, abandoning

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<v Speaker 1>his vehicle by the side of the road. The following day,

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<v Speaker 1>police responding to the peculiar incident, found the silver suv

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<v Speaker 1>still parked at the side of the road with the

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<v Speaker 1>keys in the ignition. It was quickly identified as Ella's car,

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<v Speaker 1>but there was no sign of the man who'd been

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<v Speaker 1>driving it. It was later reported that someone had broken

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<v Speaker 1>into the roof of a nearby motel and appeared to

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<v Speaker 1>have stayed there for the night. Some two hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>thirty miles away to the north of Wangaratta, in the

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<v Speaker 1>town of Yas, a vacant looking middle aged woman unknown

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<v Speaker 1>to anyone was found wandering around the town. Thanks to

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<v Speaker 1>a good Samaritan, she was picked up and taken to

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<v Speaker 1>the local hospital. Later that day, Mitchell and a now

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<v Speaker 1>seemingly recovered Ella gave a statement to Australia's Channel nine

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<v Speaker 1>News from their farm, asking for help from the public

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<v Speaker 1>to find their parents, but giving nothing away about their predicament.

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<v Speaker 1>Soon after, the woman found wandering around Yas was identified

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<v Speaker 1>as their mother, Jacoba, with Rhianna having been identified too.

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<v Speaker 1>Jacoba was taken to Goban Hospital to be reunited with her.

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<v Speaker 1>She too was kept in for psychiatric assessment, but still

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<v Speaker 1>nothing was heard of Mark Tromp's whereabouts, prompting an even

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<v Speaker 1>more frantic search. Forty eight hours later, around six pm

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<v Speaker 1>on September three officers driving along a highway close to

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<v Speaker 1>Wangarata Airport spotted him walking aimlessly down the road. He

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<v Speaker 1>was immediately picked up and driven to hospital for a

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<v Speaker 1>mental health check, before being taken to the nearest police station.

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<v Speaker 1>Six hours later, he was released into the custody of

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<v Speaker 1>his brother, who also happened to be a serving police officer.

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<v Speaker 1>By then, a crowd of journalists had gathered at the

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<v Speaker 1>police station to get a glimpse of the man at

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<v Speaker 1>the center of one of the strangest news stories in

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<v Speaker 1>recent times. When he finally appeared, he was quickly shepherded

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<v Speaker 1>into a waiting car and refused to answer any questions.

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<v Speaker 1>As he was driven away, he flipped the bird at

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<v Speaker 1>the assembled crowd before disappearing into the night. Nothing else

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<v Speaker 1>was heard on the matter until two days later, when

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<v Speaker 1>Mark Tromp issued a statement on the family's behalf. In

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<v Speaker 1>recent days, my family has been through a difficult period

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<v Speaker 1>and we will soon be reunited together. I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>we will begin to make sense of our ordeal and

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<v Speaker 1>return to a normal life. I am conscious of the

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<v Speaker 1>burden these events have placed upon our extended family, friends

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<v Speaker 1>and the community resources devoted to our aid without reservation.

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize for the hurt and concern caused by these

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<v Speaker 1>events on behalf of our family. I express our deep

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<v Speaker 1>gratitude to Victoria and New South Wales Police, as well

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<v Speaker 1>as the healthcare professionals who have looked after our physical

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<v Speaker 1>and mental well being. More than anything, my family and

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<v Speaker 1>I need time to recover. To this end, we request

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<v Speaker 1>that the media organizations respect our request for privacy. No

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<v Speaker 1>explanation was given for why he and his wife had

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<v Speaker 1>forced his family to flee their home so suddenly, or

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<v Speaker 1>what exactly he had gotten up to in the intervening days.

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<v Speaker 1>In the end, police found no history of mental illness

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<v Speaker 1>within the family, no sign that any drugs had been taken,

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<v Speaker 1>and no evidence that they were trying to escape from debt,

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<v Speaker 1>a church, cult, or any other group who may have

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<v Speaker 1>been out to harm them. Police Sergeant Mark Knight called

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<v Speaker 1>it the most bizarre case he'd ever worked on and

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<v Speaker 1>was just as perplexed as the public when it came

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<v Speaker 1>to giving an explanation. It was also discovered that during

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<v Speaker 1>conversations prior to their road trip, the Trumps had at

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<v Speaker 1>one point considered leaving the country, but changed their minds

0:24:52.680 --> 0:24:55.880
<v Speaker 1>when it was pointed out that their passports could be tracked.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole trip saw the family travel almost a miles

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<v Speaker 1>in the space of just a few days for no

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<v Speaker 1>discernible reason. Offering something of a final word on the matter,

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<v Speaker 1>the family's son, Mitchell, told reporters it's really hard to explain.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll put a word on it, but they were just

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<v Speaker 1>fearing for their lives and then they decided to flee.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a build up of different, normal everyday events,

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<v Speaker 1>just pressure, and it slowly got worse as the days

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<v Speaker 1>went by. In March twenty seventeen, having initially been charged

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<v Speaker 1>with stealing a vehicle, police withdrew the charges against Ella

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<v Speaker 1>Tromp after the vehicle's owner, presumably having thought the family

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<v Speaker 1>had suffered enough, declined to pursue the case. Just six

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<v Speaker 1>months later, the family were back working on the farm

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<v Speaker 1>as though nothing had happened. No further explanation was ever

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<v Speaker 1>given for the bizarre road trip. It's likely we'll never

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<v Speaker 1>know just what exactly spooked Mark and Jacoba Trump so much,

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<v Speaker 1>or how exactly their troubled mental state spread so profoundly

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<v Speaker 1>to the rest of the family. Mitchell aside causing Rihanna

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<v Speaker 1>to forget who she was, and Ella, a perfectly law

0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:16.040
<v Speaker 1>abiding citizen to randomly steal someone's car and drive it

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<v Speaker 1>four hundred miles without skipping a beat. Though it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>give us an explanation for what happened to the Tromp family.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we go, I want to return to that famous

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<v Speaker 1>poem of Philip Larkin's This be the verse. They fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you up your mum and dad. They may not mean to,

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<v Speaker 1>but they do. They fill you with the faults they had,

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<v Speaker 1>and add some extra just for you. These four lines,

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<v Speaker 1>perhaps some of the most well known British poetry, are

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<v Speaker 1>often repeated with a sense of bittersweet weariness we nod

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<v Speaker 1>along and bitter recognition at all the negative ways our

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<v Speaker 1>own pairents of marketers. These lines are so famous, in fact,

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<v Speaker 1>it's easy to forget there is actually a little more

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<v Speaker 1>to the poem, and to ignore the rest of it

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<v Speaker 1>is to miss the real point that we should go

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<v Speaker 1>easy on our parents for what they unintentionally pass on

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<v Speaker 1>to us, because the same was meted out to them too.

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<v Speaker 1>They were fucked up in their turn by fools in

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<v Speaker 1>old style hats and coats who half the time were soppy, stern,

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<v Speaker 1>and half at one another's throats. Man hands on misery

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<v Speaker 1>to man, it deepens like a coastal shelf. Get out

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<v Speaker 1>as early as you can, and don't have any kids

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<v Speaker 1>yourself now. I should say, as a parent myself, that

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<v Speaker 1>last bit I disagree with. But it doesn't matter what

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<v Speaker 1>your family looks like and whether or not it conforms

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<v Speaker 1>to what others might deem to be the perfect family unit.

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<v Speaker 1>know that you'll always be there for them. Outside of that,

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