1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:05,039 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:12,239 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it scrub. 3 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: Dub dub with the mananal. Oh that was pretty thank you. 4 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, we've got this. It's been a minute since we've 5 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 2: done a Mantle. 6 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 1: It has been because you know why, can I tell 7 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: you why? Why? 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 2: From my perspective, why, Because I'm dating a woman, and 9 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,559 Speaker 2: now that it's public, I'm like, do we need the 10 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 2: men's advice? But you know, there are a lot of 11 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,239 Speaker 2: people out there still in the dating world with men, 12 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 2: in the in the thick of. 13 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: It, in the thick of it with men, and such 14 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 1: as myself. Well, I'm not in the thick of it, 15 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: but I am dating a man. 16 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: You were engaged to me. 17 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm going to marry a man. I'm going to 18 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: marry a man. That's so crazy. 19 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 2: Well, we were like, it's time to remake the Mantle 20 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: and where where better to do it than at Epicon. 21 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: Yes, and we had. Let me tell you, we have 22 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,760 Speaker 1: some stacked Mantle participants today. 23 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 2: And all these guys are married men in like long 24 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 2: term relationship. 25 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we got to get to the root of 26 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 1: how it all began, how it all. 27 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 2: Began, And on this list, we're gonna, we're gonna talk 28 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 2: to Sean Ashmore, Bar Johnson, whom we absolutely adore. H 29 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 2: you know what that movie is? 30 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 3: No? 31 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 2: Oh it takes two? 32 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I've seen that movie. 33 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: David Limb, yes, and Colin Donnell, who you have a. 34 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: Okay, so, no joke. I literally this was over ten 35 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: years ago. We look at if he's gonna remember. 36 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 2: Me, that is all I want. All I want is 37 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: for him to not remember. Oh my gosh, just for 38 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 2: like the discomfort of this moment, not for anyone, like 39 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 2: I think you're so memorable. I think it'd be crazy 40 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 2: for like the entertainment factor. It'd be so good if 41 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: he doesn't. So we're gonna we're gonna just hit them 42 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:58,080 Speaker 2: with all the questions. 43 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: That's right, and further ado, without further ado, here we go, 44 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: let's go Mantle. 45 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:11,760 Speaker 2: All right, everybody, welcome Sean Ashmore. Thanks for having me, 46 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 2: Thank you for being here. Of course you're our first 47 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 2: guest of the whole epicn. 48 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 4: Okay, all right, warm up is what you're saying? 49 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:22,639 Speaker 2: No? No, no, jump right in? Yeah? All right? All right? 50 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: Do you do these often? These con fan conventions I. 51 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 5: Do a few year. I actually personally really enjoy it. 52 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 5: I think it's a good way to kind of find 53 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 5: out what stuff is working on whatever current project you're in, 54 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,000 Speaker 5: and I feel like it's yeah, I feel like you 55 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 5: get a lot of comments on like well, I'm really 56 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 5: loving the storyline or like this scene really worked for me. 57 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 5: So I think it's kind of interesting to sort of 58 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 5: hear what the audience that you're making the show, film, 59 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 5: whatever you're working on is enjoying. Especially on a long 60 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 5: running TV show, you can be like, oh, this stuff 61 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 5: is really kind of working. It's also like a yearbook 62 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 5: on your career, Like I've gotten all these bracelets that 63 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 5: are just different characters over the years, and it's just 64 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 5: kind of fun. Like it's just a really enjoyable kind 65 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 5: of experience to hear about like what what people watched 66 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 5: over the years, what really sticks with them? 67 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 4: And I'm always kind of surprised. 68 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 2: Do you remember your first one, like first event like 69 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: this that you came to where there was fans? Yeah, 70 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 2: were you like totally overwhelmed and shocked or did it 71 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 2: feel that it. 72 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, it felt good. Again, Like the. 73 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 5: I look at being an actor as kind of a 74 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 5: I mean, it's sort of a gift. And so the 75 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 5: fact that there you have a following, that's the only 76 00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 5: reason you can continue to do it. That there's people 77 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 5: and a fan base or or people that are interested 78 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 5: in the stuff that you do. So to me, that's 79 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 5: kind of what I enjoy about it. Also, the first 80 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 5: con I did was in Philadelphia, and it was years 81 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 5: after I'd been a part of all the X Men stuff, 82 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 5: so I'd kind of been used to interacting with fans 83 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 5: over the years, whether it be on the street or 84 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 5: at premieres or whatever, So it wasn't that overwhelming. 85 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: Yeah wait, any way, you got these bracelets at each one, 86 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: so that's like. 87 00:03:57,000 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 4: No, no, this is this is today. That's just yeah, just 88 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 4: out there. Yeah, as like, and I'm sure I'll have 89 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 4: it just as a thing. 90 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 5: It's become a thing the last couple of years at 91 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 5: cons where people like make bracelets and like when they. 92 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 4: Come to meet you, they leave you a little things. 93 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 4: So these are all from the first hour they. 94 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: Get Okay, so they give you that, and what do they. 95 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 4: Say, just like, hey, I loved you okay. 96 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 5: So Wesley is from The Rookie, which is the TV 97 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 5: show that I'm doing right now. There's a show called 98 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 5: In a Heartbeat? Was it a Disney Channel show that 99 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 5: I did as a kid? 100 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 4: So I got it. 101 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 5: In a heart Beat one I got that's another rookie 102 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 5: one Iceman from X Men brad Rigby, which was a 103 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 5: Disney Channel movie I did with Hillary Duff like years ago, 104 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 5: and then this one was Iceman. So just it's just 105 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,599 Speaker 5: all the stuff, like. 106 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: A like for people that are listening. These are basically 107 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: like Taylor Swift friendship that you get like at the 108 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: Aras tour. 109 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, so I don't know. I always throw them 110 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 4: on like a put on and it's kind of like 111 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 4: a little badge at the end of the con all 112 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 4: these things. 113 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like going to a festival and you have 114 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:54,600 Speaker 2: all your like wristbands. Yeah, that's your wristband. Yeah, what 115 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,919 Speaker 2: do you have like one project where people come up 116 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 2: to you and they like freak out, like is it 117 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: consistent with one or is it so spread out? 118 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 5: So I've been I'm forty five for about to be 119 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:05,800 Speaker 5: forty five, but I'm been acting since I was ten, 120 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 5: and so I've done a lot of projects and things shift, right. 121 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 5: It's like when during the X Men years, it was 122 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 5: all about the X Men. I did a show with 123 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 5: Kevin Bacon called The Following that was on Fox. It 124 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 5: was all about the Following. It's about the Rookie right now. 125 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 5: So I feel like it's kind of whatever is most current. Yeah, 126 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 5: but because I sort of have a library of work, 127 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 5: there's there's always that recognition, and I think people really 128 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 5: get excited about the first thing they saw you in. 129 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 5: So I did a Nickelodeon show called Animorphs, so you know, 130 00:05:33,080 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 5: I get a lot of animals. Love like Kelly is 131 00:05:35,600 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 5: still a thing. So it's kind of cumulative in a way. 132 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 5: But mostly it's usually about whatever you're kind of doing 133 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 5: in the moment where people kind of like recognize you 134 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 5: from that. But it's really kind of fun to have 135 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:47,560 Speaker 5: that like library of stuff and people be like, yeah, 136 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,360 Speaker 5: I'm watching the rookie, but I know you from whenever 137 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 5: the thing is, you know, and I'm like, Oh, you're 138 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 5: an old school fan. 139 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 4: That's crazy. 140 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 2: That's it's so true though. You do fall in love 141 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 2: with people from the first project you see them in. Yeah, 142 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 2: like you kind of that's when you decide, like, I'm 143 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: going to be a fan of. 144 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 5: This person, and that's what con sort of remind me 145 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:05,840 Speaker 5: of is like because people are like, oh, I love 146 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 5: the Rookie and watching it, but I've been watching you 147 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 5: since in a heartbeat animalphs Kelly and again it feels 148 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 5: really awesome, and I sort of feel like I owe 149 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 5: my career to an extent to the people that have 150 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 5: like stuck around with you and continue to support you 151 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 5: over the years. 152 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: Well, let me tell you. Two of those people work 153 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 1: on our podcast, one of them and then another one 154 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: is listening. Her name is Crystal. They have Crystal with 155 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 1: you from the beginning. Are tried and true? 156 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 4: That's so awesome. 157 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but we do feel like you were like 158 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 2: before internet boyfriend was a thing. We feel like you 159 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 2: were the Internet boyfriend. 160 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 4: Wait, I don't really know what internet boyfriend is. 161 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: Explain, explain, Okay, it's just everyone everyone loves they like 162 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: dubbed the Internet's boyfriend. So I was just like the 163 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: Internet moment. Yeah, the moment is the Internet boyfriend right now, 164 00:06:55,880 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: like Timothy shallon course, Yeah, the original? 165 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 4: All right, right, the. 166 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 2: Original, the original. 167 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 5: I'll take that, man, I'll take that, and I'll move 168 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 5: forward to the day feeling good about being the original. 169 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: Internet boyfriend as you're like, bio. 170 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 4: That doesn't seem like. 171 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 2: Scrubbing in has Originally, Oh, I. 172 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: Wish we would have had. We should have given you 173 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: some sort of like. 174 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 2: Trophy already we got another day next time. 175 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: Actually, you know that does it's because you've been married 176 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: for how many years now? 177 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 4: Twelve years? 178 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: Twelve years and being that you are like the original 179 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: internet boyfriend, is that like so weird for your wife 180 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: to kind of just be like, my husband is this 181 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: like boyfriend to all these. 182 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 5: She's like, I don't give I don't care about any 183 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 5: of that. She doesn't care. 184 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 2: So we met. 185 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 5: She was an assistant director for years and a producer 186 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 5: for years, so she doesn't care. 187 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 4: We met on a movie. 188 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 5: She gets it, she's in it, and she's just like, 189 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,239 Speaker 5: I mean, she's the best, she loves me, all that stuff. 190 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 5: But whenever this kind of stuff happens, she just it's 191 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 5: like an eye roll. 192 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 2: You know. 193 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 5: She's like, you know, you're taking the trash out when 194 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 5: you get home, and I'm like, I know, so that's just. 195 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, mess up your bracelets, but the trash does need 196 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 2: to be taken up exactly. 197 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, the dishes need to be done, the trash. He's 198 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 4: taken out time to make lunch for your son. 199 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: You know, yeah, I am curious of what because at 200 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 2: the time that you met her, was there anything about 201 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 2: her I'm assuming being like a heart throb in people 202 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 2: coming up to you and loving you and getting attention 203 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: from women. What was it about your wife that set 204 00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 2: out that you were like, Cho's it. 205 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 4: I just sort of knew. 206 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 5: We met on a film and it was kind of 207 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 5: like forbidden romance on the set because she was an 208 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 5: assistant director like part of the crew, and it's like, 209 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:45,240 Speaker 5: you're not supposed to like mingle. So I think that 210 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 5: was part of the initial attraction where it was like 211 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 5: it's kind of like forbidden. 212 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. 213 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like we would hang out after work and then 214 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 5: I would go to work and she wouldn't look at me, 215 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 5: she wouldn't talk to me and try to sit next 216 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 5: for her lunch and she would just be like uh uh. 217 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:59,719 Speaker 1: So I like, it's like Meredith Gray and uh and 218 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: uh Meredith and Derek in the beginning the forbidden line, 219 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 1: oh like the boss. 220 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 2: Well yeah, yeah, just like. 221 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 5: OK, yeah, So it just was like, well, we're not 222 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 5: really supposed to be doing this, so that was kind 223 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 5: of fun. 224 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 4: But when I left. 225 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,719 Speaker 5: We shot in Utah and she lived in Atlanta and 226 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 5: I was in Los Angeles. I when we the day 227 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 5: that we left, I was on my plane. I got 228 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 5: off my plane to say goodbye or because I was 229 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 5: like I didn't know, like we'd kind of been dating, 230 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 5: but I wasn't sure if I was going to see 231 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 5: her again. 232 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 4: But I had like a movie moment where. 233 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 5: I like got off the plane and I was like, 234 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 5: I need to go like Huger and say goodbye and whatever. 235 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 4: So I just knew. I don't know what it was. 236 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 4: I just knew. 237 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 5: And then she ended up and I'm not She'll tell 238 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 5: you I'm not the most romantic guy, so it probably 239 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 5: the most romantic thing I've ever done. But literally I 240 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 5: was like, the plane's not taking off, I'm getting off 241 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 5: the plane. I just want to go find her in 242 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 5: the airport and like say goodbye, because I was like, 243 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,400 Speaker 5: I just didn't know when I was going to see 244 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 5: her again, So I yeah, I just knew. 245 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 2: Wow, Yeah, Ross and Rachel I got off the plane. 246 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, it's crazy. 247 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: Do you know her love languages or do you know 248 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: your love languages? 249 00:09:55,840 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 5: Her love language is physical affection and and. 250 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:02,520 Speaker 6: Like acts of. 251 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 4: Service and stuff like that. 252 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: You know, we love a man that knows that just 253 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: even knows that term honestly. 254 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 7: Yeah. 255 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, she loves like a like a foot massage for 256 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 5: her is like the you know has her like you 257 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 5: know if that if I if I'm ever in the doghouse, 258 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 5: I'm like, let me give you a foot rub, honey. 259 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 2: She wow. Service and I mean that's acts of service 260 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 2: and physical touch. Yeah, so you just knock out. 261 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 7: To right there. 262 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm efficient. 263 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 2: What what are you working on right now? What's coming 264 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 2: up for you? 265 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 6: Yeah? 266 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 5: So we're shooting season seven of The Rookie. We're right 267 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 5: in the middle. I think we're about to start shooting 268 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 5: episode nine. Uh and it airs in January. I don't 269 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 5: know the exact date. Also have at least two films 270 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 5: that are done. A film called The Huntsman that's like 271 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 5: a thriller based on a novel of the same title 272 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 5: that I shot in Oklahoma City this summer and I'm 273 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 5: really excited about that. And then also a horror film 274 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 5: with an actor named Ashley Green who've actually worked. 275 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, she's great. 276 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 5: We did a movie called Aftermath on Netflix Film and 277 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 5: we had the opportunity to work together again on another 278 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 5: kind of similar genre movie and yeah, it's called It 279 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 5: Feeds and I'm not sure when that's coming out, but 280 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 5: those are both done and ready to come out. 281 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 2: Oh that's so cool. Do you have a preference of 282 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 2: movies or network television. 283 00:11:20,120 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 5: I think my love is always film. I just love 284 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 5: the idea of popping into a character, living in it, 285 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 5: and then being done, like moving on. And I also 286 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 5: like reading a script from start to finishing, knowing exactly 287 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 5: what the character is, what the story is, like I 288 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 5: can fully prepare. But that's also what's interesting about network 289 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 5: TV is like you don't know where it's going to go. Yeah, 290 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 5: so there's that unpredictability. And if the writing is good 291 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 5: and the character is good, to get to develop and 292 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 5: spend a lot of time with a character is really 293 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 5: enjoyable too, So it's not like one's better than the other. 294 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,079 Speaker 5: I kind of like to do both. Whenever we have 295 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 5: a hiatus, I try to go make films because I 296 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 5: like to mix things up with different characters. 297 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,439 Speaker 1: He's a busy man. Wait, I didn't want to throw 298 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:01,280 Speaker 1: it to eat because he was raising his hand and 299 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: I'm assuming that there's an X men question. 300 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 8: Close close, I wanted to. It was the movie You 301 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 8: Met your Wife on Frozen. 302 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 4: Yes, it was Frozen. 303 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 8: I love Frozen. I went through this thing where I 304 00:12:11,040 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 8: was watching movies about people trapped places. Oh yeah, yeah, 305 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 8: and Frozen they're trapped on a chair lift. Yeahs it's 306 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 8: so good. And if you haven't seen Frozen, everyone listening to. 307 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 1: Breaking Wait, that's like one of my biggest fears. 308 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's crazy. So it happened. 309 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 5: It's happened in real life, not quite to the extent, 310 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 5: but the crazy thing is. So we made that movie 311 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 5: in Utah. We got into sun Dance and so we 312 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 5: had this movie about being stuck on a ski lift 313 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 5: at the Sundance Film Festival. It was like, this is 314 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 5: the perfect audience for this movie. 315 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 2: Was like skiing. They're like, our skiing has been lower 316 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 2: than the. 317 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 4: Lower Yeah, exactly. 318 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, the attendants on the lift steve been low this season. 319 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 2: Wow, we're getting the finger to wrap it up. So 320 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 2: thank you for coming in and taking bank to you. 321 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 2: That was really, really fine, a wonderful time here, and 322 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 2: collect all the bracelets and. 323 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 4: Hopefully next time I see you both arms will be covered. 324 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 2: We'll get you an internet boyfriend bracelets. Thank you so much. 325 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 4: I appreciate it. 326 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 2: We have Bart Johnson in the house. 327 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 3: What a nice more welcome, that's so nice. Thank you, 328 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 3: so good to be here. 329 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:27,679 Speaker 2: I was so excited to see you on our rundown 330 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 2: people to talk to you. 331 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 3: Yes, I was breaking up. I was like, came out 332 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 3: of nowhere today we have a podcast. I said who, 333 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 3: and they said you guys. I was like, come, let's go. 334 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,719 Speaker 3: My old friends ever get to see I know. 335 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 2: What is it? Do you love coming to events like 336 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,319 Speaker 2: this where you get to interact with the fans? 337 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,600 Speaker 3: Love it? I'm kind of new, Like I started doing 338 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 3: this one for Disney with a Keny Ortega and all 339 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,880 Speaker 3: the high school musical and different kind of Disney musicals 340 00:13:52,160 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 3: in Paris every year. 341 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 7: Oh my god, like a deal. 342 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 3: And like the fans are so great, like they're so 343 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 3: gracious and they're so glad you there, and it's really, uh, 344 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 3: it's pretty awesome. Ye's great. I like to party with 345 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 3: my people, you know. 346 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, you are. 347 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 2: You and your wife Robin, who's one of my favorite 348 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 2: people in the world, are party people. Like your party energy. 349 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:17,079 Speaker 2: It's so fun to be around y'all. 350 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 3: Well, same same with you, of course. I think that's 351 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 3: why we hit it off right away. But yeah, we 352 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 3: do like our family. I just went to a family event. 353 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 3: There's like seventy five cousins there. So I think it's 354 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 3: like it's in our DNA. It's just it just is. 355 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: It's so fun. But when you took the how long? When? 356 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 2: What year was it when you got the role for 357 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 2: coach Bolton? 358 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that was like nineteen years ago. 359 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 2: Wow, could you ever imagine that? 360 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:46,360 Speaker 3: No, it is No, it was wild like as it 361 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 3: because it came out of nowhere too. I got a 362 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 3: call from I knew I met. This is a long story, 363 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 3: but I met Kenny Ortega on the set of Newsies 364 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 3: if you know that movie like way back with Christian 365 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 3: Bale and Dave Moscow's like Keiths anyway, and he just 366 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 3: kind of was involved in my career, like he's just 367 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,560 Speaker 3: been like really supportive. And my mom did his hair 368 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 3: the hair for the movies. So he's just like a 369 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 3: family friend for all these years. But he watched every 370 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 3: time I was on a TV series or did a movie. 371 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 3: He called it I loved you on that roll. So 372 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 3: this kind of came out of nowhere. I got the 373 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 3: phone call that said, hey, Listen, we're doing this movie. 374 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 3: It's small, it doesn't have a title yet. We're calling 375 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 3: it high school Musical until we come up with something. 376 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 3: No one's going to see it and there's no money, 377 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 3: but like we'll hang out, we'll have a great time. 378 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 3: I was, man, I'm totally in. 379 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 380 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: Wow, that's a really great lesson in life. 381 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 3: Actually this man say yes, yeah, say yes to those 382 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 3: opportunities for sure. 383 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it may look like a like a like 384 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: a dull penny, but that it could be a shining 385 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 1: diamond at the day. 386 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: Here's here's another crazy thing. I couldn't get a job 387 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 3: after this, Like for like the first ten years, high 388 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 3: school Musical was out because I was like I was 389 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 3: the dad in high school musical. Like I wasn't like 390 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 3: like the new Like who's that all. That's Zach g Frond, 391 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 3: that's Vanessa Hudgens. Okay, yeah they're cool, but like the dad, 392 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 3: like that doesn't really give you the heat you want. Really, 393 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 3: like they're call going, hey, get us the dad from 394 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 3: the high school. No, I'm not saying that, you know. 395 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:06,400 Speaker 3: So like I was, I didn't get I didn't have 396 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 3: like cool opportunities, not for like cool edgy like interesting 397 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 3: Netflix shows or anything like that. It was like I 398 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 3: tell you I was too and I get an unemployment. 399 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 3: But it all changed probably like ten years ago, all 400 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 3: of a sudden. Like what was interesting is I did I 401 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 3: did a TV series, a big network show, and when 402 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 3: I was like halfway through the show, then the show 403 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 3: runner came up to me and said, hey, by the way, 404 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 3: I'm a big Wildcat. So yeah, my wildcats now were 405 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 3: like then now they're running things. 406 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 4: So it's like it's all come back around. 407 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 3: And now it's like, I don't know, it's it's interesting 408 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 3: because I used to only be famous for little kids, 409 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 3: and like as time goes on, it's like, oh, I 410 00:16:49,440 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 3: see now they're now every vis in junior high. Oh 411 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 3: now was in high school? Oh now everybos in college. 412 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 2: You know. 413 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 3: So it's like I've got this like this big long 414 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 3: fan base of a Wildcats are looking out for their 415 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 3: coach now. So yeah, I got a nice audience. 416 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 2: So we have you and I have a thing where 417 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 2: you go to different countries and you'll tag me in 418 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 2: videos of McDonald's and so I'll repose the comments is 419 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 2: so sick, yes, and the idea literally my d are 420 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 2: like how do you know, Coach Bulton, Like this is 421 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,159 Speaker 2: my favorite collab ever, Like people love it so like 422 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 2: we need to pitch ourselves to McDonald's to do like 423 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 2: a tour tour. 424 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:30,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's good. 425 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:32,680 Speaker 1: McDonald's has been the best so far. 426 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 3: Man. 427 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 4: That's that's a tough question. 428 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 3: Tough one because they all got different stuff everywhere, you know, 429 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:40,879 Speaker 3: Like the one that Japan I just went to, they 430 00:17:40,920 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 3: had like a shrimp in their chicken sandwich. 431 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:44,360 Speaker 2: I can try. 432 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that sounds actually interesting. 433 00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's pretty interesting. Yeah, I don't know that. You know, 434 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 3: that's a question I'm going to work on and get 435 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 3: back to me. 436 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 2: You get back to Hamm. Yeah, you're really good at TikTok, 437 00:17:58,640 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 2: really good at TikTok. 438 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 3: Thanks. 439 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:02,479 Speaker 2: What do your kids say about your TikTok? 440 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 3: Oh, my gosh, they hate it. They hate it so much. 441 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 3: They just wish I never got that assay actually loves 442 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,920 Speaker 3: you things well, Robin has known, like I actually came 443 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 3: from like musical theater, and so when I got high 444 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 3: school musical I was supposed to have a song and 445 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 3: a dance in that movie, and the first one there 446 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 3: was a song and a dance like a competition one 447 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 3: like anything you could do, I could do better. I 448 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:25,919 Speaker 3: love competition in a darbus and they cut the sucker. 449 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: I never want to use moment. 450 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I think I'm finally getting into a musical. 451 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 3: And I was pretty young when I did that high 452 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 3: school music like I've never played a dad before. They're like, 453 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 3: you're gonna play a dad. I'm like a dad, Like, 454 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:39,240 Speaker 3: I've never done that before. So I think I'm gonna 455 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:41,280 Speaker 3: be doing all the singing and dancing. And I get 456 00:18:41,320 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 3: there to the movie and they're like you stand over 457 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 3: there on the sideline or we're gonna do all the 458 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 3: dancing you hear without you. I'm like, oh this sucks, man, 459 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 3: And a lot of those kids like they don't they 460 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 3: don't have a singing dancing background. I do singing dance. 461 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:56,439 Speaker 3: So and then the sequel comes out. I'm almost certainly 462 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,920 Speaker 3: now I danced pretty good at that rap party on 463 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 3: high school is going on there, no, no, not out, 464 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 3: and I'm like number three, like this is my moment 465 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,679 Speaker 3: to shine, man, I'm gonna do some singing and dancing nothing. 466 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 3: So then TikTok comes out and I have a lot 467 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 3: of people you're messaging me like you got you gotta 468 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 3: jump on okay, all right, I'll try. Yeah, now it's 469 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 3: my time. Yeah, because you could do whatever you want 470 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:17,640 Speaker 3: on TikTok, so let it be. 471 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 1: Another lesson in life. Yeah that's right, yeah right, yeah, 472 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 1: go do don't get what you want to do it yourself. 473 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 3: I haven't debuted my singing yet though, that's that's in. 474 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 2: The work coming. Instruments. 475 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, play a little, I play a little piano, little guitar. 476 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 2: What about the first track? What about the first track? 477 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, well yeah, I guess you know, whatever the kids 478 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,920 Speaker 3: want you, whatever the kids. 479 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 2: Want from. 480 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:42,919 Speaker 4: It's zaddi. 481 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:45,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, kids love that. 482 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 2: There was there was one first trap and then you 483 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,159 Speaker 2: got you deleted it, so. 484 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:54,400 Speaker 3: I didn't know about that. 485 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 2: As soon as it went not. 486 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 3: I s. 487 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 1: You're not quick enough for. 488 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 3: Online I love yeah, No, you know, I like the 489 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 3: the trends are fun and I like to try to 490 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,439 Speaker 3: find anytime a trend comes out, I always think like, okay, 491 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 3: I don't want to just do the tremble, like how 492 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 3: can I do like the coach version of this trend, 493 00:20:14,640 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 3: you know, or the and I get the best response 494 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 3: from you know, from that for my like little spin 495 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 3: on it I love you. 496 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 2: Like they go creepy, Like I'm like, when we need 497 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 2: a Coach Bolton musical. 498 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 3: We do. I've written one, actually I have. I have 499 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 3: so you know, I'll. 500 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 2: See what that like live high school. 501 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: You've done it, You've written one. 502 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,160 Speaker 3: You're so surprised. I guess I never mentioned. 503 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: It to anybody when you essence, you now have it. 504 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,399 Speaker 1: You did it. Why don't you get these people that 505 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,719 Speaker 1: are the Coach Bolton fans that are now like the 506 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:47,359 Speaker 1: people behind the scenes to make it. 507 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 3: That's true, that's good. 508 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 2: Can your taga? 509 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,919 Speaker 3: Yeah? You know, Kenny's like so good with like the 510 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 3: young kids, and like, you know, he's always like on 511 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,360 Speaker 3: the cutting edge of this. Yea, you know, I don't. 512 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:04,360 Speaker 3: I don't know if you wants to look for maybe 513 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 3: he does. Maybe I love Kendy so much, Like he's 514 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 3: so sweet. I've known him like my whole entire life, 515 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,399 Speaker 3: so I'm nothing bad to say back ever, like he 516 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 3: has like made such a good impression on me and 517 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 3: take care of my family and he's just been awesome. 518 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:16,160 Speaker 3: He's great. 519 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 2: I love that. What what's your dream role to play? 520 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 2: Like if you could, if someone was like you have 521 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:24,959 Speaker 2: the choice to play any role on TV movie whatever, 522 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:25,959 Speaker 2: What would it look like? 523 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,159 Speaker 3: Boy? You know, I guess I probably like jeez. I 524 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:31,120 Speaker 3: don't know if i'd want like Jason Bateman's crip. Maybe 525 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 3: because people always thought I looked like Jason. You ever 526 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 3: since I was a kid, people thought I looked like 527 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 3: Jason Bayman. It's a crazy not so much now and 528 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 3: I'm getting like John Cena and like it's kind of 529 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 3: some weird stuff like I don't know, I think they're 530 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 3: talking about the bike. 531 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 8: Yeah that's something like that. 532 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know. I really like those roles, 533 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:55,959 Speaker 3: but I don't know if that's a fun thing about them. 534 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 3: That's crazy. It's crazy. I didn't see it at all. 535 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,159 Speaker 3: It's like, what are people talking about? And then I 536 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 3: saw his picture was one particular picture John Cena was like, 537 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:08,440 Speaker 3: whole crap, man, I look like that dude. Yeah, I'll 538 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 3: take his career. I mean he's doing he's doing comedies, like. 539 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, he has gone into like oh yeah, well acting now, 540 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:18,200 Speaker 2: oh yeah, he's doing like. 541 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,359 Speaker 3: Cool action movie. I would love that. Kidding me, I 542 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 3: think a square in a second. But I really like Jase. 543 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 3: But you know, Jase Bailey directs and he acts and 544 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 3: I'm really interested in that too. I've done some directing 545 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:30,959 Speaker 3: and I love it so much. And writing. I love 546 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 3: writing too, So I don't working here, man, I'm. 547 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: Going to do a quick little gearship Robin have been 548 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:39,320 Speaker 1: married for how many years? 549 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 3: For I think this September is twenty five years? Can 550 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 3: you believe that September twenty f twenty five years? I 551 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 3: wish she was here, man, she was loving. 552 00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:52,719 Speaker 2: She's one of my favorite I just am obsessed with her. 553 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:56,360 Speaker 1: I want to know, because twenty five years, that's that's 554 00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 1: like what people strive for, you know what I mean? 555 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: Like that's like that's like the hope, the dream. How 556 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: how do you keep the twenty five years? 557 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:02,879 Speaker 2: What do you do? Like? 558 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:04,439 Speaker 1: Give me all the seat us we got? 559 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 3: How we have to come back from a much longer podcast. 560 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 3: But no, I have a lot to say about that, honestly, 561 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 3: like because we talk about it and we we uh 562 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 3: uh we work on it, and it's kind of I 563 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 3: don't know. I kind of think it's like. 564 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 1: It's like peaks and valleys. 565 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 3: Well it is, but it's also like what you put 566 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 3: in is what you get. I'm kind of like every 567 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 3: time I've given a talk because I give talks sometimes 568 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 3: because I like it, you know, like speeches or not speeches. 569 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 4: But like a talk ted talk. 570 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:30,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, look kind of like that. Yeah, I always too 571 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,399 Speaker 3: often I use the analogy of like the gym, you know, 572 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 3: like you go into the gym, Like if you go 573 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 3: ahead visit the gym every once in a while, you're 574 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,679 Speaker 3: not gonna see any results, you know. But if you 575 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 3: go in there and consistently work, and you work really hard, 576 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,040 Speaker 3: you're going to get some results. What you put in 577 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 3: is what you're going to get out. And I kind 578 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 3: of feel like a lot of people go to relationships 579 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 3: to receive, like oh I want this, I want this, 580 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 3: you know, and really your growth comes from you giving. 581 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,600 Speaker 3: So I think there's a lot to be said about that, 582 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,360 Speaker 3: Like show up to your relationship to give and light 583 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,959 Speaker 3: that person up and don't think about yourself, you know, 584 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 3: think about what can I give to this relationship? And 585 00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 3: the more you give, you're going to get back. And 586 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,439 Speaker 3: because you're in in that relationship. And then there's all 587 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 3: the all the things, all the work things. You know, 588 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 3: what do they want? What lights them up? And what's healthy? What? 589 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 3: What are good healthy decisions do you make in your 590 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 3: life for your relationship. So I think it's I mean, 591 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 3: you put it in the center of your life and 592 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,040 Speaker 3: it blesses your life. I think. You know. So we've 593 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 3: done that. We've like we've put our our kids and 594 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:20,080 Speaker 3: our family and our relationship like at the center of 595 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 3: our world. And our career has suffered because of it. No, 596 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 3: not really, but but but it is it is, right, Yeah, 597 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 3: you know I joke about but that's like you have 598 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 3: to do that. You have to You can't put your 599 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 3: career first because it's like that's not really fulfilling. People 600 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 3: think that's what where you give filment. That's not where 601 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 3: you give fulfillment from giving and sacrificing and contributing and sacrifice, 602 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:40,359 Speaker 3: you know. That kind of stuff is like there's your 603 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,440 Speaker 3: fulfillment and then all the fun stuff and the career 604 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 3: and the acting and the movies, and that's icing on 605 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 3: the cake. That's the that's the fun stuff. But yeah, yeah, I. 606 00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 2: Also feel like y'all just genuinely like each other, like 607 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 2: being in love with each other, y'all like it, like 608 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 2: y'all just enjoy y'all have fun together. 609 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 3: That's true. That's true. No, that's and and I don't 610 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,199 Speaker 3: know if I just kind of got lucky, because I 611 00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 3: don't think when I was in my twenties, I was like, 612 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,280 Speaker 3: that girl has really a lot of wonderful qualities as 613 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 3: a mother. You know, she'd be an amazing homemaker. Like 614 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 3: when you're in your twenties, you're so stupid, You're like, 615 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,560 Speaker 3: she's hot. It's a bid body, like I don't want 616 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 3: that ship you make any stupid and based on stupid decisions. 617 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 3: But I will say when I met Robin, I was 618 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 3: teaching acting class for her dad. Another long story, but 619 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 3: I'll tell it here. But she walked in the door 620 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 3: one day and I was like already friends with her 621 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,440 Speaker 3: sister Blake, like in acting classes for Ernie Lively's acting studios. 622 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 3: And she walked in the door and I was like, 623 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 3: that's the one. I'm going to marry that girl. And 624 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:38,879 Speaker 3: I was probably twenty five at the time, but the 625 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 3: way she lit up the room and her personality and 626 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,520 Speaker 3: everything I saw, I was like, that's it. That's like 627 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,199 Speaker 3: I saw her like genuine like I don't know, just 628 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:50,200 Speaker 3: like that energy she is she is oh so drawn 629 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 3: to that. And then it was like three years of 630 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 3: stocking until I got to date her. Yeah, but maybe 631 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 3: two and a half three years of like she was like, nah, 632 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 3: she had a boyfriend of the. 633 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,160 Speaker 1: Time, sneaky. 634 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was working from the inside. 635 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 4: Yea was very helpful in life. 636 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,159 Speaker 3: Persistence persistence, Well, you know, I had this mindset of like, oh, 637 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 3: these kind of girls, like they're never single, They're never like, 638 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,159 Speaker 3: oh cool, I'm single. I'm gonna go hang out at 639 00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 3: a bar, like they're not like that's you're not gonna 640 00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 3: you gotta do. 641 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:19,640 Speaker 1: You know what's wrong with the single girl at the bar? 642 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 3: Nothing's wrong with her. She just doesn't go to a 643 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 3: bar ever, Like she just doesn't go. 644 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 2: At the bar. 645 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,719 Speaker 3: She's just not there. She doesn't go there. Yeah, I'm 646 00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:32,640 Speaker 3: in more specifically for her, I should clear fat but well, 647 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 3: plenty of amazing people I was single Attle bar of course, 648 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 3: but but her, she didn't go to bar. She's literally 649 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:39,920 Speaker 3: never been to a bar, never went to parties, never 650 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 3: went out, she never went outside. So she like, you 651 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 3: know she so so I knew, like the only way 652 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,400 Speaker 3: what I noticed about the about is this is Robin Specifically, 653 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 3: she's an actress, right, She's been actresses she was three. 654 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 3: So every single boyfriend she had for the last like 655 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 3: fifteen years or all guys that she was on a 656 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 3: TV series with like those were her Yeah, and that was. 657 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 2: And it's really easy. 658 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 3: That's just because you don't ever go out ever, you 659 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:08,880 Speaker 3: don't ever socialize, So then the only time you socialize, 660 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,199 Speaker 3: you're on set and you have a scene where you're 661 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 3: just you're together. You know, when you shoot a movie, 662 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 3: you guys know, it's like you spend twelve hours a 663 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,120 Speaker 3: day with like one person. So that's who she dated. 664 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, well, how am I going to get on 665 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 3: TV Seria? I got how I did this girl? She 666 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 3: never goes out, So I was like, I gotta just 667 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 3: be I got to hang out and like like develop 668 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 3: the friendship and do that thing where it's like, oh, 669 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,199 Speaker 3: the best kind of people dated when people you had 670 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 3: a friendship first, Like okay, never done that before, but yes, 671 00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,080 Speaker 3: I gotta do. So started laying the groundwork, working from 672 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 3: the inside, hanging out with the family, and uh just 673 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 3: kind of like waited for the opportunity. And then she 674 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:45,159 Speaker 3: finally got single, someone else swooped in. Yeah, and I 675 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 3: had to do it again. It was terrible, so painful, 676 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it's so hard. I mean there was 677 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,200 Speaker 3: a lot of humility, a lot of broken heart, a 678 00:27:56,240 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 3: lot of just one, just one one broken heart, right, Yeah, yeah, 679 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 3: it's pretty brutal. It was, it was. It was tough. 680 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 3: It was tough, but I've worked through it. 681 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 2: It worked out. 682 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a great story, like how the whole thing 683 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 3: like went down. But some of the black people have 684 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 3: encouraged to write a movie about you don't have to 685 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 3: embellish a thing. 686 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 2: Man. 687 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 3: It is so heartbreaking, but you don't hate. Twenty five 688 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 3: years later and uh, you got the girl. 689 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:25,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I got the girl. 690 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I got the redhead with the three redheaded kids. 691 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,880 Speaker 3: And it's uh, it's it's a good it's a great life. 692 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 3: I love it. 693 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,639 Speaker 2: I love that. I love our family. I know, I know, 694 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 2: before we go, what's your toxic trade, toxic trait. It's 695 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 2: like the lighthearted toxic truit. 696 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 3: Oh oh gosh, you're always late. Oh okay, oh I eat 697 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 3: too much? Oh yeah, yeah for sure. I literally like 698 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 3: I last night I got here to Chicago and I 699 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 3: was like, okay, they have a gym. Let me go 700 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 3: check out the gym. And the gym like sucked. It's 701 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 3: terrible here. And I was like, okay, Giordano's is like 702 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,920 Speaker 3: five minutes away, so I was like, let's go to 703 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 3: your daughter's. I got a whole big pizza of myself 704 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 3: and ate every single I did not leave a bite 705 00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 3: on the table. 706 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 2: And then you're just like, yeah, yeah, I feel like 707 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 2: I would have a better career, more money, and a 708 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 2: better life if I would just less. 709 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 3: So yeah, I can't do it too. And then we'll 710 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 3: just go to McDonald's world tour. 711 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 2: We love you so much, thank you for taking have 712 00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 2: so much fun this today. 713 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 3: And this is a great start. I just arrived and 714 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 3: this is amazing. 715 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're the best. Thank you. All right, you guys, 716 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,240 Speaker 2: we have David Limb here. 717 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:56,959 Speaker 6: What a warm welcome thing. 718 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, that's how we do it in the 719 00:29:58,560 --> 00:29:58,880 Speaker 1: O R. 720 00:29:59,320 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 6: What's so R? 721 00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,080 Speaker 1: That's that's our podcast? 722 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 4: Oh okay, cool, where's the stand for operating room? 723 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 6: Okay? 724 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 2: Our podcast name comes from we We just celebrated our 725 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 2: seven years yesterday, so thank you so much. 726 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 9: Amazing, but we we got you by one year eld 727 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 9: season eight. 728 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, but y'all have had some complicated journey. Yeah but yeah, 729 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 2: our podcast is called Scrubbing In because of our love 730 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,240 Speaker 2: for Grady's anatomy, so we reference ourselves. 731 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 4: As wed Yeah. Yeah cool. 732 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 2: So, speaking of the bumps in the road on SWAT 733 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,080 Speaker 2: were you has it been an emotional roller coaster? 734 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 9: Yes, no doubt for sure. I mean we we've been dealing, 735 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 9: uh with the emotions when you since the pilot. When 736 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 9: you get a show, you know, you're like, great, I'm 737 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 9: part of this really cool pilot. More swatch Sean Ryan 738 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 9: from the Shield, Justin lenn Is directing. So it's like 739 00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 9: you're overwhelmed with so much shoy that you're a part 740 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 9: of something. Okay, then you got to go make it, 741 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 9: and then you got to see if you get picked up, right, 742 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 9: So you're you're constantly wondering, are we even going to 743 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 9: be able to make a season of this? 744 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:11,120 Speaker 4: Okay? 745 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,320 Speaker 9: Then you get picked up season one? Congratulations? 746 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:15,040 Speaker 6: Great? 747 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 9: Now are we going to get a back nine of 748 00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 9: the first season. So we've been going through this for 749 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 9: and at the end of each season, you you know, 750 00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 9: are we going to get canceled? Are we going to 751 00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 9: get picked up? And then obviously the last couple of 752 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:30,960 Speaker 9: years we've been canceled. After season six uncanceled, Well. 753 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 1: How does that happen? 754 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 2: How do you get uncanceled. 755 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, sounds like the dream. 756 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 9: Shamar Schamar had a lot to do with it, our 757 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 9: fans had had a lot to do with it. And 758 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,160 Speaker 9: there's a lot of things that go on behind the 759 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 9: scenes of getting the show made, all the political the 760 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 9: economics of doing a show, and in today's world of 761 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 9: five hundred different scripted shows, all sorts of streaming platforms, 762 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 9: it's no longer that, you know, you get good ratings 763 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:01,440 Speaker 9: and you get great viewership, which we've always had, and 764 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 9: you automatically come back, that's no longer you know how 765 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 9: it works. 766 00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 6: There's so many other factors that come into play. 767 00:32:07,880 --> 00:32:10,880 Speaker 9: So we were just super fortunate and a little bit 768 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 9: we had some luck on our side too, to canceled. Uncanceled. 769 00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 9: Here's season seven, it's gonna be your final season. Wrap 770 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,240 Speaker 9: up the storylines, and then we always knew in the 771 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 9: back of our mind that that if we just delivered 772 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,280 Speaker 9: a really good season that there might be a chance 773 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 9: that we can come back and do season eight, because 774 00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 9: we all wanted toeah and now here we are. 775 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 2: That's so cool. I don't think I've ever I don't 776 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 2: know if I've heard of that happening. 777 00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: It's happened it feels like an emotional journey. 778 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah. 779 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 9: I was just telling a couple of the fans who 780 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 9: I met signing autographs. We thought season seven was our last. 781 00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 9: I was getting ready to say my goodbyes to a 782 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,800 Speaker 9: show that I've been part of for seven years. So 783 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 9: you know that I was getting stealing myself. I'm not 784 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 9: gonna be emotional. My god, I'm not gonna cry. And 785 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 9: on the last day, I was getting ready to say 786 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 9: Mike goodbyes, and I thought we were done. Samar gets 787 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 9: up in our boxing ring at our HQ at Swat HQ, 788 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,840 Speaker 9: and he says, we're coming back, and we're coming back 789 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 9: for twenty two more episodes. And I looked around and 790 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 9: people were in tears. You know. 791 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 4: I looked at Jay. 792 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 9: We're like, I'm like, dude, I've never seen crying before. 793 00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 9: You know, we're like crying. We're hugging all of our 794 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 9: crew who love making the show. It meant that they 795 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,640 Speaker 9: had jobs for another another year in a time where 796 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 9: it's where it's really tough. As you know, we've dealt 797 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 9: with strikes, pandemics, So it just meant a lot to 798 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 9: a lot of people to come back and that we overcame. 799 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, that's amazing. So now I have a 800 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 2: question going on to a show like SWAT where it's 801 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 2: like physically demanding, yes, how many how much of the 802 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 2: action are you doing? And then I'm assuming they're sun coordinators. 803 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 6: Right, we have stunt coordinators. 804 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 9: We all have stunt double but we do a lot 805 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 9: of our own stunts, and we do a lot of 806 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 9: action in Chamar Jay and myself, the whole cast, we 807 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,399 Speaker 9: joke all the time. The acting part is not hard 808 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 9: on SWAT. It's the physicality of the show that's the 809 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:19,440 Speaker 9: most challenging. Because you're in the gear for ten twelve 810 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 9: hours a day. We're doing our own stunts when they allow. 811 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 9: Some stunts are a little dangerous, like when people are 812 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 9: hanging off the side of helicopters and exploding through semis. 813 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 9: They don't let us do that stuff. We leave that 814 00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:35,400 Speaker 9: to the stunt doubles and the pros, but we do 815 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,680 Speaker 9: a lot. Of us are former athletes, so we're capable 816 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 9: of doing our own action and chase sequences and tackles 817 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,000 Speaker 9: and takedowns and fight scenes, and as actors, you can 818 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 9: always tell, like when you're stunt double on the final 819 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 9: cut I'm like, that's clearly my stunt double, you know, 820 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,279 Speaker 9: so none of us want that, you know. But then 821 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 9: ten to fifteen takes into the fight sequence when you're like, 822 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 9: you hurt you, you banged up your knee, you accidentally 823 00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 9: got hit in one of the takes. You know, the 824 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 9: gear is super heavy. Then you're like, Okay, maybe I 825 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,320 Speaker 9: should have left this one to the to the double. 826 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,440 Speaker 9: But we're just all we all love doing it. And 827 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 9: so but to answer your question, yes, we do a 828 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,040 Speaker 9: lot of our own action. 829 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,800 Speaker 2: So you have to stay physically in shape. 830 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you train all the time? 831 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,640 Speaker 9: We do on our own time. Like we all just 832 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,680 Speaker 9: keep in shape and work out. And we know when 833 00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,360 Speaker 9: we're coming back for a season that it's a grind. 834 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 9: It's twenty two episodes, it's it's out of the year 835 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 9: of filming and there. Once that train starts, it doesn't stop. 836 00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,440 Speaker 9: So once you start episode one, you're not getting a 837 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 9: break until maybe Christmas, and then you're finishing out the season. 838 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:49,359 Speaker 9: So it's it's really taxing on the body. You got 839 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:50,840 Speaker 9: to make sure you get your sleep, you got to 840 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 9: make sure you're in great physical shape, and then it's 841 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:58,760 Speaker 9: constantly like maintenance throughout the season, you're always nursing some. 842 00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 6: Sort of bump or b. 843 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:03,160 Speaker 4: Always. 844 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 6: I mean, if you talk to samar if you get 845 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 6: him in here, ask. 846 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 9: Him what his h his maintenance routine is outside of work, 847 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,720 Speaker 9: and you'll get a laundry. 848 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:16,400 Speaker 2: List of It's like a job on top of the job. Yeah, 849 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 2: how do you handle that? Because you're you're married, correct, 850 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,919 Speaker 2: how do you handle the balance of relationship in such 851 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,840 Speaker 2: a strenuous schedule. 852 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:29,319 Speaker 9: Well, thankfully we get weekends off, so you know, but 853 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 9: usually weekends we're catching up on like the next script 854 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 9: or studying preparing for the next the next week. But 855 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 9: my wife knows that when we're in season, it's just 856 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 9: she's going to get a very tired version of me. 857 00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 6: But we always you know, you do what you you you. 858 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 9: You work hard during the week and then you leave 859 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,640 Speaker 9: that and then when you have a day off or 860 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 9: you have your weekends, then you you know, you go 861 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 9: do have your personal family time and you know, hang 862 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 9: with the dog and the wife, go on little trips 863 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:01,840 Speaker 9: and stuff. 864 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:07,480 Speaker 1: Our listeners are they're either dating, looking looking for love. 865 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: What is something that when you met your wife that 866 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 1: like made her stand out? You were like, I have 867 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:12,520 Speaker 1: to marry her. 868 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know if I knew that right away. 869 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,320 Speaker 2: I wanted to monogamously. 870 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 9: You know what it was. I wasn't looking for to 871 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,160 Speaker 9: date and I and I was. I was kind of 872 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,800 Speaker 9: newly single at the time. This was gosh uh a 873 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,360 Speaker 9: ten years ago now as we've been married for five. 874 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,680 Speaker 9: But I wasn't looking for to date or for love 875 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 9: at the time, and I think that's how it how 876 00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:38,520 Speaker 9: it happened. 877 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 6: It just kind of organically, you know. 878 00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:45,120 Speaker 9: I met somebody and she happened to be amazing, and 879 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 9: we connected and we started hanging out. 880 00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 6: And even though I wasn't necessarily looking for a relationship, 881 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:51,160 Speaker 6: I would have. 882 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,440 Speaker 9: Been a fool to let her go exactly. And that's 883 00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 9: how I knew I wanted to marry her too. I 884 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,200 Speaker 9: was like, if I don't want to marry this girl, 885 00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,720 Speaker 9: like what am I? 886 00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 6: What am I looking for? 887 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 3: Yeah? 888 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 1: So it's so interesting because I feel like that's the 889 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,760 Speaker 1: that's the thing. Like I feel like everybody when you're dating, 890 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,360 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, is this it? Or is there something better? 891 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: Like that's always like that question, you know what I mean. 892 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 1: And I feel like when you know, you just know, 893 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:14,759 Speaker 1: you're like that's it. 894 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, applies to everything in life. Great. You always 895 00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 6: think the grass is green? 896 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:19,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, so true. 897 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 6: And sometimes you don't know how good you have until 898 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 6: you you don't have it anymore. 899 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:24,040 Speaker 3: Right. 900 00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 2: So y'all met on a modeling shoot correct. 901 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, not too far from here in Minneapolis, and 902 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:33,120 Speaker 9: we were joking because it was a modeling job for 903 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:36,400 Speaker 9: Macy's that traveled to different cities and the second stop 904 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:37,040 Speaker 9: was Chicago. 905 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 6: So we met in Minneapolis. 906 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 9: Then this show went to Chicago and ended up in 907 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 9: San Francisco in La so we kind of like. 908 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 6: Hung out and we were hanging out. 909 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 9: Yeah, we were at the checking out the Bean downtown, 910 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,919 Speaker 9: we were on the bridges, we were you know, hanging 911 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 9: out in all these different cities. 912 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:54,840 Speaker 6: And that's how it started. 913 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 2: Like remember our first date when I took you to 914 00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,320 Speaker 2: the Bean and she's like that was work. 915 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, no, but we still reminisce. Even when I 916 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,839 Speaker 9: was coming out to Chicago this weekend. I was like, oh, 917 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:05,840 Speaker 9: remember when. 918 00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:07,919 Speaker 6: We, you know, Chicago, two years ago. 919 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 2: So were you acting before I mean sorry, were you 920 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:14,080 Speaker 2: modeling before you got into acting? Was it all cohesively together? 921 00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 6: Kind of kind of cohesively together? 922 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 9: I always knew I wanted to be an actor acting, 923 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:20,640 Speaker 9: it just was harder to get jobs. 924 00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 6: At the beginning. 925 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 9: I was like, oh, you got to study and actually 926 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,520 Speaker 9: this will you have to skill. You have to get 927 00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 9: good at this thing before you can get some jobs. 928 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 9: And so in while I was training to become an 929 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 9: actor and in class I was, I was getting some 930 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,840 Speaker 9: modeling jobs and doing some commercials. And I feel like 931 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 9: that's kind of how a lot of works. Because a 932 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 9: lot of the guys I was coming up with who 933 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 9: were modeling, we all wanted. 934 00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:45,080 Speaker 6: To be actors. 935 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,880 Speaker 9: It just it's it's a long I think it's a 936 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,759 Speaker 9: longer journey, yeah, to find steady work as an actor, right. 937 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 2: Well, I also feel like there's so many people that 938 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,080 Speaker 2: are in the modeling industry and you act, like you said, 939 00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,440 Speaker 2: acting you have to study and stuff. But I actually 940 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:04,439 Speaker 2: think modeling seems very complicated too, Like not everyone can 941 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 2: just model, you know. 942 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 9: Yeah, no, my wife has done it since she was 943 00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:13,240 Speaker 9: fifteen years old, and she's traveled the world and she's 944 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:17,880 Speaker 9: very experienced. And yes, modeling is it's a superficial industry. 945 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 9: It's a lot of it's how you look nowadays, it's 946 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:21,800 Speaker 9: a little different I think they're more open. 947 00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, but it is. It is a skill. 948 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 9: It is a business, and you have to you know, 949 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 9: get experience, and you have to you know, you have 950 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 9: to to learn how to It's not easy to just 951 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 9: she makes it look easy to do all these like poses. 952 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,280 Speaker 6: And walk the runway. That's a skill. 953 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 9: So I tell her all the time, I'm like, your 954 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,560 Speaker 9: name you you crush it. You have experience, like you've 955 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:47,439 Speaker 9: done it all. 956 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 2: So how does she handle it? So? Is she an 957 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:51,840 Speaker 2: actress or she strictly modeling? 958 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 4: She just models? Okay, except when she runs my lines 959 00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:55,480 Speaker 4: with me? 960 00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 2: Okay, which is important. 961 00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 6: You need it very important. 962 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,479 Speaker 9: You, me and Runner need somebody to run those lines, 963 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 9: you know, because when you look at it yourself, for like, 964 00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 9: nothing nothing sinks in But when you read it with somebody, 965 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,439 Speaker 9: all of a sudden everything makes sense. 966 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,279 Speaker 2: Yeah. So does she when you come to things like 967 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,880 Speaker 2: this and people are like or just being an actor 968 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,720 Speaker 2: in general, and people falling in love with your character 969 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 2: and girls, you know, commenting on your Instagram and DM 970 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 2: and you does she how does has that been weird 971 00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 2: for her at all? 972 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:25,359 Speaker 4: Or is she just like not gig? 973 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:31,240 Speaker 9: No, she understands it, you know, She's modeled for years, 974 00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 9: so she understands the industry. 975 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:35,760 Speaker 6: She's a pro. 976 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 9: You know. She's also European, so she's not as like uptight, 977 00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 9: I feel like, as as as some Americans might be. 978 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 9: She's like, oh yeah, cool, all right, you know whatever. Yeah, 979 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:46,880 Speaker 9: you gotta kiss a girl on set today. 980 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:50,560 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I'm just gonna take your credit card. 981 00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 4: I'm just gonna take your credit card. I'll go to rodeo. 982 00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:57,279 Speaker 2: You know, nice little trade off back you get to 983 00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,240 Speaker 2: kiss another girl. We're both happy. 984 00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:03,080 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but we know she knows like we're 985 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:06,240 Speaker 9: I'm a pro, been doing it for a long time. 986 00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,719 Speaker 9: And like she and I, we got so much love 987 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:10,600 Speaker 9: for each other, and we trust each other and love 988 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 9: each other so much that it's like, yeah, go go 989 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,640 Speaker 9: do your thing and then you know, and then come home. 990 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, the special special lady. 991 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:21,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is yeah, very confident and also Yalla, the 992 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,239 Speaker 2: way you speak about her, it seems like Yelberry. There's 993 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,400 Speaker 2: a lot of trust and love and just respect for 994 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:26,759 Speaker 2: each other. 995 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, trust, love and respect. If you have that, everything 996 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:29,799 Speaker 9: else is easy. 997 00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:34,880 Speaker 2: Okay, before we go, what is your toxic trait? Not traumatic? 998 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 2: This is not chirpy, but more like like I'm always late, 999 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 2: Tanya doesn't have I won't have a. 1000 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:46,160 Speaker 9: Job if I Yeah, toxic, Uh trade, that is a 1001 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:46,560 Speaker 9: good one. 1002 00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,000 Speaker 6: That's a that's a tough. 1003 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:51,240 Speaker 2: Tough What does your wife nag you about? Not nag, 1004 00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 2: but what does she say, like you do this? 1005 00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 1: Like do you pile the trash up before every any 1006 00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:57,319 Speaker 1: last crime? 1007 00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:02,040 Speaker 6: A clean dude, I and help her clean around. 1008 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:04,839 Speaker 4: This is a tough one. I need some more examples. 1009 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,839 Speaker 2: Someone said they get they turn into a monster when 1010 00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:11,960 Speaker 2: they're hungry. They eat too much, to the point where 1011 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:13,919 Speaker 2: you know, there's they're like, I eat too much. 1012 00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,279 Speaker 1: I had a lot of heart spatial awareness. I like 1013 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:18,360 Speaker 1: to be really close to people. 1014 00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:22,320 Speaker 4: No, that's something I know. There's some stuff. 1015 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,799 Speaker 1: You're perfect. No toxic trade. 1016 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,000 Speaker 4: No, I know toxic. 1017 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 6: Maybe toxic is extreme. 1018 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,200 Speaker 2: You know an annoying trade? 1019 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:33,840 Speaker 6: Annoying trade? 1020 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:34,560 Speaker 7: Uh? 1021 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:38,880 Speaker 2: Do you leave your shaving clippings and the toenail clippings 1022 00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 2: in the same buy. 1023 00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,920 Speaker 6: My nails there it is. Yeah, I've been doing it 1024 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 6: for years. Yeah, by them all the time. 1025 00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 3: We got it. 1026 00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:49,839 Speaker 7: Knew it. 1027 00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:51,520 Speaker 9: I knew it, and my wife will catch me just 1028 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:55,200 Speaker 9: like stop that stopping. Since I was a kid, I 1029 00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 9: don't know how to stop. 1030 00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:58,359 Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for taking time. 1031 00:43:58,440 --> 00:43:59,359 Speaker 1: Yes, thank you so much. 1032 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,640 Speaker 2: Really appreciate fun today. 1033 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:03,440 Speaker 6: Thank you. 1034 00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 2: All Right, everybody, we have Colin Donald. Yeah, welcome. I 1035 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:30,719 Speaker 2: love it. Okay, So you and Tanya actually go back 1036 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:31,239 Speaker 2: a little bit. 1037 00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:32,279 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh. 1038 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,520 Speaker 1: It was a long time ago at iHeart Festival. 1039 00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:40,240 Speaker 7: Oh oh boy. 1040 00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,280 Speaker 1: So I had just gone through like a really bad breakup, 1041 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 1: like like heartbroken, like devastated, and I was like at 1042 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:49,719 Speaker 1: this point where I was like I'm never gonna have 1043 00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 1: fun again. Like I just was like you know that 1044 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 1: phase when you go through a breakup and you're like 1045 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:54,359 Speaker 1: I don't want to look at a guy, I hate 1046 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:57,040 Speaker 1: them all, like that type of thing. And then I 1047 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 1: went to the festival and I met you, and you 1048 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 1: were like my gateway and to be like I can. 1049 00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:02,880 Speaker 4: Do this again. 1050 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,160 Speaker 2: This is all I wanted from this. This was all 1051 00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 2: I want. 1052 00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:10,480 Speaker 10: Oh I'm so glad there's not video on this podcast. 1053 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,880 Speaker 4: Well that is uh, it's good to see you. 1054 00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 1: It got me back into the like I can do 1055 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:18,640 Speaker 1: this again. 1056 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:19,840 Speaker 2: I know she's engaged. 1057 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:22,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. 1058 00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 3: Wow. 1059 00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:27,520 Speaker 10: Yeah, that was an unexpected start to this interview. 1060 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 3: I did not. 1061 00:45:31,200 --> 00:45:32,719 Speaker 2: To get out of the way because I saw the 1062 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,200 Speaker 2: photo and I was like, wow, we have to talk 1063 00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,120 Speaker 2: about this is so fun, and I go. 1064 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,600 Speaker 1: I told Beck, I was like, I guarantee you he's 1065 00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,360 Speaker 1: not gonna remember because this was so long ago. It 1066 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 1: was my gateway. It was like, that was my that 1067 00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:49,960 Speaker 1: was my my launch pad into like back into life. 1068 00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 2: You're the reason she's engaged. 1069 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,160 Speaker 1: Basically, I have you to think. 1070 00:45:53,719 --> 00:46:01,760 Speaker 4: All right, hero, all right, anyway, work stuff. 1071 00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:09,840 Speaker 10: I'm sure that I am bright red, calmly. 1072 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,240 Speaker 7: It's like a sneak attack. It is amazing. 1073 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,880 Speaker 1: It was so I mean, it's just I can't explain 1074 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 1: to you kind of the season of life that I 1075 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,480 Speaker 1: was in, you know what I mean, Like it was 1076 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,680 Speaker 1: I get it. Yeah, I'm sure everybody gets it. 1077 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. I also like my first time ever being blacked 1078 00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 2: out on the ground was at iHeart Festival, so I 1079 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,359 Speaker 2: understand the experience of that. 1080 00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:36,399 Speaker 10: I remember doing an interview there where I I think 1081 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:41,520 Speaker 10: I crashed Steven Emmel's interview and said something inane about 1082 00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,160 Speaker 10: wanting to get out and see Pitbull. 1083 00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:45,919 Speaker 8: It was uh. 1084 00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,600 Speaker 7: Something yeah. 1085 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, Anyhowuck has been on. 1086 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:54,840 Speaker 1: The bathroom floor multiple years. 1087 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 2: Yeah, I heard festival brings out either the best, best, 1088 00:46:58,440 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 2: or worse. 1089 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 10: You just I don't know if it's fine lines, it's 1090 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 10: Vegas and apparently this thing that happened in Vegas didn't 1091 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 10: stay in Vegas anyhow. 1092 00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:13,440 Speaker 2: Okay, going into work stuff, Yes, when you're learning a script, 1093 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 2: what is harder? What is harder in the in your world? 1094 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:23,479 Speaker 2: Is it singing and dancing or learning medical? Because yeah, 1095 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:24,839 Speaker 2: go ahead. 1096 00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:24,960 Speaker 3: No, I was. 1097 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:29,920 Speaker 10: It's it's all like learning a language, right, So you know, 1098 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:34,440 Speaker 10: once you get into the rhythm of learning those learning 1099 00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,520 Speaker 10: steps and songs, then you get more and more practice 1100 00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:39,560 Speaker 10: at it, and you like, you flex the muscle a 1101 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,239 Speaker 10: little bit more, and it becomes a little bit more 1102 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,560 Speaker 10: second nature. And that was the same thing when I 1103 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:47,240 Speaker 10: started doing Med. That first season was like being shot 1104 00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,080 Speaker 10: out of a cannon and yeah, sure, I know what 1105 00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:52,640 Speaker 10: anything means, and you're just doing it phonetically. And then 1106 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,640 Speaker 10: as you get more comfortable with it, and luckily we 1107 00:47:55,920 --> 00:48:01,000 Speaker 10: just have we've got professionals, actual doctors and consultants on 1108 00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 10: the show that helps through that sort of thing, so 1109 00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,200 Speaker 10: it becomes easier. But you know, when you first start 1110 00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,759 Speaker 10: doing that stuff, I mean, I think if somebody were 1111 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:11,319 Speaker 10: to try to teach me to dance right now, I'd 1112 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:14,759 Speaker 10: be like, no, I'm good, I'm just gonna stand here. 1113 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:16,440 Speaker 10: Everybody else can dance around me. 1114 00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:19,719 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, You're like, I feel more comfortable not dancing. Yeah, 1115 00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:21,600 Speaker 2: So please let them do the work. 1116 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:23,520 Speaker 1: How many months of the year do you shoot? 1117 00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:29,320 Speaker 10: Golly, we would for Chicago ed twenty two episodes. The 1118 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:32,040 Speaker 10: season takes about ten months. That is, so you're like 1119 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,840 Speaker 10: you're deep into it for like nine or ten months 1120 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 10: a year. That's that's generally how long like a twenty 1121 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,279 Speaker 10: two episode network television show takes. 1122 00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:42,080 Speaker 2: But that's the goal. 1123 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:43,600 Speaker 1: Like a lot of people, I feel like a lot 1124 00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:46,480 Speaker 1: of actors have shows and things where they go like 1125 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:48,319 Speaker 1: they do it in two months, three months, and then 1126 00:48:48,320 --> 00:48:50,080 Speaker 1: they're back, And I feel like that's the goals to 1127 00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:51,960 Speaker 1: have something that's like steady that many episodes. 1128 00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, it's an amazing gift when it can happen, 1129 00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 10: and it doesn't happen as much anymore. You see television 1130 00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:01,840 Speaker 10: now is mostly like ten twelve episode or even shorter sometimes, 1131 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 10: and it's great to have that kind of steady gig 1132 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:07,759 Speaker 10: go on for you know. I did over eighty some 1133 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,880 Speaker 10: odd episodes of Chicago med over the four and a 1134 00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 10: sliver of a season that I was there in five 1135 00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 10: and it was awesome, Like I wouldn't change it for 1136 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,239 Speaker 10: the world, and it's and then I've gone off to 1137 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,080 Speaker 10: do like you know, I shot a show that was 1138 00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:24,080 Speaker 10: ten episodes over seven months, and it's just a different, 1139 00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:25,719 Speaker 10: different kind of experience. 1140 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:27,920 Speaker 7: But the. 1141 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 10: Grind, for less of a better word, of doing twenty 1142 00:49:35,080 --> 00:49:38,400 Speaker 10: two episodes so quickly and just getting into the rhythm 1143 00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:40,759 Speaker 10: of that. You see how hard these crews work to 1144 00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:44,720 Speaker 10: make that happen week after week we shoot an episode 1145 00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:49,359 Speaker 10: in eight days and to do that for all those 1146 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,880 Speaker 10: moving parts to work in unison to make that happen 1147 00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:55,040 Speaker 10: is really inspiring. And it's what a lot of people 1148 00:49:55,120 --> 00:50:00,160 Speaker 10: don't see as watchers of television. They don't see all 1149 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:03,840 Speaker 10: those names on the credits going to work. Yeah, it's 1150 00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:07,840 Speaker 10: these things don't get made unless all of those people 1151 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:11,840 Speaker 10: come together and believe in a show that can get 1152 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,600 Speaker 10: to the screen after eight days of shooting in a 1153 00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,080 Speaker 10: little bit of time after to edit and you know, 1154 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,480 Speaker 10: make it all glue together. 1155 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,360 Speaker 1: And what is it like when you're at conventions like 1156 00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,440 Speaker 1: this one, Like when you actually get to see the 1157 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:27,239 Speaker 1: fans meet the fans get the bracelets from the fans. 1158 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,920 Speaker 10: It's it's it's amazing because you know, coming from theater, 1159 00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,360 Speaker 10: there is an access to the people you're watching on stage. 1160 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,399 Speaker 10: You know, we come out of the stage door after 1161 00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:40,720 Speaker 10: the show and there's fans that are lined up outside 1162 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:42,480 Speaker 10: of the stage door that we get to interact with. 1163 00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 10: And you get that immediate response when you're on stage. 1164 00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:46,880 Speaker 10: You get people applauding for you at the end of 1165 00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:51,239 Speaker 10: the show and hopefully standing or whatever it is. And 1166 00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 10: it's fun that places like this, events like this exist 1167 00:50:55,760 --> 00:51:00,160 Speaker 10: because then we get to actually, you know, connect with 1168 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 10: people who have connected with our work. 1169 00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:05,799 Speaker 7: That we wouldn't otherwise get to know. 1170 00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,160 Speaker 10: Like you know, I've had so many stories over the 1171 00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:15,120 Speaker 10: years of doing these types of conventions. 1172 00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:17,680 Speaker 7: Where shows that have done have provided. 1173 00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:20,839 Speaker 10: People with, you know, an escape from whatever they were 1174 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:22,719 Speaker 10: going through at the time, or helped them work through 1175 00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,160 Speaker 10: something they were going through in their lives. And it's 1176 00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:28,759 Speaker 10: you know, it's easy sometimes to think about, you know, 1177 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,840 Speaker 10: I'm just doing another medical show, yeah, or I'm doing 1178 00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 10: a comic book show. But to somebody who's watching who 1179 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:39,759 Speaker 10: really finds something in it that they connect to and 1180 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:41,719 Speaker 10: that they love about it, and that they connect to 1181 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,560 Speaker 10: the character that I'm playing and have them express that 1182 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 10: to me, it makes me feel like I'm doing something 1183 00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 10: that is worthwhile, yeah, which is ultimately what got me 1184 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:52,480 Speaker 10: into the business in the first place. 1185 00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's like for you and if through the 1186 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 2: mundane of going to work every day, you're like, I'm 1187 00:51:57,960 --> 00:51:59,919 Speaker 2: just showing up for job, right like everyone. 1188 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:01,960 Speaker 4: Else sort of, Yes, but it is a job at 1189 00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:02,360 Speaker 4: the end of the. 1190 00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:06,279 Speaker 1: Days like a box you're doing it in like a 1191 00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:08,839 Speaker 1: like a bubble, you know. So it's like to see it, 1192 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,239 Speaker 1: to see the fans. That's like, that's what you're doing 1193 00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:11,440 Speaker 1: it for. 1194 00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:12,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, to see Yeah. 1195 00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:15,479 Speaker 10: And and ultimately, I mean you're right, like, we don't 1196 00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:18,600 Speaker 10: do this if it weren't for the fans. Like you know, art, 1197 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:21,640 Speaker 10: to me, art doesn't exist in a vacuum, right, It's 1198 00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:25,160 Speaker 10: meant to be seen and experienced by people, whatever your 1199 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:29,879 Speaker 10: medium is. So it's it's really great to be able 1200 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:31,640 Speaker 10: to get that sort of feedback at the end of 1201 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:34,720 Speaker 10: the day and to to know that what you're putting 1202 00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:38,320 Speaker 10: out into the world is being appreciated and sometimes taken 1203 00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:39,239 Speaker 10: really to heart. 1204 00:52:39,480 --> 00:52:44,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, do you when you come to these things, is 1205 00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 2: it do you have a reaction from different parts of 1206 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:51,040 Speaker 2: your career where people are like, I know, I love 1207 00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:52,760 Speaker 2: you from you know X Yeah. 1208 00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,040 Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean there's there's some people who 1209 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,799 Speaker 10: have you know, been watching me from the time that 1210 00:52:57,840 --> 00:52:58,560 Speaker 10: I was on Arrow. 1211 00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:00,520 Speaker 7: Uh, people who. 1212 00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:04,279 Speaker 10: Have you know, really followed my career from uh, from 1213 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,759 Speaker 10: the beginnings of it, whether it was zero or even 1214 00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:11,440 Speaker 10: before that, whether if they were fans of Broadway and 1215 00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,840 Speaker 10: musical theater who knew me from either seeing me on 1216 00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,799 Speaker 10: Broadway or listening to me on on cast recordings that 1217 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:18,279 Speaker 10: I've done. 1218 00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:19,640 Speaker 7: Uh. 1219 00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:23,400 Speaker 10: And it's it's a really flattering thing to have somebody 1220 00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:27,759 Speaker 10: follow you in your career. Yeah, as you've grown up yourself, 1221 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,920 Speaker 10: I mean, and you know, gotten to play different characters 1222 00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 10: and maybe they tuned into the next show you did 1223 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,200 Speaker 10: because they loved you in the previous. 1224 00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:36,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1225 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,440 Speaker 7: And it's it's awesome. 1226 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:40,239 Speaker 2: I know, it's so cool. It's fun. We were saying, 1227 00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,120 Speaker 2: like people fall in love with the first project they 1228 00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,080 Speaker 2: see you in and then they get there like I 1229 00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:48,879 Speaker 2: want it wherever he goes, I'm gonna I'm gonna watch. Yeah. 1230 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 2: We were just talking to Skylar and we were talking 1231 00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,120 Speaker 2: we do episodes because we have a lot of listeners 1232 00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:58,760 Speaker 2: who are in the dating scene or married or single, 1233 00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,440 Speaker 2: and we like to ask the man. It's called our 1234 00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 2: mannal where we ask. It's our paneling, it's our man panel. 1235 00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:06,719 Speaker 7: A panel of one. 1236 00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:12,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're a standalone right now, and we wanted we 1237 00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,239 Speaker 2: just like to get advice on, like, you know, from 1238 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:19,720 Speaker 2: a male's perspective. And you've been married for what nine years? 1239 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,600 Speaker 7: Nine years now? Yeah, just my ninth. We get two 1240 00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:23,960 Speaker 7: beautiful kids. 1241 00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,400 Speaker 2: What was it about her? Like, what was it that 1242 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:29,960 Speaker 2: stood out that you were like this? 1243 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:36,440 Speaker 10: She's so my beautiful, insanely talented wife. Her name is 1244 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,319 Speaker 10: Patty Miern. We'd known each other for years before we 1245 00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:44,759 Speaker 10: ever started dating, actually, and we did after I was 1246 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:49,000 Speaker 10: killed off of Arrow. I was just out of relationship 1247 00:54:49,040 --> 00:54:53,520 Speaker 10: myself and she was recently divorced and she had a 1248 00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:57,400 Speaker 10: rehouse warming party because she kept the apartment from the 1249 00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:01,919 Speaker 10: from the divorce, and we were about to start rehearsals 1250 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:03,960 Speaker 10: for Shakespeare in the Park the next day that we 1251 00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:08,040 Speaker 10: were doing a show together, and I don't know, I 1252 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:12,640 Speaker 10: showed up and I just had a great time talking 1253 00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:15,000 Speaker 10: to her and was remembering all these times that like 1254 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:19,160 Speaker 10: she'd made me laugh and how easy it was to 1255 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 10: hang out with her, and so I was the last 1256 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,200 Speaker 10: one to leave the party. We kissed, I went home, 1257 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,399 Speaker 10: and the next day I was sort of like, oh, 1258 00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:32,040 Speaker 10: I think this is something. And I really was like 1259 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:35,600 Speaker 10: I was all in I pretty quickly because there was 1260 00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:39,080 Speaker 10: just something I don't know if I can put it 1261 00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:43,600 Speaker 10: to one thing that made it clear. But the more 1262 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,839 Speaker 10: we hung out and the more we were around each other, 1263 00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:53,680 Speaker 10: it was really I just was head over heels and 1264 00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 10: I was like, I want you to be a part 1265 00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:55,520 Speaker 10: of my life. 1266 00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:56,839 Speaker 1: I feel like humor is what I heard. 1267 00:55:57,120 --> 00:56:00,760 Speaker 2: I know that's an takeaway. 1268 00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:03,360 Speaker 10: It was a really big thing. Like for me, somebody 1269 00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,480 Speaker 10: somebody who would laugh at my jokes. Yeah, could really 1270 00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:08,719 Speaker 10: like make me belly laugh in a way that I 1271 00:56:08,880 --> 00:56:10,360 Speaker 10: hadn't really before. 1272 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:13,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, And like we knew each other's. 1273 00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:19,040 Speaker 10: Hang ups, so, you know, having been friends before and 1274 00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:21,359 Speaker 10: moving forward in a relationship, it was kind of nice 1275 00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:23,000 Speaker 10: to have somebody be able to call you out on 1276 00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:24,200 Speaker 10: your things. 1277 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:25,120 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1278 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:28,439 Speaker 2: Why So y'all met after Era. So she and she's 1279 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:29,319 Speaker 2: in the industry. 1280 00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:31,319 Speaker 7: She is, she's an actor, Okay. 1281 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:35,600 Speaker 2: So she's very she understands the role. I have a girlfriend, 1282 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:39,279 Speaker 2: and she is in the industry, and I struggle with 1283 00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:43,440 Speaker 2: the uh, just the elements that come along with it 1284 00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,000 Speaker 2: of like, you know, kissing other people, just all the things. 1285 00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,000 Speaker 2: But I always feel like it'd be so much easier 1286 00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:53,080 Speaker 2: if I was also an actor, or does it not? 1287 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:58,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that there there is a there's just 1288 00:56:58,120 --> 00:56:58,960 Speaker 7: stuff that has. 1289 00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:03,759 Speaker 10: To be worked through, and uh, you know, certainly we 1290 00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,640 Speaker 10: have worked through our own things to be able to 1291 00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:09,320 Speaker 10: be in a place where we're comfortable with, you know, 1292 00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,719 Speaker 10: the realities of what we do right. And we've done 1293 00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:16,560 Speaker 10: projects together and weirdly enough, never played opposite each other 1294 00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:19,960 Speaker 10: in those projects a lot of times, like so, you know, 1295 00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:24,720 Speaker 10: we did this Hallmark movie Love on Iceland together, but 1296 00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,240 Speaker 10: we weren't paired up in the movie. So I'm off 1297 00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:33,959 Speaker 10: kissing and she's, you know, is just there. It's just weird. Yeah, 1298 00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:34,720 Speaker 10: I mean, there's. 1299 00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,480 Speaker 6: No other way to describe it. 1300 00:57:36,480 --> 00:57:37,760 Speaker 7: It's a weird situation. 1301 00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:41,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, but you know, it's it is the job. 1302 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1303 00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 2: I feel validated hearing that, though, because everyone's you know, 1304 00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:47,520 Speaker 2: we talked to other and they're like, well, you know, 1305 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,360 Speaker 2: they're in an industry, they get it, and I'm like, 1306 00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,160 Speaker 2: it's just an unnatural thing. To watch her the person 1307 00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:52,520 Speaker 2: you love. 1308 00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:54,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, try explaining it's a kids. 1309 00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:58,360 Speaker 2: Eventually, that's a whole other thing. 1310 00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:03,640 Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean Patty was Patty was Princess Anna and 1311 00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:07,720 Speaker 10: Frozen on Broadway, and like we've showed our Uh. We 1312 00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:09,520 Speaker 10: have a four year old daughter who's old enough to 1313 00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:11,960 Speaker 10: understand it. But she's like, well, why are you kissing 1314 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:14,800 Speaker 10: that guy? And I was like, not the conversation I 1315 00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:18,040 Speaker 10: have right now. Yeah, why can't I see daddy do stuff? Well, 1316 00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:20,919 Speaker 10: because daddy doesn't do stuff that is appropriate for kids 1317 00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:21,560 Speaker 10: your age. 1318 00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:26,439 Speaker 7: Daddy's not a Disney prince. He does the darker role. 1319 00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:26,760 Speaker 10: Yeah. 1320 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, before we go, what is your toxic trait? 1321 00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:33,080 Speaker 7: My toxic trait. 1322 00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:35,320 Speaker 2: Lighthearted, like I'm always late. 1323 00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:41,000 Speaker 10: Oh uh, I'm quiet. 1324 00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:42,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1325 00:58:42,960 --> 00:58:44,840 Speaker 10: My toxic trait is that I will sit in the 1326 00:58:44,880 --> 00:58:48,160 Speaker 10: background of like I'll be happy to like just sit 1327 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:48,680 Speaker 10: in the corner. 1328 00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:52,560 Speaker 1: Interesting party going on, that's interesting for an actor. 1329 00:58:53,080 --> 00:58:54,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm I'm. 1330 00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:56,439 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1331 00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,160 Speaker 7: It takes me a while to warm up, usually. 1332 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,520 Speaker 2: Takes you all and warm up. Well, but that's that's 1333 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:05,800 Speaker 2: your That's not very toxic. But if that's it, then 1334 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 2: congrats to your wife. 1335 00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:15,040 Speaker 4: If that's your I'm sure she probably has quiet. 1336 00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here. 1337 00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,280 Speaker 2: Hope you have a great day to day and enjoy 1338 00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 2: meeting all the fans. 1339 00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:22,800 Speaker 4: Thank you,