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Speaker 1: My sister's ex just proposed to me on my sister's birthday.

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Speaker 1: But I just found out why they broke up, and

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Speaker 1: I don't think I can marry him.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm going to say a very controversial statement

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Speaker 2: right now, saying controversial.

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Speaker 3: Hit it.

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Speaker 2: I I don't know if marrying your siblings X is

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Speaker 2: a great idea.

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Speaker 1: I actually think it's a great idea. Really, lay on me,

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Speaker 1: I think about this. You she has knowledge about who

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Speaker 1: this person is. Oh yeah, right, and then you're benefiting

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Speaker 1: from all of her knowledge.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 1: And if she couldn't, you know, lock it down? Why

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Speaker 1: why should why shouldn't you be Why should you be penalized,

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Speaker 1: you know, for her her faultiness?

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Speaker 2: How about bring it her knowledge, your knowledge one plus

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Speaker 2: one get together bybe Come on?

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Speaker 3: Why not create a little little throupple? Hi? Sorry?

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Speaker 1: I usually just read through the sub but this happened,

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Speaker 1: and I've been wondering if I'm the a hole, So

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Speaker 1: I decided to ask who they are. We're gonna tell you.

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Speaker 1: So basically, I'm twenty four NB non binary. Right, that's

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Speaker 1: probably it, right, twenty four non binary. My boyfriend slash

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Speaker 1: fiance is twenty five male and My sister is twenty

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Speaker 1: six female, and I don't know the ages of most

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Speaker 1: of her friends, but roughly around the same age. Now,

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Speaker 1: my sister and my boyfriend slash fiance do not get along.

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Speaker 3: Well. I don't really know what happened.

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Speaker 1: I think my sister is just upset because she has

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Speaker 1: issues with commitment and she dated him at their high school.

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Speaker 1: I went to a different high school and then cheated

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Speaker 1: on him and is upset he broke up with her. Sis.

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Speaker 3: What's your throwing over here? Says goodness, gracious.

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Speaker 1: You can't be mad that he broke up with you

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Speaker 1: because you were you know, given blowies underneath the football stadium,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 3: But what if I want to keep him though? Why not?

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Speaker 1: That's why he got multiple holes, one for each football player.

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Speaker 3: Oh boy years.

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Speaker 1: I met him in college and didn't know it was him.

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Speaker 1: Now what happened is last week it was my sister's birthday,

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Speaker 1: so she threw a big party at a venue.

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Speaker 3: In the forest. So not like I was a kind

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Speaker 3: of sick party. It does.

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Speaker 1: Me and my boyfriend slash fiance were both invited, which

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Speaker 1: is I guess nice of the sister. That's good, even

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Speaker 1: though I mean she cheated on him. Yeah, she can't

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Speaker 1: be mad.

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Speaker 3: Come.

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Speaker 1: We've been dating for a few years and he's never

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Speaker 1: been invited to one of my sister's birthday parties before,

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Speaker 1: so we were both thrilled with this development.

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Speaker 3: So it sounds like they're going to get along okay.

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Speaker 1: At the party, my sister was busy opening all her

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Speaker 1: presents than eating cake, both of which we were there for. Afterward,

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Speaker 1: my sister started talking to her friends and the guests

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Speaker 1: started to explore the area and it was stunning. This

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Speaker 1: sounds like a sick birthdays. And my boyfriend were a

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Speaker 1: little away when we found it a little clearing. We're

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Speaker 1: still pretty close to the venue, but I think it

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Speaker 1: was a pretty private area. My boyfriend thought so too,

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Speaker 1: so he got down on one knee and proposed, Oh

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Speaker 1: my goodness.

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Speaker 3: He didn't have a ring.

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Speaker 1: He had one at home, though, but he had woven

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Speaker 1: a ring out of grass while we were walking. We

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Speaker 1: were both very fidgety, so he put that on my

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Speaker 1: finger after I said, yes, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't know about a grass ring, bro.

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Speaker 2: I think it's kind of cute. I think I think

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Speaker 2: it's called being prepared. I think it's where's the rock?

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Speaker 3: Mister excuse, excuse me.

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Speaker 1: I will only say yes to this contract if I

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Speaker 1: see diamonds.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 1: I think it's kind of cute though, well grass, but

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Speaker 1: all right, wait to take a pause really quick. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what do you think about, uh, proposing at someone else's event?

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Speaker 2: My thing is like, you can orchestrate another moment like that.

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Speaker 2: You go that you can be like, hey, let's do

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Speaker 2: a date just the two of us at that same

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Speaker 2: forest if you if you really like the vibe? Right,

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Speaker 2: So I'm like, I don't know, like why you would.

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Speaker 1: I think it's bad form to hijack someone else's event.

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Speaker 2: Also, it feels less personal, like if I was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: let's have let's have this romantic forest date. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: that sounds amazing, great setup. But I'm like Greg from

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Speaker 2: works party, all right, I get this.

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Speaker 3: Seems like I was good enough.

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Speaker 2: Do you want some punch? And then just pulled. He

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Speaker 2: just pulls the winning ring out of like with a

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Speaker 2: soup ladle. He pulls the grass, string of grass, bro

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Speaker 2: string of grass?

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Speaker 3: Dog Like, what are we doing? Not a professional over here?

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Speaker 1: I think it's bad form. Let us know what the comments.

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Speaker 1: We'll keep going, We'll keep going. Apparently it wasn't as

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Speaker 1: private as I thought, because it's.

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Speaker 3: A fucking party in the forest.

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Speaker 1: Because when we got back to the venue after taking

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Speaker 1: a selfie and scheduling up for a few hours after

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Speaker 1: the party, gotta get that grandma, Yeah, I was bombarded

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Speaker 1: by a shower of congratulations. Turns out my sister's friend

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Speaker 1: Lisa saw my boyfriend propose and came back to the

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Speaker 1: venue and told everyone wow. While I was being congratulated,

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Speaker 1: another girl, one of my sister's best friends, came up

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Speaker 1: to me and asked to see the ring and told

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Speaker 1: me wow, I love this and told me wow, he

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Speaker 1: even skipped out on the ring. He couldn't planned his

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Speaker 1: own proposal or get you a nice ring.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying. Got it true? Like,

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Speaker 3: got it true? I don't know if I was saying

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Speaker 3: that's in their face though, but like that's I would

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Speaker 3: really imply it. Yeah, hopefully.

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Speaker 1: I was upset because I wasn't even planning to tell anyone.

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Speaker 1: If someone noticed the ring, I would someone noticed that.

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Speaker 2: You're digging in the third a little there, because I

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Speaker 2: got a little grassy shitzy over there.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, that's my wedding ring.

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Speaker 1: You're trust me, No one's going to ask about the

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Speaker 1: grass under finger. Yeah, if someone noticed the ring, I

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Speaker 1: would tell them, but I wasn't going to announce it

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Speaker 1: to the world or do it in public where everyone

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Speaker 1: can see us. We left immediately afterwards, and my entire

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Speaker 1: family has been blowing up on my phone, calling me

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Speaker 1: an intention seeking B word and that I shouldn't have

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Speaker 3: I'm worried that I might be the A hole.

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Speaker 1: Because it was my sister's birthday and if I said no,

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Speaker 1: maybe she wouldn't have been upset about my boyfriend proposing.

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Speaker 3: There is an update.

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Speaker 1: We'll get that out of a sect, but let's break down

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Speaker 1: what's happened so far really quick. I want to know

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Speaker 1: who you think the A hole is in the story.

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Speaker 1: Please put in the comments right now, John, I feel

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Speaker 1: like you have some strong opinions on this.

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Speaker 3: Let it rip.

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Speaker 2: I bro this. This boyfriend is whack. Boyfriend is whack.

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Speaker 2: Boyfriend is whack. Boyfriend is whack. I don't think OHPZ

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Speaker 2: a hole though for saying oh no, because yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I know, because it's like she she her full intention.

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Speaker 2: She literally intentionally scheduled to post after it was all

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Speaker 2: going to happen, right, So I no, no, as of now,

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Speaker 2: the sister I don't know, maybe the sisters being too harsh.

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Speaker 3: That was her event. Yeah, that was her event.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that one's a little like, I know, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't see like I wouldn't if someone proposed at my birthday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't be I thought that would be kind

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Speaker 3: of that'll be kind of suck. But I you know,

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Speaker 3: I get I would whatever. Kind a lame, bro, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: get your own event.

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Speaker 1: It just it feels like an afterthought, especially unless and

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Speaker 1: less if one of my friends was like, hey, I

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Speaker 1: really want to propose at your birthday, Like, do you

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Speaker 1: mind if we do something? And I'm like, yo, dude,

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Speaker 1: I'm down to help you.

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Speaker 3: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: If it's like if everyone's in on it, if that

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Speaker 1: makes sense, that makes it awesome.

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Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, that makes it cool. That's when he was

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Speaker 3: just like, oh, look at this little grass a little

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Speaker 3: over your I want a great spot. Hey, would you

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Speaker 3: like to marry me? Baby? Here's a blading fucking grass.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, Op's boyfriend, you suck.

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Speaker 1: There's a couple of comments and some people in the

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Speaker 1: comments on YouTube been asking us to read some commons,

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Speaker 1: so we'll read some some relevant comments. So that someone asked,

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Speaker 1: what do you all know about your sister and boyfriend's history?

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Speaker 3: And when I say I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know why they don't get along, I mean that when

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Speaker 1: they broke up my sister and only dated him for

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Speaker 1: a couple of months, cheated him, and when I introduced

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Speaker 1: he told me what happened in case stores awkwardness, So

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Speaker 1: that was like, that was whatever, Okay, did he know

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Speaker 3: So that a little bit of embarrassing. And there is

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, I'll probably do a more complete update later,

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Speaker 1: but going through your post kind of awoken something in me.

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Speaker 1: I've never been good with people. I have undiagnosed autism,

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Speaker 1: so it didn't occur to me that my boyfriend might

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Speaker 1: I was going to be thinking about some things. Gave

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Speaker 1: back the ring the grass, Oh the grass it called

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Speaker 1: a friend. We both knew in high school. He said that.

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Speaker 1: Apparently my boyfriend was lying. I knew he was a

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Speaker 1: dirt bag. See, I was in a student exchange program

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Speaker 1: when they were dating, so I never knew what happened

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Speaker 1: since the drama died down before I got back. Apparently

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Speaker 3: Apparently, not only.

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Speaker 1: Did my sister not cheat, but the reason they broke

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Speaker 1: up is because my boyfriend did come on.

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Speaker 3: Of course he did wow cheat.

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Speaker 1: That is with his brother what at least that's what

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Speaker 1: the rumors that went around said either of them shared,

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Speaker 1: and then they tried to sleep with my sister, which

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Speaker 1: is why she got cold around him again. Wait, so

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Speaker 1: the boyfriend cheated on someone else with his brother, and

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Speaker 1: then they both tried to hook up with his original ex.

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Speaker 3: I'm confused. That sounds kind of insane, So, as far

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Speaker 3: as I.

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Speaker 1: Can tell, he might have proposed to me as a

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Speaker 1: twisted revenge scheme of some kind. I'm thinking about it

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Speaker 1: all over. I will make another update post later when

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Speaker 1: I figured all the pieces out and there is a

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Speaker 3: But John, what do you think?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I mean I knew this guy was a dirt

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Speaker 2: back from from a jump, so go me.

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Speaker 3: He sucks.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, there's there's some there's some. There's some clarification. Oh,

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Speaker 1: Apparently the rumor that went around was that either my

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Speaker 2: Boose, My girlfriend is going to break up with me

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Speaker 2: Excuse me, Sam, It's just a six figure car. You

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Speaker 1: Even if Tesla isn't a six figure car, it's unless

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Speaker 2: So, I twenty four male, am dating a woman twenty

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Speaker 2: I work a job making close to six figures, and

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Speaker 1: For Christmas, Man's making like clothes to six figures. He's

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Speaker 1: She's not making an advantage of my man. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: Very reasonable, very reasonable. Also, cars depreciate, hella.

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Speaker 2: Exactly, and houses appreciate that. You know, my man is

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Speaker 2: And yes, even though we were under the dating title,

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Speaker 2: And while I loved her and I'm always buying her

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Speaker 2: She tried insinuating that I was being cheap because I

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Speaker 3: Bro it is it's his money and it's his car.

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Speaker 2: And he bought you the car, Like thank you, you know,

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Speaker 3: Good god. She tried accusing me of not loving her

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, I mean it sounds like he's been making

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Speaker 2: And actually right now you can get up to sixty

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Speaker 1: First of all, no, no, no ways, an ahleh, absolutely no,

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Speaker 2: What I should have specified is that I pull in

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Speaker 2: Two to three hundred k like my guy is rolling

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Speaker 1: I think it also cheapens the relationship. You are a

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