WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Vacation Date Gone Wrong + Old Flame New Burn 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:01.480 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. This is 0:00:01.480 --> 0:00:04.320 the Second Date podcast. Thank you so much for finding us. 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:06.680 On a weekend. Yeah, on a weekend, and this. 0:00:06.720 --> 0:00:08.080 Is just a little treat. Okay. 0:00:08.119 --> 0:00:10.880 When it says classic, these are ones that we have 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:14.520 dug up from the vault because we have done thousands 0:00:14.680 --> 0:00:16.120 of second games, so. 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:18.919 You maybe probably have not even heard these ones. 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:20.759 Black people are always think they're new, and we're like, 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:21.599 that's a classic. 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:21.840 Yeah. 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:23.840 A lot of you guys have bing these, but not 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:25.239 everyone is as. 0:00:25.040 --> 0:00:29.240 Committed as you yet totally, it's definitely split fifty to fifty. 0:00:29.360 --> 0:00:30.960 I mean, no matter what, we just hope that you 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.960 enjoy this. We've got two back to back to just 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:36.159 make sure that you get all your tasks, all your 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:37.520 chores done with one pod. 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:38.400 Okay, yeah, so. 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:40.320 You can't get your stuff done without us. Yes, you 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:41.400 know it. That's right. 0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:43.200 So it all starts right now. 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:48.120 I will say there's not much that really rattles Brook 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:54.400 anymore because four hundred years of radio experience, she's seen 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:56.160 and done pretty much everything. 0:00:56.320 --> 0:00:59.120 Oh say it again, Jah, she was ir when Station 0:00:59.240 --> 0:00:59.720 one start. 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:03.200 Well that's what she thought till today when she was 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:07.559 put in the most dramatic, uncomfortable situation of her entire 0:01:08.000 --> 0:01:08.880 radio career. 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:12.120 You are even exaggerating. 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:16.520 All because our listener said, Brook, please, you need to 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:18.360 talk to this person for me. 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:21.160 But I don't have boundaries, so I didn't say no. 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:23.679 And I probably should have. Did Brook handle it with 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:28.000 poison class or did she crumble under the immense pressure. 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:31.200 You're gonna find out when we do your second date 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:37.040 update right after this second date update. We've heard of 0:01:37.080 --> 0:01:39.800 people getting stood up at the start of the date. Yeah, 0:01:40.000 --> 0:01:40.920 just never showing. 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:44.320 It's not cool, feels so bad. 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:46.240 I've been stood up at the end of a date 0:01:46.920 --> 0:01:49.520 where night's over, we say goodbye, and then they just 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:52.520 leave that. Oh you're standing at the door, so rude. 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:54.240 That's the events. 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:56.680 At least linger for a second before you run away. 0:01:57.520 --> 0:01:59.800 But it's a whole different thing to get stood up 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:02.120 while you're still in the middle of a date. 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:07.360 I know a lot of people go into the bathroom 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:08.920 and then yeah, but. 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:11.280 This is different. This isn't like an excuse yourself to 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:13.760 the bathroom mid dinner, then slip out the back situation. 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:17.640 This one's more personal. Apparently that's what happened to one 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.400 of our listeners Dana recently, so let's talk to her. Dana, 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:22.760 I'm sorry to hear this happen to you. How you 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:24.639 doing I'm. 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:27.480 Not doing well. I'm a little piss off right now. 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:30.040 To be honest, it's understandable. 0:02:30.400 --> 0:02:32.920 I mean, I don't even really get how whatever you're 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:33.799 describing happened. 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:35.400 I'm thinking one of those on me at the second bar. 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:38.000 Let's drive separate see it ever, to learn more. 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.880 About what happened on this date, Dana tell us the situation. 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:44.880 So I got stood up on a vacation dates. 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.680 A vacation date, like when you met somebody at a resort, you. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:53.360 Mean, not particularly. I had met this guy, Sean on 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:55.760 one of the apps. I don't know if it was 0:02:55.880 --> 0:02:58.880 travel mode or you know, his search options were everywhere, 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:03.400 but we connected. Okay, he's super cute, he's athletic, all of. 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:04.200 Us on the app. 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:11.440 Just so you know, well, I had a high hope. Okay, 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:14.680 good and honestly, like we really got along. We were 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:17.480 talking a lot, We're even talking on the phone. And 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:20.760 after a couple of weeks he he wanted to fly 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:22.120 me to LA which is where he. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:26.680 Okay, now, is that like a green flag for you 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:28.239 or are you worried about that? 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:28.560 Have you? 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:29.840 Have you done it before? 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:33.440 I haven't. At first, I was a little scared, but 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:36.760 it was also kind of thrilling to me to be 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:39.400 a close like kind of felt romantic. 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:42.440 I've heard both like amazing stories and horror and. 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:45.520 It's a red flag that his entire family is waiting 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:49.760 at the air I'm just assuming that's how it went. 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:51.640 I don't know, though, Yeah, did you go? 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:52.720 Did you get on the plane? 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:57.640 Yeah? I took the invitation, but obviously I was feeling nervous, like, 0:03:58.040 --> 0:03:59.840 how was I going to go about this? You know, 0:03:59.880 --> 0:04:01.800 I it I didn't know him. I wasn't going to 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:05.040 stay at his house as. 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:05.880 To get you a hotel or did you offer for 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.400 you to stay in his place? There's two big differences here. 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:08.800 Yeah. 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:11.560 No, I mean I set the boundary pretty quickly, and 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:14.880 he offered to get me a hotel room. 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.080 I can't wait to hear them. You see him? 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:19.800 So it all turned out really well? 0:04:22.040 --> 0:04:22.240 Yeah? 0:04:22.360 --> 0:04:24.160 No, I mean like when I finally met him, he 0:04:24.279 --> 0:04:26.960 looked like his photos. We hung out all day long. 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:28.280 He showed me around the city. 0:04:28.560 --> 0:04:29.560 That's so cute. 0:04:30.279 --> 0:04:32.880 Yeah, we had a nice dinner. We went dancing. I 0:04:32.920 --> 0:04:34.880 felt like it was a really good date. We got 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:36.800 along really well. He was really easy to talk to. 0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:39.320 Like, Okay, well, I don't understand then, because at the 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:42.680 start you said you're really pissed, So how does that 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:43.919 emotion come into play? 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:47.320 Well, because the next day, after this great date, we 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.760 had plans to go to this really nice lunch place. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:53.920 It's really hard to get into, and I was really 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:57.200 excited about it. And that morning I was hanging out, 0:04:57.240 --> 0:04:59.920 I went on to the pool and I texted him. 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:01.880 You know, I was just trying to be like, let's 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:05.279 feed up early. That's hard to get into. You know, 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:06.920 I don't live here, so I don't know how long 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:10.520 it's going to take to get anywhere. And he didn't 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:11.719 respond at all. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:17.719 No no response, Oh man, are you like I would 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:21.000 be kind of like, oh, something must have happened, you 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:22.919 know what I mean, Like, you wouldn't assume that somebody 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:24.840 would fly you all the way out there and then just. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:27.240 Not did she right? Yeah? Did you ask? 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:28.200 Yeah? 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:31.880 So I texted him again, there's still no response. I 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.599 ended up getting an uber and going to the restaurant. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:36.080 He didn't show. 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:37.880 Up, Oh my gosh, And. 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:40.239 I text him again, like where is he and asking 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:42.599 him straight up if he's pitching me, and did he 0:05:42.640 --> 0:05:47.000 ever respond? He responded later that evening and he said, 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:50.799 I'm sorry I've been unresponsive. I've had some devastating news. 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:55.400 Oh god, did he share? I mean god, I mean 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:57.360 that's a pretty good excuse. 0:05:57.440 --> 0:05:58.400 He did not share. 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:01.239 That's too vague. 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:04.040 Yeah, like my favorite sports team loses, I'm devastating. 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:08.960 You assume really bad, like someone in the family died, 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:11.000 or like he got fired or something. 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:13.680 Okay, so you immediately believe him. As soon as he 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:16.000 says devastating news, he gets a free passage. 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:17.120 Are you the word devastating? 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:23.400 Yeah, just like vocabulary. 0:06:24.320 --> 0:06:26.040 You don't give him the benefit of the doubt in 0:06:26.120 --> 0:06:26.640 that moment. 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:29.719 Never never give them the benefit of the doubt. We 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:31.159 will take advantage every time. 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:31.840 Okay. 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:33.960 I at least would say, well, I hope no one 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:36.400 passed away or whatever you're going through, I'm so sorry. 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:39.479 I'm here for you, and then he should say something next. 0:06:39.279 --> 0:06:43.280 Okay, So, yeah, what happened. Where did the conversation go 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:43.760 from there? 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:44.840 Well? 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:48.280 I didn't hear from him after that, and I just 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:50.640 decided to fly. I probably out the next day. 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:52.120 Yeah, I mean, what are you gonna do? 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:54.840 Yeah, I didn't hear from him, and I'm really wondering, like, 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:55.920 what in the world happened? 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:59.440 And if you still haven't heard from him. 0:07:00.160 --> 0:07:02.599 No, And it's really confusing. And this is why I'm pissed. 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:05.200 It's because we had such a great date that it 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:08.120 makes no sense that he would just, you know, say 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:10.760 there's devastating news, not share with me what it is. 0:07:10.840 --> 0:07:15.040 And then he stood me up. Yeah, how oh, this 0:07:15.080 --> 0:07:16.520 has been two and a half weeks. 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:18.200 Time. 0:07:18.440 --> 0:07:21.240 Can I ask you flew into a new city, he 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:22.160 met you at the hotel. 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:23.360 Did you ever see his house? 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:26.120 No? I didn't, but I didn't want to see a house. 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:28.560 I just wondering if maybe there's like a second family. 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:33.920 Or a family he's married, or you know, like, yeah, 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:36.880 I just I mean, there's so much you don't know 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:37.640 about this guy. 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:39.960 I didn't even think about that. 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:44.320 I did my preliminary Google search of this person. I 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:47.400 didn't find anything about a second family, but you know 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:48.720 that doesn't mean that doesn't exist. 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:51.440 Did you check the local papers about any devastating news 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:52.280 that could have been. 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:54.600 Devastation column? 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:56.120 I love that column. 0:07:56.760 --> 0:08:00.240 I don't even know how you checked the news. 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:03.400 Why don't you google some devastating information in the Los 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:07.080 Angeles area and when we come back. I don't think 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.120 a whole lot of bad stuff happens there. But when 0:08:09.160 --> 0:08:11.280 we come back, we'll try and get you your second 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:14.720 date update with with the guy who stood you up 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:17.920 in the middle of your vacation date right after this 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:23.000 hold on second date update when a person you're on 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:26.120 a date with doesn't contact you for a few days 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:30.320 and then finally replies with sorry, I just received some 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:34.880 devastating news but doesn't elaborate. Should that be a red flag? 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:40.240 The ladies in the room surprisingly said no, I think 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:43.800 you need to hear the person believe him. They said, 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:46.400 men don't lie about devastating news. 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:49.520 Benefit of a doubt, Jeff, that was my exact words. 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:50.400 Tomato, tomato. 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:50.719 You know. 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:55.160 Lexus gives him credit just for using a big word 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.080 with lots of letters. 0:08:56.520 --> 0:08:59.240 You can't lie if you're saying devastating. 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:04.440 So what is it sending him flowers and flying him 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:04.720 to her? 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:04.960 Now? 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:06.480 I feel so mad? 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:10.120 That's so kind. Bottom line is Dana was left hanging 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:13.640 in the middle of a vacation dating. The guy flew 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:16.840 her ound to La and now he hasn't even responded 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:18.960 to her for two weeks after he just ditched her. 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:22.079 Oh my god, it's wild. I think that he's got 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:23.680 a wife and kids. 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:27.880 I'm telling you, it's not just devastating. You would have elaborated. 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:30.760 Days later, he's saying, She's like all the devastating news, 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:31.760 the kids are still. 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:32.160 In this house. 0:09:33.320 --> 0:09:36.760 That would be tragic. So understandably, Dana wants answers here. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:41.680 We're gonna call him. His name is Sean, right, Dana, Yeah, okay, 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:42.800 I just want to make sure we have that. 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.520 And how mad are you are you? Because you said 0:09:45.520 --> 0:09:48.760 you were. I'm just wondering at what point you're gonna 0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:49.520 yell at him? 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:52.560 I mean, if we can get him on the phone 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:55.920 and I can talk to him like my time is valuable. 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:59.240 I came to a different city to see him, like, 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:02.160 I him a paper of your wife. 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:03.080 Are gone because of him? 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:06.320 You got a good story. Yeah, you do it for 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:06.720 the plot. 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:09.079 Probably nice into stories you were there. 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:13.240 Yeah, yeah, it's not like we got nothing out of 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:15.480 this trip, but hopefully we can at least get some 0:10:15.559 --> 0:10:19.000 resolution for you, assuming he answers the phone. So I'm 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:20.000 gonna dial it right now. 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:21.040 Good luck. 0:10:21.400 --> 0:10:23.280 All right, they never wished us luck? 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:25.319 Sweet here we go. 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:37.160 Hello, Hi? 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:43.040 Is this sorry? We're looking for Sean? Sean there, No, 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:44.120 he's out for a run. 0:10:44.160 --> 0:10:45.640 Can I take a message for you? 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:47.599 Uh? 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.280 Yeah? Well well hold on? 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:53.360 Well okay, I think we just need to ask who's this? 0:10:54.640 --> 0:10:56.000 Yeah, who's this? 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:57.080 Who is this? 0:10:57.240 --> 0:10:58.720 Or there's several of you. 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:01.360 Well, we're a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey 0:11:01.360 --> 0:11:01.880 in the Morning. 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:03.480 Is this Shawn's number? 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:04.920 Yeah? 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:06.520 Did he sign up for something? 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:08.240 Are you a family member of Seawan's? 0:11:09.920 --> 0:11:11.080 I mean you could say that. 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.040 What do you mean like you're a sister? 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:17.560 I'm his wife? Oh? 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:25.280 Okay, right, so Hi, sorry to bother you. You were 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:26.680 radio show. Do you mind if we put you on 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:27.480 hold for a second? 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:31.559 I mean, okay, I don't have all the Yeah. 0:11:31.440 --> 0:11:33.080 Sorry, we'll be right back to you. Just hold on. 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.520 Can we put her on hold? Yeah? Okay, we got her. 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:36.480 Oh my god? 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:37.840 All right, So. 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:41.880 That to be the truth. 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:45.240 I was like, worst case scenario. 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:45.920 I thought you were wrong. 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:47.280 Oh my god. 0:11:47.200 --> 0:11:48.959 We're kind of called it here. Not it's not an 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.480 entire second family, or maybe it is. 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:53.640 What my wife is a second is the family? 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.520 There might be kids there too, but we have at 0:11:56.600 --> 0:11:59.480 least got a wife, Dana. Dana, how are you feeling? 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:00.600 Are you? 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:03.240 How am I supposed to respond to this? 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:04.560 Do you want to tell her? 0:12:04.800 --> 0:12:08.920 Or are you still in on Sean? We don't know. 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:14.160 Well, this is the first time we will not be 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:15.920 offering a second date at the end. 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:17.600 We can't do this. 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:18.840 No, this is awful. 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:20.280 Yeah, I agree. 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:23.120 First, I have been cheated on before, and the fact 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:26.440 that knowing now that I might be a participant in 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.679 somebody else's affair infuriated. 0:12:30.040 --> 0:12:31.360 Do you want to tell her? Do you want to 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:33.319 talk to her? And can we do that? Because I 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:33.960 don't want to tell her. 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:37.040 Unfortunately, it's not surprising because unfortunately a lot of guys 0:12:37.080 --> 0:12:39.079 do end up doing stuff like this. But how do 0:12:39.120 --> 0:12:41.440 we want to handle this? Because there's really, in my mind, 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:44.360 there's three options for us to go here. Number one, 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:47.880 we just hang up, We leave it alone, hands off. 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:49.280 Of it, the coward's way out. 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:53.720 I'm not opposed to it. Number two wouldn't be Number two, 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:57.400 have Dana speak to the wife and fill her in 0:12:57.480 --> 0:12:59.440 on the truth about what's happening. 0:12:59.640 --> 0:13:02.240 She's to do it calmly. If she's gonna do that, it's. 0:13:02.080 --> 0:13:05.600 Not gonna happen, or we go option three, my favorite, 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:11.679 have Brooke speak to the white for Dana. Brook has 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:14.320 been dying to let her rage out onto some sort 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:15.480 of you. 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:17.600 Do your kids cheating? Don't you want to help? 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:19.760 And when we started the call, you literally asked, when 0:13:19.800 --> 0:13:21.520 you're gonna yell at him? You can do it? 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:21.760 Now. 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:25.480 I think that if Brook can set this up, I 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:27.920 think speak to her. But I don't want to. I 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:30.200 just don't want to come in and my god. 0:13:30.320 --> 0:13:32.720 Okay, that's a good choice, Dana. I feel like this 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:35.360 is gonna be really emotional for you. So it's good 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:38.679 to have Brooke, who's notoriously even keel. 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:43.560 The opposite of even you can the marriage. 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:46.240 I mean, okay, here's the thing. 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:48.720 We are not breaking up this marriage. That man is 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:52.560 the one that broke up his mag Absolutely fine, I'll 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:52.840 do it. 0:13:53.000 --> 0:13:56.600 Okay, she's gonna really, You're gonna really do it. 0:13:56.800 --> 0:13:59.040 I mean, somebody has to. This woman has to. 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:01.760 Know Brook, tell her the truth. 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:03.800 Come on, I got your back here. 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:07.240 Excuse devastating news. Let's make it a real. 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:09.079 Thing word for me forever. 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:17.120 Now, all right, let's punch the wife back up. Okay, Hello, Hello, Hey, 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:21.520 sorry about that. So we are back and actually my 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:24.680 co host Brooke would like to speak with you. 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:28.920 I didn't get your name. What's your name, Niki? Hi, Nikki. 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:30.040 It's a pretty name. 0:14:30.480 --> 0:14:33.080 So you're probably wondering why we're calling. 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:39.240 How we got your husband's phone number. I'm gonna tell 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:44.320 you not great news on that front. Okay, because the 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:49.720 reason we have your husband Sean's phone number is because 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:52.240 we do a segment on our show called the Second Date. 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:54.160 Update, typically very fun segment. 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:55.120 Yeah. 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:57.840 So typically people go on a first date and when 0:14:57.880 --> 0:15:00.240 they aren't getting a call back from that person, and 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:02.800 then we call and find out why, Like what did 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:03.960 they do wrong on the date? 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.240 They were a funny hat? 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:10.440 Does that make sense, Snicky? 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:11.120 Sure? 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:11.560 Yeah? 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:12.800 Okay, So that's. 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:15.760 Why we got your husband's phone number. We didn't realize 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:21.080 he was a husband. Your husband apparently flew another woman 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:26.440 into Los Angeles to take her out for a romantic time. 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:31.960 Yeah okay, I mean we trade off weeks, we do 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:34.400 stuff with other people. I don't really that's any of 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:34.880 your business. 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:37.760 Oh my god, wait wait wait yeah, that's fine. Are 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:39.160 you in an open relationship? 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:42.200 Yeah? 0:15:43.440 --> 0:15:43.920 Relieved? 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.000 I am relieve. 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:52.520 I thought Nikky, I was giving you the whole world 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:54.040 and you were going to add your marriage. 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:56.640 But it turns out when you're saying you have an 0:15:56.640 --> 0:15:59.480 agreement with your husband to like just date other people? 0:16:00.840 --> 0:16:05.200 Yeah, could you pass some of the is that all? 0:16:05.200 --> 0:16:07.200 Could you write down some of how that how that 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:09.600 works to open your marriage because Brook might want to know. 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:12.800 I am not talking you through this. 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:13.520 Can I go? 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:13.920 Yeah? 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:14.360 Okay? 0:16:14.440 --> 0:16:15.560 You know? 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:19.720 Can you hear my heart beat over the radio? 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:21.040 Very work out? 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:23.160 I was so nervous. 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:24.760 You know, Nikki, thank you so much. We don't want 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:27.160 to steal any more of your time and we really 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:31.560 appreciate you sharing with us. Have a great day, Okay, great, 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:33.960 tell your husband Sean, what's up. 0:16:34.120 --> 0:16:35.360 Yeah. 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:37.720 This is one of those the more you know, the 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:39.400 more you know, and it's like. 0:16:39.360 --> 0:16:41.520 You don't want to know, but when you know, you're like, oh, 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:42.040 thank goodness. 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:46.640 Okay, so Nicky's gone. Hey, Dana, good news. Yeah, you 0:16:46.680 --> 0:16:47.840 didn't break up a marriage. 0:16:47.880 --> 0:16:49.200 You're one of many women. 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:52.200 My jaw. 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:57.120 I forgot. She was so great. 0:16:57.280 --> 0:16:59.320 I'm taking it that Sean didn't let you know that 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:02.000 he was in an open, open relationship. 0:17:02.480 --> 0:17:07.359 Okay, I think really important information you probably could seems 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:09.520 like pre date info. 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:12.640 I know it was devastating. He had his weekends mixed up. Yes, 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:13.920 it was his turn. 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:17.119 I'm sure it wasn't part of the rules that he 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:19.960 had to disclose to other people's in a marriage. Anyway, 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:23.040 we are running short on time here, Dana, so I 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.320 would love to ask, would you go on another date 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:29.520 with Sean when he comes back from his run with 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:31.119 Brock or something. We'll pay for that. 0:17:32.320 --> 0:17:36.000 How about a girls night me for some cocktails? 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:38.199 Okay, I was obligated just to offer. That's just what 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:38.760