Speaker 1: And that morning in the morning. I'm talking right. You
Speaker 1: know you're about to experience a morning showing like any
Speaker 1: of the club. What you guys are doing right now,
Speaker 1: that's the hub culture. Breakfast club is my morning sit.
Speaker 1: I need it and I love it. Something feel like
Speaker 1: you're really not popping until you do the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: I have been waiting come to y'all, show man. I
Speaker 1: know you gotta be a big time celebrity. Be up
Speaker 1: and here you gotta be. You gotta be big time
Speaker 1: taken at your leg and Charlotta, ain't the guy the
Speaker 1: breakfast club bitching? I'm telling what's you doing? Call of yo?
Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest,
Speaker 1: whether you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred five eight five
Speaker 1: one oh five one. We want to hear from you
Speaker 1: on the breakfast club. Hello. Who's this yo? This is
Speaker 1: your boy chilling chill out of Pittsburg morning every morning morning.
Speaker 1: What's up? Man, I'm telling the morning ain't not baby Eric?
Speaker 1: Hey man, I just found out my neighbor all six
Speaker 1: of our kids got a d D of them, all
Speaker 1: six of them, all different days. I mean, you had
Speaker 1: me sitting there thinking like I've never heard that in
Speaker 1: my life. Yeah, thirty one, all six kids got add
Speaker 1: that check. Gonna be crazy. I mean by just want
Speaker 1: to tell y'all, good morning man, listen to right now.
Speaker 1: Y'all got got kidding on my cloth in the morning,
Speaker 1: and keep doing what you're doing. I'll call y'all back
Speaker 1: next week. All right, my brother, Okay, all right, brother,
Speaker 1: y'all this guy with different daddies? Hello, who's this? This
Speaker 1: is an Elif Jacksonville already. Heyten'at A question for y'all,
Speaker 1: and I just want to hear your opinion about this.
Speaker 1: It's amazing how white people could call black people to
Speaker 1: head words. It's not a big deal. Black people could
Speaker 1: call white people crocker ass crocker, it's not a big deal.
Speaker 1: But when somebody speak their opinion about the lgt T community,
Speaker 1: it's a big uproar. And there's just somethingbody speaking their
Speaker 1: opinion about that. I'm just trying to see what's the
Speaker 1: big upa If everybody held their opinion, let them speak
Speaker 1: their opinion. If that's what they want to do, let
Speaker 1: them do that. They should embrace that's what they are,
Speaker 1: and it's cool. It shouldn't be a big dramatic upbro,
Speaker 1: and I just want to hear your opinion about that
Speaker 1: from both of y'all. Well, what white people say the
Speaker 1: N word? It is an up definitely, Yeah, it is
Speaker 1: an uproar. Not really got science. And that lg it's
Speaker 1: not the uproar like the LTP community. What the hell
Speaker 1: is the LGB? Now that that that cable package you
Speaker 1: just talked about is way worse than the basic one.
Speaker 1: Now the basic one it's LGBT. I don't know what
Speaker 1: why you just got rid of the g Oh well,
Speaker 1: well I don't know the alphabets, man, But I just
Speaker 1: want to hear y'all opinion about that. I want to
Speaker 1: head like when Boost said calling man it was a
Speaker 1: big off wall when whoever saying the thing? What really
Speaker 1: got me when Windy Williams had apologize for what she said,
Speaker 1: It's like, come on, man, you can't have an opinion
Speaker 1: about that. Well, listen, here's the truth to the matter.
Speaker 1: You got to know who you're having with. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You slap somebody in the face, they
Speaker 1: might slap you back. You slap somebody else in the face,
Speaker 1: they might punch you and knock you out. You slap
Speaker 1: somebody else in the face. They might pull out a
Speaker 1: gun to shoot you. You gotta know what you're dealing with,
Speaker 1: that's all, and be ready to deal with them. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just don't get the man. Everybody should have their
Speaker 1: own opinion. It shouldn't be a big or big kill
Speaker 1: about it. If that's what they choose to do, that
Speaker 1: it's them. Let them in prasing it and move home.
Speaker 1: So listen, why are you calling? Why is this the
Speaker 1: first thing on your mind in the morning? Though, No,
Speaker 1: it's not. I just can't know. Yes it is, yes,
Speaker 1: it is, Yes, it is good. But why does it
Speaker 1: matter how other people live their lives anyway? If it
Speaker 1: doesn't affect you, if you're not part of the LGBTQ
Speaker 1: plus community, and like, why does it bother you? Hello?
Speaker 1: Who's this? What's up? Bro? Get it off in your chests? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I had to get out of my chess man. I
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of people, like the I BAT,
Speaker 1: waiting for the government to do things instead up realize
Speaker 1: what we can do ourselves. Like I ain't had nothing
Speaker 1: a couple of years ago before the pandemic during the
Speaker 1: get on't rim it an issue with me? You know?
Speaker 1: I started driving trust Boil company. They bought a truck
Speaker 1: off of Facebook. I'm owner operator. I'm here fourteen dollarsand
Speaker 1: in a week. It's so much stuff people can do
Speaker 1: out here, you know, better theirselves because I'm trying to
Speaker 1: break a generational Cursewell, families are growing up in apartments
Speaker 1: to set our own and homes because the phone broke up.
Speaker 1: But I agree with him, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I mean, we definitely should push our government and push
Speaker 1: our you know, national and local government to do things
Speaker 1: for us, but we definitely got to do for ourselves too.
Speaker 1: Word to the honorable Alijah Muhammad, what he said, what
Speaker 1: he said is also right. I know a lot of
Speaker 1: people want to be rappers, they want to be uh DJs,
Speaker 1: they want to be producers, they want to be athletes,
Speaker 1: they want to get only fans. There's a lot of
Speaker 1: other businesses that people can do, and driving trucks is
Speaker 1: a major business. They make a lot of money. So
Speaker 1: really really look into it, because you think about it.
Speaker 1: One thing that didn't stop on that road was those trucks,
Speaker 1: whether they were delivering food, whether they were delivering toilet
Speaker 1: paper and paper towels, those roads stay full with those trucks.
Speaker 1: So people still had those jobs with them trucks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And that's why I always tell brothers, man, you go
Speaker 1: out there and learn a trade, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Because there's certain things that just never ever ever gonna stop.
Speaker 1: You gonna always need electrician. You're gonna always need a plumber,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And those people, those brothers
Speaker 1: make good money. Since this make good money. Absolutely, get
Speaker 1: it off your chests. Eight hundred five eight five one
Speaker 1: oh five one. If you need to vent, hit us
Speaker 1: up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chests.
Speaker 1: Whether you're man from you on the Breakfast Club. But
Speaker 1: you got something on your mind. Let allow, who's this? Hey?
Speaker 1: This King Jemina? Man, how y'all doing? Brother? Get off
Speaker 1: your chests? All right? So um last night right, huh?
Speaker 1: I was performing oral sext with my girl and all
Speaker 1: that right, and you thought the climax and she farked
Speaker 1: in my face. Man. That means she was doing it.
Speaker 1: That means she was doing it real good. I means
Speaker 1: you got pink guys, Yeah, yeah, you know what. I
Speaker 1: I ain't got pink guys, but real quick, Charlotte, mane
Speaker 1: give me a huge favorite. Man, I will not fart
Speaker 1: on you. Don't you dare ask me too? No, I
Speaker 1: was wondering if you can send me a book or something. Man,
Speaker 1: have Barack Obama signing for me. That would be great.
Speaker 1: What I don't have it. I only have one copy
Speaker 1: of a Promised Land. Oh I only had one. Only
Speaker 1: he only sent us three copies. He sent one for
Speaker 1: each of us. I don't and I'm actually sending mine
Speaker 1: to my mom to be honestly, somebody stole mine in
Speaker 1: the in the mail, so I had to go buy
Speaker 1: another one. Oh man, I was really hoping on that
Speaker 1: one though. If I had it with yours, I got
Speaker 1: a copy of I got a copy of Doctor Rita
Speaker 1: Walker's book up here. Oh yeah, hey, I'll take that
Speaker 1: and I for me man, and I'll send you a
Speaker 1: copy of mine. It's not like I sold one point
Speaker 1: seven in the first week like Barrock did. I've just
Speaker 1: been doing I've been wild in the book world though. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know I actually listen to your books. I ain't
Speaker 1: you reading me, ego, but you know listen say I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get your put you on hold and they're gonna
Speaker 1: get your address. We're gona mail it out to you, brother.
Speaker 1: Hold on, stink y'all. Hello, who's this Yes Erico? Hey,
Speaker 1: good morning, m Yeah. Um. I listened to y'all every morning,
Speaker 1: and I'll be damn I'll be tripping out on you
Speaker 1: and Charlemagne. I mean I'll be laughing like crazy every
Speaker 1: morning at y'all. Well, thank you. I don't know that's
Speaker 1: a good thing about at us. I don't know what, man.
Speaker 1: I listened to y'all every single morning, like every morning,
Speaker 1: every very much. We appreciate your support, but thank you
Speaker 1: so much. I have a great and blessed days. Who
Speaker 1: are you from? Okay? You too? That's all I want
Speaker 1: to say. Thy love y'all. Let me love you back.
Speaker 1: I love your twin to that Severn client. Hello, who's this? Hey?
Speaker 1: What's your name? Hey? Kay? Lookome want to get it
Speaker 1: off your chest? Mama. Well, I really didn't have much
Speaker 1: to say. I just want to just congratulate y'all. Y'all
Speaker 1: doing good and I thought it was so flee How
Speaker 1: y'all game with white money? Because it's really some broad
Speaker 1: Stop calling people the N word because some unfortunate people
Speaker 1: when it comes through in America. There you go. That's right. Everything.
Speaker 1: It's a financial struggle out here for some folks. You
Speaker 1: got it. You want you want to let you get
Speaker 1: some money to some people. Ed. No, I just lined
Speaker 1: somebody to him. That was just today. No, I'm with you. Budget.
Speaker 1: That's right, budget that money, Thank you, mama. It's something
Speaker 1: about that. That's something about them two words together. Just
Speaker 1: do something too, broke Nick broke Lord happened that it
Speaker 1: felt like back in the day when you heard scrubs
Speaker 1: for the first time, that I get on my mama. Huh, Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this Hello? Who's this Hello? Hello? This is Morotto response.
Speaker 1: That's a very original name. I've never heard that before.
Speaker 1: What are you calling from? Good I'm going from Angola, Africa? Africa?
Speaker 1: All right, Africa, all right, the motherland. What's happening? Get
Speaker 1: it up your chest? Good morning? Time, good morning? Did
Speaker 1: the angry good morning? And then what's up? King? Good morning?
Speaker 1: A very long distance called I might spending here a
Speaker 1: hundred dollars ultimately stalled, but I just want to I
Speaker 1: just want to say that this this show is amazing. Um,
Speaker 1: you guys are doing an incredible job, and I like
Speaker 1: every day in my Apple podcast. And I don't know
Speaker 1: if the program was live. I just called okayifically, yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys doing And if it's spill what time is
Speaker 1: it in Africa right now? It ain't gola? What time
Speaker 1: is it? Eleven sixteen? Okay pm, am am, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: We're good. To talk to you brother. Hello, who's this comedian? Hey?
Speaker 1: And to get you off your chess. I just want
Speaker 1: to thank God for this stay right, you know, I know, Look,
Speaker 1: I'm thank God for this day, for this job. I'm
Speaker 1: so blessed im Holly Favorite. I got my own business.
Speaker 1: Not just wanted to thank God. You're not just blessed
Speaker 1: in Holly Favorite, You're blessed black and Holly Favorite. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you absolutely, But I am less like in Holly Favorite,
Speaker 1: And I just want to thank God for it. Thank you. Hello.
Speaker 1: Who's this hey? Man? What's up? This is a reckless TV?
Speaker 1: How y'all doing? What's up? Reckless TV? Get you off
Speaker 1: her chess. I wanted to speak about college. I did
Speaker 1: trade school. I did two years for ah V and Electricity,
Speaker 1: and I can work anywhere in the United States. I'm
Speaker 1: twenty three years old and nobody's doing trade no more.
Speaker 1: Everybody's trying to be doctors and lawyers. So right now
Speaker 1: in trade school is the best thing you can do.
Speaker 1: I agree. After I graduated, my my teacher came to
Speaker 1: me and said I should go for another four years
Speaker 1: and I'd be guaranteed to make six figures and I
Speaker 1: can go anywhere in the United States. So trade school
Speaker 1: is pop right now because ain't nobody really doing it
Speaker 1: and everybody needs help HVC and at condition ye. Man.
Speaker 1: I met this guy the other day, I think when
Speaker 1: I was in DC man. He ran upon me and
Speaker 1: he was like, man, thank you for always talking about
Speaker 1: trade school, because I went to trade school and I've
Speaker 1: been gamefully employed for forty plus year. I forgot what
Speaker 1: he said. He did, All right, get it off your chest.
Speaker 1: Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If
Speaker 1: you need to vent hit us up right now. It's
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. Come on, the Breakfast Club. Waits up
Speaker 1: in the morning. Check out this breakfast club. We want morning.
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlot Migne, the guy.
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest
Speaker 1: in the building, Stephen A. Smith. Welcome, brother, what's going
Speaker 1: on man, good morning, Good morning, hey, and how you going,
Speaker 1: Charlotte Maget, good y'all. And you got a new show
Speaker 1: coming on ESPN another one, you know, listen. You know
Speaker 1: it's gonna be called stephen A's World, and you know
Speaker 1: it's just a half power show on streaming ESPN Plus.
Speaker 1: It's obviously a big priority for them. First year, Disney
Speaker 1: Plus had eighty six and a half million subscribers, ESPN
Speaker 1: Plus had eleven and a half, so obviously they want
Speaker 1: a buffer those numbers. And they came to me and
Speaker 1: asked me to do this. And I've known about this
Speaker 1: since last year, which is why I gave up my
Speaker 1: radio show because this was forthcoming. What makes me excited
Speaker 1: about this is a couple of things. Number One, I'm
Speaker 1: looking to bring a bit more lighthearted this and levity
Speaker 1: to certain situations and just you know, show the light
Speaker 1: aside of me to some degree and really celebrate what
Speaker 1: other people are doing. But the other thing that I'm
Speaker 1: excited about is that I'm not only the host of this,
Speaker 1: I'm the executive producer. And I started my own production
Speaker 1: company a few months or a few months ago, missed
Speaker 1: the Essays productions and it will be co producing this
Speaker 1: in concert with ESPN, so essentially only host. But I'm
Speaker 1: the boss and just trying to set that example and
Speaker 1: do what I can to shine, so I put other
Speaker 1: people in position to shine as well. When we first
Speaker 1: thought of the interview, you st you didn't sound like
Speaker 1: the normal stephen A. Smith from Queens. You sound at
Speaker 1: a lousemble. And I know it's because what we've seen
Speaker 1: that happened on Capitol Hill. So what were your thoughts
Speaker 1: of seeing that. We Well, first of all, you know,
Speaker 1: as a black man, let's just call it what it is,
Speaker 1: if those were black people marching up on Capitol Hill
Speaker 1: later got shot. But also what jumped to my mind.
Speaker 1: I turned and watched Trump's entire speech, and if he
Speaker 1: didn't dog whisper, it was even stronger than that. He
Speaker 1: told them to go to the state capitol. He told
Speaker 1: them to stop this. He told them to essentially engage
Speaker 1: in insurrection. And so for me to have a sitting
Speaker 1: president of the United States be so flagrantly divisive and
Speaker 1: willing to harm congressional and Senate figures, I don't know
Speaker 1: how much more egregious it gets. And I think it's
Speaker 1: a blight on our country for years to come, and
Speaker 1: it's just really really bad. But if we're honest about it,
Speaker 1: it's unfortunate, it's sad, but we ain't surprised. How hard
Speaker 1: is it to go on air today and not talk
Speaker 1: about what happened yesterday? Anti capital or do y'all plan
Speaker 1: to talk about it? I wouldn't know, Charlemagne, because there't
Speaker 1: know why in hell I'm going on the air not
Speaker 1: talking about it there at ESPN when it comes to
Speaker 1: sports and politics, because I pass well, let me tell
Speaker 1: you this, this is the part and and people in
Speaker 1: the past. I'm not gonna mention any names, but here's
Speaker 1: where they mess up. Obviously, me being in a position
Speaker 1: that I'm in. It's not like I'm just speaking to
Speaker 1: the supervisor. I mean the president and I talk every week.
Speaker 1: You know, the executive vps of ESPN and I talk
Speaker 1: every week. I kind of know them, and they have
Speaker 1: never said don't talk politics. Definitively, what they said is
Speaker 1: leave the political expertise to the police experts, and more importantly,
Speaker 1: give the audience what they expect to see. If we're ESPN,
Speaker 1: we're a sports network. Don't avoid sports to talk about
Speaker 1: these other things. Find a way to interweave sports within
Speaker 1: the political and social conversation, and because people had a
Speaker 1: problem with demandate to not just go directly in the politics.
Speaker 1: You've had some people that have expressed dismay over that,
Speaker 1: but I've never had a problem with it, because anytime
Speaker 1: something developed and I felt the need to talk about it,
Speaker 1: I simply let them know. The other thing that the
Speaker 1: mandate was is that, well, you work for us, as
Speaker 1: we pay you. Why the hell are you expressing yourself
Speaker 1: on Twitter for free when we're giving you this platform
Speaker 1: and we're paying you to use it, use it heat.
Speaker 1: I don't see a problem with that. You're talking about
Speaker 1: Jamil Hill, No, no, no, not just her. I can't
Speaker 1: think of too many people at ESPN who even had,
Speaker 1: you know, that type of energy. Other than Jamil Independent,
Speaker 1: there was there was a bunch of I'm believe it
Speaker 1: or not, and believe it or not, I'll shock you
Speaker 1: with this, Charlomagne. There's a whole bunch of wife folks
Speaker 1: at ESPN that have very very passionate feelings, and obviously
Speaker 1: some on the other side, and they want to express
Speaker 1: it even more because they see us expressing it. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying is is that when I get and I'll
Speaker 1: and I'll address this directly because I love Jamal. She's
Speaker 1: a friend. Kerry Champion, I know she's a friend. Michael Smith,
Speaker 1: you know all of these words. They did great well.
Speaker 1: I missed him. I wish they were still at the network.
Speaker 1: I don't apologize about that. But what I'm saying to
Speaker 1: you is that I would say the same thing to you,
Speaker 1: now that I've gotten to know you. If I saw
Speaker 1: you doing something that I said, I said, Yo, man,
Speaker 1: this could ultimately squash you and get in the way
Speaker 1: of a bigger picture. You two important. I would sit
Speaker 1: up there and say to you, do you really want
Speaker 1: to mess that up because of a tweet? Why not
Speaker 1: use it? Why not use your airways? Think about about
Speaker 1: the marathon, not the sprint. That's true. The breakfast club.
Speaker 1: If wake that ass up in the morning, check out
Speaker 1: this breakfast club. We wind. We're just asking what's one
Speaker 1: thing you would leave the house for. Charlemagne said he
Speaker 1: would leave the house right now to get a head cut.
Speaker 1: Soom my head, like Solomon is right now, your headline
Speaker 1: looked like it's socially distancing from your forehead. No rot
Speaker 1: grass like project grass. I'm not gonna lie. My head
Speaker 1: looked like Tramouse coff it this weekend. But I put
Speaker 1: the Jamaican cast the oil with the monastat seven in it,
Speaker 1: and I combed it out, and it look like taking
Speaker 1: you back back back with the classic rewind we would
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Speaker 1: Everybody is d D J Envy, Angela Ye, Charlomagne, the guy.
Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with
Speaker 1: Stephen A. Smith. I know you gotta get up out
Speaker 1: of here. My final question, you have a desire for
Speaker 1: people to see who you are beyond the sports yere
Speaker 1: to some degree only from the standpoint that you know again,
Speaker 1: I don't want to pigeonhole myself. I don't want to
Speaker 1: be somebody that's just about sports. You know, when people
Speaker 1: when I remember when and I told, and I teld
Speaker 1: you know, my white boss, is this a lot of
Speaker 1: times I've said this to them. A lot of times.
Speaker 1: White folks come to work with a job to do.
Speaker 1: Every day. We come with a responsibility. What I mean
Speaker 1: by that is, I remember when Trey von Marne got shot.
Speaker 1: I'm walking down the streets and black folks walking up
Speaker 1: to me, Steven, are you got to touch on this? Steven?
Speaker 1: Are you gotta say this yet? That wasn't a sports story,
Speaker 1: but they said it was necessary. And then when the
Speaker 1: Miami Heat put on their hoodies, they really say, you
Speaker 1: gotta touch on this. Now. I was going to any way,
Speaker 1: but they were telling me that white folks don't hear that.
Speaker 1: You don't see white folks going up to other white
Speaker 1: folks saying that you got to do it. So understanding
Speaker 1: that black folks feel that way, why do they feel
Speaker 1: that way? It's not because of me. It's because of
Speaker 1: the position that I'm in. I have a platform that
Speaker 1: most of us don't have, and so what they're doing
Speaker 1: is calling upon me to bring light and to bring
Speaker 1: attention to things, just the same way you might ask
Speaker 1: an athlete too, if not more so. Now with the athlete,
Speaker 1: you're asking them to say something and be active in
Speaker 1: that regard. With me, you're not only asking me to
Speaker 1: say something, You're asking me to be that conduit for
Speaker 1: others to speak as well, to make sure that I
Speaker 1: provide the platform for others that need to be heard
Speaker 1: to be heard, and I take that role very, very seriously.
Speaker 1: I don't feel compelled to agree with any damn body
Speaker 1: and say what I don't feel. But I do feel
Speaker 1: compelled to make sure that even if you disagree with me,
Speaker 1: if you speak for a vast majority of us, you
Speaker 1: need to be heard. And so what I try to
Speaker 1: do is make sure that I do that. And in
Speaker 1: that regard, that's where I look at myself beyond the
Speaker 1: world of sports, using sports to extend myself beyond it,
Speaker 1: to address more deeper issues, enlightening myself, educating myself either
Speaker 1: by reading more, watching more, learning more, but more importantly
Speaker 1: connecting myself with people I know no stuff so they
Speaker 1: will educate me as well. I had one question too.
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask about Lebron purchasing putting together their
Speaker 1: team to purchase the Atlantic team? What do you think
Speaker 1: that to do for the w NBA and had to
Speaker 1: uplift the w NBA more said they can make more money,
Speaker 1: get more endorsement, and more people watch. I love it
Speaker 1: because I think that Lebron is pretty brilliant with a
Speaker 1: lot of the things that he does, and obviously he's conscientious,
Speaker 1: and I think him owning a w NBA team is
Speaker 1: more about getting it away from Leffler, the senate figure
Speaker 1: that just lost in Georgia, to Warnock. So I think
Speaker 1: that's what it's about for him more so than anything else,
Speaker 1: and I applaud his position on that. What I would
Speaker 1: say is this, though, and I'll say this respectfully, that
Speaker 1: all of those females out there, you know, the fellas,
Speaker 1: we got NBA, we got NFL, we got Major League Baseball,
Speaker 1: we got the boxing, we got the UFC, we got
Speaker 1: all of that. These women have been out there busting
Speaker 1: their tail for years trying to make the w NBA
Speaker 1: into something. Last time I checked, when you are successful
Speaker 1: in terms of ingrace sh yourself with the average consumer
Speaker 1: out there, you usually are successful because you found a
Speaker 1: way to ingratiate yourself with that female audience. For some reason,
Speaker 1: females are not supporting the w NBA enough, because if
Speaker 1: they were, the NBWNBA would be far more successful than
Speaker 1: it is. So rather than folks talking about what the
Speaker 1: w NBA needs, how about the w NBA highlighting in
Speaker 1: the eyes of women out there. Excuse me, we need
Speaker 1: all the support we can get from y'all, because when
Speaker 1: females step up and support you, you win. I agree,
Speaker 1: Stephen We appreciate you for checking in. Stephen A. Smith,
Speaker 1: Thank you for checking in. Brother start stephen A's world.
Speaker 1: They abuse Monday this Monday, January eleventh, on the Ratlation.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Appreciate y'all. Y'all take care to
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club to stephen A. Smith, So Breakfast Club, your
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Speaker 1: believe that TikTok I just showed you you got this girl.
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Speaker 1: It's topic time. The phone called eight hundred five eight
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Speaker 1: out your cj Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We
Speaker 1: all the Breakfast Club. Now, if you just joined us
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Speaker 1: when you guys are having dinner, do you think that
Speaker 1: the husband should be served before the children at the
Speaker 1: dinner table? That's the question. Let's start with you. Ye.
Speaker 1: I mean I don't have any kids or husbands, so
Speaker 1: that's hard for me to say. I just think about
Speaker 1: growing up. How did it happen in my house? And
Speaker 1: I feel like my mom made our food, and my
Speaker 1: dad got his own, like he'll just get his food himself,
Speaker 1: and then my mom wa gave us eyes. And then
Speaker 1: when we got old enough, everybody just got their own food. Yeah.
Speaker 1: In my crib in Queens, I mean I was the
Speaker 1: only child. We all eat together, so it wasn't like
Speaker 1: somebody prepared the food first. It was my mom called
Speaker 1: us down. What the hell are you going back in
Speaker 1: the childhood, Like you ain't got a whole wife? She said,
Speaker 1: well she grew up. Oh now now now it's usually
Speaker 1: my wife will fixed my plate while I fixed the
Speaker 1: kids plates, or I'll fix mine and my wife's plate
Speaker 1: while she makes the kids played. But the youngest one
Speaker 1: always gets dead food first because we usually gotta cut
Speaker 1: it up. Yeah, to chop it up. Yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: like my mom did the cooking, so my dad kind
Speaker 1: of you know, got his own stuff because she was
Speaker 1: still getting everything together. No, in my crib is definitely
Speaker 1: the youngest kids he first. I got a two year
Speaker 1: old about to be three year old and six year old.
Speaker 1: They get served first, and then after that, it's kind
Speaker 1: of just like a free fall, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: We got a thirteen year old, she on her own.
Speaker 1: You gotta fix your own damn plate, even though my
Speaker 1: wife still fixes her plate, but she definitely gets served
Speaker 1: flash flash after the other kids. And then yeah, I
Speaker 1: just I get into mix at some point either I
Speaker 1: fixed my own play and my wife fixed my own
Speaker 1: plate and the wife and my wife eats with the kids.
Speaker 1: So technically me and my thirteen year old the last
Speaker 1: the eat. Now, my wife is usually the last eat
Speaker 1: because she's usually helping me cut the food up, or
Speaker 1: she's making sure the kids. My wife don't eat with
Speaker 1: the young kids like my wife eats with the young kids,
Speaker 1: like she serves them and she makes her plate and
Speaker 1: she goes sits with them and eats. My wife has
Speaker 1: this huge phobia of the kids choking. Say me too,
Speaker 1: like huge, huge, and shout to there was a DJ,
Speaker 1: who's U whose kid he passed away? He choked on
Speaker 1: some chicken nugget. So after that story, my wife is like,
Speaker 1: very serious, my kids can't eat in the car. If
Speaker 1: my kids are eating, somebody don't has to be there
Speaker 1: with them, Like my kid has a phobia that, so
Speaker 1: she usually sits with them to make sure that that
Speaker 1: they eat. So she usually eats last, but my wife
Speaker 1: eats with them. So it's like the two youngest kids
Speaker 1: get they plate fixed, my wife figures her plate, sits
Speaker 1: with them and eat and then it's like, you know
Speaker 1: me and I'm either working out my oldest daughter is
Speaker 1: that chier leading practice is something. So we're always the
Speaker 1: last to eat. So you guys in a cook and
Speaker 1: then why would I do that? We just talked about
Speaker 1: kids choking. Why would I ever want to cook my
Speaker 1: kids in the meal. I gotta do breakfast. I do
Speaker 1: the breakfast. I'm the breakfast guy. I'll do the French
Speaker 1: toes to pay case the eggs baker. That's me, I
Speaker 1: do I know my lane. I'm terrible in the kitchen.
Speaker 1: I'm good money on breakfast. All right, Well, let's put
Speaker 1: up the phone. I heard about your turkey sauce. You
Speaker 1: heard about my sausage. I don't eat folks, sir. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? This is Charlee. Hey, Charlotte, what I've doubt?
Speaker 1: How you doing? I'm good, queen. How are you now?
Speaker 1: Do you think that the husband should be served before
Speaker 1: the children at the dinner table? Mamma, No, served after
Speaker 1: the little bun? I agree, five your husband. You served
Speaker 1: your husband, but you starved him after you served them
Speaker 1: because they can't served thyself. That's rightly, yeah, especially the
Speaker 1: little ones, like we said, you gotta chop up, chop
Speaker 1: up their food and all that. So yeah, yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1: And as a man, I want to be eating before
Speaker 1: my kids. You know what I'm saying. Are you sitting
Speaker 1: down eating and the kids looking at you? You eating,
Speaker 1: waiting to eat? No, let the kids eat first. That
Speaker 1: I know. One time, one time, I think that was
Speaker 1: the thing, because I know there was it was. There
Speaker 1: was always this thing where the man got the chicken
Speaker 1: breast and then the kids got the other big piece
Speaker 1: of chicken. Yeah, you got definite, Chris rock now, But
Speaker 1: that that was a fact though, because my dad used
Speaker 1: got the big piece of chicken. Well he should. He's
Speaker 1: the man, right, that's what eat more. But he's probably
Speaker 1: the biggest person in the house, the big person in
Speaker 1: the house, and get the largest portion. Now you know,
Speaker 1: if that was the kids Logan is because Logan eats
Speaker 1: eat places, Logan should get the big piece of chicken.
Speaker 1: He's the man of the goddamn house. If you can
Speaker 1: slam your daddy, Logan can slam his daddy, and you
Speaker 1: can slam your daddy, you get the big pizza of chicken.
Speaker 1: Salute the big Logan. You don't call him low Logan,
Speaker 1: Big Logan. Y'all seen your back on Instagram? All right, yo,
Speaker 1: look at that boy back man? You post it? Hello?
Speaker 1: Who's this? Hey, Angeline? Good morning? Good morning. Now who
Speaker 1: do you think should be served first? The husband or
Speaker 1: the children? Umanipic against her first. He's the one who
Speaker 1: goes out into the world typically, I mean the women
Speaker 1: are going out into the world to me on. But
Speaker 1: I know that's right. It's like custimary traditional that the
Speaker 1: husband goes out, he comes in, he gets his place first.
Speaker 1: I think it's an age thing too, because if you
Speaker 1: got older kids, like if you got young kids, the
Speaker 1: young kids probably gets served first and then the mom
Speaker 1: sits in each with them. But if you got older
Speaker 1: kids and the teenagers, then yeah, probably daddy then the kids.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's interesting that you say that because
Speaker 1: I'm looking at it now and thinking about this, and
Speaker 1: it feels like it'd be nice for guys that sometimes
Speaker 1: cook for the family. There's nothing like a guy who
Speaker 1: can cook and kind of serve the family. Since the
Speaker 1: women I don't have feels like um calling in this tradition,
Speaker 1: it would be a nice thing to kind of switch
Speaker 1: it up. But I don't have time for all of that.
Speaker 1: I mean, like every kid women said when she was here,
Speaker 1: like Evany said, you know, if she's the curator of
Speaker 1: the house, meaning that she's gonna have the cone cook
Speaker 1: meals there and she's gonna curate the house, she'll do
Speaker 1: all of that. But it just feels like it might
Speaker 1: be something nice to try. I just I just don't
Speaker 1: have time. I do breakfast a week, we get this
Speaker 1: is my time. My kids love my breakfast, So I
Speaker 1: mean I do breakfast. My wife does it throughout the week,
Speaker 1: but I do breakfast. I love doing breakfast. My kids
Speaker 1: love helping me cook breakfast, so breakfast is my team.
Speaker 1: And if and if you if you really on the
Speaker 1: goal of the osman, depending on what time you get home.
Speaker 1: You can't cook for your kids because your kids got
Speaker 1: to eat by six o'clock most of the time. That's
Speaker 1: when dinner time. It's for young kids. Right, Oh, I
Speaker 1: ain't cooking for my kids. I'm saying yeah, or you know,
Speaker 1: or leftovers or like I do sandwiches, man, I always
Speaker 1: could do it, Sam, But my kids know what, wife,
Speaker 1: you aren't there, We're gonna have a sandwich. Well, if
Speaker 1: you've cooked, if you fix your kids sandwiches for dinner, yes,
Speaker 1: that's a damn shame. Logan slam is ass. That's why Logan.
Speaker 1: That's why Logan is able to slam you, because Logan
Speaker 1: getting good meals while you're feeding the rest of the
Speaker 1: kids and eating sandwiches sandwich for dinner. I don't remember
Speaker 1: that they really appreciate when my man cooks for me.
Speaker 1: This whole conversation, all right, what's the more little story, guys?
Speaker 1: I mean, the more of the story is y'all gotta
Speaker 1: stop holding onto so many damn traditions. Okay, you gotta
Speaker 1: do what works for you, and you never know what
Speaker 1: works for you until you're in that situation. And when
Speaker 1: you're in that situation and it's six o'clock and the
Speaker 1: kids got to eat, and then they got to take
Speaker 1: a bath by seven, and being bad by eight. If
Speaker 1: you're not gonna help with the bathing and putting them
Speaker 1: the bad, better fix your own damn plate. And you
Speaker 1: got your wife away after her to do all that.
Speaker 1: That's crazy, all right. We got more coming up next
Speaker 1: with a breakfast club, The Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody's DJ Envy, Angela,
Speaker 1: Charlotte and the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. We
Speaker 1: got some special guests joining us this morning, our folks,
Speaker 1: Miss Pat, Miss Pat, and Jordan Cooper and Jordan Cooper,
Speaker 1: how y'all feeling, man? You get the good morning, Good morning?
Speaker 1: You're doing drinking cold cold. I know you're from Atlanta,
Speaker 1: but damn prink. I flew bitch at three o'clock and
Speaker 1: then he had no car to pick me up. I'm
Speaker 1: tired out there trying to pick me up at the airpoint.
Speaker 1: I'm like, excuse me, Do you think I don't see
Speaker 1: the news? Y'all? Ain't about to take I got on
Speaker 1: a spank, taking time on rapping a whole lot of times. Well,
Speaker 1: first of all, I feel like we should be celebrating,
Speaker 1: right because it's been such a journey for you to
Speaker 1: get your show on TV. Introduce you to Miss Pat
Speaker 1: because you ain't never been able pass before Rabbit. I've
Speaker 1: done all of that, so I'm familiar. Well, nice to
Speaker 1: finally be You waited till you got a TV show
Speaker 1: over to be here for an interview, Miss past some
Speaker 1: was like fighting with people. I ain't go yet. I
Speaker 1: still got my lad burnscause I'm trying to be blacker
Speaker 1: than the moment. We are proud of you. We're so
Speaker 1: proud of you, man, Pat and Jordan, like we've seen,
Speaker 1: the journey was three networks before landing on BT plus
Speaker 1: three No three nets worth three writers cried teals, Damn.
Speaker 1: I couldn't sunk the right in Halloween. That's why I
Speaker 1: took five I got. I can't be sucking away no shot.
Speaker 1: But you didn't have to worry about that. Whoa who
Speaker 1: I think Lee won't me sucking exactly, That's what I think, Lee,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about other people. How was the process though, Jordan,
Speaker 1: It was amazing. It was amazing. I like, well, it's
Speaker 1: a crazy story. I got introduced to Pat in high school.
Speaker 1: My dad was like, you gotta watch her. She's hilarious.
Speaker 1: Her story is ridiculous. So I watched it and I
Speaker 1: was like, dang, Like her story is crazy, she's front
Speaker 1: of his hell. She need to write a book. Then
Speaker 1: I wrote my play Ain't no Mo that Lie saw
Speaker 1: at the public and he was like, Yo, I'm doing
Speaker 1: this thing with miss Pat, this comedian. We don't have
Speaker 1: a concept for her, so see if you can read
Speaker 1: this book and see if you can come up with
Speaker 1: a concept for a show. And I read it and
Speaker 1: I immediately saw in my head this this sitcom with
Speaker 1: a live audience, and I want to go back to
Speaker 1: like All in the Family, good Times, the Jeffersons. But
Speaker 1: I wanted it to be r rated in front of
Speaker 1: a live studio. I thought, watch Lucy one night. I'm
Speaker 1: like Lucy in La I say, if you don't give
Speaker 1: me the thing, I'm sleeping the clock that night. Old
Speaker 1: people bid it to be Lucy. No. I had to
Speaker 1: watch it because I wanted her to know the history
Speaker 1: of like wherever history coming from. I don't even give
Speaker 1: my black history, not at till o'clock at night. I'm sleeping.
Speaker 1: We're up in Beverly Hills, so I watching Lucy and
Speaker 1: I don't dozed off like a mum. I'm sleep I
Speaker 1: told you for you brought this pan. Liz is always
Speaker 1: with why because it's a sixty four shiving. I saw
Speaker 1: your wife. Everybody got a little drip. Ain't tight like
Speaker 1: the third grade. I was say, have kids, it's still
Speaker 1: pretty tad that what you think anywhere I can smell
Speaker 1: them used to have. When you say you don't like it,
Speaker 1: you let him sticking in your neighbor, Ageli, Yeah, a
Speaker 1: fact girl got deep neighbor like John. You like when
Speaker 1: you stommar like ifen neighbor used to be there. So
Speaker 1: a fat girl. We tricked, we don't want to really
Speaker 1: give you know, we let you stick it in the neighbor.
Speaker 1: So when you say you know you, all you did
Speaker 1: was navel. You gotta worry about cleaning this up because
Speaker 1: she curses. Listen that these networks, I think at the
Speaker 1: beginning they really want to put her on network TV,
Speaker 1: like Fox and all this. But I didn't want it
Speaker 1: to to to be fake. I didn't want it to
Speaker 1: be I wanted her to be able to be herself.
Speaker 1: So basically Lee was like, come up, come up with
Speaker 1: a concept, right, And he goes to Fox and was like, yo,
Speaker 1: I got this kid. He wrote this show like I
Speaker 1: think you guys would love it there like he's still
Speaker 1: in college, and nobody like we're not. We're not about
Speaker 1: to do that. The first network was attached to Fox. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then Pat Pat whenever we met, she called she
Speaker 1: come on my birthday to meet him. So I took
Speaker 1: his novel and I said, look, Hollywood is full of
Speaker 1: everybody wanted the same person in Hollywood. If you get
Speaker 1: a fat black girl, I need a fat black girl.
Speaker 1: I said, so rat And ain't nobody got no fat
Speaker 1: black girl. Ain't nobody calling for him? So I said,
Speaker 1: the only way you're gonna get this job is you
Speaker 1: listen to me. We need to write a strip behind him,
Speaker 1: on his back, and we wrote that pole and we
Speaker 1: handed to Lee and so what was crazy because he
Speaker 1: put his name out to take a name off for
Speaker 1: and because he thought I was like, why are you
Speaker 1: gonna take my name off? Because if it's up, it's
Speaker 1: gonna fall back on me, not you. And you still
Speaker 1: got a chance to get a job. That's what Lee
Speaker 1: trying to do. And I said, I said, everybody gonna know,
Speaker 1: ain't do it. Everything spelt right now. So I gave
Speaker 1: it to Lee and he was like whoa there. I
Speaker 1: was like me, say, Mitchy spelt right. Me and Jordan
Speaker 1: wrote this and he walked it in and that's how
Speaker 1: he got the job at five the whole. Then it
Speaker 1: ended up at Hulu too, right. Hulu shot the pilot,
Speaker 1: so Hulu shoot, we sell it. He takes us he
Speaker 1: wanted to do, he wanted real language in it. So
Speaker 1: it moves us over to Fox twenty one. Fox twenty
Speaker 1: one sell it to Hulu. This is how much we
Speaker 1: went through Fox. So Hulu shoots the pilot and everybody
Speaker 1: get involved. We attached Debbie Allan. She shot it was
Speaker 1: our first pilot since his first prison. And we shoot
Speaker 1: the pilot, y'all and my spirit, I said, they're not
Speaker 1: gonna pick it up. Okay, we shoot it. I go
Speaker 1: on back on the road. It took him six months
Speaker 1: and say no, that person didn't understand me and they
Speaker 1: didn't understand this show. But it was there. It was
Speaker 1: also there. We heard through the grapevine that it was
Speaker 1: their highest tested pilot ever, because it was a thing
Speaker 1: where where I don't think that person understood why it
Speaker 1: was funny or why people would sometimes you have to
Speaker 1: know what you don't know it's a white person. Because
Speaker 1: it was a white person, you know it's a goddamn
Speaker 1: goddamn Madonna's I think when BT call and said, it
Speaker 1: was like BT plus that's what they could be blu
Speaker 1: And they gave us ten episode and I with people
Speaker 1: with me, you know, they was great. It was kind
Speaker 1: of better because they understood it. We have to explain
Speaker 1: and napping half and then we had questions about There
Speaker 1: was a joke about edges and they were like what,
Speaker 1: I'm like, what the it's alopecia on black women? When
Speaker 1: they moved a wig, I don't know, no, no, I'm
Speaker 1: not picking up anybody with alopecia. I was at a
Speaker 1: some long one time. My friends said, watch my watch
Speaker 1: my client. Have I watched that wig? Off? O heir?
Speaker 1: I said, he heal fell off. She said she got alapicia.
Speaker 1: I had never heard. That's the bitch got apples and
Speaker 1: peach from cream and nature my life. But I was
Speaker 1: then asked for me said we have you know how
Speaker 1: I'm listening your tracks out and leave your little boss
Speaker 1: by hell and you put a little mother stuff for
Speaker 1: a't on it and they grow back. But I ain't
Speaker 1: never took a bit, and it looked like a bitch
Speaker 1: went through a car on and on hold on. So
Speaker 1: after after um, I forgot my train of thought. Fit
Speaker 1: ba create we have more with Miss Patt and Jordan
Speaker 1: Cooper when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast
Speaker 1: Club more to Breakfast Club. Was still kicking it with
Speaker 1: Miss Pat comedian and Jordan Cooper. How close. Uh, the
Speaker 1: show is about your your life nine. So your daughter
Speaker 1: really with the ass in school? No, No, she whipped
Speaker 1: him with education. That's Gary Jana. She's based off my
Speaker 1: daughter that she actually wrote on the show. So my
Speaker 1: daughter went to this all white school and she was
Speaker 1: just whooping with knowledge. And I was like, that's why
Speaker 1: you can't get no, because you up with all this
Speaker 1: black lives matter. Black lives matter, just so suggested, calm down,
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna never get no. These all white schools
Speaker 1: wanted your daughter to get ain't good. That's being on
Speaker 1: both of my daughters. Somebody needs some shot. So he
Speaker 1: went in mind he being with a white boy. I
Speaker 1: went out, that's okay. I can't go over there and
Speaker 1: put a stop signing my kids. My daughter needs to
Speaker 1: stop signing anybody. My daughter. You're gonna treat the right.
Speaker 1: Come on out the house. No, you gotta get her
Speaker 1: out of the bathroom. I thought, my b't gonna use that.
Speaker 1: Get to me, go Bobby Leaky for the tesla. My
Speaker 1: daughter got a test. I could you that we like
Speaker 1: seeing Tammy Roman and your chemistry. Y'all, she kills you
Speaker 1: know what's crazy. Let me tell you about the whole
Speaker 1: the whole cast in this show. So Jordan, when he
Speaker 1: first got me, he was sent me. He sent me
Speaker 1: two people, which was a daddy, and he sent me
Speaker 1: Tammy Roman. He said, this is your sister, and that's
Speaker 1: your that's your husband. So I said, that big old
Speaker 1: black guy is not my husband. I said that crazy
Speaker 1: ass one with that bunnet on her head is not
Speaker 1: my sister. Because I didn't I didn't know Tammy. I
Speaker 1: don't watch Reality Team. I don't know anything about neither
Speaker 1: one of them. So you just saw the video with
Speaker 1: the bocket by and I said that crazy ass because
Speaker 1: she was funny. I said that bit crazy and she's
Speaker 1: not my sister. He was like, yes, she. So when
Speaker 1: it was time to audition, I kind of had this
Speaker 1: darker skinny girl because my sister's dark skinn in real
Speaker 1: life and so really good at blow that away. The
Speaker 1: next day that the Lee Daniel sister doing all the cash,
Speaker 1: She's like, you gotta watch Tammy Roman And I was like,
Speaker 1: who is Tammy Roman? And he was like, then I
Speaker 1: googled it. I was like she in reality, this thought
Speaker 1: she can't act and he was like, she was like,
Speaker 1: yes she can. Yeah she can't. So I said, okay,
Speaker 1: that girl walked in that mother, she was that character,
Speaker 1: and I'm like okay, and that bitch woke that room up.
Speaker 1: The show. Tammy's a recovering addict. So your sister, you say,
Speaker 1: your sister still well, yeah, I indulgees smoke. Yeah, same thing.
Speaker 1: You gotta use the up shoot. Man, I know you're
Speaker 1: fun to streat you from North Caroline. He say, your
Speaker 1: cousin smoke right, man, you ain't. You ain't gonna hurt
Speaker 1: my feeling. Let me smoke. I mean your sister indulges
Speaker 1: in narcotics, A smoke nocotic? Who I blocked him? What
Speaker 1: you don't you don't message your sister when nobody I
Speaker 1: had to block anybody shown abody to get my little
Speaker 1: few pen and BT game me and what you kids
Speaker 1: said about the show him? My kids lived with me,
Speaker 1: my kids, but my daughter wrote on the show. My
Speaker 1: other daughter did make up. So I mean my whole
Speaker 1: family was. My husband was at home. He didn't come down.
Speaker 1: But you know, if where I could, where I could
Speaker 1: provide a job, I provided a job. You didn't tell
Speaker 1: us how you came to terms with the big dude,
Speaker 1: your husband? What mean you comfortable with that one? It
Speaker 1: took him in it because I had never kissed a man.
Speaker 1: You over twenty years, and when you know what another
Speaker 1: feel about that first? What do you see that first
Speaker 1: kiss on camera? It was okay, you know because at
Speaker 1: first I was like doing the pilot. It was really hard,
Speaker 1: and but he was so nice because he was such
Speaker 1: a such a great actor, and I was like, I
Speaker 1: just hated him. I could get your hands off me.
Speaker 1: You know, he's a stage actor, so he was sweat.
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, I hate this man. Get him
Speaker 1: a wife from me. And so you know, I didn't
Speaker 1: know him either, But what was so good about him.
Speaker 1: He was just so patient. He's never tried to push
Speaker 1: himself on me, and I just told him, I said, dude,
Speaker 1: I ain't kiss no man twenty years. And it was
Speaker 1: literally with grossing me out at the beginning. But then
Speaker 1: when we started to shoot the nine episode, you spend
Speaker 1: time with something like turn on reason says this as
Speaker 1: I wanted to show black love. I wanted to show
Speaker 1: but like this, this is the Jaber. He's a fierce
Speaker 1: ridiculous actor. But like on their screen test, the two
Speaker 1: of them, don't let me tell your husband now and
Speaker 1: all that my husband like who wrote this, miss tap
Speaker 1: were the conversations like for you at home after filming this,
Speaker 1: because I'm sure it made you because like Jody was saying,
Speaker 1: you're being more vulnerable. So what happened at home just
Speaker 1: from even filming this, I think my husband, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you and all after this,
Speaker 1: we had to go through counseling and I've been I've
Speaker 1: never had to do counseling with my husband, but it
Speaker 1: was a new take on life. You know, your wife
Speaker 1: is stepping into the spotlight and my husband, my husband
Speaker 1: worked at General Motors. You know, He's just an ordinary dude.
Speaker 1: And people started to like come up to him and say, like,
Speaker 1: you met Pat Hell. He's like, no, I'm Garrett. Let
Speaker 1: me call me miss Pat. So it was it was
Speaker 1: also it was all It affected him in a certain way.
Speaker 1: I don't know if my husband felt like he was
Speaker 1: losing head of the household. You know how some men
Speaker 1: feel like, well, she don't need me anymore. And I
Speaker 1: never thought I needed counseling before, but I knew my
Speaker 1: marriage was on the rocks. Tell I used to talk
Speaker 1: I know, I know, I literally I used to tell
Speaker 1: it all the time. I was like, you need to
Speaker 1: go to therapy, like you need to talk about somebody.
Speaker 1: And she was like, nah, I got comedy. I ain't
Speaker 1: doing no death therapy. And so literally I wrote therapy
Speaker 1: in the season, I wrote that the couple that he
Speaker 1: started therapy and then they go together and she kind
Speaker 1: of starts to and that's when she started therapy, which
Speaker 1: was just a beautiful thing to watch her open up.
Speaker 1: And I think, you you grew a lot. You said
Speaker 1: you grew a lot, and I did. I learned a
Speaker 1: lot about the way my husband felt, which I like,
Speaker 1: I travel all the time, so I would go home
Speaker 1: and it was like he would follow asleep real early.
Speaker 1: Oh it would be like rejection. I'm like, what is
Speaker 1: wrong with him? But I'm so busy trying to create
Speaker 1: a show, trying to do a specially, do all other things.
Speaker 1: And it didn't hit me until my birthday party and
Speaker 1: my friend Quisa through me a surprise birthday party and
Speaker 1: he didn't come down, and I was like, what my husband,
Speaker 1: y'all didn't invite him and it was like he wouldn't come.
Speaker 1: I was embarrassed. So I called him and I said, hey, no,
Speaker 1: you had it for the voice court. What you want
Speaker 1: to called his mother? Counseling my friend gave me and
Speaker 1: he we called. But in that session, which I never
Speaker 1: thought I would ever do counseling, I learned so much
Speaker 1: about this man that it was setting in my house
Speaker 1: that I didn't know. Damn. I mean, y'all have been
Speaker 1: together so for so long. Y'll probably had to get
Speaker 1: to know each other all over again. We really did,
Speaker 1: because one point he's like, I was just waiting to die.
Speaker 1: You don't need me to. You had a healthcare we
Speaker 1: might not be able to get this stuff to you.
Speaker 1: Croak over the dynamics of your relationship changed, right it did?
Speaker 1: It changed? You know, I think it's cousin. You know,
Speaker 1: my husband is very quiet person, and then you know,
Speaker 1: I don't think he ever thought my career was we
Speaker 1: get like this, you know, really he would say, he
Speaker 1: would say, and I'm not gonna listen some to chick
Speaker 1: house jobs. You're going on not THEW and you out
Speaker 1: there just looking around because I worked that General Motors,
Speaker 1: and I worked that for you quitn't good job for this.
Speaker 1: And I was like, dude, shift up. It's something here
Speaker 1: because I know when it's something here for me. And
Speaker 1: you know, you know, he was just ready to leave.
Speaker 1: He's like he thought he was like I was ready
Speaker 1: to leave. I was waiting on you said it was over.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're gonna build a counsel and little anothering
Speaker 1: could come in it and keep the lights on for you. Mother.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm in time. I messed out your credit
Speaker 1: card to go do a show that didn't pay me.
Speaker 1: You know how many time you bought me? You know
Speaker 1: how mena tell you stay at the house with three
Speaker 1: sets of cracked babies that I raised. You know how
Speaker 1: many times that I didn't come home, and you would
Speaker 1: send me your credit card and I took your whole
Speaker 1: paycheck for my dream. And then now we I get
Speaker 1: a little money, and you gonna feel like you ain't
Speaker 1: a part of it's wrong with you. But the counselor
Speaker 1: another black man had to set my husband down and
Speaker 1: open up his mind. Like my husband wouldn't even let
Speaker 1: me buy him nothing named brand. He wouldn't even take
Speaker 1: a vacation if I bought that money. I don't want
Speaker 1: to take that back. I don't. We just went to DIDs.
Speaker 1: I bought them. Louiverton sat a while. He took it
Speaker 1: all this time, and you know, like when I first
Speaker 1: shot the thing, I was like, hey, I made this month.
Speaker 1: I want to give you this. I don't want your money.
Speaker 1: And I was like, we got to look at it
Speaker 1: like it's our money. Though. That's what counseling did for
Speaker 1: him to realize that we are as one. When you
Speaker 1: keep blowing up the way you are, miss Pat and
Speaker 1: you get all this money, are you gonna retire your
Speaker 1: husband the way Tabitha Brown did her. I'm gonna retire
Speaker 1: my husband told me beginning of the year, clock out
Speaker 1: come on. I'm actually I just put a contrack on
Speaker 1: the house on the line. You got them right. My
Speaker 1: husband worked, He's been twenty two years at General Models.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't I retire him. I've been with this man
Speaker 1: twenty some years. They never put his hands on thirty.
Speaker 1: I'm on thirty yields. I ain't never went without a meal.
Speaker 1: Come you see me? I look like I missed the meal.
Speaker 1: No man, It was like, no man, I don't mean
Speaker 1: it like that. I've never been disrespected. They've never been
Speaker 1: called a bitch and never got hit in the our
Speaker 1: friday without the makeup on out hit me my friday
Speaker 1: like it was a dance we were going to. So
Speaker 1: I mean, why would not Why wouldn't that? It's your
Speaker 1: turn now? But can you have helped me get here
Speaker 1: when so many other people look down on me and
Speaker 1: talk even your mother, mamma? What you want with that way?
Speaker 1: I found queen. I'm like, bitch, I'm giving you some
Speaker 1: food stap you're gonna call me away? I found queen,
Speaker 1: if I weren't telling any lines, I can't be over that,
Speaker 1: bringing you know, food for them roaches to help you eat.
Speaker 1: I can tell that you're gonna in my goodness all right,
Speaker 1: we have more with Miss Pat and Jordan Cooper when
Speaker 1: we come back as the Breakfast Club the Morning Who
Speaker 1: kicking it with Miss Pat Comedian and Jordan Cooper. Jordan,
Speaker 1: you know, I think about you often because I've been
Speaker 1: saying over the in the next five years, the things
Speaker 1: gonna change in America. We're gonna have to move to Ghana.
Speaker 1: And that's what your whole play was about. That was
Speaker 1: what years ago? How long? Two years ago? Yeah? When
Speaker 1: you see that, Yeah, absolutely absolutely, This country is crazy. Man.
Speaker 1: I think we're being ain't ring. I got high flesh
Speaker 1: you already, he said, You already already telling them about
Speaker 1: your hot booty, old hot flashes in the assay. When
Speaker 1: you have hot sashes, they move on you have you
Speaker 1: started high flashes, you know, But I don't get him
Speaker 1: in my booty hole. They're coming. Then you eat that
Speaker 1: comes out. She reminded me of Felicia Richard. She's so
Speaker 1: boot my booty hell Pepper. No, when you know, you know,
Speaker 1: I wanted you thirty other than that. Okay, they coming,
Speaker 1: They're gonna the time when you just gonna start heating
Speaker 1: up around the neck. Then it moved to the and
Speaker 1: just recently I was just telling my high flashes between
Speaker 1: my legs and it's my panty line of strip. It
Speaker 1: won't stick no more because it's just hot down now
Speaker 1: keep laughing. I'm serious. Flashes. Go ask your mama. I
Speaker 1: bet she'd be round your mama about her hot booty hole.
Speaker 1: Don't y'all know nobody y'all there, Go ask your mama
Speaker 1: about So I got I got high flashes in my
Speaker 1: ass now, so I'm a calma doctor. When I started,
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, dude, this between my legs now and
Speaker 1: then heat it up and it shouldn't be doing this
Speaker 1: doing the day while I'm on the plane next to
Speaker 1: a white man. So I just ht fast why you
Speaker 1: can't move the guy? You can't move to God because
Speaker 1: we ain't got no pay port to do my weed?
Speaker 1: I could. I feel like Loki were being dude, Like
Speaker 1: I feel like it's too quiet like in the White House.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I voted for Biden, I voted from Karma Harris,
Speaker 1: but I feel like I don't want us to be fooled.
Speaker 1: I don't want us to think that just because the
Speaker 1: regime changes, that the problems are fixed, that we ain't
Speaker 1: got no issue ain't gonna be. But that's the problem.
Speaker 1: But we think we think it is. Ain't. Nobody never
Speaker 1: thought that problem gonna be fixing this. That's a damn Lord.
Speaker 1: That's we quiet. No, we are quiet. No, we are quiet.
Speaker 1: That's why they listen, listen, this is what I'm saying. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing ass of a bitch and everybody else.
Speaker 1: He had a real business and he was saying that
Speaker 1: twelve his mother's finger. It affects him. Yeah, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: talking about real bus. But what I'm saying is is
Speaker 1: that white people were so up in arms whenever Trump
Speaker 1: was in office. Everybody, no, they were not. White people
Speaker 1: were silent when Obama was in presidency. They thought they
Speaker 1: thought it was perfect. They thought it was because they
Speaker 1: voted for Trump. That's why they thought it was good.
Speaker 1: What white people you've been seeing, I'm talking about the
Speaker 1: white people. I'm talking about the white people. I grew
Speaker 1: up in Texas, so like I remember, that's a whole race. No,
Speaker 1: listen to listen, listen, this is what I'm saying. The reason,
Speaker 1: the reason why we ain't no more in the first
Speaker 1: place was because white people whenever Barack Obama was in presidency,
Speaker 1: it was like they weren't paying attention. It was like
Speaker 1: everything is perfect because we have this black person at
Speaker 1: the front of a thing. Right. And then when Trump
Speaker 1: was in office, all of a sudden, at the devil
Speaker 1: was bass necking in the street and everybody was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, we gotta get the devil out of here, right.
Speaker 1: And then when we put Biden in, nobody's worried about
Speaker 1: the devil no more. When it's like No, was still
Speaker 1: all out there. He was at the courthouse. Then I
Speaker 1: always lock you up. They were still out there. You
Speaker 1: just yawned. You don't pay tea. No, I'm saying that
Speaker 1: we're not. I feel like we're not speaking up as
Speaker 1: much as we were when Trump was in office because
Speaker 1: it was now telling people to get Did you see
Speaker 1: the last motherfuck we had? He was out spoken and crazy,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Was entertaining. He was entertaining. So
Speaker 1: you woke up to turn on the tee with this
Speaker 1: crazy man. So we gonna do this week? It's no
Speaker 1: more that all Biden got his mother and both talks
Speaker 1: up on his eyes like a baby ass. You see
Speaker 1: how that ball time about Biden. If you don't stop
Speaker 1: both talks in your eyes. You you gonna die, your
Speaker 1: eyes gonna still be alive? Have you not seen his eye? Ask?
Speaker 1: And y'all work from nowhere? I said, what what is
Speaker 1: it rare about? The wrinkles up on his eye? He
Speaker 1: got that good boat time to like three doll dolls
Speaker 1: on needle cut in my eyes and smooth like a
Speaker 1: bad ass white dude you ever seen by an eye?
Speaker 1: Look back in your eyes. Got ton of botox. He can't.
Speaker 1: He can't even smile no more. He just said, I
Speaker 1: stay open up. I've been eyes. So that's why you
Speaker 1: ain't hurting now. He ain't that getting But that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I feel like we got the same heat
Speaker 1: that we had when Trump was in office. We gotta
Speaker 1: keep that heat. We gotta keep that. We're still being
Speaker 1: locked up, we're still being killed. Keep that heat. Camay joke. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I watched the first y'all gonna watch with your kids. No,
Speaker 1: but I've done some of the things that you've done before,
Speaker 1: Like I have to turn off the Wi fi and
Speaker 1: the crib with my son, went a little too crazy
Speaker 1: with with the game, and there's a couple of things.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I enjoy this so far, and I just
Speaker 1: want to say thank you. Miss Pat always checks up
Speaker 1: for me, and I appreciate saying I appreciate you. I'm
Speaker 1: a real day I'm not here, I'm a real mother.
Speaker 1: Spending time with your family. It just black love, just beautiful.
Speaker 1: I never met your wife, but congratulation on new babies.
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, why wou't you have a baby
Speaker 1: with a body like that? But anyway, she's beautiful. What
Speaker 1: you're having a girl? Another girl? So four girls and
Speaker 1: two boys, four girls and two boys. Congratulate. I would
Speaker 1: send you a gift, but you rich and thoughtful. Come
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Speaker 1: Miss Patt. We're so proud of you, Miss Pat. Proud
Speaker 1: of you, Jordan Man, Jordan, thank you for staying down
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Speaker 1: You are beautiful. Thank you. I'm excited to meet you too.
Speaker 1: You know I was up on that bug early on
Speaker 1: as soon as you sent it up here. So I
Speaker 1: was always disappointed I wasn't here when you were here,
Speaker 1: but I'm happy. Well are you beautiful? Thank you for
Speaker 1: being in the house first time I met you. It's
Speaker 1: miss Pat Jordan's Cooper's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, So
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Speaker 1: It was a breakfast club bitch. He was donkey of
Speaker 1: the day to day. Yeah, Donkey of the Day goes
Speaker 1: to Matt Rowand who is Matt Rowand here is an
Speaker 1: announcer for high school basketball in Oklahoma. He was calling
Speaker 1: a game last Thursday, last Thursday night, and one of
Speaker 1: the teams participating in the game where the Norman High
Speaker 1: School girls basketball team dropping the clues bombs for the
Speaker 1: Norman High School girls basketball team. Okay, the Norman High
Speaker 1: School girls basketball team decided to take a knee in protest.
Speaker 1: We all know we're taking a knee meets in sports,
Speaker 1: a suggest made famous by Colin Kaepernick. The protest US
Speaker 1: against police brutality and racism. Can't think of too many
Speaker 1: things that piss off white supremacists more than taking a
Speaker 1: knee during a national anthem. Now, a lot of white
Speaker 1: supremacists try to mask their racism and bigotry under the
Speaker 1: guise of being patriotic. They say, if you take a
Speaker 1: knee during the national anthem, you are being unpatriotic. But
Speaker 1: we all know it has nothing to do with the
Speaker 1: lack of respect. They think you're showing for the red, white,
Speaker 1: and blue and everything to do with the lack of
Speaker 1: respect that they have for the black period. Don't believe me, well,
Speaker 1: let's look at exhibit A. Matt rowan announcer who was
Speaker 1: calling the game for an online broadcast on the NHS
Speaker 1: network when he saw the protest. He had some words
Speaker 1: for the Norman High School basketball team, and he didn't
Speaker 1: realize his microphone was on. Let's go to CBS News
Speaker 1: for the report. Police. A hot mic caught a sports
Speaker 1: announcer using a racist slurt during a high school basketball
Speaker 1: game in Oklahoma. It happened when the team from Norman
Speaker 1: High School knelt during the national anthem Thursday night. The
Speaker 1: local school system has severed ties with him, and I
Speaker 1: couldn't really hear what the slur was. You have an
Speaker 1: isolated Okay, Now, kneeling is in protests to racism and
Speaker 1: police brutality, which he usually goes hand in hand. But
Speaker 1: if I'm kneeling the protest racism, and your response to
Speaker 1: my kneeling is they're kneeling a niggers. Aren't you proving
Speaker 1: us right? Okay? Don't that's why we kneel? When you're
Speaker 1: response in twenty twenty one to me kneeling, is you
Speaker 1: calling me the N word? I don't claim to be
Speaker 1: the smartest man in the world. I've said it a
Speaker 1: million times on this radio. I'm not the highest grade
Speaker 1: of weed in the dispensary. No. I might have strong
Speaker 1: is avenger, But man, oh man, if y'all want people
Speaker 1: to stop kneeling, stop protesting, thedn't stop giving them things
Speaker 1: the protesting kneel about. Okay, Now that's only the first
Speaker 1: part of donkey today. It's a couple of reasons he's
Speaker 1: getting donkey. One is for the blatant racism. Second is
Speaker 1: for this statement he put out apologizing. Would you like
Speaker 1: to know what his excuse was for calling these girls
Speaker 1: the N word? Let's go back to CBS News for
Speaker 1: the report police. The announcer, Matt Rowan later blamed his
Speaker 1: remarks on his diabetes and a blood sugar spike. The
Speaker 1: local school system has severed ties with him. High blood
Speaker 1: sugar diabetes. Really, your blood sugar levels are very low
Speaker 1: compared to your blood manaidse levels. Okay, type one diabetes.
Speaker 1: This is type one racism. Okay. I didn't know racism
Speaker 1: was a side effect of diabetes. I don't know how,
Speaker 1: because there's nothing sweet about racism. By the way, last
Speaker 1: time that I checked, black Americans had higher rach of
Speaker 1: diabetes and the white Americans. So can we use diabetes
Speaker 1: as an excuse to be biggest? I mean I had
Speaker 1: to google the side effects of diabetes. I see footholsus,
Speaker 1: cardiovascular disease, vision impairment, gum disease, fatigue, strokes, nerve damage,
Speaker 1: But nothing about racism, nothing about bigotry. In match statement,
Speaker 1: he said, I from type one diabetes and during the game,
Speaker 1: my sugar was spiking and I became disoriented. And I
Speaker 1: often say things that are not appropriate as well as
Speaker 1: hurtful when I'm in this state. I do not believe
Speaker 1: that I would have made such horrible statements absent my
Speaker 1: sugar spiking. Let's unpractice, as my therapist says. Number one, Matt,
Speaker 1: you said in your statement that you often say things
Speaker 1: that are inappropriate as well as hurtful when you're sugar
Speaker 1: is spiking. So this wasn't an isolated incident, okay, because
Speaker 1: you said this happens often, all right, this is what
Speaker 1: you do on the regular. And you said, I do
Speaker 1: not believe that I would have made such horrible statements.
Speaker 1: I do not believe. What do you mean you do
Speaker 1: not believe if I ask you not to do something?
Speaker 1: Yes and no, it's the only answer that suppie. If
Speaker 1: you tell me you don't believe you would do something,
Speaker 1: I can't trust that, Matt. Why can't you trust yourself
Speaker 1: that you wouldn't call black people in words if your
Speaker 1: blood sugar level wasn't spiking, I'll tell you why, because
Speaker 1: you're racist, That's it. And furthermore, when your blood sugar
Speaker 1: level of spike and you get fatigued, you get your
Speaker 1: and it's a breath, you get a very dry mouth.
Speaker 1: I didn't hear none of that. In fact, that nigga
Speaker 1: sounded wet when it came out your mouth. Okay. I
Speaker 1: also didn't hit no trouble breathing, and you're damn sure
Speaker 1: didn't sound tired. Matt. Just just please let Kathy River
Speaker 1: get Matt rowing the biggest he Please give this giant
Speaker 1: jar male the biggest he hall thing. Luckily he was fired. Okay,
Speaker 1: and that's that. Hey, Hey dropped on the clothes bombs
Speaker 1: for Chris Rock. All right, wow, Chris, okay, Wow, didn't
Speaker 1: know you wanted to add that, keep it lock. We
Speaker 1: have more coming up next. It's the breakfast club, the
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Speaker 1: such a huge fan. And I'm whispering because my husband
Speaker 1: is sleepy. Just came home from work. But this is
Speaker 1: a secret that my starting expressed to me that he
Speaker 1: wants to keep a secret. Okay, my son, he just
Speaker 1: turned ten and he told me that he's made like
Speaker 1: boys and girls. Okay, and what did you say? I
Speaker 1: don't um. I told him no matter what, that I
Speaker 1: would love him. Um. And whatever decision he makes out,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stand next to him. But I'm not sure
Speaker 1: it's what he's feeling is correct or any like. I
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Speaker 1: I'm he had to it good with him, and I'm
Speaker 1: trying to keep our relationship, you know. UM. I want
Speaker 1: him to come to me right for any about anything.
Speaker 1: But inside, I'm like kind of panicking and I don't,
Speaker 1: you know, like I'm going back and forth with myself, Well,
Speaker 1: what are you panicking about? Because number one, he's a
Speaker 1: young black man already, um and you know, just to
Speaker 1: be open, and he's already being bullied, he's already have
Speaker 1: mental health issues and you know, it's just tough out
Speaker 1: here for him. One more stigma on top of that.
Speaker 1: It's just you know, right, already expressed in the third
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Speaker 1: like yourself. I think maybe this is you know what
Speaker 1: everything was that he was hiding, you know, right, yes,
Speaker 1: because it is painful to have these things that you
Speaker 1: want to hide. You don't want people to know. He
Speaker 1: it's great that he felt like he could tell you, yes,
Speaker 1: that's what I told her, right, and start expressing that
Speaker 1: to you. And you have to keep those lines of
Speaker 1: communication open. I think your response was amazing, and I
Speaker 1: understand that you are concerned because that's your child, so
Speaker 1: you don't want him to be out in this world
Speaker 1: where people can be really nasty and cruel. And I
Speaker 1: exactly right, So I here expressed some that he does
Speaker 1: like a boy in school, and like, you know, like
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know how to how to handle everything,
Speaker 1: like like this is a lot, Like he's only ten?
Speaker 1: Is he too young to happy feelings? Its he? You know?
Speaker 1: Like is this something that's normal? If it's gonna change?
Speaker 1: I have so many questions, like I don't, I don't
Speaker 1: I need help? And you know what, honey, there's nobody
Speaker 1: that can even answer all those questions for you, because
Speaker 1: he probably doesn't even understand everything right now. He just
Speaker 1: knows how he's feeling, and at least he's able to
Speaker 1: express how he's feeling. And that's all he can do. Now.
Speaker 1: Have you got him some professional help, somebody that he
Speaker 1: can speak to so that they can help him navigate,
Speaker 1: and maybe both of you should go? And I think
Speaker 1: that's not done, not far, you know, like it. I'm
Speaker 1: still kind of in shock this. He just expressed this
Speaker 1: to me two days ago, right, so I'm just like
Speaker 1: still trying to you know, see, like I don't want
Speaker 1: him to, you know, feel like he can't trust me.
Speaker 1: But I don't want him to. He's only ten, and
Speaker 1: I don't want him to start reacting only feeling things,
Speaker 1: you know, like I I don't know. And then he's
Speaker 1: also expressing to me like, you know, please don't tell
Speaker 1: my dad and don't tell this person, and you know,
Speaker 1: like I just he's scared of everyone's reaction, right so
Speaker 1: and you should respect that of course, and you are, Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't tell anybody else, but definitely go set up something
Speaker 1: for you guys to find somebody good to talk to
Speaker 1: if you hold on the line. I actually have somebody
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Speaker 1: this is dire because I want you to be able
Speaker 1: to know how to deal with this. I'm not an
Speaker 1: expert in that, but I do feel like what you've
Speaker 1: done so far has been amazing as a mom, and
Speaker 1: I know that I want you to be able to
Speaker 1: express to him in the best way possible how much
Speaker 1: you love him, how much you care about him and us,
Speaker 1: and also help him learn what he needs to do
Speaker 1: in order to be more comfortable and not have feelings
Speaker 1: of suicide, because that's a major too. You don't want
Speaker 1: him to everythink about that again. That's my worst fear.
Speaker 1: All right, hold on the line. I'm Gonnahok, you up
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Speaker 1: You make more money than I do. Nah, she tells me,
Speaker 1: says she did it use she didn't think it was
Speaker 1: gonna be no problem with me. She just wanted some
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Speaker 1: it could have donated plasm What the deal? Well, it
Speaker 1: is a confusing part. That's not your girl, So legally
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Speaker 1: Maybe she's telling you that to see how you react,
Speaker 1: because you're not trying to lock it down. If you're
Speaker 1: not with me, if you're not my man, I can
Speaker 1: do whatever I want. We've never had that discussion. Do
Speaker 1: you do other things too? I'm direct, I need a
Speaker 1: damn camel. But do you do other dude? Do you
Speaker 1: mess with other chicks too? Absolutely? So what are you
Speaker 1: mad about? You're not even in a relationship. Doesn't this
Speaker 1: sound hypocritical to you? We got we got things. It's amazing,
Speaker 1: it is amazing, It is amazing. It causes well, yes,
Speaker 1: they're yellow, both single, yellow, both single. Yes, what's the problem? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but no, we have we have rules. We can't break rules.
Speaker 1: So the rule is that she can't get money from
Speaker 1: her ex. We all know. So she didn't do anything wrong.
Speaker 1: Sounds like you're having your own ego issues and it's
Speaker 1: more something that you need to check. Now. If that
Speaker 1: was your girl, I would say that's an absolute no.
Speaker 1: But because you're messing with other women. If it was
Speaker 1: my girl, how can I break that down to her?
Speaker 1: That's not cool? Well, Sarah, there's steps to this. First,
Speaker 1: she has to be your girl for your She probably
Speaker 1: wouldn't have done that if you guys were in a relationship, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: So you gotta figure out what you want to do
Speaker 1: and have that conversation. You can't be mad at her
Speaker 1: for going to her ex for anything. She could have
Speaker 1: slept with him too. Hey, yes, he managed yourself. If
Speaker 1: no borrowed money from her boy friend, what would you
Speaker 1: say if my wife, Oh, so you said my ex wife,
Speaker 1: I ain't got an ex wife. But if my my
Speaker 1: wife wouldn't be borrowed no money from my ex boyfriend,
Speaker 1: my wife would be speaking to her ex boyfriend. What
Speaker 1: are you talking about? Huh, money from her boyfriend and
Speaker 1: she didn't tear you about until after she got the money.
Speaker 1: I don't know that wouldn't happen my wife. Don't talk
Speaker 1: to her ex boyfriend s. Sorry, you cannot compare these
Speaker 1: two situations. That's not your wife. That's not even your girl. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not your girl. You don't even know that girl.
Speaker 1: You share that girl. She was in Atlanta this weekend.
Speaker 1: But if I'm giving her falaho, she got to bow
Speaker 1: down sometimes, No, she do, she never has to the
Speaker 1: only person giving her falatio. She was in Atlanta. This
Speaker 1: make you mad? Dudes, gave a falatio this weekend, and
Speaker 1: if you're giving her falato, you're bowing down. But listen,
Speaker 1: My whole point is this, that's not your woman. You
Speaker 1: haven't had that discussion, and you just gotta live with this.
Speaker 1: She could do whatever she wants. She could get banged
Speaker 1: if she wants to. Gee, she she can. That's gonna
Speaker 1: be a little deep. That's deep. Either try to lock
Speaker 1: it down and be a good man. And you're messing
Speaker 1: with other women, how do you think she feels like?
Speaker 1: I'm telling you it is some of the most weirdest
Speaker 1: type of poorhood type stuff going on. Okay, well, this
Speaker 1: is what you signed up for, sir. She's she's doing her,
Speaker 1: you're doing you and you guys are doing each other
Speaker 1: until you change the dynamics of that relationship. You don't
Speaker 1: call the shots. I I cre't say nothing her. You
Speaker 1: really can't. You can. Yeah, you have to take it
Speaker 1: just like she is from other people? What is going
Speaker 1: on here? Ye? All? Goodbye? She can't have it both
Speaker 1: you can't have it both ways. All. We got more
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Speaker 1: e if any relationship advice and any type of advice,
Speaker 1: you get this right now? Hello? Who's this? This Penny?
Speaker 1: How y'all doing? How you king doing? What's up? Brother?
Speaker 1: How Ken? Kenny? My bad? And so what's your question? Brother?
Speaker 1: My question is I'm trying to spice up my relationship
Speaker 1: and it's my girl's birthday. I have two trips to
Speaker 1: have a trip to Delray Beach, Florida, and have a
Speaker 1: trip to Orlando, Florida. Do I need to do anything more? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean it's more than just a vacation, more than
Speaker 1: just the trip. What you're gonna do when you get there.
Speaker 1: You got flowers ready, you got the bubble bath ready.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? What are you gonna do?
Speaker 1: What are you gonna do different? To be like, damn,
Speaker 1: my man really loves me. Like, where's the last time
Speaker 1: you lick the bunkie? I don't know it's been a
Speaker 1: bob See. First of all, you don't love that woman
Speaker 1: because you're taking her to Florida. The creative people in
Speaker 1: America come from the Florida. Man, you don't love that girl, Charlomagne.
Speaker 1: I'm taking her to the Discovery Cold in Orlando, and
Speaker 1: then I'm going to Delray Beach. We're gonna be on
Speaker 1: the in the beach house. That's good man, that's good man.
Speaker 1: But you gotta spice it up. You gotta make sure
Speaker 1: that you you into her sexy. When the last time
Speaker 1: you gave a massage, you looked it from head to toe?
Speaker 1: What's last time you didting in that? But I gave
Speaker 1: a massage the other day. Hire somebody to do that.
Speaker 1: You see them guys on Instagram that and be bad
Speaker 1: hugging them girls and cracking their backs. You better not.
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Speaker 1: ask you a question. If you talked about spicing it up,
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what you need to do. You make
Speaker 1: sure you got your flowers. You make sure you got
Speaker 1: little things that she enjoys, maybe things from a past
Speaker 1: that she just likes. Her favorite nail polish, whatever it is,
Speaker 1: her favorite slippers. Ain't gotta be expensive. You make sure
Speaker 1: you take care of her sexually, but you don't even
Speaker 1: shout her out. Bro, don't shout her out. Her side.
Speaker 1: Dude might be listening. Listen, what's um, what's the occasion?
Speaker 1: Shot out to my girls, jazz Jablan Williams, I love
Speaker 1: you baby, what's the occasion? Birthday? And just spice it up?
Speaker 1: Just want to show enough around, lick the boogie. Make
Speaker 1: sure you go the finger looking when you're in Orlando too,
Speaker 1: make sure you go to the finger looking in Orlando. Hello,
Speaker 1: who's this? Hey? This is hey Tony. What's your question
Speaker 1: for C and E. Okay, just a little rundown of
Speaker 1: what happened yesterday. I just need all advice on what
Speaker 1: to do how to handle this situation. Basically, my five
Speaker 1: year old, Um, he's in kindergarten. He was at school
Speaker 1: yesterday and I got a tape from his teacher saying
Speaker 1: that he's coming home with the red face. You know
Speaker 1: mind you say getting greeny faces, you know when they
Speaker 1: do good. She said that he's coming home with a
Speaker 1: red face because he got upset with a little girl
Speaker 1: at school because she didn't want to talk to him,
Speaker 1: and he told her at lunch that he was going
Speaker 1: to burn her house down, and she said that these days,
Speaker 1: you just can't make remarks like that, and he was
Speaker 1: sent to the principal's office and she just wanted to
Speaker 1: let me know and all that kind of stuff. But
Speaker 1: I do kind of honestly feel like that that was
Speaker 1: a bit much like, you know, he's only five, for one, like,
Speaker 1: you'm not gonna go steal my car, you go burn
Speaker 1: a house, But how would you have of this and
Speaker 1: this was your child. Well, I think that he's heard
Speaker 1: you talk about them guys, How is you gonna burn
Speaker 1: down one too many times. That's what it sounds like
Speaker 1: to me. That's what it sounded like to me. Man, No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. I would just say keep keep
Speaker 1: this in mind. It's protocol. Now with everything going on
Speaker 1: in the world and all these mass shootings, just protocol.
Speaker 1: Teachers want to make sure they save their job. So
Speaker 1: no matter what happens, if they hear is that's protocol
Speaker 1: of what they have to do. But you just gotta
Speaker 1: tell your son just look like, hey, you can't make
Speaker 1: these remarks because people take it serious. I know you're
Speaker 1: not serious. I know you this is something you've seen
Speaker 1: on TV. But you can't say things like that because
Speaker 1: you can get in trouble. And hopefully he understands that.
Speaker 1: But you ain't gotta worry. But the teacher gotta have
Speaker 1: more grace too. Protocol, The teacher got to have more grace.
Speaker 1: It's a damn five year old, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: A five year old not about to go out and
Speaker 1: commit a actor arson Like, the teacher gotta have a
Speaker 1: little bit more grace. The teacher should actually reach out
Speaker 1: to you and be like, hey, I just want you
Speaker 1: to know, this is what your son said today. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to see him getting any more trouble.
Speaker 1: They can't, you can't, you know. But just this case
Speaker 1: is like there's a case I think a couple of
Speaker 1: months ago with a five year old boy to school
Speaker 1: and shot a two year old. So this case is
Speaker 1: like that where they got they gotta follow protocol. Now
Speaker 1: she might not believe it, but she has to do
Speaker 1: it just in case to make sure everything is all right.
Speaker 1: So I'm not mad at the school doing that because
Speaker 1: they got to follow protocol. It's not like they they
Speaker 1: took the kid and beat him outside in front of everybody.
Speaker 1: They just well, but now that kid got a stand like,
Speaker 1: he got a red face, and he got a red face,
Speaker 1: and people in that school probably looking at that five
Speaker 1: year old different, like watch that one. That one said
Speaker 1: he's gonna burn the house down, you know, like actually,
Speaker 1: And and my thing was, um, that wasn't a cafeteria,
Speaker 1: and the little girl of another color, I'm just I'm
Speaker 1: saying that white supposedly, Yeah, basically I'm black. My son's black.
Speaker 1: Um said that she she just went up and saw
Speaker 1: the teacher and they never like asked him for his
Speaker 1: side of the story. So basically they're just going by
Speaker 1: what she's saying. So I got lord have mercy question
Speaker 1: did he even say that? Exactly? That's why I want
Speaker 1: to know. I'm saying, now, you got to go to
Speaker 1: school in a while, That's what I'm saying. We don't
Speaker 1: even I'm like, I haven't heard you say that he
Speaker 1: said that? So that's like, and you know, you know
Speaker 1: your kids, you know your kids or whatever. You know
Speaker 1: where they're lying, you know when they're telling the truth.
Speaker 1: I honestly don't think he said that. Well, Mama, if
Speaker 1: he didn't say if he said it, he didn't say it.
Speaker 1: If you get my drift, that boy didn't say that.
Speaker 1: Nobody heard him say that. Don't lie on my kid,
Speaker 1: period period. So you need you need to go to
Speaker 1: school and have that conversation. Did y'all hear my son say?
Speaker 1: Because my son didn't say it? And who you're gonna
Speaker 1: greet you? You're gonna listen to my black son or
Speaker 1: that white girl? Who are you listening to? Because now
Speaker 1: I feeling a little racism, they're gonna listen to the
Speaker 1: white girl? You know that? No, no, not in this day.
Speaker 1: It is not in this day. Or do I need
Speaker 1: to get my lawyer involved. And then you just said
Speaker 1: report the threat because I thought he said it, but
Speaker 1: because you assumed he said it because he's a little
Speaker 1: black boy. No, I did assume as he said it
Speaker 1: because he never said he didn't say it. He's lying, No,
Speaker 1: I'm not lying. He heard you say a little black
Speaker 1: boy and you just see that nigga did it. Though
Speaker 1: if they heard him, but if nobody heard him, he
Speaker 1: ain't say it, you go, you take that to the bread.
Speaker 1: Nobody heard him. Nobody heard him with their own ears,
Speaker 1: nobody heard him directly, so he shouldn't be punished. He
Speaker 1: shouldn't be punished. I didn't him, I didn't wils him
Speaker 1: or anything, and I take to her bank and I
Speaker 1: was just like I do apologize on him making those
Speaker 1: through marks and it will be hidle expediavely think, well,
Speaker 1: he shouldn't have wrote that. You should have said he
Speaker 1: didn't say it, But I would stick with he ain't
Speaker 1: say it. Nobody heard him said he ain't said period. Period.
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