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Speaker 2: Today's guest has already been on the show twice. She's

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Speaker 2: back for the third time. I can't get enough. It's

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Speaker 2: Blair Sackey, Blair, welcome back to I said, no gifts, Richard.

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Speaker 3: Can I say.

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 3: Welcome this morning? With a little pep in my step,

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Speaker 3: I said, I'm going to see my friend today and

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Speaker 3: will I fly him by bringing a gift? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Okay, Wow Blair, Wow, I know I've been looking forward

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Speaker 3: I've been looking forward to it for weeks.

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Speaker 2: last two episodes you've brought me a rotisserie chicken. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Oh. I love that. Thank you, And you know that

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Speaker 2: the rotissory chicken obviously. Oh. I believed you, But you

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Speaker 3: It's true.

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Speaker 2: I would be financially ruined if I was buying them else.

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Speaker 2: That's part of the thing. If I can't look at

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Speaker 3: It's so there's nothing more decadent.

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Speaker 2: I'm from you? Which part right outside of Salt Lake City? Oh? Okay?

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Speaker 3: want you to think the podcast is just about relien. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's just tiny, tiny part.

442
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 2: I'm going to do a podcast called Strictly Aliens.

443
00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:48,399
Speaker 3: Oh please, I'd love to be a guest when you

444
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Speaker 3: have time.

445
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Speaker 2: No.

446
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Speaker 3: But the thing is that scared me on that thing

447
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 3: is because my idea and I do have a long

448
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 3: bit about this, was that aliens are benevolent because otherwise

449
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,359
Speaker 3: they look at it like dogs, you know, like we're

450
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 3: like much more rudimentary compared to them, and if they

451
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,639
Speaker 3: wanted a harmost, they would have blown our asses up

452
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 3: years ago. And I think that they're just like patrolling

453
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Speaker 3: around and make sure we don't blow ourselves up.

454
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: Maybe they're just biting their time, like a cat playing

455
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Speaker 2: with a its prey.

456
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,160
Speaker 3: Oh, that's a little more disturbing thought.

457
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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that's a possibility.

458
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Speaker 3: Well, you know, I am an optimist. And but then

459
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Speaker 3: Age of Disclosure caused some concern.

460
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Speaker 2: Is age of disclosure? There's this new Spielberg movie called

461
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Speaker 2: Disclosure about aliens. It must be based on that.

462
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 3: I don't think it is.

463
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Speaker 2: But that's I mean, because it's of such confidence.

464
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Speaker 3: I don't think it is, because I think this was

465
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Speaker 3: probably being.

466
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Speaker 2: Made well that well, yeah.

467
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Speaker 3: Interest, but who knows. Maybe I don't know.

468
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Speaker 2: All I know I saw the trailer. There were a

469
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Speaker 2: lot of very fake CG idea. This is a big

470
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:58,600
Speaker 2: problem in Hollywood, I think, is CG idea. I feel

471
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: like there's some sort of c G I house. It's

472
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,639
Speaker 2: tricking every director and saying no, they'll look real this time,

473
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Speaker 2: and then they never look real.

474
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Speaker 3: Well it's I think this is a very important idea

475
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 3: that you're raising, is that we are not being scupulous

476
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 3: enough with the deer.

477
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 2: With the deer we've got, people are.

478
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 3: Overlooking deer as if it's something simple and it's really not.

479
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 3: It could ruin the whole movie for people with trained eye.

480
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, if I see a cgi deer, I might

481
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 2: as well just get up and leave the theater, right,

482
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 2: because you know it's so disruptive. The first one I

483
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 2: ever really noticed was in that Three Billboards movie with

484
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 2: Francis McDorman.

485
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Speaker 3: I know it well.

486
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Speaker 2: She meets a deer in it. Clearly a fake deer, right,

487
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Speaker 2: I'm out right. I mean I had a lot of

488
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,400
Speaker 2: problems with that movie, but so.

489
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Speaker 3: Did everyone except for me. Apparently, I thought it was exquisite.

490
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 3: I don't know, though, I could have had a gummy,

491
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 3: which my friends like to remind me sometimes could affect

492
00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 3: how my appreciate a film. Yeah, sure, Greta likes to

493
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 3: say this to me sometimes.

494
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 2: She just reminds you of my reviews. Right right. Did

495
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 2: you see the new Avatar?

496
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 3: I haven't, did you?

497
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 2: I saw the first forty five minutes. Oh Bridger, that's

498
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 2: all I need, That's all I need.

499
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Speaker 3: Look, I will say I saw the first one in theater.

500
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,680
Speaker 3: I thought it was majestic. I did watch the second one.

501
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 3: I still think it's cool. I'll probably watch it like

502
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 3: when it gets to my house, when it arrives.

503
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 2: At my home, just like James Cameron wants you to

504
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: see it and.

505
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Speaker 3: Along with My Fair Life.

506
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 2: That movie was meant to be seen on a thirty

507
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 2: inch screen with a fair Life in hand.

508
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Speaker 3: Sounds exquisite.

509
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 2: Well, I feel like there's something else we need to

510
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 2: talk about. You brought it up at the beginning of

511
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 2: the podcast. You brought a gift for the third time.

512
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,919
Speaker 3: Look, I'm my own person. Just because you tell me

513
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 3: not to do something doesn't necessarily mean but I'm not

514
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 3: gonna do it. Baby, women have credit cards. Now we

515
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,479
Speaker 3: can have property to me for now, For now we

516
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 3: have I'm that Well that sounds like you, mister forty

517
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 3: five minutes of Avatar. Okay, so I decided, you know,

518
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:19,479
Speaker 3: because I have manners, okay, to bring a little something.

519
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: Well, should we open it here on the podcast?

520
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I'd love it if you did that.

521
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,760
Speaker 2: All right. It's in this gorgeous brown bag.

522
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, natural textures and fibers.

523
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 2: Very nice paper back. Reacher, what listen to that crinkle?

524
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 2: I haven't even brought it out yet. Okay, it's nothing. Okay.

525
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 2: Is this is this a brownie from Starbucks?

526
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 3: It is? And here's the thing I have to tell

527
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 3: you about this.

528
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 2: Okay, let's put it here for now.

529
00:25:54,480 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 3: I sensed I have pretty heightened into it that you

530
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:05,760
Speaker 3: are a fancy coffee guy. Oh interesting, And as a

531
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 3: lot of our peers are in the arts, I cannot

532
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:14,879
Speaker 3: count myself amongst you. I have a lot of issues

533
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 3: with these baroque coffee shops, okay, because you know, I

534
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 3: like my Jumbo, I like my Jumbo forty ounce iced

535
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 3: coffee with sugar free vanilla whatever. And I don't like

536
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 3: when I go, usually with a friend, to these coffee shops,

537
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 3: the rudeness. They act like I am I'm committing a

538
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 3: crime by walking into their small business. They are upset

539
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 3: the large is in eight ounce, They only have macadamia

540
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 3: nut milk and a whole milk, and they look like

541
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 3: I'm crazy for I know it took me forever to

542
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 3: adapt to almond milk. I'm not. I can't do another one,

543
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 3: you know. So anyways, I stick to the Starbucks. And

544
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 3: here's the thing. My Starbucks, my local Starbucks. I won't

545
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 3: say which one. I'm not trying to dox myself. They

546
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 3: all know my name. Theirs couldn't be more friendly, no

547
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 3: matter how busy that place is. They act like I

548
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 3: just return home from war and I and look, I

549
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 3: know it turns my frown right upside down. And look,

550
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 3: I know there are problems with large corporations. The people

551
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,360
Speaker 3: there are too nice. They are my family.

552
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 2: Keep talking, Blair, I've got it. I'm I have a rebuttal.

553
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 3: And and this is where we and this is where

554
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 3: we land the plane. M I have long for many

555
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 3: years said that They're brownie is like one of the

556
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 3: best brownies I've ever had.

557
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 2: These are two issues I can really speak to. And

558
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 2: I'm going I'm just going to take the floor for

559
00:27:58,480 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 2: a moment. I love very good coffee, and I love

560
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 2: going to a local, small place. And now I'm going

561
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 2: to I would say every fifth episode of this podcast,

562
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 2: I advertise for Found Coffee in Eagle Rock, California, which

563
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 2: is none of the things you've just described.

564
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,479
Speaker 3: No, I anticipated all of this, so don't worry. I

565
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 3: am ready.

566
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: The coffee I'm currently drinking is from Found Coffee. The

567
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,400
Speaker 2: nicest crew of people in the world. This is going

568
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: to change your mind about small coffee shops. Every one

569
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 2: of them is an absolute angel. The prices are perfect.

570
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 3: Oh they're not seventeen dollars for six ounces, and some

571
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 3: sort of just angry, just hateful.

572
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: No, you will be frequently greeted by the owner Annie

573
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 2: or the general manager Arvin. I've gotten to a point

574
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 2: I've like I kind of black out when I go

575
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 2: in because they know exactly what I want. I like,

576
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 2: I'll walk up to the counter and I won't even

577
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 2: say what I want. And sometimes I'm like, oh, I

578
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 2: should probably say what I want. They might not the

579
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 2: employee might not know, but we're just kind of in

580
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 2: sync there in such a way that they sometimes they'll

581
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 2: have the coffee ready for me before I even come

582
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 2: in the door.

583
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 3: Okay, I love this. I think this is spectacular.

584
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 2: And I have to just balance out because the advertisement

585
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 2: for Starbucks.

586
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 3: You question, and look, I'm not trying to advertise for Starbucks.

587
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 3: I wish I didn't even have to say the name. Okay,

588
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 3: I'm not proud of this. Look I like I'm you know,

589
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 3: in many in almost all facets of my life, I'm

590
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 3: quite a complicated, layered individual. In this one, I'm a

591
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 3: simple goal.

592
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 2: This is what I'll say.

593
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 1: I got.

594
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 2: I will go to Found six days a week, sometimes

595
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,000
Speaker 2: seven days a week. I've been going there for years.

596
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 2: At this point, I'm not such a snob that I

597
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 2: won't go to Starbucks. I think Starbucks has its purpose.

598
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: I'll go there and get a massive cold brew. Sometimes

599
00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 2: sometimes I'll ask no ice and so it'll just be

600
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 2: pure cold brew.

601
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:56,719
Speaker 3: But that is incredible.

602
00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 2: That's only when you know, those are some very rare circumstances.

603
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: And I've always had good service at Starbucks, and the

604
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 2: employees are always very nice to me, and I'm always

605
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 2: very nice to them. But we live in a city

606
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 2: that is truly especially I live in Highland Park. There

607
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: is a coffee shop probably every half a block. It's

608
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: the exact opposite of where I grew up in Utah.

609
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 2: There's essentially two good coffee shops in the entire state.

610
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 3: Great sunsets, though.

611
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 2: Gorgeous sunsets in the mountains are beautiful. Right, coffee, It's

612
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: a slightly tough situation. Yeah, but I love found coffee.

613
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 2: So I just like I'm using my platform for good

614
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: to fight you.

615
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 3: Right.

616
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 2: My boyfriend is a he's a big Starbucks person.

617
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 3: Right, And here's the thing, And I will make this distinction.

618
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 3: In the few times that I have been lucky enough

619
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 3: to go overseas and stuff, and you're like at a

620
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: restaurant in I don't know, Italy, or something and they

621
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 3: give you a coffee and you're like, Okay, wow, this

622
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 3: tastes great. I love that. But I'm not like a

623
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 3: huge coffee person.

624
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 2: Oh so I'm not obviously, yeah.

625
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not drinking the coffee. I don't really drink

626
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 3: a hot coffee very often. It's more, uh, you know,

627
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 3: means to an end. For me was the jumbo. I

628
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 3: need the caffeine and I like the straw all the stuff.

629
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 3: So so I completely understand that if I were like

630
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 3: a real coffee drinker and the way that I like food,

631
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 3: I fully understand. I but this is somehow formulated to

632
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 3: be a.

633
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 2: Perfect brown Okay. And this is the next thing I

634
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 2: want to speak to, which is brownies. People. I don't

635
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,960
Speaker 2: think they realize how easy it is to make a

636
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: good brownie. I frequently make them from a mix.

637
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 3: I used to do a mix a lot as a child.

638
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 3: It was really one of the only things that my

639
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 3: mother did let me do alone. All you needed was

640
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 3: an egg or one water or something.

641
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 2: That a mix usually requires, like one egg, some water

642
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 2: and oil and then the mix. And if you get

643
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 2: a good brand, what I do is I switch the

644
00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 2: water for coffee, and sometimes the oil for butter. Unbelievable.

645
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: They're so good, right, and so I have to imagine

646
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 2: Starbucks has a good brownie. Can I try it?

647
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 3: Please? It's very good.

648
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 2: Okay, it looks like a good brownie. It looks like

649
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 2: a good texture.

650
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 3: For years, because you know, I walk every day, That's

651
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 3: what I like to do for exercise. I just you know,

652
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 3: I'm sort of known on the East Side to just

653
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 3: be seen walking, tripsing, shuffling around and sometimes over the

654
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 3: many years, the week before my period, anyone talk about

655
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 3: menstruation on this podcast?

656
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 2: I do constantly.

657
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 3: I stop in on my walk, pick myself up brownie,

658
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 3: the Starbucks brownie. I say a little will, I say

659
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 3: a little Richin and said, this is the time of

660
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 3: the month. I'm picking up a brownie. Boys, and do

661
00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 3: I enjoy everybody of that?

662
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: I want to try good because that's also some like

663
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 2: chocolate pieces in it that I feel like are going

664
00:32:58,320 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 2: to be part of the experience.

665
00:32:59,480 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 3: Yes.

666
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 2: How much are you walking each day?

667
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: Uh?

668
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 3: I walk between four and five miles?

669
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 2: Wow?

670
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 3: Yes?

671
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 2: Do you ever have a destination or is it just

672
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 2: aimless walking? Oh?

673
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 3: No, it's a route. I have a route.

674
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, that seems dangerous to me. Somebody could catch

675
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 2: on and start following you.

676
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, if you're listening to this and looking to catch

677
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:22,560
Speaker 3: me or follow me, please don't do that because I'd

678
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 3: like to just continue on my route.

679
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 2: How long have you had this route?

680
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 3: Oh, many years, say several years.

681
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 2: Is there ever a temptation to go off the root? Yeah?

682
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 3: Sometimes I do. Like sometimes I get meet these girlfriends

683
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 3: and they go, well, like, let's go on my route,

684
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 3: and you know, the autism starts twitching right and then

685
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 3: I say, okay. But I did the other day and

686
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 3: it was quite nice. I let my friend take me

687
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 3: on another route because I'm trying to do that a

688
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 3: little bit in twenty twenty six. Have new experiences me too,

689
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 3: you are, Oh yeah, I love the New year goals

690
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 3: and mantras and ideas and intentions.

691
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 2: And I feel like I'm pretty good at sticking to

692
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 2: I give myself a very loose resolution. I'm usually pretty

693
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 2: good at like integrating it into my life and then

694
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 2: it's just my life. Me too, And I feel like

695
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 2: new experiences is a very easy thing to accomplish.

696
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 3: Yes, well, I want to target fun more. Yes, And

697
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 3: just add I don't have new texture. That's precisely it,

698
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 3: and I just want things. I need to add more

699
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 3: things to my life that don't have means to an end.

700
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 2: Oh, yes, that's almost my entire life is just means

701
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 2: to an end at this point. I know.

702
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 3: Well that's what I mean. I mean to make a

703
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 3: living as an artist, like, yeah, it's difficult. Yeah, it's good,

704
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 3: especially if you have an online shopping problem.

705
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it takes up your entire day. I know,

706
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,920
Speaker 2: you wake up and you're just means to an end, yeah,

707
00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 2: all the way through, and it's rarely a new experience.

708
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,720
Speaker 3: Right, So I guess I have to go to Founder's

709
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 3: Coffee and Highland.

710
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 2: Park Found Coffee and Eagle Rock.

711
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 3: The Rock opsies, so oops.

712
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: I want you to go there. We're going to meet there.

713
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I've been waiting for this invitation to

714
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 3: see you for years actually, so this is great.

715
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 2: Hard to get the invitation and we're going to get

716
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 2: a coffee and you're going to love it.

717
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:20,839
Speaker 3: I will love it.

718
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 2: When you order a an iced coffee at Starbucks, you've

719
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 2: got cold brew or.

720
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:29,280
Speaker 3: Iced coffee, it depends on the day, because I.

721
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 2: Personally think their iced coffee is the worst liquid on earth.

722
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 2: I honestly think. It's like I cannot believe that they

723
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,280
Speaker 2: have the gall to charge money for this. It feels

724
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,240
Speaker 2: like it's coming out of a dirt, just like dirty

725
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: tap water or something.

726
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 3: I do get the cold brew. Sometimes I switch off,

727
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 3: like it depended on how to. But like you know,

728
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 3: this morning, when I went to go procure your perfect brownie,

729
00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 3: perfectly formulated brownie me with love and care in the

730
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 3: home kitchen over there in Los Relish, I got one

731
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 3: of their's like refreshers, because I was like, oh, I

732
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 3: just don't feel like coffee today, right.

733
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: You brought that on and you were actually asked to

734
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 2: take it off camera, which is very funny because we're

735
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 2: now just advertising.

736
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 3: I know, and I was concerned about this, and I

737
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 3: was like I don't want to. I don't know if

738
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 3: I should say the name. You know, I'm not trying

739
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 3: to advertise for corporations, but I will say like earlier

740
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,280
Speaker 3: this year, I was dating this guy from my past

741
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 3: and he and he lived in Orange County, and he

742
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 3: took me to all his neighborhood like fancy ass coffee shops,

743
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 3: and I kept getting humiliated, like every time we'd go,

744
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 3: they just beat they I would just like ask for

745
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 3: a large iced coffee and they like, we don't have that,

746
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 3: and I don't have that, and they would have been

747
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 3: like I was just like, okay, I'm not supposed to

748
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 3: be here. I am not as erudite as your clientele.

749
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 3: Who okay, who has PhDs and as fits into.

750
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 2: Your that's so irritating.

751
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 3: But it was like four different places and each time

752
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 3: like he was and I'm not used to being met like,

753
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 3: I'm a very friendly person, so I'd be shocked every

754
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:22,439
Speaker 3: time too, Like I was just you.

755
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 2: Know, that's really unfair of the employee. I think the

756
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 2: most you can do in that situation and say we

757
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:30,879
Speaker 2: don't have ice coffee, we do have cold brewer, nice

758
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 2: Americana with that work, and be nice about it.

759
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

760
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: See, this is why I should be working in the

761
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 2: coffee business. I know exactly how to handle a customer.

762
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 3: If I say, if I ever start, if I ever,

763
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 3: because I'm super into coffee, start my own coffee shop,

764
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 3: then I will be very kind. I'll probably have a

765
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 3: lot of very clear signs. I'll probably say like, look,

766
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 3: if you are like a more mainstream coffee person, you're

767
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 3: welcome here too. We won't you know, discriminate against you.

768
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 3: And here are maybe some possible orders if you're not

769
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 3: deep deep in to local artisanal coffee.

770
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 2: Lorem. I've dreamed about opening a coffee shop that is

771
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 2: literally just one. You either have hot or cold coffee,

772
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 2: and there's no other option, where the store may be

773
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 2: just called this is all we have. And then you

774
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: go in and there's you don't even have an option.

775
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 3: But what's the option between hot and cold?

776
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 2: The coffee's hot or cold. That's all you get to say.

777
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 3: Oh, you don't get to add anything nothing. Oh you're

778
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 3: a nasty Oh you're a nasty boy. You're a nasty

779
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 3: nasty boy. Pridier, What do you think? This is like

780
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 3: what we're panning for gold in the eighteen hundreds. You

781
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 3: can't do that, that's twisted.

782
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 2: What are you like?

783
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 3: Would you like hot or cool gasoline on your way

784
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 3: to work? To ship your pants faster that you can

785
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:15,640
Speaker 3: make it to a bathroom? The Bridger wander, do you

786
00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 3: have the digestive system of sort of thor or what?

787
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 2: Look I'm drinking I know, well.

788
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 3: No, don't think I didn't notice. I noticed. I was

789
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 3: a straight back coffee and I knew what was coming. Next,

790
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 3: and I knew we're gonna have a whole tussle, but

791
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 3: I knew, you know, it'll provide for many different we

792
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 3: can do. This would be like, as the Republicans love

793
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 3: to say, reaching across the iron. Yes, this is the

794
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 3: Charlie Kirk episode of coffee and so, and someone who

795
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 3: has the balls to go into a space where they

796
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 3: disagree and reach across the aisle is so they should

797
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:57,720
Speaker 3: be celebrated.

798
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:05,720
Speaker 2: Absolutely. No. I I've had a weird coffee journey because

799
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:09,319
Speaker 2: I first started drinking coffee when I was interning in

800
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 2: New York and my bosses would order the coffee and

801
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 2: they had terrible taste, and they would order all of

802
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 2: us these massive like hazel nut flavored.

803
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 3: The girl in front of me was doing that nightmares,

804
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,439
Speaker 3: some poor pier like probably yeah.

805
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 2: And so I would drink all of it. But I

806
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 2: would always just think this is terrible. But I was

807
00:40:27,200 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 2: too afraid to ask for anything else. And then as

808
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 2: a response to that, I started drinking black coffee just

809
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 2: to be like, well, maybe what does this taste like?

810
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 2: And now that's all they can drink. Occasionally I tried

811
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 2: to spoil myself. I'll say, oh, maybe I'll try a

812
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 2: fancy coffee, drink a cappuccino.

813
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 3: I like a cappuccino like that too, That's totally fine.

814
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 3: A cappuccino to me, if chic tastes great, I don't

815
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:48,879
Speaker 3: need to put anything in.

816
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 2: It, right, just milk and coffee.

817
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 3: It's just it tastes right. Yeah, black coffee. I'm like this,

818
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 3: this is a kerosene, you know. This is.

819
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 2: See that is when Starbucks first got cold brew on

820
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 2: their menu, they weren't like diluting it or something, and

821
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 2: so you would get it. And I honestly thought, I

822
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 2: was like my bones were burning when I would drink it.

823
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 2: It was gas they were serving gasoline. But this cold brew,

824
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 2: for example, tastes wonderful, has actual flavor to it.

825
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 3: That's still so crazy that you drink cold brew without

826
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 3: cutting it. Wait, so, if you grew up in Utah

827
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 3: famously you know, not high up on the.

828
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:35,720
Speaker 2: Coffee, really high bottom of the barrel.

829
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 3: Was it gay hood that initiated you or how did

830
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 3: you get into being such, you know, a master of

831
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:45,880
Speaker 3: the coffee.

832
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 2: I think I just I well, I think just my

833
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 2: body chemistry kind of demanded it. I need a lot

834
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:55,760
Speaker 2: of caffeine in my body to operate.

835
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 3: How many cups a day are we doing?

836
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 2: I will do probably two cold Bruce Okay, but that's

837
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 2: the largest size that ciri, so really too largest for you.

838
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 3: Is actually two thirds of one of my largest But.

839
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 2: But this is stronger than a Starbucks cold broke.

840
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 3: Okay, I agree with you.

841
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 2: There it's a more intense cold brew and then the

842
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 2: other one I make it home.

843
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 3: So basically, you your coffee equivalent is like drinking vodka

844
00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 3: on the rocks.

845
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a little bit that.

846
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 3: You are hardcore. You are hardcore.

847
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just like the I like coffee. I know,

848
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,880
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people don't like coffee. They

849
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 2: drink it. Yeah, I mean, I guess you're.

850
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 3: And it's the same thing with sheets, you know, right,

851
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 3: Like if I go to when you're getting your car

852
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 3: service and they have that shitty coffee there, like I'm

853
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 3: not drinking, No.

854
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 2: Why even serve that? But I'm not going to drink

855
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 2: it like anyone is.

856
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 3: No, I think people do. They don't care, you know,

857
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 3: I like the office. I'm not doing that interest. But yeah,

858
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 3: like it started when I lived in New York is

859
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 3: when I started drinking the the huge iced coffee is

860
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 3: because I'd never slept. I had like fifteen jobs and

861
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 3: eighty shows.

862
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 2: All night, and right, you had no choice.

863
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know I was drinking so much beer

864
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 3: at night. My cheeks look like I was storing a

865
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 3: corns in there.

866
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 2: So it was just something you had to get used

867
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 2: to then.

868
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 3: But yeah, like it. But if I do, it's the

869
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 3: same thing as sheets for me. Like if I do

870
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 3: taste a nice coffee, like a cappuccino, I'm not drinking

871
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 3: black coffee ever, that's never gonna.

872
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: I'm going to get you to drink some I don't

873
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 2: want to.

874
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 3: Drink a black coffee. Yeah, there's no, there's not enough

875
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 3: soul to me. It's too earnest hemingway. Okay, I need

876
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 3: you know. I'm a fluffy guy. I'm not a very

877
00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 3: hardcore guy.

878
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:47,439
Speaker 2: You're in uggs right now.

879
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 3: No, I need you know. I need a lot of comforts.

880
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 2: You just need a plush.

881
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 3: I need a soft Yeah, I need a softer life.

882
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 3: So yeah, I love I like a nice cappuccino. I

883
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 3: really enjoy that, like after an after dinner cappuccino. No,

884
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 3: I get so Italian.

885
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 2: I can't do that.

886
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 3: Oh I'm getting decaf.

887
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 2: Oh, you're getting dere a line.

888
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 3: To me, I probably won't be able to sleep. Can

889
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 3: you Are you a good sleeper?

890
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 2: No? Okay, right, I would say I'm a fine sleeper, right,

891
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 2: but I feel like I frequently just don't actually get

892
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 2: any rest. Yeah. Same, I'm unconscious on a mattress, right,

893
00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 2: but then I wake up at probably worse off.

894
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 3: I do dream, and I know this isn't a unique subject.

895
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 3: I do dream of going back to childhood without the phone,

896
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 3: the smartphones. And I did hold myself back considerably in

897
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 3: this career by only starting to post clips a year

898
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 3: and a half ago, so many of us, yeah, because

899
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:52,759
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I'm going to do it a

900
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 3: different way. This isn't this doesn't feel.

901
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 2: You didn't feel like being an eyemovie all the time.

902
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,919
Speaker 3: It just didn't feel authentic to me. And now I've

903
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 3: just realized, you know, other people who I found to be,

904
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 3: you know whatever, less talented or less experienced, were lapping me,

905
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 3: and I was like, this is just the way of

906
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 3: the world.

907
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:17,799
Speaker 2: Oh it's absolutely terrible. Yeah, so you know, yeah, there's

908
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 2: kind of no choice at this point. You have to

909
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:20,960
Speaker 2: make a clip, but I want to.

910
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 3: I remember like don't you remember when you were a kid,

911
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 3: And sadly, anyone gen Z listening to this will not understand.

912
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 3: But like having a summer day that felt like it

913
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 3: was seventy two hours, like being bored, yeah, and just

914
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,719
Speaker 3: like going outside and just like wow, this day is

915
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 3: like never ending. And I read so much my whole life,

916
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 3: Like before I was going to be a comedian, I

917
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 3: originally was going to be a novelist. Like I went

918
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 3: to grad school to become a novelist.

919
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 2: Oh, I had no idea.

920
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's why I moved to New York.

921
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 3: And then I actually started calming that I forget it.

922
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 2: Do you write long form at all anymore?

923
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 3: I wanta start a comedy during grad school and I

924
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,280
Speaker 3: was like, this is way easier.

925
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 2: This kind of happened to me.

926
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:14,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so but I mean, like the sadness of

927
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 3: how nourishing reading a book. It feels like truly meditation

928
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:24,879
Speaker 3: and like you know, some dark floating tank. Now it's sad.

929
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:26,240
Speaker 2: Because our brains are ruined.

930
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, like my brain is ruined, I speak for myself.

931
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 2: Do you still read?

932
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:34,040
Speaker 3: Yes? But not like I mean that's one of my

933
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 3: things this year that I will be focusing on is

934
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 3: reading fiction?

935
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: Oh?

936
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 3: Sure, sure, because again I had many years where I

937
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 3: was reading every psychological This was before I got tested

938
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 3: for my oh my Nord Divergente. But I was like,

939
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 3: I realized I had been like reading psych I'd read

940
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 3: like every psychology book for like twenty years. And then

941
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, good thing, I got to the

942
00:46:55,960 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 3: bottom of it. I don't want to I need to

943
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 3: read books that are like art and not to just

944
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 3: still like constantly be trying to improve myself.

945
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:08,240
Speaker 2: Right, have you picked a book you're going to read first?

946
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 3: I just purchased two books.

947
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 1: One is.

948
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 3: I already forgot the names.

949
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm so terrible with what I'm reading.

950
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:24,240
Speaker 3: I forget titles of everything. It's actually part of Anthony

951
00:47:24,320 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 3: jessel Nix. Oh.

952
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 2: The service he's doing with his book club, I think

953
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 2: is really admirable.

954
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 3: It is, and he really does read like that. Now

955
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to find the names.

956
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 2: Apparently it seems like he reads a book a day.

957
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 3: Well, I toured with him and he has someone handle

958
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 3: like a social media So what the hell is the

959
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 3: name of this book? It is called The Getaway by

960
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 3: Jim Thompson, and I was like asking him, and then

961
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 3: I bought Tomorrow Tomorrow Tomorrow. Before that, I was asking him.

962
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, are these books only for men?

963
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 3: He's like, no, bad bitch, just can read that too.

964
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 3: But I am going to be reading that one and

965
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 3: trying to keep up with that because he said, he's like, oh,

966
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 3: you'll love like all the books I chose, like it's

967
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 3: designed for people who may have not been reading, or

968
00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 3: have been taking a reading and taking a break from reading,

969
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 3: or never been readers to get back in.

970
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 2: Yeah. He from what I've seen of his selections, they

971
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:26,799
Speaker 2: seem like artful, interesting things but not super difficult to

972
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:27,280
Speaker 2: get into.

973
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I mean he does read really big, difficult ones.

974
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 3: But like when we when I spend a year on

975
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 3: the road with him, traveling every week, like that's all

976
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 3: he does.

977
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 2: Is read because he's not on social media.

978
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 3: No, he doesn't spend his time on It's incredible. I

979
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 3: wonder it's like back to yesteryear. Right, and he buys

980
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 3: physical books?

981
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:49,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, are your kindle or physical books?

982
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:52,720
Speaker 3: I go back and forth. I'm more physical though, unless

983
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 3: it's like a gigantic book. I don't want to carry

984
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:55,720
Speaker 3: that around, right, that's.

985
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 2: A I need to get more into physical books. I

986
00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 2: do think I like take more out of it. When

987
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 2: I'm reading from physical book.

988
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 3: It makes me feel more like I did as a kid,

989
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 3: or like I'm connecting with something tangible, Like I just

990
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:11,360
Speaker 3: want to completely divorce myself from digital right life.

991
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 2: And there's a real feeling of progress when you're reading

992
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 2: a physical that's so true, where you feel like you're

993
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 2: accomplishing something with a kindle. It's just like, well this I.

994
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 3: Know, and you read seven hundred pages and you're like, yeah.

995
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 2: Exactly, Well, is there anything left to say about this brownie?

996
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 2: Do you want some? No?

997
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 3: Thank you? Actually, I don't please you.

998
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 2: I mean it's a very good brownie, and I don't

999
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 2: want to eat the entire thing.

1000
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 3: No, I mean, it's an exquisite brownie.

1001
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 2: This is going to be my treat tonight.

1002
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 3: Like for the viewers the way that pold and it's

1003
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 3: soft in the center, in the perfectly amount of soft.

1004
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 3: It's just it's not too guy, but it's very moist,

1005
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,960
Speaker 3: and it's just so reliable because they make it with

1006
00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 3: such home loving care over there.

1007
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and again I'll say, if you can't get one

1008
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:08,759
Speaker 2: of these, uh, making one at home the Giadelli mix, unbelievable.

1009
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 2: It's so good. That is so true. It's really a

1010
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 2: good brownie mix, and it's whenever I make it, I'm like,

1011
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: this is not that much easier than just making them yourself,

1012
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,800
Speaker 2: but it does eliminate like one step.

1013
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 3: Well, if you're out and you need a treat and

1014
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 3: you're on your walk once a month and and then

1015
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 3: and then you're like, h I have a I have

1016
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:35,320
Speaker 3: a craving in my loins. I cannot be satisfied. But

1017
00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:37,240
Speaker 3: anything else right now?

1018
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 2: Will?

1019
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 3: I said, will hand it over, Pale, We're going in today.

1020
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,520
Speaker 3: And then you have that by and you're like, it's

1021
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 3: everything I remembered it to be.

1022
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 2: I love a brownie. Oh we didn't talk at all

1023
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 2: about Australia.

1024
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:56,920
Speaker 3: True. I have a question for you though. Do you

1025
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 3: never do an energy drink under under any circumstances?

1026
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 2: No? I don't really like I If I'm offered like

1027
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 2: a like a red Bull or something.

1028
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:08,520
Speaker 3: Like red Bull's disgusting.

1029
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:11,839
Speaker 2: I don't mind a red Bull sugar free, I'll do it.

1030
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 2: What are you drink? Is an energy drink?

1031
00:51:13,840 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 3: Celsius, Well, I'm off them now because I really care

1032
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 3: about my health. But I had a couple of years

1033
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 3: there where I was also buying the.

1034
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,760
Speaker 2: Flats online of the Celsius.

1035
00:51:26,360 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 3: And I had it every day for two years, and

1036
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:31,760
Speaker 3: and then I got off them, Thank God, God Willing.

1037
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 2: You know who's a huge advocate of those and Zach

1038
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 2: Nooy Towers.

1039
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 3: I love Zach Tower.

1040
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 2: I was obsessed with Celie.

1041
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,840
Speaker 3: I will say that all my sober friends, which is

1042
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 3: seventy percent of comedians at this point, especially if you're

1043
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 3: a new comedian, when you get into your thirties, just

1044
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 3: all your friends will become sober. They love it because

1045
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 3: that's they're partying, right. They alto love horror movies and

1046
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 3: roller coasters, all of your sober friends, Yeah, because they

1047
00:51:56,239 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 3: they're addicts and they need the they need their acceptable right.

1048
00:52:02,600 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 2: This is interesting because I've I have never really drank,

1049
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 2: and I love all those things. So maybe I'm secretly,

1050
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 2: you know, some sort of alcoholism could be unlocked.

1051
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 3: Maybe I don't know. Like I and me a deeply

1052
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:27,399
Speaker 3: sensitive individual. My nervous system so fragile, delicate, the soft fabrics,

1053
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,240
Speaker 3: and that's why I need, you know, a nice little

1054
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:34,839
Speaker 3: milk in my coffee. You know, I'm not I don't

1055
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 3: quite have the same power as that. But a horror

1056
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 3: movie will absolutely ravage my nervous system. I don't watch

1057
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 3: any scary movie. Okay, I like a psychological thriller that's

1058
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 3: non violent. I do like that.

1059
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 2: Is that? What the what's that new thing that just

1060
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 2: came out the Housemaid? Is that what it's called?

1061
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 3: I don't know because I can never remember a title

1062
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 3: in my life.

1063
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 2: I feel like that's kind of a ecological thriller.

1064
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 3: Well was the one, you know, like all these like

1065
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 3: all Her Fault and the one with Claire Dames and

1066
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,320
Speaker 3: Matthew Reese. Incredible. There was a few moment of extreme

1067
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 3: violence the beast in me.

1068
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:14,040
Speaker 2: Oh I wanted to see.

1069
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, that Brownie must have turn on some synapses.

1070
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, there you go.

1071
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 3: I love all the Apple TV ones, like The Girl,

1072
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 3: the Girl That Are for the Girls.

1073
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 2: The Girl from the Girls.

1074
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 3: No, you know, it's like the thriller series, the Octavia

1075
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:33,760
Speaker 3: Spencer one, the Jennifer Garner one.

1076
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 2: Does Nifer Garner go missing?

1077
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 3: Now her husband does?

1078
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah, well I think we should play a game.

1079
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 3: Oh, I'd love to thank you.

1080
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 2: We're gonna play Gift or a Curse? But I need

1081
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 2: a number between one and ten from you nine. Okay,

1082
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 2: I have to go do my like calculating, So right

1083
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 2: now you can promote, recommend, do whatever you want.

1084
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,919
Speaker 3: I love the I said no give listeners. You can

1085
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 3: find me at Blair Sack B L A I R,

1086
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 3: S C C I on all platforms. All my shows

1087
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 3: are listed there, Punch Up, Dot Live, Slash, Blair Socky,

1088
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 3: and my new podcast called spased Out is out now

1089
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 3: on all platforms and on my YouTube. And I'd love

1090
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 3: to see you guys there. It's really fun and I'm

1091
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 3: having a great time.

1092
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 2: Beautiful. Yeah, everybody find Blair, go listen to that podcast.

1093
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, have you on?

1094
00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 2: I would love to come on.

1095
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 3: We have so much to discuss.

1096
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 2: It's gonna there's gonna be a big fight on that episode.

1097
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:34,759
Speaker 3: Well yeah, we always do.

1098
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 2: Find Yeah, I mean, I mean we can't help it.

1099
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:38,560
Speaker 3: And we're gonna have another one. I found coffee.

1100
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's humie. I'm going to be banned from that coffee.

1101
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:46,839
Speaker 2: They're probably going to ban me just for talking about

1102
00:54:46,840 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 2: them so much. They're gonna be like, you came on

1103
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:48,760
Speaker 2: too strong.

1104
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 3: What if I brought a gigantic bucket and a shrawl?

1105
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,240
Speaker 3: How many of your large coffee.

1106
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 2: Would fit into the bucket. Yeah, it's a good question.

1107
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 2: I'm not good with spatial.

1108
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 3: Oh me neither. I don't involve myself with mathematical issues.

1109
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 2: Well, okay, let's play. Let's play gift or a curse.

1110
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 2: I'm going to name three things. You're gonna tell me

1111
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 2: if they're a gift or a curse and why, and

1112
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 2: then I'll tell you if you're right or wrong, because

1113
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 2: there are correct answers, all right. This first one is

1114
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,880
Speaker 2: from a listener named Aaron. Gift or a curse people

1115
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 2: who go out of their way to return cheap tupperware

1116
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 2: to you.

1117
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 3: I really think it depends on the person. And I

1118
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 3: know that this question doesn't allow for nuance. No, except

1119
00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,400
Speaker 3: I have the sweetest neighbor his named Camillo, and I

1120
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,799
Speaker 3: love him, and anytime he finds gets wind from my

1121
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 3: ninety free year old neighbor Maria that I have come

1122
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:46,440
Speaker 3: and fallen down with illness, all of a sudden he

1123
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 3: arrives with a freshly homemade soup. I can't even believe it.

1124
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 3: And then it's so sweet, and so I don't want

1125
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 3: to be rude to assume that he doesn't want his

1126
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 3: tupperware back, but he always tells me I don't have

1127
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 3: to bring it back. So I've gone back and forth. Right,

1128
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 3: gift a curse Blair, to answer the goddamn question, To.

1129
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 2: Answer the question, curse wrong gifts. I need all of

1130
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 2: my tupperware back. That is a piece of furniture essentially,

1131
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 2: and when I give it to you, I'm not giving

1132
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 2: it away. Right, that's family heirloom. That's something that I

1133
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 2: will put other food in.

1134
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 3: What are they doing with I respect your opinion.

1135
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 2: I brought you food. I didn't bring you plastic wear.

1136
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 3: Right, but tupperware is different than the you know, the

1137
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 3: business you're buying at the grocery. You know, and you

1138
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 3: mean like the brands, Yeah, meant the ones that are

1139
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 3: meant to be like single use, which is quite bad

1140
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 3: for environment.

1141
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 2: Right, No, it's an absolute gift.

1142
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:44,160
Speaker 3: You're wrong, But I was on your side.

1143
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 2: Also, I don't care if you're on my side.

1144
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 3: You're wrong, Okay, that's fine. I accept that. I am.

1145
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 3: I have to say, I have been returning to tubberware.

1146
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:55,160
Speaker 2: You have been returning, so you're a good person. Yeah,

1147
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:56,320
Speaker 2: ultimately you're a good person.

1148
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 3: I agree, Thank you, all right.

1149
00:56:57,480 --> 00:56:59,680
Speaker 2: The second one is from a listener named John, And

1150
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 2: this is interesting because we were just kind of talking

1151
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 2: about this gift or a curse. Horror movies that have

1152
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:05,840
Speaker 2: a PG thirteen rating.

1153
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 3: Well, anything slightly scary as a horror movie to me,

1154
00:57:12,200 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 3: So I have a different idea of the genre. I

1155
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 3: will say I don't watch most horror movies, like mostly

1156
00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 3: all of them. But I did watch Sinners. Oh sure,

1157
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 3: and that's because people told me that I would like it,

1158
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 3: and they were correct, people who knew me. Well, incredible movie.

1159
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:32,160
Speaker 3: I don't know where I'm going with this because I

1160
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 3: just realized, I don't think that's PG thirteen. Yeah, so

1161
00:57:36,800 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 3: what is rated PG thirteen? That's a horror movie.

1162
00:57:39,920 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 2: A lot of movies sixth Sense the others.

1163
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 3: Oh really, I've never seen others. I have seen The

1164
00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:48,880
Speaker 3: Sixth Sense, and that's considered a horror movie.

1165
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I would say so. I mean, it's got

1166
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 2: a lot of scary things in it.

1167
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 3: I have to rewatch it. I watched it once when I.

1168
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:56,640
Speaker 2: Was a child when it came out, and it didn't scare.

1169
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:57,960
Speaker 3: Kind of shit on me. But I didn't know if

1170
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 3: that was because it was my age or my sensitive constance.

1171
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 3: Shouldn't have to have a rewatch man. We can do

1172
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 3: that after foul coffee.

1173
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 2: Oh great?

1174
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 3: Also the Ring classic one, The Ring absolutely, Oh that's

1175
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 3: a PG thirteen And that's because it's not like obvious.

1176
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:15,600
Speaker 2: Scre or head chop offs. Yeah, it's not as gratuitous,

1177
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 2: I guess, right.

1178
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:21,280
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I actually I guess have to go gift

1179
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 3: because I like that. That's what I'm looking for.

1180
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 2: Correct. Yeah, I think this is a real gift. I

1181
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 2: think this is an underrated thing. I think horror movies

1182
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:31,439
Speaker 2: that are PG thirteen are often more scary because they're

1183
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 2: more restrained.

1184
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:33,800
Speaker 3: Well, that's what I would have called, I guess a

1185
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 3: psychological thriller.

1186
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 2: But it's not right, no, because kind of what we've

1187
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 2: just been like the others is a like a ghost movie.

1188
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 2: Oh it's so good.

1189
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 3: You would like the others.

1190
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 2: You would love. That's a very good one. Sixth sense

1191
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:51,919
Speaker 2: the Ring, Are there any other I feel like they're

1192
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 2: a whole bunch that like they're much more in control

1193
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:57,520
Speaker 2: of themselves. Right, They're confident in being scary. They don't

1194
00:58:57,560 --> 00:59:00,480
Speaker 2: need to show you as much. Okay, I think part

1195
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 2: of a scary thing in a horror movie is saying less. Right,

1196
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 2: So you can imagine how scary it is. Right. I

1197
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 2: think it's an absolute gift. I got that right.

1198
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 3: That issue. It's like when you're around someone and they

1199
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 3: don't talk that much, they are like kind of scarier

1200
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 3: because you're like, what the fuck are they thinking? Why

1201
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 3: are they being so? What are they up to?

1202
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 2: What game are they playing? Okay, this is the find. Okay,

1203
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:28,840
Speaker 2: you've gotten one right so far. This is from a

1204
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 2: listener named Meg Gift or a curse receiving ads in

1205
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:33,960
Speaker 2: your non native language.

1206
00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 3: When has this happened?

1207
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 2: It happens more?

1208
00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 3: Oh okay, Well, that was probably like really colonial of

1209
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 3: me to make that assumption. Probably a lot of non

1210
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 3: English speaking people. Oh my god. I just checked myself

1211
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 3: and I've made a lot of miss hoops. I promoted

1212
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:57,160
Speaker 3: a large corporation and I just acknowledge that and apologize

1213
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 3: to everyone I've let down.

1214
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 2: Me.

1215
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 3: It would be a gift because I don't like the ads,

1216
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 3: but I understand that artists, like ourselves, we need to

1217
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 3: have the ads to support our artistic ventures. Is the

1218
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 3: only way that we can exist subsist. So for me,

1219
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:19,280
Speaker 3: it's a gift. But I guess for a I don't know.

1220
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 3: As a listener. It's a gift as a as a

1221
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 3: proprietor probably not.

1222
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 2: You're correct, I think this is an absolute gift. I

1223
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 2: love to receive an AD in a different language. First

1224
01:00:31,760 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 2: of all, I think I love to watch an ad.

1225
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 2: I just think that how exciting I get to see

1226
01:00:36,560 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 2: this stupid little movie. Second of all, when it's in

1227
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 2: another language, it's not as effective on me. So now

1228
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 2: I get to just watch the ad and really focus

1229
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 2: on the art of the commercial right.

1230
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 3: That is a problem for me. I am an extremely

1231
01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 3: easily moved consumer. And because you know, it's a dopamine

1232
01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 3: thing deficiency issue, but.

1233
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,320
Speaker 2: It's very nice to get one, and you know, I'll

1234
01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:07,960
Speaker 2: occasionally get one in Spanish. It's like a little lesson.

1235
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 3: Well, I love the Spanish ones because I like to

1236
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 3: see how much I can understand and like Italian.

1237
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 2: Oh, it's almost a test for you.

1238
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I do enjoy that. But yeah, like I

1239
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 3: would have. I mean, I don't think i've actually been

1240
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 3: unless the traveling or something. I'm not in many many

1241
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 3: scenarios where I'm hearing them in other languages. But I

1242
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 3: would like to feel a little bit impervious to me

1243
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 3: buying something for one second.

1244
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll be put a wall between you and the purchase.

1245
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:36,439
Speaker 3: Right.

1246
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 2: I'm receiving them more and more. I don't know if

1247
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 2: it's like a mistake by whatever app I'm using that

1248
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:45,480
Speaker 2: they don't realize that I don't speak any other languages,

1249
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 2: or if this is just like they just send out

1250
01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 2: language or ads in all languages at this point and

1251
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 2: just hope they hit the right target.

1252
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 3: Are you watching a lot of foreign films? That sounds

1253
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 3: like something you would do.

1254
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 2: I'm watching a lot of housewives.

1255
01:01:56,720 --> 01:02:00,120
Speaker 3: Oh do you watch the.

1256
01:02:00,440 --> 01:02:04,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course that's the only one I watch. Do

1257
01:02:04,200 --> 01:02:04,720
Speaker 2: you love it?

1258
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 3: That finale was really good?

1259
01:02:07,200 --> 01:02:09,960
Speaker 2: I thought the finale was terrible. I know that Greek

1260
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 2: play that you had to watch, Well, I.

1261
01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 3: Mean it's sheer brutality at this point. I mean that

1262
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 3: was like that was like worse than the Comedy Central roast,

1263
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 3: like like it was every second was cruel and brutal,

1264
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 3: like psychological torture, warfare.

1265
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 2: But I want to watch them saying those things to

1266
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 2: each other. I don't want to act it out by

1267
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 2: Greek actors.

1268
01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:34,240
Speaker 3: I thought I thought it was interesting.

1269
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 2: I thought it was so bad. Who can say, oh,

1270
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 2: that would help for sure? No, I was really let

1271
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 2: down by that that episode.

1272
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 3: I thought it was interesting, I did you know it is.

1273
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:49,680
Speaker 3: I do think that Heather's like always trying to like

1274
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:54,160
Speaker 3: recreate her you know, receipts proof.

1275
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 2: Oh, I know, she's kind of gotten into this thing

1276
01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 2: where she's like that worked, and now I'm going to

1277
01:02:58,240 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 2: keep trying.

1278
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I I thought it was a good.

1279
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 2: Do you think something happened on the plane with Meredith?

1280
01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? Do you?

1281
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 2: I would say ninety nine percent. But the only weird

1282
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 2: thing is is that there's no cell phone footage of it,

1283
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 2: which you think if there was like somebody acting out

1284
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:21,600
Speaker 2: on a plane, somebody would have been covertly filming it.

1285
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 2: But I guess maybe if she was surrounded by and

1286
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:27,760
Speaker 2: also especially Brittany, who has a past of recording them

1287
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:29,800
Speaker 2: on her phone.

1288
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think there's ways around that, right, buying

1289
01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 3: footage whatever. I mean, I just don't think there's any.

1290
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 2: Way at this point, right maybe Andy.

1291
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 3: And I don't. And I do think that it will

1292
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 3: come about later.

1293
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 2: I think probably as well, unless they kick her off

1294
01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 2: the show. Yeah, well, you've got uh two out of three.

1295
01:03:52,520 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 2: That's incredible, pretty good, that's a very good score.

1296
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,480
Speaker 3: And I mean, I know that you know it's not

1297
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 3: open to interpretation, but to think that I got the

1298
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 3: first one right as well?

1299
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 2: So gorgeous. Well, I think we should answer a listener

1300
01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 2: question people writing into I said, no gives a Gmail

1301
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 2: dot com. Let's answer a question.

1302
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 3: I have to write that down in my phone so

1303
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 3: I can email.

1304
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:21,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, please email constantly. All right, this is Highbridger. I'm

1305
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 2: writing to see if you can help me. I'll answer

1306
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 2: right now, yes I can. My mother in law used

1307
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:30,720
Speaker 2: to transfer me three hundred dollars for my birthday every year,

1308
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:34,640
Speaker 2: and suddenly she stopped. No three hundred dollars this year.

1309
01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 2: What do I do? Doubt I can find a way

1310
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:40,360
Speaker 2: to bring it up. Take care. And that's from Jelina. Jelena,

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Speaker 2: Jelena j E L E n A. How would you

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Speaker 2: say that, Helena?

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Speaker 3: Oh h, Jelina, I'm guessing I'm just taking a stab

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Speaker 3: in the dark.

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Speaker 2: Jelina, I think that makes the most sense. Jelina's mother

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Speaker 2: in law has been sending her three hundred dollar for

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Speaker 2: probably decades at this point, e transferring it and suddenly

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01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:07,640
Speaker 2: that's no longer a thing. How was she supposed to

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Speaker 2: solve this issue? She apparently lives or dies on this

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Speaker 2: three hundred dollars. Every year she's been counting on it,

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Speaker 2: she's been cut off.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you can mention it just my personal

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01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:25,080
Speaker 3: you know, people giving money, you don't know the situation.

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Speaker 3: And it is tricky because there is a chance something

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Speaker 3: happened with her online banking mistake and then you're worried like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I didn't thank her or something right, but I had

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Speaker 3: this happen a family member first time ever not sent

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Speaker 3: a gift this year, or like a card or whatever.

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Speaker 3: And it's like, you can't just be like lit worth

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Speaker 3: more morning. You're know, we're moing.

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Speaker 2: But there are more subtle ways to do it.

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Speaker 3: Well, what do you propose?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you could send, for example, your family member

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Speaker 2: a thank you card and then he'll be like, wait,

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Speaker 2: did I send her something? I can't remember if I

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01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:09,640
Speaker 2: sent her something, and then it becomes a whole thing

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Speaker 2: for him that he has to deal with. And this

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01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 2: is what Jelina could be doing. Or I mean, she

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01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 2: could thank mother in law for the three hundred dollars,

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01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 2: and you know the think you says, thank you so

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01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 2: much for the three hundred dollars that you always send

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01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:25,080
Speaker 2: me every year, and then maybe that sparks something in

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01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 2: the mother in law's mind, Oh I forgot right. Or

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01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:31,120
Speaker 2: the other way around this is to call her right

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01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 2: now and say, do you need three hundred dollars? Maybe

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01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 2: the mother in law needs the three hundred dollars and

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01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 2: if she doesn't, she'll that will also click something in

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01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 2: her brain. She'll think, I don't, but you do. Let

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Speaker 2: me eat transfer it to you right now.

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Speaker 3: Right right. See. Wow, these are you had a lot

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01:06:45,360 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 3: of solutions at the top of your and I like that.

1352
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 3: You're not afraid to get confrontational.

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01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:54,640
Speaker 2: Right when money comes into play, You just have to confront.

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01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 3: Like a freelancer.

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01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 2: Yes, consider yourself a freelancer. With your mother in law.

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01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:03,680
Speaker 2: The other way is you can cut off your gift

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01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 2: for her. You could have a summons something like this,

1358
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:15,680
Speaker 2: just a slammer. Slam this lady for three hundred bucks

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01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:20,480
Speaker 2: small claims court. Yeah, exactly, sue her for the birthday

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Speaker 2: gift that she didn't send you. That feels like the

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Speaker 2: people's court. My mother in law used to send me

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Speaker 2: three hundred dollars and I didn't get it this year,

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01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:31,080
Speaker 2: So now I'm suing her for that. Could be an option,

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Speaker 2: and then.

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Speaker 3: What if they went to the court and then the

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Speaker 3: mother in law was like, wow, yeah, actually I wasn't

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01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 3: asked to the children's school thing, and so I feel

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Speaker 3: it was an appropriate response.

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Speaker 2: Well, then we're getting into the real communication that needed

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01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:52,440
Speaker 2: to happen anyway. You know, this family is not being

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01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:56,280
Speaker 2: honest with each other, right, Everyone's hiding something. Obviously. The

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01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:58,960
Speaker 2: mother is in deep financial trouble and so she can't

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Speaker 2: send the money, and she's also mad about the recital.

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01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 2: Everything's falling apart for everyone. And if they were just

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01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:06,040
Speaker 2: honest to each other, I think everything would be.

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01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 3: Fine, right, Or maybe the mother in law just decided

1377
01:08:09,640 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 3: to buy one coffee at Maroo Coffee and so she

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01:08:13,040 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 3: was unable to.

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01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 2: You've really come from Maru Coffee here?

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01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 3: Well, my local watering hole is only two blocks up

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01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:28,599
Speaker 3: from Maroo Coffee, in which I see a forty person

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01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:35,599
Speaker 3: line and I think, oh, these, oh these I they

1383
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 3: think they've read more than me.

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01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 2: Okay, this sounds like a you problem.

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01:08:40,439 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 3: I have read more than them. That's just something I know.

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01:08:43,479 --> 01:08:46,000
Speaker 2: This sounds like you're just assuming the way they think

1387
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:46,439
Speaker 2: about you.

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01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 3: If they saw my platform us right now, they would

1389
01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:57,519
Speaker 3: throw up their gasoline, their four ounce gasoline coffee.

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01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 2: Happily excuse Starbucks is up the street.

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01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:04,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I say, I know, honey, I'm on my way.

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01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,840
Speaker 2: Okay, I haven't been Tomorrow Coffee in a long time,

1393
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 2: but I remember it being good.

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01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:12,920
Speaker 3: Yeah. You know when the New York comedians coming to town,

1395
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:17,920
Speaker 3: they want Todd Berry. Fine, I'll go to the Morrow.

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01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:20,639
Speaker 2: The line is too long, give me a break.

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01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:23,759
Speaker 3: And then I just say, I'll have an Arnold Palmer. Please,

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01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 3: I have your finest four ounce Arnold.

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Speaker 2: You're getting an Arnold Palmer at Marrow?

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01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:32,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean it was at four pm. What

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01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:35,000
Speaker 3: do they think I'm gonna get that? If they served

1402
01:09:35,160 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 3: four pm coffee, I'm not gonna be to sleep that night.

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01:09:38,360 --> 01:09:40,600
Speaker 2: You know whatever.

1404
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:44,599
Speaker 3: I'm like, get too crazy online shopping.

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01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 2: Well, we answered Jelina's question perfectly.

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01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 3: Julina, you just go grab your mother in law, buy

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01:09:53,280 --> 01:09:54,200
Speaker 3: this shirt.

1408
01:09:57,080 --> 01:09:59,760
Speaker 2: Burst through her window, pop up in the back seat

1409
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 2: of her.

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01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 3: But don't you think like extended families, especially like if

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01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,640
Speaker 3: you don't like your mother in law, like everything is

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01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 3: predicated on a lack of honesty.

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01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:12,759
Speaker 2: It's like just politeness totally. Yeah, because there's no real

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01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:16,799
Speaker 2: communication between the two of you ever, and so something

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01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:19,840
Speaker 2: has just like gone slightly wrong, right, And Nope, neither

1416
01:10:19,880 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 2: of them will ever say it.

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01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:24,559
Speaker 3: I've never dated someone whose mother I didn't like.

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01:10:25,560 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 2: Oh that's great.

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01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm sure there are some mean ones

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01:10:28,560 --> 01:10:29,680
Speaker 3: out there, of course.

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01:10:29,680 --> 01:10:32,080
Speaker 2: But you probably picked decent people to date, and.

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01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:37,040
Speaker 3: I don't think so. No, more so recently.

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01:10:37,760 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 2: Okay, but they've all always had at least a decent

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01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:41,880
Speaker 2: mom around.

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01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:44,280
Speaker 3: I just like them. Yeah.

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01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:47,040
Speaker 2: Interesting, Yeah, I wonder if at some point you kind

1427
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:49,360
Speaker 2: of side with the mom against the son that you're dating.

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01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:50,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, who can say?

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01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 2: Who can say? Well, Julina, don't write back in We

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01:10:56,640 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 2: answered the question perfectly. I still have some brownie left.

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01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:02,920
Speaker 2: I'm so excited to take this home with me finest brownie.

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01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 3: Yes, please please feel free with my sanctioned approval to

1433
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 3: share with your husband for that. Oh oh no, actually

1434
01:11:12,280 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 3: he already goes.

1435
01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 2: He goes to Starbucks constant, but.

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01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:17,400
Speaker 3: He might not be familiar with their A plus prize.

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01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:19,680
Speaker 2: No, he recently had a breakfast sandwich there and had

1438
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:24,599
Speaker 2: a lot of complaints about it. Actually, what can I say? Well, Blair,

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01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 2: I'm so glad you could be back. You keep bringing

1440
01:11:26,280 --> 01:11:26,679
Speaker 2: me food.

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01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:32,120
Speaker 3: Wow, that's my main interest. So that's what I like

1442
01:11:32,200 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 3: to share. I'm you. Look, I'm Italian, you're Italian. I'm

1443
01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 3: very Italian. And the way that I commune and share

1444
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 3: love and break bread with people is through food. Really,

1445
01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:45,120
Speaker 3: that's how I connect. It's definitely not over coffee, honey,

1446
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:49,759
Speaker 3: Italians love coffee only after dinner, after a nice languoris

1447
01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:53,320
Speaker 3: past on red wine.

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01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:54,839
Speaker 2: Thank you for being.

1449
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:56,920
Speaker 3: Here, Thanks for having me, I mean even to be

1450
01:11:57,000 --> 01:11:58,760
Speaker 3: invited back, so.

1451
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:04,320
Speaker 2: Thrill you will again, I'm sure, But listener, the podcast

1452
01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:08,679
Speaker 2: is obviously over. I'm going to walk away. You're going

1453
01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:12,519
Speaker 2: to walk away, but we'll return and meet again. Take

1454
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:18,600
Speaker 2: care of yourself. I love you, goodbye. I said, No

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01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:23,200
Speaker 2: Gifts is an exactly right production. Our senior producer is

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01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:27,480
Speaker 2: Ellis Nelson, and our episodes are beautifully mixed by Ben Tolliday.

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01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 2: The theme song is by miracle Worker Amy Mann, and

1458
01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 2: we couldn't do it without our booker, Patrick Cottner. You

1459
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 2: must follow the show on Instagram. At I said No Gifts,

1460
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:39,719
Speaker 2: that's where you're going to see pictures of all these

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01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 2: wonderful gifts I'm getting. And don't you want to see

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01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:43,480
Speaker 2: the gifts.

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Speaker 1: Hell, Livy, did you hear fun a man myself perfectly clear?

1464
01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:53,960
Speaker 2: When you're I guess.

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01:12:53,800 --> 01:13:02,960
Speaker 1: Tom, you gotta come to me empty? I said, no, guest,

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01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 1: your own presence is presents enough. I already had too

1467
01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 1: much stuff, So how do

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Speaker 2: You dare to surbey me?