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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

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Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more,

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Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEHARVFM dot com and

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Speaker 1: we could read your letter live on the air, just

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Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now.

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Speaker 2: And you're supposed to say you never know, you never know.

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Speaker 2: Buckle up and hold on type. We got it for

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Speaker 2: you here. It is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 3: You never know, it could be yours. Thank you not

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Speaker 3: too late.

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Speaker 1: He needs Tennessee to holler is a subject. He needs

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Speaker 1: Hennessy to holler here. Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty two years

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Speaker 1: old and single because I will not tolerate a drunk

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Speaker 1: a big argument because for the past two years he's

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Speaker 1: been drunk when we are intimate and whenever I want.

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Speaker 3: Him to be on his best behavior.

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Speaker 1: His Hennessy is like liquid confidence, and he has been

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Speaker 1: sneaking it in on me.

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Speaker 3: I don't drink like that anymore.

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Speaker 1: Back when we first met, though, I used to to

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Speaker 1: try to out drink him. We do shots and then

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Speaker 1: pass out in each other's arms. After I had our baby.

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Speaker 1: I never returned to that lifestyle. During our argument last week,

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Speaker 1: he told me that sex with me is boring when

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Speaker 1: he's sober. He said he needs Hennessy to halla. He

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Speaker 1: said meeting my mom was not something he wanted to do,

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Speaker 1: but Hennessy helped him. He talked so lovingly about drinking

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Speaker 1: that it made me want to punch him. I told

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Speaker 1: him that my mom could tell he was drunk, and

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Speaker 1: he said he.

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Speaker 3: Didn't give af okay.

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Speaker 1: I warned him that if he didn't stop drinking, I

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Speaker 1: drink right in my face. So my only option was

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Speaker 1: to leave, whether I wanted to or not. I've been

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Speaker 1: me to come back home. He wants to talk to me,

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Speaker 1: but I have told everyone that's close to me exactly

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Speaker 1: what he did to me is going to be hard

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Speaker 1: to forgive him and believe in him. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if I can stop drinking all together, if he can

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Speaker 1: stop drinking all together, but maybe he can slow up

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Speaker 1: a bit. I don't want our daughter to have a

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Speaker 1: drunk daddy all in her face. I try to look

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Speaker 1: at the bright side. I mean, he's a happy drunk,

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Speaker 1: He is never argumentative, and the sex is top tier

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Speaker 1: when he's been on that Hennessy all night. Can I

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Speaker 1: put my family back together after he played in my

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Speaker 3: Or should I leave this drunk for good? Okay?

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Speaker 1: I mean this is a crazy letter, you know, it

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Speaker 1: really is, but it's serious too. I mean, your man,

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Speaker 1: your baby daddy, is a drunk, and you're right, he

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Speaker 1: should not be drunk all in your baby girl's face

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Speaker 1: like that. Your daughter's welfare is of the utmost importance here, period,

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Speaker 1: And I'm glad that you, someone who used to be

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Speaker 1: put up with his drinking for two years. Two years,

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Speaker 1: I mean, enough is enough here. He won't stop until

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Speaker 1: he gets out of denial and admits that he needs help,

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Speaker 1: and he's got to want to stop doing that. And

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Speaker 1: I mean he does want to talk to you, so

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Speaker 1: but you can't make him. I mean, having a daughter

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Speaker 1: hasn't stopped him from drinking, and he needs alcohol. He

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Speaker 1: needs that heny you know, to to make love to

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Speaker 1: you and all of that. You guys have a serious

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Speaker 1: problem here. You say, the good thing about it is

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Speaker 1: that he's a happy drunk. But he's still a drunk though,

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Speaker 1: And no, you won't be able to put your family

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Speaker 1: his Tennessey than you and his daughter his family, Steve, I.

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Speaker 4: Like to apologize before I do my letter response, because

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Speaker 4: you know, I just as I was listening and I

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Speaker 4: I just you know, this is an opinion show and

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Speaker 4: you can't help everybody in the letter, and that sometime

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Speaker 4: I think the people that like write the letters that fault.

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Speaker 4: You just never know when he would God, let's go

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Speaker 4: see he needs Hennessy to holler I'm a thirty two

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Speaker 2: Well, they made real high standards, lady.

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Speaker 4: You ain't said nothing that's special, okay, So let's just

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Speaker 4: get that off the dribble. I love how people go

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Speaker 4: I will not tolerate a drunk living in my house.

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Speaker 4: Well most people won't, but then a lot of people do,

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Speaker 4: so thank you. My ex and I got into a

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Speaker 2: His hennessy is like liquid confidence. We used to call it.

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Speaker 4: Uh. I had a partner man that used to when

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Speaker 4: he got drunk, he used to want to fight all

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Speaker 4: the time, so we used to call it a glass

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Speaker 4: of guts. We used to call it a glass of

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Speaker 4: little high back ass dude. As soon as he started drinking, Oh,

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Speaker 4: he was ready to go fight anybody all of a sudden.

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Speaker 4: Now you don't drink a glass of guts, you go,

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Speaker 4: You're gonna let that glass of guts get your ass whipped.

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Speaker 2: And it happened every time.

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Speaker 4: He would get real full of bravado when he got drunk,

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Speaker 4: but his fighting skills was the same and he would

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Speaker 4: get his ass toe up anyway. So I've seen that

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Speaker 4: liquid confidence. It's called the glass of guts, and he's

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Speaker 4: been sneaking it in on me. I don't drink like

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Speaker 4: that anymore. Listen to this line. Back when we first met, though,

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Speaker 4: I used to try to outdrink him.

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Speaker 2: Why but what you win for that?

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Speaker 4: Sometimes people do stupid stuff, and then when they backfire,

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Speaker 4: they wonder how I guy like, Well, y'all used to

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Speaker 4: have drinking contest. Now you tried to out drink him

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Speaker 4: and you couldn't. We would do shots and then pass

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Speaker 4: out in each other's arms. You thought that was a

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Speaker 4: nice sexy.

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Speaker 3: Evening, romantic.

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Speaker 4: We would do shots and pass out in each other's arms.

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Speaker 4: Ohh y'all's relationship is going on the right way, girl.

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Speaker 4: After I had our baby, I never returned to that lifestyle.

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Speaker 4: That was a good choice. Doing our argument last week,

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Speaker 4: he told me that the sex with me was boring.

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Speaker 4: When he's sober, he said he needs Hennessy to holler.

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Speaker 4: He's okay, Wait a minute, Wait a minute. He told

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Speaker 4: you that having sex what you was born, and he

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Speaker 4: need hennessy to holler. So he need hennessy for y'all

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Speaker 4: to make love.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, hang on, Steve.

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Speaker 2: Can you send me a picture of yourself? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Steve?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Well? Uh, have part two of Steve's response coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour subject he needs

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Speaker 1: Hennessy to holler.

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Speaker 3: We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening morning show, all right, Steve, Come on, let's

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 3: The subject he needs Hennessey to holler.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 2: They used to have drinking contests this couple.

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Speaker 4: She put him out because he don't drink good, He

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Speaker 4: drink too much and all that she's single now she

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Speaker 4: don't tolerate that. When they first met, they drank each

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Speaker 4: other and try he would, she would try to out

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Speaker 4: drink him. It didn't work, and then they pass out

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Speaker 4: in each other's arms. It's such a romantic relationship that's

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Speaker 4: heading to AA meetings. Then after that they had a

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Speaker 4: baby and she didn't return to that lifestyle. That's good

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Speaker 4: choice for you as mother and doing our argument. Last week,

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Speaker 4: he told me that sex with me is boring When

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Speaker 4: he's sober, he said he needed Hennessy to holler. I

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Speaker 4: asked for you when I when we went on last break,

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Speaker 4: could you send me a picture of yourself because they're

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Speaker 4: starting to sound up, they're starting to sound light. Well

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Speaker 4: you if you need alcohol to holler at your wife? Well,

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Speaker 4: what what?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 4: What? What the hell happened in here? I think that

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Speaker 4: consider that somebody ain't the same no more, neither one

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Speaker 4: of y'all. It's the same, no more, and you're heading

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Speaker 4: in the wrong direction. Uh, he said me my mom

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Speaker 4: was not something he wanted to do.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 4: He probably was true, but Hennessy helped him. Well, now

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Speaker 4: we need to picture you and your mama. Ye'ah, I

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Speaker 4: need another picture. I need a picture you and your mama.

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Speaker 4: This dude gotta do a lot of drinking. Just sit

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Speaker 4: down and have a conversation with your mama. Got good,

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Speaker 4: lord of money.

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Speaker 2: And then listen to this.

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Speaker 4: He talked so lovingly about drinking that it made me

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Speaker 4: want to punch him. Ye see, now he obviously described

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Speaker 4: describe you. I told him that my mom could tell

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Speaker 4: he was drunk, and he said he don't give a

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Speaker 4: tell the truth. I warned him that if he didn't

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Speaker 4: stop drinking, I was gonna move out. He turned it

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Speaker 4: poor a drink right in front of my face. Oh yo, lean,

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Speaker 4: you gonna if I drink another drink?

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Speaker 3: Watch that, and he.

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Speaker 2: Poured another drink.

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Speaker 4: So my only option was to leave, whether I wanted

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Speaker 4: to or not. Where you called him on this bluff

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Speaker 4: and you left. All he did was poor to drink

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Speaker 4: in your face. Now, he an alcoholic. Alcoholics loved to

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Speaker 4: drink and any excuse would do. So you offered it.

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Speaker 4: You threatened him. He took the threat. That's all it was.

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Speaker 4: So my only option was to leave, whether I want to.

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Speaker 4: I've been staying with my best friend and my man

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Speaker 4: is wearing me to come back home. He wants to

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Speaker 4: talk to me, but I've told everybody that's close to

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Speaker 4: me exactly what he did.

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Speaker 2: Now, it's gonna be.

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Speaker 4: Hard to forgive him, and I believe and believe him.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if he can stop drinking all together,

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Speaker 4: but maybe he can slow down a bit. Lady, that

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Speaker 4: are no slowed down alcoholics. When you are an alcoholic,

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Speaker 4: you are full tilt. Now you can be a functioning alcoholic.

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Speaker 4: And I think you're about to describe him as one.

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Speaker 4: But it ain't gonna be no slowing down. That's not

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Speaker 4: he's an alcoholic. I don't want our daughter to have

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Speaker 4: at the bright side. Oh, here we go. He's a

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Speaker 4: happy drunk. I've known somebody like that before. He's a

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Speaker 4: happy drunk like he's a functioning alcoholic. He like does

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Speaker 4: well when he's drunk. He's okay, he cool, he ain't belligerent,

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Speaker 4: he don't he don't get nasty with nobody but not check.

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Speaker 2: This out.

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Speaker 4: And is top tier when he's on the Hennessy all night. Now,

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Speaker 4: y'all need hennessy to make love. We need to focus

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Speaker 4: on this right here. Why does he need to get

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Speaker 4: ask yourself that he needed hennessy to look at your

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Speaker 4: mama and heir comesens somebody to get backure of because

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Speaker 4: he needs either that Hennessy is blurring his vision or

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Speaker 4: you need to go back to wearing makeup when y'all

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Speaker 4: in the bedroom because something he didn't discovered requires Hennessy

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Speaker 4: for him to get through. I'm just telling you right now,

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Speaker 4: can I put my family back together? After he played

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Speaker 4: in my face like that? So what you're saying you

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Speaker 4: you left him because he poured that drink right in

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Speaker 4: front of your face. He played in front of your face.

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Speaker 4: You said, if you don't stop drinking, I'm gonna leave you,

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Speaker 4: he turned around, pulled a drink right in front of

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Speaker 4: your face, and now that's why you left.

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Speaker 2: So you didn't leave because he needed hennessy to make love.

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Speaker 4: You didn't leave cause you don't want your baby to

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Speaker 4: have a drunk daddy. You didn't leave because he didn't

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Speaker 4: want to talk to your mama without being drunk. You

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Speaker 4: didn't leave because y'all used to do shots together and

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Speaker 4: fall asleep in each other's arms. You left because you

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Speaker 4: told him if you have another drink, I'm leaving, and

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Speaker 4: he pulled that drink right in front of your face.

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Speaker 4: I think you need to go home back over there

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Speaker 4: and work it out with your man. But I think

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Speaker 4: you got to convince your man that he needs help,

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Speaker 4: because until he starts to stop drinking, this is going

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Speaker 4: to continue.

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Speaker 2: But now know this on he got.

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Speaker 4: Once he stops drinking, he's not gonna be happy and

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Speaker 4: the love making gonna get right on back to being bored.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna tell you that right now, All right,

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Speaker 2: all right.

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Speaker 4: really need to go look get the mirror at yourself,

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