Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.
Speaker 2: Breakfast Club Morning, everybody in Steve j Envy, Charlamagne the guy.
Speaker 3: We are the breakfast Club.
Speaker 2: We got a special guest in the building time time
Speaker 2: who celebrating her birthday next week.
Speaker 4: I am this weekend.
Speaker 2: This weekend, ladies and gentlemen, Tabitha Brown, Welcome.
Speaker 3: How are you?
Speaker 4: I'm amazing. If I was in the bed, i'd be
Speaker 4: two people.
Speaker 1: I love that hoodie.
Speaker 4: Thanks.
Speaker 1: Freedom over colde switching? What's that mean?
Speaker 4: Well, you know, I spent a very long time code
Speaker 4: switching and conforming and that's not freedom. So I no
Speaker 4: longer live that way. And so I always tell people, honey,
Speaker 4: we got to freedom over colde switching. We'd enough just
Speaker 4: as we are, even if we're from the country, even
Speaker 4: if we're from the South. It's just a thing. So
Speaker 4: I promote that all the time.
Speaker 1: There you go, I feel like I know you because
Speaker 1: I told you when I saw you over the summer.
Speaker 5: I'm like when my kids watched taping the Brown all
Speaker 5: the time on YouTube. And then you know, my wife
Speaker 5: has the cookbooks, the vegan cookbooks around the house, like
Speaker 5: she was giving them out of his gifts to people
Speaker 5: like you.
Speaker 2: And we got to congratulate her on at me as well,
Speaker 2: just want to acting congratulations.
Speaker 4: It still feels surreal, you know, but I feel grateful
Speaker 4: to have one for just like being myself, right, but
Speaker 4: something so powerful that it's for children. But it still
Speaker 4: feels like it didn't happen. It feels like a dream almost.
Speaker 4: But the crazy thing is there's another side of that
Speaker 4: that it feels completely normal. It's like a it's a
Speaker 4: it's a weird.
Speaker 1: Feeling, it's yours.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it feels like, oh, this is what God intended
Speaker 4: for my life. Absolutely, But the other side of it
Speaker 4: is like, did that really happen?
Speaker 1: So? But yeah, how did the Internet change your life?
Speaker 4: Shoot, honey in every way? You know, I was, I
Speaker 4: still am an actress, but for a long time, you know,
Speaker 4: I was pursuing acting and nobody really knew me from
Speaker 4: you know, acting, And I started doing content doing you know, videos,
Speaker 4: not because I wanted to, but I had a dream
Speaker 4: and God spoke to me and told me started doing videos.
Speaker 4: And I was like, no, I don't want to do that,
Speaker 4: you know, But I was also trying to live a
Speaker 4: life of obedience. And I started and nobody was watching
Speaker 4: and I was like, well, God, you told me to
Speaker 4: do this, and ain't nobody. Ain't nobody showing up on
Speaker 4: these videos to watch? Why do you have me doing this?
Speaker 4: And I started in August of twenty seventeen doing videos
Speaker 4: and by December thirtieth, one of my videos went viral.
Speaker 3: Which one it was?
Speaker 4: It was a TTLA. I was eating a sandwich in
Speaker 4: my car because I was driving Uber and because I
Speaker 4: was on disability for over you because I was so sick.
Speaker 4: And when I started feeling better after going vegan, I
Speaker 4: started driving Uber and I was like, you know what,
Speaker 4: I had had a job before. I didn't want to
Speaker 4: get stuck back in the nine to five. So I
Speaker 4: told my husband, I was like, you know what, I'm
Speaker 4: gonna go drive Uber. We live in LA. I'm probably
Speaker 4: get discovered in my car. In my mind, I'm thinking
Speaker 4: I'm gonna, you know, pick up a producer or director
Speaker 4: or something. And I stopped by Whole Foods because I
Speaker 4: dropped somebody off and I was like, I'm go ahead
Speaker 4: and get me a little breakfast and because I'm still
Speaker 4: a new vegan at that time, and I got a
Speaker 4: sandwich and did a review on it because I was
Speaker 4: my videos. When I first started, I was just telling
Speaker 4: people I'm going vegan. When I find new vegan options,
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna share it. And by the time I
Speaker 4: got home in the video had like fifty some thousand views,
Speaker 4: and I was like, wait a minute, who watching.
Speaker 1: This video was before.
Speaker 4: Listen? I love that's my nephew. But the next morning
Speaker 4: had like over one hundred thousand views, and I was like.
Speaker 4: I told my husband, I said, I think I'm going
Speaker 4: viral was and I was like and he was like,
Speaker 4: what that means. I was like, I don't know. And
Speaker 4: four days later, Whole Foods reached out. I was like,
Speaker 4: we saw your video because I got the you know,
Speaker 4: sandwich from there, and they wanted to partner with me.
Speaker 4: I became their brand ambassador and wow, you want to
Speaker 4: do so many campaigns and it ain't It's been on
Speaker 4: ever since then.
Speaker 3: Now, why have you switched to vegan for people? I
Speaker 3: don't know?
Speaker 4: So I got sick. So January of twenty sixteen, I
Speaker 4: woke up one morning and I had this headache in
Speaker 4: the back of my head. And I had a car
Speaker 4: accident in high school, so I'm used to like waking
Speaker 4: up sometime in the back of my neck is tied
Speaker 4: and sometime it goes into my head. So I thought
Speaker 4: it was one of those episodes. But this headache rested
Speaker 4: in the back of my head for a year and
Speaker 4: seven months wow, and it started to, you know, affect
Speaker 4: my body, and so I started to fall when I
Speaker 4: will walk as a woman. Everything was all out of whack.
Speaker 4: I just did not feel well. So every time I
Speaker 4: went to the doctor, they were doing so many tests.
Speaker 4: They was in myris trying to figure out what is wrong.
Speaker 4: So they told me. They was like, we know it's
Speaker 4: something autoimmune that's attacking your body. We just can't figure
Speaker 4: it out. I lost my vision for a day. It
Speaker 4: was a really bad time for me, and I took
Speaker 4: every drug the doctor offered me. I was like a
Speaker 4: guinea pig because you are desperate to feel better, and
Speaker 4: if anything, it probably made me worse. Nothing was working,
Speaker 4: and so my daughter came home from school one day
Speaker 4: and she was like, Mommy, we saw this documentary at
Speaker 4: school today. I think you should watch it. And I
Speaker 4: don't know if you know teenagers, honey, but it ain't
Speaker 4: every day they come home and tell you to watch
Speaker 4: the documentary. And so it was what they helped on Netflix,
Speaker 4: and so I was like, you know what, let's watch
Speaker 4: it together as a family. So I watched it. When
Speaker 4: they started talking about not all diseases or hereditary sometime
Speaker 4: you can eat the same thing in your family that
Speaker 4: will cause the same disease in your bloodline. And so
Speaker 4: that was kind of like a light bulb moment for me.
Speaker 4: My mama died at fifty one of a rare disease.
Speaker 4: My daddy is now seventy two, but he's the oldest
Speaker 4: man that ever lived in my family.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 4: People get sick at young ages in my family, and
Speaker 4: they died at young ages in my family. And the
Speaker 4: only thing I could think of that we had in
Speaker 4: common was how we ate. Now, I wasn't a bad
Speaker 4: eater because I was in LA but I wasn't eating
Speaker 4: to feel well. I was eating to look a certain way,
Speaker 4: which is is also a sickness and.
Speaker 3: So a certain way.
Speaker 4: So I'm not exactly. I wasn't eating to like, oh,
Speaker 4: I'm me put this in my body so I can
Speaker 4: be well. I was like, oh, let me put this
Speaker 4: in my body so I don't gain weight, you understand.
Speaker 4: So so but I said it wasn't you know, a
Speaker 4: terrible you know, I haven't eaten red metal pork since
Speaker 4: I was fifteen, and I was like, okay, and I'm
Speaker 4: allergic to the every like most people. But I also
Speaker 4: was like, it's the only thing I haven't tried. So
Speaker 4: I told my husband, let's do like a thirty day
Speaker 4: began challenge. So for thirty days and so on, like
Speaker 4: day ten, the headache I had every day for a
Speaker 4: year and seven months disappeared. Wow, and I was like, wait, min,
Speaker 4: I'm onto something. And after that, every day started geting
Speaker 4: energy again because I had chronic the tea and I
Speaker 4: had chronic panic attacks because when you sick and you
Speaker 4: know something is wrong but the doctor said, well we
Speaker 4: can't figure it out, it makes you have anxiety and depression.
Speaker 4: And so I started getting energy again because I would
Speaker 4: sleep all day all night, like I would just be
Speaker 4: exhausted all the time, and so energy start coming back.
Speaker 4: My head, you know, was feeling better. I was starting
Speaker 4: to feel like myself again. And so that day when
Speaker 4: day thirty came, I told my husband, I was like,
Speaker 4: this is gonna be my life. You know, I'm gonna
Speaker 4: go vegan. He was like, well, tomorrow we need a
Speaker 4: piece of chicken tab like.
Speaker 1: And so.
Speaker 4: But I always tell people that part because sometimes the
Speaker 4: journey that may change your life or save your life,
Speaker 4: you gotta be willing to go on and a loan.
Speaker 4: And so I was like, all right, and so I
Speaker 4: ain't never looked back.
Speaker 5: That's why I got so many questions. Number one, you
Speaker 5: said something earlier about God spoke to you. What does
Speaker 5: God sound.
Speaker 4: Like for me? Yeah, so I always tell people I
Speaker 4: get to asked that a lot. Now I am gives
Speaker 4: it in a different way than most people. So for me,
Speaker 4: I can hear like your voice, I can hear sometimes
Speaker 4: it sounds like a flutter, like a hummingbird would be
Speaker 4: close to my ears. So it's like a wind and
Speaker 4: it's a flutter, but you can hear sound in it.
Speaker 4: I can see it, I can dream it. I'm a seer,
Speaker 4: but in my dreams, like my dreams can speak to
Speaker 4: me and things come to pass. So that's what it
Speaker 4: sounds like for me. For most people who are always
Speaker 4: trying to figure out is this God speaking to me?
Speaker 4: Is this just my thoughts? I will tell you that
Speaker 4: when you think of something, you'll think of it and
Speaker 4: you may lose the thought later right may not even
Speaker 4: come back to you. But when God is speaking to you,
Speaker 4: when he's putting something inside of you, it won't let
Speaker 4: you rest. It'll keep coming back. And so that's how
Speaker 4: you can kind of decipher. And then sometimes he will
Speaker 4: use a voice that's familiar to you, like for me,
Speaker 4: when my mama was sick, she lost her voice because
Speaker 4: she had ls or at the end she could either
Speaker 4: whisper or we'd have to read her lips. So I
Speaker 4: would be at her house on the other side of
Speaker 4: the house, in her office, and she would be in
Speaker 4: her bedroom in the hospital bed, and just as clear
Speaker 4: as I can hear, you know, us having this conversation,
Speaker 4: I would hear her call me like tab and I'll
Speaker 4: go in there and be like, momy, you called me.
Speaker 4: And she looked at me like, nah, I call you, you know,
Speaker 4: like I can't. She can't. But that's how God will
Speaker 4: get your attention sometimes, not to scare you. Now, I've
Speaker 4: only heard this one time, and this is when I
Speaker 4: was living in Greensboro, North Carolina, when I had kind
Speaker 4: of given up on my dreams and thought I couldn't
Speaker 4: have them anymore. I woke up one morning it felt
Speaker 4: like an earthquake had happened in Greensboro. Like my bed
Speaker 4: shook me awake, and I heard a voice that sounded
Speaker 4: like thunder, and the boy said, this is not the
Speaker 4: life I plan for you. And I got on knees
Speaker 4: of us started praying. I was like, now, God, if
Speaker 4: this is you speaking to me, I need you to
Speaker 4: show me a sign.
Speaker 1: Just shook the house.
Speaker 4: But listen, I woke up like this. I had never
Speaker 4: heard that before and it was scary, and I was like,
Speaker 4: either you got to show me today that this is you.
Speaker 4: Ioran to time my husband take me to the hospital
Speaker 4: because I thought I was losing it. And when you gifted,
Speaker 4: sometime they do feel like you're crazy and other people
Speaker 4: think that it's well. But now of course I know like,
Speaker 4: oh no, this is just my gift and I don't
Speaker 4: hide it anymore. I don't straight away from it. I
Speaker 4: wrote it buy it in my first book because I
Speaker 4: wanted people to know, like, this is me. If you
Speaker 4: want to rock with tail, honey, this is who I
Speaker 4: really am. I don't hide that part of me anymore.
Speaker 1: So what was the other sign that God shows you?
Speaker 4: Oh? So later that day, because I had kind of
Speaker 4: given up on my acting dreams because I had a baby,
Speaker 4: and you know, me and my husband's working jobs. We
Speaker 4: was living in North Carolina, So you have a baby
Speaker 4: early in a small town, you pretty much are like, oh,
Speaker 4: you go get this regular job and y'all going to
Speaker 4: get a house and cars and that's gonna be it.
Speaker 4: And so in Greensboro, North Carolina, where no acting or
Speaker 4: TV shows and nothing was happening. Later today, we was
Speaker 4: on our way tomorrow and on the radio, Bustin Brown
Speaker 4: was the DJ, and he came on and was like, Hey,
Speaker 4: I just got a new TV show on the WB
Speaker 4: network and I'm looking for a female co host. I'm
Speaker 4: holding out And I was like, that's my sign that
Speaker 4: I gotta go to this audition. And I want to
Speaker 4: say that audition I booked. The job was the first
Speaker 4: audition I ever had for a time.
Speaker 1: God.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I've been pursuing it ever since.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 1: When you say you have gifts, so are you clairvoyant?
Speaker 1: Are you like a medium? No?
Speaker 4: I call it I'm a seeer. Right, It's just you know,
Speaker 4: that's a gift that God gave me. I was born
Speaker 4: with it in that way. Yeah, my whole life, I
Speaker 4: feel like we all have discernment, we just don't all
Speaker 4: lean into it, right. But for me, I, as a
Speaker 4: little girl would dream about people I've never met before
Speaker 4: and wake up and tell my mom and dad. They're like, oh,
Speaker 4: I such and such, and they'd be like, that person
Speaker 4: been dead twenty years. Like you would never know that person, right.
Speaker 4: I can remember being in my grandfather's funeral, but they're like,
Speaker 4: you were ten months old. It's no way for you
Speaker 4: to remember that. It's just I don't know, and I
Speaker 4: can't control it. That's the thing. It just happens. Like
Speaker 4: I can be talking to you and something can just appear.
Speaker 4: I can see and it may be for you, or
Speaker 4: it may be to protect me. It just depends. But
Speaker 4: I have no control over that.
Speaker 1: Absolutely my Now, I'll tell you later.
Speaker 3: I was going to ask you, so you know North Carolina?
Speaker 4: Uh huh?
Speaker 2: So now you pick up your family and you move
Speaker 2: to La Yes, I was that conversation with your husband
Speaker 2: and your child and let's.
Speaker 3: Just go to l A, a place we don't know. You
Speaker 3: gotta find a new job and.
Speaker 1: It's good Carolina.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's crazy because at first my husband's like,
Speaker 4: so in ninety eight, I moved to California in pursuit
Speaker 4: of acting. But I wasn't in LA and I was
Speaker 4: like in Orange County, and I didn't tell my husband.
Speaker 4: He was my boyfriend at the time, Like how bad
Speaker 4: it was. I ain't telling nobody. I was renting the room
Speaker 4: from somebody who was like taking all my money. But
Speaker 4: you know, I'm like young, like nineteen, I really want
Speaker 4: to get this dream out of me and I want
Speaker 4: to do something. And so our plan was for him
Speaker 4: to move out a couple months later, you know, and
Speaker 4: then we would get our own place. But when he
Speaker 4: moved out and saw how I was living, he was like, no,
Speaker 4: this is crazy. He's like, you're working two jobs and survive.
Speaker 4: You ain't nowhere near LA. You're not pursuing acting. He
Speaker 4: was like, we need to move back to North Carolina
Speaker 4: so that you can. We can say, but money, because
Speaker 4: it's cheaper. He was like, we can stay for one year,
Speaker 4: then move back to LA so you can really pursue
Speaker 4: your dreams. That one year turned into five years and
Speaker 4: a forgotten dream right until I had that experience that morning.
Speaker 4: So when I told my husband after I worked that
Speaker 4: job for like a year, I was like, now, it's
Speaker 4: time for us to move back to LA. He was like, nah,
Speaker 4: I'm working there. He was like, we got this baby,
Speaker 4: you know, he had I also had a step daughter
Speaker 4: who was older. And he was like, we got we
Speaker 4: got you know, responsibilities now, Like we can't just get
Speaker 4: up and go to LA. And he had just built
Speaker 4: like a music studio in the house. So he was like, no,
Speaker 4: we were good. We had good jobs for Greensborough. No,
Speaker 4: but he just loved like making music. And so I
Speaker 4: was like, well, listen, I can I can go out there,
Speaker 4: but like I can feel it calling me and I
Speaker 4: can come back and forth. He was like, oh, no,
Speaker 4: we're not going to do that.
Speaker 2: I can imagine those arguments you're go with.
Speaker 4: I don't know what money I thought I had to
Speaker 4: I can be by coastal okay and go back and forth.
Speaker 4: I don't know what I was thinking, but we saved
Speaker 4: up like eight thousand dollars. Took us some months and
Speaker 4: we moved to LA And we first got there, we
Speaker 4: was living in Barwen Hills and my husband, I mean,
Speaker 4: we're both from the same hometown. You know, we're from Eden.
Speaker 4: It's a bear small town in North Carolina. And our apartment.
Speaker 4: I had flew out there to find our apartment because
Speaker 4: back then my husband used to be afraid to fly,
Speaker 4: you know, people from the country. They'd be like, I
Speaker 4: ain't getting on no plane, you know. So I had went
Speaker 4: back and forth to find us a place and I
Speaker 4: had found a cute this this spot was cute to me, right.
Speaker 4: But it did have the bars on the window, because
Speaker 4: most of them do in La right. So, but we
Speaker 4: weren't used to that. But I didn't tell him because
Speaker 4: in my mind I thought it was nice and it was.
Speaker 4: It did turn out to be nice.
Speaker 1: Was he able to bring his gun with him? He did?
Speaker 4: Actually, okay, you know what he did.
Speaker 1: He did Carolina Garden.
Speaker 4: No, he did. But when we got that he was hot.
Speaker 4: He was like you what we was like right off Crenshaw.
Speaker 4: She was yeah. He was like, what the hey we
Speaker 4: got a door to I was like, babe, I didn't
Speaker 4: scoped it out. This is a good area, I promise you.
Speaker 4: And because there was you know, that was when the
Speaker 4: reality show balw When Hills was out. Remember that, I said,
Speaker 4: we live in Balwen Hills. It's just that we don't
Speaker 4: live in View Park. But where we parked, we could
Speaker 4: see the view like I was trying to sell it right,
Speaker 4: But he got used to it over time. But you know,
Speaker 4: in the beginning, we was a little we was at
Speaker 4: odds for a while, but you know, we saved there
Speaker 4: for five years and we loved it.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 5: So that's I see now I hear the story. I
Speaker 5: get a glimpse of why I retire and your husband
Speaker 5: was important to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. I mean we came out there and
Speaker 4: after what the first like year or so, that's when
Speaker 4: he was like, I think I'm I'm gonna join LAPD.
Speaker 4: And I was like, because where we from, you're not
Speaker 4: no police officer, Like we don't even trust police officers
Speaker 4: right even in La too. But he was like, I
Speaker 4: met some like cool black officers that looked like me.
Speaker 4: They won't judge me. It was like cool, like they
Speaker 4: was like real people. And he felt like he could
Speaker 4: do wouldn't make a difference. But then also he thought, Okay,
Speaker 4: this is a good career. I'll have a good salary
Speaker 4: and benefits and you can pursue your dream. And that's
Speaker 4: that's what he did.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Well, one of the moments that we all saw that
Speaker 5: went viral was when you retired your husband, and you know,
Speaker 5: Wendy Williams had made some statements about you and the
Speaker 5: way you responded.
Speaker 1: You responded with such grace and such love. It was
Speaker 1: almost like, I hope you heal absolutely moment. Do you
Speaker 1: respond like that always in.
Speaker 4: This season in my life? Yes? Yeah. I mean the
Speaker 4: old tab probably would have had that get back spirit, right,
Speaker 4: But she didn't even know me, and I don't know
Speaker 4: her other than knowing her from you know her her career.
Speaker 4: But you can also tell when somebody is hurt. And
Speaker 4: we've all been through things that caused us to project
Speaker 4: and feel a certain way. But I'm not going to
Speaker 4: exhaust energy and give anybody control over me to anger me.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 4: So, but also I just love people despite what anybody
Speaker 4: have to say about me. There's so many people now
Speaker 4: that that hate me, that don't know me, but I
Speaker 4: love them. It also makes me want to love harder
Speaker 4: in the world because people are hurting. Right. You know,
Speaker 4: a lot of people think that I'm fake because I'm
Speaker 4: nice and I'm like, I'm a kind, I'm compassionate. I
Speaker 4: held my mama's hand while she died, like I've seen
Speaker 4: death so many times, Like I have also almost lost
Speaker 4: my life. Why would I not be happy and joyful?
Speaker 4: I'm still here, right, So it hurts my heart for
Speaker 4: other people when I know that they're just hurting and
Speaker 4: they don't mean any harm in a way that they
Speaker 4: it's really they're trying to make themselves feel better projecting, right,
Speaker 4: they're projecting, and so the harm is really they're doing
Speaker 4: it to themselves because they're not instead of projecting, you
Speaker 4: should be trying to heal yourself and get what you
Speaker 4: need to feel better. But I don't know.
Speaker 2: Because you get a lot of flak for it, because
Speaker 2: you know what it took me during that time. As
Speaker 2: people don't understand love. Yeah, right, you love your husband.
Speaker 2: You were financially fine, and you can make sure that
Speaker 2: he's okay, you know, And it doesn't matter if he's
Speaker 2: a man, he's a woman or what he is. You
Speaker 2: love me and you had the opportunity to retire man
Speaker 2: and men do it for women all the time. So
Speaker 2: I didn't see it. So did you get a lot
Speaker 2: of flat for it?
Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, I mean a lot of people had something
Speaker 4: to say about it, but that's their opinion. I don't
Speaker 4: I don't care. That ain't my business. But I also
Speaker 4: realized that a lot of people don't understand partnership. Right,
Speaker 4: I've been my husband twenty six years, amazing, more than
Speaker 4: half my life. Right, most people don't even understand that.
Speaker 3: How did he feel?
Speaker 1: Felt?
Speaker 4: He felt amazing. But after what people don't know is
Speaker 4: I had been trying to retire my husband for like
Speaker 4: two years. We had enough money, and he was like,
Speaker 4: that money came too quit, bab, I don't want to
Speaker 4: do that to.
Speaker 1: You now, just in case.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he was like, nah, I know one plus one
Speaker 4: equal two. We don't know. Because he also has watched
Speaker 4: me in Hollywood over twenty years not get jobs for
Speaker 4: six months or two years or whatever. He was like,
Speaker 4: we can't. We can't count on this new money, right.
Speaker 4: And so I was like, Babe, I promise you I
Speaker 4: got the amount of money that we have always said
Speaker 4: that we have this amount of money in the bank,
Speaker 4: tax has been paid. We don't owe nobody that you
Speaker 4: will retire. And he was like, all right, let me
Speaker 4: think about it. He took a leave first. He just
Speaker 4: was like I don't want that on your back, you know,
Speaker 4: even though he has a nonprofit, but it wasn't gonna
Speaker 4: make the you know, coming straight down, he won't gonna
Speaker 4: make the kind of money he was making before. And
Speaker 4: I was like, but now you can build it. Now,
Speaker 4: you can do all the things you wanted to do. Right.
Speaker 4: So it took him a while, but afterwards. Now listen,
Speaker 4: right now, what time is that they might be on
Speaker 4: the golf course? Okay, listen, he worked with his kids
Speaker 4: three four days a week, but he'd be on that
Speaker 4: golf course. He is, he is feeling it now. He's
Speaker 4: always heard about it, absolutely well.
Speaker 5: The trustee has for you, you know, because as a man,
Speaker 5: you know, they always tell us our job as the
Speaker 5: protect Yeah, and to provide.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that we forget that. We're a unit.
Speaker 1: You've been together twenty six years. Me and my wife
Speaker 1: been together twenty six years.
Speaker 5: Ohner, South Carolina from Yeah kids, you know.
Speaker 1: So it's like I understand that. And it don't matter
Speaker 1: who make.
Speaker 4: It, if one of us make it, we in it together.
Speaker 1: We in it together.
Speaker 4: That's exactly right.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean he carried me. I used to have odd
Speaker 4: and end jobs. You know, I would go work in maces.
Speaker 4: I'll go working you know, calls and I would go
Speaker 4: and I did CNA work. I would do all kinds
Speaker 4: of jobs to make sure because we are partners. So
Speaker 4: I would pay like utilities and stuff. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 4: let me take the kids school shop and let me
Speaker 4: do this because you're gonna handle the big bills. That's partnership, right,
Speaker 4: And so he did that for fifteen years.
Speaker 5: Man, when I was getting fired from radio and it
Speaker 5: was too proud to go collect unemployment checks, my wife
Speaker 5: was the one working, yeah, paying the bills.
Speaker 1: We was getting a victed.
Speaker 5: She was the one going in front of the judge
Speaker 5: and tell them why we shouldn't get a victed.
Speaker 1: So I overstand absolutely.
Speaker 4: I mean, that's what partners do. But so people who had,
Speaker 4: you know, problems with it, they ain't never had real partnership.
Speaker 1: That's right. So let's talk about this book.
Speaker 5: I did a new thing, your new book, Yes, all
Speaker 5: thirty days, the Living Free.
Speaker 1: What is living free?
Speaker 4: To Tabitha Brown, Well, you know freedom over coad switch
Speaker 4: and right, we talked about that. But living free is
Speaker 4: like taking the opportunity to do something even if it
Speaker 4: scares you, right, just doing something new. Right. I started
Speaker 4: doing this challenge in twenty fourteen. I was really just
Speaker 4: in search of, like getting to know myself better because
Speaker 4: I still was not free, and I would do something new,
Speaker 4: whether it be with my kids or by myself, and
Speaker 4: just to see how it would open my mind and
Speaker 4: how it would make me feel. And so I did
Speaker 4: that over the years, and I would always, you know,
Speaker 4: learn something new about myself. Like I discovered my love
Speaker 4: for hiking, and I was like, oh shoot, I never
Speaker 4: would have thought that I would love hiking. And then
Speaker 4: now it's something I have continued to do over the years.
Speaker 4: And so I was like, if I do this again,
Speaker 4: I think I want to write a book. So last
Speaker 4: year I did it for thirty days and I journaled
Speaker 4: it and made it into a book. And my hope
Speaker 4: was that other people want to, you know, live free
Speaker 4: and try new things and the other thing about freedom.
Speaker 4: In order to like really go out and do something new,
Speaker 4: that's the only way you're gonna know if you love
Speaker 4: something or you don't like it, right, you have to
Speaker 4: be willing to be like, I don't care, I just
Speaker 4: want to find out. Let me just see, right. So
Speaker 4: it also could be something as simple as I'm gonna
Speaker 4: word my hair different right now, I'm doing a you know,
Speaker 4: my hair name is Donna. So I'm doing while I'm
Speaker 4: on tour. I'm making a new hair style every day.
Speaker 1: He says. His name is Donna.
Speaker 4: Yeah, her name Donna like Donna. Oh, it's just Donna. Well,
Speaker 4: I named after Don.
Speaker 1: King put together don King today.
Speaker 4: But she got her name because when I was I
Speaker 4: did the big chopping when she was growing back. One
Speaker 4: night I was cooking live and it was like straight
Speaker 4: up in the top. I was like, why's that piece
Speaker 4: of hair, you know, sticking straight up looking like Don King.
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm about to call her Donna, and
Speaker 4: it's stuff.
Speaker 1: It's stuck.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I love that you dedicated your new book to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Why was that important to do?
Speaker 4: Cause I'm the one who made the decision to choose myself,
Speaker 4: sure right, And I made the decision to stop being
Speaker 4: afraid and to live my life my way and to
Speaker 4: try new things. And the biggest thing I ever did
Speaker 4: for thirty days was go vegan and it saved my life.
Speaker 4: And I was like, girl, this for youtab. I prayed
Speaker 4: that I forever and always do new things every day.
Speaker 4: I want to do that for the rest of my life,
Speaker 4: cooking like I want to.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna go back to I did a new thing,
Speaker 5: but you keep bringing up the vegan thing. Cooking with spirit,
Speaker 5: what does that mean? Because I've heard cooking with love spirit.
Speaker 4: Cooking from the spirit, it means you you cook from
Speaker 4: the spirit. I don't do measurements, so I cooked. I
Speaker 4: just throw it together. That's how most people cook.
Speaker 5: That's why so money it wasn't healthy now.
Speaker 4: But that's the thing. I'm also sought free most of
Speaker 4: the time, you know, because I know my family dynamic, right,
Speaker 4: so all my seasonings are sought free. But yeah, but
Speaker 4: we cooked from the spirit, you know a little bit
Speaker 4: of that. And when your spirits say, oh that's enough.
Speaker 4: But also you you know what you like and you
Speaker 4: know what you don't like, Well, don't put the thing
Speaker 4: you don't like in there. Cook from your spirit.
Speaker 3: I was gonna ask, you know so many people listening, right,
Speaker 3: and how did you know not to give up? Right?
Speaker 2: Because I'm sure there's somebody listening right now that's been
Speaker 2: trying music for ten years and it didn't work. And
Speaker 2: somebody that's trying acting it didn't work. Somebody's trying to
Speaker 2: be in a chef, somebody's trying to be an author,
Speaker 2: somebody is trying to do something online and creating videos
Speaker 2: and nobody's watching, and they probably said I felt I
Speaker 2: got a sign. Yeah, when did you tell them to say,
Speaker 2: maybe that's not the sign and maybe the change or
Speaker 2: you know, how do you tell somebody to continue to
Speaker 2: keep doing what they're doing because you could have give
Speaker 2: up so many times?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would never really tell anybody to give up,
Speaker 4: right if you think God has given you a sign.
Speaker 4: Didn't trust the signs. For me, it was always signs,
Speaker 4: and that's confirmation if it won't let you rest, if
Speaker 4: you try to give up and it won't let you.
Speaker 4: I tried to give up in Greensborough. I was like,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna just have to live this, you know, a lot.
Speaker 4: I'm working ups, go to this call center, you know,
Speaker 4: and and we got a nice little house, you know,
Speaker 4: got cars like that's that's We're going to church on Sundays,
Speaker 4: like it's gonna be our regular life. God wouldn't let
Speaker 4: me stop. He woke me up and it shifted me.
Speaker 4: I would see people. I worked at a staffing agency
Speaker 4: for a while in Greensboro, and I never forget we talking.
Speaker 4: Two thousand and three and I had went to I
Speaker 4: was in the drive through on my lunch break, and
Speaker 4: when I got to the window, the little guy was
Speaker 4: like he's a little white guy. He was like, oh
Speaker 4: my God. I was like, oh my God, like what
Speaker 4: we like, what are we doing? He was like, aren't
Speaker 4: you the lady on the on the kids show? I
Speaker 4: was like, now, I work as collective staffing. He was
Speaker 4: like okay. I said, oh okay. He was like, no,
Speaker 4: you're not. Yes, you're the lady that has a kid.
Speaker 4: I ain't got no kids show. I have a kids
Speaker 4: show now, absolutely. But it was like God was just
Speaker 4: telling me he sees your destiny. Wow, he sees what's
Speaker 4: com But I had no like it would happen to
Speaker 4: me all the time, Me and my husbandhen we first
Speaker 4: moved to la but this would happen even when we
Speaker 4: lived in North Carolina. We would go to the mall
Speaker 4: with our little girls. People would stop us all the
Speaker 4: time and be like, y'all look like y'all are y'all famous?
Speaker 4: And we're like, we live in Greensburg, we work at ups,
Speaker 4: Like what are y'all talking about? But people would just
Speaker 4: stop and stare and we never understood why. But God
Speaker 4: would always say, they see your destiny. So it would
Speaker 4: be signs like that. Then also I would dream and
Speaker 4: I would see these things, and I would tell my husband,
Speaker 4: I'm like, this is gonna happen. We're gonna have this house,
Speaker 4: the house I live in now. I describe to a
Speaker 4: t to my husband to the point we were in
Speaker 4: escrow on another house and this house just popped up
Speaker 4: and we was like, let's just go see it. I
Speaker 4: had a phone call, so I couldn't walk in the house.
Speaker 4: When he did, he walked in the house, he came
Speaker 4: back out. He was like, this is our house. This
Speaker 4: this the house you described we're gonna we're gonna get
Speaker 4: this house. You might as well call the people and
Speaker 4: tell me close the ass grown other and like we're
Speaker 4: gonna follo out as grown that this is our house.
Speaker 4: I walked in. I was like, dang, this is the house.
Speaker 4: Of course, that's the house we live in now. But
Speaker 4: those are the signs that we have to not ignore.
Speaker 4: But also we have to kind of ignore the noise
Speaker 4: of people who tell you can't. But also we have
Speaker 4: to be honest with ourselves. If you are not really
Speaker 4: doing the work for the dream that you have, is
Speaker 4: it really your dream? Right? Because sometimes it might be
Speaker 4: a goal. And the difference between a goal and a
Speaker 4: dream is a goal is something that you create. A
Speaker 4: dream is deposited inside of you. God does that. You
Speaker 4: don't make up a dream, It lives inside of you.
Speaker 4: So be honest with yourself. Do you want it because
Speaker 4: you see somebody else with it? It would look cool
Speaker 4: to you? Do you just want to make money? Or
Speaker 4: is it something that won't let you rest.
Speaker 5: I have a chapter in my first book called fuck
Speaker 5: your dreams if it's not because a lot of times
Speaker 5: we see things working for other people.
Speaker 1: That's why we think that's our dream.
Speaker 5: Like, no, that's not your dream, that's something that God
Speaker 5: had for somebody else.
Speaker 1: But what do you find your dream?
Speaker 4: Absolutely never never compare your life and absolutely don't try
Speaker 4: to get it because somebody else got it. You could
Speaker 4: be inspired by anybody, but you got to set your
Speaker 4: own path. But your dream that has to live inside
Speaker 4: of you, because then it won't ever feel like You'll
Speaker 4: have moments because I definitely have moments of like, Lord,
Speaker 4: when it's going to happen or you feel stuck, but
Speaker 4: it still won't make you give up on it. You'll
Speaker 4: still be like I gotta figure it out, like, well,
Speaker 4: what are you calling me to do?
Speaker 1: Lord?
Speaker 4: But also for me, I only wanted to be an
Speaker 4: actor for so long. That was my goal, and God
Speaker 4: had to really like sit me down and say, listen,
Speaker 4: you can be an actor. You can you can be
Speaker 4: a series regular, you could be in films. You can
Speaker 4: do that tall, but let me show you what I
Speaker 4: can do. And that's when the overflow came. I still
Speaker 4: am a actress, but I'm also a CEO of my
Speaker 4: own business, multiple businesses, right, I have multiple partnerships. I
Speaker 4: have two New York Times bestsellers. Right, it's so many
Speaker 4: different things that I do now that I was keeping
Speaker 4: myself in a box because I only had one thing.
Speaker 4: Then when I was like this thing that lives inside
Speaker 4: of me, the dreams I've had. I didn't just get
Speaker 4: that from being an actor. I got it from doing
Speaker 4: whatever God called me to do. So when I gave
Speaker 4: him my life, that meant I'm going to live my
Speaker 4: life however you tell me God, And that opened the
Speaker 4: door for me to allow him to bless me in
Speaker 4: the way he has.
Speaker 1: How important is being of service?
Speaker 4: It's so important.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 4: I live a life of obedience, but I feel like
Speaker 4: I'm supposed to be for people. I feel like that's
Speaker 4: what I was called to do, to love people, to
Speaker 4: be compassionate, to bring joy, help people laugh, also help
Speaker 4: people cry who need that. I understand that's a superpower
Speaker 4: to have that everybody doesn't have to control somebody's emotions
Speaker 4: and to help them, And that's my assignment. I believe that,
Speaker 4: and God has set me on a path and I
Speaker 4: will forever do that.
Speaker 1: You got to tell me your morning routine, Tabitha.
Speaker 5: I need to know mentally, spiritually, emotionally, what do you
Speaker 5: do in the morning to get grounded?
Speaker 4: Drink water, a glass of water in the Holy water.
Speaker 1: What is it out the line?
Speaker 4: It's a regular old filter water, but that is a
Speaker 4: part of it. I drink. I drink water in the morning.
Speaker 4: I pray in the morning. Of course when I work out,
Speaker 4: most times I work out in silence because that's when
Speaker 4: I hear a lot and so I allow God to,
Speaker 4: you know, just pour into me whatever I need in
Speaker 4: that moment for that day, maybe even for that hour.
Speaker 4: Sometimes you'll see me do videos of them in the gym.
Speaker 4: It's because He just gave it to me. But yeah,
Speaker 4: but I spend my my quiet time in the mornings.
Speaker 4: I do self checking throughout my day, and I always
Speaker 4: in my night with myself and make sure I'm not
Speaker 4: taking nothing into my sleep like hearing it, you know,
Speaker 4: from the day, like something I might be holding onto,
Speaker 4: because I don't want to be heavy in my mind
Speaker 4: in my sleep.
Speaker 5: How do you do that and navigate social media? Because
Speaker 5: social media can be one of the most toxic places
Speaker 5: on the planet. So how do you spend time on
Speaker 5: social media but still be able to disconnect, to reconnect
Speaker 5: with yourself?
Speaker 4: I think because the things that I look at, a
Speaker 4: lot of positive stuff show up on mind. But I
Speaker 4: also if it's if it's toxic or if it's negative,
Speaker 4: it ain't my business. I don't want I don't want
Speaker 4: no part of it.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 4: I look for joy. I'm intentional with that. I'm intentional
Speaker 4: with spreading that. You know, when people come to my
Speaker 4: my page, whichever one it is, it's gonna be joy,
Speaker 4: it's gonna be laughter, it's gonna be inspiration. It's enough
Speaker 4: negative in the world. I don't want to be part
Speaker 4: of it. So I'm just intentional with it, and so
Speaker 4: it don't bother me.
Speaker 5: Can we talk about some of these chapters. Yeah, do
Speaker 5: something new with check your triggers.
Speaker 4: Do something new and check your triggers. Absolutely. So I
Speaker 4: had my first mammogram when I was doing my thirty days,
Speaker 4: and my first one was supposed to be during the pandemic,
Speaker 4: but you know how everybody counseled their appointments, so I
Speaker 4: never did it. I was like, oh, I put it
Speaker 4: off for so long. I was like, let me go
Speaker 4: ahead and do me a mammogram since I'm doing a
Speaker 4: new thing now. When I go to the doctor, I'm
Speaker 4: always triggered, just because I was sick for so long,
Speaker 4: so just a regular checkup to me is triggering. But
Speaker 4: I always be like, all right, girl, you all right.
Speaker 4: You know that's a you gotta check yourself. So when
Speaker 4: I went in from a mammogram, it was a normal thing.
Speaker 4: They called me a couple of days later and said, hey,
Speaker 4: we want to take a closer look. We saw something
Speaker 4: in the image, and I was like, okay, but they
Speaker 4: did say, you know, don't be alarm, this is this
Speaker 4: is a normal kind of routine thing. So I go
Speaker 4: back in. So they did a closer look, and before
Speaker 4: they did it, the nurse told me she was like,
Speaker 4: if they see something and their concern, they'll ask for
Speaker 4: ultrasound after and I was like okay. So they did
Speaker 4: the image and they came back in and it was
Speaker 4: like multiple doctors. They was like, we saw something, we
Speaker 4: would like to take an ultrasound. So now I'm like, well,
Speaker 4: she said if they was concerned, they want to do it,
Speaker 4: you know, ultrasound. So I was like okay, and my
Speaker 4: husband was in the lobby. I was like, have my
Speaker 4: husband come back here so he knows why it's taking
Speaker 4: so long. And so I told him and I could
Speaker 4: see he kind of got like a little you know
Speaker 4: trigger as well. So they did the ultrasound and then
Speaker 4: they you know, took us in the office and they
Speaker 4: was like, there's there's definitely a mask that we see
Speaker 4: and we're gonna need to do a biopsy. And they
Speaker 4: couldn't do the biopsy. It was like a couple of weeks,
Speaker 4: like maybe two weeks. And this was during the first
Speaker 4: time I was nominated for Emmy last year, so I
Speaker 4: don't I had to go through you know, press and
Speaker 4: go to the Emmys knowing that I had to go
Speaker 4: get this spot the day after the Emmys, and so
Speaker 4: the old Tab would have got online and researched everything
Speaker 4: about you know, mass and breast cancer, and I would
Speaker 4: have told myself it's cancer. I would have went into
Speaker 4: straight on panic attack everything. But the moment that I
Speaker 4: started thinking about it, I was like, no, Tab, we
Speaker 4: gotta check this trigger. You can't just diagnose yourself. You
Speaker 4: can't start thinking the worst. You can't go back to
Speaker 4: your old habits. Right. They said it could be something
Speaker 4: or it could be nothing. Let's wait to find out
Speaker 4: what it is before you have any kind of reaction.
Speaker 4: And in that moment, I realized I really been doing
Speaker 4: the work on myself.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 4: It made me proud. I was like, I'm really on
Speaker 4: the healing journey. I've come a long way. Because it's
Speaker 4: rough when you've been sick, and it's a real trigger, right,
Speaker 4: So you check your triggers, but you can still do
Speaker 4: something new. So that's where that came from. And when
Speaker 4: I went ahead to biopsy it was nothing.
Speaker 5: Is it better to just stay in that gray area
Speaker 5: when things like that happen, When somebody says it could
Speaker 5: be something or it can be nothing, of course you'd
Speaker 5: be like, well, I'm hoping there's nothing, yeah, right, or
Speaker 5: you might be like, well, it's probably something, isn't it.
Speaker 4: Just to stay in Yeah, I mean in my mind,
Speaker 4: I was like, I ain't gonna claim nothing, so of
Speaker 4: course I'm gonna say, oh it ain't. You know, the
Speaker 4: name of Jesus ain't gonna be nothing. Right, But in
Speaker 4: being in reality you wanna. For me, I was like,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna stay in this. I'm gonna listen to what
Speaker 4: they said. It could be something, could be nothing. I'm
Speaker 4: gonna claim nothing. But for most people, if they're not
Speaker 4: there yet in their faith, then stay in that middle
Speaker 4: ground until you have evidence of what.
Speaker 1: It is that's right.
Speaker 2: Now another chapter, do something that breaks the rules but
Speaker 2: not the law.
Speaker 4: Oh so I tell people that all the time, Like,
Speaker 4: you know, some rules are said by us, you know,
Speaker 4: by people as well as laws.
Speaker 2: Right, But your kids come back with you all the time,
Speaker 2: Mommy said, break the rules.
Speaker 4: It's not exactly exactly, but I talk about this in
Speaker 4: the book that you know. I had got invited to
Speaker 4: a party, you know, and it was a strict dress
Speaker 4: code where they wanted you to wear black. I don't
Speaker 4: like wearing black, and this is about as black as
Speaker 4: a get for me. I love color it makes me
Speaker 4: happy when I wear like all black, it makes me
Speaker 4: feel weird. Yeah, I don't know, like even at funerals,
Speaker 4: like in my family we wear a lot of colors
Speaker 4: or we were white, but it just makes me feel
Speaker 4: a little I don't know, maybe sad. And I realize
Speaker 4: that if I do wear I gotta have like a
Speaker 4: proper color my lips or something. I don't know, but
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't want to wear black to
Speaker 4: this thing. I gotta figure something out. So I found
Speaker 4: like I had this it was like a blazer, but
Speaker 4: it was the background was black, but they had a
Speaker 4: bunch of colors and patters on it, and I wore
Speaker 4: like some black bill a bottomed pants. Got there and
Speaker 4: a lot of other people had more black, and so
Speaker 4: I was like, this is why we can break the
Speaker 4: rules sometime. You know. I could said okay, I'm we're
Speaker 4: all black and being uncomfortable all night and then got
Speaker 4: there and being mad, like look at other people. They
Speaker 4: ain't wear what they said. We're supposed to wear it, right,
Speaker 4: So that's what I mean by that, sometime we can
Speaker 4: break the rules. Just don't break the law.
Speaker 1: So you ain't never gonna follow in a dress code.
Speaker 1: If it's an all white party and nothing.
Speaker 4: You can ye, but yeah, I mean I would wear it.
Speaker 4: But it's gonna have to have a little something that
Speaker 4: make me feel like tap, you know, because I also
Speaker 4: want to go in and be myself, you know, So
Speaker 4: do something.
Speaker 1: That requires you to face your losses. That's a powerful one.
Speaker 4: So when I you know, I had a restaurant, right
Speaker 4: and when I had my restaurant, it was a partnership,
Speaker 4: and we had a lot of problems with the building.
Speaker 4: And so because the kill my Name is the restaurant
Speaker 4: in Chicago that I fell in love with. So when
Speaker 4: he came to l A, I was like, Oh, I
Speaker 4: partnered with you in an open a restaurant. I didn't
Speaker 4: know the restaurant business, but this building gave us a
Speaker 4: lot of issues, and so we ultimately had to to close.
Speaker 4: And so I was like, oh man, it felt like
Speaker 4: a loss to me because I had had, you know,
Speaker 4: so much happening. People would come in. I would people
Speaker 4: come from all over to just meet me at the restaurant.
Speaker 4: And I wasn't there every day, but on the weekends
Speaker 4: or whenever I could, I would go and just be
Speaker 4: there all day to make sure, I got to see
Speaker 4: people when they came, and so we ended up having
Speaker 4: to shut it down, and I was like really kind
Speaker 4: of hurt about, you know, for a while, and I
Speaker 4: really couldn't talk about it because were having legal problems
Speaker 4: with the you know, the building on it, because it
Speaker 4: was the whole thing. And so when it was time
Speaker 4: to do my taxes, I've been carrying this, like, man,
Speaker 4: I feel so bad about it. I realized that the
Speaker 4: loss had really blessed me. I wasn't win, right, and
Speaker 4: so I was like, sometimes we got to look at
Speaker 4: the loss for what it is. Maybe it ain't a loss,
Speaker 4: you know, but also it opened up doors to me
Speaker 4: and now I have you know, my food and stuff
Speaker 4: at Target. So I was like, it won't necessary a loss,
Speaker 4: you know, we can't always look at them, you know,
Speaker 4: things like that. So it actually blessed me because I
Speaker 4: ain't have to pay as.
Speaker 5: Much's a little bit. Let's run some of this stuff
Speaker 5: done now. So you got deals with Target?
Speaker 1: Who else? Come on?
Speaker 5: Don't need to be humble in this moment like a
Speaker 5: rapper right now? You know, you got the tap time
Speaker 5: booming on YouTube. I got deals with Target? You got
Speaker 5: book deals?
Speaker 1: What else.
Speaker 4: I have my own seasoning with McCormick Spice. I have
Speaker 4: six of.
Speaker 3: Those Fridays with tab and I do have.
Speaker 4: Frides having Chance. I do very good Mondays where I
Speaker 4: blessed small businesses every Monday. Of course, I have my
Speaker 4: own merch that feel weird to just name everything, but
Speaker 4: I don't even you know, I still do my active thing,
Speaker 4: you know. I launched a production company in a partnership
Speaker 4: with Stephen Love with may Love Media.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know when I thought about you, uh,
Speaker 5: And I mean I knew you was coming in, but
Speaker 5: when I heard Eastern Ray talk about how she's just
Speaker 5: basically tired of dealing with the Hollywood ringham Mo roll
Speaker 5: and she just wants to do things independent, You're one
Speaker 5: of the first people that I.
Speaker 1: Think about it. Because it took a while for me to.
Speaker 5: Even realize you weren't on Nickelodeon or something, because I
Speaker 5: just would always see you on my TV and then
Speaker 5: that I was.
Speaker 1: Like to turn time time on. I'm like, what channels
Speaker 1: have on you? She's like, it's YouTube or like YouTube.
Speaker 1: I didn't really I didn't even realize.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because the YouTube had YouTube originals for a while
Speaker 4: and they don't have it anymore, but the show is
Speaker 4: still there while we're searching for a new home for it,
Speaker 4: but we still own it. Right, nobody owns the YouTube
Speaker 4: didn't own it.
Speaker 1: I can't believe that.
Speaker 5: Nickelodeon, Netflix, all the people not beating your door down, well, you.
Speaker 1: Know some of them are okay.
Speaker 4: But it has to be right.
Speaker 1: Absolutely.
Speaker 4: I won't say yes to just anything. It's got to
Speaker 4: be right. There's no people have to understand. You can't
Speaker 4: own me, right, there's a price that we can partner,
Speaker 4: but you can't. You can't own tab.
Speaker 1: And you have all the leverage.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we got all the you know, the
Speaker 4: data is there, the numbers don't lie, and so like
Speaker 4: country wa ain't saying. I mean you got to tell
Speaker 4: me why I need you? So yeah with love.
Speaker 1: No, that's a great thing to say. You can't own me.
Speaker 1: But there is a price department.
Speaker 4: You can always there's always a price department because I'm priceless, Like,
Speaker 4: there's no amount of money that you can can say,
Speaker 4: oh this is no out take that, but that ain't
Speaker 4: what I'm worthy.
Speaker 1: There's a value amount exactly.
Speaker 4: There'sn't there's an amount absolutely, what.
Speaker 1: Does it mean?
Speaker 4: To have a free soul, I think, I mean, my
Speaker 4: life is a kind of example of that. And you,
Speaker 4: you know, you kind of don't let the world in.
Speaker 4: Don't worry about what but other folks think about you.
Speaker 4: Live your life for you and do it in a
Speaker 4: way that is graceful, and just let God guide you.
Speaker 4: But don't worry about what somebody think about you. And
Speaker 4: you know what the world tells you you should be
Speaker 4: because I know what it's like not to be free,
Speaker 4: and being free is the best gift you can give
Speaker 4: to yourself. That's how we were born to be.
Speaker 1: Do you feel like you're walking in the purpose that
Speaker 1: God has to you?
Speaker 3: Absolutely, do something that reveals your purpose? Chapter thirty, day thirty.
Speaker 4: Do something I don't even know which one that is.
Speaker 3: Since day thirty, do something that reveals your purpose in
Speaker 3: the chapter.
Speaker 4: Titles, I mean, because I talk about it throughout the book,
Speaker 4: I'm trying to remember which one that is that reveals
Speaker 4: your purpose. But I mean, I'm sure we've talked about it,
Speaker 4: like with dreams and being vocal about it. For me,
Speaker 4: it's always that, you know, don't shy away from your gifts,
Speaker 4: be honest, be open about it, even if you think
Speaker 4: people are gonna think you crazy. People love to call
Speaker 4: me like a witch or crazy. Like there's a certain
Speaker 4: amount of people I guess, like on TikTok and stuff,
Speaker 4: they'd be like, oh, that you a witch, you know,
Speaker 4: And I'm like, I'm not a witch. Right. I know
Speaker 4: what my purpose is and I know that I have
Speaker 4: a gift, and I give God all the credit for
Speaker 4: everything that I am. And so my purpose is to
Speaker 4: love people, to uplift people, but also help people heal.
Speaker 4: But also if God gives me a word, I'm going
Speaker 4: to share it. You know, when I was on Club
Speaker 4: with Shannon, I gave him a word in you know, confidence,
Speaker 4: like off camera. It was his choice to share that.
Speaker 4: And after that people even more was like I told
Speaker 4: y'all that girl, I told you. And I'm like, that's
Speaker 4: not being a witsh that is being you know, God's
Speaker 4: servant and being a vessel. And that's part of my purpose.
Speaker 5: So it is amazing to me that we give everybody
Speaker 5: credit except for God.
Speaker 1: We will put labels on all types of stuff, always
Speaker 1: say it's got to be something evil. No, God gives
Speaker 1: you clear vision, give.
Speaker 4: It to all of us. And he also gives all
Speaker 4: of us the good right, you know that gut feeling.
Speaker 4: I always tell people that's called the gift under the tummy.
Speaker 4: That's the good.
Speaker 1: Brown. I can be there talking to you forever.
Speaker 3: New book.
Speaker 5: I did a new thing.
Speaker 3: We appreciate you for joining us stage.
Speaker 4: Should I end it? How I end my video? Okay,
Speaker 4: Well listen. First of all, thank y'all for having me.
Speaker 4: I appreciate y'all. This is my camera. Yes, honey, Oh
Speaker 4: you've been there the whole time. Well, lord, well listen,
Speaker 4: thank y'all. Y'all going bout y'all business. All right, have
Speaker 4: the most amazing day. But even if you can't have
Speaker 4: a good one, don't you they'll go messing up. Nobody
Speaker 4: else is here. God, bless y'all. Love y'all.
Speaker 3: It'sakfast, good morning.
Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club.