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Speaker 2: Britt is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean,

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we're going to get him

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Speaker 2: on the phone and see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if

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Speaker 2: she still wants one. But Britt, before we talk about

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Speaker 2: your date, how long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Sean?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Freagain?

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Speaker 5: Twelve days? You're not counting her. I'm sorry that sucks.

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Speaker 5: Where How did you meet Sean online?

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Speaker 2: On an app or something else?

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Speaker 3: Oh? And it's the only dating up I've ever really tried,

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Speaker 3: and I've heard good things.

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Speaker 5: No, I have to that makes sense. Yeah, let's go back.

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Speaker 5: Let's go back to the date. Can you tell us

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Speaker 5: about that?

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Speaker 6: Well, it was good at first because we like met

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Speaker 6: at one of those like fun bars where there's like

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Speaker 6: you know, bar games, and he was paying for stuff,

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Speaker 6: you know, like he was getting her drinks and.

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Speaker 3: I was winning, So it was fun and it was

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Speaker 3: like a flirty good time and you know we we

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Speaker 3: even like kissed. Okay, Well, we made out.

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Speaker 4: At the bar.

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Speaker 2: Oh Okay, was there any moment where's something weird happened?

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Speaker 2: Why you might be getting ghosted?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I didn't plan this or anything at all,

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Speaker 3: but a group of my friends showed up and uh,

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Speaker 3: they you know, came and played a round of darts

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Speaker 3: with us. And that's the only thing I can think of,

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Speaker 3: because I mean, he left shortly after, but he had to.

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Speaker 3: He said he to get up for work or whatever.

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Speaker 2: Like how are the vibes?

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Speaker 3: When he left, he like kind of just was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I realized the time it is, I have to go,

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Speaker 3: So he like left kind of abruptly, but like you know,

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Speaker 3: I was definitely like including him and then like it

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Speaker 3: was I thought it was like going fine. So I

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Speaker 3: didn't think that would have been.

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Speaker 5: It were your friends kind of monopolizing your time at

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Speaker 3: No, No, So I was like, I think, like we

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Speaker 3: met before, because it was like a first date. But

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Speaker 3: I think it went fine. Like I even like text

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Speaker 3: them that night to apologize that they shut up, But

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Speaker 3: I thanked him for like being cool and said I

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Speaker 5: To see him again.

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Speaker 2: Did he say anything back to that or was that

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Speaker 3: No? He text me back.

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Speaker 4: The next morning. So that's why I was like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Sleep early, because he woke up texted me. He's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I had fun and then ghost Is.

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Speaker 2: It possible he's did any area of friends? Uh?

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Speaker 4: None of them said anything about that, So I.

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Speaker 7: Mean it also could be just awkward. I mean, Victoria,

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Speaker 7: remember when you had that date and you ran into

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Speaker 7: your friends. Oh, it almost feels like pressure in that moment, right, like, yeah,

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Speaker 7: their friends and you're just not ready to go that far.

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Speaker 2: Well, so it's a very first state, so like you're

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Speaker 2: meeting their friends and you're like, Okay, this is weird,

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Speaker 5: Well that's besides the point though.

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Speaker 7: So if that's what happened and then he goes ghosts,

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Speaker 7: like something had to have happened in that interaction. Were

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Speaker 7: their guy friends? So it was like guys and girls.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm a group of girls.

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Speaker 2: And what was the last thing you said to you?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: He said that he had fun, and I did, like

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Speaker 3: try texting him within those twelve days, like one or

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Speaker 2: All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it

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Speaker 2: out for you. Then we'll play a song come Back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if you'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, Okay, thanks,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll play a song come Back. Get your

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Speaker 2: first Day follow Up.

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Speaker 2: Friend in the middle of your first Day follow up,

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Britt is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call him and see if you'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why he's ghosting and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Britt, why don't you remind

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Speaker 2: everybody of the situation with Sean.

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Speaker 3: Okay, guys, I went out on a date with Sean,

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Speaker 3: who I met online, and we were having a super

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Speaker 3: fun first day at a bar and then randomly ran

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Speaker 5: Group of my girlfriends.

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Speaker 3: I get some darts with them, and then Sean left

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Speaker 3: briefly text me back once and then goes to me

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Speaker 3: and I don't know why because it's a great first date.

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Speaker 2: Well, we're about to get him on the phone and

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Speaker 4: Why.

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Speaker 2: Are You're ready?

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Speaker 3: I'm ready? All right?

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Speaker 2: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Sean. Please Thicky?

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Speaker 2: Who is Sean? How are you? My name is Jebel

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Speaker 2: and I'm on a radio show called The Jubil Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Sean, I'm Nina. Also on the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, and I'm Victoria. So this is a radio show

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Speaker 2: called The Jubil Show. How are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm okay, I haven't talked to the radio. What's it's about?

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Speaker 2: Do you ever listen to the show at all?

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Speaker 4: I am not familiar with your guys? With you guys

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Speaker 2: All right, well now you will be I guess. But

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Speaker 2: we do a segment on the show and it's called

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Speaker 2: the first Date follow Up. That's where if you go

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Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and then it up

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Speaker 2: end up ghosting them, they can email us to get

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Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we got an email about you from a girl named

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Speaker 2: britt oh Ritt.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well that's a uh yeah, I can understand why

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she said, it's been twelve days since you guys

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I uh definitely did have to take a step

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Speaker 2: Why is that?

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Speaker 6: It's not her?

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Speaker 4: It's uh and I'm not sure if she told you this,

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Speaker 4: being scared of both parties and seen, you know, being

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Speaker 4: her friends. But okay, Uh, it is because of her friend, Sabrina. Okay,

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Speaker 4: we used, Yeah, we used to hook up, and Sabrina

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Speaker 4: in time cornered me and basically was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 4: a date and all this other good stuff. And then yeah,

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Speaker 2: What with her friend or.

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Speaker 4: Well, well, well, Sabrina and Brittany both at the both

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Speaker 2: I wonder if she knows that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you want to need a little bit of space.

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Speaker 4: It's a little weird.

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Speaker 5: Wait, so you think Britton knows about that?

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Speaker 4: I would I would guess that she does, because you know,

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Speaker 5: I don't really know what to say about that.

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Speaker 4: It's like, I mean, you know, it wasn't just you know,

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Speaker 2: So you don't get down like that or I.

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Speaker 8: I'm not good at two projects, all right, I can

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, Hey, thank you for being honest, and

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Speaker 2: I appreciate it. Also, no, not at all. And I

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Speaker 9: Uh what, okay, Britt, Hey, I wish someone would have

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Speaker 7: You had no idea that he used to suck up

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Speaker 3: I'm not that good at friends with Sabrina. She's like

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Speaker 2: It's just like, of course everybody's going on with me.

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Speaker 7: She's like, I'm not going to technically steal her date

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Speaker 2: Ask him first because guys will be down, and then

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Speaker 3: Wow, the only thing we've ever done together is like

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Speaker 5: They were like kind of us.

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Speaker 4: But that's a little different than a reason. But yeah,

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Speaker 4: so you didn't know anything about that at all.

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't hear that from our mutual friend. I

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Speaker 3: And really, like I said, she's not that close a friends.

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Speaker 3: So that's like whatever you guys have, I don't care.

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Speaker 6: I'd still love a second chance with you.

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Speaker 2: John, Are you like gonna hook up with Sabrina?

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Speaker 4: I've done that already. I didn't didn't want to keep

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Speaker 4: doing that would like to would like to go on

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Speaker 4: a second date, just just the two of us though, no, don't.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, St Sean, you would like to go out with

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Speaker 2: Britt again? Yeah, we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: That would be awesome, especially after the holidays. But if that,

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Speaker 4: if that could be a thing, you guys, the whole

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Speaker 2: I think that would be Brett.

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Speaker 5: You don't care that he's hooked up with Sabrina.

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Speaker 3: No, he said in the past, And okay.

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Speaker 2: You want another date, Britt.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe we could do dinner or something where there's

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Speaker 2: Of this wholesome dinner. They're going to be the only

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Speaker 2: demanding that they just make sure it's a table for two.

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Speaker 2: That's it. Nobody else at the table.

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Speaker 5: The waitress comes.

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Speaker 2: we're trying to go out with each other. Well, congratulations,

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Speaker 2: you guys got another date. Thank god. Up Juble's first

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