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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the Second Day Podcast. It's Brick and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: We've got a new episode. Textual healing is just when

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Speaker 1: a listener writes us and has an issue where they

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Speaker 1: just don't know how to respond. You know, they're kind

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Speaker 1: of at a dead end, and so this person needed

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Speaker 1: our help and it is a doozy. We're gonna get

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Speaker 1: to that in just a second. But comments, yeah, Gil

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Speaker 1: Ferguson said in all caps, OMG, I'm out of episode.

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Speaker 2: I've been binging for eight months and I'm finally caught up.

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Speaker 2: What am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 3: It?

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Speaker 2: Work? Now? Work? Ew Well, listen. We always have our

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Speaker 2: full show podcast too.

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Speaker 1: If yes, if you're that type of glutton for punishment,

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Speaker 1: you can get a full full hour of this, kay,

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Speaker 1: Or go to our socials at Brick and Jeffrey and

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Speaker 1: just stalk us there, go way back.

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Speaker 2: Keep scrolling. We got you, Gil, We got you all right.

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Speaker 2: Your brand new episode for Gil starts now.

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Speaker 4: We all know the answer for how to handle a

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Speaker 4: really bad breakup?

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Speaker 1: Oh girls, nus, how you do it?

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Speaker 4: One evening out with strong, poor drinks and weak minded men,

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Speaker 4: and you will be forgetting all of your problems. But

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Speaker 4: what do you do if the person who's dumping you

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Speaker 4: is way more important than any dumb boyfriend ever could be.

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Speaker 4: Oh No, one of our listeners says, that's exactly the

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Speaker 4: position that she's in after she got one text from

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Speaker 4: somebody she thought was a really close friend, and now

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Speaker 4: she's wondering, how do I even respond to it? Was

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Speaker 4: how you doing Brook? No, Remember, it's not that kind

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Speaker 4: of breakup, but it may still help. I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna hear it in a brand new textual healing

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Speaker 4: coming up next, Textual Healing Textual Welcome to Textual Healing,

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Speaker 4: the segment where we take your so called complicated life

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Speaker 4: problems and instantly fix them for you with one simple

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Speaker 4: text message. Yes, it is that easy, because we help

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Speaker 4: you craft the perfect message to make all of your

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Speaker 4: issues and problems melt away like a tasty handful of

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Speaker 4: off brand xanax. That's what we do for you.

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Speaker 1: It feels too good to be true, Jeff, like you've

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Speaker 1: forgotten all the other textual healings that we've done.

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Speaker 4: But maybe it's the handful of xanax that I just took.

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Speaker 4: But we do have a woman on the phone right now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know anything about her, not even her name.

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Speaker 4: I just have a note here saying this is a

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Speaker 4: last second, emergency, desperate situation that she's in and she

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Speaker 4: would really like our help with it. So hello listener,

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Speaker 4: welcome to the show. Who are you hi?

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Speaker 5: This is Janelle and I would really appreciate some help.

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Speaker 5: I got a really upsetting text and it sort of

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Speaker 5: feels like I've lost my best friends. Not twice, but

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Speaker 5: it feels that way to me.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, o Brook. First of all, you need

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Speaker 4: to calm down a little bit, because she said it's

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Speaker 4: like her best friend, not her actual best I have.

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Speaker 2: Like twelve best friends. Okay, they are all equally important.

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Speaker 4: Okay, there's no time to brag about that stuff.

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Speaker 1: What's best friends are integral to a happy life.

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Speaker 4: But she said, is this an actual friend of yours

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Speaker 4: or it's just friend adjacent? What is going on?

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Speaker 5: It is a friend, but it's a professional relationship as well.

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Speaker 5: So basically I got fired by my hair stylist.

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Speaker 2: Is that the text?

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Speaker 5: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Can I ask? Is that the text that you just got?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 5: I got a last night and she basically told me

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Speaker 4: No, Oh my god, that's my dream.

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Speaker 5: Air.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she told me I can't come back.

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Speaker 4: What did you do with Janelle?

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Speaker 6: I did nothing, and I don't understand because I always

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Speaker 6: kip her really well, I'm sweet to her.

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Speaker 3: We get along. I've been seeing her for about six years.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait wait wait, did you bad mouth or behind

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Speaker 1: were back somewhere? Because I'm sorrying hairstylists or the queen

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Speaker 3: This was out of nowhere.

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Speaker 6: Well, we didn't even have an appointment.

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Speaker 5: Scheduled or anything, but said it said. Let me read

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Speaker 5: it to you verbatim. Hi, I've really enjoyed our time together,

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Speaker 4: Did you put an emoji like a tear eye emoji

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Speaker 2: No, not like Smiley and the girl hair flipping.

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Speaker 5: Hey, this sounds no hair emoji, nothing.

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Speaker 6: So I have not responded to get because I didn't

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Speaker 3: I was like, what, Well, it.

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Speaker 4: Sounds like you're feeling upset and like let down, even

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Speaker 6: I feel like it's really hurt my feelings because again,

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Speaker 6: when as I said in the beginning, like I consider

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Speaker 4: Friend, you know, well, I pay my friends too, so

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Speaker 4: I get that fee.

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Speaker 2: No, my hairs.

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Speaker 1: I've been with my hairstylist for over a decade and

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Speaker 1: she is a friend of mine, competition friend. No, if

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Speaker 1: I got that text message, I would also, like I

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Speaker 1: couldn't find someone else to cut my hair, Like, that's

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Speaker 2: It's like it is.

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Speaker 1: Such an intimate relationship with your hairstyle.

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Speaker 5: Is like you share it. I really confide it in her, Okay,

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Speaker 5: And I'm wondering if I should be taking this personally.

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Speaker 2: Oh you should, well, okay, hairstylists don't do anything that's

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Speaker 7: And to be I've never heard of them losing a client,

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Speaker 7: Like it takes forever to build a client list and

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Speaker 4: So for her to say I don't want your business,

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Speaker 4: it's pretty big. Yeah, there's got to be some sort

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Speaker 4: of explanation and she's not providing it. It seems like

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Speaker 4: that's what you're going for here, Janelle. You want to

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Speaker 4: ask her, what's the reason I want to.

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Speaker 5: Respond in like the right way without seeming like I'm

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Speaker 5: flying off the handle, like, oh, you really hurt my feelings?

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Speaker 5: How dare you?

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Speaker 3: What did I do?

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Speaker 4: That was going to be my exact thing?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I want to like craft this in the right

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Speaker 4: Asking, Okay, we can tell that you're very clearly emotional

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Speaker 4: about this, but we're going to do our job and

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Speaker 4: get you some textual healing right now. Help you have

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Speaker 4: the right message to her to figure out politely how

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Speaker 4: to ask the reason why she's letting you go from

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Speaker 4: I personally don't ever see the same hairstylist I.

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Speaker 7: Avoid that sad relationship with women in their heir souse

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Speaker 7: sometimes is even deeper. I can understand.

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Speaker 4: I would defer to Brook or possibly Alexis for the

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Speaker 2: I think you should.

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Speaker 1: I think you should lead with humor honestly, because like,

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Speaker 1: what if what if you're reading it wrong for some reason?

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you can miscann through her message?

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Speaker 2: But what if you just said, my roots weren't that bad?

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Speaker 2: Last appointment? Were they you know, like, yeah.

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Speaker 5: Okay, right, I say, like, I promise I didn't use

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Speaker 2: Exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, girl, I swear I didn't cut my own bags

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Speaker 1: before I saw you.

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Speaker 4: That's an option. Or you could also play the pity

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Speaker 4: card and be like, are you sure because I had

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Speaker 4: three of my dogs run away this week. Also, my

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Speaker 4: dad says he wants to redivorce my mom.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: That's also kind of funny. Work on a hairstyle.

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Speaker 4: In that chair, that's not bad.

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Speaker 1: What if you lean into what Alexis is saying with

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Speaker 1: the gossip and be like, no, you can't yet because

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Speaker 1: I haven't told you what happened with X something talking

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Speaker 5: I like that just to intrigue her. I mean, I

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Speaker 5: if that was like a little bit of humor might

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Speaker 1: You'll be able to tell on her interest level if

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know. So you're worried there's going to be

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Speaker 4: something personal about you. What does the room think, Like,

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Speaker 4: what are the percentage chances that this has something to

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Speaker 4: do with something Janelle did? Or what's the percentage it's

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Speaker 4: something not related to her going on in just the

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Speaker 4: hairstylist Personal.

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Speaker 1: Life Janelle Janelle nine percent.

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Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, I don't like to hear that, but

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Speaker 5: I hate to say it. I think you guys, But

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Speaker 5: the way she phrased it in her text is I

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Speaker 5: don't think I'd like to take you on as a

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Speaker 7: Yeah, is anyone else optimistic?

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Speaker 4: There's a one percent chance he's.

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Speaker 7: Intimidated by her, like, oh my god, that coat you

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Speaker 4: Do you think a one percent chance is optimism?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm optimistic.

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Speaker 4: It's not your fault and has something to do with

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Speaker 2: There always the prettiest girl. Yeahtimate. They're not intimidating, Okay.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate your optimism, Jose Yeah, sorry for it.

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Speaker 4: So we're obviously running out of time here. We need

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Speaker 4: to get one text through. What are you going to

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Speaker 5: I think I'm gonna go with the little gossip humor thing.

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Speaker 3: Least, that's an attempt to.

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Speaker 5: Diffuse the situation a little bit with humor.

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Speaker 1: And remind her that you guys are friends. I mean

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Speaker 1: it's a reminder that you're more connected than just the

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Speaker 3: Perfect.

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Speaker 4: So we are officially out of time now, So Janelle,

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Speaker 4: you're gonna have to go ahead and text that message

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Speaker 4: to her on your own about I have gossip for you.

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Speaker 4: You have to hear it, and then we'll come back

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Speaker 4: and hopefully she's responded to it and you've reeled her

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Speaker 4: back in when we do more textual healing with the

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Speaker 4: hairstylist who fired you coming out right after this. Okay,

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Speaker 4: we're in the middle of textual healing with our listener, Janelle,

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Speaker 4: who had a professional and what she thought was a

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Speaker 4: close friendship with her hairstylist of the past six years. The

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Speaker 4: issue is last night she received a random text that said,

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but you're fired. You cannot be my client anymore.

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Speaker 4: Like we're not even her client.

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Speaker 7: I feel like we all winced when he said this,

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Speaker 7: like she.

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Speaker 2: Was just canceling an appointment. She is canceling, yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: And there was nothing else with it.

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Speaker 4: No emoji's attached, no explanation for why. So Janelle turned

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Speaker 4: and maybe even get her hairstylist back.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I'm gonna win. That's what we're gonna do.

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Speaker 4: Nobody we never said that was a possibility in the

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Speaker 4: I'm using the optimism. Okay, so we don't even know

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Speaker 5: Here's what I ended up sending her and she is

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Speaker 2: Okay, well that means it's going to be a long one.

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Speaker 2: What did you say?

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Speaker 5: I said, are you sure? Because I have something juicy

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Speaker 2: I know everybody wants to know the tea, don't they.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can always come up with some tea about

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Speaker 1: Do you respond to that in a negative way? You're

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Speaker 5: Said, okay, okay, something has come through. Okay, waiting to

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Speaker 5: hear this what that's exactly the problem. Your mother in

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Speaker 4: Now shut of you?

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Speaker 2: The betrayal if she choose her.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know how this happened.

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Speaker 2: Do you have a backstabbing mother in law? Is this

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Like the mother in law came in and started gossiping

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Speaker 5: I told my mother in law that I went to

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, I guess I don't understand.

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Speaker 4: Clearly there's a tension going on between the three of

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Speaker 2: No, And you need to say what did my mother

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Can we assume that that was yeah, clearly.

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Speaker 4: I mean, for any life, is you just assumed the

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm gonna write why would you choose her over me?

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Speaker 3: I'm typing now, okay, why would you.

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Speaker 5: Choose her over me?

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Speaker 6: I've been your client for six years.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, angry angry face emoji? No, not angry avery

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Speaker 1: No, no emojis, no emojis, emojis, yes, I want to

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, okay, no emojis, just curse words.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I sent it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wow, I can't imagine what you're feeling right now.

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Speaker 5: I've done it, and she's writing back already, so she's

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Okay, I am dying. I can't.

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Speaker 3: Oh, this is freaking me out.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I came through.

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Speaker 6: She right, Oh my god, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: This is awkward.

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Speaker 6: But he told me some interesting things.

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Speaker 5: About you that don't line up with my values. So

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Speaker 5: we should just say goodbye.

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Speaker 4: What your mother in law gossiped to your stylist and

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Speaker 1: You've got to throw the mom in law under the bus.

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Speaker 1: That's the only option right now.

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Speaker 1: You need to say values. Let's talk about values because

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Speaker 2: Adiot.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, when they go low, you go low. That's right, law,

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Speaker 5: I'm just sure what values is she saying don't align

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Speaker 3: I would like to and I'm going to add on.

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Speaker 6: Whatever she said to you it's a lie.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, and then say it doesn't matter. No,

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Speaker 1: you let her know that you literally can't with this woman,

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Speaker 1: that this woman is affecting. I mean, come on, a

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Speaker 5: I sent it.

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Speaker 1: I sent it, and we got to do a whole

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Speaker 2: Next book is releasing of her.

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Speaker 4: That's so excited for that segment.

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Speaker 2: Hate that stuff.

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Speaker 5: I did not even know my mother in law went there.

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Speaker 5: This is like no good deeds, Like I recommended this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you better be careful. You're gonna lose your dentist.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna lose your dermatologists.

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Speaker 3: I'm definitely not recommending anywhere. I wouldn't recommend a grocery

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Speaker 4: I mean, oh my god, this is oh my god.

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Speaker 5: She texted back, Okay, all right, I'm scared.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to go into it, but in terms

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Speaker 4: Your mother, your mother in law, said that about you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, apparently she told my stylist, who knows that's how

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is not news.

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Speaker 4: Wait for you don't believe in tipping above fifteen percent?

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Speaker 5: Percent is pretty standard, and twenty percent is like really

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Speaker 2: I'm just processing, really, aren't you?

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Speaker 4: Five percent isn't it? Okay?

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Speaker 2: If this is important to you, just be like, that

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Speaker 4: And she's known that, she's.

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Speaker 2: Known that maybe she's been waiting to find an excuse

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Speaker 1: What probably happened is that your hairstylist was complaining to

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Speaker 2: You don't tip, and the mother and law said, well,

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Speaker 2: that's what she does. She never tips over fifteen percent.

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Speaker 5: Do I fire my mother in law?

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Speaker 3: You can't.

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Speaker 2: You got a tip more? You got a tip more?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'm sorry too. We are out of time

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Speaker 4: come back again.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it was the mother in law's fault.

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Speaker 4: Down your pro mom in law.

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Speaker 2: I maybe went a little too hard too soon, Brook.

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Speaker 4: And Jeffrey in the morning, Brook, what happened there at

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Speaker 4: the end to you know, you were one hundred percent

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Speaker 1: I just sometimes I may make choices before I have

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's not great.

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Speaker 2: You know it's okay to say I was wrong.

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Speaker 4: Sure, that's a rare thing for us to hear.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you can't be this opinionated and not also

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Speaker 4: You can't do both, I will say.

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Speaker 7: When she says, yeah, I never reaches my ears, she

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Speaker 4: Problem.

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Speaker 2: No, I talked to Alexis about it, okay, I will say.

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Speaker 4: The weirdest part was after the break, you went and

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Speaker 4: your stylist. Personally you did. They went in there and

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Speaker 4: you said, it's all under the table, so quote the

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Speaker 5: I was in the.

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Speaker 4: Room mortgage every month.

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Speaker 4: You did have a smug look on your face though

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Speaker 4: when you gave him the answer. But that's okay. You

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Speaker 4: We're not here to judge your salary. Yeah, salary, but

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Speaker 4: we can't always try to help you with the issues

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Speaker 4: going on in your life. Reach out to the show,

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Speaker 4: find us on email at Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 4: and subscribe to our podcast, Brook and Jeffrey