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Speaker 1: My family disowns me and my unborn baby because I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't move my ultrasound appintment.

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Speaker 2: That seems very very harsh, and you're really just gonna

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Speaker 2: leave that baby without an extended family because of a

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Speaker 2: little like like like what is an ultrasound but like

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Speaker 2: a black and white blob exactly.

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Speaker 1: It's like just just the sheer audacity move your ultrasound

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Speaker 1: to accommodate.

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Speaker 2: It's like, bro, it's my ultrasound.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's let's see how ridiculous this really really.

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Speaker 2: Die then eat it up, Eat it up. Reese's buff,

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Speaker 2: Reese's buffs.

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Speaker 1: So I thirty two female, and my husband Frank, thirty

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Speaker 1: four male, were pregnant, and everyone on both sides of

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Speaker 1: the family seemed super excited about the baby because it

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Speaker 1: was the first grandchild for both sides. Starting off positive, sweet,

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Speaker 1: you know, new baby in the mix. My parents ended

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Speaker 1: up being in town coincidentally the day I had scheduled

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Speaker 1: an ultrasound, so I invited them to tag along and

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Speaker 1: see Q. Lots of happy, happy tears. My in laws

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Speaker 1: never outright protested, but there were many jealousy noises.

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Speaker 2: Coming from them. What a jealousy noise like.

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Speaker 1: You didn't invite me, so I decided to invite them

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Speaker 1: to my next scheduled ultrasound. Mother in law and father

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Speaker 1: in law live a fair distance away, so we planned

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Speaker 1: a weekend completely around the scan. My sister in law

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Speaker 1: has always been a.

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Speaker 2: Bit tricky MM.

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Speaker 1: She's four years younger than Frank and is the baby

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Speaker 1: of the family, so no is not in her vocabulary

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Speaker 1: spoiled little brats like would you like me to punch

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Speaker 1: you in the face. No, she's just like scats, like

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Speaker 1: skimmed the dude about dood doodoo.

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Speaker 2: Maybe about ba ba reep jazz.

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Speaker 1: Now, my sister in law has shown little to zero

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Speaker 1: interest in me or the pregnancy. I'm not offended by

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Speaker 1: people not liking babies, no big deal. But I started

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Speaker 1: getting tired of her calling our unborn child things like

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Speaker 1: a crotch goblin and crotch fruit.

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Speaker 2: WHA, why we'll say that about someone's baby, Like this

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Speaker 2: is your niece. You know you were one to crotch fruits,

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Speaker 2: so you better you better be you better be careful

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Speaker 2: how you toss that fruit around.

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Speaker 1: And sister law and I don't hang out or talk,

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Speaker 1: by the way, she just posts sarcastic comments in the

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Speaker 1: family group chat. I just ignore her or let Frank

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Speaker 1: handle it, because life is too short for whatever tension

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Speaker 1: seeking jealousy slash nonsense it is.

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Speaker 2: Why is like the family group chat being treated like

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Speaker 2: an Xbox Live like chat room.

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Speaker 1: You gotta crouch goblets freaking stinking up your belly and

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Speaker 1: your mom's Okay, my sister in law dislikes me because

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Speaker 1: her brother and I are vaguely apathetic to her. By that,

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm not impressed by her purses, or her

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Speaker 1: horses or her jewelry. Girl has horses, So I just

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Speaker 1: nod complacently as she shows me her newest Arabian tack

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Speaker 1: or von Kleff's watch.

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Speaker 2: Watch what is that?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: What's an Arabian tack? Like a horse?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, that's a weird look in a horse, bro,

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Speaker 2: It looks emaciated.

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Speaker 1: I collect cake pans, And so she finds my lack

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Speaker 1: of social standing beneath her, and that my husband is

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Speaker 1: an embarrassment since he went into something so vulgar and

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Speaker 1: pedestrian as cryptocurrency.

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Speaker 2: Bruh, vulgar and pedestrian. You're talking about the future of

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Speaker 2: currency and also Bro they're having a fire sale on

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Speaker 2: crypto right now.

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Speaker 1: Dude, it's literally the best time to buy. And actually,

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Speaker 1: you know cou cooin.

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Speaker 2: Right yeah. I think I've used to exchange some bitcoin

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Speaker 2: for like USDT in the past.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, So they're actually doing this giveaway. Everyone who enters

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Speaker 1: is splitting fifty k in bitcoin and the first prize

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Speaker 1: winner literally gets one hundred thousand dollars in crypto.

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Speaker 2: One hundred bayons.

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Speaker 1: That's right, one hundred bayans. Baby. Just check our biolink

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Speaker 1: to join coucoin and enter to win the prize.

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Speaker 2: Get those hundred bayans. Bite bait.

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Speaker 1: So fast forward to me picking up my in laws

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Speaker 1: at the airport Thursday night, and surprise, surprise, my sister

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Speaker 1: in law is there too.

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Speaker 2: She's just trying to stir up trouble at sister in law.

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Speaker 2: I'm imagining that she's like riding in on one of

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Speaker 2: her emaciated horses.

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Speaker 1: At this point, we were a bit confused because she's

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Speaker 1: never flown out to see us in six years of

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Speaker 1: our marriage, and she wasn't invited.

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Speaker 2: I love, I love the second point six years. He's

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Speaker 2: never been here, and specifically she wasn't invited.

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Speaker 1: But I thought, Hey, she's showing interest, so I'll go

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Speaker 1: along with it. We go out to dinner and afterwards

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Speaker 1: we're talking about the scan and sister in law pipes

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Speaker 1: up about how it would be better to not be

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Speaker 1: early in the morning because she's not forcing herself to

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Speaker 1: miss sleep over my spawn over her spond spon.

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Speaker 2: Dude, Well, it's not looking good for this sister law

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Speaker 2: and crouch goblin relationship or spawn as she's so lovely.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I laugh and tell her that the scan is

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Speaker 1: scheduled for seven to fifteen am and we'll be back

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Speaker 1: in time for breakfast. Before she even up, Sister in

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Speaker 1: law loses it and she starts screaming at me. Frank

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Speaker 1: and I explain that there can be three people plus

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Speaker 1: me in the room him, father in law, mother in.

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Speaker 2: Law, that's normal for a freaking ultrasound like. I don't

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Speaker 2: know why she's throwing a hissy fit exactly.

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Speaker 1: Mother in law says that Frank should be the one

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Speaker 1: in the waiting room, not with us while we're getting

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Speaker 1: the scan, because sister in law.

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Speaker 2: Is our guest that she should be in there. Is

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Speaker 2: Frank the husband of the child, he's the father, bro,

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Speaker 2: that's his sperm, that's his spawn, that's his sperm spawn.

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Speaker 1: I start getting annoyed because, hey, this is my jj B,

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Speaker 1: it's my husband's baby. And see, sister.

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Speaker 2: In law wasn't invited. There's so many reasons why sister

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Speaker 2: in law should not be anywhere close to that baby.

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Speaker 2: And like that. Also, it's like she could just consistently

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Speaker 2: insults it.

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Speaker 1: She doesn't even like it. I tell sister in law

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Speaker 1: she is not coming.

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Speaker 2: And all hell breaks loose.

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Speaker 1: She's screamed at me, name calling, slurs, et cetera, et cetera.

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Speaker 1: In law's back up sister in law and say that

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Speaker 1: if she's excluded, they are not coming to the appointment either.

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Speaker 2: This seems like orchestrated.

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Speaker 1: Literally, this is like so beyond ridiculous. It has it

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Speaker 1: has to be like some sort of planner stage or something.

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Speaker 2: Illuminati are involved. I just know it.

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Speaker 1: A giant family fight ends in Frank kicking the entire

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Speaker 1: family out of the house and we ended up going

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Speaker 1: to the ultrasound ourselves.

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Speaker 2: That sounds like it blew up my guy.

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Speaker 1: It gets juicier.

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Speaker 2: Fast forward.

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Speaker 1: My baby is born and now ten months old, and

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Speaker 1: my in laws still haven't met him, and this My

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Speaker 1: sister in law hasn't even spoken to us and blocked

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Speaker 1: us on everything.

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Speaker 2: Ten months and they're still holding a grudge after a

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Speaker 2: thing they caused.

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Speaker 1: It's beyond ten months because the baby's ten months old,

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Speaker 1: so it's probably like a year plus.

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Speaker 2: What can you imagine, dude? This is the husband's family.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yes, this is the husband's family, and they wanted

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Speaker 1: to kick him out of the ultrasound. My father in

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Speaker 1: law and mother in law constantly harp on the fact

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Speaker 1: that if I had just let my sister in law

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Speaker 1: come to the scan, I wouldn't have divided the family

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Speaker 1: and ruined everything this.

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Speaker 2: Way, the sister in law was the one who divided

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Speaker 2: the family.

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Speaker 1: Come on, and they won't meet our son until we

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Speaker 1: apologize in full and that I'm cruel for keeping him.

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Speaker 2: From his family.

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Speaker 1: So dumb I think I should get a say in

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Speaker 1: who I want at my own medical appointments. But it's

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Speaker 1: been going on for over a year now and they're

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Speaker 1: still refusing to acknowledge the baby.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, am I the a.

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Speaker 1: Hole for not letting her come? Was it worth all

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Speaker 1: this sadness and drama for a forty five minute scan?

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Speaker 2: Am I the a?

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Speaker 1: Hole for depriving my own son of an entire half

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Speaker 1: of his family, because I wanted to say in my

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Speaker 1: own pregnancy.

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Speaker 2: Definitely not the A hole on any account, But there's

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Speaker 2: a certain point where you're just like, I gotta be

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Speaker 2: the bigger person and just apologize even if you think

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Speaker 2: you're right, because like now it's gonna harm the baby.

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Speaker 2: It's a pretty garbage place. The families put her in

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Speaker 2: the

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Speaker 1: Most garbage, I mean insane, insane