1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: The French show is on. It's stay or go here. 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 2: I knew this was coming text eight five five three five. 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 2: I can put some Mexican in Jason. 4 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 3: Oh, okay, some of that right, have him rolling his ours? 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jason, Yeah, same thing happened to me. Ninety eight 6 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 2: percent British, Irish, French, German. So white. Being white feels disgusting. 7 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 2: What relax? 8 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 1: I just wanted so excitement, It's all I wanted. 9 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, relax. When it comes to genetics, you're not a 10 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 2: quarter of your grandparent. It doesn't work as in perfectly 11 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: shared slices. All right, okay, well, thank you. I don't 12 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 2: know it was a joke, but we except it wasn't. 13 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 2: He's the whitest person ever. That part wasn't a joke. 14 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 4: Literally. 15 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:48,319 Speaker 1: Hey Cassandra, Hi, Hi, good morning. How you doing. I'm good, 16 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: how are you very well? 17 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 2: Thanks for being part of the show at stairgo kind 18 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: of like group therapy here. I want to hear your story. 19 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: This is about a guy you've been dating for a 20 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: few months for some reason. You want our opinions, and 21 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 2: then everybody who listens to us. As you can tell, 22 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 2: it could be a little brutal from time to time, 23 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 2: but eight five five three five is a number to call. 24 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 2: You can also textas say number two. So what's going 25 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:08,960 Speaker 2: on with his guy Cassandra? 26 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 5: Okay, So it's kind of like a tricky situation because 27 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 5: we recently had a birthday party at his house and 28 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 5: he had his friends over, and I was excited because 29 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 5: that's the first time I get to meet his friends. 30 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 5: So I show up and it's like all girls. Okay, 31 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 5: there's like twelve girls and two dudes. Okay, That to 32 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 5: me is a little like disconcerting, I guess. I mean, 33 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 5: like I mean, my jealoustreet. 34 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: Kind of like you know, came into play. 35 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 5: But I kind of got rid of that, and I've 36 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 5: asked him, like, you know, he's very open and honest, 37 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 5: like he he hooked up with one of them like 38 00:01:56,160 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 5: ten years ago in college and then they side they 39 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 5: just be friends, and like he's just friends with all 40 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 5: the other girls, but like he's never had romantic feelings 41 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,679 Speaker 5: for them. But it's making me like a little uncomfortable 42 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 5: and like I trust him, but like I'm wondering if 43 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 5: I'm just being like too lax. 44 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: I mean, one of my closest friends is a woman. 45 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 2: A couple of my closest friends are women, and I've 46 00:02:23,040 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 2: never slept with them and I never will couple though, 47 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 2: but not like twelve Well. 48 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 3: I mean, like if we just started dating friend and 49 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 3: you come over and I'm like, I'm gonna have friends 50 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,360 Speaker 3: over for my birthday, want you to meet all my friends, I. 51 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: Would expect most of them to be men. Honestly, what 52 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 2: I would expect, I would expect it. I would expect 53 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 2: half men half women from you. I really would, because 54 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 2: you've told me you have like male closely oh. 55 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 6: My guy friends. 56 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 3: But I think if it was twelve dudes and you 57 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:49,639 Speaker 3: and then like one other girl, you'd be like. 58 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: Hey, what's going on here? Well? Maybe, but I also 59 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: think kids in that movie right right, I. 60 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 2: Think if you wanted to sleep with one of them, 61 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 2: then you would and you wouldn't be with me, right. 62 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,519 Speaker 2: That's kind of where I'm at with this, Like if 63 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 2: he I mean, if you've got all these girl friends 64 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 2: and he's still with you, then doesn't that mean he 65 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 2: wants you? Because it sounds like he has this pick 66 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 2: of the litter potentially mm hmm. 67 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 5: I mean I guess, but I still kind of feel. 68 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 2: Like it's like a red flag way I don't know, 69 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 2: or is it that the guy's just really appealing to 70 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 2: women like it? I don't know he's sensitive or has 71 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 2: whatever features women like in friends. I mean, I don't 72 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 2: mean to generalize, but if he has that many female friends, 73 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 2: you know, maybe he's just a thoughtful, sensitive, nice guy. 74 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 1: I mean. 75 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: And and by the way, do we he does he? 76 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: Does he not have any male friends or they just 77 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 2: not come like? Is it all women? 78 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: It was? 79 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 5: It was there were twelve women who are like his 80 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 5: close friends, and then two dudes who were his close friends. 81 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: Were these women nice to you? They're women? 82 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:55,839 Speaker 6: You know how women do never? 83 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 5: I mean, they feel like they were very nice, but not. 84 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: Genuinely nice. 85 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 6: Oh no, And we're all the women single? Like, were 86 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 6: they giving single vibes? 87 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: Because you know, how were the significant others? 88 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 5: So I'm assuming that they were okay, because. 89 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 6: My question would be, why don't none of y'all want him? 90 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 6: Tell me what's Oh? 91 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 1: I see, you can do it the other way. Yeah, 92 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: you could look at it the other way too. 93 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 2: It's either this dude is really appealing oh and has 94 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 2: great boundaries, or there's something very wrong with him that 95 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 2: we like, you can't go with hi? 96 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: Fifty feet of a school or something, and we. 97 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 7: Don't know that. 98 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: Ye should have done huh. 99 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 2: I mean, but and we asked this question when it 100 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 2: comes to people who are insecure about their partner's friends, 101 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: have you ever been given any reason to believe that 102 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: he's anything less than faithful? 103 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: No? I mean, I'm not sure. 104 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 2: That that's an automatic disqualifier. And in fact, people, with 105 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 2: all due respect to Sander, people are texting that you 106 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 2: might be the problem, that you might be the red flag. 107 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 5: Oh okay, I'm. 108 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 2: Not saying I agree with that, but I'm just saying, like, 109 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 2: you know, if there's nothing to worry about, and you're worried. 110 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 7: I understood. 111 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 5: I think it's also like a competition kind of vibe, 112 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 5: like am I against twelve other women? Like are they 113 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 5: gonna judge me and be like, oh, she's not good 114 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 5: for you? Like that's also like a big concern. Women 115 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 5: judge harshly on other women. 116 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 2: So that is true. In fact, I think women are 117 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 2: the hardest on other women. Actually, But that's why I 118 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: asked if they were nice to you, or if you 119 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 2: felt welcome, or if you felt a competitive vibe among them, 120 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 2: like are there women competing for him? 121 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 122 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,159 Speaker 5: I felt I mean, it was it was a very 123 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 5: awkward situation for me. 124 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: M all right. 125 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 2: I want to take phone calls on this. I want 126 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 2: to see what people have to say. The little group 127 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 2: therapy action here. But Cassandra, good luck and thank you 128 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 2: for calling, thank you for sharing, thank you so much. 129 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 2: Eight five three five. And that girl's toxic, she's the 130 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: red flag. She doesn't know if one or two women 131 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: who are his friends then invited there but then invited 132 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 2: their friends. 133 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 1: Oh, they came in. 134 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 2: She's insecure. Who said she you can't have female friends. 135 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: I know of many people who have different gendered friends. 136 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 2: Were the friends attractive? I hate that argument. I hate 137 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 2: it when it's like, well, if they're ugly, then he 138 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 2: wouldn't cheat with them. It's like, no, people cheat with 139 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 2: ugly people all the time. Yeah you do, Like that's 140 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 2: that's that's not it. I don't care if they're hot 141 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 2: or ugly or otherwise. You know, if you have someone 142 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 2: to worry about, you have someone to worry about. I'm 143 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 2: not sure that. I don't know that this situation automatically 144 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: lends itself to a problem. 145 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: Though. 146 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: Is that to be good enough that they're choosing to 147 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 2: be friends with him, right, because if he was a 148 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 2: bad person, they wouldn't be friends with him. 149 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 6: I mean, but we all have friends that we would 150 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 6: absolutely not date. Oh you know, so is he that guy? 151 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 6: That's the questions I would be asking the girls, Like, 152 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 6: I hate when a girl comes into a situation like 153 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 6: this and automatically wants to whip. 154 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: Out the claus on the female friends. 155 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 6: No, you, if you were smart, you would get to 156 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 6: know the female friends and they could tell you all 157 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 6: the tea on the man that you're actually dating. 158 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, but haven't you said big Tim can't have female friends? 159 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, my man don't need friends. 160 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 6: Oh if he just need me his mom? 161 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: And is that friends? No friends? 162 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 2: Friends? 163 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: So this wouldn't work. 164 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it wouldn't work for ke Okay, yeah. 165 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: Okay, Kendall, Hey, good morning, Hi Kendall, good morning. 166 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 2: So this woman is upset because the guys she's been 167 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 2: dating for a couple of months seems to have a 168 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: lot a disproportionate amount of female friends, in her opinion, 169 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 2: and she's wondering about it. 170 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: What do you think? 171 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 8: So well, the first thing that my brain went to 172 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 8: was like the sounds like the start to a porno. 173 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 7: But also, I don't know. 174 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 2: We need the two guys for then we get the 175 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 2: two girls, or I guess in this case, the two 176 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 2: guys we don't need them. We got enough girls. But 177 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 2: I guess that's full opportunity. Yeah, all right, you're right, 178 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 2: something for everybody. 179 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 8: Yeah, But so my husband actually he was a houseboy 180 00:07:48,560 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 8: when he was in college, so he worked at a 181 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 8: sorority and it was really intimidating the first two months 182 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 8: like dating him, where you know, all these girls would 183 00:07:57,480 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 8: come out of the work and they're really pretty, so 184 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 8: it is hard to like have that confidence in yourself. 185 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 8: But actually today's our two year wedding anniversary kind of like, yeah, 186 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 8: thank you. 187 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 188 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,480 Speaker 8: I would just say it is intimidating, especially in a 189 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 8: new relationship. But if he's being honest with you and 190 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 8: saying like these are truly just frunds, then that's what 191 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 8: he means. And he was open and honest with you 192 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 8: that he slept with one of them. So I mean 193 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 8: I would just kind of being a little confidence and 194 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 8: know that he's there with you for a reason. 195 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: So we'll talk about Kimball. How that's a job. 196 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 2: That's a job in college. I could have been I 197 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 2: could have worked at a sorority house. 198 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 8: I mean, I think, Frank you probably still could. 199 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, we're probably not going to do that. 200 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 2: I don't really think that's the best idea anymore. But 201 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 2: I mean maybe a little look at her laughing. No, 202 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 2: I know, actually I know, I know I'm not going 203 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 2: to do that, but Kendall, I'm just said, maybe in 204 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: my next life I'll be a house boy at a sorority. 205 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 2: I mean, my aunts would have to be my favorite 206 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: at that point. Thank you, Kendall, have a good day. 207 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:06,319 Speaker 8: Thanks, love you guys. 208 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 7: Right now. 209 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 2: No, my boyfriend and I had this talk. He said 210 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 2: he is not okay with me being friends with men 211 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: who I have slept with same vice versa. Okay, but 212 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 2: so he slept with all twelve of these people, were thinking? 213 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,640 Speaker 1: Then he said, hooked up in one of them. 214 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:25,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll turn your radio down, Jackie. 215 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: Good morning. Hi, Hi, how are you hey? What do 216 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: you want to say? Welcome and thanks for listening. 217 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:35,199 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, thanks. I wanted to say. I think that 218 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,439 Speaker 7: she's the same. My husband has a lot of really 219 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 7: good girlfriends, and I like that about him. He gets 220 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:43,679 Speaker 7: along with women. He understands us and they're my friends 221 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 7: and al too. But she's in secure, so I think 222 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 7: that's the problem more than him. 223 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough, thank you, Jackie, thank you have a 224 00:09:51,200 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 2: good one. Yeah, I mean the number of people here, 225 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 2: so Ron, no man needs twelve girlfriends. The fact that 226 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 2: she counted all the women, she's the problem. I mean, 227 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 2: she's totally insecure. 228 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: Of many people are in a room when you walk in, 229 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 1: twelve is pretty easy. 230 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 2: Your boyfriend having female friends is a hit an advantage. 231 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 2: They can give his advice on Valentine's Day birthdays that 232 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:15,000 Speaker 2: men are usually the best on. How did the guy 233 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:18,319 Speaker 2: refer to his friends this whole time? You never came 234 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 2: up that they were girls after months of talking about them. 235 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 2: Would definitely be another text. Would definitely be surprised to 236 00:10:23,080 --> 00:10:26,839 Speaker 2: walk in a room full of women. But he did 237 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 2: be honest with her that he hooked up with one 238 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 2: of them. Yeah, I mean, I. 239 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: Don't know, ready to be round down in that confession. Yeah, 240 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: just one of them? 241 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 4: Great? 242 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: Is it a brothel situation? Ashley? 243 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 3: Hi? 244 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 2: Ashley, Hey, Hey, good mornings there go. What do you think. 245 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 4: I think that we need to have more answers from 246 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 4: her before we can really determine, but it may be 247 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 4: a go situation for her, but because of him. Okay, 248 00:10:56,760 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 4: let me explain it, Gray, hear me out. I am curious. 249 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 4: It's maybe her reaction whenever he said, hey, you know, 250 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 4: I am honest and this is one of them that 251 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 4: I slept with. Maybe she didn't have a great reaction 252 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 4: to that, and there could be a chance that it's 253 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 4: like a Hugh Hefner situation, and maybe he has done 254 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,319 Speaker 4: some things with more of them, and her reaction was like. 255 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 2: Horrible, this guy just went from this normal guy to 256 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 2: an absolute stallion. 257 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 4: You gotta just, you know, kind of be nice to her. 258 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 4: She doesn't really know all of our history because. 259 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 2: Twelve of you you haven't seen before, all exactly exactly. 260 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 3: And that's why all of them were like, hey, you know, 261 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 3: we don't know. 262 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 4: If we like you or not because he couldn't be 263 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 4: honest with you, so I need to know. Her reaction 264 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 4: was like, oh my god, how dare you? And then 265 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 4: she was like, oh, thank you so much for killing me. 266 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 2: It's okay, and ladies, my girlfriend's about to come in 267 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 2: here and become member team. But don't tell her. 268 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,599 Speaker 4: Don't tell her exactly exactly. 269 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to check marital records here. See what's 270 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 2: going on? Does this guy live in Utah? 271 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 6: A times? 272 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:14,479 Speaker 1: I mean, is he what's going on? Well? 273 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 3: Women? 274 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 4: Friends is a lot? Like, it's a lot? 275 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: Is he a cult member? Is he a could leader? 276 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 4: When he is the leader? He is the leader. 277 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: He just became the cult leader. He is a cult leader. 278 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 8: You're right? 279 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, wow, wow, Actually you have uncovered I'm really 280 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:32,960 Speaker 4: glad we could solve this. 281 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 2: You have uncovered something much deeper. Actually, yeah, call anytime 282 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 2: you'd like. Okay, well, wow, all right, Well problem solved. 283 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 2: Here's Benson doing everyone and the entertainer Aboard is next 284 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 2: in two minutes. 285 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: Thank you, Ashley Kay's clothes