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You know 10 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: it's cool is when you're so famous you don't need 11 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: a last name. Just Why Nona. She's got a new 12 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: album and a new song out and I can't wait 13 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: to talk to her, and she just a love well. Well, well, 14 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: hey girlfriend, So I just watched uh your new videos. 15 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 1: Damn you look good from the neck up. I'm doing 16 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: pretty good, sister. I thought you looked good from the 17 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: top of your head to the tip of your toes. Well, 18 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: I feel good, you know. You know, as girls, you know, 19 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: we go back and forth lock to with us. Yeah, 20 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: mine's mostly going forth, not going back so much, you 21 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: know what. I'm on a new program called give Yourself 22 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: a Break. There you go. Yeah, that's the program we 23 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: all need to be on. Back to you, back to 24 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: your music, Back to this new song that we're playing. 25 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: Keeps me alive. I love it. I love the the hunting, soulful, 26 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: just love that pours out that well. I'm trying this 27 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: new thing called vulnerability. Sideline Winona is tender headline. You know, 28 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,080 Speaker 1: get get this. I well, last time I saw you, 29 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: we're trying to be well, we're out. We're already alpha females. 30 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 1: You know, we're running our own business. We're doing things 31 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: our way because we somehow got the message that we 32 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: could do what we wanted to do our way. And 33 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, one day, my kids left 34 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: home and I found myself crying uncontrollably for hours at 35 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: a time, thinking what is going on with me? Is 36 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: it hormonal? Is it? And then and I took a 37 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: walk in the woods, and Delilah, it just hit me, 38 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is life. This is this is 39 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: part of the circle of life, and the give and 40 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: the take and then let go and the embrace and 41 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: the ebb and the flow and all that. And I 42 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 1: got myself caught up in all of it, and I 43 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: started to write and record songs that come very close 44 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: to my situation in life, as we are autobiographical and 45 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: as an artist. I don't know, I just let it fly. 46 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: I guess I just started singing from a different place. 47 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 1: This is the deal. You know. The heart has all 48 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: these different chambers, Well so does I think my my diaphragm. 49 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: I have this angst time in my life where I 50 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 1: remember singing from my toe nails from a place of pain. 51 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: I had, you know, years where I was flying high 52 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: and money was flowing in and I was successful in 53 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: number one's and awards, and that was that right. So 54 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: now the chamber I'm singing from is just this vulnerable 55 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 1: place of just wanting to be that eighteen year old 56 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: girl with a guitar and feeling life again, you know, 57 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: and sometimes it's up and sometimes it's down, and I 58 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: think people will relate to that. So last time we talked, 59 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: you had just gone through probably the darkest days of 60 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: your life, and there was a glimmer in your eye 61 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: that I hadn't seen in a long time, and uh, 62 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: a lightness to your spirit. I guess that's the best 63 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: way to like, like light was just pouring in and 64 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: pouring out simultaneously. Huh. And I remember thinking, oh my god, 65 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: something's going on with you. But we didn't have a 66 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 1: long time to talk or share. So is that light 67 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: still still pouring? Is it Is it time to talk 68 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: about it? I think I think more so now than ever, 69 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,719 Speaker 1: my dear. Yes, we haven't talked in a while, and 70 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: when we do, we tend to go straight to the Okay, 71 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:49,480 Speaker 1: it's the bottom line here, um, I mean, it's it's interesting. 72 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: Girls don't sit around and talk about you know, what 73 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 1: do you make after taxes? And hey, you know, how's 74 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:58,480 Speaker 1: your golf score? We know you and I go right 75 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: to Okay, which one of your kids in trouble now? 76 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 1: Or are you happy? Are you happy? Um? Are you 77 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: in love? Do you have joy in your life? And 78 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 1: so I look, I just went through a really, really 79 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,599 Speaker 1: tough here, probably one of the toughest in my adult life. 80 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: And it has nothing to do with the music business. 81 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: But what has happened is, you know, everything from the 82 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:24,239 Speaker 1: word to reading Burnet Brown. She sent me her book 83 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: and I started reading and it's called Daring Greatly and 84 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 1: it talks about um. And for me, what I did 85 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:36,280 Speaker 1: was I applied it to daring to be authentic and 86 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: daring to be myself, which is really scary because you 87 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: think am I enough? You know, you go through all 88 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 1: these things where you think am I worthy enough? Because 89 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. Growing up, I always wondered am I 90 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,840 Speaker 1: good enough? Am I smart enough? Am I pretty enough? 91 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: Because I always had Mom and Ashley and they were 92 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 1: always um thin and popular, and I was always kind 93 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: of the misfit it and free spirited. And you know what, though, Delilah, 94 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: it's actually turned out to be that being free spirit, 95 00:06:06,040 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: it gives me permission to be unique, to be myself, 96 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: to follow my heart, to not have to conform. And 97 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what something's going on. You're right, You're right, 98 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: something is going on the light even in the darkness, 99 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 1: the light is still there. And I think it's the 100 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: hope and the faith that I got from my Mamma 101 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 1: when it was really down and dark and oh my gosh, 102 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: I could complain and be the victim. I thought a 103 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: lot about you know, all my heroes, you know, from 104 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: my Angelo to all these women I've met along the way, 105 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 1: you being part of that. I know that you're a survivor. 106 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: You're not a victim. I know you. I know that 107 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: you're not one to sit around and complain. You might 108 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: have a bad day, but it's not a bad life, 109 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,239 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I have such a blessed 110 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:52,919 Speaker 1: life and all those things that you're you're talking about 111 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:56,160 Speaker 1: is I'm going through my list in my head, you know, abuse, 112 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 1: and my folks loved me fiercely, and I'm at the 113 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,840 Speaker 1: place of my life where I can say, I can 114 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: honestly say they did the best that they could with 115 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: the information and the tools that they absolutely, absolutely, absolutely, 116 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: but that doesn't negate the fact that there was incredible 117 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: craziness going on, you know, inside those four walls and 118 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 1: outside those four walls, and a lot of just real 119 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: sick dysfunction and function. I think, I think you're right 120 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: with that word. I grew up in country music in 121 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 1: the eighties. If we go back to that, I remember 122 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: going from literally, um, the Appalachian way of life, welfare, Uh, 123 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: single parent, Um, we had one car that broke down, 124 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: you know, depending on the the day, you know, did 125 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: it run well, did we get where we were needing 126 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: to go, or did we stay home? Um? I went 127 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: from that to opening for the Legends of country music, 128 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: and that's weird, and I don't know that I can 129 00:07:56,240 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: ever really explain what it's like to go from having 130 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: a knockdown drag out with my mom over the fact 131 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: that she thinks I have on too much makeup to 132 00:08:07,480 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: walking in and saying Hello, Johnny Cash and you know 133 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: it's the c m A. And I'm hey, Dolly, Hey Loretta. 134 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: And you know that's just weird, Delilah, that's just a 135 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: weird because I'm eighteen years old. You know, I was 136 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: supposed to be talking to my mom about boys, or hey, 137 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 1: can I have fifty dollars to help with my rent 138 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: this month? Or whatever? But instead we're on the road. 139 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: We're waking up in Vegas. Um our names are in 140 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: the headlines. You know, our records are going number one, 141 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: And you're right, it's a strange, uh life to try 142 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 1: to figure out I'm eighteen years old. When you're eighteen, 143 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,719 Speaker 1: your brain is not formed. You're going through all your 144 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: angst and all your stuff with boys. I remember breaking 145 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: up with my boy friend that I had had um 146 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: after high school for years, when Mama, He's Crazy was 147 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: going number one on the charts. Now you explain those 148 00:08:56,080 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 1: two things happening happening simultaneously. Yeah, there's just no way 149 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: to wrap your head around. Now, you just walked through it. 150 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 1: And what you do is you walk through it, you 151 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: hold your head up high. And I remember hearing this once, 152 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: act as if and that doesn't mean live a fake life. 153 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 1: It just means act as if because the bottom line 154 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 1: is you're fundamentally okay. I remember my mama one time 155 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: I was flailing around having a tantrum. I probably was 156 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,720 Speaker 1: three or four, and she picked me up and she 157 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: kissed me and she said, you're okay, and she placed 158 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: me down on the ground and I just it just 159 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 1: stopped right there. And I remember that, and I've taken 160 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: that with me all through my success. You're okay, You're 161 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: everything else sucks. Maybe everything sucks, but you know what, 162 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm here and I'm not going to complain. Life is 163 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 1: a blessing when you look. You have to look for 164 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 1: it sometimes, in my opinion, I told Jennie the other day, said, 165 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:53,959 Speaker 1: sometimes I have to wake up and maybe I can 166 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: only pick one thing that I'm grateful for, but that 167 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 1: one thing will get me to the next thing, and 168 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: then that next thing will get me to the next thing. Look, 169 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: it's your choice, man, you gotta decide whether you're um, 170 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: you know, the glass is half full or half empty, 171 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: and it's your choice. It is our choice, and for 172 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: you and I, it doesn't matter if the glasses half 173 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: are half empty because we have like a bazillion people 174 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: counting on us, and so it doesn't matter how bad 175 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: our day is or what we're going through, we still 176 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,640 Speaker 1: have to pick ourselves up, put our lipstick on, rat 177 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: our hair, and and smiled because we don't have a choice. 178 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,480 Speaker 1: I mean, if if you crumble and you fall down, 179 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: or I crumble and I fall down, how many people 180 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: have we wrapped our arms around that we're taking care 181 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,080 Speaker 1: of because you're a mama bear. I'm a mama bear, 182 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: not just to our bonus kids, but to our employees 183 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: and our staff and our band. Speaking of band, tell 184 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,599 Speaker 1: me about Big Noise. The Big Noise just became the 185 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 1: band name just because it was It made sense because 186 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: these four I'm down to four. I used to have eleven. 187 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 1: And you know what less is more, sister, it's it's amazing. 188 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: These four guys make it sound so amazing. I don't 189 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:08,239 Speaker 1: need all that, and so it's like simplified, simplified, simplified. 190 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 1: I don't know about you, but I'm getting so tired 191 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: of having to bigger, better, faster, more is the American way, 192 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: it seems, and I'm just tired, and so I just said, 193 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: you know what, honey, let's get down to where we're 194 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 1: having fun and we don't have to worry about the 195 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: numbers part right, because I know you get it. I 196 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 1: know you understand it's much more simpler with less people. 197 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 1: I love this band. I mean, they literally are my family. 198 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:32,439 Speaker 1: I spend more time with them than I do my relatives. 199 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: And we're a tribe and we go around and we 200 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: make as much noise as we can. We played in 201 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: a valley. It was nuts, it was crazy, it was 202 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: a festival. It was life, it was messy, it was people. 203 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 1: Um look, we weren't in a nice theater with air conditioning. 204 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 1: Let's just put it that way. And I had more 205 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 1: fun with these people because they're real and they are 206 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,319 Speaker 1: the kind of people I come from. First of all, 207 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 1: these mountain people. They reminded me of that, and I 208 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: had all fulme playing there than I would Carnegie Hall. 209 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: I love Carnegie Hall. I've been there, done that. But 210 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: what I'm loving right now, Delilah, is all these festivals 211 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: are playing now that we're considered to be in the 212 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: Americana world. Um, we're being accepted and welcomed into that, 213 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 1: you know the world of of uh. It's a little 214 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 1: bit more folksy and outdoor theaters and blah blah blah 215 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: blah blah. I'm just you know what, I'm grateful, man, 216 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: I've been doing this thirty five years. I have a 217 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: place to belong and you just said that it's it's 218 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: it's belonging and having a purpose for me. And I'll 219 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: go anywhere. I mean today, Um, we're inside, next day, 220 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: we're outside. One day, we're at a county fair. The 221 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: next day. You know, we're playing uh for the military. 222 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: It just doesn't matter, man, I'll set up anywhere. I 223 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: don't care. You just want to bless people and love 224 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: people and share your music. I do. I do. That's 225 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: That's what I've I've promised God is that I would 226 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: quit well, try to quit complaining. And every time I 227 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: want to come, I'm supposed to say the word hallelujah. 228 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: Based on my husband, Um a lot, Oh God, I 229 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:12,839 Speaker 1: love you. I love you too. Dwilah, slow down and 230 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 1: live some more. Where you live